Livingthe goodlife
Transcript of Livingthe goodlife
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“Living The Good Life”
Techniques to help you realistically live the life you’ve always wanted
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“Success is neither magical or mysterious. Success is the natural consequence of consistently applying basic fundamentals.”
-Jim Rohn
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Goals and Goal Setting
What is a goal?
Can goals be changed?
Rules of Goal setting
What if I don’t reach my goal ?
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What is a goal?
A goal is the object of a person’s ambition; an aim or a desired result (dictionary).
It is a learned skill that can be learned by anyone.
Small Goals vs. Big Goals
All goals should be written down
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Composing a Goal Goals should begin with “To…”
All goals must be dated
Goals should be written to be changed, when necessary
Once goals are accomplished, they should be checked off
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Goals are steps to something else, a larger goal– “The Bigger Picture”
No goal by itself is the end.
We should question and understand where each goal will lead.
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Rules of Goal-Setting Goals must be written down
Goals must be dated
Goal dates should be flexible
Goal plans should always include obstacles and action steps
All goals should be tracked
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Goals and Visions
Visions are the “The Big Picture” your goals will lead you to
Goals should be seen as “small steps” that will lead you to your vision/”Big Picture”
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Ask yourself: “Where are my goals going to take me?All goals are small steps towards your vision.
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Obstacles and Action Steps
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Obstacles do occur
Action steps help you decide ahead of time what you will do during a “What If?” situation
Preparedness helps you spend less time panicking
Similar to being prepared for a natural disaster before the meterologist tells you one a storm is approaching.
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What is tracking?
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Tracking is monitoring your goals.
Re-dating goals
Checking off accomplished goals
Daily progress check (workbook)
Modifications
Re-evaluations
No tracking=Failure to reach goal!
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“Passive” vs. “Active” Goals
Passive goals:
hopes
dreams
wishful thinking
undefined desires
No plan to reach goal!
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Active goals:
Action plan
Dates
Precision
Specific way of achieving goal
Personal responsibility!
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“Someday, I’d like to…”
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NO!
NO!
NO!
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It’s O.K. to dream but you must develop a goal plan.
Dream goals have no action plan and no follow-up plan of action!
Dream but plan!!!
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10 PRIMARY AREAS
OF
GOAL-SETTING
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1. Lifestyle Goals
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Where we live
What we have
“Life Comfort Level”
Not to be confused with “Job, Work and Career Goals”
“What do I want my life to look like and what do I want in it?
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2. Job, Work and Career Goals
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“What do I want to do in my occupational environment?”
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3. Financial Goals
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Examples:
1. How much do you want to save?
2. How much do you want to spend?
3. How will you record your saving/spending?
Remember: NEVER spend more than you earn!
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4.Time & Personal Organization Goals
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1. What to you want to spend the most time doing?
2. What is your schedule like currently?
3. What small changes can you make in order to move towards better time management?
Allow leisure time and time for yourself!
BE FLEXIBLE!!!
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5.Health and Fitness Goals
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How healthy do you want to be?
Gym, yoga, walking etc.?
Lose/Gain certain amount of weight?
What do you see yourself looking like?
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Not just physical but also mental, spiritual
health.
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6. Relationship Goals
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Single?
Married?
Divorced?
Just dating?
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Also….
What do you hope to accomplish in your current relationship?
Do you and your partner share the same goals?
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Not just personal relationship goals but also business, friendship, etc.
Examples:
- What do you hope to gain from taking on a particular customer/client?
-How can you better serve your new client/customer? How can this new client/customer be beneficial to your business?
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7. Self-Esteem Goals What do you see when you look at yourself in
the mirror?
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7. Self-Esteem Goals What things do you think can be included in
self-esteem goals?
Think: Goal is to feel better about yourself/your company.
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8. Personal Growth Goals
How can you move from where you are currently?
-How does it relate to your work performance?
-How does it relate to your home life?
-How can you better yourself/your business?
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9.Quality of Life Goals
Define what “quality of life” means to you.
-What makes a “good quality of life”?
-What do you want and how are you going to get it?
-Creative visualization
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10. All Other Goals What else do you want or in what direction to
you see yourself going?
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8 STEPS TO SETTING GOALS SUCCESSFULLY
1. INDENTIFY
What is it you really want?
What is the specific goal and what is it that it’ll do for me?
Who am I/What is my business really at its core?
