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Strategies for Dealing
with Resistance
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Performance Objectives By the end of this session, participants will be able to:
Provide a loose definition of resistance
Demonstrate ability to listen reflectively
Demonstrate ability to use simple
reflection techniques
Articulate differences in levels of reflection
List the strategic responses to resistance
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What is Resistance?
Similar to “sustain talk”
Any client speech that supports the Status
Quo.
Resistance is something that happens
within the context of a relationship or
system.
In human psychology, this is something that
happens between people.
• Examples: Interrupting, Disagreeing, Discounting,
Changing the subject
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“Two Sides of a Coin”
Change Talk
Disadvantages of
Status Quo
Advantages of Change
Intention to Change
Optimism about
change
Resistance Talk
Advantages of Status
Quo
Disadvantages to
Change
Intention not to Change
Pessimism about
Change
Motivational Interviewing 2nd Edition – 2002 by Miller & Rollnick – Guilford Press
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SPEAKER
Communication Breakdown
What the
speaker means
1
What the
listener hears
3 What the
speaker says
2
What the listener
thinks the speaker means
4
LISTENER
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Definition: Reflective Listening
A hypothesis (guess) about speaker’s meaning
A statement to convey understanding
Intonation down
Short stems
“So…”
“Sounds like…”
“So you…”
“Your wondering if …”
“Its like…”
“You feel…”
Ques
Reflec
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Reflective Listening
Learning Points
Seemingly simple statements can have a variety of
meanings
“Obvious meanings” may not be obvious at all
Speaker feels compelled to elaborate and disclose more
about themselves!
Intention to understand (interviewer) and be understood
(speaker)…
Necessary but…
Not sufficient
Skills needed
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Simple reflection
Amplified reflection
Double-sided reflection
Handling Resistance
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Levels of Reflection
Simple Reflections:
Repetition / “Parroting”
Simply repeats an element of what the speaker
has said.
Rephrase
Listener stays close to what the speaker said,
but substitutes synonyms or slightly rephrases
what was offered.
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Levels of Reflection
Complex Reflections:
Paraphrase
A major restatement where the listener infers the
meaning in what was said & reflects it back in new
words.
Like continuing a paragraph that the speaker has
been developing – saying the next sentence rather
than repeating the last one.
Feeling, Metaphor
A paraphrase that emphasizes the emotional
dimension through feeling statements or metaphor
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Reflection Face Off
Exercise
Form Two Lines Facing one another
Speaker makes a statement using one of
the following:
“One thing I like about myself is that I…”
“One thing you should know about me is
that…”
Listener offers a reflection
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Increasing the intensity of the resistant element
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On the one hand…
On the other hand…
Double-Sided Reflections
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Handling Resistance:
Strategic Responses
Shifting focus
Coming Alongside
Agreement with a twist
Reframing
Emphasizing personal choice/control
Disclosing feelings
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Shifting Focus
“We’ve talked about
what other people say
about your drinking; now
let’s talk about what you
think.”
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Coming Alongside
“It sounds like the
pros of using still far
outweigh the cons.
So it may be that you
decide smoking is
something that you don’t
want to give up.”
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Agreement with a
T
w
i
s
t
Reflection with a
REFRAME
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Emphasizing Personal Choice /
Control
“It really is your choice about what you do in this situation.”
“No one can make you do this. The decision is yours.”
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Disclosing Feelings
“I’m getting a stuck feeling as we sit here.
And I’m wondering whether you feel the
same?”
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Roles:
Batter, Pinch-hitter, Pitchers
Pitchers
• “Pitch” a resistant statement that might
be made by clients
Batter
• Attempt to get “some wood” on the ball
(by making reflections)
• May signal “pitch hitter” to “take that pitch”
• Takes three “swings” before next “batter up”
Batting Practice
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Musical Chairs Exercise
On a slip of paper, write down a resistant
statement that you would normally hear
during the course of your day.
Place the slips in a “hat”
Play Musical Chairs
The participant left standing at the end of
each round will pick a statement from the
hat and respond to it by using a reflection
technique of their choice.