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    jr j`ueitahl | jkphwjralf farcs | ehkkulaeitahl soaccs | `jeasahl-k

    ccs | tbaloalf soaccs | rjcitahlsbap soaccs | jkhtahl kilifjkjlt soac

    j soaccs prhfrik | issjrtavjljss | duac`alf i dra`fj | jxebilfalf sth

    j kh`jcs | pjjr j`ueitahl | `jeasahl-kioalf soaccs | tbj cagj soaccs p

    loalf soaccs | rjcitahlsbap soaccs | jkhtahl kilifjkjlt soaccs | issj

    Cagj

    Uoaccs

    Kiluic

    ^jiej Ehrps

    Alghrkitahl Ehccjetahl il` Jxebilfj

    ^udcaeitahl Lh. K>>75

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    Alghrkitahl Ehccjetahl il` Jxebilfj

    Pbj ^jiej Ehrps Alghrkitahl Ehccjetahl il` Jxebilfj (AEJ), i ulat hg tbj Hgej hg Hvjrsjis

    ^rhfrikkalf il` Prialalf Uupphrt (H^IPU), kiojs iviacidcj tbj stritjfajs il` tjeblhchfajs

    `jvjchpj` dy ^jiej Ehrps Whcultjjrs, tbjar eh-whrojrs, il` tbjar ehultjrpirts th `jvjchpkjlthrfilazitahls il` whrojrs wbh kafbt l` tbjk usjguc. AEJ whros watb jiej Ehrps tjeblaeic

    il` trialalf spjeaicasts th a`jltagy il` `jvjchp alghrkitahl hg icc oal`s th supphrt Whcultjjrs

    il` hvjrsjis stigg. AEJ icsh ehccjets il` `assjkalitjs trialalf fua`js, eurraeuci, cjsshl pcils,

    prhmjet rjphrts, kiluics, il` htbjr ^jiej Ehrps-fjljritj` kitjraics `jvjchpj` al tbj jc`.

    Uhkj kitjraics irj rjpraltj` is as? htbjrs prhva`j i shurej hg jc`-disj` alghrkitahl ghr tbj

    prh`uetahl hg kiluics hr ghr rjsjireb al pirtaeucir prhfrik irjis. Kitjraics tbit yhu sudkat th

    AEJ djehkj pirt hg tbj ^jiej Ehrps cirfjr ehltradutahl th `jvjchpkjlt.

    Pbas pudcaeitahl wis prh`uej` dy ^jiej Ehrps H^IPU. At as `astradutj` tbrhufb tbj AEJ ulat.

    Ghr gurtbjr alghrkitahl idhut AEJ kitjraics (pjrah`aeics, dhhos, va`jhs, jte.) il` alghrkitahlsjrvaejs, hr ghr i``atahlic ehpajs hg tbas kiluic, pcjisj ehltiet AEJ il` rjgjr th tbj AEJ eitichf

    lukdjr tbit ippjirs hl tbj pudcaeitahl.

    ^jiej Ehrps

    Hgej hg Hvjrsjis ^rhfrikkalf il` Prialalf Uupphrt

    Alghrkitahl Ehccjetahl il` Jxebilfj

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    Pjc= 4>4.714.470>

    Gix= 4>4.714.4709

    Idra`fj` @jwjy @jeakic Ecissaeitahl (@@E) Lukdjr= 5>5.00

    Ubirj yhur jxpjrajlej!

    I`` yhur jxpjrajlej th tbj AEJ Tjshurej Ejltjr. Ujl` yhur kitjraics th us sh wj eil sbirj tbjk

    watb htbjr `jvjchpkjlt whrojrs. Qhur tjeblaeic alsafbts sjrvj is tbj disas ghr tbj fjljritahl hg

    AEJ kitjraics, rjpralts, il` trialalf kitjraics. Pbjy icsh jlsurj tbit AEJ as prhva`alf tbj khst

    up-th-`itj allhvitavj prhdcjk-shcvalf tjeblaqujs il` alghrkitahl iviacidcj th yhu il` yhur

    gjcchw `jvjchpkjlt whrojrs.

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    CAGJUOACCUKILZIC

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    EHLPJLPU

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    EHLPJLPU

    Ieolhwcj`fkjlts ................................................................................................................................:

    ^irt A= Pbj Cagj Uoaccs rhfrikDieofrhul` il` Altrh`uetahl .....................................................6

    Vjcehkj th tbj Cagj Uoaccs ^rhfrik! ............................................................................................................ 1

    Cjsshls Cjirlj` .......................................................................................................................................... 9:

    Uikpcj Uebj`ucjs ........................................................................................................................................ 44

    Ujssahl 9= Pbj Dra`fj Kh`jc= Bhw @h Vj Duac` i Dra`fj Grhk Alghrkitahl th Djbivahr Ebilfj8 ...... 46

    Ujssahl 4= A`jltagyalf tbj Kassalf Cagj Uoacc .............................................................................................. 57

    ^irt AA= ^jjr J`ueitahl .....................................................................................................................51

    ^jjr J`ueithrs ............................................................................................................................................. 09

    Ujssahl 9= @jicalf Vatb rhdcjks al Frhups ............................................................................................. 0:

    Ujssahl 4= Uupphrt ghr Tjsphlsadcj Djbivahr ............................................................................................ 01

    ^irt AAA= Giealf Giets idhut BAW/IA@U il` UP@s.........................................................................:5

    Giealf Giets idhut BAW/IA@U il` UP@s ................................................................................................... ::

    Ujssahl 9= Giets il` Kytbs idhut BAW/IA@U ............................................................................................. :6

    Ujssahl 4= Pbj Akkulj Uystjk .................................................................................................................. 74

    Ujssahl 5= Bhw BAW as Prilskattj` ............................................................................................................ 72

    Ujssahl 0= Pbj Tjcitahlsbap hg UP@s il` BAW/IA@U................................................................................. 65

    Ujssahl := Vhkjl il` BAW/IA@U .............................................................................................................. 66

    Ujssahl 7= BAW ^rjvjltahl .......................................................................................................................... 25

    Ujssahl 6= @asjisj ^rhfrjssahl il` ^hsatavj Djbivahrs ............................................................................. 22

    Ujssahl 2= Eurj hr Prjitkjlt8 ..................................................................................................................... 15

    Ujssahl 1= BAW/IA@U il` Bukil Tafbts ................................................................................................... 12

    Ujssahl 9>= BAW/IA@U il` Djbivahr Ebilfj .......................................................................................... 9>0

    ^irt AW= Ehkkulaeitahl Uoaccs .......................................................................................................9>1

    Ujssahl 9= Ehkkulaeitahl ^uzzcj .............................................................................................................999

    Ujssahl 4= Issjrtavjljss= Ittieo il` Ivha` .............................................................................................. 996

    Ujssahl 5= Issjrtavjljss= ^issavj, Issjrtavj, Iffrjssavj ......................................................................... 949

    Ujssahl 0= Issjrtavjljss= Issjrtavj Kjssifjs .......................................................................................... 946

    Ujssahl := Issjrtavjljss/^jjr ^rjssurj= Tjsphl`alf th ^jrsuisahl^irt A ............................................. 954

    Ujssahl 7= Issjrtavjljss/^jjr ^rjssurj= Tjsphl`alf th ^jrsuisahl^irt AA ........................................... 956

    ^irt W= @jeasahlKioalf Uoaccs ......................................................................................................905

    Ujssahl 9= Utjps al Kioalf i Fhh` @jeasahl............................................................................................ 90:

    Ujssahl 4= Must Djtwjjl Zs ....................................................................................................................... 901

    Ujssahl 5= Jxebilfalf UthrajsThcj Kh`jcs (Pbj ^jrshl A I`karj) ................................................. 9:4

    Ujssahl 0= Qhur Cagj Uthry ......................................................................................................................... 9:7

    Ujssahl := Qhur Fhics ................................................................................................................................ 9:1

    Ujssahl 7= Jircy ^rjfliley ....................................................................................................................... 975

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    Ujssahl 6= Icehbhc il` @ruf Zsj .............................................................................................................. 97:

    Ujssahl 2= Taso DjbivahrPjstalf tbj Vitjrs ......................................................................................... 971

    Ujssahl 1= @jciyalf Ujx ............................................................................................................................ 960

    ^irt WA= Tjcitahlsbap Uoaccs ............................................................................................................929

    Ujssahl 9= Pbj Djst Tjsphlsj Fikj......................................................................................................... 925

    Ujssahl 4= Hb! Bjlry! il` Kilifalf Jkhtahls Ficcjry Vico................................................................. 926

    Ujssahl 5= jjr ^rjssurj Thcj ^ciys .......................................................................................................... 91>

    Ujssahl 0= Vbit as Chvj8 .......................................................................................................................... 915

    Ujssahl := UjcgJstjjk Duac`alf= @h Vj Bivj UjcgJstjjk8 ................................................................. 917

    Ujssahl 7= UjcgJstjjk Duac alf= I it hl tbj Dieo ............................................................................ 911

    Ujssahl 6= Vbit irj Fjl`jr Thcjs8Fjl`jr Eir`s Jxjreasj .................................................................. 4>9

    Ujssahl 2= Fjl`jr ^aeturj Eh`js il` Thcj ^ciys ...................................................................................... 4>:

    Ujssahl 1= Fjl`jr il` Eucturj= A`jic Akifjs il` ^jrshlic @jstrhyjrs .................................................... 499

    Ujssahl 9>= Vbhsj Tafbts il` Vbhs Tafbt= I Chho it Dra`j ^raej ........................................................ 490

    ^irt WAA= Dralfalf At Icc Phfjtbjr ..................................................................................................496Ghruk Pbjitjr ........................................................................................................................................... 491

    Ippjl`aejs ........................................................................................................................................44:

    Ippjl`ax A= VirkZps il` Jljrfazjrs .................................................................................................... 446

    Ippjl`ax AA= Yuaeo Drjios! ...................................................................................................................... 452

    Ippjl`ax AAA= Isshrtj` A`jis ..................................................................................................................... 451

    Ippjl`ax AW= Fikjs il` Ujssahl A`jis .................................................................................................... 400

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    IEOLHVCJ@FKJLPU

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    PbasCagj Uoaccs Kiluicwis ehkpacj` il` i`iptj` grhk kitjraics erjitj` dy tbj ghc-

    chwalf hrfilazitahls= Vhrc` Bjictb Hrfilazitahl? Zlatj` Litahls J`ueitahlic, Uea-

    jltae il` Eucturic Hrfilazitahl (ZLJUEH)? Icaej Vjcdhurl il` IEPAHLIA@? tbj

    Eurraeucuk @jvjchpkjlt Zlat, Kalastry hg J`ueitahl, ]akdidwj? il` ZLAEJG, Birirj.

    Vj fritjguccy ieolhwcj`fj tbj ticjlt il` soacc hg tbj iutbhrs hg tbhsj kitjraics.

    Pbj ^jiej Ehrps icsh ipprjeaitjs tbj whro hg Oitbcjjl Eiccibil, wbh `jvjchpj` tbj

    Cagj Uoaccs Kiluic, il` Tutb Khti, Igraeil Bjictb Upjeaicast, tbj iutbhr hg tbj Giealf

    Giets idhut BAW/IA@U il` UP@s sjetahl. I``atahlic tbilos irj uj tbj `jvjchpkjlt

    tjik= Mu`jj Dchbk il` Cila Bivjls ghr j`atalf, il` Pbjrjsj Valfitj ghr accustritahls

    il` fripbae `jsafl. Galiccy, wj ipprjeaitj tbj a`jis il` pbhthfripbs sbirj` dy Whcul-

    tjjrs, Ehultjrpirts, il` stigg tbrhufbhut tbj whrc`, jspjeaiccy ^jiej Ehrps/Kiciwa il`

    Phvwarilj Ejltrj, il` tbj jgghrts hg icc tbhsj wbh pirtaeapitj` al tbas prhejss.

    IEOLHVCJ@FKJLPU

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    ITPA= DIEOFTHZL@IL@ALPTH@ZEPAHL

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    Irj yhu i bjictb whrojr struffcalf watb tbj rasalf ritjs hg Bukil Akkulh

    @jeajley Warus/Iequarj` Akkulj @jeajley Uyl`rhkj (BAW/IA@U), UjxuiccyPrilskattj` @asjisjs (UP@s), ulwiltj` prjfliley, hr kitjrlic khrticaty8 Irj yhu

    i tjiebjr whroalf iacy watb yhulf pjhpcj wbh giej ageuct jeasahls= jtjrkalalf

    i phsatavj `arjetahl al cagj, phtjltaic ulwiltj` prjfliley, hr tbj assujs hg icehbhc

    hr `ruf usj8 Bivj yhu djjl prhva`alf bjictb alghrkitahl ghr yjirs il` yjt sjj

    lh phsatavj ebilfj al yhur ehkkulaty8 Irj yhu i pirjlt, ehkkulaty vhcultjjr,

    hr ehlejrlj` ehkkulaty cji`jr gjirguc hg tbj thcc BAW/IA@U as tioalf hl yhur

    irji8 Irj yhu i yhulf pjrshl rji`y th h shkjtbalf th bjcp cji` yhur grajl`s alth

    i drafbtjr guturj8 Ag yhu ilswjrj` yjs th ily hg tbj idhvj qujstahls, tbj Cagj

    Uoaccs prhfrik kafbt dj ghr yhu.

    Pbj Cagj Uoaccs EhlejptPbj Cagj Uoaccs prhfrik as i ehkprjbjlsavj djbivahr ebilfj ipprhieb tbit

    ehlejltritjs hl tbj `jvjchpkjlt hg tbj soaccs ljj`j` ghr cagj sueb is ehk-

    kulaeitahl, `jeasahlkioalf, tbaloalf, kilifalf jkhtahls, issjrtavjljss,

    sjcgjstjjk duac`alf, rjsastalf pjjr prjssurj, il` rjcitahlsbap soaccs. I``atahl-

    iccy, at i``rjssjs tbj akphrtilt rjcitj` assujs hg jkphwjralf farcs il` fua`alf

    dhys thwir`s ljw vicujs. Pbj prhfrik khvjs djyhl` prhva`alf alghrkitahl.

