November 2, 2014 All Soul’s Day

†Masses and Intentions†

Sat Confession prior to 4:30 Mass Sat Nov 1, 4:30 pm Mass at St. Philip † Walter Pudelkiewicz, 8th Anniv. by the Phillips Family † Catherine Schaffer by “Patty Ann” Sun Nov 2, 9:00 am Mass at St. Jude † Robert Olivera by the Parish

† Anne Huff by Howard Huff † Marilyn Stapleton, 3rd Anniv. by Her Family † Brian Murphy by the Parish Sun Nov 2, 11:00 am Mass at St. Philip † Catherine Schaffer by Richard & Lois Mindek Mon No Mass

Tues Nov 4, 8:00 am Mass at St. Jude Tues Nov 4, 6:00 pm Mass at St. Philip Wed Nov 5, 8:00 am Mass at St. Jude Fri Nov 7, 8:00 am Mass at St. Philip † Catherine & Steve Muska by Memorial Mass Fund

Adoration following Mass until 2:00 pm 1:50 pm Divine Mercy Chaplet & Benediction

Sat Confession prior to 4:30 Mass Sat Nov 8, 4:30 pm Mass at St. Philip † Mary Alassi by Jeanne & Phil Monty Sun Nov 9, 9:00 am Mass at St. Jude † William Bannon, 10th Anniv. by Kate Bannon † Michael Cerrono by The Hipsky Family † Ann Marino by The Hipsky Family

Sun Nov 9, 11:00 am Mass at St. Philip OUR OFFERING OF THANKS TO GOD LAST WEEK

St. Philip Weekly Offering $2,557.00 St. Philip Add’l Maint/Fuel Offering $ 140.00 St. Jude Weekly Offering $1,140.00

MEMORIAL FUND TOTAL DONATIONS St. Philip Memorial Fund Donated $55,681.07 St. Philip Fund Balance $ 8,486.02 St. Jude Memorial Fund Donated $14,975.00 St. Jude Fund Balance $ 8,775.00

ATTENDANCE LAST WEEKEND

Saturday 4:30 pm St. Philip 10/25/14 88 Sunday 9:00 am St. Jude 10/26/14 118 Sunday 11:00 am St. Philip 10/26/14 124

Total: 330

STEWARDSHIP: “Those who trust in him will understand truth, and the faithful will abide with him in love, because grace and mercy are upon his elect, and he watches over his holy ones.” - Wisdom 3:9. Here’s the ironic thing about people who are generous. Those that give freely and cheerfully do not do it to be rewarded. They do it to show their love for God and their neighbors. Yet, because of their generosity, they typically are given more than they gave away!

Our condolences to the family of Rev. Albert Giaquinto, S.S., priest of the Diocese of Norwich.

Choir Rehearsals for the Diocesan Choral Festival on Sundays Nov. 2 & Nov. 9 after the 11:00 A.M. Mass. Rehearsal for St. Jude's & St. Philip's

choirs on Mondays Nov.10 & Nov. 17 at 6:30 P.M.

PRAYER LIST: Gus Aiello, Elaine Fisher, Addie Specyalski, Robert Blain, Wesley Berg, Marty & Michelle Jones, Claudette Gagne, Renee Delisle, Edward Sullivan, Mary Manning, John Ference, Victoria and Richard Santi, John Marcisin, Mikayla Wilcox, Rita Fogarty, Brian Racicot, Marion Ogden, Rev. Paul Murdock, Kenny Botting, Carol Davidge, Jacob Fletcher, Linda Joyal, Anne Sylvia. Please let us know how people are doing so we can update our list.

RELIGIOUS EDUCATION: ST. PHILIP CCD Classes 9:30 am, Sunday, in the Parish Center. Confirmation: Sun, 6pm in the center.

(No classes Sunday, Nov 9.) ST. JUDE classes Wednesdays:

Grades 1-4 from 3:45-4:45 pm Grades 5-7 from 7:00-8:00 pm Confirmation: Grades 8 & 9, 7:00-8:00 pm

WEDNESDAY MORNING BIBLE STUDY with Fr. Kennedy meets Wed, 10 am, St. Philip Rectory.

ADULT BIBLE STUDY with Ed Conlan meets Sat, 11:00 am in St. Jude’s Rectory to study St. Paul’s Letters to the Thessalonians. Nov 8: 2 Thessalonians, Chap 1, Thanksgiving for their loyalty. All are Welcome.

