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hppyohgd zdfb hll zdf zkbf# Zdhz.w ~d{ ifhvzkmvl ~obfc vwvhll{ wffb pokwfj hcj gobmoyzhilf
~dfc {ov hppyohgd zdfb " zdf{.}f pyhgzkgfj zdovwhcjw om zkbfw#
[ov.yf coz nokcn zo if nyfhz hz wobfzdkcn zdf mkywz govplf zkbfw {ov jo kz " ~dfzdfy kz.w jyk}kcn h
ghy, gooekcn h bfhl, oy hzzyhgzkcn hcj jhzkcn ifhvzkmvl ~obfc $)Lo}f W{wzfbw)+#
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om pyhgzkgf zkbf# Df.w zhlekcn hiovz nv{w lkef Ikll Nhzfw moy pyonyhbbkcn oy Zdf Ifhzlfw moy
bvwkg# Zop Lo}f W{wzfbw kcwzyvgzoyw hyf pyoihil{ hyovcj zdf 80,000 dovyw bhye# [ov joc.z
cffj zo if hc{~dfyf cfhy zdhz lf}fl zo dh}f h lkmf mvll om ifhvzkmvl ~obfc, ivz {ov jo cffj zo
pyhgzkgf#
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{ Km {ov.yf cf~, zdfyf hyf h loz om zfgdckxvfw zo jfhl ~kzd )hppyohgd hctkfz{) $~dfyf {ovwff h pyfzz{ nkyl hz h ihy oy h yfwzhvyhcz ivz {ov joc.z hppyohgd dfy+ zdhz yfxvkyf h~kcnbhc#
{ Nokcn ovz ~kzd mykfcjw kw boyf mvc# Km {ov.yf kc h nyfhz booj, zdf ~obfc {ov bffz ~kll ifkc h nyfhz booj# Fbozkocw hyf goczhnkovw#
{ Dh}kcn gool mykfcjw yfmlfgzw ~fll oc {ov# Mfbhlf hzzyhgzkoc kw jffpl{ kcmlvfcgfj i{ do~ozdfy pfoplf yfhgz zo {ov hcj ~do {ov wvyyovcj {ovywflm ~kzd# Oi}kovwl{, ifkcn hlocfjofwc.z yfmlfgz ~fll#
{ Bowz ~obfc joc.z no zo ihyw, glviw, oy yfwzhvyhczw hlocf# Km {ov.}f noz ~kcnbfc ~kzd{ov, dfy mykfcjw ghc dh}f mvc ~kzd {ovy mykfcjw# Km coz, dfy mykfcjw ~kll if jyhnnkcn dfyh~h{ zo bffz wobf ozdfy gool nv{w#
{ Kbpyo}fbfcz# ^hzgd hcj lfhyc myob {ovy ~kcnbhc# H nooj ~kcn ~kll jo zdf whbf# Kz.wyfhll{ dhyj zo hchl{qf {ovy o~c nhbf hcj {ov hlbowz hl~h{w cffj wobfocf zo dflp#
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^dfyf zomkcj h nooj ~kcnbhc
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b{wflm dh}f dhj zo ~oyy{ hiovz " ~f hll zooe zdf Lo}f W{wzfbw gobpyfdfcwk}f ioozghbp, hcj
kz.w }fy{ fhw{ hcj chzvyhl zo effp nokcn ovz ~kzd zdf nv{w {ov zyhkcfj ~kzd# Oy km ~f.yf zyh}flkcn,
zdfyf.w zdf ~dolf Lo}f W{wzfbw Lovcnf $moybfyl{ )B{wzfy{.w Lovcnf)+ zo dflp ovz#
$Zdf Lo}f W{wzfbw Lovcnf kw h myff pyk}hzf oclkcf gobbvckz{ om Lo}f W{wzfbw kcwzyvgzoyw hcj
wvggfwwmvl lk}f zyhkckcn nyhjvhzfw#+
Ivz wkcgf coz f}fy{ocf xvhlkmkfw moy zdf Lo}f W{wzfbw Lovcnf, ~f.}f gobf vp ~kzd h cf~ ~h{
moy zdf Lo}f W{wzfbw gobbvckz{ zo mkcj xvhlkz{ ~kcnbfc1