    At i``rjssjs tbj `jvjchpkjlt hg tbj wbhcj al`ava`uicsh tbit i pjrshl wacc

    bivj tbj soaccs th kioj usj hg icc typjs hg alghrkitahl, wbjtbjr at dj rjcitj` th

    BAW/IA@U, UP@s, rjprh`uetavj bjictb, sigj khtbjrbhh`, htbjr bjictb assujs, il`

    htbjr ehkkulaeitahl il` `jeasahlkioalf satuitahls. Pbj Cagj Uoaccs ipprhieb

    as ehkpcjtjcy altjrietavj, usalf rhcj pciys, fikjs, puzzcjs, frhup `aseussahls,

    il` i virajty hg htbjr allhvitavj tjiebalf tjeblaqujs th ojjp tbj pirtaeapilt

    wbhccy alvhcvj` al tbj sjssahls.

    VJCEHKJPHPBJCAGJUOACCU^THFTIK!

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    Alghrkitahl as Lht JlhufbIctbhufb at as akphrtilt th prhva`j alghrkitahl al tbj jircy pbisjs hg i djbivahr

    ebilfj altjrvjltahl il` th rjalghrej sueb olhwcj`fj pjrah`aeiccy, alghrkitahl

    as rirjcy jlhufb th khtavitj pjhpcj th ebilfj djbivahr. Ag tbit sjjks bir` th

    akifalj, must tbalo idhut i djbivahr tbit yhuvj djjl tryalf th ebilfj hvjr tbj

    yjirs. Kiydj at as rji`alf khrj, jxjreasalf, jitalf i djttjr dicilej hg ghh`s,

    hr quattalf skhoalf. Bivj yhu sueejssguccy ki`j tbj ebilfj8 Bivj yhu jvjr

    rjcipsj` dieo alth tbj djbivahr8 Vbit irj shkj hg tbj giethrs tbit bivj ojpt

    yhu grhk ebilfalf8

    ^raleapcjs hg Djbivahr Ebilfj il`

    Bhw tbj Cagj Uoaccs ^rhfrik Karrhrs

    tbjsj ^raleapcjs

    Ebilfalf djbivahr as icwiys `ageuct, dut ebilfalf sjxuic djbivahr as jspj-eaiccy traeoy. Wirahus hrfilazitahls bivj `jvjchpj` djbivahr ebilfj kh`jcs,

    alecu`alf tbj Z.U. Litahlic Iei`jky hg Ueajlejs (LIU). Pbj sjvjl praleapcjs

    castj` djchw irj disj` al pirt hl tbj LIU whro.

    ^raleapcjs hg Djbivahr Ebilfj

    9. ^rhva`alf alghrkitahl as tbj chfa-eic stirtalf phalt al ily djbivahrebilfj jgghrt. Alghrkitahl, ictbhufb

    ljejssiry, as rirjcy jlhufb dy atsjcg

    th prh`uej djbivahr ebilfj al khstpjhpcj. Pbj alghrkitahl kust djjisacy ul`jrsthh` il` rjcjvilt th

    tbj al`ava`uics yhu irj tryalf thrjieb.

    4. Gjir kjssifjs bivj cakatj` usj al

    khtavitalf djbivahric ebilfj. Aggjir as hvjrwbjckalf at eil bal`jr,

    ritbjr tbil bjcp jgghrts th ebilfj.Phh kueb gjir kiy eiusj pjhpcj th

    `jly tbjy irj it raso, th ritahlicazjdy phaltalf th htbjrs wbh bivj prie-

    taej` sakacir djbivahrs il` survavj`,il` th ivha` sjjoalf kj`aeic eirj ic-thfjtbjr. Zsalf whr`s caoj sehurfj

    hr pcifuj hr sbhwalf paeturjshg jkieaitj` IA@U vaetaks kiy

    eiusj pjhpcj lht hlcy th hstrieazjtbhsj algjetj`, dut th `jly tbjar hwlrasos ghr ehltrietalf tbj algjetahl.

    Bhw tbj Cagj Uoaccs ^rhfrik

    Karrhrs tbjsj raleapcjs

    9. Pbj Cagj Uoaccs prhfrik issukjstbit yhu wacc djfal dy tjiebalfdisae alghrkitahl idhut BAW/IA@U,

    UP@s, ulwiltj` prjfliley, `rufs,

    hr htbjr prjssalf ehkkulatyprhdcjks. _Jxtjlsavj alghrkitahlidhut BAW/IA@U as prhva`j` al tbas

    kiluic al ^irt AAA= Giealf Gietsidhut BAW/IA@U il` UP@s.[

    4. Vbjl whroalf watb Cagj Uoaccs,

    ivha` gjir il` ljfitavaty, il`alstji` gheus hl phsatavj kjs-

    sifjserjitalf, kialtialalf, il`rjalghrealf bjictby djbivahrs, il`

    whroalf thwir`s i djttjr cagj ghrjvjryhlj al tbj ehkkulatyyhulf

    pjhpcj, whkjl, kjl, il` ^jhpcjCavalf watb BAW/IA@U (^CVBIs).

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    5. ^jhpcj irj khrj caojcy th try djbiv-

    ahrs tbjy gjjc eipidcj hg pjrghrkalf.At as akphrtilt th tjieb pjhpcj tbjsoaccs ghr jlfifalf al tbj `jsarj` dj-

    bivahrs. Ujjalf jxikpcjs hg pjhpcjjlfifalf al tbj bjictby djbivahr wacc

    bjcp i pjrshl djcajvj tbit bj hr sbjthh eil jlfifj al tbit djbivahr.

    0. Al`ava`uics irj khrj caojcy th i`hpt

    i ljw djbivahr ag tbjy irj hggjrj`ebhaejs ikhlf ictjrlitavjs. Ghr

    jxikpcj, ritbjr tbil must prhkhtalfidstaljlej hr ehl`hks, favj rilfjshg phssadcj djbivahrs tbit rj`uej

    raso, caoj prietaealf cjss rasoy sjxuicdjbivahrs, fjttalf il BAW tjst watb

    yhur pirtljr, il` sh hl.

    :. Eikpiafls sbhuc` erjitj jlvarhl-

    kjlts tbit jlehurifj ebilfj. Vhro

    th ebilfj sheaic lhrks al givhr hgbjictby djbivahr. ^jjr j`ueitahlprhfriks prhva`j i supphrt disjghr ebilfj, is ieejptj` pjjrs kh`jc

    djbivahrs. Vhroalf watb ehkkulatycji`jrs hr i ^CVBI frhup irhul`

    il BAW/IA@U prhfrik eil rj`uejtbj stafki hg tbj `asjisj il` erj-

    itj il jlvarhlkjlt tbit jlehurifjsebilfj.

    5. Cagj Uoaccs systjkitaeiccy ittjkpts

    th duac` soaccs ghr bjictby djbivahr.Pbas as tbj erux hg tbj Dra`fj Kh`jchg djbivahr ebilfj (sjj pifj 55).

    Kily prhfriks prhva`j hljsbhtalghrkitahl th cirfj lukdjrs hg

    pjhpcj. I Cagj Uoaccs prhfrik whroswatb i skicc frhup hg pjhpcj hvjr

    i chlfjr pjrah` hg takj th khtavitjpirtaeapilts th i hpt i ljw djbiv-ahr, th tjieb il` kh`jc tbj soaccs

    ljejssiry th sueejssguccy i`hpttbit djbivahr, il` th ehltaluiccy

    rjalghrej tbhsj ljw soaccs, ultacpirtaeapilts gjjc eipidcj hg pjr-

    ghrkalf bjictbajr djbivahr. jjrj`ueithrs eil gurtbjr rjalghrej tbas,is tbjy prhva`j i phsatavj jxikpcj

    hg bjictby djbivahr.

    0. Cagj Uoaccs bjcps `jvjchp erataeic

    tbaloalf soaccs sh pirtaeapilts cjirli lukdjr hg ictjrlitavjs al `jicalf

    watb i `ageuct satuitahl. ^ir-taeapilts irj tbus jxphsj` th kilyebhaejs al tjrks hg ljfhtaitalf

    bjictbajr djbivahr.

    :. Djeiusj ebilfj as jisajr ag hljs

    jlvarhlkjlt jlehurifjs at, Cagj

    Uoaccs prhfriks jkpbisazj whroalfwatb i ehkkulaty bhcastaeiccy. Ghrjxikpcj, ag yhu irj altjrjstj` alwhroalf watb yhulf pjhpcj, rst

    prhva`j i PrialalfhgPrialjrs(PHP) th ehkkulaty cji`jrs sueb

    is kiyhrs hr ebajgs, bji`kistjrs,fhvjrlkjlt hgeaics il` pirjlts.

    Pbjl bivj i PHP ghr tjiebjrs altbj sebhhc al wbaeb yhu whro, hr agyhu irj whroalf watb yhulf pjhpcj

    hutsa`j tbj sebhhc systjk, ehlsa`jrtrialalf tbj ljirjst i`uct rhcj

    kh`jcs al tbit ehkkulaty. Pbhsjwhrosbhps altrh`uej tbj jltarj

    ehkkulaty th tbj prhfrik, erjitjtbj phssadacaty tbit tbhsj trialj` waccdjfal prhfriks hg tbjar hwl watb

    tbjar ljw soaccs, il` wacc sjrvj is iphwjrguc supphrt th tbj prhfrik tbit

    yhu djfal watb yhulf pjhpcj. Qhukiy icsh wasb th ehlsa`jr trialalf

    yhutb pjjr j`ueithrs djghrj khvalf

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    94 ^JIEJEHT^U

    ^ifjs 9>94 i`iptj` watb pjrkassahl grhk ^raleapcjs hg Djbivahr Ebilfj, il irtaecj dyPbhkis Ehitjs, b.@., Ejltjr ghr IA@U rjvjltahl Utu`ajs it tbj Zlavjrsaty hg Eicaghrlai, UilGrileaseh.

    th tbj tirfjt hg yhur prhfrik, tbjyhutb al i pirtaeucir sebhhc hr irji.Ag i ^CVBI frhup hpjritjs al yhur

    ehkkulaty, dj surj th alecu`j at aljvjry ispjet hg yhur prhmjet.

    7. Ualej at as ecjir tbit alujltaicpjhpcj eil `ravj ebilfj, pjjr

    j`ueithrs eil dj il jggjetavji``atahl th yhur Cagj Uoaccs prhfrik.

    Qhulf pjhpcj hgtjl sjjo bjictb hrsjxrjcitj` alghrkitahl grhk tbjarpjjrs djghrj `aseussalf tbjsj assujs

    watb i`ucts. Prialalf alujltaicyhulf pjhpcj th sjrvj is rhcj

    kh`jcs al tbjar pjjr frhup eil tbus`rikitaeiccy alerjisj tbj akpiet

    hg yhur prhfrik. Uhkj i`vaej hlwhroalf watb pjjr j`ueithrs eil dj

    ghul` al ^irt AA= ^jjr J`ueitahl.

    6. Djeiusj rjcipsj as jxpjetj`, at asakphrtilt th ehltaluiccy rjerjitj tbj

    Dra`fj Kh`jcth issast tbhsj wbhbivj icrji`y giccjl alth ikifalf

    djbivahrs. Qhu kiy ljj` th `jsafli scafbtcy aggjrjlt ipprhieb th tbjpcilos al tbj dra`fj ghr yhulf

    whkjl wbh bivj fhttjl prjfliltil` jxpjccj` grhk sebhhc, ghr `ruf

    i``aetj` yhutb, hr ghr ^CVBIs, ghr

    jxikpcj.

    7. Ebilfj as khrj caojcy al i ehkku-laty ag alujltaic pjhpcj i`hpt tbjebilfj.

    6. Tjcipsj as jxpjetj`. Pbjrjghrj,

    ily prhfrik tbit sjjos th ebilfjdjbivahrs hvjr takj ljj`s th duac`

    al wiys th kialtial tbhsj djbivahrsil` th bjcp dralf pjhpcj dieo hl

    tbj pitb th phsatavj djbivahrs igtjrtbjy bivj rjcipsj`.

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    Pbj Dra`fj Kh`jc hg Djbivahr Ebilfj

    Alghrkitahl prhva`js i shca` ghul`itahl.

    Djfal dy prhva`alf ieeuritj bjictb alghrkitahl.

    Hur fhic as th sjj kjkdjrs hg hur ehkkulatajs cavalf

    bjictby, bippy, gucccalf cavjs.

    Dut al hr`jr th rjicazj i phsatavj, bjictby cagj, wj ljj` th ivha` tbj

    ehlsjqujlejs hg ljfitavj djbivahr.

    I Cagj Uoaccs ^rhfrik gheusjs hl duac`alf tbj pcilos al tbj dra`fjwhroalf hl tbj

    al`ava`uic soaccs tbit bjcp pjhpcj th kioj bjictbajr `jeasahls idhut tbjar cavjs.

    Tjcipsj as jxpjetj` al ily djbivahr ebilfj, sh wj kust duac` al cagj-prjsjrvjrs hr wiys

    th dralf pjhpcj dieo hlth tbj dra`fj sbhuc` tbjy suggjr tbj ehlsjqujlejs hg i ljfitavj djbivahr.

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    Idhut tbj KiluicIctbhufb hrafaliccy jvjchpj` al Igraei, tbas kiluic bis djjl rjj`atj` ghr fchdic

    `astradutahl. Dj surj th i`ipt jieb il` jvjry sjssahl th kioj at khrj ipprhpra-

    itj th yhur cheic eucturj.Pbas kiy kjil trilscitalf alth cheic cilfuifj, ebilfalf

    likjs hr satuitahls al rhcj pciys, ebilfalf tbj jltarj ehltjlt hg i sjssahl, il` phs-

    sadcy jvjl aseir`alf shkj sjssahls icthfjtbjr. Tj-erjitj tbj ehltjlt hg tbj kiluicth kioj at ippcaeidcj th yhur irji.

    Pbj kiluic ehlsasts hg hvjr :> `aggjrjlt cjsshl a`jis tbit yhu eil usj watb ily

    frhup= iltaIA@U ecuds, farcs ecuds, dhys ecuds, yhutb ecuds, whkjls frhups, il`

    sh ghrtb. Pbj kiluic as wrattjl watb i strhlf dais thwir`s yhutb whro il` bjictb

    assujs. Pbjsj cjsshls irj quatj jisy th i`ipt th ily ifj il` htbjr thpaes, bhwjvjr.

    Ehlsa`jr tbjk is i stirtalf phalt, sh tbit yhu wacc bivj alataic cjsshl pcils rji`y is

    yhu djfal th whro watb pirtaeapilts. Vhroalf watb yhur ehccjifujs, yhu eil jvjchp

    htbjr cjsshl a`jis il` ietavatajs tbit wacc ehltaluj th ebiccjlfj yhur pirtaeapilts th

    erataeiccy tbalo idhut il` kh`agy tbjar djbivahrs. Al i``atahl th tbj cjsshl pcils,

    shkj cjsshls cjirlj` rjfir`alf pjjr j`ueitahl irj alecu`j`, is irj shkj sikpcjsebj`ucjs, il` taps th gieacatithrs.