PARISH MEETINGS: Women’s Bible Study: Tues, Nov 4, 10 am Rectory. Prayer Shawl: Tues, Nov 11, 6:30 pm, Rectory. Knights of Columbus: Tues Nov 11, 7 pm, Parish Ctr. Parish Council: Tues, Nov 18, 7 pm, Rectory.

Altar Servers, Readers and Eucharistic Ministers: The November schedule and December Availability sheets are on our website.

ST. PHILIP & ST. JUDE GIFT CARD FUNDRAISER More than a hundred different gift cards to choose from. It’s simple, with no extra cost to you. The gift card companies will pay St. Philips or St. Jude a percentage for each card we sell. You get the gift cards you need AND support your church at the same time! Order by Nov 9th and pick them up Nov 22/23.

Remember to turn back your clock!

SPAGHETTI DINNER ST. PHILIP CENTER

SATURDAY NOV. 8TH @ 5:30 PM Tickets available after Mass.

ECUMENICAL SERVICE Sunday, November 23, 6:00 pm. Baptist (Living Proof Church), Ashford, CT.

ST. PHILIP THANKSGIVING FOOD DRIVE We are collecting food for Thanksgiving baskets

for needy families in Ashford. Please donate non-perishable Thanksgiving dinner foods. We cannot distribute out of date food. There will be a sign-up sheet

for frozen turkey donations and we will also collect money for purchasing fresh foods. Last year we provided dinners and additional food to 21 families. BIRTHRIGHT OF WINDHAM: serves over 1,600

women each year. Babies have expensive needs and BirthRight has always relied on the Church community to help maintain supplies for Moms who come for help. Your donations are a witness to our Catholic faith

and our commitment to life as we continue to provide baby wash, lotion, shampoo, pampers (size 1-4), baby wipes, receiving blankets, newborn gowns and clothing. Please bring these items to church. Through our donations, St. Philip and St. Jude make a major impact on this ministry for local mothers and their babies. God Bless and Thank You on behalf of the women you help.

ST. PHILIP’S CHRISTMAS CRAFT FAIR Saturday Dec. 6th from 9 – 2. We now have our 40 vendors for the Craft Fair! It's time to start thinking about creating a basket for our raffle. You may be inspired to create a basket of tea and accessories, or a car wash basket, etc. The possibilities are endless. You may also donate a single item. In the past we have had a small Norfolk Island potted pine and a cold beverage decanter, to name a few examples. Just keep the value of your basket or item under $50.00. No restaurant gift cards and no alcohol please. Baskets need to be brought in by November 16th.

HAPPY THANKSGIVING DINNER Our Thanksgiving dinner at the Parish Center is on! Please sign up.

Father Kennedy

TRIP TO HAITI Jan 14 - 21, 2015. It is a trip of a lifetime and also not for the faint of heart. Any questions contact: Denise Pillion at 860 617 3642.

RELIGIOUS FREEDOM The Catholic Church is not asking for special treatment when it comes to the federal healthcare mandate, she is simply asking that every American’s right to religious freedom be protected. This right is not only about our ability to go to Mass on Sunday, or to pray the rosary at home. It is about adhering to the tenets of our faith, so that we can contribute to the common good of all Americans. If you haven’t done so already, please voice your opposition to the mandate by calling President Obama at the White House at 202-456-1111 or U.S. Secretary of Health and Human Services Sylvia Mathews Burwell at 202-205-5445. Or online at: www.whitehouse.gov/contact, to clarify that mandate is in violation of our First Amendment right to religious freedom.

ST. EDWARD SCHOOL AUCTION! The 17th Annual St. Edward School Auction will be held on Sat, Nov 15, in the St. Edward Church Hall, 25 Church St., Stafford Springs, CT. Admission is free, but a paddle must be purchased to bid. The auction will begin at 6:00 p.m. with a free preview at 5 p.m. The kitchen will be open with many delicious homemade foods available. Enjoy a wonderful evening with truly something for everyone - gift baskets, vacations, furniture and more! For info, call St. Edward School at 860-684-2600.

