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Excerpts from the speeches

ofRev. Sun Myung Moon

Excerpts from the speeches

of

Rev. Sun Myung Moon


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You should know the holiness and valueof the love of an original man and woman.

A person who hears whispering wordsfrom his or her lover can be said to be a happy

person. Whispered words of love in your earscan make you feel so happy that you feel youare in a dream. The time when happiness is themost flowering and most meaningful is duringyoung adulthood, when the power of love isoverflowing. This is the time when you cangrab love with all your might and becomeunified through love.

Ibecame aware of what true love andhappiness are through nature. It was from thenatural world that I could learn the most basic

things, more than from education in school.When the seasons changed and I saw a

beautiful bird flying, I followed the bird andwatched to see how it built its nest and lived.There were times when I walked around formore than ten days to see a bird lay eggs andhatch them. I became deeply convinced ofGod's mystery and love by looking at the cuteand beautiful birds... Birds are made to behatched through the warmth of their parent's

body and their parental love.I once picked up a baby bird and decided

to raise it sincerely. Although I took the babybird secretly, the mother bird cried whenevershe saw me. I understood that it was crying,

pleading to have her baby back. Mother's love

You should know the holiness and valueof the love of an original man and woman.

A person who hears whispering wordsfrom his or her lover can be said to be a happy

person. Whispered words of love in your earscan make you feel so happy that you feel youare in a dream. The time when happiness is themost flowering and most meaningful is duringyoung adulthood, when the power of love isoverflowing. This is the time when you cangrab love with all your might and becomeunified through love.

Ibecame aware of what true love andhappiness are through nature. It was from thenatural world that I could learn the most basicthings, more than from education in school.

When the seasons changed and I saw abeautiful bird flying, I followed the bird andwatched to see how it built its nest and lived.There were times when I walked around formore than ten days to see a bird lay eggs andhatch them. I became deeply convinced ofGod's mystery and love by looking at the cuteand beautiful birds... Birds are made to behatched through the warmth of their parent's

body and their parental love.I once picked up a baby bird and decided

to raise it sincerely. Although I took the babybird secretly, the mother bird cried whenevershe saw me. I understood that it was crying,

pleading to have her baby back. Mother's love

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in the bird's world is also very strong. Whensomeone comes and tries to take away the baby

bird, the parents try to protect it, even riskingtheir own lives.

When we reach adolescence, our mindand body start searching for love. We walk

around without even listening to the words ofour parents. The eyes of the mind and the eyesof the body unite into one and move around. Ifwe have a nose of love, we may come to likethe smell which we usually dislike. We want tolisten to love stories all night long. Once youtouch your object of love, you don't want tostop. Therefore, if you are invaded by thefeeling of love during your adolescence, youreyes turn strange and everything seemswonderful to you.

When your mind and body unite and you

fire a love gun, the bullet would be shot rightinto your partner's heart. Those of you whowish to have this kind of man's love orwoman's love, please raise your hand. There is

A person maturing centering on love islike a bud growing into fruit. God dwells insuch a perfected individual. If love cannot bematured, the form to bear fruit cannot bemade...

Everything on earth is created to perfectitself through a relationship of love. Therefore,we can say that every existence can become

perfect only through love.

Man can make his mind and body unitewhen he becomes one with the core of God'slove. Also, when man unites his mind and

body and returns back to the realm of God'slove, then man, as an unfallen original human

being, can grow toward individual perfection.

You are like a thief if you try to become abride of Jesus without being a virtuous woman.What if a woman living in a cave of robbers

claimed that her husband is a world-famouspresident, like President Kennedy? Everyonewould think she was crazy.

in the bird's world is also very strong. When

someone comes and tries to take away the babybird, the parents try to protect it, even riskingtheir own lives.

