RELATIONSHIPSESTABLISHING SOMETHING HEALTHY

BOARD PROMPT

• Designate a scribe for your groups response

STATISTICS 50 SHADES OF GREY

• Fifty Shades of Grey has topped best-seller lists around the world, including those of the United Kingdom and the United States. The series has sold over 125 million copies worldwide by June 2015 and has been translated into 52 languages, and set a record in the United Kingdom as the fastest-selling paperback of all time

STATISTICS ON TWILIGHT SAGA

• As of November 2011, the series has sold over 120 million copies worldwide with translations into at least 38 different languages around the globe. The four Twilight books have consecutively set records as the biggest selling novels of 2008 on the USA Today Best-Selling Books list and have spent over 235 weeks on the New York Times Best Seller list for Children's Series Books.

TWILIGHT VS. 50

SHADES OF GREY

https://www.lifesitenews.com/blogs/even-the-co-stars-think-50-shades-of-grey-is-awful-rubbish-and-maybe-even-a

THE ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP CYCLE

• Tension building phase

• Emotional abuse or threats

• Violent episode phase

• Act of physical abuse occurs: choking or hitting

• Honeymoon phase

• Couple makes-up

• This phase is often the reason people stay in abusive relationship

ABUSE

• Is any physical or emotional harm to someone.

• Neglect- when a caretaker fails to provide basic needs: food, clothing, or love

• Child abuse

• 3 million cases of child abouse are reported every year in the US.

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

• Is the use of force to control and maintain power over a spouse in the home

• Former spouse, fiancé, boyfriend, girlfriend can also commit domestic violence

HAZING

• Harassing newcomers to a group in an abusive and humiliating was

• Sports teams, clubs, sororities, and fraternities

EFFECTS OF ABUSE

• Depression

• Low self-esteem

• Poor appetite or overeating

• Low energy or fatigue

• Poor concentration

• Difficulty sleeping

• Feelings of worthlessness

• Feelings of guilt, shame, and anxiety

PROTECTING YOURSELF

• Create a supportive network of friends and family

• Avoid disrespectful people

• Be assertive

• Show disapproval

SEXUAL ABUSE AND VIOLENCE

SEXUAL ABUSE CONTINUED

SEXUAL HARASSMENT

RESPONDING TO SEXUAL HARASSMENT

SEXUAL ASSAULT AND RAPE

HELP AFTER SEXUAL ASSAULT

RAPE

• Unlawful sexual intercourse without consent of the victim

• Things to remember

• The victim is not to blame

• Rape is not about love

• Rape is not always violent

DATE RAPE

• Many times drugs or alcohol play into effect

• these lower a persons inhibitions

• Often times drugs that are used are named “date rape drugs” and are mixed into drinks

• rohypnol

• GHB

• Ketamine

PROTECTING YOURSELF

• Don’t spend time alone with someone who makes you feel uncomfortable

• Stay aware

• Be clear

• Don’t let peer pressure influence you

• Go out with a group of friends

GETTING HELP AFTER RAPE

• If you are hurt go directly to the ER

• Call a trusted friend or adult

• Report the rape

• Call 1-800-656-HOPE for help and guidance

• Write down as much as you can remember

• Seek counseling

CONSENT

• https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=laMtr-rUEmY

• What is consent?