ST. EDWARD CHURCH POLISH NIGHT DINNER St. Edward’s Church Ladies Guild will serve a Polish dinner Sat, Nov 29th, 5 pm at St. Edward Church hall, Church St, Stafford Springs. Homemade pierogies, stuffed cabbage, kielbasa, and Polish rye bread and assorted homemade desserts will be served. Take out available. Polish music raffle prizes, too. Tickets: $10/person. Advance tickets are necessary and can be purchased at the parish office on Benton St, or by calling Pat Saunders at 860-306-9419.

FINANCES AS OF OCTOBER 2, 2014

ST. PHILIP ACCOUNTS OUTSTANDING BILLS

Main Checking 43,815 Insurance 8,575

Mem. Fund Bal 8,486 Miscellaneous 1,483

Cemetery Ck. 5,448 Payroll 3,971

Cemetery CD 42,232 Cemetery Loan 10,228

TOTAL 24,257

ST. JUDE ACCOUNTS OUTSTANDING BILLS

Main Checking 10,040 Insurance 2,789

Mem. Fund Bal. 8,775 Miscellaneous 526

Savings Acct. 10,352 Payroll 1,878

TOTAL 5,193

WE CAN HELP To report inappropriate contact of any kind by a representative of the Diocese of Norwich or for assistance to victims, please call: 1-800-624-7407

PODEMOS AYUDAR Para reportar cualquier contacto inapropiado por un/a representante de la Diócesis de Norwich, o para buscar ayuda para víctimas, favor de llamar: 1-800-624-7407

COME VISIT EAST CATHOLIC HIGH SCHOOL during our Open House on Thursday, November 6, 2014 at 6:45 p.m. The entrance exam for eighth graders will be given on Saturday, November 15, 2014 at 8 a.m. at East Catholic High School. Pre-registration for the exam is advised but not required. Visit www.echs.com or call admissions office at 860-649-5336 x6456 for more information!

REGISTRATION: If you are new to our parish or your registration is not current, please fill in a form with up-to-date information. Also, your pledge and use of the parish envelopes helps us plan our budget and provides you with a tax record.

GIFT CARDS ARE NEEDED Please consider donating gas cards from Cumberland Farms, and food cards from Big Y for requests that come from the needy in our community. Put them in an envelope marked "office" and place them in the collection basket. Thank you.

FOOD ASSISTANCE: Distribution is always on a Friday morning, usually the 4th Friday of the month, from 7-9 am at the Living Proof Church of Ashford. We have applications and food distribution schedules in our office or you may visit the website: http://www.ashfordchurch.org/COMMUNITY_OUTREACH/Ashford_Food_Bank/.

The WILLINGTON FOOD PANTRY is open 2 days weekly: Mon, 4 pm - 6 pm, and Wed, 10 - Noon. Patrons must be Willington residents and be screened by the social worker. Customers can come once monthly (on the day of their choice) to select shelf-stable food for their household. To apply, contact: Director, Youth, Family & Social Serv., Town of Willington, 40 Old Farms Rd. Willington, CT 06279. Phone: 860-487-3118; FAX: 860.487-3125 Email: wyfss@willingtonct.org.

Eucharistic Adoration: two adorers are needed each hour after Mass on Fridays at St. Philip 9am to 2pm. Please call Sandra Mullarkey: 860-429-0322. We need people who can commit to one hour, as well as people able to substitute when

necessary. All are invited.

INTERESTED IN LEARNING ABOUT ADOPTION? Catholic Charities provides services for all members of the adoption triad: Infant adoption placements, domestic and international home studies and adoption searches. 860-889-8346 ext.282 or susansedensky@ccfsn.org for more info. Catholic Charities Adoption Program will hold monthly meetings for couples who are waiting to adopt or who want to learn about adoption. Meeting will be held on Nov 19 at 7 pm at the Catholic Charities Office, 331 Main St., Norwich. Catholic Charities Adoption Program will also be holding weekly Birth Mother Support Group meetings every Tues, beginning Sept 16, at 9:30 am at the Catholic Charities Office, 331 Main St., Norwich. For information on both meetings please call our Adoption Program at 860-889-8346 ext. 282.

MARRIAGE PREP CLASS FOR ENGAGED COUPLES

“God’s Plan for a Joy-filled Marriage”. To register for a 3-session class call the Family Life Office at: 860-889-8346 ext. 283.

