HOW TO LIVE IN FAMILY?

HOW TO EDUCATE CHILDREN?

HOW TO EDUCATE CHILDREN

AT HOME?

HOW TO EDUCATE

TEENAGERS?

F. RIVAS

C. VILLEDA

W. LOPEZ

C. RODRIGUEZ

F. Rivas

He was born in San Salvador, El Salvador. He started to read English books from every author

and any kind because he wanted to increase his vocabulary, when he was 18 years old. Then

he stated to study a major at Universidad Tecnológica de El Salvador. He still read books and

he still studies his major in order to have and increase a good vocabulary in the English

language.

C. VILLEDA

She is Catherine villeda. She was born in EL

Salvador in Maternidad hospital in San Salvador

she was born on September 26, 1991 she is

studying bachelor degree in English She decided

to study in Universidad Tecnologica de El

Salvador because she wanted to learn other

language and improve all the skills that she

has.

She enjoyed reading comedy and romantic book

also watch movies and go out with her friends.

She is very friendly, kind, loyal and honest. She

interested in learning more English and also improver her vocabulary

and be a good professional in her career.

Lopéz W.

Wilber Alexander López was born on Wednesday, August 25th,

1983 in Puerto La Libertad, El Salvador. He was born in a difficult

time due to the civil war in El Salvador where everybody fought

for surviving every day because of the clashes between the

Guerrilla and the Armed Force.

Roberto Lopez and Amelia Meléndez are Wilber´s parents. He also has a sister Liliana López the one

that he loves, not only for being his sister but she is the one who grew up together and spent a lot of

beautiful time when they were kids.

He started his elementary school when he was 6 years old and finished junior high school at the age

of 14 years old, it was a small school which is called “Escuela El Cimarron”. Wilber started high school

in 1999 when he was sixteen years old and finishing in 2001. He could not begin the university

because of the economic issues. He had to work in order to pay his studies but his wage was not

enough. Then a new opportunity to get a scholarship was presented and he could study a Technician

in business administration and in 2008 he got another one to study what he really loved and it was

English in one of the best Academies in our country, which is Academia Europea. Then in 2010 he got

a new position in his job and finally he could start his studies at the university and achieve his goal

which was learn English very well

In 2010 he got enrolled at UTEC to study English, something that he loves doing and he has only one

goal, finish his mayor and graduate to get a better future.

She is Claudia Lorena Rodríguez Cáceres. She was born in Cojutepeque Cuscatlán, San

Salvador. She was born on August 11, 1991. She is 22 years old. She is studying

Bachelor degree in English in Universidad Tecnologica de El Salvador and she was

starting to read books about adolescents when she was 18 years old because she was

interested in these books because she wants to show the importance of recognizing the

changes of conducts that adolescents have and the way in which the parents have to

educate them, and search the way in which the parents give the confidence to speak

with their children and find the way that their adolescents speak with them about their

personal problems, their emotions, their feelings, because the stage of adolescence is

often a decisive stage which often makes the lives of people . She thinks that read

about adolescents is very important because she want to show to the parents some

strategies to educate and understand in a better way the life of adolescents and look

for ways to have a good communication with them, supporting them by giving them

good advice and finding solutions together to solve the problems that they are present,

so that they feel supported by their parents and feel loved and-protecting them. Then

she finished her high school, she started the college at Universidad Tecnologica de El

Salvador. She started in Systems Engineering but she did not like this degree, so she in

her second semester, she opted to study Bachelor degree in English language because

she thought it would be a good way to teach the English language to others and she

was happy for this change, also she opted to start to read books about teenagers to

enrich their vocabulary in the English language and acquire more knowledge about

the stages of adolescence. She has the purpose that parents seek ways to educate their

children as long as they take decisions in which can help them and not with which they

can harm them.

(C. Rodríguez)

Purpose: To inform about how to get along

with children in modern families.

Audience:

Age: 18- 80

Gender: Female and Male

Ethnic: Latin and American People

Religion: All of them are allowed.

Education: High School

Professional field: Children Psychology

By Felix Rivas

With our family. The question is why? It is

possible that is the culture of our society

changing? And the answer is yes. The culture

the society is more liberal as 30 years ago.

