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MANAGING RELATIONSHIPS
FOR CLIENT AND EMPLOYEE
RETENTION:
Achieving Your Goals While
Helping Others To Achieve Theirs
CPA LEADERSHIP FORUM
CHAD COOK
KATHERINE BURIK
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Why are some people easier
to get along with than
others?
1. Some people are more outgoing,
like me
2. Some people are quiet, like me
3. I am not sure
4. I never noticed
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QUIZ
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LET’S DEFINE OUR TERMS
RELATIONSHIPS
T h e w a ys i n w h i c h
yo u r c o m p a n y
c o m m u n i c a t e s a n d
d e a l s w i t h e x i s t i n g
c u s t o m e r s a n d
e m p l o ye e s
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LET’S DEFINE OUR TERMS
RELATIONSHIPS
T h e w a ys i n w h i c h
yo u r c o m p a n y
c o m m u n i c a t e s a n d
d e a l s w i t h e x i s t i n g
c u s t o m e r s a n d
e m p l o ye e s .
RETENTION
A n e f f o r t b y b u s i n e s s
t o m a i n t a i n a w o r k i n g
e n v i r o n m e n t w h i c h
s u p p o r t s c u r r e n t s t a f f
( a n d c l i e n t s ) i n
r e m a i n i n g w i t h t h e
c o m p a n y.
w w w . b u s i n e s s d i c t i o n a r y . c o m
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ASSUMES AN EFFORT
Follow-up
Communications
Appreciation
Personal relationships
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REQUIRES…
Involvement
Awareness
Curiosity
Regular contact
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Why do
clients and
employees
leave?
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LET’S TURN THE
QUESTION UPSIDE DOWN
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WHY CLIENTS LEAVE
Reason %
Die 1%
Move away 3%
Follow a friend to a
recommended supplier
5%
Better price or product 9%
Dissatisfaction 14%
Business indifference 68%
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Kennedy, Daniel, The Ultimate Marketing Plan: Find Your Most Promotable Competitive Edge,Turn it into a
Powerful Marketing Message, and Deliver it to the Right Pro; Adams Media Corporation, 1997
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WHY CLIENTS LEAVE
Reason %
Die 1%
Move away 3%
Follow a friend to a
recommended supplier
5%
Better price or product 9%
Dissatisfaction 14%
Business indifference 68%
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Out of your control
Within your control
Kennedy, Daniel, The Ultimate Marketing Plan: Find Your Most Promotable Competitive Edge,Turn it into a
Powerful Marketing Message, and Deliver it to the Right Pro; Adams Media Corporation, 1997
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EXPLORE SATISFACTION
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CPA Journal May 2002: “Why the Fastest Growing Companies Hire and Fire Their Audiors”
By H. Lon Addams and Anthony Allred
What is the
common
element?
Reason
Meet deadlines
Personal integrity
Quality of work
Return phone calls
Expertise
Attention
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COMMON ELEMENT…
Reason
Meet deadlines
Personal integrity
Quality of work
Return phone calls
Expertise
Attention
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CPA Journal May 2002: “Why the Fastest Growing Companies Hire and Fire Their Audiors”
By H. Lon Addams and Anthony Allred
Relationships
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RETENTION IS IMPORTANT
CCH Accounting Firm Client Survey 2010:
“Key component of client
retention is client satisfaction”
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2012 Survey: CCH Accounting Firm Client Survey: Improving Retention Through Better Client
Connections”, www.cpatrendlines.com
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RETENTION IS IMPORTANT
CCH Accounting Firm Client Survey 2010:
Keeping the right clients satisfied and
finding new ways to serve them better
must be at the center of a firm’s
strategy and everyday execution to
remain successful and profitable –
especially in challenging economic times.”