Marriage Encounter Weekend~ “We thought we had a great marriage, but now our love is so much deeper than anything we could have imagined!” Rediscover each other with a heart-to-heart Marriage Encounter. November 7-9, 2014, Manchester, CT. For info call 860-376-0440. Email: meweekend@gmail.com. Website: www.wwme.org.

RACHEL’S VINEYARD RETREAT WEEKENDS If you are silently grieving after an abortion; healing, forgiveness and peace can begin with a Rachel’s Vineyard Retreat. “Project Rachel” is also a Diocesan outreach for anyone in need of healing. Priests in “Project Rachel” can help you through healing and forgiveness. Retreat Nov. 7-9 in Stockbridge, MA call 413-452-0661. Retreat Nov.14-16 in CT call 203-631-9030. Priests in Project Rachel ministry are there for you with God’s Grace and Mercy. Call 860-889-8346 ext. 283 or 800-554-5173. Confidential. www.rachelsvineyard.org.

Natural Family Planning Classes ~ For Married and Engaged. (NFP) is the safe and loving alternative to the dangerous chemical and synthetic hormonal side-effects of contraception and birth control. NFP is scientific and 99% effective for conceiving or responsibly postponing your baby. NFP can also help with fertility problems. Home Study and online are available. Classes are ongoing in our diocese, you also have the opportunity, if taking the CCLI Home Study course, to call our instructors with any questions or attend a class for free. Call the Schantz’s at 860-464-1184 or the Collison’s 860-399-8625. www.ccli.org.

MARRIAGE BUILDING AND REPAIR: Is your marriage tearing you apart, little or no communication, considering separation or divorce? Retrouvaille is a lifeline. A Retrouvaille weekend provides tools to heal, re-establish communication, and gain new insight into your marriage. A series of 6 sessions follows the weekend phase. Retrouvaille is Catholic in origin but open to all, helps to repair and build a stable, loving marriage. For information 413-525-1634. www.retrouvaille.org.

Pregnant? Need help? CATHOLIC CHARITIES Pregnancy and Adoption Programs provide concrete help & answers. Call 1-800-BABYDUE, even if you simply want to talk.

“Donation Angel” ~ Donate any type of vehicle: cars, boats, etc. running or not. Donation Angel raises funds to support our Catholic of Norwich and its mission to respond to Christ’s call to care for those in need by providing services for individuals and families. Click or call now for free quick removal of your unwanted vehicle and receive a tax deduction. For info call Ray at: 866-434-1131 or www.donationangel.org/ccfsn.

Home Buyers and Foreclosure Prevention Classes: For help with purchasing a home, fallen behind on mortgage payments or help with budgeting or filling out applications for EMAP. All services are provided free at Catholic Charities, a HUD approved Counseling Agency. The Free ongoing Foreclosure Prevention and 8 hour Home Buyers Education Classes are offered by Catholic Charities in Norwich, New London and Plainfield locations. Info: 860-889-8346 ext. 271.

PARENTS DIVORCING AND/OR RESOLVING CHILD CUSTODY ISSUES – participate in the court suggested Parent Education Program. Are you concerned about the effects of divorce, separation or family disruption on your children? Catholic Charities offers ongoing, monthly one day Parenting Education Classes in Norwich, Rockville and Middletown. A monthly 2- part Spanish/bilingual parenting education class is held in Willimantic. Attendance at both sessions in the Willimantic class is required for the certificate of completion. Fees apply and are determined by the State of CT. Please call 1-860-889-8346 ext. 260 for registration and monthly class locations and dates.

MEMORIAL MASSES: To remember your loved ones in Masses once or yearly, please call the office or stop in MTW&F 9:30 AM – 2:30 PM.

LIGHTHOUSE CATHOLIC CDS: There are NEW CDs with orthodox Catholic teaching and some excellent testimonies of individuals and their faith walk.

Thank you for all your donations, they help to keep the program going. If

you have questions or requests contact Donna Vertefeuille at 860-429-4508 or email donna@vertefeuille.org.

Love one another as I have loved you. As you do unto the least of your brothers, you do unto me.

