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Rob Judgeof

Get Girls, Not Headaches

45 Minutes to Better Game

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Amazing things to say!

Smooth strategies!

Under-the-radar attraction techniques!

Secretly we’d all like to know...

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Will NOT Help in the Long Run

Sorry, Won’t Do It

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Because You Don’t Need to “ADD” Anything to Your

Personality

Challenge YOUR Mindsets

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You’re a funny, cool, awesome guy around your friends, but you can’t act that way around women because of how you’relooking at things

Values = Perception

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Attraction is a self-fulfilling prophecy

How people treat you reflectshow you see the world. How you

seethe world reflects what you’ve

beentaught to believe.

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Get Offended, Get BetterButthurt now will leadimprovement later

You’ve tried adding things to your personality—fail

Try changing your perspective

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Why Are You Even Here?

Answer: Women

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Say No To Dick-Logic

Advice by MenFor Men

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Bromance is OVER

Focus on getting girls,not getting high-fives from

dudes

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Focus on Women

Effective communicationwith her and you...

...and THAT’s it.

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Empowering Mindsets

See girls as girls

Pickup is not epic warfare

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Guess What: Girls Want To Meet Cool

Guys Think About It...

How would your “game” change if you approached girls

believing they wanted to meet you

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Much of Pickup Theory...

...indicates you don’t believe the girl wants to meet you

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Typical Night OutGuys act like buffoons, don’t understand why they aren’t attracting women

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My Best Nights Out

1 Approach, 1 Girl, 1 Happy Rob

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The Myth of PerfectionIdeally your “approach” will suck but the girl will like you anyway

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The Opener FallacyGreat opener = lots of work to keep up a song-and-dance

Crap opener = lowered expectations

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Take the Pressure Off Yourself

And Make It FUNYou’re there to meet girls, right?

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So What’s Your MotivationAre you...

Trying to possess women?Improve your pickup skillz? Become more social?Impress all the guys?

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Trying to Get the TruthThe Truth About...

HerYou You & Her TogetherWomen in generalDating

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Live by the Truth, Get Blown Out by the

Truth It’s not a big

deal...and it’s pretty fucking funny

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It’s About You, Then It’s About Her

Action is primary, results are secondary

Effective communication begins with self, ends with the girl—no middleman

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How to Effective Communicate with Her

Drive

Inspiration

Connection

Mechanics

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Drive: Genuine Sexual Attraction for a Women

She knows. You know.So make it awesome.

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Inspiration: Emotional Transparency of Your

Personality Understand how to access your creativity to express yourself

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Connection: Creating an Emotionally Relevant

Relationship Build rapport and trust by sharing experiences and emotion—not just biographical facts

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Mechanics: The Roadmap for Moving Things Forward

SmoothlyReduce the friction of progressing a romantic relationship forward by knowing the “angles”

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Balance: The Secret of Attracting Women

Each element has an appropriate time—and an inappropriate time

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Learn to Interact with the 4 Elements, Learn About

YourselfYou are much more attractive, funny, charming, and witty than you give yourself credit for

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Get Out and Find the Truth

How many girls have you regretted approaching?

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Remember:It’s About You, Then About

Her