5 LOVE LANGUAGES

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Teaching outline on Parenting Modern Day Teens by Pastor Ronald Camiling, June 11, 2011

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1 Corinthians 13:131 Corinthians 13:1313 Three things will last

forever—faith, hope, and love—and the greatest of these is love.

13 Three things will last forever—faith, hope, and love—and the greatest of these is love.

1 John 4:181 John 4:18

18 There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.

18 There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.

Adolf HitlerAdolf Hitler

“I Love You”

“I Love You”

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Languages

Languages

Facts aboutFacts about

THE FIVE LOVELANGUAGES

PARENTS FRIENDS

Acts of Service

Physical Touch

Affirmative Words

Receiving Gifts

Time together

Tidy up room for child

Personally bring child to school and back home

Teach friend how to solve difficult questions

Carry out research together

Hug child Give 'high fives' or shake hands

Give a pat on the back for a job well done

Pat friend's back when friend is down

Praise child for who he or she is

Compliment friend on his her dressing

Reward child with a small present regularly to surprise child

Give rewards or treat someone

Read, exercise or play together

Have a date with the child

Spend time or Watch a movie together

Play games together

Fact #1 Our love tank leaks

Fact #2 Our love tank needs to be filled regularly

Fact #2 Our love tank needs to be filled regularly

Fact #3 We can ask for love according to our

love languages

Fact #4 Our love language may change with age

Boys

10 Years Old 18 Years Old 10 Years Old 18 Years Old

Girls

RECEIVING GIFTS

ACTS OF SERVICE

TIME TOGETHER

AFFIRMATIVE WORDS

PHYSICAL TOUCH

ACTS OF SERVICE

TIME TOGETHER

RECEIVING GIFTS

AFFIRMATIVE WORDS

PHYSICAL TOUCH

RECEIVING GIFTS

ACTS OF SERVICE

TIME TOGETHER

AFFIRMATIVE WORDS

PHYSICAL TOUCH

ACTS OF SERVICE

TIME TOGETHER

RECEIVING GIFTS

AFFIRMATIVE WORDS

PHYSICAL TOUCH

Fact #1 Our love tank leaksFact #2 Our love tank needs to

be filled regularlyFact #3 We can ask for love

according to ourlove languages

Fact #4 Our love language may change with age

Fact #5 We can impact our place by being sensitive to the need of the people around us

Dr. Masaru Emoto

JapaneseScientist

Ordinary water without any prayer spoken over it. The molecular structure is in disarray

The photo below is

water after the prayer

was said. It’s simply

breathtaking!

Dr. Emoto also exposed water to Heavy Metal music.

Here’s water exposed to classical music and folk dance music.

Here’s water exposed to classical music and folk dance music.

• Next, Dr. Emoto stuck a piece of paper with these words: “You make me sick. I will kill you.”

• Here’s how the frozen water droplets looks like under the microscope…

Below is how water looked like with the words “Love” over it. The difference is amazing.

This is Polluted water…

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DENTIFY YOUR CHILD’S LOVE

LANGUAGE

DENTIFY YOUR CHILD’S LOVE

LANGUAGE

ONSTANTLY CHECK YOUR CHILD’S LOVE

TANK

ONSTANTLY CHECK YOUR CHILD’S LOVE

TANK

PPLY APPROPRIATE WAYS TO FILLPPLY APPROPRIATE WAYS TO FILL

OTE DOWN CHANGES AND EXPRESS LOVEOTE DOWN CHANGES AND EXPRESS LOVE

Saddam HusseinSaddam Hussein

•His father dies while mother was pregnant with him. •His older brother also dies during this same pregnancy.•His mother tries to commit suicide before he was born.•He is given to an uncle until about the age of three. •He goes back to his mother and step-father at about the age of three.

saddam husseinsaddam hussein

•He is mistreated by his parents and flees back to his Uncle who lives in Baghdad in 1945. •In 1957, he joins the Baath Party. •In 1958, the monarchy is overthrown. • He has killed, tortured, raped and terrorized the Iraqi people and his neighbors for over two decades.

saddam husseinsaddam hussein

•4,000 prisoners at Abu Ghraib prison in 1984 •3,000 prisoners at the Mahjar prison from 1993-1998 •2,500 prisoners were executed between 1997-1999 in a "prison cleansing campaign”

saddam husseinsaddam hussein

•122 political prisoners were executed at Abu Ghraib prison in February/March 2000 • 23 political prisoners were executed at Abu Ghraib prison in October 2001 • At least 130 Iraqi women were beheaded between June 2000 and April 2001

Hosea 10:12Hosea 10:12

12 I said, ‘Plant the good seeds of righteousness, and you will harvest a crop of love.

12 I said, ‘Plant the good seeds of righteousness, and you will harvest a crop of love.

Hosea 10:12Hosea 10:12

12 Plow up the hard ground of your hearts, for now is the time to seek the Lord, that he may come and shower righteousness upon you.’

12 Plow up the hard ground of your hearts, for now is the time to seek the Lord, that he may come and shower righteousness upon you.’