    Pbj sjssahls irj frhupj` ieehr`alf th tbrjj disae cagj soaccs= ehkkulaeitahl,

    `jeasahlkioalf, il` rjcitahlsbap soaccs. Pbjsj irj chhsj eitjfhrajs il` tbjrj as

    i frjit `jic hg hvjrcip ikhlf tbjk. ^irt AW= Ehkkulaeitahl Uoaccs gheusjs hl

    issjrtavjljss, rjsphl`alf th pjrsuisahl, ietavj castjlalf, il` dh`y cilfuifj. ^irt

    W= @jeasahlKioalf Uoaccs alecu`js issjssalf raso, jxpchralf ebhaejs, ul`jrstil`-

    alf ehlsjqujlejs, pcillalf ghr tbj guturj, erataeic tbaloalf, il` fhic sjttalf. ^irt

    WA= Tjcitahlsbap Uoaccs prhva`js sjssahl a`jis ghr tbj thpaes hg fjl`jr, eucturj,

    pjjr prjssurj, sjcgjstjjk, il` kilifalf jkhtahls. Vbacj yhu kiy prjsjlt tbj

    sjssahls al ily hr`jr tbit yhu ebhhsj, tbjrj as i chfaeic hw th jieb sjetahlic -

    chwalf ljw soaccs th duac` hl prjvahus hljs. ^irt WAA= Dralfalf At Icc Phfjtbjr

    prhva`js i phwjrguc thhc ghr prietaealf il` jvicuitalf icc hg tbj cagj soaccs, sh tbit

    yhu kiy issjss pirtaeapilts issakacitahl hg tbj thpaes ehvjrj`. Pbj Ippjl`aejs

    prhva`j lukjrhus wirkups, fikjs, il` htbjr suffjstahls ghr ojjpalf tbj sjssahls

    altjrietavj, cavjcy, il` gul.

    ^irt AAA= Giealf Giets idhut BAW/IA@U il` UP@s as erueaic th gieacatitalf icc htbjr

    sjetahls. Ag yhu irj idhut th djfal tbj prhfrik, at as suffjstj` tbit yhu cjirl tbas

    sjetahl wjcc, sh tbit yhu wacc dj idcj th ilswjr tbj kily qujstahls tbit wacc irasj

    rjfir`alf BAW il` UP@s. Ag yhu bivj ily qujstahls hr ljj` eciraeitahl rjfir`alf

    tbas hr ily htbjr bjictb assuj i``rjssj` al tbj dhho, at as rjehkkjl`j` tbit yhu

    ehltiet tbj ipprhpraitj bjictb jpirtkjlt hr kalastry al yhur ehultry ghr upth`itjalghrkitahl hr rjgjr th ily hg tbj Vjdsatjs castj` al ^irt AAA= Giealf Giets idhut

    BAW/IA@U il` UP@s. Ag yhu irj i ^jiej Ehrps Whcultjjr, yhu kiy icsh ehltiet

    yhur Issheaitj ^jiej Ehrps @arjethr (I^E@), bjictb trialjr, hr tbj ^jiej Ehrps

    Kj`aeic Hgejr (^EKH) ghr khrj alghrkitahl.

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    Cjsshls Cjirlj`Paps ghr

    Akpcjkjltalf Cagj Uoaccs

    Djchw irj shkj suffjstahls ghr jggjetavjcy akpcjkjltalf i Cagj Uoaccs prhfrik=

    Tjkjkdjr tbit tbas kiluic as hlcy i tjkpcitj. I`ipt tbj al`ava`uic sjssahls

    il`/hr tbj jltarj ipprhieb th yhur cheic satuitahl il` cilfuifj.

    Djghrj stirtalf, pjrghrk il issjsskjlt hg tbj ehkkulaty th bjcp tiachr tbj

    prhfrik th spjeae cheic ljj`s. Pbj Issjsskjlts il` Jvicuitahls a`jis

    al tbj ljxt sjetahl kiy dj usjguc al bjcpalf yhu strueturj yhur ehkkulaty

    issjsskjlt.

    Icwiys whro watb ehkkulaty cji`jrs rst. Hur ehkkulaty cji`jr whrosbhps

    il` kjjtalfs bivj prhvjl alvicuidcj al ojjpalf tbj prhfrik supphrtj`. Ag yhur

    whro as fhalf th dj watb stu`jlts, kjjt watb tbj bji`kistjrs il` tjiebjrs rst

    sh tbit tbjy wacc ul`jrstil` tbj prhfrik, phssadcy bjcp al tbj akpcjkjltitahl,

    il` rjalghrej tbj ehltjlt al eciss. Uhkj whl`jrguc tbalfs eil bippjl ag tbj

    ehkkulaty fjts jljrfazj` th `h Cagj Uoaccs. Pbjy kiy jvjl stirt prhfriks

    watbal tbjar hwl frhupsal eburebjs, whkjls hrfilazitahls, il` sh ghrtb.

    Ehlsa`jr icc hg tbj phsatavjs il` ljfitavjs djghrj jea`alf wbjtbjr th alehrph-

    ritj pjjr j`ueithrs alth tbj prhfrik. I pjjr j`ueithr ipprhieb kiy lht dj rafbt

    ghr jvjry satuitahl. Kioj surj yhu wacc dj idcj th supphrt yhur pjjr j`ueithrs

    djghrj jkdiroalf hl sueb i prhfrik. At as phssadcj th `h Cagj Uoaccs watbhut

    pjjr j`ueithrs. Ghr i `aseussahl hl tbj prhs il` ehls hg pjjr j`ueithrs, sjj

    ^irt AA= ^jjr J`ueitahl.

    Ag yhu `h `jea j th whro watb pjjr j`ueithrs, dj surj th sjl` cjttjrs bhkj th

    pirjlts idhut tbj prhfrik. Cjt tbjk olhw jxietcy wbit yhu irj `half. Dj

    updjit il` ehlfritucitj tbjk tbit tbjar shl hr `iufbtjr wis ebhsjl ghr sueb

    il akphrtilt prhfrik. Tjkjkdjr th wratj al tbj cheic cilfuifj.

    @h lht cakat yhur Cagj Uoaccs ipprhieb th yhutb hr th BAW/IA@U hlcy. Cagj Uoaccs

    eil dj akpcjkjltj` al kily aggjrjlt phpucitahls! I`ipt, i`ipt, i`ipt!

    CJUUHLUCJITLJ@

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    Ag yhu irj surprasj` tbit tbj jkpbisas hl BAW prjvjltahl jsphusj` al tbas kiluic

    as lht hl jxpchralf ictjrlitavjs th sjx il` htbjr assujs irhul` sjxuicaty, h lht

    dj ehlejrlj`! Vj ghul` tbit wbjl wj sjt hut th tico idhut sjx, wj fht cattcj

    ehhpjritahl grhk pirtaeapilts. Dut wbjl wj wjrj ticoalf idhut htbjr assujs

    sueb is ehkkulaeitahl, rjcitahlsbaps, il` sh ghrtb, sjxuicaty icwiys eikj up.

    Il al`arjet ipprhieb kiy dj khrj eucturiccy ipprhpraitj.

    Hlej yhur prhfrik hr yhur pjjr j`ueithrs irj whroalf wjcc it tbj sjehl`iry

    sebhhc hr tjjlifj cjvjc, ehlsa`jr fjttalf pjrkassahl th sjl` tbjk alth yhur cheic

    prakiry sebhhc th ehl`uet sjssahls watb tbj uppjr fri js hg jcjkjltiry sebhhc.

    Qhu kiy lht ljj` khljy hr rjshurejs th akpcjkjlt tbas prhfrik hl tbj cheic

    cjvjc. Ag yhu irj whroalf watbal i sebhhc, yhu kafbt kioj Cagj Uoaccs ietava-

    tajs pirt hg il igtjr sebhhc ecud. Ag yhu irj whroalf it tbj ehkkulaty cjvjc,

    Cagj Uoaccs sjssahls kiy dj pirt hg yhur `iacy hr wjjocy frhup ietavatajsal

    eburebjs, whkjls frhups, IA@U ehkkattjjs, hr wbjrjvjr!

    Ag yhu irj whroalf it tbj `astraet cjvjc hr htbjr irji wbjrj gul`alf as ljejssiry

    ghr trialalfs, shkj hrfilazitahls tbit kafbt dj supphrtavj alecu`j ZLAEJG,^jiej Ehrps Ukicc ^rhmjets Issastilej (U^I), il` cheic ecuds sueb is Thtiry hr

    Cahls Ecuds. Dj surj th jxpchrj tbj LFHs il` htbjr gul`alf hptahls al yhur

    irji rst is tbjy wacc dj tbj khst sustialidcj kjils hg supphrt.

    Cjsshls Cjirlj`Issjsskjlts

    il` JvicuitahlsIctbhufb ^jiej Ehrps Whcultjjrs (^EWs) il` Ehultjrpirts typaeiccy ehl`uet

    ^irtaeapithry Turic Ippriasic (^TI), ^irtaeapithry Ilicysas ghr Ehkkulaty Ie-

    tahl (^IEI), hr htbjr ljj`s issjsskjlts wbjl tbjy irj rst phstj` th tbjar satjs,kily rjsast tbj a`ji hg ehl`uetalf issjsskjlts djghrj djfallalf i prhfrik caoj

    Cagj Uoaccs. Vatb hlcy twh yjirs th akpcjkjlt prhmjets, Whcultjjrs hgtjl gjjc tbit

    takj hjs lht pjrkat i``atahlic issjsskjlt ietavatajs. Uakacircy, bjictb whrojrs il`

    tjiebjrs al tbj jc` irj icrji`y hvjrdur`jlj` watb whro? tbjy kiy dj ulwaccalf

    th djfal jieb ljw prhfrik watb il issjsskjlt hg tbj ehkkulaty. Ictbhufb tbjsj

    ehlejrls irj vica`, at as erueaic ghr tbj sueejss hg ily djbivahr ebilfj prhfrik tbit

    tbj gieacatithrs bivj il ul`jrstil`alf idhut tbj ittatu`js al ehkkulatajs al wbaeb

    tbjy sjrvj. Issjsskjlts irj tbus il akphrtilt rst stjp.

    Bhw `h Issjsskjlts Bjcp8

    Il issjsskjlt hg tbj ehkkulaty djghrj akpcjkjltalf tbj Cagj Uoaccs prhfrik

    eil bjcp yhu th

    Tiasj iwirjljss hg ojy assujs djghrj djfallalf tbj prhfrik.

    Ljtwhro watb ehkkulaty cji`jrs il` kjkdjrs.

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    @jtjrkalj tbj eurrjlt cjvjc hg ul`jrstil`alf hg tbj assujs i``rjssj` dy cagj

    soaccs al tbj ehkkulaty. Pbas wacc prhva`j i disjcalj th bjcp yhu th kjisurj

    djbivahr ebilfj tbit kafbt heeur is i rjsuct hg tbj prhfrik.

    @asehvjr tbj khst ipprhpraitj sudfrhups al tbj ehkkulaty al wbaeb th

    tirfjt tbj prhfrik, ghr jxikpcj whkjls frhups, huthgsebhhc yhutb,

    farcs ecuds, ebureb frhups, il` sh ghrtb.

    Piachr tbj Cagj Uoaccs prhfrik th kjjt tbj ljj`s hg tbj ehkkulaty.

    Ubhrt rjissjsskjlts it virahus phalts al tbj prhfrik eil

    Al`aeitj tbj strhlf ispjets hg tbj prhfrik, is wjcc is tbhsj tbit kafbt dj

    akprhvj`.

    Bjcp yhu `jtjrkalj ljw prahratajs il` ipprhiebjs.

    Dhcstjr yhur ehl`jlej il` rjljw yhur jljrfy is yhu sjj tbj prhfrik

    djfal th whro!

    Ag tbj prhfrik as idhut th jl` hr trilsatahl, il jvicuitahl eil

    Bjcp jtjrkalj th wbit jfrjj tbj prhmjet bis iebajvj olhwcj fj, ittatu`j,

    soaccs, il` djbivahr ebilfj al tbj ehkkulaty.

    ^halt th ily ebilfjs tbit ehuc` dj akpcjkjltj` th akprhvj tbj prhfrik.

    Al`aeitj wbjtbjr hr lht tbj prhfrik as il jggjetavj thhc ghr djbivahr

    ebilfj.

    ^rhva`j fua`ilej al tjrks hg bhw tbj prhfrik kafbt dj rjpcaeitj` al htbjr

    irjis.

    Dj usj` th sjeurj `hlhr gul`alf th ehltaluj hr jxpil` tbj prhmjet.

    Tjljw tbj jljrfy il` strjlftbjl tbj ehl`jlej hg tbhsj wbh bivj whroj`

    hl tbj prhmjet.

    Bhw Eil il Issjsskjlt ghr tbj Cagj Uoaccs

    ^rhfrik dj Ehl`uetj`8

    ^jiej Ehrps hggjrs i virajty hg thhcs th issast yhu al issjssalf yhur ehkkulaty,

    alecu`alf tbj^IEI Bil`dhho(AEJ # K>>:5), tbj Ehkkulaty EhltjltDisj`

    Alstruetahl Kiluic(AEJ # P>994), tbj Ljw ^rhmjet @jsafl il` Kilifjkjlt

    Vhrosbhp Prialalf Kiluic(AEJ # P>27>) il` tbjBAW/IA@U A`ji Dhho(AEJ #

    K>>29). Tjfir`cjss hg tbj kjtbh` hg issjsskjlt yhu ebhhsj, at as erueaic th whro

    echsjcy watb yhur ehultjrpirt hr htbjr rjspjetj` ehkkulaty kjkdjr(s) tbrhufbhut

    yhur iti ehccjetahl. Ualej yhur qujstahls wacc prhdidcy alvhcvj rjgjrjlejs th sjxuic

    djbivahr, icehbhc hr ruf usj, hr htbjr sjlsatavj thpaes, yhu wacc ljj` th dj jspjeaiccy

    eirjguc idhut usj hg cheic cilfuifj il` eucturic ipprhpraitjljss. Pbj i`vaej il`

    was`hk hg i trustj` ehultjrpirt as alvicuidcj `uralf tbas takj.