When we reach adolescence, our mindand body start searching for love. We walkaround without even listening to the words ofour parents. The eyes of the mind and the eyesof the body unite into one and move around. Ifwe have a nose of love, we may come to likethe smell which we usually dislike. We want tolisten to love stories all night long. Once youtouch your object of love, you don't want tostop. Therefore, if you are invaded by thefeeling of love during your adolescence, youreyes turn strange and everything seemswonderful to you.

When your mind and body unite and youfire a love gun, the bullet would be shot rightinto your partner's heart. Those of you whowish to have this kind of man's love orwoman's love, please raise your hand. There is

A person maturing centering on love is

like a bud growing into fruit. God dwells insuch a perfected individual. If love cannot bematured, the form to bear fruit cannot bemade...

Everything on earth is created to perfectitself through a relationship of love. Therefore,we can say that every existence can become

perfect only through love.Man can make his mind and body unite

when he becomes one with the core of God'slove. Also, when man unites his mind and

body and returns back to the realm of God'slove, then man, as an unfallen original human

being, can grow toward individual perfection.

You are like a thief if you try to become abride of Jesus without being a virtuous woman.What if a woman living in a cave of robbersclaimed that her husband is a world-famous

president, like President Kennedy? Everyonewould think she was crazy.

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became obvious that altruism is the path mostbeneficial to human society. It is the secret forliving in eternal happiness.

Today in this fallen world, love hasbecome the most dangerous thing. Because ofthe fall, if we do not take care of love, the

universe breaks apart and turns upside down.Man has not known why love became false andfilthy. Man has tried to protect love because ofhis original mind that desires true love toappear.

The perfection of an individual is notrealized through knowledge, power, or money.It is realized through love - not earthly love,

but the original love. Through this love,

everything can be perfected.

nothing love cannot digest. Love can eat anddigest everything. If you have true love, nomatter how ugly a man is, he will lookhandsome to you. Love is incredible. There-fore, whether good or bad, men and womencan never forget the first love they experiencedduring their adolescence.

Intense first love, done in a rightful andhonorable way, comes together and creates a

beautiful and powerful spark. The love of Godwill spark with that love and it becomes the

best, most extraordinary spark in Heaven. Theimpact of that spark is so strong that it flattensyou to the ground. Yet still you feel joyful,even knocked to the ground, because of theimpact of love.

The first spark of true love is so importantand it should not be misused. Once that intense

first spark of true love is misused, it is verydifficult to completely unwind that mistake.Each person has the duty to preserve his purefirst love until the time when it can spark for

became obvious that altruism is the path most

beneficial to human society. It is the secret forliving in eternal happiness.

Today in this fallen world, love hasbecome the most dangerous thing. Because ofthe fall, if we do not take care of love, theuniverse breaks apart and turns upside down.Man has not known why love became false andfilthy. Man has tried to protect love because ofhis original mind that desires true love toappear.

The perfection of an individual is notrealized through knowledge, power, or money.It is realized through love - not earthly love,

but the original love. Through this love,everything can be perfected.

nothing love cannot digest. Love can eat and

digest everything. If you have true love, nomatter how ugly a man is, he will lookhandsome to you. Love is incredible. There-fore, whether good or bad, men and womencan never forget the first love they experiencedduring their adolescence.

Intense first love, done in a rightful andhonorable way, comes together and creates a

beautiful and powerful spark. The love of Godwill spark with that love and it becomes the

best, most extraordinary spark in Heaven. Theimpact of that spark is so strong that it flattensyou to the ground. Yet still you feel joyful,even knocked to the ground, because of theimpact of love.

The first spark of true love is so importantand it should not be misused. Once that intensefirst spark of true love is misused, it is verydifficult to completely unwind that mistake.Each person has the duty to preserve his purefirst love until the time when it can spark for

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the sake of the universe and for God. There-fore, you should not behave in a casual waytoward your love. True love is noble andsacred; it is not vulgar or dirty, although thesacredness of love can be defiled if it ismisused.