And if you stop to think that it was in 1984. But

what are the reasons is because human beings

always are trying to find their own happiness

look for their independence. New human

beings are different that human beings from

the previous. It is not only because it is, it

because the human being evolve according

with the new status, society, trends and

though we might not believe it from the

technology. Technology had divided from our

family everything is about send emails, social

networks, computer work, etc. So, people are

more connecting with Electronic devices that

with their family, they text what they feel and

they stopped to talk about it. So, that is

provoking that we neglect our children and our

children are coming under increasing in the

technology because of they feel alone. We

believe that the technology is a good tool and

it is, but we cannot deny that it has changed

our life for the better or for the worse. But,

that is one only factor that complicate our life

and our family relationship. So, you can create

time to live together and ignore all the

problems that happened in the day. So, as

parents create a good relationship between

children and parents, good advices in order to

children do not make mistakes in his younger

lives. Try to do that the children understand

that they are important in their lives and

parents care for them.

We have many problems in family because we

have misunderstanding. But we have those

solutions.

1- Watch what they do, not what they say.

2- Restore perspective. Act accordingly.

3- Stay and here and now.

4- Do not go into quicksand. Make them come

out (Medea, 2006)

Audience: adults

Age: 19-30

Nationality: Salvadoran

Purpose: to inform how to educate

children in the best way to creating a

new future.

BY: C. VILLEDA.

IS VERY IMPORTANT when you

are with your child, giving

them all the importance that

they need. You need to take

into account that many times

everything you do, they also

do it because they are in the

age of they all absorb like

sponge.

You are the responsible for

them and show them what life

is and also teaching

awareness of what they done.

At this moment your child is

near to you so you can give

them.

The ways how to behave in

front of people and good

manners.

In we are emphasized in

teaching awareness, when

they are children they

Will be better in the future.

Another thing that you need

to do is give all the time as be

possible because in this way

your be able to correct them

or just to give them how work

in family because is the first

school of the society.

Another important thing with

children is that you don’t

discriminate while you are

with a child because they are

what you are with people. is

important this point because

you need to treat others

equal no matter the color,

raze, nationality .all are the

same for the society and you

need to keep in mind to the

children.

You can visit places with your

child is another way to spent

time with them and educate

about culture if you go to the

park or a museum or place

that show about the culture

of your country.

And last but not least give to

your child to be grateful for

all that he/she has because

in this way he is going to

receive the importance of

what they have and how

important is for us to think of

what we have and what we

want.

They need to create a good

opportunity to be awareness

of everything around them

like his friends, the

neighborhood and also the

country.

Even if they don’t travel to

another country you should

give them the opportunity to

create the importance of

each country. A good tool

that you can use to educate

your child is teaching some

countries and their capitals

to know the capacity of your

child to memorize and help

them to have an own opinion

about each country even if we

are not agree with their

opinion.

If you read a book with you

child this can help you to

create a critical thinking

skill and reading writing and

this help you to develop their

sense of awareness’s.

Make your child responsible

of their behavior if they make

mistakes or something wrong

show them how to apologize

or don’t feel afraid of what

they done.

Parents always ask themselves what is

the best way to educate childs at home, taking

into account that the time they spent with their

children is not enough because of their work or

many others reasons than avoid the parents share

more time with their childs and it is still more

difficult when parents know that the education

start at home and it is here when parents are

responsible of building a bright future for their

children.

What children learn in childhood is the reflect of

their behavior in the future, that is why parents

have to be careful what they teach to their childs.

Sometimes parents believe that transfer

knowledge is the only way of educating children,

but in fact, that is only a part of this, children have

to know about attitude, behavior and character,

those are not educational knowledge but help

children to be different.

Here we have some ways fathers can implement

to teach children at home at home.

First, fathers have to teach their children how to

build a good family environment. It means that

every member in the family has to change their

behavior and treat others differently helping one

each other’s in different situation. Love and not

violence is so important because children do not

create or keep in mind bad ideas about the

meaning of a

real family.

