Participant Worksheet · - Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People. Created for WMAO...
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Participant Worksheet
The key to a successful customer interaction showing Interest in your customer. The key ways
that you can show interest are:
1. ____________________________________ 4. ____________________________________
2. ____________________________________ 5. ____________________________________
3. ____________________________________ 6. ____________________________________
Why is the Asking Questions such a powerful rapport-building tool?
1. __________________________________________________________________________________
2. __________________________________________________________________________________
3. __________________________________________________________________________________
What are the two Myths of asking questions?
1. __________________________________________________________________________________
2. __________________________________________________________________________________
- Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People
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Write an example of the 3 different types of rapport-building questions:
Home/ Personal:
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Wine Preference/ Situational:
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Lifestyle:
__________________________________________________________________________________
What is the best kind of question to ask when you find yourself with a large group?
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Exercise Instructions for Leaders
The focus of this video is on the skills required to build rapport with your customers. What you
can do to develop trust, show them you’re interested and get to know them on a level that will
allow you, not only to facilitate a comfortable interaction, but to seamlessly transition the
interaction into a sale.
Exercise #1: Big, Honking, List of Questions
When instructed too, pause the video to conduct the “Big List of Questions” exercise.
Split your team into smaller groups of 3 or 4.
As a group, they have to come up with as many questions as they can, for each category of
questions that were discussed in the video. Questions that they could, and should be asking
their customers. Give them 10 minutes and tell them to write all of the questions down,
coming up with as big a list as they can.
When each group is done, share with each other some of the questions that you come up with.
Facilitate a discussion over where you see parallels and where some groups came up with
different questions from others.
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Exercise #2: “Why are you in my Winery?”
This is a supplementary exercise that can be used with your team during staff meetings,
morning huddles or simply when you find yourself with some spare time. For this exercise you
will need to print off the “Why are you in my Winery” Profile Cards.
This exercise has been designed to give individuals the chance to practice working questions
into conversation and asking more questions than they might be used to, in order to discover as
much about their customer as possible.
Start by splitting the group into pairs. Shuffle all of the profile cards and distribute them so that
each person has one. Emphasize that they should keep their profile a secret!
One person will start as the customer, using their profile card as guidance. The other person
(the winery associate) will have to ask the customer open-ended questions in order for their
customer to provide them with any of the information on their profile. (If the information isn’t
on the sheet, just make something up). If the associate asks a closed-ended question, the
customer can only respond with a ‘yes’ or ‘no’.
The role play is over when the associate has discovered all of the information that was in the
customer profile.
Once the role play is over, facilitate a quick discussion about the kinds of things they found out
about their customer through these questions and how they think that information could help
them further down the sales process.
When your partner asks a relevant open-ended question, (who,
what, why, where, when, how) provide him/her with one of the
pieces of information. (If the information isn’t on the sheet, just
make something up!). If your partner asks a closed-ended
question, you can only answer with a “yes” or “no”!
Here is your profile
30 year old woman
Looking for a few bottles of wine for a dinner party
She is a stay at home mom
She is married and has 3 kids
She does not know much about wine
Wants to get both red and white wines
There will be about 10 people at the party
The party is taking place this weekend
Her and her husband do not have dinner parties often
Some of the people coming to the party are very knowledgeable about wine
She does have a budget of under $150
She doesn’t want to have any leftover wine because they don’t generally drink it at home
They will be serving a roast for dinner
This is her first time buying wine right from a vineyard
She would like to try the wine before she buys it
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When your partner asks a relevant open-ended question, (who,
what, why, where, when, how) provide him/her with one of the
pieces of information. (If the information isn’t on the sheet, just
make something up!). If your partner asks a closed-ended
question, you can only answer with a “yes” or “no”!