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2012 Survey: CCH Accounting Firm Client Survey: Improving Retention Through Better Client
Connections”, www.cpatrendlines.com
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“Key component of client
retention is client satisfaction”
2012 Survey: CCH Accounting Firm Client Survey: Improving Retention Through Better Client
Connections”, www.cpatrendlines.com
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REASONS TO LOSE CLIENTS
Findings from the 2010 CCH Survey: Improving Retention through Better Client Connections”
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Reason
Not aware of client’s needs
Staff can’t deliver efficiently
Firm charging more than value delivered
Firm not leveraging technology
Firm not up to date on regs
Firm financially unstable
Firm doesn’t offer needed services
Lost trust in ability to deliver quality services
Firm not efficient
Firm cannot recruit and retain talent
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REASONS TO LOSE CLIENTS
Findings from the 2010 CCH Survey: Improving Retention through Better Client Connections”
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Reason
Not aware of client’s needs
Staff can’t deliver efficiently
Firm charging more than value delivered
Firm not leveraging technology
Firm not up to date on regs
Firm financially unstable
Firm doesn’t offer needed services
Lost trust in ability to deliver quality services
Firm not efficient
Firm cannot recruit and retain talent
Relationships
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REASONS EMPLOYEES LEAVE
1. Poor management
2. Lack of career growth and
advancement
3. Poor communication
4. Pay
5. Lack of recognition
6. Poor senior leadership
7. Lack of training
8. Excessive workload
9. Lack of tools and resources
10. Lack of teamwork
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REASONS EMPLOYEES LEAVE
1. Poor management
2. Lack of career growth and
advancement
3. Poor communication
4. Pay
5. Lack of recognition
6. Poor senior leadership
7. Lack of training
8. Excessive workload
9. Lack of tools and resources
10. Lack of teamwork
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Relationships
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Lots of research estimating cost
of replacing lost customers or
employees
Does it matter?
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COST OF ENGAGEMENT
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Replacing existing customers or employees is expensive
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BOTTOM LINE
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The most important single
ingredient in the formula of
success is knowing how to get
along with people .
- Theodore Roosevelt
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Bad things happen when we can’t or don’t get along
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ITS ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS
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Nothing is perfect. Life is messy.
Relationships are complex.
Outcomes are uncertain. People
are irrational .
- Hugh Mackay
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Tactics: • Reduce conflict
• Increase satisfaction
• Be more aware
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OUR GOAL: INCREASE CUSTOMER
AND EMPLOYEE SATISFACTION
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Relationships are the key – Need to understand human behavior
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DO IT THROUGH PEOPLE
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IT’S ABOUT BEHAVIOR
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Styles
Perspectives
Satisfactions
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ACKNOWLEDGE DIFFERENCES
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BEHAVIOR IS PREDICTABLE
Habitual
Reinforced
through practice
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Body language
Use of space
Voice
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NON VERBAL
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TRANSLATE SILENT
MESSAGES
Instinct
Experience
Knowledge 83%
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Successful
relationships
start with good
communications
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Versatile
Adaptive
Flexible
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Learn about
others’
needs and
preferences
Be open
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Empathetic
Build genuine rapport
Trust
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Ask for feedback
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Open up genuinely
Candor and sincerity
Empathy
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Born that way
Can’t change but can adjust
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CONNECT FROM DIFFERENT PERSPECTIVES
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I f your emot iona l ab i l i t i e s aren ’ t in
hand, i f you don ’ t have se l f-awareness , i f
you are not ab le to manage your
di stress ing emot ions , i f you can ’ t have
empathy and have e f fect i ve re lat ionsh ips ,
then no matter how smart you are , you
are not go ing to get very far .
- Daniel Goleman
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ULTIMATE GOAL
Role model
Seek to understand
Show respect
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First need to understand ourselves so can see in each other
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EXPLORING BEHAVIOR
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Variation on a spectrum
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DIFFERENT WAYS TO
COME AT THE WORLD
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Driving behavior
Expressive behavior
Amiable behavior
Analytical behavior
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PUT IT ON AN AXIS
Low
Dominance
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Low
Relationships
High
Relationships
High
Dominance
Driving behavior
Expressive behavior
Amiable behavior
Analytical behavior
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PUT IT ON AN AXIS
Low
Dominance
How about
you?
Where are
you on the
spectrum?
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Low
Relationships
High
Relationships
High
Dominance
Driving behavior
Expressive behavior
Amiable behavior
Analytical behavior
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PUT IT ON AN AXIS
Low
Dominance
Reserved
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Low
Relationships
High
Relationships
High
Dominance
Driving behavior
Expressive behavior
Amiable behavior
Analytical behavior
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PUT IT ON AN AXIS
Low
Dominance
Yields to
others
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Low
Relationships
High
Relationships
High
Dominance
Action
oriented
Driving behavior
Expressive behavior
Amiable behavior
Analytical behavior
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PUT IT ON AN AXIS
Low
Dominance
Yields to
others
Reserved
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Low
Relationships
High
Relationships
High
Dominance
Action
oriented
Driving behavior
Expressive behavior
Amiable behavior
Analytical behavior
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EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT
Low
Dominance
Task oriented
Not as aware of
other people or
their feelings
Reserved
Action
oriented
Yields to
others
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Low
Relationships
High
Relationships
High
Dominance
Driving behavior
Expressive behavior
Amiable behavior
Analytical behavior
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MAKE A DIFFERENCE
Low
Dominance
Impacts:
• Way I am
viewed
• Relationships
• Ability to get
things done
through
people
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Low
Relationships
High
Relationships
High
Dominance
Expressive III Amiable II
Behavior Patterns I-IV The concept of interpersonal style is built on
the belief that people can learn to improve
their relationships to the benefit of themselves
and others.
