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PERSONALITY
It is derived from the Greek term ‘per sonare’ which translates as ‘to
speak through’
DESINGED BY,MR.P.SURESH,LECTURER
PERSONALITY• A person’s personality is a
relatively stable set of characteristics which influence and lend consistency to his or her behaviour.
PERSONALITYFLOYD L RUCH states that:• The human personality
includes:• External appearance and
behaviour• Inner awareness of self as a
permanent organising force• The particular pattern or
organisation of measurable traits, both inner and ter
PERSONALITY
Gordon Allport:• Personality is the dynamic
organisation within the individual of those psychological systems that determine his/her unique adjustment to the environment.
PERSONALITY
ENVIRONMENTSocial , cultural, situational
DEVELOPMENTOF BEHAVIOUR
SELF
HEREDITY
INDIVIDUAL BEHAVIOUR
P – THE PERSON
S – THE SITUATION
INSIDE THE PERSON
OUTSIDE THE PERSON
FUNCTION OF
AND B = f { P * S }
Superego(Conscience)
Ego(Reason)
Id(Desire)
PERSONALITY DYNAMICS & LEVELS OF CONSCIOUSNESSPSYCHOANALYTICAL MODEL
IMMORAL URGESUNACCEPTABLE SEXUAL DESIRESSELFISH NEEDSIRRATIONAL WISHESFEARSVIOLENT MOTIVESFUNDAMENTAL / NATURAL URGES
PERCEPTIONSTHOUGHTSIN SERVICE OF REALITY
MEMORIESSTORED KNOWLEDGE
HIGH SELF CONCEPT !INFLATED ?
WHAT IS PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT?
PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT• In more detail: • a. Improvement in cognition i.e. perception, affect and
response
• b. Improvement physique, instincts, emotions, intelligence, perspective and spirit
• c. Improvement in cognitive, affective, psychomotor and productive domain
• d. Improvement in personal, family and social relations and contributions toward society
THE FIRST IMPRESSION
KEY FACTORS IN PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT
PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT
• Develop your communication skills:• Speaking• Listening• Reading• Writing
PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT
Attire • Attire can really make or break a person’s
impression. Always make sure you wear an appropriate dress for the event. When in doubt, err on the side of being too formal. Sensible dressing does go a longer way in making a great impression that one would think.
Grooming
• Personal grooming and hygiene is also equally important. Having well-groomed and neat hair, nails and a tidy appearance will create a positive image of you.
PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT
PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENTSmile
• A smile from the heart can do wonders. Smile openly and happily, let it shine through . A winning smile is an unavoidable weapon when you want to charm someone.
PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENTEye contact
• Eye contact is very important when you first meet someone. It says that you are open and honest, and gives a nice impression of you. Make sure you maintain eye contact.
PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENTBody Language
Keep your body language confident and open. Do not fidget and do not display a defensive or offensive stance.
PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT Confidence
Being calm and confident will surely make others take a liking to you. On the other hand, if you appear diffident and nervous, it will make people feel unsure about you and make them ill at ease too. So be cool ,collected and confident.
PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENTPositivity
Reflect optimism and positivity, both in good times and, perhaps even more importantly, in bad times. Have a pleasant disposition and positive mental attitude [PMA].Keep away from comments.
PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT
Listening Keep your ears open for what others have to say.
Most people love to hear their own voice, so a good listener immediately gets an entry to their good books. Resist the temptation to boast or tell long stories about yourself, and let the other person talk. This does not mean being silent though. Ask questions, be interested in the other person and do join in the conversation.
PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENTEtiquette and Manners
Politeness and courtesy are very important. Make sure you are well-mannered and do not make rude comments or racist/sexist jokes.
PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT
Punctuality Be on time. No one feels
considerate towards people who keep them waiting, so be a few minutes early. Being late for your commitments will cause irreparable damage.
PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT
Control over emotions:• Exercise control over your emotions. Do
not indulge in throwing temper tantrums, yelling spells, name calling, nervous breakdowns or guilt trips. Keep your emotions under check. Never ever lose your cool. Try to develop a high EQ (emotional quotient).
PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT
Posture Standing and sitting
straight is an important non-verbal cue you send out to others. It helps project an image of confidence and capability.
PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT Being yourself Do not try too hard. Try to relax and
be yourself, and don't think too much. Tell yourself that the people you meet are all human beings after all, and that you will be just fine.
PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT
Time Management:
Manage your time in such a manner that apart from being able to perform well at your work, you have time to nurture quality relationship with loved ones and indulge in hobbies which enrich you.
Food for Thought
• Does having wealth translate into having a good personality?