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    Igtjr ehccjetalf tbj alghrkitahl il` ehkpacalf tbj rjsucts, rjphrtalf dieo th icc

    pirtajs as akphrtilt. Ehkkulatajs irj hgtjl stu`aj` dy `hlhr hrfilazitahls il`

    `jvjchpkjlt ifjlts, il` i grjqujlt, mustaj` ehlejrl as tbit tbjsj frhups ehccjet

    alghrkitahl watbhut rjspjetalf tbj ehkkulatajs jlhufb th rjphrt dieo il` jlfifj

    ehkkulaty cji`jrs al aseussahls idhut tbj rjsucts.

    Tjphrtalf dieo kiy tioj tbj ghrk hg pudcasbj` rjphrts th bji`kistjrs, tjiebjrs,akphrtilt ehkkulaty cji`jrs, hlhrs tbit kafbt bivj gul`j` tbj prhmjet, il` htbjr

    ehltiets al tbj irji. Bhwjvjr, `aseussahls kiy dj khrj ipprhpraitj tbil wrattjl

    rjphrts. Ag yhu altjl` th whro watb ehkkulaty cji`jrs, tjiebjrs, hr trialjrs, at kiy

    dj khst jggjetavj th `aseuss tbj rjsucts hg tbj survjy it tbit takj.

    Al tbj kjjtalfs, dj rjspjetguc hg tbj jlhrkhus was`hk hg ehkkulaty cji`jrs. Pbjsj

    al`ava`uics bivj djjl altjrvjlalf al prhdcjks gir chlfjr il` prhdidcy watb khrj

    sueejss tbil ily hutsa`j bjictb whrojr hr tjiebjr. Uakpcy prhva`j tbj alghrkitahl

    ehccjetj` al tbj survjys il` gieacatitj i `aseussahl hl tbj akpcaeitahls hg tbj `iti

    ghr tbj yhulf pjhpcj il` tbj ehkkulaty is i wbhcj, jspjeaiccy al rjcitahl th bjictb,

    BAW/IA@U, il` tbj chlftjrk survavic hg tbj ehkkulaty. Pbj alghrkitahl il`rjsuctalf `aseussahl hgtjl as phwjrguc jlhufb th spiro `jditj, suffjstahls, il` i

    ehkkatkjlt th altjrvjltahl.

    I lhtj th EWs= Pbj cjss alvhcvj` yhu irj al tbjsj aseussahls, tbj djttjr. Pbjsj irj

    ehkkulaty prhdcjks, il` at as djst sakpcy th issast dy gieacatitalf tbj `aseussahl,

    ritbjr tbil th prhva`j hvjrt suffjstahls ghr ebilfj. Ehkkulaty cji`jrs grjqujltcy

    irj sacjlej` dy tbj shkjtakjs irrhfilt ipprhiebjs hg `hlhrs il` hutsa`jrs. Ualej

    yhu bivj, al icc caojcabhh`, alataitj` tbj kjjtalf, tbjrj kafbt icrji`y dj i strhlf

    akprjssahl tbit yhu bivj il ifjl`i. At as hgtjl tbj khst ageuct ebiccjlfj ghr jifjr

    il` jltbusaistae ljw Whcultjjrs th watbbhc` tbjar kily a`jis ghr bjcpalf. Dut hlj

    hg tbj khst rjwir`alf ispjets th djalf i Whcultjjr as jirlalf tbj rjspjet hg il`

    cjirlalf tbj was`hk hg cheic cji`jrs, il` djfallalf th trucy ul`jrstil` frissrhhts

    ebilfj. Duac`alf tbj prhfrik thfjtbjr wacc kioj at kueb khrj jggjetavj, jvjl ag

    tbj alataic a`jis sjjk ehltriry th yhur pjrshlic djcajgs.

    Ghr jxikpcj, khst Ikjraeils eillht akifalj il BAW/IA@U prhfrik watbhut hvjrt

    `aseussahls hg ictjrlitavjs th pjljtritavj sjx, `aifriks hg dh`y pirts, il` grilo

    `aseussahls idhut sjxuic ietavaty. Ph kily cheic eucturjs, tbas ipprhieb as ulieejpt-

    idcj, il` eil cji` th rafhrhus rjsastilej th tbj prhfrik. Hlj hg tbj i`viltifjs hg

    gheusalf hl cagj soaccs as tbit tbas ipprhieb kiojs at phssadcj th `jic watb assujs hg

    sjxuicaty al al`arjet wiyswbaeb as hgtjl kueb khrj eucturiccy ieejptidcj.

    Cjsshls Cjirlj`Paps ghr

    Gieacatithrs

    Is khst Cagj Uoaccs sjssahls alvhcvj fikjs hr rhcj pciys, at kiy dj khst jggje-

    tavj th bivj pirtaeapilts sat al i earecj, watb i frjit `jic hg hpjl spiej al tbj

    ejltjr hg tbj earecj. Pbas wacc icchw ghr ulbal`jrj` khvjkjlt watbal tbj frhup

    ghr tbj jxjreasjs.

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    Hwl tbj trialalf spiej. Dj surj th khvj irhul` i frjit `jic watbal tbj

    earecjipprhiebalf virahus pirtaeapilts, ietalf tbalfs hut, il` usalf `aggjr-

    jlt thljs hg vhaej. Uueb ehl`jlej grhk tbj gieacatithrs kiojs at jisajr ghr

    pirtaeapilts th gjjc ehkghrtidcj is tbjy pjrghrk rhcj pciys hr pciy fikjs.

    Dj ehlseahus hg tbj fjl`jr `avasahl hg yhur gieacatithrs. Bivalf il jquic lukdjr

    hg kjl il` whkjl gieacatitalf tbj prhfrik eil dj kueb khrj phwjrguc tbilkjrjcy ticoalf idhut fjl`jr jquicaty. At icsh bjcps dy altrh`uealf i virajty hg

    pjrspjetavjs hl tbj thpaes il` dy jkhlstritalf tbj erueaic cagj soacc hg altjriet-

    alf wjcc watb tbj hpphsatj sjx.

    Dj rjspjetguc wbjl whroalf watb ehgieacatithrs. Ivha` ehrrjetalf hr altjr-

    ruptalf yhur pirtljr wbjl bj hr sbj as gieacatitalf, il` dj ehlseahus hg yhur

    dh`y cilfuifj il` gieaic jxprjssahls wbacj htbjr trialjrs irj gieacatitalf.

    Qhu irj icwiys hl stifj. Icsh, wbjl hlj gieacatithr as fua`alf tbj frhup,

    htbjr trialjrs sbhuc` sat `hwlthh kily trialjrs it tbj grhlt hg tbj rhhk

    eil dj `astrietalf.

    Ghr sjlsatavj thpaes, at kiy dj djst th sjpiritj alth salfcjsjx frhups th jlehur-ifj djttjr pirtaeapitahl grhk dhtb farcs il` dhys. At as akphrtilt, bhwjvjr, ghr

    tbjk th ehkj dieo thfjtbjr il` prjsjlt tbjar a`jis th jieb htbjr. Pbas sbiralf

    hg alghrkitahl djtwjjl sjxjs il` ittjkptalf th whro thfjtbjr ehkghrtidcy as

    jssjltaic th tbj prhfrik.

    Ojjp yhur pirtaeapilts alvhcvj` dy jcaeatalf ilswjrs grhk tbjk ritbjr tbil

    cjeturalf th tbj frhup.

    Uukkirazj tbj phalts hl i ap ebirt hr dcieodhir`, ag phssadcj.

    Ag whroalf watb ap ebirts, bilf tbj pifjs yhu bivj lasbj` irhul` tbj rhhk

    sh pirtaeapilts eil rjgjr dieo th tbjk tbrhufbhut tbj `iy hr sjssahl.

    Bivj tbjDra`fj Kh`jc ap ebirt phstj` hl tbj wicc `uralf jvjry Cagj Uoaccs

    sjssahl. Qhu wacc l` tbit yhu ehlstiltcy rjgjr th at.

    ^iy ittjltahl th tbj sebj`ucalf hg yhur sjssahls. Ujssahls ljir tbj jl` hg tbj

    `iy hr igtjr kjics sbhuc` dj cavjcy th ojjp pjhpcj iwioj. Hlj sjssahl sbhuc`

    khvj chfaeiccy alth ilhtbjr sjssahl.

    Utirt khrlalf il` igtjrlhhl sjssahls watb wirkups hr jljrfazjrs.

    Khlathr bhw yhur frhup as gjjcalf. Bivj il ictjrlitavj wiy th tjieb tbj sikj

    sudmjet, il` ebilfj stycjs is ljj`j`.

    Ehccjet rjshurejs hl tbj `iys sudmjet il` erjitj i rjshurej tidcj it tbj dieo hg

    tbj rhhk ghr pirtaeapilts th pjrusj uralf drjios. Alvatj pirtaeapilts th kioj i

    cast hg wiys al wbaeb tbjy eil sjrvj is i rjshurej ghr jieb htbjr.

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    ^jiej Ehrps ^rjUjrvaej Prialalf (^UP)

    Alehrphritalf tbj Cagj Uoaccs ipprhieb alth rjUjrvaej Prialalf ghr icc Whcultjjrs,

    jspjeaiccy tbhsj grhk tbj bjictb il` j`ueitahl sjethrs, eil hggjr ljw Whcultjjrs

    i prietaeic grikjwhro tbrhufb wbaeb th vajw tbjar issaflkjlts. Pbalo idhut

    alehrphritalf i Cagj Uoaccs Prialalf hg Prialjrs (PHP) alth i wjjochlf Ehul-

    tjrpirts ehlgjrjlej sh tbit dhtb Prialjjs il` prhgjssahlics grhk tbj kalastrajseil ehlsa`jr altjfritalf tbj prhfrik al tbjar guturj whro.

    Vhkjl Al @jvjchpkjlt (VA@) hr Fjl`jr il`

    @jvjchpkjlt (FI@) ^rhmjets

    Jxjreasjs grhk tbjCagj Uoaccs Kiluiceil dj usj` al i farcs rjtrjit, i cji`jr-

    sbap trialalf, hr ily lukdjr hg cji`jrsbap il` `jvjchpkjlt prhmjets `jvjchpj`

    tbrhufb VA@/FI@ ehkkattjjs.

    ^jhpcj Cavalf watb BAW/IA@U Frhups (^CVBI) hr

    IA@U Uupphrt Hrfilazitahls

    Pbj Dra`fj Kh`jceil dj i`iptj` th jxpchrj tbj pcilos tbit BAW phsatavj pjhpcj

    kafbt jvjchp al hr`jr th rjkial bjictbajr chlfjr il` th kilifj tbjar algjetahls.

    Ghr jxikpcj, shkj pcilos kafbt djehkj fhh` lutratahl, usalf ehl`hks, jkhtahlic

    supphrt, hr jvjl wratalf i wacc.

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    44 ^JIEJEHT^U

    At kiy dj bjcpguc th strueturj tbj hw hg yhur trialalf alth tbj ghcchwalf drhi`

    ipprhiebjs= 9) khtavitahl, 4) alghrkitahl il` soaccs, 5) prietaej, il` 0) ippcaeitahl.

    Utirt yhur prhfrik watb sjssahls tbit khtavitj pirtaeapilts th wilt th cjirl. Vby irj

    yhu akpcjkjltalf tbas prhfrik8 Vbit irj tbj assujs a`jltaj` dy tbj ehkkulaty8

    Bjcp yhur pirtaeapilts sjj tbj ljj` ghr tbj sjssahls. Jxikpcjs kafbt alecu`j stirtalf

    watb tbj akpiet hg IA@U hr tbj ehlsjqujlejs hg ulwiltj` prjfliley. Pbjl khvj

    th prhva`alf alghrkitahl il` soaccs. Pbas as tbj jssjlej hg tbj sjssahlstbj ietuic

    sudmjet kittjr. Phpaes kafbt alecu`j disae giets idhut BAW/IA@U, tbj Dra`fj Kh`jc,

    hr ily hg tbj sjssahls hl ehkkulaeitahl, jeasahlkioalf, il` sh ghrtb. Pbj tbar`

    stjp as prietaealf tbj alghrkitahl il` soaccs yhu bivj djjl jxpchralf. Al i PHP, tbas

    kiy kjil tbit pirtaeapilts gieacatitj sikpcj sjssahls. Al yhur iyth`iy prhfrik,

    prietaej kiy alecu`j rhcj pciys tbit iet hut tbj satuitahls yhuvj djjl `aseussalf.

    Galiccy, khvj th ippcaeitahl. Bhw wacc pirtaeapilts ippcy tbj alghrkitahl il` soaccs

    grhk tbjsj sjssahls al tbjar hwl cavjs8 Al tbjar ehkkulatajs8

    Pbj suffjstj` sebj`ucjs tbit ghcchw irj kjrjcy altjl`j` is jxikpcjs. Is watbicc ispjets hg tbj Cagj Uoaccs prhfrik, tbjy sbhuc` dj i`iptj` th kioj tbjk khrj

    ipprhpraitj th tbj cheic satuitahl.

    Uikpcj Uebj`ucjPrialalf hg

    Prialjrs (PHP)Khst hg hur PHP prhfriks bivj djjl idhut vj `iys chlf. Ebhhsj yhur trialjrs

    eirjguccy. Pjiebjrs, lursjs, bjictb issastilts, ecalaeic hgejrs, kj`aeic issastilts,

    il` IA@U ejltjr vhcultjjrs icc eil kioj fhh` trialjrs ag tbjy bivj i lituric idacaty

    watb, hr altjrjst al, yhutb. Pbj ipprhieb usj` al tbas sikpcj PHP as ghr tbj gieacati-thrs th ietuiccy jxpjrajlej tbj prhfrik dy `half tbj sjssahls is pirtaeapilts. Is

    tbjy prhejj` tbrhufb tbj prhfrik rjkal` tbjk tbit tbjy wacc dj gieacatitalf tbj

    sikj kitjraics. Pbjy sbhuc` ehlstiltcy rjjet idhut bhw tbjy wacc prjsjlt tbj sjs-

    sahls, alecu`alf wiys th akprhvj tbjk. @iy Ghur prhva`js il hpphrtulaty ghr jieb

    pirtaeapilt th gieacatitj i sjssahl grhk tbj kiluic il` rjejavj gjj`dieo.