When is a person in full bloom? It isduring young adulthood. This age is the seven-year period from the age of eighteen to twenty-five. This period of seven years is the timewhen the flower of love blossoms the most.How precious is this once-in-a-lifetime periodwhen one is fully blooming!

You all know the peony (magnolia), don'tyou? The bud of this flower has a different-colored yellow flower inside. How many layersof petals does it have? The petals are all tightlywound together on the flower. Can you push

them open? They are tightly coiled so that itcannot be easily opened up. Men and womenare similar to this. When is your bud of lovegoing to blossom? That time is when beauty is

very essence of God's own being. God'svibrations become your vibrations. God'sfeelings are naturally transmitted to you.Living this way, you become a resonant bodyof God's heart and love. As much as two tuningforks resonate together, you and God alwaysresonate together.

This is the ultimate, original state of thehuman being. When you achieve that state, the

love of God becomes your love, the life of Godbecomes your life, and the blood lineage ofGod becomes your blood lineage. The worldwhich God created becomes your world. Weare to share the love of God with all things inheaven and earth. We are to be citizens of theKingdom of God with the heart of parents.

Altruism - investing all of oneself forothers, for the nation and for the world, living a

life of sacrifice and service to others - may beconsidered by today's society to be a mostfoolish philosophy of life. As I came tounderstand the deepest truths, however, it

the sake of the universe and for God. There-

fore, you should not behave in a casual waytoward your love. True love is noble andsacred; it is not vulgar or dirty, although thesacredness of love can be defiled if it ismisused.

When is a person in full bloom? It isduring young adulthood. This age is the seven-year period from the age of eighteen to twenty-five. This period of seven years is the timewhen the flower of love blossoms the most.How precious is this once-in-a-lifetime periodwhen one is fully blooming!

You all know the peony (magnolia), don'tyou? The bud of this flower has a different-colored yellow flower inside. How many layersof petals does it have? The petals are all tightlywound together on the flower. Can you pushthem open? They are tightly coiled so that itcannot be easily opened up. Men and womenare similar to this. When is your bud of lovegoing to blossom? That time is when beauty is

very essence of God's own being. God's

vibrations become your vibrations. God'sfeelings are naturally transmitted to you.Living this way, you become a resonant bodyof God's heart and love. As much as two tuningforks resonate together, you and God alwaysresonate together.

This is the ultimate, original state of thehuman being. When you achieve that state, thelove of God becomes your love, the life of God

becomes your life, and the blood lineage ofGod becomes your blood lineage. The worldwhich God created becomes your world. Weare to share the love of God with all things inheaven and earth. We are to be citizens of theKingdom of God with the heart of parents.

Altruism - investing all of oneself forothers, for the nation and for the world, living alife of sacrifice and service to others - may beconsidered by today's society to be a mostfoolish philosophy of life. As I came tounderstand the deepest truths, however, it

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and to make them unable to come closer toGod. Once we are trapped, you can only die or

be dominated by Satan. Western people oftoday, especially in the United States, areunable to form a true family because of the

prevalence of free love. The number of peoplewho have failed in their family life isincreasing, and the people who are unable tohave a family are becoming dominant. I can

definitely say with confidence that Americansociety has become a hellish society wherelove has dried up and where distrust, anxietyand fear are dominant. You must know thatyou who are living in this age have theresponsibility and duty to clean up this societyand build one flowing with the love for whichGod hopes.

Only love transcends all barriers. When

you are united with God in true love, you havedominion over all of God's creation, both

physical and spiritual. When you livecompletely for others, you are reaching the

manifested to the greatest degree.

You should not ruin your purity duringyour adolescence, which is the precious timewhen you cleanse and indemnify the purity lost

by Adam and Eve during their youth. Youshould preserve your purity, precious and

clean, and you should have the mind and thedetermination that "even if I have to live athousand or ten thousand years alone, my lovewill absolutely never be misused."

