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    REPLY T ROLL MAY’S LETTER

    T CARLROGERS

    CARL

    R

    ROGERS

    Dear

    Rollo:

    Tom Greening has se nt me your eloquent and scholarly letter dealing

    with the problem of evil an d evil behavior. Your thoughtful analyses and

    arg um ent s will provoke a lot of good thinking and I appreciate that.

    Unfortunately, your m ater ial arriv es on the eve of m y d ep ar tu re for

    Europe and by the t ime I re tu rn , the editor’s deadline will be at hand.

    Consequently, this must be a hasty reply, which I regret. I cannot

    possibly touch on all th e issues t h at you raised.

    I would like firs t to deal with a couple of lesser points in your letter,

    ones on which m y feelings ar e clear.

    W hen you speak of t h e narcissism th at h as been fostered by human-

    istic psychology and how m any individuals a re “lost in self-love,” I feel

    like speaking u p an d saying, “That’s not true ” Then

    I

    realize that wh at I

    am saying is tha t i t is not tru e in my experience, bu t my experience is

    limited to clients and groups dealt with by my particular brand of

    hum anistic psychology and philosophy. I n those group s I simply have not

    seen th e development of a har m ful narcissism an d certainly not of

    an

    excessive self-love. If these cha racte ristics have em erged in other

    facets

    of the human istic movement,

    I

    have not been in contact with them. 1

    realize thi s is quite possible because

    I

    am not closely in touch with other

    aspects of th e hum’anistic movement.

    In the groups with which I’ve had contact, the truth is quite the

    contrary. Such groups lead to social action of a realistic nature.

    Individu als who come in as social fanatics becom e much more socially

    realistic, bu t they still w an t t ta ke action. Peoplewho have not been very

    aw ar e of social issues become more a w ar e and , again, opt for realistic

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    actions on those issues. We have had plenty of evidence of th is in our

    encounter groups and workshops. Irrational anger and violence are

    sometimes defused, bu t action of a more realistic sor t increases.

    One am using b it of personal evidence on this. When I received the

    copy of your open let ter , I was p ut tin g the finishing touches on a very

    strong statement about nuclear w ar and w hat might bedone t prevent

    it. I am tak ing a stan d ag ain st the policies of our government, which I

    feel ar e m aking nuclear w ar more likely. This is bu t one example of th e

    fact tha t we agree in

    so

    many ways i t is difficult to be exactly certain

    where we differ.

    I

    am sur e tha t you an d

    I

    ar e both a cting

    to

    do what we

    can

    t

    prevent this monstrous evil of nuclear war.

    You speak at leng th of th e fai lu re of people like myself and client-

    centered therapy to recognize, accept, an d respond t feelings of ange r,

    hostility, and negative feelings in general, perhaps especially those

    directed toward the therapist.

    I

    think tha t to some exten t this was

    definitely tr ue of m e in the dis tah t past, although I have also published

    exam ples of t he way in which I dealt with bit ter hostility toward me in

    therapy.

    I

    have never

    qu i t e

    agreed with the opinion of the outside

    evaluators in our schizophrenic research, t h at w e as a grou p dodged o r

    evaded th e negative o r hostile reactions. I have t recognize th at possibly

    th e evaluators were correct. Certainly in recent yea rs I feel th at I have

    responded much more adequately to such attitudes. The film, “Carl

    Rogers Counsels an IndividuaI: A nger an d Hurt,” of which considerable

    portions a r e published in The

    Comprehensive

    extbook of Pgychiatry/ZZI

    1980),

    how tha t I was responsive

    t

    both a nger and

    to

    the pain t ha t was

    discovered

    t

    be underlying it.

    I

    believe

    I

    have learned

    t

    be

    acceptant of

    ange r toward m e and toward others. The re may be tru th in wh at you say,

    th at client-centered t her api sts have a tendency not t accept or respond

    to such feelings. If

    so

    I regret this as much

    as

    you.

    Now I

    would like

    to

    t u r n ta the m ore fundamental issue.

    You

    have

    never seemed to ca re whether the evil impulses in ma n are genetic and

    inherent or whether they are acquired after birth. Fo r you they ar e ust

    there. Fo r me their origin m akesagreatdeal of difference ph il m ph ic al -

    1s;

    I

    would like

    t

    t r y

    to

    clarify my reasons.

    I

    feel th at the tendency

    toward actualization is inherent, I n this, man is like all othe r organisms.

    I can count on i t being present. It may ta ke biza rre an d futile forms. I

    have given an examp le of t he

    potatoes

    n a basement bin, se nding their

    feeble white sprouts up w ard in a futile effort to reach the light. I feel

    similarly about the deprived ghetto youth whose only path to ego

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    enhancement is to be the best m ugger or the most da rin g bu rgla r in his

    gang. My at titu de is sifnilar toward the psychotic in

    a

    back wa rd w ho is

    Jesus Christ. But the' basic, actualizing tendency operates toward

    fulfillment.

    I find in my experience no such innate tendency toward destructive-

    ness, toward evil. I cannot count on the certainty th a t this individual is

    str ivi ng consciously or unconsciously to fulfill an evil nature. 1do not

    find this in animals either. T he re is, however, one ra re exception which

    has s tuck in my m ind.

