Rob Judge 2010

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Get Girls, Not Headaches

45 Minutes to Better Game

Amazing things to say!

Smooth strategies!

Under-the-radar attraction techniques!

Secretly we’d all like to know...

Will NOT Help in the Long Run

Sorry, Won’t Do It

Because You Don’t Need to “ADD” Anything to Your

Personality

Challenge YOUR Mindsets

You’re a funny, cool, awesome guy around your friends, but you can’t act that way around women because of how you’relooking at things

Values = Perception

Attraction is a self-fulfilling prophecy

How people treat you reflectshow you see the world. How you

seethe world reflects what you’ve

beentaught to believe.

Get Offended, Get BetterButthurt now will leadimprovement later

You’ve tried adding things to your personality—fail

Try changing your perspective

Why Are You Even Here?

Answer: Women

Say No To Dick-Logic

Advice by MenFor Men

Bromance is OVER

Focus on getting girls,not getting high-fives from

dudes

Focus on Women

Effective communicationwith her and you...

...and THAT’s it.

Empowering Mindsets

See girls as girls

Pickup is not epic warfare

Guess What: Girls Want To Meet Cool

Guys Think About It...

How would your “game” change if you approached girls

believing they wanted to meet you

Much of Pickup Theory...

...indicates you don’t believe the girl wants to meet you

Typical Night OutGuys act like buffoons, don’t understand why they aren’t attracting women

My Best Nights Out

1 Approach, 1 Girl, 1 Happy Rob

The Myth of PerfectionIdeally your “approach” will suck but the girl will like you anyway

The Opener FallacyGreat opener = lots of work to keep up a song-and-dance

Crap opener = lowered expectations

Take the Pressure Off Yourself

And Make It FUNYou’re there to meet girls, right?

So What’s Your MotivationAre you...

Trying to possess women?Improve your pickup skillz? Become more social?Impress all the guys?

Trying to Get the TruthThe Truth About...

HerYou You & Her TogetherWomen in generalDating

Live by the Truth, Get Blown Out by the

Truth It’s not a big

deal...and it’s pretty fucking funny

It’s About You, Then It’s About Her

Action is primary, results are secondary

Effective communication begins with self, ends with the girl—no middleman

How to Effective Communicate with Her

Drive

Inspiration

Connection

Mechanics

Drive: Genuine Sexual Attraction for a Women

She knows. You know.So make it awesome.

Inspiration: Emotional Transparency of Your

Personality Understand how to access your creativity to express yourself

Connection: Creating an Emotionally Relevant

Relationship Build rapport and trust by sharing experiences and emotion—not just biographical facts

Mechanics: The Roadmap for Moving Things Forward

SmoothlyReduce the friction of progressing a romantic relationship forward by knowing the “angles”

Balance: The Secret of Attracting Women

Each element has an appropriate time—and an inappropriate time

Learn to Interact with the 4 Elements, Learn About

YourselfYou are much more attractive, funny, charming, and witty than you give yourself credit for

Get Out and Find the Truth

How many girls have you regretted approaching?

Remember:It’s About You, Then About

Her