This overview booklet is designed for use with
the Interpersonal Style Profile, a personal
feedback instrument that provides an accurate
picture of how a person is perceived by others
based on two dimensions of behavior;
dominance and sociability.
An awareness of one’s interpersonal style
along with guidance on how to apply
relationship-building applications can help a
person improve his or her effectiveness in a
variety of situations.
Driving I Analytic IV
BEHAVIOR PATTERNS
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More details in the
workbook
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Analytical behavior
Driving behavior
Amiable behavior
Expressive behavior
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ADD PERSONAL STYLE
TO THE MATRIX
Low
Dominance
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Low
Relationships
High
Relationships
High
Dominance
Analytical behavior
Driving behavior
Amiable behavior
Expressive behavior
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NO RIGHT OR WRONG
STYLE
Low
Relationships
High
Relationships
High
DominanceLow
Dominance
Everyone has some elements
of all four styles
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CAN GET REALLY
DETAILED IF YOU WANT
D1 C1 B1 A1
Deliberative-
analytical
Analyzer-tactician Organizer-operator Directive-driver
D2 C2 B2 A2
Designer-organizer Initiator-
implementer
Administrator-
supervisor
Strategist-producer
D3 C3 B3 A3
Supporter-clarifier Relator-manager Explorer-developer Motivator-doer
D4 C4 B4 A4
Counseling-amiable Facilitator-protector Mentor-facilitator Imaginer-expressive
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STYLE
PATTERNS
DRIVING EXPRESSIVE AMIABLE ANALYTIC
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EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT
Relationships are
collaborations
between different
styles
Everyone is different
Need a balance of
behavioral styles to
function smoothly
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Low Relationships
Low
Dominance
Precise
Logical
Matter-of-fact
Analytical
Needs data
Tasks
Accurate
Detail oriented
Thorough
Time disciplined
Competitive
Aggressive
Decisive
Results Oriented
Move fast
Forceful
Control
Power
Impatient
Likes challengesHigh
DominanceSupportive
Helpful
Patient
Modest
Eager to help
Loyal to team
Trustworthy
Shares feelings
Stable
Likes security
Talkative
Stimulating
Optimistic
Lively
Spontaneous
Energetic
Enthusiastic
Positive
Takes risks
Persuasive
High Relationships
Analytic Driving
Amiable Expressive
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Low Relationships
Low
Dominance
Precise
Logical
Matter-of-fact
Analytical
Needs data
Tasks
Accurate
Detail oriented
Thorough
Time disciplined
Competitive
Aggressive
Decisive
Results Oriented
Move fast
Forceful
Control
Power
Impatient
Likes challengesHigh
DominanceSupportive
Helpful
Patient
Modest
Eager to help
Loyal to team
Trustworthy
Shares feelings
Stable
Likes security
Talkative
Stimulating
Optimistic
Lively
Spontaneous
Energetic
Enthusiastic
Positive
Takes risks
Persuasive
High Relationships
EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT
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Circle 10 words
that describe you
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Driving
Expressive
Analytic
Amiable
Low Relationships
Low
Dominance
Precise
Logical
Matter-of-fact
Analytical
Needs data
Tasks
Accurate
Detail oriented
Thorough
Time disciplined
Competitive
Aggressive
Decisive
Results Oriented
Move fast
Forceful
Control
Power
Impatient
Likes challengesHigh
DominanceSupportive
Helpful
Patient
Modest
Eager to help
Loyal to team
Trustworthy
Shares feelings
Stable
Likes security
Talkative
Stimulating
Optimistic
Lively
Spontaneous
Energetic
Enthusiastic
Positive
Takes risks
Persuasive
High Relationships
EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT
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Driving
Expressive
Analytic
Amiable
Katherine’s words
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I circled more words
mostly in this
quadrant:
1) I
2) II
3) III
4) IV
5) No real pattern – it
seems across the board
QUIZ TIME
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Low Relationships
Low
Dominance
Precise
Logical
Matter-of-fact
Analytical
Needs data
Tasks
Accurate
Detail oriented
Thorough
Time disciplined
Competitive
Aggressive
Decisive
Results Oriented
Move fast
Forceful
Control
Power
Impatient
Likes challengesHigh
DominanceSupportive
Helpful
Patient
Modest
Eager to help
Loyal to team
Trustworthy
Shares feelings
Stable
Likes security
Talkative
Stimulating
Optimistic
Lively
Spontaneous
Energetic
Enthusiastic
Positive
Takes risks
Persuasive
High Relationships
EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT
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How does your team
fit together?