    UIK^CJUEBJ@ZCJU

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    I suffjstj` sebj`ucj as is ghcchws=

    @iy HljKhtavitahl

    9. Virkup

    4. Hpjlalf Ujssahl alecu`alf UjcgAltrh`uetahl, Patcj PbrhwIwiy, Jxpjetitahls,Tjvajw hg Uebj`ucj, Frhul` Tucjs (Ippjl`ax AAA)

    5. Hgeaic Hpjlalf dy @astraet Bjictb Hgejr, @astraet J`ueitahl Hgejr, Ebajg,

    Kiyhr, hr Htbjr Hgeaic

    0. Jxebilfalf Uthrajs (Akpiet hg IA@U Wiraitahl) (Ujssahl 5 al ^irt W)

    :. Jpa`jkahchfaeic Alghrkitahl hl BAW/IA@U gieacatitj` dy bjictb whrojr hr

    Litahlic IA@U Ehltrhc ^rhfrik rjprjsjltitavj

    7. Cheic ck hl ulwiltj` tjjlifj prjfliley il` `aseussahl, hr usjJircy

    ^rjfliley (Ujssahl 7 al ^irt W)

    Ghr Prialjrs whroalf al Igraei= Pwh jxejccjlt ebhaejs irj Ehlsjqujlejs il`Qjcchw Eir`. Ehlsjqujlejs as i ck hl ulwiltj` tjjlifj prjfliley, il`

    Qjcchw Eir` as idhut kicj rjsphlsadacaty ghr tjjl prjfliley. Pbjy irj iviacidcj

    al IA@U rjshurej ejltjrs tbrhufbhut Igraei, hr dy ehltietalf tbj Litahlic IA@U

    Ehltrhc ^rhfrikkj, Kalastry hg Bjictb, ^.H. Dhx 24>0, Eiusjwiy, Birirj, hr

    Kj`ai ghr @jvjchpkjlt Prust, 91 Wil ^riifb, Kacthl ^iro, Birirj, ]akdidwj

    3Kg`Nsikiri.eh.zw

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    40 ^JIEJEHT^U

    4. BAW/IA@U il` Djbivahr Ebilfj(^jrshlic Ehulsjcalf ghr Djbivahr Ebilfj

    hlcy) (Ujssahl 9> al ^irt AAA)

    5. Pbj Dra`fj Kh`jc (Ujssahl 9 al ^irt A)

    0. Yuaeo ^rjvajw hg Cagj Uoaccs Ujssahls, ghr jxikpcj tbjDjst Tjsphlsj Fikj

    (Ujssahl 9 al ^irt WA),Castjlalf ^iars, tbj Utriafbt Calj,^iss tbj ^aeturj,

    jte. (Ippjl`ax A)

    :. Frhup UaflZp il` ^rjpiritahl Pakj ghr Phkhrrhws ^rietaej Ujssahls

    Uuffjstj` Ujssahls=

    Ehkkulaeitahl Uoaccs issavj, Issjrtavj, Iffrjssavj (Ujssahl 5 al

    ^irt AW)

    @jeasahlKioalf UoaccsTaso DjbivahrPjstalf tbj Vitjrs(Ujssahl 2 al

    ^irt W)

    Tjcitahlsbap Uoaccs sjssahlsFjl`jr Eir`s hr Fjl`jr ^aeturj Eh`js

    (Ujssahl 6 hr 2 al ^irt WA)

    BAW/IA@U UjssahlVhkjl il` BAW/IA@U(Ujssahl : al ^irt AAA)

    @iy Ghur^rietaej

    9. Virkup

    4. Ehkkulaeitahl Uoaccs sjssahl

    5. @jeasahlKioalf Uoaccs sjssahl

    0. Tjcitahlsbap Uoaccs sjssahls

    :. BAW/IA@U Ujssahl

    Prialjr lhtj=Igtjr jieb frhup gieacatitjs i sjssahl, spjl` shkj takj jcaeatalf

    gjj`dieo grhk tbj pirtaeapilts il` `aseussalf ily assujs tbit kiy bivj ehkj up

    rjfir`alf tbj gieacatitahl tjeblaqujs.

    @iy GavjIppcaeitahl

    9. Virkup

    4. Dralfalf At Icc PhfjtbjrGhruk Pbjitjr(^irt WAA)

    5. Gieacatitahl Uoaccs@jicalf watb @ageuct Yujstahls(Ippjl`ax AW)

    0. ^jjr J`ueitahl Ujssahl(^irt AA)

    :. Ietahl ^cillalf

    7. Igrkitahl (sueb is Utralf Upa`jr Vjd(Ippjl`ax A)) il` Echsalf

    6. Jvicuitahl

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    Uikpcj Uebj`ucj^jiej Ehrps

    ^rjUjrvaej Prialalf (^UP)Pbj idhvj PHP sebj`ucj eil dj usj` is il AlUjrvaej Prialalf (AUP) il` i whrosbhp

    ghr Ehultjrpirts. At eil icsh dj usj` is tbj BAW/IA@U ehkphljlt hg i rjUjrvaej

    Prialalf (^UP). Ag at as lht phssadcj th `jvhtj vj `iys th BAW/IA@U al tbj ^UP,yhu kiy sbhrtjl tbj whrosbhp th twh `iys dy scafbtcy kh`agyalf @iy Pwh il`

    @iy Pbrjj idhvj. Qhu kiy wasb th i`` tbj Jpa`jkahchfaeic Alghrkitahl hr il

    Akpiet hg BAW/IA@U(Ujssahl 5 al ^irt W) sjssahl th tbj @iy Pwh sebj`ucj, il`

    th sudstatutj Ghruk Pbjitjr (^irt WAA) ghr tbj Frhup UaflZp sjssahl hl @iy

    Pbrjj.

    Uikpcj Uebj`ucjEhkkulaty

    Cji`jrs Prialalf

    I trialalf ghr ehkkulaty cji`jrs kafbt dj idhut tbj sikj is i PHP, dut tbj jk-pbisas whuc dj hl ehltjlt ritbjr tbil bhw th trial htbjrs. Icsh dj surj th prhva`j

    takj th rjvajw tbj issjsskjlt il` bivj tbj ehkkulaty cji`jrs jtjrkalj stritjfajs

    th i``rjss tbj assujs riasj` al tbj issjsskjlt.

    Ag yhu irj whroalf watb pjjr j`ueithrs, at as erueaic tbit yhu sebj`ucj shkj takj hl

    tbj cist iy hg tbj ehkkulaty cji`jrs trialalf th h i sjssahl idhut pjjr j`ueitahl

    il` th i``rjss bhw yhu il` tbj ehkkulaty cji`jrs thfjtbjr eil ebhhsj tbj prhpjr

    yhulf pjhpcj ghr tbas rhcj. Dj vjry ecjir idhut wbit yhu wilt grhk tbj pjjr j`u-

    eithrs djghrj tbas sjssahl, dut dj jxadcj jlhufb th i`ipt th wbit tbj ehkkulaty

    cji`jrs wilt.

    Uikpcj Uebj`ucj^jjr J`ueithrsAl kily wiys, tbas kiy dj yhur khst akphrtilt trialalf. Jvjrytbalf kiy tioj chlfjr

    al tbas trialalf tbil watb htbjr frhups, is yhu sbhuc` spjl` jxtri takj th jkpbisazj

    tbj assujs il` tjeblaqujs. Virkups sbhuc` dj chlfjr il` khrj cavjcy, il` drjios

    khrj grjqujlt. Qhulf pjhpcj ljj` th ojjp khvalf il` strjtebalf!

    At as suffjstj` tbit yhu ghcchw tbj PHP sebj`ucj idhvj ghr yhur alataic trialalf hg

    tbj pjjr j`ueithrs, pjrbips i``alf il jxtri `iy hr twh. Igtjr tbit whrosbhp, yhu

    kafbt kjjt watb tbj pjjr j`ueithrs hlej hr twaej i wjjo th ehl`uet gurtbjr sjs-

    sahls grhk tbjCagj Uoaccs Kiluicbivalf tbjk jlfifj dhtb is pirtaeapilts il`

    gieacatithrs.

    At as vjry akphrtilt tbit yhu favj tbj pjjr j`ueithrs takj th `afjst il` altjrlicazj

    tbj a`jis, jspjeaiccy tbj Giealf Giets idhut BAW/IA@U il` UP@s(^irt AAA) sjs-

    sahls, il` tbit yhu favj tbjk takj th prietaej gieacatitalf sjssahls.

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    HvjrvajwPbas sjssahl as tbj erux hg tbj Cagj Uoaccs prhfrik. Pbj Dra`fj Kh`jcas i vasuic

    wiy hg prjsjltalf tbj ehlejpt hg djbivahr ebilfj tbit as usj` al tbj Cagj Uoaccs

    prhfrik. I tbhrhufb ul`jrstil`alf hg tbas kh`jc as jssjltaic al strueturalf i Cagj

    Uoaccs prhfrik al yhur ehkkulaty.

    At as khst jggjetavj th altrh`uej tbas kh`jc igtjr ehl`uetalf shkj khtavitahl sjs-

    sahls. Pbjsj sjssahls kafbt alecu`j Jxebilfalf Uthrajs (Ujssahl 5 al irt W) (Pbj

    Akpiet hg IA@U Wiraitahl), Jircy ^rjfliley(Ujssahl 7 al irt W) hr htbjr sjssahls

    tbit bafbcafbt shkj hg tbj raso ietavaty hg yhutb.

    Pakj9 bhur, 5> kalutjs th 4 bhurs

    HdmjetavjsDy tbj jl` hg tbj sjssahl, pirtaeapilts wacc dj idcj th=

    9. Cast rasos giealf yhulf pjhpcj al tbj ehkkulaty.

    4. A`jltagy cagj soaccs tbit kafbt bjcp yhulf pjhpcj th ivha` raso il` duac` i bjictby,

    phsatavj guturj.

    5. Cast tbrjj eitjfhrajs hg cagj soaccs.

    0. @jseradj tbj Dra`fj Kh`jchg djbivahr ebilfj.

    KitjraicsGcap ebirt=Dra`fj Kh`jc

    Kirojrs hr ebico

    CAGJUOACCU= DIUAEUJUUAHLU

    Ujssahl 9=

    PBJDTA@FJKH@JC=

    BHV@HVJDZAC@IDTA@FJGTHK

    ALGHTKIPAHLPHDJBIWAHTEBILFJ8

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    @aseuss tbj kh`jc watb tbj pirtaeapilts. halt hut tbit yhulf pjhpcj fjljriccy olhw

    i frjit jic idhut tbj rasos hg sjxuic ietavaty. Al i sjlsj, tbj yhulf pjhpcj irj stil`-

    alf hl thp hg icc hg tbj olhwcj`fj tbjy ljj` th ojjp tbjksjcvjs sigj grhk tbj rasoy

    djbivahr hg cagj. Drialsthrk shkj hg tbj eurrjlt olhwcj`fj ul`jrsthh` dy khst

    yhulf pjhpcj= giets idhut BAW/IA@U, alghrkitahl hl `rufs hr icehbhc, jte. Khst

    yhulf pjhpcj cjirl icc idhut BAW/IA@U prjvjltahl al sebhhc. @hjs tbit kjil tbitlh hlj fjts algjetj`8 Jkpbisazj tbit jvjl tbhufb pjhpcj bivj tbj olhwcj`fj tbit

    `hjs lht kjil tbit tbjy h lht jlfifj al rasoy djbivahrs.At as bjcpguc th ehltaluiccy

    rjgjr dieo th Cuey `uralf tbas `aseussahl.

    Lhw `riw ittjltahl th tbj htbjr sa j hg tbj dra`fj. halt hut tbit, is tjiebjrs, ehk-

    kulaty kjkdjrs, pirjlts, pjjr j`ueithrs, il` htbjrs wj wilt th bjcp hur yhulf

    pjhpcj khvj th tbj ^hsatavj, Bjictby Cagj sa`j hg tbj dra`fj. Vj wilt th bjcp tbjk

    usj tbj olhwcj`fj tbit tbjy bivj th cavj i strhlfjr, bjictbajr cagj. (Zsj fjsturjs th

    sbhw tbas khvjkjlt hl tbjDra`fj Kh`jcap ebirt.)

    Vbacj fjsturalf thwir`s tbj sji, iso pirtaeapilts th suffjst wbit as iwiatalf yhulf

    pjhpcj ag wj h lht l` i wiy th bjcp tbjk sueejssguccy erhss grhk olhwcj`fj th iphsatavj, bjictby cagj. Jquappj` watb lhtbalf dut olhwcj`fj, yhulf pjhpcj giej tbj

    raso hg giccalf alth i sji hg prhdcjks caoj BAW algjetahl, icehbhc il` ruf i``aetahl,

    ulwiltj` prjfliley, il` sh ghrtb.

    Uh, wbit tbjl as kassalf8 Vbit `hjs at tioj th bjcp pjhpcj th usj tbjar olhwcj`fj

    th cji` i djttjr cagj8 Cji` i frhup drialsthrkalf sjssahl idhut wbit at tiojs th fjt

    ierhss tbj dra`fj. Qhu kafbt ehltaluj th rjgjr th Cuey il` tbj rhcj pciy uralf tbas

    drialsthrkalf sjssahl, usalf qujstahls caoj, Vbit wis Cuey kassalf8 Vbit a` sbj

    ljj` th bjcp bjr th usj tbj alghrkitahl sbj bi` th kioj tbj rafbt `jeasahl8 @a`lt

    Cuey olhw tbj rasos8 @a` sbj bivj tbj alghrkitahl8 Qhu kiy ljj` th fua`j tbj

    frhup th jxpchrj icc ilfcjs hg tbj satuitahl sh tbit yhu eil fjt is kily `aggjrjlt

    suffjstahls is phssadcj.

    Jieb takj shkjhlj favjs i suffjstahl, at djehkjs i pcilo al tbj dra`fj. Vratj

    at hl tbj ebirt idhvj tbj sji djtwjjl tbj twh baccs. Ojjp drialsthrkalf ultac tbj

    jltarj dra`fj as ehkpcjtj`tbjrj sbhuc` dj kily, kily a`jis. Fua`j tbj frhup th

    ul`jrstil` tbjsj calos dy rjgjrralf th tbj rhcj pciy.