Even to the most beautiful girl, adoles-cence only comes once. During that time, sheis the most beautiful flower of all, and it is themost precious time for her in her entirelifetime. So would a girl think, "I want to live

alone"? Such a person is not a woman. Doessuch an animal exist? Also, among men wholook very good at the age around sixteen,would any of them say he wants to live alone?

and to make them unable to come closer to

God. Once we are trapped, you can only die orbe dominated by Satan. Western people oftoday, especially in the United States, areunable to form a true family because of the

prevalence of free love. The number of peoplewho have failed in their family life isincreasing, and the people who are unable tohave a family are becoming dominant. I candefinitely say with confidence that Americansociety has become a hellish society wherelove has dried up and where distrust, anxietyand fear are dominant. You must know thatyou who are living in this age have theresponsibility and duty to clean up this societyand build one flowing with the love for whichGod hopes.

Only love transcends all barriers. Whenyou are united with God in true love, you havedominion over all of God's creation, both

physical and spiritual. When you livecompletely for others, you are reaching the

manifested to the greatest degree.

You should not ruin your purity duringyour adolescence, which is the precious timewhen you cleanse and indemnify the purity lost

by Adam and Eve during their youth. Youshould preserve your purity, precious andclean, and you should have the mind and thedetermination that "even if I have to live athousand or ten thousand years alone, my lovewill absolutely never be misused."

Even to the most beautiful girl, adoles-cence only comes once. During that time, sheis the most beautiful flower of all, and it is themost precious time for her in her entirelifetime. So would a girl think, "I want to livealone"? Such a person is not a woman. Doessuch an animal exist? Also, among men wholook very good at the age around sixteen,would any of them say he wants to live alone?

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At this time they all start to look for areciprocal partner. Whom do they resemblethat makes them this way? They are this way

because they resemble God. If God is not likethis, how can His children be like this? It is

because God is like that. During adolescence,which is the most precious time in one's life,the desire to seek a partner is the same in manand woman. Is it so, or not? If you think it's

not, go ahead and age and die alone.Try saying to a beautiful woman,

"Beautiful women are said to be unfortunate. Abeautiful person like you should age and diealone." Even a quiet beautiful woman wouldreally get mad. Nothing worse can be said to a

person. This beautiful woman will have valueonly when there is a man who appreciates hercompletely and connects her to heavenly love.

In giving of the love of God to otherpeople, you are sharing your love with them.Then your love, rather than being diminished,will be multiplied. You will be proud of what

Freedom is also the same. True freedomcannot be realized alone. True freedom is whatcan be gained within love, together with love.Only within love can eternal freedom blossom.

Do parents have to go to school in orderto learn how to love their children? People

know love without learning it. Man andwoman didn't learn how to make a baby.People don't study how the meeting of twostrangers turns into the creation of a husbandand a wife, much less how to create a familyout of such a bond. Love is not taught nor is itto be learned from school. It is not a subject forthe experimental method in order to prove howit works. There have been no schools to teachlove and there will be no schools to teach it inthe future.

The free love rampant in today's world isa trap which Satan made to cause men to fall

At this time they all start to look for a

reciprocal partner. Whom do they resemblethat makes them this way? They are this waybecause they resemble God. If God is not likethis, how can His children be like this? It is

because God is like that. During adolescence,which is the most precious time in one's life,the desire to seek a partner is the same in manand woman. Is it so, or not? If you think it'snot, go ahead and age and die alone.

Try saying to a beautiful woman,"Beautiful women are said to be unfortunate. A

beautiful person like you should age and diealone." Even a quiet beautiful woman wouldreally get mad. Nothing worse can be said to a

person. This beautiful woman will have valueonly when there is a man who appreciates hercompletely and connects her to heavenly love.

In giving of the love of God to otherpeople, you are sharing your love with them.Then your love, rather than being diminished,will be multiplied. You will be proud of what

Freedom is also the same. True freedom

cannot be realized alone. True freedom is whatcan be gained within love, together with love.Only within love can eternal freedom blossom.