Familiar words – How can we put them into action? Ministering to the sick and elderly is a good beginning. St. Joseph’s Living Center, The ONLY Catholic healthcare facility in the Norwich Diocese, is seeking volunteers to join our chapel team assisting during 11 am daily Mass ESPECIALLY on the weekends. We also need volunteers to join our Vigil Team as we accompany our residents on their journey to eternal rest. If you hear God beckoning you, please call Sarah Perry at 860-465-1107 ext. 124.

SHOW YOUR SUPPORT FOR LIFE! “Choose Life” License Plates with smiling faces are promoting adoptions and traveling everywhere

as a witness to Life and Love. Give a gift that keeps on giving, it’s so easy! Go to www.fund-adoption.org for info or to download an application form. This helps fund agencies such as Catholic Charities. EnCourage Support Group ~ is a Catholic spiritual support group for family members of loved ones struggling with same-sex attraction. For more information on the monthly support group meetings held the first Tuesday each month, please call the Family Life Office at: 860-889-8346 ext.283. "DAY OF RECOLLECTION" at The Cathedral of St. Patrick, Norwich, CT on Sat, Nov 8, 2014, featuring Father Andrew Apostoli, CFR speaking on Fatima: A message of Hope in the midst of the world crisis and Padre Pio - The Living Crucifix. Father Andrew is a member and co-founder of the Community of the Franciscan Friars of the Renewal and a well-known author and speaker, as seen on EWTN. For info or tickets ($20/person or $10/students,) - Lunch included, please contact Karen at (860) 303-0513. Thank you. SHARE YOUR JOY! If you or a loved one are celebrating a special event let us know so we can celebrate with you.

Workshop for New Lectors and Extraordinary Ministers of Holy Communion

Sat, Nov 15, 2014 from 9:30 AM to 12:30 PM Saint Matthias Parish 317 Chesterfield Road East Lyme, CT 06333

Register by November 10 at worship@norwwichdiocese.net

Or call: 860-848-2237x203 Fee $10

CATHOLIC PILGRIMAGE TO ROME June 8 – 20, 2015, with Papal General Audience, the Shrines of Italy including Montecassino, Padre Pio, Assisi, Lanciano, Padua, Exposition and viewing of The Shroud of Turin & The Passion Play in Sordevelo, Italy. Nonstop air from JFK. For more info or a flyer please call Michael Milano at 1-800-773-2660.

FROSTY VILLAGE BAZAAR Where: St. Matthew Church, Tolland When: Friday, Nov. 21st 6-9 PM Saturday, Nov. 22nd 9 AM-2:30 PM Get in the holiday mood with our great selection of hand-crafted items; home-made pies, baked goods, and candies; knit and crochet apparel; hand-made clothing for popular 18” girl dolls; Attic Treasures; raffles and much more. For the kids, a Kids’ Booth and Photos with Santa! Home-made Soup and Sandwiches, dessert served throughout.

STATE AND NATIONAL LIFE, LIBERTY, FAITH ISSUES ~ to be informed and involved on important issues: The CT Catholic Public Affairs Conference representing all CT Bishops and CT Diocese will keep you informed as state and national issues on Life, Liberty and Faith become apparent. Receive email action alerts and information at: ctcatholic.org. The United States Catholic Conference of Bishops, USCCB’s website is available to keep you informed and involved on all national pertinent Life, Liberty and Faith issues at: usccb.org. Click onto Issues and Action to receive email action alerts and be informed. The Family Institute of CT at: ctfamily.org is also available for you to receive emails to keep you informed and involved with pertinent state issues on life, marriage and family issues. A CT state issue presently being addressed is Assisted Suicide. As the bill to legalize Assisted Suicide in CT was defeated twice, it will be brought up again for a third vote. Information on the schedule of upcoming Conferences against Assisted Suicide throughout the state can be found at ctfamily.org website. Norwich Diocese Family Life and ProLife Offices.

61ST U.S. NATIONAL PILGRIMAGE TO LOURDES June 28-July 7, 2015. Accompanied by a medical staff, clergy and volunteers to tassist the needs of the pilgrims. Registration deadline Mar 25, 2015. For details, contact Fr. Joseph Allen, O.P., email: allenop@opfriars.org or the Lourdes Pilgrimage office: 1-877-276-7279, Email: lourdespilgrimageoffice@comcast.net. Website: www.lourdes-pilgrimage.com. 40 DAYS FOR LIFE CAMPAIGN The 40 Days for LIFE campaign continues until midnight on Sunday, November 2nd. We thank you for all your support and prayers for LIFE! On Sunday, November 2nd from 7:00 - 8:00PM we will be holding our closing candlelight prayer vigil. Please come and bring the family or a friend. Also one way to support Mothers who choose Life is by donating diapers and wipes. We will be collecting any donations at the candlelight vigil at 12 Case Street in Norwich. For more information please contact Brian Daly at 860-822-1788 or BJDaly@aol.com. Thank you for your participation in this 40 DFL campaign!