    Vbjl tbj dra`fj as lasbj` il` icc a`jis irj jxbiustj`, prhejss tbj ehlejpt watb

    tbj frhup ifial. Pbjsj pcilos al tbj dra`fj irj tbj cagj soaccstbj thhcs i pjrshl

    ljj`s th bjcp trilscitj tbj olhwcj`fj tbit tbjy bivj alth bjictbajr djbivahr. At as

    hur mhd th bjcp th `jvjchp tbjsj cagj soaccs al pjhpcjth bjcp tbjk iequarj tbj

    soaccs il` thhcs ljejssiry th cji` bjictbajr, bippajr cavjs. ^halt hut tbit jvjl ag i

    gjw soaccs irj kassalf (ehvjr shkj hg tbj pcilos watb yhur bil`s), wbit bippjls8

    Pbj pjrshl kiy stacc gicc alth i sji hg prhdcjks. At as tbjrjghrj ljejssiry th ciuleb

    i ehkprjbjlsavj prhfrik tbit tirfjts icc hg tbjsj assujs th djttjr jquap tbj pjhpcj

    al hur ehkkulaty th kioj bjictby `jeasahls ghr tbjar guturjs.

    Uh, tbj whro hg tbj Cagj Uoaccs prhfrik as lht hlcy th prhva`j alghrkitahl salej wj

    djcajvj tbit khst hg tbj alghrkitahl as icrji y ul`jrsthh . Alstji , wj irj jvjchpalf

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    tbj soaccs (rjgjr th tbj dra`fj watb yhur bil`) th djttjr usj tbas alghrkitahl th cji`

    th i phsatavj, bjictby cagj. Hur sjssahls, tbjl, gheus hl tbj `jvjchpkjlt hg tbjsj

    cagj soaccs.

    AAA. Altrh`uetahl th Cagj Uoaccs Eitjfhrajs

    (4> kalutjs)Is i ehltaluitahl hg tbj idhvj sjssahl, wratj tbj tbrjj eitjfhrajs hg cagj soaccs hl i

    ap ebirt hr hl tbj dhir`.

    Ehkkulaeitahl Uoaccs

    @jeasahlKioalf Uoaccs

    Tjcitahlsbap Uoaccs

    Jxpcial tbit wj bivj sakpcy frhupj` tbj cagj soaccs alth i gjw eitjfhrajs th kioj

    at jisajr th whro watb tbjk. Fh hvjr jieb eitjfhry, il` iso tbj frhup th suffjst

    wbaeb hg tbj cagj soaccs wrattjl hl tbjDra`fj Kh`jcap ebirt kafbt t alth jiebeitjfhry (ghr jxikpcj, rjcitahlsbap soaccs kafbt alecu`j fhh` rhcj kh`jcs, fjl`jr

    assujs, ehkkulaeitahl soaccs, sjcgjstjjk, il` rjsastilej th pjjr prjssurj). Kily

    hg tbj cagj soaccs wacc t alth khrj tbil hlj eitjfhry.

    @h lht spjl` thh kueb takj hl tbas thpae. Must kioj surj tbit tbj pirtaeapilts

    ul`jrstil` tbit tbjsj irj must frhupalfs ghr tbj sioj hg ehlvjlajlej. Icc hg tbj cagj

    soaccs irj akphrtilt, il` shkj t al khrj tbil hlj eitjfhry.

    Jvicuitahl (9: kalutjs)

    Ph jlsurj tbit tbj frhup ul`jrstil`s tbj pbachshpby hg tbj Dra`fj Kh`jc, yhukiy wasb th ghcchw tbas sjssahl akkj`aitjcy watb A`jltagyalf tbj Kassalf Cagj

    Uoacc. Ag takj `hjs lht pjrkat tbas, yhu kafbt sakpcy iso tbj pirtaeapilts th piar

    hgg il` th jxpcial tbj kh`jc th jieb htbjr wbacj rjgjrralf th tbj dra`fj. Khvj

    idhut tbj rhhk il` hdsjrvj tbj cjvjc hg ul`jrstil`alf al tbj frhup il` eciragy

    phalts is ljejssiry.

    Pbj Dra`fj Kh`jc wis prjsjltj` it tbj ^jiej Ehrps/Kiciwa whrosbhp ^rhkhtalf Ujxuic Bjictb,bjc` al Cachlfwj, Kiciwa, al Mucy 9117.

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    ^ITPAEA^ILPBIL@HZP

    ^IFJ9 HG4

    Pbj Thcj ^ciy

    Pwh Ebirietjrs=

    Tati wis al bjr lic yjir it sjehl`iry sebhhc wbjl sbj`rhppj` hut `uj th ulwiltj` prjfliley. Ubj bis

    djjl i`vasalf bjr grajl`, Cuey, th stiy al sebhhc il` th ivha` dhygrajl`s, sjx, il` sh ghrtb, djghrj ehkpcjt-

    alf bjr j`ueitahl.

    Cuey as al bjr rst yjir it sjehl`iry sebhhc, il` sbj bis djjl `half vjry wjcc al bjr ecissjs. @jspatj bjr

    grajl`s wirlalf, sbj bis djehkj prjflilt il` bis ehkj th drjio tbj ljws th bjr grajl`.

    Tati as sattalf hutsa`j bjr bhusj. Ubj as rheoalf bjr didy al bjr irks. Is sbj sats ichlj watb tbj didy, sbj ticos

    idhut bhw tarj` sbj bis djjl il` bhw kueb whro tbj didy turlj` hut th dj. Ubj kafbt siy tbalfs caoj, Hb,ky didybhw trhudcjshkj yhu irj! Ojjpalf kj up icc lafbt caoj tbit! Vhlt yhu jvjr sjttcj `hwl8

    Cuey wicos up il` sbhuts Bjcch, as ilydh`y bhkj8 Ubj as wjcehkj` wirkcy dy Tati. Cuey sats `hwl

    il` frjjts bjr grajl`. Ubj alquarjs igtjr tbj bjictb hg tbj didy, il` Tati tjccs bjr tbit tbj didy bis djjl saeo

    il` bis yjt th scjjp tbrhufb tbj lafbt. Pbj grajl`s ebit ghr i khkjlt djghrj Tati ehkkjlts hl bhw h`` at

    as th sjj Cuey caoj tbas `uralf i sebhhc `iy. Tati isos Cuey wby sbj as lht al sebhhc, dut Cuey ebilfjs tbj

    sudmjet dy ticoalf idhut tbj didy. Tati isos Cuey ifial, il` sbj ifial ivha`s tbj thpae dy isoalf Tati idhut

    Tatis dhygrajl`, Mikjs. Tati rjsphl`s dy siyalf tbit sbj bis lht bjir` grhk Mikjs salej tbj dartb hg tbjar

    didy. Ubj bis bjir` tbit bj as lhw stu`yalf al tbj Z.O., dut bj bis ljvjr ehkj th sjj bjr hr tbj didy. Tati

    rjkalasejs tbit sbj, thh, ehuc` bivj fhlj th tbj Z.O. ghr stu`ajsbjr sehrjs wjrj sh bafbil` sbj rjkal`s

    Cuey hg bhw akphrtilt at as th ivha` tbjsj dhys il` stiy al sebhhc.Tati isos ifial wby Cuey as bjrj hl i sebhhc `iy. Cuey siys shkjtbalf caoj tbasKy grajl`, `h yhu

    rjkjkdjr tbj i`vaej tbit yhu irj icwiys favalf kj8 Tati rjsphl`sHg ehursj A `hA thc` yhu! @hlt

    kioj tbj sikj kastiojs A ki`jghrfjt tbjsj dhys ultac yhu irj lasbj` watb yhur stu`ajs. Idstialalf grhk

    sjx as tbj djst wiy th ivha` fjttalf prjflilt hr fjttalf asjisjsjvjl IA@U! Cuey prhdjs gurtbjr. Vbit

    jcsj bivj yhu i`vasj` kj8

    Tati siys, A thc` yhu tbit ag yhu il` tbit dhygrajl` hg yhurs, Taebir`, eillht idstial, tbjl rjkjkdjr th

    usj i ehl`hk. Qhu rjkjkdjr! A jvjl fivj yhu shkj ehl`hks! Ib! Dut ehkj hl, ky grajl`, wbit irj yhu

    rjiccy `half bjrj8 Irj yhu al trhudcj8 Vbit as at8

    Cuey, lhw al tjirs, ehlgjssjs tbit sbj as prjflilt watb Taebir`s didy. Tati djehkjs ilfry. Ubj rjkal`s

    Cuey hg icc tbj i`vaej sbj bis favjl bjr? sbj rjkal`s Cuey hg tbj jxikpcj hg bjr hwl cagj. Cuey prhtjsts

    watb a`jis caoj, Dut bj chvjs kj! Bj bis prhkasj` th kirry kj! Tati rjkal`s Cuey tbit Mikjs prhkasj`

    bjr tbj sikj tbalf. Tati isos wby Cuey bi` sjx watb Taebir` igtjr icc bjr wirlalfs. Cuey siys tbit Taebir`

    tbrjitjlj` th cjivj bjr ag sbj `a` lht bivj sjx watb bak. Bj sia` at wis tbj hlcy wiy th sbhw bak tbit sbj

    chvj` bak, tbit jvjryhlj wis bivalf sjx, jte. Tati isos wby Cuey `a`lt usj ily hg tbj ehl`hks sbj fivj

    bjr. Cuey siys tbit bjr ebureb as ifialst ehl`hk usj, il` djsa`jsTaebir` rjgusj` th usj tbjk.

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    Galiccy, al `jgjlsj hg bjrsjcg, Cuey siys, Vjcc, wby wiat8 Vby lht bivj i didy lhw8 Taebir` as fhalf thdj i `hethr. A wilt th dj bas wagj! Vbit as tbj `aggjrjlej ag A lasb sebhhc8 Chho it Kirajsbj lasbj`

    sebhhc il` sbj as must stiyalf it bhkj. Pbjrj irj lh mhds ilywiy!

    ^ITPAEA^ILPBIL@HZP

    ^IFJ4 HG4

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    hlj hg tbj cagj soaccs wj castj` hl tbj dra`fj as kassalf. Ghr jxikpcj, tbj rhcj

    pciy kafbt sbhw i yhulf pjrshl aleipidcj hg djalf issjrtavj il` tbjl favalf

    al th `raloalf icehbhc.

    AA. A`jltagyalf tbj Kassalf Cagj Uoacc

    (9 bhur)Igtjr tbj frhup bis ehkj dieo thfjtbjr, alvatj jieb frhup th pjrghrk ats rhcj

    pciy. Kjkdjrs hg tbj cirfjr frhup sbhuc` tbjl a`jltagy wbaeb cagj soacc as kass-

    alf al tbj rhcj pciy. Pbj frhup kiy lhtaej tbit khrj tbil hlj cagj soacc as kass-

    alfpjrbips tbj pjrshl as cieoalf sjcgjstjjk, fhh` ehkkulaeitahl soaccs,

    il` rjsastilej th pjjr prjssurj. Cjt tbj frhup drialsthrk idhut tbj kily cagj

    soaccs tbit kafbt bivj bjcpj` tbj yhulf pjrshl jggjetavjcy kilifj tbj satuitahl

    al tbj rhcj pciy. Zsj tbas jxjreasj is i kjils hg jxpchralf tbj wiy tbjsj cagj

    soaccs ehuc` ebilfj i satuitahl al i yhulf pjrshls cagj.

    Jvicuitahl (4> kalutjs)Ph jlsurj tbit tbj frhup bis altjrlicazj` tbj Cagj Uoaccs ehlejpt, alvatj `ag-

    gjrjlt pirtaeapilts th stil` al grhlt hg tbjDra`fj Kh`jcap ebirt il` jxpcial

    at th htbjrs. ^irtaeapilts eil usj tbj rhcj pciys tbjy must siw is jxikpcjs al

    tbjar jxpcilitahls.

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    At as up th yhu il` yhur ehkkulaty th `jea`j wbjtbjr hr lht th whro watb pjjr

    j`ueithrs al yhur prhfrik. Vhroalf watb pjjr j`ueithrs kiy rjquarj i saflaeilt

    ehkkatkjlt al takj, rjshurejs, il` supphrt, yjt tbj djljts hg usalf pjjr j`uei-

    thrs eil dj ehlsa`jridcj.

    Vbh Irj ^jjr J`ueithrs8^jjr j`ueithrs irj pjhpcj sjcjetj` ghr tbjar cji`jrsbap phtjltaic al bjcpalf htbjrs.

    Pbjy irj trialj` th bjcp htbjr pirtaeapilts cjirl tbrhufb jkhlstritahls, castjlalf,

    rhcj pciyalf, jlehurifalf, sjrvalf is rhcj kh`jcs, prhva`alf gjj`dieo, il` supphrt-

    alf bjictby jeasahls il` djbivahrs.

    Djljts hg Zsalf ^jjr J`ueithrs

    Qhulf pjhpcj irj caojcy th castjl th, il` akatitj, pjjrs tbit irj wjcc caoj` il`

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    ^jjr j`ueithrs wbh kh`jc jxikpcjs hg bjictby djbivahrs eil alujlej djbivahrs

    hg htbjr pjjrs il` bjcp tbjk ivha` tioalf rasos.

    ^jjr j`ueithrs eil supphrt, jlehurifj, il` bjcp tbjar pjjrs dhtb alsa`j il`

    hutsa`j hg sjssahls.

    ^jjr j`ueithrs kiy issast yhu dy prjsjltalf tbj sjssahl, tbjrjdy icchwalf khrjtakj ghr al`ava`uic ittjltahl al skicc frhups il` ghr wa`jr ieejss th i cirfjr

    frhup hg yhulf pjhpcj.

    ^jjr j`ueithrs kiy dj idcj th bjcp kilifj il` shcvj prhdcjks ikhlf tbj

    frhup.

    Dy sjrvalf al tbas eipieaty, yhulf pjhpcj dhhst tbjar sjcgjstjjk, cjirl vicuidcj

    il` kirojtidcj soaccs, kioj ehltiets, il` pjrbips tioj khrj pra`j al tbjar cavjs

    il` djbivahrs tbil prahr th tbjar rhcjs is pjjr j`ueithrs.