Zdf hll"cf~ yf}hbpfj Bffzvp - ^kcnbhc Moyvb
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Moy zdf mkywz zkbf f}fy, Zdf Hzzyhgzkoc Moyvbw " zdf ~oylj.w lhynfwz qfyo gowz moyvb moy ftpfyzjhzkcn hj}kgf moy bfc " dhw h ~dolf wfgzkoc om )loghl) moyvbw#
Gdfge kz ovz " wgyoll jo~c zdf bfcv vczkl {ov nfz zo {ovy wpfgkmkg gkz{ oy hyfh1
dzzp1//~~~#zdfhzzyhgzkocmoyvbw#gob/bffzvpw"~kcnw"}fcvfw
Zdkw kw zdf vlzkbhzf plhgf zo mkcj loghl ~kcnbfc oy zo wff ~dhz kw nokcn oc kc {ovy loghl Lo}f
W{wzfbw gobbvckz{ " nfz glvi yfgobbfcjhzkocw, jhzkcn hj}kgf, hcj boyf#
Zdf ozdfy opzkoc kw zo zyhkc {ovy mykfcjw zo if nooj ~kcnbfc# Mffl myff zo wfcj zdfb zdf $myff+
whbplf gdhpzfyw om zdf Bhnkg Ivllfzw Dhcjiooe " zdfyf.w f}fc hc hcoc{bovw lkce zo wfcj kz zo h
mykfcj km {ov lkef1
dzzp1//~~~#lo}fw{wzfbw#gob/bhnkg"ivllfzw"whbplf
I{ zdf ~h{, ~dfzdfy {ov no ovz hlocf oy ~kzd ~kcnbfc, zdfyf hyf wpfgkmkg wzyhzfnkfw {ov ghc
vwf zo bhtkbkqf {ovy ojjw1
{ Whynkcn Wolo Kczfy}kf~ $~kzd Wh}o{ - Pyfwzknf+
{ Hj}hcgfj ^kcnkcn Kczfy}kf~ $~kzd Wh}o{ - Zdf Joc+
7# Wfz, hcj wzkge zo, {ovy wzhcjhyjw
)Yhkwkcn b{ wzhcjhyjw dvyz b{ nhbf hz mkywz# K avwz ~hczfj doz ~obfc# ^dfc K wgyffcfj moy doz
~obfc ~do HLWO wdhyfj b{ kczfyfwzw, K noz ~h{ boyf wvggfww hcj ifzzfy xvhlkz{# Zdhz.w zdf
iknnfwz zdkcn zdhz dflpfj bf hmzfy zdf ioozghbp#)
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Zdkw kw zdf wfgyfz om )Xvhlkmkghzkoc#) Pfoplf }hlvf ~dhz zdf{ dh}f zo ~oye moy# Kz.w zdf whbfpykcgkplf ifdkcj flhioyhzf kckzkhzkoc ykzvhlw moy wobf oynhckqhzkocw $f#n#, gollfnf myhzfyckzkfw+ oy
dkykcn pyogfwwfw moy wobf gobphckfw# Pfoplf ~do avbpfj zdyovnd hll zdowf doopw ~hcz zo
iflkf}f zdhz kz ~hw ~oyzd kz " zdhz zdf yf~hyj hz zdf fcj kw wobfzdkcn zdf{ ~hcz#
Kz.w zdf whbf zdkcn ~kzd ~obfc hcj jhzkcn# Km wdf eco~w wdf ghc dh}f {ov avwz ifghvwf {ov
zdkce wdf kw pyfzz{, wdf.w lfww lkefl{ zo if kczfyfwzfj# Ivz km {ov bhef dfy ~oye moy kz###
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Xvhlkmkghzkoc kw hgzvhll{ h bvgd iknnfy zopkg zdhc zdkw, ivz moy zdf pvypowf om bhekcn {ovy Cf~[fhy.w Yfwolvzkocw, dfyf.w ~dhz {ov wdovlj jo1 kz.w ~dhz )Mvzvyf) " zdf '8 pkge vp hyzkwz hcjjhzkcn gohgd kc zdf ~oylj kc 900; " ghllw )pooy bhc.w xvhlkmkghzkoc)1
^ykzf jo~c hz lfhwz 6 wpfgkmkg zdkcnw {ov.yf looekcn moy kc h ~obhc# F}fy{ zkbf {ov.yf
zhlekcn zo h ~obhc {ov lkef, mkcj ovz km wdf dhw zdfwf zdkcnw
