Health 8UNIT 2: Family LifeCourtship, Dating and Marriage

MR. CARLO JUSTINO J. LUNAMalabanias Integrated School

Angeles City

Family is the foundation of society which is primarily responsible for

shaping the lives of its members.

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Do you knowhow your parents met and formed your family?

love story?Were you able

to ask them their

Activity 1: Loop-a-WordLoop as many words associated with marriage.P D A T I N G V C T J L CR R M A R R I A G E F O OE E E H T A L C Y R E V UG N F G N E W B O R N E RN I N F A T U A T I O N TA E F R I E N D S H I P SN N S Y F X N Y J K W G HC T T E U L F A M I L Y IY E N G A G E M E N T R P

Activity 1: Loop-a-WordLoop as many words associated with marriage.P D A T I N G V C T J L CR R M A R R I A G E F O OE E E H T A L C Y R E V UG N F G N E W B O R N E RN I N F A T U A T I O N TA E F R I E N D S H I P SN N S Y F X N Y J K W G HC T T E U L F A M I L Y IY E N G A G E M E N T R P

AssignmentInterview your parents or couples who are close to you. Ask them the questions below.1. How did the couple meet each other?2. Why did they like/love each other?3. Did the marriage/relationship start with courtship

and dating? How?4. Is courtship and dating important to them in

choosing a lifetime partner? Why?5. What message can you draw from the information

that you gathered from your parents of the couples?

Infatuationor

Love

What is infatuation?

What is love?

Both are intense emotions that one feels for another person.The two feelings differ in their actuality of love, intensity, and final outcome.

LOVE and INFATUATION

is the state of being completely carried away by unreasoning passion or love; addictive love

is admiration for someone while not recognizing that person’s flaws

INFATUATION (Crush)

is a feeling of likeness to someone in a short period of time

usually lasts for only a short time, few weeks or maybe a few months

INFATUATION (Crush)

can be described as a feeling of intense affection for someone

is based on a true desire for the other person’s best interests

LOVE

is admiration for someone that may include the desire to get to know that person better

usually takes place in the form of infatuation or crush

ATTRACTION

Activity 2: Picture Connectivity

What words can you form out of these pictures?

How do these pictures apply

to you?

Why is courtship and dating important in choosing a lifetime

partner?

Activity 3: Sharing ViewsHere are three boxes which need your views to be shared with the class.

Definitions / meanings / words that you associate

with courtship

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Practices associated with courtship

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Importance of courtship

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Courtship

Courtship is the period in a couple’s relationship which precedes their engagement and marriage.

COURTSHIP

During courtship, a couple gets to know each other and decides if there will be an engagement.

COURTSHIP

Courtship is also a test of compatibility between the two persons.

COURTSHIP

Courtship is an opportunity to know the background of each other, including the family where each one belongs.

COURTSHIP

DifferentTraditional Practices

of Courtshipin the

Philippines

Tapat serenading (harana) “to be in front of the

woman’s house”

ILOCOS REGION

Balagtasan The suitor begins singing a

romantic song, and then the courted lady responds by singing, too.

TAGALOG REGION

Rooster Courtship The rooster is assigned

to be the "negotiator", wherein the male chicken is left to stay in the home of the courted to crow every single morning for the admired lady's family.

LUZON

Naninilong “serenading from

the basement”

BULACAN

Gestures and Actions Serenading with Tagalog love

songs accompanied by a guitar Doing household chores Pay respect to the woman’s

parents by saying “Mano po.”

BATANGAS

Taga-amo means “tamer” is a form of love potion

or charmPalabas means “show or drama” The suitor pretends to

commit suicide

PANGASINAN

Ca-i-sing (Ifugaos)Ebgan (Kalingas)Pangis (Tingguians) A man and a woman are separated into

“houses.” The house for the males is called ato,

while the house for females is known as the olog or agamang.

KALINGA

Pasaguli Love riddles To assess the sentiments of the

parents of both suitor and the womanPabalic / Pabalik is done to settle the price in a form of

dowry that will be received by the woman from the courting man

PALAWAN

Balak (serenade) Love letters (sent through a

trusted friend or relative of the woman)

Presents (to the woman and her relatives)

Love potions

CEBU

Pangagad / Paninilbihan The suitor accomplishes

household and farm chores for the family of the woman (approximately 1 year before they get married).

Subok – a trial or test period for the serving suitor

LEYTE

Palabas, sarakahan tupul, or magpasumbahi

A suitor would threaten to stab his heart while in front of the courted woman’s father.

If the father of the woman refuses to give her daughter’s hand, the suitor is smitten by a knife.

TAUSUGS of MINDANAO

Send a knife or a spear as a gift to the home of the courted woman for inspection.

Accepting the weapon is equivalent to accepting the man’s romantic intention and advances.

BAGOBOS of MINDANAO

Courtship Practices at

the Age of

Technology

A suitor can court through the use of cellphones, the internet, and social media.

This courtship practice is alarming.

COURTSHIP PRACTICESat the AGE OF TECHNOLOGY

You should be careful and responsible for everything you post in social media.

“Think before you click.”

COURTSHIP PRACTICESat the AGE OF TECHNOLOGY

Why is it important for

couples to undergo

courtship?

Importance of Undergoing Courtship1. It gives a person time to know better

the character and background of someone being considered as one’s future lifetime partner.

2. It gives time to understand one another and determine if you can get along with minimal conflicts.

Importance of Undergoing Courtship3. It reveals one’s interests, likes and

dislikes, limitations, and aspirations in life.