Circle 10 words that
describe you
Put a √ next to 5 words for
each team member that
represents him/her best –
check individual words as
many times as you need
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Driving
Expressive
Analytic
Amiable
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My team and I are
mostly in the same
quadrant:
1) True
2) False
QUIZ TIME
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Low Relationships
Low
Dominance
Precise
Logical
Matter-of-fact
Analytical
Needs data
Tasks
Accurate
Detail oriented
Thorough
Time disciplined
Competitive
Aggressive
Decisive
Results Oriented
Move fast
Forceful
Control
Power
Impatient
Likes challengesHigh
DominanceSupportive
Helpful
Patient
Modest
Eager to help
Loyal to team
Trustworthy
Shares feelings
Stable
Likes security
Talkative
Stimulating
Optimistic
Lively
Spontaneous
Energetic
Enthusiastic
Positive
Takes risks
Persuasive
High Relationships
EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT
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Driving
Expressive
Analytic
Amiable
Katherine’s
colleagues
(Chad, Dan)
We balance each
other so we can
be more
productive
Talkative
Social
Optimistic
Positive
Spontaneous
Calm
Helpful
Modest
Eager to help
Matter-of-Fact
Low Relationships
Low
Dominance
Precise
Logical
Matter-of-fact
Analytical
Needs data
Tasks
Accurate
Detail oriented
Thorough
Time disciplined
Competitive
Aggressive
Decisive
Results Oriented
Move fast
Forceful
Control
Power
Impatient
Likes challengesHigh
DominanceSupportive
Helpful
Patient
Modest
Eager to help
Loyal to team
Trustworthy
Shares feelings
Stable
Likes security
Talkative
Stimulating
Optimistic
Lively
Spontaneous
Energetic
Enthusiastic
Positive
Takes risks
Persuasive
High Relationships
EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT
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Driving
Expressive
Analytic
Amiable
How does your team fit together?
Are your team’s words grouped together in one quadrant?
What does the finished chart say about you and your team?
Talkative
Social
Optimistic
Positive
Spontaneous
Calm
Helpful
Modest
Eager to help
Matter-of-Fact
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LET’S EXPLORE STYLES
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DRIVING STYLES
Quick to act
Decisive
Likes challenges
Deals with difficult
issues quickly
Makes things happen
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DRIVING STYLES
Quick to act
Decisive
Likes challenges
Deals with difficult
issues quickly
Makes things happen
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DRIVING STYLES
STRENGTHS
Results oriented
Forceful
Likes challenges
CHALLENGES
Poor listener
Insensitive
Unyielding
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Katherine and
Owen
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FOR EXAMPLE
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WHAT WOULD YOU DO?
How can Katherine get
along better?
How can Owen work better
with Katherine?
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STRATEGIES TO ADOPT
Clear, specific, brief
Focus on results
Be specific
Be organized
Facts with options
Support your conclusions
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STRATEGIES TO AVOID
Vague
Don’t waste time
Personal, informal, casual
Careless with facts
Forceful
Personalize
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AMIABLE STYLES
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Supportive
Good listeners
Ask questions
Share personal
feelings and
emotions
Team players
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AMIABLE STYLES
Supportive
Good listeners
Ask questions
Share personal
feelings and
emotions
Team players
SECURITY
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AMIABLE STYLES
STRENGTHS
Good listener
Sensitive
Team player
CHALLENGES
Too trusting
Won’t confront
Too easy going
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CHRISTINE
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How can Christine get
stronger performance
from her team?
How to balance people
with tasks?
Mmmmm…..
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WHAT SHOULD CHRISTINE DO?
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STRATEGIES TO ADOPT
Candid, open, patient
Show personal interest
Responsive to ideas
Support teamwork and harmony
Ideas can be negotiable
Support win-win
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STRATEGIES TO AVOID
Unstructured
Informal, too casual
Too general about your plans
Poor follow through
Too reliant on others
Unrealistic deadlines
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EXPRESSIVE STYLES
Quick paced
Stimulating
Prefer
involvement
Take risks
Persuasive
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EXPRESSIVE STYLES
Quick paced
Stimulating
Prefer
involvement
Take risks
Persuasive
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RECOGNITION
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EXPRESSIVE STYLES
STRENGTHS
Persuasive
Instinctive
Enthusiastic
CHALLENGES
Impulsive
Too general
Careless
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ANTHONY
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How can the team best
leverage Anthony’s
strengths and style?
