American Psychological Association Romancing with Death in Hollywood Paul T. P. Wong, PhD, Professor...

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Paul T. P. Wong, PhD, ProfessorDepartment of Psychology, Tyndale University College

Date: August 7, 2009


Abstract

The presentation discusses the portrait of death and dying in Hollywood films. A meaning-management theory was proposed to account for death acceptance. The paper identifies 7 pathways of death acceptance in films. It concludes that meaning offers the best protection against death fear and the best promise of hope beyond death.


An overview

• Death and dying as an important topic• Death denial vs. death acceptance• Cinema as an educational tool• Seven pathways of death acceptance


The importance of death & dying

• Death is universal

• We are scared to death about death

• The end impacts us more than the beginning & everything in between

• Dying well is the last frontier of positive psychology


Different death attitudes

• Fear of death

• Avoidance of death

• Neutral death acceptance

• Approach death acceptance

• Escape death acceptance


The Psychology of Death

• Terror management theory: Focusing on death denial & avoidance

• Meaning management theory: Focusing on death acceptance & approach

• Defensive vs. purposeful orientation(Existential & Spiritual Issues in Death Attitudes (2008)

edited by Tomer, Eliason, & Wong. Published by Francis & Taylors)


Dual-system model

• The approach system – life expansion and processes of personal growth

• The avoidance system – life protection and defensive mechanisms

• The duality hypothesis of coping with death and dying


Cinema as an educational tool

• It reflects life & popular culture

• Its aesthetic power of beauty

• Its evocative power of imagination

• Its narrative power of story telling

• Its instructive power of inspiring virtue

• Its mystical power of transcendence


A two-factor theory of cinema

1. Dream-making: Entertainment thru aesthetic & emotional appeal (escape from reality)

2. Myth-making: Enlightenment thru moral & spiritual appeal (confront and transcend reality)


Romanticism in death & dying films

• Individual’s heroic response to tragedy

• Sentimentality: tension & relief, feel-good & break your heart

• Virtues of courage, passion for living and self-sacrifice

• Transcendental and spiritual aspects of human existence


Criteria for selection of films

• Focusing on death acceptance

• Exploring the deep dark realities of death and dying

• Showing the triumphant human spirit in the face of danger, suffering & death

• Showing sparks of love & goodness in the midst of atrocity & terror


Criteria for exclusion

• Horror/slasher films

• Gangster/crime films

• The Casper genre

• Trivialize & dehumanize death


Seven pathways of death acceptance

1. Die loving

2. Die doing what one loves

3. Die pursuing a dream

4. Die saving others

5. Die redeeming one’s wrongs

6. Die becoming a better person

7. Die believing in hope


Die loving

• Love is the key to make life & death meaningful

• To die happy is to die with love in one’s heart

• To love is to mourn its loss• Love is made poignant by death• Undying love is seen only after losing

the loved one


Die doing what one loves

• To die happy is to do what one loves most and does best

• Hedonic happiness – The Bucket List

• Eudaimonic happiness – Dance in the Dark, The Wrestler

• To enjoy each day as if it were your last

• Finding salvation in your passion


Die pursuing a dream

• To live is to pursue a dream worth dying for (Milk, Iron Jawed Angels)

• Die for an ideal (Defiance, The Last Samurai)

• The meaning of your life is defined by your ultimate sacrifice

• Self-transcendence is the key to resilience and meaning in life


Die saving others

• A heroic and altruistic act

• Another example of self-transcendence

• A living sacrifice for another person (Life is Wonderful, Saving Private Ryan)

• A living sacrifice for humanity (Deep Impact)


Die redeeming one’s wrongs

• Die happy without regrets (GranTorino)

• Die happy after reconciliation

• Need for confession, forgiveness & redemption


Die becoming a better person

• The idea of death can save many lives

• Encounter with death is an life-altering experience (It’s a Wonderful life, A Christmas Carol, Life as a House)

• Death acceptance leads to authentic living


Die believing

• Die happy believing in hope

• The invisible becomes more real than the visible when life ebbs away

• A spiritual vision gives hope in the face of death (The Messenger, Miracle at St. Anna)

• The power of the mystic meta-narrative


Conclusion

• Meaning offers the best protection against death fear and the best hope for a happy life

• The 7 pathways to death acceptance are also the keys to happiness and meaning in life

• Dying well is related to living well


Thank You

Dr. Paul T. P. Wong, ProfessorDepartment of Psychology, Tyndale University College

www.meaning.ca; www.existentialpsychology.org

[email protected]; [email protected], 416-587-4990

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