Do parents have to go to school in orderto learn how to love their children? Peopleknow love without learning it. Man andwoman didn't learn how to make a baby.People don't study how the meeting of twostrangers turns into the creation of a husbandand a wife, much less how to create a familyout of such a bond. Love is not taught nor is itto be learned from school. It is not a subject forthe experimental method in order to prove howit works. There have been no schools to teachlove and there will be no schools to teach it inthe future.

The free love rampant in today's world isa trap which Satan made to cause men to fall

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people are just strangers. Instead, you shouldconsider them as your parents and should beable to cry together with them if they are in asad situation. You should always have such aheart.

Originally, making love is not something

of which to be ashamed. It is supposed to bethe noblest, holiest and most beautiful thing.Because the human ancestors committed a sinof love, the history of love has flowed in ashameful direction.

Love can never be felt alone. Peace is alsonot what we talk about regarding just onecountry. It is formed from a reciprocalrelationship between two or more countries.

Happiness is also the same. Can we feelhappy alone? We can feel true happiness onlywhen we have an equal reciprocal relationshipwith a partner and when we love each other.

you have given. Only by giving can wereceive. So we want to give of our whole

being. We want to give of our family, our clan,our nation, and our whole world to God. Inreturn He will fill our hearts with such lovethat we can embrace the whole world and thewhole cosmos.

Respect all things as holy things. Respectall men as holy men. Respect yourself as aholy person. Respect your mind as holy.Respect your body as holy. Pay deep respect toall people, no matter what kind of person theymay be.

When we think that the people who havedivorced or are willing to divorce are all

people who once were in a love relationship oflife and death, we must say that something hasgone wrong. There may be many reasons to getdivorced, but in general it means that

people are just strangers. Instead, you should

consider them as your parents and should beable to cry together with them if they are in asad situation. You should always have such aheart.

Originally, making love is not somethingof which to be ashamed. It is supposed to bethe noblest, holiest and most beautiful thing.Because the human ancestors committed a sinof love, the history of love has flowed in ashameful direction.

Love can never be felt alone. Peace is alsonot what we talk about regarding just onecountry. It is formed from a reciprocalrelationship between two or more countries.

Happiness is also the same. Can we feelhappy alone? We can feel true happiness onlywhen we have an equal reciprocal relationshipwith a partner and when we love each other.

you have given. Only by giving can we

receive. So we want to give of our wholebeing. We want to give of our family, our clan,our nation, and our whole world to God. Inreturn He will fill our hearts with such lovethat we can embrace the whole world and thewhole cosmos.

Respect all things as holy things. Respectall men as holy men. Respect yourself as aholy person. Respect your mind as holy.Respect your body as holy. Pay deep respect toall people, no matter what kind of person theymay be.

When we think that the people who havedivorced or are willing to divorce are all

people who once were in a love relationship oflife and death, we must say that something hasgone wrong. There may be many reasons to getdivorced, but in general it means that

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something changed, that something becamedifferent between the two. This is because theycould not keep and grow their love. Love itselfdoes not change; it is the person's mind thatchanges.

We first get married thinking that the man

is handsome. But one week later, if an accidenthappens and the husband's body is paralyzed, itis not true love to call for a divorce. That isfalse love.

True love is absolute, unchanging, andeternal.

You will be in trouble if you try to rushthe experience of love. The feeling of beingintoxicated by love and becoming happy is likea preview of what is to come when the time is

forms a harmony of yin and yang, others mustfollow as well.

If a man and woman are a God-centeredcouple, we can conclude that the wife can gowherever the husband goes and the husbandcan go wherever the wife goes, and the couple

can go wherever God dwells.For whom is man supposed to live?

Adam's value of existence could not be per-fected until Eve was created. Therefore, forAdam to exist eternally, he needs Eve as hisspouse. In this sense, woman can be said to bea man's subject. It is the power of love whichallows both man to dominate woman andwoman to dominate man. No power other thanlove can make man and woman dominate eachother. Only with love can they dominate eachother.