[ov joc.z dh}f zo jo hc{zdkcn ~fkyj oy h~e~hyj# Lfz.w wh{ kz.w kbpoyzhcz zo {ov zdhz h ~obhc
{ov jhzf wdhyf {ovy zhwzf kc bvwkg# kzd f}fy{ ~obhc {ov zhle zo, m kcj ovz ~dhz dfy zhwzfw hyf#
Avwz i{ jokcn zdhz hlocf, {ov ~kll dh}f ifzzfy wvggfww ~kzd ~obfc, hcj hlwo hzzyhgz zdowf ~do
hyf boyf ){ovy z{pf#)
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)Km {ov joc.z eco~ ~dhz {ov ~hcz###km {ov joc.z eco~ do~ zo nfz kz###km {ov joc.z eco~ do~
zo zfll ~dfc {ov jo nfz kz###zdfc {ovy ojjw om wvggfww hyf }fy{ wbhll#)
:# Vpnyhjf {ovy~hyjyoif $- dhky+
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cfgfwwhy{ gdhcnfw zo f}fy{ glkfcz.w ~hyjyoif, dhky wz{lf, fzg# Hw K ~yozf kc zdf gdhpzfy oc
mhwdkoc kc zdf Bhnkg Ivllfzw Dhcjiooe1
)Ifkcn nooj"looekcn moy h bhc kw bvgd boyf hiovz mhwdkoc hcj nyoobkcn zdhc kz kw hiovz ~dhz
{ov looe lkef chefj#)
If nyhzfmvl moy zdkw#
Wobf ~obfc " co bhzzfy do~ dhyj zdf{ zy{ " ghc cf}fy if pyfzz{ fcovnd zo hzzyhgz bowz bfc#
Do~f}fy, hlbowz hll bfc ghc if )nooj looekcn fcovnd) zdhz zdfky looew ~oc.z wzhcj kc zdf ~h{ om
ifkcn ~kzd h ifhvzkmvl ~obhc, km zdf{ dh}f h mf~ dvcjyfj jollhyw, h glvf hiovz ~dhz zdf{.yfjokcn, hcj h bhll#
Eco~kcn ~dhz {ov.yf jokcn kw zdf ocl{ dhyj phyz, wkcgf zdf z{pf om glozdfw zdhz ~kll dflp {ov
wvggffj ~kzd ifhvzkmvl ~obfc $~dkgd ~f.ll ghll )Lo}f W{wzfbw mhwdkoc)+ kw jkmmfyfcz myob )dknd
mhwdkoc) oy )NX mhwdkoc#)
Mhwdkoc kw gyvgkhl, ivz coz zkbf"gocwvbkcn# [ov ocl{ dh}f zo yfjo {ovy ~hyjyoif ocgf zdkw {fhy#
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Kz.w nyfhz zo wzh{ oc zop om zyfcjw, ivz km {ov nfz h nyfhz looe kc Ahcvhy{, kz ~kll wzkll ~oye kcJfgfbify#6# Zyhge {ovy pyonyfww
[ov ghc.z bhchnf ~dhz {ov ghc.z bfhwvyf#
Effp h Lo}f W{wzfbw aovychl wo {ov ghc lfhyc myob {ovy ftpfykfcgfw, wff phzzfycw, hcj gdhyz
{ovy pyonyfww# Zdkw bkndz if zdf wkcnlf ifwz zdkcn {ov ghc jo zo kbpyo}f {ovy wekllw ~kzd ~obfc#
Powz )mkflj yfpoyzw) om {ovy ckndzw ovz hcj jfzhklw myob {ovy kczfyhgzkocw# Km {ov.yf oc zdf Lo}f
W{wzfbw Lovcnf, kcwzyvgzoyw hcj ozdfy lk}f zyhkckcn nyhjvhzfw hyf lkefl{ zo nk}f zdfky mffjihge# Km
{ov.yf coz, zdfyf.w h }fy{ hgzk}f mkflj yfpoyzw iohyj oc Zdf Hzzyhgzkoc Moyvbw# Iooebhye zdkw
lkce1
dzzp1//~~~#zdfhzzyhgzkocmoyvbw#gob/mkflj"yfpoyzw/
If jfzhklfj hcj wpfgkmkg fcovnd zdhz pfoplf ghc gobbfcz hcj nk}f hj}kgf# Yfhj ozdfy pfoplfw.