How to balance people
with tasks?
Mmmmm…..
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WHAT SHOULD HAPPEN?
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STRATEGIES TO ADOPT
Be supportive
Stimulate
Discuss the other’s success
Seek their opinions about people
Include their ideas
Offer incentives for risk
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STRATEGIES TO AVOID
Arbitrary or direct
Unyielding, unstructured
Too rigid
Waste time on formalities
Direct or forceful
Stick tight to plans
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ANALYTIC STYLES
Seeks facts and data
Time disciplined
Problem solving
Conservative
Practical
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ANALYTIC STYLES
Seeks facts and data
Time disciplined
Problem solving
Conservative
Practical
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TO BE RIGHT
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ANALYTIC STYLES
STRENGTHS
Thorough
Critical thinker
Detail oriented
CHALLENGES
Aloof
Poor improviser
Slow to make
decisions
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HELEN
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How can Helen
leverage her style to
grow the business
through people?
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WHAT SHOULD HAPPEN?
Mmmmm…..
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STRATEGIES TO ADOPT
Well prepared, agenda
Direct, orderly, patient
Be specific
Do what you say you will do
Schedule has action steps
The plan is critical
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STRATEGIES TO AVOID
Unstructured
Informal, casual
Vague about expectations
Loose-ends, no follow
through
Rely on assumptions
Unrealistic plan
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I f you deal with every customer in the
same way, you wi l l only c lose 25 to
30 percent of your contacts , because
you wi l l only c lose one personal ity
type .
But i f you learn how to effect ive ly
work with al l four personal ity types ,
you can conceivab ly c lose 100 percent
of your contacts .
- Rod Nichols
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Recognize styles
QUICKLY
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GIVE PEOPLE
WHAT THEY NEED
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• More happier clients
• Retain employees
• Greater profitability
• More business
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REAP REWARDS
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Pick up the subtle differences so you can respond
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WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE
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Can see styles in action
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THE WAY IT WORKS
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Know how to respond
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IN THE FACE OF CONFLICT
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Still get things done
Takes all kinds of build a work relationship
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DIFFERENT APPROACHES…
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STYLE
S-T-R-E-T-C-H-I-N-G
IMPROVE OVERALL EFFECTIVENESS
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You are socially
reserved but the
client is really
outgoing?
How do you give
the client what she
needs?
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0
WHAT IF…
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SOCIALLY RESERVED?
Say what you think
Be more personal
Strengthen relationships
Small talk
Contact frequently to stay
in touch
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1
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You are socially
outgoing but the
client is really
reserved?
How do you give
the client what she
needs?
10
2
WHAT IF…
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SOCIALLY OUTGOING?
Talk less, listen more
Restrain enthusiasm
Make decisions on evidence
Acknowledge other opinions
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3
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You are not very
dominant?
How do you give
the client what she
needs?
10
4
WHAT IF…
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LESS DOMINANT?
Volunteer opinions
Make clear points
Disagree occasionally
Initiate conversations
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5
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You are very
dominant?
How do you give
the client what she
needs without
overpowering?
10
6
WHAT IF…
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MORE DOMINANT?
10
7
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Listen without
interrupting
Talk less
Let other people talk
Allow others to take
lead
Stretch yourself to respond to their style
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8
BE AWARE OF THE OTHER PERSON
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IN THE WAY WE ASK QUESTIONS
10
9
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IN THE WAY WE SUPPORT
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ESPECIALLY IN THE
WAY WE USE TIME
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AND THE WAY WE
HELP OTHERS DECIDE
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Understand how to
respond to the
other person
Listen
Pay attention
Consistent
Willing to help
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IT ALL COMES DOWN
TO TRUST
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Trust is the glue of l i fe . It ’s the
most essential ingredient in
effective communication.
It ’s the foundational principle
that holds al l relationships.
- Stephen Covey
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Raise your hands if
this session was
useful to you
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QUESTIONS?
MANAGING RELATIONSHIPS FOR CLIENT
AND EMPLOYEE RETENTION
Be aware of your impact on others
Adjust your behavior style to achieve your goals
Help others to achieve their goals so everyone wins!
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