Wherever you go, you shouldn't think

something changed, that something became

different between the two. This is because theycould not keep and grow their love. Love itselfdoes not change; it is the person's mind thatchanges.

We first get married thinking that the manis handsome. But one week later, if an accidenthappens and the husband's body is paralyzed, itis not true love to call for a divorce. That isfalse love.

True love is absolute, unchanging, andeternal.

You will be in trouble if you try to rushthe experience of love. The feeling of beingintoxicated by love and becoming happy is likea preview of what is to come when the time is

forms a harmony of yin and yang, others must

follow as well.

If a man and woman are a God-centeredcouple, we can conclude that the wife can gowherever the husband goes and the husbandcan go wherever the wife goes, and the couplecan go wherever God dwells.

For whom is man supposed to live?Adam's value of existence could not be per-fected until Eve was created. Therefore, forAdam to exist eternally, he needs Eve as hisspouse. In this sense, woman can be said to bea man's subject. It is the power of love whichallows both man to dominate woman andwoman to dominate man. No power other thanlove can make man and woman dominate eachother. Only with love can they dominate eachother.

Wherever you go, you shouldn't think

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Woman should make the fragrance of lovespread out to the far distance like the morningglory flower.

Man symbolizes heaven and woman

symbolizes earth. Man and woman must cometogether and realize harmony.

Man and woman are different from eachother. Man's muscles are hard, but woman's aresmooth. Men have beards, but women do not.Their voices are different, also. When man andwoman are matched in a reciprocal position,harmony is made...

Man and woman must be harmonized,becoming a parallel line. Why do people likeDisneyland, with all the different kinds ofvehicles going up and down? It is because the

universe is like that. Which strikes one asfeeling better: the harmony of only man or theharmony of man and woman? This is becausethe universe is like that. Because the universe

right for the gate of love to open... The gateshould proudly open when you have becomethe master of love.

Achieving the highest ideal of human loveis possible only when one takes responsibilityfor love. We can think of this responsibility in

three ways. The first responsibility is for one tobecome the master of true love, truly free andthanking God for the freedom of love andknowing how to cultivate and control oneself.This responsibility for a love relationshipshould not be taken merely because of law orsocial convention. Instead, a person shouldestablish responsibility through his own self-control within the life-committing verticalrelationship with God.

Second is one's responsibility toward theobject of love. By nature, people do not want

their spouse's love to be shared with others.Horizontal conjugal love, which differs fromthe vertical love between parents and children,loses its potential for perfection the moment it

Woman should make the fragrance of lovespread out to the far distance like the morningglory flower.

Man symbolizes heaven and womansymbolizes earth. Man and woman must cometogether and realize harmony.

Man and woman are different from eachother. Man's muscles are hard, but woman's aresmooth. Men have beards, but women do not.Their voices are different, also. When man andwoman are matched in a reciprocal position,harmony is made...

Man and woman must be harmonized,becoming a parallel line. Why do people likeDisneyland, with all the different kinds ofvehicles going up and down? It is because theuniverse is like that. Which strikes one asfeeling better: the harmony of only man or theharmony of man and woman? This is becausethe universe is like that. Because the universe

right for the gate of love to open... The gate

should proudly open when you have becomethe master of love.

Achieving the highest ideal of human loveis possible only when one takes responsibilityfor love. We can think of this responsibility inthree ways. The first responsibility is for one to

become the master of true love, truly free andthanking God for the freedom of love andknowing how to cultivate and control oneself.This responsibility for a love relationshipshould not be taken merely because of law orsocial convention. Instead, a person shouldestablish responsibility through his own self-control within the life-committing verticalrelationship with God.

Second is one's responsibility toward theobject of love. By nature, people do not wanttheir spouse's love to be shared with others.Horizontal conjugal love, which differs fromthe vertical love between parents and children,loses its potential for perfection the moment it

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is divided. This is because the principle ofcreation requires husband and wife to becomeone in absolute love. Each spouse has theresponsibility given by love to live absolutelyfor the sake of the other.