mkflj yfpoyzw moy fthbplfw, hcj moy kjfhw ~dfc {ov.yf zdfyf#
Dhlm zdf }hlvf om powzkcn h mkflj yfpoyz kw ~oyekcn zdyovnd hll om zdf kwwvfw kc {ovy o~c dfhj# Wo
joc.z wekp o}fy gobplkghzfj phyzw oy mhklvyfw# Zy{ zo iyfhe zdfb jo~c hcj mknvyf ovz ~dhz {ov.jjo kc zdhz wkzvhzkoc cftz zkbf# F}fc avwz ~ykzkcn hiovz ~dhz dhppfcfj ~kll zyhkc {ovy
wvigocwgkovw zo zdkce om ~dhz {ov govlj jo ifzzfy cftz zkbf#
Bhef hc fmmoyz zo jo zdkw ocgf pfy ~ffe, hcj {ovy yfwvlzw ~kll kbpyo}f jyhbhzkghll{#
=# Wzh{ vp zo jhzf
K.}f iffc zfhgdkcn pkge vp hcj wfjvgzkoc zo bfc hyovcj zdf ~oylj moy wf}fyhl {fhyw co~#
K.ll if docfwz ~kzd {ov " kz ~ovlj if bvgd fhwkfy zo avwz effp wh{kcn zdf whbf wzvmm hw ~f jkj kc
900:# Ivz zdhz ~ovljc.z ~oye moy Lo}f W{wzfbw ifghvwf ~f hgzvhll{ vwf ovy zfgdckxvfw f}fy{
jh{, kc ovy o~c pfywochl lk}fw#
Zdf pw{gdolon{ om hzzyhgzkoc wzh{w zdf whbf, ivz ~dhz gyfhzfw hzzyhgzkoc jfmkckzfl{ jofw coz#
Kbhnkcf nokcn kczo h ckndzglvi jyfwwfj kc h ghpf, lfozhyjw, nonnlfw, mvyy{ dhz hcj h mfhzdfy ioh#
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Zfc {fhyw hno, zdhz ~hw jkmmfyfcz fcovnd zo if kczfyfwzkcn# Zojh{, kz kw jkwhwzyovw# Wobf pfoplfhjhpz hcj hyf wzkll hzzyhgzkcn ifhvzkmvl ~obfc zojh{# Ozdfyw gy{ ikzzfy zfhyw hcj zfll wzoykfw hiovzzdf nooj olj jh{w#
^dkgd jo {ov ~hcz zo if?
Kz.w coz avwz )jhzkcn wgkfcgf zfgdcolon{) zdhz gdhcnfw# Hgzvhl zfgdcolon{ gdhcnfw zoo# H mf~
{fhyw hno, zftz bfwwhnkcn ~hw yhyfl{ vwfj kc pkgevp hcj jhzkcn " co ocf f}fc zhlefj hiovz kz#
Zojh{, kz.w h mvcjhbfczhl wekll " zo zdf pokcz ~dfyf zdf Lo}f W{wzfbw iooe oc Pdocf hcj Zftz
Nhbf $i{ Iyhjjoge hcj By B+, ~kzd kzw phnfw om zftz bfwwhnf wgykpzw, kw ocf om zdf bowz dkndl{"
yfnhyjfj iooew kc zdf mkflj om jhzkcn hcj hzzyhgzkoc# Km {ov ghc.z zftz, {ov.yf pyoihil{ )lowkcn) 9
ovz om f}fy{ 7 ~obfc {ov.j ozdfy~kwf if hilf zo nfz#
Zdf cftz ikn zdkcn kw wogkhl gkyglf nhbf# ^obfc dh}f hl~h{w avjnfj bfc kc phyz ihwfj oc zdfky
lkmfwz{lf " ~do hyf {ovy mykfcjw, ~dhz jo {ov jo ~kzd {ovy zkbf, fzg# Vczkl yfgfczl{, zdf{ avwz dhj
zo zhef {ovy ~oyj moy kz# Co~ ~kzd Mhgfiooe hcj ozdfy wogkhl bfjkh, ~obfc ftpfgz zo eco~ h ikz
hiovz {ovy lkmfwz{lf#
[ov ghc mhef kz, wvyf# Ivz kcwzfhj, ~f.}f mknvyfj ovz do~ zo hgzvhll{ ivklj h lkmfwz{lf zdhz coz ocl{
ifhvzkmvl ~obfc ~kll if hzzyhgzfj zo, ivz ~kll hlwo pyojvgf h gocwkwzfcz wzyfhb om jfwkyhilf
~obfc# Kcwzfhj om nokcn zo zdf glvi hcj ~oyekcn dhyj zo pkge vp zdf ifhvzkmvl ~obhc
wvyyovcjfj i{ nv{w kc zdf goycfy " if zdf nv{ ~do nofw ovz ~kzd dfy kc zdf mkywz plhgf#
># If bhc fcovnd zo hwemoy dflp
K gocmfww " K.b coz nyfhz hz zdkw# Bowz bfc hyfc.z# Zdhz.w ~d{ zdfyf hyf wo bhc{ aoefw hiovz bfc
yfmvwkcn zo hwe moy f}fc wkbplf zdkcnw lkef jyk}kcn jkyfgzkocw# obfc ~kll coz ocl{ hwe moy
jkyfgzkocw, ivz hlwo wdhyf pfywochl ftpfykfcgfw, hwe moy hj}kgf, hcj h}okj yf"kc}fczkcn zdf
~dffl#
Zdkw nk}fw ~obfc h dvnf hj}hczhnf wogkhll{ o}fy bowz bfc# Joc.z ilhbf ~obfc moy ifkcn
wbhyzfy hiovz jhzkcn hcj yflhzkocwdkpw hcj vwvhll{ wfzzkcn zdf hnfcjh hcj nfzzkcn ~dhz zdf{
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