DO LOOKS MATTER TO WOMEN?

Being good looking helps you get noticed.

It is also an indicator of health.

And health is sexy.

BIG TIME

But good looks are only the cherry on the cake.

If you don’t have anything else to offer, you’re gonna get rejected anyway.

WHY??

Because women perceive men, who they are

emotionally attracted to, also as physically attractive.

It’s why she tells her

friends she is into this type

of guy.

But she ends up with this

type.

My girlfriend told all her friends she would

never date a guy who was shorter than her.

5ft 10in 179cm

meher5ft 11in 181cm + height of heel

Obviously, emotional attractiveness is superior

to looks.

So, what qualities make you emotionally attractive to her?

#1 SOCIAL STATUS

Social status is the value other people

ascribe you. It depends heavily on the environment you are in.

A DJ has high social status in a club he works at. In the club he will be perceived as much more attractive than he actually is. But if you meet the same guy in a grocery store, he

will be perceived as just a regular guy and his attractiveness will be back to

normal.

EXAMPLE

The easiest way to get social status is by

hanging out with people who already have it.

BUT HOW?

Meet these people in an environment where they have normal status. In

our DJ example it could be a beach volleyball

class, or a gym.

Our DJ is a nice guy and the two of you get along great.

So, he invites you to come to the club he works at.

He puts you on the guest list, gives you a couple of free drink coupons and when you are at the club you

can walk up to the turn table and talk to him.

EXAMPLE

VOILA!You now have social status at

that club.

But never befriend someone only for social

status!

People will look right

through that.

#2 CONFIDENCE

+ ”I DON’T GIVE A F*CK”

You know this kind of attitude from rock stars, actors, and athletes.

But it’s easy to appear confident when everyone is constantly telling you how

great you are.

Building it as a ”regular person” requires making new experiences, expanding your comfort zone, and facing your fears – on a daily basis.

Few guys ever get it. But those who do are

guaranteed to attract more women than they

can possibly date.

#3 INDIVIDUAL

Every woman is an individual.

Some like intelligence.

Others are drawn to the lifestyle money can buy.

Whereas others value a creative mind above all else.

It’s impossible to appeal to every single woman

out there!

Because all of them have different preferences.

(physically and emotionally)

This guy appeals to a certain kind of woman.

As does this guy.

Both can be incredibly successful with women.But only within their ”target

audience”.

So, improve yourself as much as possible.

And find the kind of woman who likes your

unique mix!

WHAT DID WE LEARN?

SUMMARY

Looks aren’t as important as you believe.

Emotional attraction is what truly matters.

Every woman is an individual with unique preferences.

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SUMMARY

Improve everything you can, including looks, grooming, and hygiene.

Learn to accept, or even love, what you can’t improve.

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SUMMARY

Stop competing on looks. Work on your emotional attractiveness instead.

Find the kind of woman who finds your set of qualities attractive.

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Now go out and TAKE ACTION!

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About the author

Julian Reisinger is a co-founder of Lovelifesolved.com, an author, and business student. His work has been published on Business Insider, TIME.com, Thought Catalog, Lifehacker, Inc.com, and many more.

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