Perceptive Communication Skills
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Transcript of Perceptive Communication Skills
Thematic Table Topic:“Perceptive
Communication”
April 21, 2010Topic Master:
VP of EducationKim, Sung-Jin
SU TOAST, Syracuse University Students Chapter of Toastmasters International
Topic: Communicating Mindfully
“Reflective Listening Skill”• Mindfulness:
1) Being fully present in the moment2) Seeing things as they are without trying to
change them
• Reflective Listening:“A skill that involves listening intently for an individual’s feelings and values, as well as the issue(s) to be resolved”
SU TOAST, Syracuse University Students Chapter of Toastmasters International
The Purpose of Today’s Topic
Develop ways of pulling yourself into the present
SU TOAST, Syracuse University Students Chapter of Toastmasters International
Key Factor: Identification of feeling, values and issues
• It sounds like you’re really concerned about your girl friend and her safety is important to you. Is this right?
• It sounds like you’re annoyed that your neighbor wants you to keep it down while you’re having a ball at night, and you appreciate it your personal choice. Did I get that?
SU TOAST, Syracuse University Students Chapter of Toastmasters International
Combination of Key Factor to Mindfulness
• How-To
“Emotional Intelligence”
{ self-awareness, resilience, empathy }
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Examples of Positive Feeling
Accepted; appreciated; apprehensive
balanced;connected cared for;supported comfortable confident; proud delighted; happy deserving;respected eager, anxious
• Negative
encouraged; elated; enthused;exhilarated
focused grateful; gratified hopeful relieved responsible; secure sympathetic
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Examples of Negative Feeling abandoned;alienate;alo
ne accused;attacked;
blamed afraid;fearful;
frightened; terrified annoyed;agitated;aggr
avated;angry;bitter;infuriated ambivalent;uncertain
anxious; concerned confused cheated;betrayed empty
ashamed awkward beaten;defeated bewildered bored burned out;drained compromised crushed;devastated desperate disappointed;disgust
ed overwhelemed
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Example of Values
acceptance accomplishment;succ
ess accuracy acknowledgement appreciation belonging cleanliness;neatness consistency commitment
cooperation;teamwork
spontaneity
creativity dependability independence discipline;self-
control diversity;flexibility fairness family;friendship integrity personal choice privacy safetySU TOAST, Syracuse University Students Chapter of Toastmasters International
Reference
• Reflective Listening Skill SIRU Conflict Resolution Workshop hosted
by Robbi: www.communicating-mindfully.com
• Mindfulness & Emotional Intelligence Dan Huston’s materials Daniel Goleman, “Emotional Intelligence”
SU TOAST, Syracuse University Students Chapter of Toastmasters International