4. It allows couples to decide whether they are ready to be committed.

5. It allows couples to determine and focus on what to expect in marriage.

Importance of Undergoing Courtship6. It develops security and establishes

respect for each other.7. It develops understanding and

acceptance.

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Activity 4: Showing AffectionThere are many healthy ways for individuals to show affection which may lead to courtship between persons who are physically and emotionally attracted with one another.

Make a list of practices or behavior demonstrated by people to show their affection.

Activity 5: Do You Know?Copy and answer the following questions:1. What does it mean to go on a date?2. What are the activities usually done

during dates?3. How does dating differ from a regular

outing?

Dating

Dating is a social activity which involves two or more people generally assessing each other’s suitability for a potential relationship.

DATING

Dating can also be enjoyed as part of an already active relationship.

DATING

Dating is a form of courtship consisting of social activities done by two people, as partners in an intimate relationship or as a spouse.

DATING

Dating is an act of meeting and engaging in some mutually agreed upon social activity, together as a couple.

DATING

What are the

typesof dating?

1. Standard Date – involves two people2. Double Date – two couples go on a

date at the same time and place3. Group Date – where any number of

couples can enjoy a date

TYPES OF DATING

Importanceof Dating

1. Strengthen the relationship2. Spend quality time with each other3. Observe the other person’s character4. Know one another better5. Know one’s strengths and

weaknesses

IMPORTANCE OF DATING

6. Reveal any potential problems the partners may have

7. Develop affection and respect for each other

IMPORTANCE OF DATING

Risks Connected with

Dating

1. Date rape2. Use of illegal drugs3. Early and unwanted pregnancy4. Fall prey to thieves, robbers,

kidnappers, or other types of criminals

RISKS OF DATING

At times, dating even the people you think you know maybe risky if they are just pretending to be trustworthy but really have bad intentions.

RISKS OF DATING

So what shall you do?

It is important to be cautious and safeguard yourself to avoid mistakes that you will regret later on.

RISKS OF DATING

Engagement

“Going steady.”

Engagement is a period of agreement entered between two people in love for them to be able to know each other and their families well enough to be sure that they are ready and are suited for life-long companionship.

ENGAGEMENT

Activity 6: Sharing OpinionsIf you were engaged, which would you prefer, long engagement or short engagement? Justify your idea.

Activity 7: My Ideal PartnerOn a bond paper, draw and colour your ideal man/woman. Below your drawing, write the characteristics you expect from him/her.

Marriage

Marriage is the most enjoyable human relationship.

MARRIAGE

Marriage is the most significant event that may

happen to one’s life.

MARRIAGE

It take only two people, a man and a woman, to unite and

make a successful relationship as married

couple.

MARRIAGE

Marriage is a lifelong partnership of a man and a

woman.

MARRIAGE

Marriage is a bond between two people who continue to grow and develop their best qualities as human beings.

MARRIAGE

What are thefactors to consider

in choosing a lifetime partner?

1. Good charactera. God-fearingb. Responsible and honestc. Hardworking and industriousd. Respectful and compassionate

FACTORS TO CONSIDER IN CHOOSING A LIFETIME PARTNER

2. Maturitya. Handles relationship responsiblyb. Makes wise and well thought-out

decisions

FACTORS TO CONSIDER IN CHOOSING A LIFETIME PARTNER

3. Fidelitya. Makes the relationship lastingb. Considers the relationship sacredc. Sincere and true to promises

made to one’s partner

FACTORS TO CONSIDER IN CHOOSING A LIFETIME PARTNER

4. Commitmenta. Makes peaceful and lasting

relationshipb. Dedicated in fulfilling

responsibilities

FACTORS TO CONSIDER IN CHOOSING A LIFETIME PARTNER

5. Lovea. Strengthens the relationship with

the partnerb. Understands one’s partnerc. Endures till death

FACTORS TO CONSIDER IN CHOOSING A LIFETIME PARTNER

6. Economic Readinessa. Aims for a better future of the

familyb. Able to provide for the needs of

the familyc. Maintains stable job or business

that can support a family

FACTORS TO CONSIDER IN CHOOSING A LIFETIME PARTNER

7. Physical Maturitya. Has a healthy bodyb. Accepts and is proud of partner’s

physical features

FACTORS TO CONSIDER IN CHOOSING A LIFETIME PARTNER

What are theingredients of a

successful marriage?

1. Love2. Understanding/Respect3. Care4. Loyalty5. Shared Philosophy

INGREDIENTS OF A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE

6. Cooperation7. Growth8. Involvement9. Sharing and Giving10. Communication

Activity 8: Expressing OpinionChoose an issue below and discuss your position (if you are in favor or not) with your group. You are given 10 minutes to discuss before you share it with the class1. Early Marriage2. Live-in Partners3. Same Sex Marriage

Activity 9: Role PlayingTo fully understand courtship before and at present, form a group and decide on which to portray: either courtship before or courtship at present. Your group will be given five (5) minutes to prepare for the presentation. Be guided by the scoring rubric to be used in the presentation.

Rubric for Evaluation:

Criteria (5)Excellent

(4)Good

(3)Needs Some

Improvement

(2)Needs Much Improvement

(1)Fair

Relates to audienceProvides a fluent rendition of scenarioRole plays scenario with feelings and expressionsVaries intonationPresents characters appropriatelyGives the scenario its full range

Activity 9: Role Playing

THANKS

MR. CARLO JUSTINO J. LUNAMalabanias Integrated SchoolAngeles City

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