    I

    saw

    a

    television show

    of

    African wild dogs. Th ere

    was one female who was jealous of another. W hen t h e second female was

    absen t from her den, the firs t would go nto the den , remove one of the

    cubs, and kill it. This went on day after day until the litte r was totally

    destroyed.

    I

    can stiIl rem em ber my shock a t tha t, because it is so

    uncharacteristic of anim als. They kill, but normally only in the interest

    of actualizing themselves.

    I

    gath er t ha t you

    feel

    th e cent ral tendency in

    human nature is a dual one, aim ing both toward creative grow th and

    destructive evil. With the exception I have jus t mentioned, I don't find

    th at describes animal behavior, or plant behavior, or hu m an behavior.

    If

    the elements making for grow th a re present, th e actualizing tendency

    develops in positive ways. I n t he hu m an these elements for growth a re

    not only proper nutrition, etc., bu t a clim ate of psychological attitudes .

    So, how do I account for th e evil behavior th at issoobviously presen t

    in ou r world? In my experience, every person has t he capacity for evil

    behavior. I and others, have had murderous and cruel impulses, desires

    tohu rt, feelings

    of anger

    and rag e, desires to mpose ou r wills on others.

    I t is well

    to

    be ar in mind th at I also have

    a

    capacity

    to

    vomit, for example.

    Whether I , or anyone, will translate these impulses into behavior

    depends, it seems to me, on two elements: social conditioning and

    voluntary choice. Pe rha ps we c an use Hit ler

    as

    a n example. H is early

    personal life a nd social circumstances certainly made it na tura l th at he

    would try to fulfill himself by being a big-shot, a leader full of hatred

    tow ard those he perceived

    as

    esponsible for his humiliation. B ut beyond

    tha t, in a cts like the decision to ext erm ina te the Jews, a personal choice

    for which he was responsible was also a very re al factor.

    I believe that, theoretically at least, every evil behavior is bro ug ht

    about by varying degrees of these elements.

    I will adm it that there is much I don't understand abou t some evil

    behaviors. T he experimen ts by M ilgram and Zimbardo are a shocking

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    Reply

    puzzle t me, as hey were to the experimenters. Certainly Milgram’s

    subjects we re influenced by ou r education for conformity and Zim bar-

    do’s subjects by ou r-tr ain ing in prejudice. But

    I

    would agree with you

    th at those scarcely seem like ad equa te explanations.

    It is interesting that in our decisions about what to do abou t evil

    behavior and evil situations, we seem rem arka bly similar . We take th e

    best action we can see t oppose evil, to destroy the causes, tot r y to reach

    people who are acting in hurtful ways. I am pleased that

    I

    had the

    opportunity t work with groups composed of hostile and feuding

    individuals whose evil intentions toward one another w ere very evident.

    I n a grou p we worked with from Belfast, which included both Catholic

    and Protestant extremists as well

    as

    moderates. a Protestant young

    woman said in one of th e earlysessions, “If awounded IRA man were lying

    before m e on the stre et, I would step on him” This was typical of someof

    the bitter feelings expressed. Yet in a climte of understanding and

    acceptance those people changed

    so

    much in attitu des in a sho rt sixteen

    hours of contact that when they went back

    to

    BeIfast they worked in

    tea m s of two

    to

    show the film to grou ps in the in te rest of reconciliation.

    So I

    don’t for one m inute ag ree th at humanistic psychology,

    at

    least my

    kind of humanistic psychology, “cuts the nerve of social action.” It

    enhances social action.

    You talk

    at

    some length abou t the transformation th at

    I

    believe is

    coming to our world. H ere I am much influenced by th e thin kin g of men

    like Prigogine. T he cu rr en t pertu rbati ons in our society and in our world

    do seem

    to

    m e to pred ict th at the re isa n inevitablesocial transformation

    coming. In chem istry, and

    I

    believe in our cu ltu re, these ex trem es of

    perturbation lead toa reorganization, t a high er level of order. As o the

    person of tomorrow, I think you qu ite misunderstand m y description of

    th at person. I was spea king of the person who wouId be f i t to live in the

    transformed world, not the average person, and though

    I

    believe

    a

    transformation is inevitable, it certainly will not be a socially construc-

    tive transformation unless we

    all

    give it every effort. Th ere

    I

    think we

    can

    agree

    Curiously enough ther e is one minor point on which

    I

    think you a re

    much t optimistic. You speak twice of our culture deteriorating or

    disin tegra ting like the c ultur es of Greece and Rome. I think that is a

    possible scenario, bu t it is not w ha t will happen if we hav ea nuc lear war.

    I n th at case, our cu ltu re will be utte rly obliterated.

    It

    will not simply

    dete riora te or disintegrate.

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    Curl

    R.

    Roger8

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    Rollo, you have raised many profound points and this is I am well

    awa re, a hasty and in g e q u a te reply. Yet

    I

    hope th at between th e two

    documents people will be st irr ed to constructive thought. As1 said in my

    earlier published rem ark s abo ut you, you have been a g re at contributor

    t

    hum anistic psychology and

    I

    value you very much for that. I hold you

    in affectionate regard.

    Sincerely,

    Carl Rogers

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