The third responsibility of love is towardchildren. The love of parents is the basis forchildren's pride and happiness. They wouldwish to be born through the total and

harmonious unity of their parents in true love,and they would wish to be raised in that kindof love. The most precious responsibility of

parents is not only to rear their childrenexternally, but also to offer them life elementsof true love that can perfect their spirituality.That is why the family is so valuable.

Recently, we see people here and theremaking love as if they were making instant

food. This is a problem. This is like trying todeepen love by taking a perfume bath. I wouldsay that love is deepened, purified, and lastslonger when a couple living in the countryside

Then how can the woman's purpose berealized? It cannot be realized by the womanalone. This is impossible. It must be realizedtogether with a man. Wouldn't the joy of manand woman lie here? It is not something thatcan be argued.

What is the most precious thing forwoman? It is man. What kind of man does awoman need? Whether the man is great ordisabled is not a problem. The problem iswhether or not you can find a valuable lovefrom him.

The perfection of man and woman's love

is the perfection of the universe. When thislove is broken, the order of the universe andthe vertical world are destroyed.

is divided. This is because the principle ofcreation requires husband and wife to becomeone in absolute love. Each spouse has theresponsibility given by love to live absolutelyfor the sake of the other.

The third responsibility of love is towardchildren. The love of parents is the basis forchildren's pride and happiness. They wouldwish to be born through the total andharmonious unity of their parents in true love,and they would wish to be raised in that kindof love. The most precious responsibility of

parents is not only to rear their childrenexternally, but also to offer them life elements

of true love that can perfect their spirituality.That is why the family is so valuable.

Recently, we see people here and theremaking love as if they were making instantfood. This is a problem. This is like trying todeepen love by taking a perfume bath. I wouldsay that love is deepened, purified, and lastslonger when a couple living in the countryside

Then how can the woman's purpose berealized? It cannot be realized by the womanalone. This is impossible. It must be realizedtogether with a man. Wouldn't the joy of manand woman lie here? It is not something thatcan be argued.

What is the most precious thing forwoman? It is man. What kind of man does awoman need? Whether the man is great or

disabled is not a problem. The problem iswhether or not you can find a valuable lovefrom him.

The perfection of man and woman's loveis the perfection of the universe. When thislove is broken, the order of the universe andthe vertical world are destroyed.

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circular movement. Going straight cannotbring any harmony. When we go back andforth on a straight road, it will not bring anyharmony, but only will destroy theenvironment. Everything must go around inorder to preserve and bring harmony to theenvironment. Everything must go around forthis reason. But we cannot go aroundourselves. We need to go around centering on

our reciprocal partner (spouse).Coming together with our partner will

start a circular movement automatically. Thisis the principle of heaven and earth. Therefore,

physical changes occur in girls to enable themto meet their partner and to go around. Whentwo people are attracted to each other, theredevelops a power to make them go around.Therefore, the reason women dress up andwear makeup is not for their own sake, but fortheir partners.

Achieving the highest ideal of human loveis possible.

take a cold bath and sleep together.When we look at recent generations, we

can say that calculating, artificial and deceitfullove is so widespread that it confuses ourconcept of what human happiness is. We cansay that this kind of love is the main criminalleading this world to destruction.

Marriage can be said to be a ceremonywhich allows you to open the door of a palaceof happiness and enter into it. Therefore,marriage is the biggest event for humankind.Love transcends time and space and it is thegreatest thing for humankind. Marriage is aceremony that reveals and confirms thisgreatest love.

If there were no marriage, then what iscalled love would not have started in thehuman world. Who is the master of that love?We must know that the master is not man or

circular movement. Going straight cannotbring any harmony. When we go back andforth on a straight road, it will not bring anyharmony, but only will destroy theenvironment. Everything must go around inorder to preserve and bring harmony to theenvironment. Everything must go around forthis reason. But we cannot go aroundourselves. We need to go around centering onour reciprocal partner (spouse).

