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There is no such thing as “not” worrying, but there is a way to conquer it, and not allow it to conquer you! How to stop worrying Madison Personal Development Group May 20 th , 2015 Presenter: Laurie Maxson Email: [email protected]

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There is no such thing as “not” worrying, but there is a way to conquer it, and not allow it to

conquer you!

How to stop worryingMadison Personal Development

GroupMay 20th, 2015

Presenter: Laurie MaxsonEmail: [email protected]

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o What are the different types of FEAR? Poverty Criticism/Rejection Unknown Failure Losing a loved one/Being alone Old age//Bad Health/Death Things/People Others

Worry is another name for FEAR

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Worry is FEAR, caused by indecision. It creates uncertainty. FEAR is an emotion, that CAN be controlled

o What are YOUR fears?

o Exercise- Crayons – Write out your causes of “worry” or “fears”

o Look at your list. How do these make you feel?

Identifying Your Fears

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Draw a picture of what fear makes you feel/look like

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o When fears arise, questions to ask yourself Is this something I control? Is it a matter of life or death? What is the worst possible outcome? How do I remove it? (Not can I remove it) What will I replace it with?

o What is the “source” of this fear? Think. You assigned the feeling of “PAIN” to a situation, response, event, etc.

oWhat is holding on to these fears costing me?

Digging Deeper

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• Write out the cause or reason for fear

• Write out the negative feeling this fear causes in you

• Identify the opposite positive feeling, and/or what you can learn from it to move you forward

Fear of: Negative emotion Positive emotion

Transform your FEARSWhat can you “learn” from it to move you forward?

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My Action

s

• What am I thankful for?• How can I inspire someone today?• What am I wanting for myself

today?• What action can I take to move

myself forward?• What positive emotions can I focus

on?

Daily ActionsDetermine where your focus will be. What will YOU allow to “DRIVE” you?

What is MOST important in your life?

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Draw a picture of what you are wanting your life to look like

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This life is YOURS, and YOU control your response and your thinking

If you are in need of additional support, to work through your worry/fears, so you are able to take back control of your life and begin experiencing joy again, contact me at [email protected]

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