Is this the right choice?
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2. WRITE IT DOWN
-Writing it down solidifies it.
-It becomes real
-Get it right
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3. SET THE DATE FOR COMPLETION
-Dates can be changed but it is important to have a specific date to start
- Example: “March 11, 2011” not “March”
-”To become a better listener” don’t have specific dates but have progressive dates
“I’ll see a noticeable progress in my listening skills by…”
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4. List the Obstacles to Reaching the Goal
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5. Write and Date the Action Steps
-Remember “solutions to obstacles”
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6. Prioritize your goals
-Which goals do you need to work on first?
-Pick three focus goals
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8. Review and Track Your Progress on Schedule
-Workbook
-Goalsonline.com
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FOCUS GOALS
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Most important goals
Goals that need to be done first
Goals that need your immediate attention
Goals that make the most difference
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NO MORE THAN THREE GOALS
3
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Re-prioritize as necessary
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COMMON GOAL-SETTING PROBLEMS
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1. Getting Started/Not Doing It
The hard part is getting started
It is easy to become discouraged and not start setting goals
Having a life coach will help you to stay focused
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2. PROCRASTINATION PUTTING THINGS OFF NEVER GETS ANYTHING
DONE/DONE CORRECTLY!!
Motivation
“GET UP!”
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3. Getting Started Again
Once you stop, having to restart, in itself, is discouraging.
Some people just stop.
Distractions
Overwhelmed
Lose sight of dream
Mental vacation
Reset Goals
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4. Not Writing Down Goals
Writing down goals gives goals solidity
Goals become real
Become etched in our subconscious
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5. Lack of Clarity Clear focus
Specific
Too vague
No committment
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6. Setting Goals that aren’t realisitc
Goals that are too big
Goals that are too far away to ever be able to reach
Overwhelming goals
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7. Setting goals that are not big enough
No challenge
Too easy
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8. Listening to the “Nay-sayers”
Negative opinion of others
Should be seen as motivation/challenge
Jealousy
“Self-talk”
Distance self from negative talk/thoughts
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9. Negative Programming
If you believe negativity, then it becomes reality
Lack of self-belief/low self-esteem
Negative stuff from past
“Flush the toilet on the past!”
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10. Lack of Tracking Can’t see progress if no record is kept
No progress seen=discouragement
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12. No external support and motivation
Life/Motivational Coach
Family and Friends
Colleagues
Faith-based groups
Support Groups
Online groups of interest
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What is a Life Coach? Teacher
-Step by step teaching/trainer
-Guidance and support
-Accountability
A gift to clients
Helps clients with choices
Encouragement
Active motivation
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What is a Motivational Coach?
Inspires
Helps you to reprogram negative thinking
Positive
Support
Teaches/trains
Accountability
Seminars
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Self-Talk History:
-30 years ago recognized as a tool
-Athletes before games
-”Programming”
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Based on actual scientific, medical, neurological psychological research
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Goal-Seeking Mechanism of Human Brain
Recorded messages
Permanent storage
Birth
148,000 “No’s”
Negative messages
Our own past programs
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77% of our programs are the wrong type of programs.
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We are a result of our programs.
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Our brains act on the strongest programs
Strong programs determine a lot about us
Brain designed to collect and store information about ourselves and the world and then it causes us to act on the information.
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How Self-Talk Can Help
Self-awareness
Discover past programs
Choosing programs you want to have NOW (“W.I.N.”)
How programs/self-talk affect everything around you
Your attitude
Your beliefs
Your interests
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Your energy and enthusiasm
Your actions and behavior
Your follow-through
Your reactions to “setbacks” (“Turbulence”)
Your determination and perseverance
Your belief in yourself
The goal you set
Your future
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Changing Your “Old” Self-Talk
Awareness and practice
Surrounding yourself with an environment of the RIGHT programs
Listening to self-talk CDs
-daily affirmations designed to help reprogram us
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DON’T LIVE OUR THE NEGATIVE LIVES OTHER PEOPLE GAVE YOU THROUGH NEGATIVE SELF-TALK.
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Solutions to Changing Your Programs
Self-Talk CDs
Books
Reading “affirmations”
Changing your programs by speaking them
Subliminal CDs
Self-made CDs and programs
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Self-Talk vs. Motivational/Self-help Listening
Self-talk-repeat each phrase EXACT way. Repetition
Motivational CDs: Help to move .
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