Assign

responsibiliti

es to

children,

appoint different chores to children at home are

necessary to educate responsible childs for

example: housework like mopping, sweeping,

dusting, learn to children to make the bed, do the

dishes, do the laundry etc… Fathers can start

assigning these chore works in order to show to

children different situation they will face in the

future.

Parents a good model to follow, sometimes

children look at their fathers like heroes,

fathers become admired by their own children

and they look at them like people that never

make mistakes and always get the right

decision and when children grow up will

always wish be like their parents getting

always the right choice.

Believe that lessons school or transmitting

knowledge is to be raising a child is a big

mistake, education must be complemented by

ethic, moral and values. (BY: W. LOPEZ)

How to educate children at home

Audience: Teenagers and adults.

Purpose: To inform adults the

importance of the communication in

the family and identify the changes of

conduct that their teenagers present

and find a way to have the confidence

to communicate with their children.

The teenager is a stage of controversy

and very decisive passing youth from

puberty, and facing many changes as

psychological, physical, mood and

others, in which many parents find it

difficult to understand the changes that

their children will take every day as

many times parents spend engaged in

work or other activities that did not to

make pay adequate attention to their

(C. Rodriguez)

teens. Parents often do not find the way

to educate their children, and some

parents have children at an early age

and there are many things that still have

not learned. For this reason it is

important for parents to have the

confidence and time to talk with their

children and find a more practical way

to learn how to educate their children

and one of these is instilling values from

an early age their children like: respect,

confidence, responsibility, discipline,

order, and others; because this will

make their children will grow with these

values, in which they as parents will

introduce an education system at home

from small which will serve them for a

lifetime and will make them successful

people.

The education of teenagers it is

paramount to their development as

adults because if parents are confident

with their children, it will make easier

to communicate with them and have a

good relationship which their families,

and in many cases this will serve to

help them and be together in good

times and bad times because as

children they will know that their

parents are there to support and help

them.

In many cases, parents do not pay the

attention that they need at this time of

the life to their teenagers, and that is

why many teenagers take different

paths in life, which often leads to their

self-destruction as people or

themselves generate psychological and

physical damages to which destroy

their future and in some cases up to his

family ; But teenagers are not the only

ones responsible for this to happen

because when parents start to notice

bad behavior in their teenagers is when

they should call attention to their

teenagers to avoid that they continue to

doing the wrong things , but many

times parents leave them to their fate

and they let the teenagers be

themselves who take charge of their

lives without paying attention to them

or warn them that what they are doing

not carry them anything good and less

to a future of progress in their lives.

The parents are very important in the

lives of their children, partly because

they are the ones who are educating

them in his image and likeness and

often the children are a reflection of

their parents and for this reason,

parents should create an atmosphere of

harmony and respect at home putting

rules which must respect their children

as long as parents to be giving them a

good example to their children.

The adolescence is a very difficult stage

for parents, but where else should

approach their teenagers and devote

time, attention and affection and give

them confidence to have a good

relationship as a family; as a family is

what is united in good and bad times

and parents are responsible for making

people well to their teenagers at home

because the home and family is the

first school for their children. The

parents should be aware of the

behavior of their teenagers because

they have mood swings that reflect the

attention they need from their parents

as they begin a time of change in your

life and they do what they believe is

right for them not because this is so ,

and is a very dangerous step because

they take very hasty decisions which

can change your life forever in minutes,

and they begin to show an attitude of

rebellion to prove the authority of their

parents or is a way to challenge them,

but at the same time they are fragile

and vulnerable and feel helpless, but

not want to admit that to their parents

and often so cling to what your friends

tell which make this allows some

distance from their parents and be

influenced by their friends and what

they tell them and make decisions

without thinking of the consequences ;

but many times and like to challenge

their parents to create conflict and be

the center of attention in your home

because they believe that often can only

achieve so the attention of their

parents.

The parents may voice two concerns:

first, they may think the teenager will

intentionally come up with the easiest

possible consequences, so that he or

she can continue to break the rules.

Second, parents may feel that this

technique is a form of manipulation.

(Scott, 2003).