Coaching Workshop from Brethren General Conference July 2012
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Transcript of Coaching Workshop from Brethren General Conference July 2012
Coaching for YOUR Church (and for YOU)
July 20, 2012Brethren Church General Conference
Jonathan Reitz CEO, CoachNet
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I Say “Coach”, You Think…
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And, who are you?
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Definition of Insanity
“Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.”
▪ Albert Einstein
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Is it time to do something new??
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Or, at least something VERY old…
From a reliable source…
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Coaching in the Scriptures
Jesus sent them out two by two.
“Where TWO or more are gathered…”
Jesus=a pretty good listener.
How many questions did Jesus ask?
“Go and make disciples…”
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Coaching & The Bigger PictureVision & Thinking Like a Coach
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It’s not about the mountaintop…
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This is the key to coaching…
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How to Think Like a Coach
1. It’s about the OTHER person’s success.
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How to Think Like a Coach
2. Relationship + Intention + Purpose = Coaching.
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How to Think Like a Coach
3. Sometimes you have to teach…which is not everyone considers coaching.
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How to Think Like a Coach
4. They—NOT you—already have the answer.
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IF you prescribe…
…someone’s route to getting something done…
It eliminates the possibility of coaching.
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How to Think Like a Coach
5. You change the other person’s perspective—just by showing up.
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How to Think Like a Coach
6. Where you are. Where you want to be. Shorten the distance.
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How to Think Like a Coach
7. Listen. Ask. Do.
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Think of coaching as a step ladder
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Coaching Process
Review
Relate
Reflect Refocus
Resource
Coaching 101 Handbook, page 5
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FIRST of all…
Coaching is a relationship.
If there’s no relationship, there’s no coaching.
Add coaching skills once the relationship is healthy enough!
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Standard Coaching Skills:
Bring things into reach that we can’t get to without them!
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Coaching Simplified
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Relate & Reflect Refocus
Resource & Review
Coaching Simplified
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The Five R’s in a Coaching AppointmentThis should look familiar.
Clarify Action Steps
Celebrate & Evaluate
Listen &
Ask
Crystallize Key Issues
Relate
Reflect
Refocus
Resource
Review
The Five Rs in a Coaching Relationship
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Review
Relate
Reflect Refocus
Resource
Participant’s Guide
Intake
Clarity Vision
Celebrate Plan
Micro
Macro
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Coaching is The Backbone.
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What are you aiming for?
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Here’s a great way to find your target:
John 3:30
“He must increase, but I must decrease.”
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Here’s a great way to find your target:
How are you becoming more Christ-like?
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Here’s a great way to find your target:
Ephesians 2:10 –
For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them.
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Here’s a great way to find your target:
What’s the thing you can shake off?
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The Silver Bullet is…
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Leadership Multiplication Pathway
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Stage 3Effective Leadership
Stage 1Obedient Discipleship
Stage 2Focused Ministry
Stage 4Continuous Multiplication
Character
Calling
Competency
Culture
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CoachNet is…
A Multiplication Organization.
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We measure our Effectiveness.
By What Multiplies…
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1) Do the things that Jesus does.
2) Never act alone.
Key Principles
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Questions
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Insights
Ah ha!Oh no!
Duh!Wow!
Hmm…
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Contact Us
Jonathan Reitz [email protected] 440.550.4374
Judy Pence [email protected] 216.920.1115
Jennifer Bernhardt [email protected]
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We’d Love to Come Alongside You.The CoachNet Team
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