6 Practical Lessons for Success
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6 Practical Lessons for Successfrom the book The Magic of Thinking Big by David Schwartz
Group 12Jairaj T | Nikitha TJ | Pranita Somawar | Sonika Angilin | Sowmya G
Believe You Can Succeed and You Will
Success means many wonderful, positive things
• A fine home• Vacations• New things• Financial Security
Success:Personal Prosperity
• Winning admiration• Leadership• Being looked by all• Freedom• Self respect
Success:Public
Believe You Can Succeed and You Will..
Developing the Power of Belief1. Think success,don’t think failure2. Remind yourself regularly that you
are better than you think you are3. Believe BIG
How to deal with Health Excusitis1. Refuse to talk about health
2. Refuse to worry about health
3. Be genuinely grateful that your health is as good as it is
4. Remind yourself often – ‘It’s better to wear out than rust out’
How to get rid of IntelligenceExcusitis?
1. Never underestimate your own intelligence & overestimate other’s
2. Remind yourself- ‘My attitudes are more important than my intelligence’
3. Ability to think is of much greater value than the ability to memorize facts
1. Look at your present age positively
2. Compute how much productive time you have left
3. Invest future time in what you really want to do
Get Rid of Age Excusitis!!
Action does Cure Fear
Type of Fear Action
1. Embarrassment because of personal appearance
Improve it. Groom well
2. Fear of losing an important customer Work more to give better service. Take customer feedback and work on it
3. Fear of failing an exam Convert worry time into study time
4. Fear of things totally beyond your control
Switch attention to something else. Play,chill,relax
5. Fear of physically hurt by something Pay attention to different things. Pray
6. Fear of what others may think of you Make sure that your plan is to be right
7. Fear of people Put them in proper perspective
Build Confidence
Two – step procedure to cure fear and build confidence :
1. Isolate your fear – Pin it down and determine what are you afraid of
2. Then take action – Be decisive
Proper Perspective
Ways to put people in Proper Perspective :
Get a balanced view of the other fellow
Listen and then explain
Be a front seater
Practice making eye contact
Walk 25 per cent faster
Practice speaking up
How to think BIG?
Phrases which creates small,negative mind images
Phrases which creates BIG, positive mind images
1. It’s no use, we are whipped We are not whipped yet. Let’s keep trying. Here’s a new angle
2. I was in that business once and failed. Never again
I went broke out it’s my fault. I am going to try again
3. I’ve tried but the product won’t sell. People don’t want it
I have not sold the product yet but I am going to find a way to pull it up
4. Their orders have been small. Cut them off
Let’s map out a plan for selling them more of their needs
5. Nobody will ever want that product Let’s modify the product to pull the sales up
Choices to Handle Situations
Situation The Petty thinker’s approach The Big thinker’s approach
ConversationTalks about negative qualities of friends, economy, company, competition
Talks about positive qualities of friends, economy, company, competition
MistakesMagnifies minor errors. Turns them into big issues
Ignores errors of little consequences
SecurityIs preoccupied with security problems Regards security as a natural
companion of success
WorkLooks for ways to avoide work Looks for more ways and things to
do, especially helping others
Competition Compares with the average Compares with the best
Ways to fight against Traditional Thinking
Become receptive to ideas
Be an experimental person
Be progressive not regressive
Choose the right perspective
• Would an important person worry• How would an important person describe your job• Conversation – is this what successful people discuss