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    Vbit Irj Uhkj Yuicatajs hg Fhh`

    ^jjr J`ueithrs8Uhkj ebirietjrastaes th chho ghr wbjl ebhhsalf pjjr j`ueithrs alecu`j=

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    Vjccrhul`j` yhulf pjhpcjlht ljejssiracy tbj thp stu`jlt al tbj eciss?

    shkjhlj wbh `hjs wjcc al sebhhc dut icsh as ietavj hutsa`j hg tbj ecissrhhk,

    sueb is al sphrts, ecuds, hr ehkkulaty whro Jquic kax hg kicj il` gjkicj pjjr j`ueithrs

    Jquic kax hg yhulf pjhpcj grhk `aggjrjlt ifj rilfjs il` fri`js hr ghrks

    al sebhhc

    ^jrbips shkj yhulf pjhpcj wbh bivj jlfifj` al raso djbivahrs djghrj il` irj

    lhw waccalf th spjio hut idhut sueb djbivahrs

    Kax hg yhulf pjhpcj grhk `aggjrjlt ecuds, sphrts tjiks, il` altjrjsts th rjieb

    i wa`jr rilfj hg pjhpcj

    Vbit Irj Uhkj ^rhdcjks al Zsalf^jjr J`ueithrs8 ^rhphsj` Uhcutahls8

    ^jjr j`ueithrs rjquarj il jxtri takj ehkkatkjlt. Qhu sbhuc` dj waccalf th

    spjl` saflaeilt takj ebhhsalf, trialalf, rjtrialalf, khlathralf, il` jvicuit-

    alf pjjr j`ueithrs.

    At eil dj `ageuct kialtialalf khtavitahl. Hgtjl pjjr j`ueithrs wilt il alejl-

    tavj ghr tbj whro tbit tbjy prhva`j. Jkpbisazj tbj djljts hg djalf i pjjr

    j`ueithr, alecu`alf soaccs il` sjcgjstjjk duac`alf, ehltiets, il` sh ghrtb. Qhu

    kafbt prhva`j i frhup ulaghrk hr di`fj th sjt tbjk ipirt grhk htbjrs, kioj at

    phssadcj ghr tbjk th ljtwhro watb htbjr pjjr j`ueithrs (fhalf hl i trap), il`

    ehlsa`jr tbjk ghr yhutb ehlgjrjlejs hr trialalfs tbit kafbt irasj.

    Utu`jlts kiy djehkj mjichus hg pjjr j`ueithrs. Utraoj i dicilej djtwjjl

    khtavitalf tbj pjjr j`ueithrs tbrhufb hpphrtulatajs il` kioalf htbjr yhulf

    pjhpcj mjichus dy yhur trjitkjlt hg tbj pjjr j`ueithrs. Ag htbjrs irj mjichus hg

    tbj pjjr j`ueithrs, tbjy wacc dj kueb cjss jggjetavj tbil ag tbjy irj wjcc caoj`

    il` gjjc i pirt hg tbj frhup.

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    Uhkj pjjr j`ueithrs jlfifj al raso djbivahr. Jvjl igtjr trialalf il` whroalf

    watb i yhulf pjrshl, bj hr sbj kiy djehkj alvhcvj` al tbj vjry ietavatajs yhu

    irj tjiebalf pirtaeapilts th ivha`. I pjjr j`ueithr wbh djehkjs prjflilt, fjts

    eiufbt raloalf, il` sh ghrtb kiy dj alerj`adcy ikifalf th tbj prhfrik. Ghr

    tbas rjishl, ehlstilt khlathralf, rjtrialalf, il` rjalghrejkjlt irj erueaic ghr

    yhur pjjr j`ueithr prhfrik. Bhwjvjr, ojjp al kal` tbit rjcipsj as jxpjetj`

    al djbivahr ebilfj. Qhur rjsphlsj th sueb i satuitahl as akphrtilt al rj`uealf

    tbj stafki issheaitj` watb BAW hr UP@ algjetahl, ulwiltj` prjfliley, jte.

    Fua`alf tbas pjjr j`ueithr tbrhufb sueb i cagj ebilfj wacc prhva`j i phwjrguc

    jxikpcj ghr tbj pjjr frhup.

    ^jjr j`ueithrs kiy lht dj olhwcj`fjidcj il` ehlvjy alehrrjet alghrkitahl.

    Vbjl pjjr j`ueithrs sprji` bjictb alghrkitahl, htbjr yhulf pjhpcj typaeiccy

    djcajvj tbjk? igtjr icc, yhu bivj ebhsjl il` trialj` tbjsj yhulf pjhpcj, sh tbj

    djcajg as tbit tbjy kust dj jxpjrts. Pbjrjghrj, ag pjjr j`ueithrs irj sprji`alf

    alehrrjet alghrkitahl, at eil dj `hudcy birkguc. At as akpjritavj th spjl` takj

    trialalf il` rjtrialalf tbjsj yhulf pjhpcj th `assjkalitj ehrrjet alghrki-

    tahl. Ictjrlitjcy, pjjr j`ueithrs kafbt whro al piars, th rjalghrej jieb htbjrsdjbivahr il` sjrvj is shurejs hg kutuic supphrt.

    ^jjr j`ueithrs khvj, trilsgjr, il` cjivj tbj prhfrik. At as akphrtilt th bivj

    i lukdjr hg pjjr j`ueithrs al tbj prhfrik th hggsjt tbj aljvatidcj rjicaty hg

    chsalf shkj.

    Bhw Eil Vj Ebhhsj ^jjr J`ueithrs8Pbjrj irj i lukdjr hg wiys th ebhhsj yhur pjjr j`ueithrs. Pbjrj irj phsatavjs il`

    ljfitavjs idhut icc hg tbjk. Bjrj irj i gjw a`jis=

    Alvhcvj tbj ehkkulaty cji`jrs. Ag yhu irj prjsjltalf i ehkkulaty cji`jr trial-

    alf hr drajlf, alecu`j i gjw sjssahls hl pjjr j`ueitahl. Issafl skicc frhups

    th ilswjr tbj qujstahls al tbas sjetahl. Kioj surj tbj ehkkulaty cji`jrs irj

    vjry ecjir hl wbit i pjjr j`ueithr `hjs, wbit typj hg pjrshl kiojs tbj djst

    pjjr j`ueithr, il` sh ghrtb. Bivj tbjk lhkalitj twaej is kily pjjr j`ueithrs

    is yhu ietuiccy wilt al tbj prhfrik. Pbjl, put tbj phtjltaic pjjr j`ueithrs

    tbrhufb shkj jxjreasjssueb is tbj Pruj/Gicsj fikj, rhcj pciys, i pjrshlic

    altjrvajw, il` sh ghrtb. Disj` hl tbj pjrshlicatajs tbit kilagjst tbjksjcvjs al

    tbjsj jxjreasjs, ebhhsj i fhh` kax hg pjjr j`ueithrs.

    Vbjl ehl`uetalf survjys hr gheus frhup aseussahls, alecu`j Vbh kafbt yhu

    fh th al tbj ehkkulaty ag yhu bi` i prhdcjk8 Al tbas wiy, yhu kiy ehkj upwatb i cast hg phtjltaic pjjr j`ueithrs.

    Iso tbj yhulf pjhpcj th lhkalitj hr ebhhsj pjjr j`ueithrs. At as ejrtialcy i

    fhh` a`ji th bivj yhulf pjhpcj ebhhsj tbhsj wbh wacc rjprjsjlt tbjk. Qhu

    eil try th ivha` tbj phpuciraty ehltjst pbjlhkjlhl dy isoalf tbjk th vhtj ghr

    twaej is kily pjjr j`ueithrs is yhu ljj`? tbjl usalf tbj prhejss suffjstj` ghr

    tbj ehkkulaty idhvj, ebhhsj tbj djst pjjr j`ueithrs.

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    Ag yhu irj whroalf al i sebhhc, at kiy dj djst th sjcjet shkj pjjr j`ueithrs

    grhk jieb hg tbj fri`j cjvjcs. Ag icc pjjr j`ueithrs irj grhk tbj lic fri`j, yhu

    wacc chsj icc hg yhur pjjr j`ueithrs it hlej wbjl tbjy lasb sebhhc.

    Ph rjieb i wa`j rilfj hg pjhpcj, ebhhsj yhulf pjhpcj grhk `aggjrjlt frhups,

    ecuds, il` altjrjsts.

    ^ifjs 0900 i`iptj` il` rjpraltj` watb pjrkassahl hg Vhrc` Bjictb Hrfilazitahl grhk Uebhhc BjictbJ`ueitahl Ph ^rjvjlt IA@U il` UP@= I Tjshurej ieoifj ghr Eurraeucuk ^cilljrsBil`dhho ghrEurraeucuk cilljrs, p. 52, il` Pjiebjrs Fua`j, p. 9: VBH 9110

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    HvjrvajwUhkjtakjs pjjr j`ueithrs wacc dj rjsphlsadcj ghr cji`alf sjssahls il` skicc frhups.

    Pbas sjssahl prhva`js hpphrtulatajs th aseuss shkj hg tbj prhdcjks tbit kafbt irasj

    al frhups il` erjitj stritjfajs ghr `jicalf watb tbjk.

    Pakj9 bhur

    HdmjetavjsDy tbj jl` hg tbj sjssahl, pirtaeapilts wacc dj idcj th=

    9. Cast phtjltaic prhdcjks tbit kafbt heeur al i frhup.4. A`jltagy stritjfajs th ehpj watb prhdcjks tbit irasj al frhups.

    KitjraicsGcap ebirts hr dhir`

    Kirojrs hr ebico

    Bil`hut=^rhdcjk Uejlirah Eir s(jieb lukdjrj` stitjkjlt as i sjpiritj eir`)

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    @jcavjry

    A. Ukicc Frhup Vhro (4> kalutjs)

    Altrh`uej tbj thpae th yhur pirtaeapilts. Jxpcial tbit tbjy irj fhalf th `h i sbhrt

    jxjreasj th chho it tbj oal`s hg prhdcjks tbit kafbt ehkj up al skicc frhup aseus-sahls il` wiys th `jic watb tbhsj prhdcjks.

    Upcat tbj pjjr j`ueithrs alth frhups hr piars. Favj jieb frhup hr piar i prhdcjk eir`.

    Pbjy sbhuc` rji` tbj satuitahl, `aseuss at, il` rjphrt dieo th tbj frhup=

    9. Vbit kafbt dj tbj jggjet hg tbas djbivahr hl tbj wbhcj frhup8

    4. Vbit irj stritjfajs ghr jicalf watb tbas djbivahr8

    AA. @jicalf watb ^rhdcjks al FrhupsCirfj

    Frhup @aseussahl (0> kalutjs)

    Bivj icc frhups rjphrt dieo. @aseuss jieb satuitahl il` phssadcj wiys th ipprhieb

    tbj prhdcjk. Ehkj th il ifrjjkjlt watb tbj frhup idhut bhw th bil`cj tbj assuj.

    Igtjr icc frhups bivj prjsjltj`, iso jvjryhlj th bjcp sukkirazj tbj stritjfajs.

    Vratj tbjk hl i ap ebirt hr dhir` sh tbit yhu eil rjgjr th tbjk citjr. Uhkj hg tbj

    a`jis kafbt dj is ghcchws=

    @jicalf Vatb ^rhdcjks al Frhups

    9. Erjitj Frhul` Tucjs ghr tbj frhup `uralf tbj rst sjssahl il` rjgjr th

    tbjk wbjl tbjrj as i prhdcjk.

    4. Ag tbjrj irj `asruptahls, phcatjcy rjkal` tbj frhup tbit tbjrj as i tiso hr

    prhdcjk th shcvj is wjcc is i takj cakat.

    5. Pico pravitjcy th tbj pjrshl eiusalf tbj prhdcjk. Pry th l` hut wbit as it

    tbj rhht hg tbj prhdcjk. Tjvajw tbj disae frhup rucjs il` bhw tbj pjrshls

    djbivahr as ljfitavjcy iggjetalf tbj frhup. Tjqujst bas hr bjr supphrt il`

    ehhpjritahl ghr tbj ljxt takj tbj frhup kjjts.

    0. Tjsphl` th tbhsj wbh altjrrupt dy siyalf, Jxeusj kj. Must i rjkal`jr

    tbit jvjryhlj al tbj frhup bis i rafbt th spjio watbhut djalf altjrruptj`.

    Hr Jxeusj kj, pcjisj cjtlasb djghrj spjioalf.

    :. Ag tbj djbivahr as sh `asturdalf tbit at eillht dj aflhrj`, i``rjss at al tbj

    frhup. Erataeazj wbit as djalf sia` hr `hlj (lht tbj pjrshl rjsphlsadcj ghrtbj `asruptahl). ^halt hut bhw tbj djbivahr dcheos tbj frhups grhk gule-

    tahlalf wjcc.

    7. It tbj jl` hg i frhup sjssahl, cji` i `aseussahl idhut bhw tbj frhup as

    `half. Pry th `h tbas al sueb i wiy tbit gjjcalfs irj lht burt.

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    Drialsthrk i cast hg suffjstj` frhul` rucjs. ^hst tbit cast, icsh.

    Uhkj Uuffjstj` Frhul` Tucjs

    Jvjryhlj wacc dj favjl il hpphrtulaty th tico

    Jvjryhlj wacc pirtaeapitj guccy il` grjjcy Jvjryhlj bis i rafbt th piss (th jea`j lht th aseuss i pjrshlic assuj)

    Hlcy hlj pjrshl ticos it i takj? lh altjrruptalf htbjrs

    Lh alsucts hr ljfitavj ehkkjlts

    Ojjp hl tbj thpae? lh sa`j `aseussahls hr htbjr thpaes

    Dj hl takj? kialtial puletuicaty

    Vbit yhu bjir stiys bjrj. Alghrkitahl rjvjicj` al sjssahl sbhuc` dj ehl-

    `jltaic.

    Jvicuitahl^rhdcjks aljvatidcy wacc ehkj up jvjl al tbj ^jjr J`ueitahlsjssahls. Qhu wacc

    bivj shkj a`ji hg bhw wjcc tbj pjjr j`ueithrs wacc bil`cj tbj prhdcjks al frhups,

    disj` hl bhw wjcc tbjy kilifj tbj tjlsahls watbal tbj pjjr frhup atsjcg hvjr tbj

    ehursj hg tbj trialalf pjrah`.

    ^ifjs 0:02 i`iptj` il` rjpraltj` watb pjrkassahl hg Vhrc` Bjictb Hrfilazitahl grhk Uebhhc Bjictb

    J`ueitahl Ph ^rjvjlt IA@U il` UP@= I Tjshurej ieoifj ghr Eurraeucuk ^cilljrsBil`dhho ghrEurraeucuk cilljrs, pp. 510> VBH 9110

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    ^ITPAEA^ILPEIT@U

    (JIEBLZKDJTJ@UPIPJKJLPAUIUJ^ITIPJEIT@)

    ^THDCJKUEJLITAHEIT@U

    9. Pbj skicc frhup bis djjl thfjtbjr ghr i gjw iys lhw il` at as quatj ecjir tbit Fagt hkalitjs tbj htbjrs.

    Bj ticos khst hg tbj takj il` wbjl htbjrs siy shkjtbalf, bj `hjs lht piy ittjltahl.

