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THE LITTLE THINGS AND HOW THEY INFLUENCE OUR LIFE

PRESENTED BY

BOYD LINDSLEY

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The Little Things and How They Influence Our Life

Dr. Boyd Lindsley, Associate Director

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Dr. Boyd Lindsley, Associate Director

Support All Staff Involvement

Vision:To provide development and enrichment opportunities for SDES staff members to achieve excellence.

Mission:Provide tools for training, networking, and professional and personal development to enhance growth and overall performance.

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Dr. Boyd Lindsley, Associate Director

Today’s Roadmap

• Brief Background • Build a foundation • Tactics to Deploy• Exercise• Conclude

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Dr. Boyd Lindsley, Associate Director

Brief Background

- Faculty Member & Associate Director of UCF’s Nicholson School of Communication

- Holds a Master’s Degree in Communication- Holds a Bachelor’s Degree in Advertising-

Public Relations

- Holds a Doctoral Degree in Executive Leadership - Holds an Associates in Arts Degree

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Brief Background

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Brief Background

Gram

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The Little Things and How They Influence Our Life

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Happiness

H = S + C + V

Seligman, Martin, Authentic Happiness, (New York: The Free Press(Division of Simon & Schuster, Inc.)), 2002, p. 45.

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What Determines Happiness?

Seligman, Martin, Authentic Happiness, (New York: The Free Press(Division of Simon & Schuster, Inc.)), 2002, p. 45.

H = S + C + VH = Happiness S = Set (set point)C = Circumstances (life circumstances)V = Voluntary (voluntary activities)

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What Determines Happiness?

Sonia Lyubomirsky, The How of Happiness, (New York: Penguin Press), 2008, pp: 20-24.

H = S + C + V

What Determines Happiness?

SetCircumstancesVoluntary Actions

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What Determines Happiness?

Researchers from the Stanford Graduate School of Business

Age Matters

• Younger folks associate happiness with excitement

• Older folks tend to associate happiness with peace

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What Determines Happiness?

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What Determines Happiness?

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What Determines Happiness?

Vs.

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What Determines Happiness?

• Direct correlation

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What Determines Happiness?

• Direct correlation … to a point

• 20th Century: wealth grew

Lane, R.E. (2000). New Haven: Yale University Press. See Figure 1.1, p.5.

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What Determines Happiness?

• Direct correlation … to a point

• 20th Century: wealth grew; happiness didn’t

Lane, R.E. (2000). New Haven: Yale University Press. See Figure 1.1, p.5.

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What Determines Happiness?

• Dire poverty $20K; dramatic increase• $20K $50k; slow increase • $50k+; extremely slow / negligible

Assessing Well-Being: The Collected Works of EdDiener (New York: Springer), 2009.

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What Doesn’t Determine Happiness?

“Hedonic treadmill”

Bruno Frey and Alois Stutzer, What Can Economists Learn from Happiness Research?, Journal of Economic Literature, Volume XL, June 2002, pp.: 402-435.

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What Doesn’t Determine Happiness?

“Hedonic treadmill”

Bruno Frey and Alois Stutzer, What Can Economists Learn from Happiness Research?, Journal of Economic Literature, Volume XL, June 2002, pp.: 402-435.

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Elizabeth Dunn, Lara Aknin and Michael Norton, ―Spending Money on Others Promotes Happiness,‖ Science, March 21, 2009, p: 1687

Tactics to Deploy

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Howell, R., et al., The Journal of Positive Psychology Vol. 7, No. 1, January 2012, 57–71

Tactics to Deploy

• Buy experiences, not possessions • "Purchased experiences provide memory

capital [and] we don't tend to get bored of happy memories like we do with a material object.” – R. Howell

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• Positive psychology suggests:– Practice mindfulness

Stanford Graduate Business College

Tactics to Deploy