Do you or someone you know need a Prayer Shawl? Contact: Carolann Hernberg: 860- 487-0449, chernberg01@snet.net.

Where are our shut-ins? Please call the rectory if you have a loved one in the hospital or in a nursing home so we can visit, bring the Eucharist and keep in touch.

ST. PHILIP AND ST. JUDE MEMORIAL FUNDS For easy access, Memorial Donation forms are now available on the parish website, and can be downloaded and printed on your home printer.

“CATHOLICUNDERGROUNDCT” College age and young adults gather at Holy Apostles College and Seminary in Cromwell every 3rd Saturday, September through May. The night begins at 7:30 pm with Adoration, vespers and praise. At 8:30 pm the social begins with live music, entertainment and refreshments. For more information: www.catholicundergroundct.com.

UPCOMING MASSES AT THE CATHEDRAL OF ST. PATRICK

Twenty-Third Annual Red, White and Blue Mass

Sunday, November 16, 2014, at 10:15 a.m. On Sunday, November 16, 2014, at 10:15 a.m., Bishop Cote will celebrate Mass at the Cathedral of Saint Patrick for all military personnel, those who are active, in the reserves and Veterans. The purpose of this celebration is to honor our service men and women as we recognize the many sacrifices made by the families and loved ones of our military. The theme for the 2014, Red, White and Blue Mass is U.S. Air Force. The Homilist will be Reverend Raymond Introvigne. The Mass Committee Chairs are BG CT Edward J. Waitte, (Ret.) and Mr. David K. Harding, U.S. Merchant Marine. For more information call, Monsignor Brown or Mrs. Rebecca McDougal at 860-887-9294.

Immaculata Retreat House

289 Windham Road Willimantic, CT 06226 (860) 423-8484

11th STEP RECOVERY RETREAT: This weekend (November 7-9) is for men and women in recovery, and for those who accompany them on the journey of recovery. This retreat offers a safe environment where you will meet others on your journey and who share your feelings and frustrations and learn a better way of life. Call (860) 423-8484 to register.

HOLY FAMILY PASSIONIST RETREAT CENTER 303 Tunxis Rd, W. Hartford, CT 06107-3119

860-760-9705 www.holyfamilyretreat.org

NOVEMBER

Wednesday and Thursday, Nov 5 and 6 (same program both days), 10 a.m.-4 p.m.; Holiday Bread-Baking Retreat Day, with Sister Elaine Betoncourt, C.S.J. Bake and take home a holiday stollen, while prayerfully reflecting on the symbolism of the ingredients and the process of bread baking as they relate to our daily lives. $65, includes lunch. Saturday, Nov 8, 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Care for the Care Giver: A Day of Spiritual and Physical Renewal for Those in Health Care Professions, with Fr. Chris Cleary, C.P. Explore the delicate balance between caring for others and caring for ourselves. $65, includes lunch. Thursday, Nov 13, 9 a.m.-2 p.m.; Leading from Within: Reimagining Christian Leadership for the 21st Century, with John Roberto. How can we center our leadership in a personal mission, informed by our faith in Jesus Christ and his mission and ministry? Bring your own Bible. $40, includes meal. Friday-Sunday, Nov 21-23. Women’s Weekend Retreat: Know Greater Joy. Explore how we can discover deep and enduring joy in God’s presence no matter the situation. Includes home-cooked meals, inspirational liturgies, original music, healing arts therapies (additional cost), and free time to rest and walk the labyrinth. $295, more if you can; less if you can’t. Friday-Sunday, Nov 21-23. Matt Talbot Women’s Recovery Retreat. Women in recovery are invited into a peaceful atmosphere where they can rest, renew their spiritual life, and deepen their sobriety. $150. Scholarships available. Call Gail Wells at 203-804-8406. www.holyfamilyretreat.org