    4. Liticai bis djjl vjry quajt `uralf tbj rst frhup kjjtalf. Bhwjvjr, su``jlcy sbj djehkjs vjry erata-

    eic hg tbj htbjr frhup kjkdjrs. Ubj kiojs ru`j rjkiros th hlj pjrshl al pirtaeucir dut icsh hdmjets th

    hpalahls jxprjssj` dy tbj rjst hg tbj frhup.

    5. Railf as i cattcj hc`jr tbil tbj htbjrs al tbj frhup. Bj tjccs pjhpcj al bas frhup wbit th `h il` bhw th

    `h at. Lh hlj bis hdmjetj` th wbit bj as `half, dut yhu eil tjcc tbjy irj lht bippy idhut tbj satuitahl.

    0. Jvi hgtjl altjrrupts htbjrs al tbj frhup. Ubj icsh puts htbjrs hwl dy eiccalf tbjar a`jis stupa` hr ukd.

    Pbj rjst hg tbj frhup as fjttalf ilfry watb bjr djeiusj hg bjr djbivahr.

    :. Mhsj as lht rjiccy altjrjstj` al tbj frhup kjjtalfs. Vbjl bj ittjl s, bj iets dhrj` il` `hjs lht ehltrad-

    utj. It htbjr takjs, bj trajs th tico th shkjhlj al tbj frhup idhut shkjtbalf ehkpcjtjcy hgg tbj thpae. Ag

    htbjrs `h lht mhal bak, bj djehkjs chu` il` `asruptavj.

    7. Pbj dhys al tbj frhup icwiys tico rst, ilswjr qujstahls rst, il` hkalitj tbj aseussahls. Pbj farcs

    icwiys sjjk th wiat ghr tbj dhys th spjio rstjvjl ag tbjy hdvahuscy olhw tbj ilswjrs.

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    HvjrvajwUalej tbjy irj sjrvalf is rhcj kh`jcs il` cji`jrs ikhlf tbjar grajl`s, at as akphr-

    tilt th jkpbisazj tbj pjjr j`ueithrs rjsphlsadacaty th dj supphrtavj hg tbhsj yhulf

    pjhpcj wbh irj jlfifalf al bjictby djbivahr. Pbas jxjreasj tiojs i chho it i gjwsatuitahls al wbaeb i yhulf pjrshl kafbt ljj` shkj supphrt il` jlehurifjkjlt

    il` favjs tbj pjjr j`ueithrs i ebilej th prietaej favalf ipprhpraitj rjsphlsjs.

    Pakj9 bhur, 5> kalutjs, th 4 bhurs

    HdmjetavjsDy tbj jl` hg tbj sjssahl, pirtaeapilts wacc dj idcj th=

    9. A`jltagy ehkkhl satuitahls wbjrj tbjar altjrvjltahl kafbt dj bjcpguc.

    4. A`jltagy stritjfajs th supphrt rjsphlsadcj djbivahr.

    5. Cast rjshurejs al tbjar ehkkulatajs tbit tbjy kafbt usj ag tbjy rjquarj issastilej

    hr alghrkitahl.

    Kitjraics^rhps ghr tbj rhcj pciys

    Bil`hut=^jjr Uupphrt Uatuitahl Eir s(jieb lukdjrj` stitjkjlt as i sjpiritj eir`)

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    @jcavjry

    A. Ukicc Frhup Vhro (5>0> kalutjs)

    Altrh`uej tbj thpae th tbj pjjr j`ueithrs. @aseuss tbj giet tbit shkjtakjs yhulf

    pjhpcj tioj rasos watb tbjar bjictb il` sigjty. Djeiusj hg ehlsjqujlejs caoj BAW/IA@U, UP@s, il` ulwiltj` prjfliley, tioalf rasos eil dj vjry ilfjrhus. Qhulf

    pjhpcj wbh kioj bjictby `jeasahls th `jciy sjx, th usj i ehl`hk, hr th dj thcjr-

    ilt il` ehkpissahlitj th pjhpcj watb BAW/IA@U ljj` tbj supphrt hg tbjar grajl`s,

    jspjeaiccy tbj pjjr j`ueithrs.

    @ava`j tbj pjjr j`ueithrs alth frhups. Favj jieb frhup i rhcj pciy eir`. Pbjy

    irj th=

    9. Tji` il` `aseuss tbj satuitahl.

    4. @jea`j wbit tbjy whuc` h th favj tbj kial pjrshl al tbj sthry supphrt ghr tbas

    bjictby jeasahl.

    5. Erjitj i rhcj pciy sbhwalf tbj satuitahl watb supphrt ghr tbj pjrshl.

    AA. Thcj pciys (9 bhur hr khrj, `jpjl`alf hl

    tbj sazj hg tbj frhup)

    Bivj icc frhups pjrghrk tbjar rhcj pciys al grhlt hg tbj cirfjr frhup. @aseuss tbj

    stritjfajs suffjstj` dy tbj pjjr j`ueithrs il` prhva`j ily i``atahlic a`jis rjfir`-

    alf wiys th supphrt tbj pjrshl al tbj sthry.

    Qhu kiy wasb th iso tbj ghcchwalf qujstahls is yhu sukkirazj tbas ietavaty=

    9. Vby `h kily yhulf pjhpcj gjjc at as lht ehhc th supphrt bjictby `jeasahls8

    4. Vbit `ageuctajs kafbt yhu bivj ag yhu supphrt tbjsj bjictby djbivahrs8

    5. Bhw kafbt yhu hvjrehkj tbjsj prhdcjks8

    Tjkal` tbj pirtaeapilts idhut tbj akphrtilt rjsphlsadacaty tbjy bivj is pjjr j`u-

    eithrs. Uupphrtalf bjictby `jeasahls wbjl tbjy chho ulehhc as hlj hg tbjar khst

    akphrtilt, dut pjrbips khst ageuct, tisos. Is pjjr j`ueithrs, tbjy eil sjt tbj thlj

    ghr tbj djbivahr hg tbj htbjr yhulf pjhpcj. Ag yhulf pjhpcj djfal th sjj tbit jciy-

    alf sjx hr usalf ehl`hks bis tbj supphrt hg tbjar grajl`s, at wacc dj kueb jisajr ghr

    jvjryhlj th ebhhsj th kioj bjictby `jeasahls.

    AAA. Uhurejs hg Uupphrt (9: kalutjs ag `hlj

    al tbj sjssahl)

    Ghr tbj lic pirt hg tbj sjssahl, `aseuss tbj oal`s hg assujs tbit pjjr j`ueithrs

    sbhuc` lht try th `jic watb tbjksjcvjs. Pbjy kiy bivj tbj hpphrtulaty th tico

    pravitjcy watb yhulf pjhpcj wbh ljj` khrj alghrkitahl il` ehulsjcalf tbil tbjy

    eil prhva`j. Pbjrjghrj, at as akphrtilt th olhw wbjrj th fjt bjcp al tbj ehkkulaty.

    Zsalf drialsthrkalf, skicc frhup whro, hr il hutsa`jtbjsjssahl prhmjet, tbj pjjr

    j`ueithrs sbhuc` a`jltagy i lukdjr hg shurejs il` bhw th rjieb tbjk. Pbjsj shurejs

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    :4 ^JIEJEHT^U

    ^ITPAEA^ILPEIT@U

    (JIEBLZKDJTJ@UPIPJKJLPAUIUJ^ITIPJEIT@)

    ^JJTUZ^^HTPUAPZIPAHLEIT@U

    9. Qhu bivj djjl sjjalf i pjrshl ghr i sbhrt takj lhw il` yhu gjjc yhu irj rjiccy al chvj. Pbas pjrshl

    as tryalf th pjrsui`j yhu th bivj sjx. Qhu usj icc hg yhur issjrtavj soaccs dut tbj satuitahl fjts whrsj.

    Bj hr sbj wacc lht ifrjj watb yhu il` djehkjs akphssadcj th tico th. Qhu iso i grajl` wbh as watb yhu

    th wico yhu bhkj. Hl tbj wiy bhkj, yhu tjcc yhur grajl` wbit bippjlj`. Qhur grajl` supphrts yhur

    `jeasahl lht th bivj sjx dy siyalf, .

    4. Qhu bivj djjl fhalf hut watb tbj sikj pjrshl ghr shkj takj lhw. Qhu chvj jieb htbjr vjry kueb. Qhu

    bivj ticoj` idhut sjx il` bivj ifrjj` th usj i ehl`hk wbjl yhu bivj sjx th prhtjet yhursjcg grhk BAW.

    Qhu bivj bi` sjx watb i ehl`hk i gjw takjs dut tbas lafbt yhu shkjbhw ghrfht th dralf i ehl`hk il`yhu rjiccy whuc` caoj th bivj sjx. Igtjr shkj `aseussahl, yhu `jea`j th dj iggjetahlitj watb jieb htbjr

    watbhut sjx. Pbj ljxt `iy yhu `aseuss tbj `jeasahl watb yhur djst grajl`. Qhur grajl` supphrts yhur

    `jeasahl dy siyalf, .

    5. Igtjr sebhhc, yhu il` shkj grajl`s wilt th fh th tbj cheic sthrj ghr eil`y. Uhkjhlj siys, Ak lht fh-

    alf tbjrj. Uhkjhlj jcsj isos, Vby lht8 Pbj rst spjiojr siys, Avj bjir` tbj sbhpojjpjr bis BAW.

    Ak lht fhalf th raso fjttalf IA@U. Ilhtbjr pjrshl siys, Qhu eilt djcajvj jvjrytbalf yhu bjir. Pbas

    pjrshl isos yhu wbit yhu tbalo. Qhu siy, .

    0. At as Khl`iy khrlalf il` yhu irj ticoalf th shkj grajl`s idhut wbit bippjlj` hvjr tbj wjjojl`.

    Hlj hg tbj kjkdjrs hg tbj frhup as driffalf idhut djalf it i pirty wbjrj tbjrj wis icehbhc il` sjx. I

    ehupcj hg pjhpcj al tbj frhup irj akprjssj` il` siy tbalfs tbit supphrt bak, Qjib! Qhu kust bivj bi`

    i frjit takj! Qhu irj lht akprjssj` dy wbit wjlt hl, il` yhu gjjc yhu sbhuc` siy shkjtbalf. Qhu siy,

    .

    :. Qhu irj it i `ilej. Qhu lhtaej i frhup hg pjhpcj al tbj ehrljr ciufbalf il` pusbalf shkjhlj. Fjttalf

    echsjr, yhu hvjrbjir tbjk tjisalf tbj dhy hr farc djeiusj bj hr sbj as rjgusalf th tioj shkj hg tbj djjr

    tbjy irj pissalf irhul`. Pbjy irj i dat `rulo, il` irj fjttalf rhufb watb tbj pjrshl. Pbj pjrshl ojjps

    tryalf th rjgusj th ralosiyalf bj hr sbj hjs lht caoj icehbhc. Pbjy ehltaluj th tjisj bak hr bjr. Vbit

    `h yhu siy hr `h8

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    ^ITPAAA=

    GIEALFGIEPUIDHZPBAW/IA@U

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    Pbas sjetahl hg tbjCagj Uoaccs Kiluicfavjs disae alghrkitahl idhut BAW, IA@U,

    il` UP@s tbit eil dj alehrphritj` alth tbj Cagj Uoaccs eurraeucuk. Pbjsj sjssahls

    wjrj `jsaflj` th i``rjss pjhpcj phtjltaiccy cavalf watb BAW is wjcc is tbhsj wbh

    irj eurrjltcy lht algjetj`.

    Pbj sjssahls duac` hl jieb htbjr il` ehlejltritj hl i``rjssalf tbj olhwcj`fj il`

    ittatu`js hg pirtaeapilts is tbjy rjcitj th BAW/IA@U. ^irtaeapilts irj jkphwjrj`

    th usj ljw olhwcj`fj al i rjissjsskjlt hg tbjar hwl ittatu`js.

    Pbjsj sjssahls ivha` usalf gjir tietaes hr dcikj hg ily frhup ghr tbj algjetahl. Kjs-

    sifjs hg gjir il` dcikj bivj eiusj` pjhpcj th ivha` tbj thpae hg BAW/IA@U ritbjrtbil ehlgrhlt at. Al i``atahl th i``rjssalf tbj urfjley hg `jicalf watb tbj `asjisj

    al tbjar ehkkulaty, tbjsj sjssahls eciragy ehkkhlcy bjc` kytbs idhut IA@U. Pbj

    uctakitj fhic hg tbj sjssahls as th khvj pirtaeapilts th i pciej hg bhpj il` igrk tbjar

    idacaty th rjsphl` altjccafjltcy il` jggjetavjcy th tbj pil`jkae tbit giejs tbjk.

    Pbj 9> sjssahls irj `jsaflj` irhul` tbj ghcchwalf ehlejpts=

    9. IA@U as i prhdcjk il` wj bivj tbj phwjr th h shkjtbalf idhut at.

    4. BAW ittieos hur akkulj systjks? sh, wj sbhuc` `h icc wj eil th strjlftbjl

    hur akkulj systjks.

    5. At as ecjir bhw BAW as trilskattj`.

    0. Jircy trjitkjlt hg htbjr UP@s eil rikitaeiccy rj`uej tbj raso hg algjetahl watb

    BAW.

    :. Vhkjl irj jspjeaiccy vucljridcj th BAW algjetahl il` ljj` alghrkitahl il`

    soaccs th prhtjet tbjksjcvjs il` tbjar ebac`rjl grhk algjetahl.

    7. Pbjrj irj sakpcj il` jggjetavj wiys ghr jvjryhlj th prjvjlt BAW algjetahl.

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    6. Pbj takj at tiojs ghr BAW th cji` th IA@U eil viry frjitcy, il` hur bjictb dj-

    bivahrs eil iggjet tbit takj pjrah`.

    2. Ictbhufb tbjrj as lh eurj ghr IA@U, tbjrj irj kily trjitkjlts iviacidcj.

    1. ^rhtjetalf tbj bukil rafbts hg pjhpcj cavalf watb BAW/IA@U lht hlcy bjcps tbjk

    th cavj phsatavj il` prh`uetavj cavjs, dut icsh bjcps th prjvjlt BAW trilskassahl

    al hur ehkkulaty.

    9>. Olhwcj`fj, ittatu`js, il` soaccs ljj` th dj usj` thfjtbjr th bjcp us prietaej

    djbivahrs tbit rj`uej rasos ghr BAW il` cji` us th i bjictbajr cagj.

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