Here is your profile
60 year old female
Looking for a few bottles of wine for a small office Birthday
party
She is the CEO of the company
The birthday party is for the CFO of the company
They are having the party because the CFO is turning 60
The party will take place after office hours
She expects there will be about 50 people at the party
The party will take place in large office conference room
They have never had a party like this before
She would like mostly red wines but some white as well
She does not want any Chardonnay
She considers himself somewhat of a wine expert
She has a large wine collection at home
She would like to try the wine before buying it
She does not have a budget for this
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When your partner asks a relevant open-ended question, (who,
what, why, where, when, how) provide him/her with one of the
pieces of information. (If the information isn’t on the sheet, just
make something up!). If your partner asks a closed-ended
question, you can only answer with a “yes” or “no”!
Here is your profile
40 year old woman looking for a bottle of wine for a gift
She is looking for a bottle of red wine
She, herself, likes to drink wine but doesn’t know much about
it
It is a ‘thank you’ gift for a neighbour
They have been neighbours for almost 10 years now
The neighbour will only drink red wine
The neighbour is an avid wine drinker
They both have children who are about the same age
and attend the same school
She has never given her a gift like this before
They often get together in the evenings to drink wine at chat
The neighbour is the one who usually supplies the wine
She is pretty sure that the neighbour has enjoyed wine from
this winery before
She would like to keep it under $40
She has never bought wine straight from a vineyard before
She lives nearby, so if she likes the wine she might come
back to get some for herself.
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When your partner asks a relevant open-ended question, (who,
what, why, where, when, how) provide him/her with one of the
pieces of information. (If the information isn’t on the sheet, just
make something up!). If your partner asks a closed-ended
question, you can only answer with a “yes” or “no”!
Here is your profile
A couple in their mid-twenties
Looking for red and white wine for their upcoming wedding
Their wedding is taking place in June
They are from the area, so would like to have local wine at
their wedding
They are having a small wedding, only about 75 people
The wedding will be outdoors
They would like to buy a couple of bottles now to try at
home and share with their family
The wedding is very casual and the meal will be a BBQ
There will be a cocktail hour before dinner, and they
will be serving wine then too
They would also like to get some sparkling wine for
the reception for their toast
They don’t currently have a budget because they’re
trying to gauge prices
They don’t know much about wine, but enjoy trying new
things
They like things that are unique and different
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When your partner asks a relevant open-ended question, (who,
what, why, where, when, how) provide him/her with one of the
pieces of information. (If the information isn’t on the sheet, just
make something up!). If your partner asks a closed-ended
question, you can only answer with a “yes” or “no”!
Here is your profile
A male in his early 30’s
Never used to drink wine, but his wife does
He is trying to learn to like wine so that him and his wife
can enjoy it together
He usually only drinks beer
He recently had some red wine that he really liked
The wine he liked was not as dry
His wife drinks all kinds of wine, but mainly likes red
They tend to have a drink with dinner pretty much
every weekend
They generally eat some kind of meat for dinner
He’s not looking to spend a whole lot of money on a bottle
He wants something that he’ll be able to get on a regular
basis
Him and his wife like to entertain, so he wants something
that guests will like too
They live nearby
His wife generally only drinks wines from California
Him and his wife do not have kids
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When your partner asks a relevant open-ended question, (who,
what, why, where, when, how) provide him/her with one of the
pieces of information. (If the information isn’t on the sheet, just
make something up!). If your partner asks a closed-ended
question, you can only answer with a “yes” or “no”!
Here is your profile
A woman in her 30’s
She is not married and has no kids
Looking for wine for Thanksgiving dinner
They will be having a traditional meal with Turkey
Her whole family will be there, probably 7 people in total
Her family drinks primarily white wine
They are all big wine drinkers
Wants recommendations for a wine that goes best with
Turkey
She visits the winery on a regular basis and is very familiar
with your wines
She would like some different price options
She prefers a dry wine
Wine is expected at any family dinner
She likes to impress her family with different wines that
they might have never tried before
She would also like to get some Ice Wine for desert
She tried a wine from one of your competitors last year
and really didn’t like it
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Why Are You In My Winery?
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