Coming together with our partner willstart a circular movement automatically. Thisis the principle of heaven and earth. Therefore,

physical changes occur in girls to enable them

to meet their partner and to go around. Whentwo people are attracted to each other, theredevelops a power to make them go around.Therefore, the reason women dress up andwear makeup is not for their own sake, but fortheir partners.

Achieving the highest ideal of human loveis possible.

take a cold bath and sleep together.When we look at recent generations, we

can say that calculating, artificial and deceitfullove is so widespread that it confuses ourconcept of what human happiness is. We cansay that this kind of love is the main criminalleading this world to destruction.

Marriage can be said to be a ceremonywhich allows you to open the door of a palaceof happiness and enter into it. Therefore,marriage is the biggest event for humankind.

Love transcends time and space and it is thegreatest thing for humankind. Marriage is aceremony that reveals and confirms thisgreatest love.

If there were no marriage, then what iscalled love would not have started in thehuman world. Who is the master of that love?We must know that the master is not man or

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woman, but God. When God's love is mani-fested in us, it becomes God's joy and pride,and we are able to feel this as God's love.

Love cannot be realized alone; it is onlyrealized through a reciprocal relationship.Therefore, when man tries to realize love, hecannot do it by himself alone. The same can besaid about woman. When Adam and Eve unitethrough love, they are able to receive God's

love for the first time. From this viewpoint, wecan understand that we human beings are bornfrom God.

When two people who love each othergive and take in a reciprocal relationship,consoling each other when they are sad,sharing joy together when they are happy,helping each other when they have difficultiesand going forward together before God, this

indeed is married life on the foundation ofGod's love.

The reason God made man and womannot in heaven but on earth was to realize God's

love horizontally. When you form a subjectand object relationship and unite horizontally,the love combines the two with the subject,God, in a vertical relationship of love. This factis extremely important.

During our childhood, we desire only to

grow up healthy. But when we reach adoles-cence, changes occur physically and mentally;our interest in the opposite sex grows and we'reattracted to good looks. Externally, we try todress up fashionably and concentrate onmaking our faces look more beautiful. We cantell if a girl has reached adolescence or not bythe look of her lips.

Girls will begin menstruating and theirphysical body will start to look different. Theirhips grow bigger, breasts develop, lips growred and their eyes begin to have a mysterious

glow. For what and whom do you think thesephysical changes occur?

These physical changes occur to make astraight road go around in circles, to start a

woman, but God. When God's love is mani-fested in us, it becomes God's joy and pride,and we are able to feel this as God's love.

Love cannot be realized alone; it is onlyrealized through a reciprocal relationship.Therefore, when man tries to realize love, hecannot do it by himself alone. The same can besaid about woman. When Adam and Eve unitethrough love, they are able to receive God'slove for the first time. From this viewpoint, wecan understand that we human beings are bornfrom God.

When two people who love each othergive and take in a reciprocal relationship,consoling each other when they are sad,sharing joy together when they are happy,helping each other when they have difficultiesand going forward together before God, thisindeed is married life on the foundation ofGod's love.

The reason God made man and womannot in heaven but on earth was to realize God's

love horizontally. When you form a subjectand object relationship and unite horizontally,the love combines the two with the subject,God, in a vertical relationship of love. This factis extremely important.

During our childhood, we desire only togrow up healthy. But when we reach adoles-cence, changes occur physically and mentally;our interest in the opposite sex grows and we'reattracted to good looks. Externally, we try todress up fashionably and concentrate on

making our faces look more beautiful. We cantell if a girl has reached adolescence or not bythe look of her lips.

Girls will begin menstruating and theirphysical body will start to look different. Theirhips grow bigger, breasts develop, lips growred and their eyes begin to have a mysteriousglow. For what and whom do you think these

physical changes occur?These physical changes occur to make a

straight road go around in circles, to start a

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