3 Tips About A Boyfriend Break Up

Did you wake up this morning with a devastating heart ache? Perhaps

you're experiencing a monumental "hangover" headache and you don't

even drink.

Frankly there are many things in your relationship that could have brought

forth the break up. However, you and I are going to concentrate on just three

of them today.

#1. Cheating with another woman: Are you even sure you know what

cheating is or what it actually involves?

When you set down and began to examine the event that brought about the ending of the relationship, there are several questions to ask yourself.

Was he texting a female you didn't know about? If so was it someone at

work and the text involved work? That cold be a legitimate and perfectly

innocent relationship and does not even qualify as cheating.

Or was he having an ongoing sexual relationship with someone from his past? That is obviously out and out

cheating on your relationship.

Maybe you feel that even if he just glances at another woman, you assume he is cheating on you?

As you can see there are many definitions for cheating. Therefore you need to be perfectly clear in your mind

what your definition is regarding cheating, prior to breaking up with

your boyfriend.

Now I'm going to throw a little curve at you from out of nowhere. Prior to

starting your "steady" relationship, did you and he talk about what each of

you expected in your romance?

You may be really surprised by his explanation when you do the

boyfriend break up thing, as there may be a perfectly innocent reason behind why you thought he cheated on you.

If this happens then you need to check with yourself to make sure you weren't

just overthinking things.

After some careful thinking about it you may have to decide if you want to break up with your boyfriend and find out what's going on, or even end the

relationship altogether.

#2. Long distance love affairs: You can almost bet when you're trying to maintain a long distance relationship it is

painful, extremely difficult and almost always ends in a boyfriend break up; unless both of you are fully committed to making it work. If you're not committed, get prepared because the break up is likely going to be when you least expect it.

It is very likely you have seen more than one person experience this in their long distance

relationship. It really seems to be prevalent in the college age young people. Many of them had relationships in high school that carried

forward into the early college years.

However, when the schools were out and the both of you were hours or miles apart, studies,

social events and loneliness can cut into the relationship and that is where a break up can

occur.

3. Lifestyle changes:

What if your other half has become a pain in the butt? It just might be the perfect time to

change your life!

Even though the boyfriend doesn't want to

break up you may have to be the one who takes the bull by the horns, and does the breaking up.

Oftentimes as you mature and put on a few more years your thinking, goals and social

approaches may change and often do. You may just be finding yourself not even wanting a

permanent partner.

And frankly there is nothing wrong with

spreading your social wings.

Take the time to dig into your heart, mind and

soul to see if the boyfriend break up maybe exactly what you need right now.

Yes both you and your partner may hurt when the break up takes place, but you may find it

was the best decision for both of you.

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