The AE Process webinar - Amazon S3 · Diagnosed with Asperger’s at age 12 CEO of Asperger Experts...

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Welcome to

The AE Process:A new perspective on Asperger's Life

From people with Asperger’s


Diagnosed with Asperger’s at age 12

CEO of Asperger Experts

Fortunate enough to have a career teaching millions of people how to live a better life

And yes, I wish I would have found this info sooner too

Danny Raede


The Asperger Experts Process

Based in 3 areas:

Common Sense

Science

Personal Experience


What To Expect

In each box, I’ll give you 1-3 things to focus on.

I’ll be sending you this diagram, the slides from this presentation, and the recording via email.


What To Expect

We’ll also be getting this presentation transcribed. I’ll send it to your email once it is ready.

I’ll be taking questions toward the end of the presentation


What To ExpectThis presentation will be a mix of broad overview and actionable information

If you want more, we have courses that show you step-by-step what to do in each of these areas available on our website.


How The Process Works

Each step builds upon the previous step

If you skip to step 3 or 4 (like most people do), it won’t work.


Biology

Eating real, actual food

Properly hydrating

Getting enough low-stress time


MindsetReframing

Growth Mindset

Setting your end goal & never giving up


Stress

Is it really bad for you?

Medically necessary unwind time

Contribution


Join our support group AE+ at www.aspergerexperts.com/joinplus

Get access to:

Our FB support community A Minecraft server Helpline calls Interviews with experts &

competent professionals & More


Other places to find your people:

www.meetup.com

Local non-profits

PTA’s and other school organizations


Competent Professionals

Have they experienced what they are “experts” in?

Does it feel right?

Do they “get it”?Eva Angvert-Harren

www.beamlifecoaching.com

http://www.beamlifecoaching.com


RelaxingBach Flower Essences & Rescue Remedy

Hydrotherapy & Float Tanks

Doing something fun


Emotional Processing

Being with it (aka Somatic Acceptance)


It won’t work unless you have somatic acceptance.


Boundaries

Holding firm to your values

Only works if you know what those values are and WHY you are holding firm


Communication

Expectations

Deep Listening

Behavior is the biggest form of communication


Daughter Lied To You

How You Felt

Angry, Blaming, Hurt, Justified/Right, & Afraid

What You Do

Yell, Punish, Blame, Argue, Call them out

on it

The Meanings You Assigned

She’s disrespectful, doesn’t listen, and is doing

this to spite me.


Parents Confronted Me

How They Felt

Afraid, Defensive, Blaming, Hurt

What They Do

Shuts down, continues lying, gets

defensive

The Meanings They Assigned

Tyrant, out to get me, unsafe, doesn’t listen


The problem with labels is not that they necessarily are inaccurate, it is that they are incomplete.

If the label is all you see, then you are going to make poor decisions because you are acting on incomplete information


Question Your Stories


To learn more about Defense Mode, join me for a Defense Mode specific webinar, purchase our Deep Into Defense Mode course, or attend our

DIDM Live weekend seminar.


Attend the Out of Defense Mode Webinar: www.aspergerexperts.com/dmwebinar Get the Deep Into Defense Mode Course: www.aspergerexperts.com/go/didm Attend our DIDM Live Seminar: www.aspergerexperts.com/go/didmlive


Home

Safe Place

Productive Place

Place To Recharge


Work/School

Shared Understanding

The right type of school (or job)


Shared Language

Do me a favor…

Is your meaning their meaning?


Shared ValuesValues=Actions

Do you know what you value?

Is it clear what the SHARED values are?


Co-Creation means doing it TOGETHER


Root CausesWhat is REALLY going on?

Ask questions to get to the part where all parts of the statement are true


Self Deception

Denial doesn’t make it better

Could it possibly be that it is caused by you?


Coin VS Ball

Coin: Opposite reactions

Ball: Infinite responses


Where to Start

Start Here


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