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Happy Mother’s Day to all the Moms and Moms to be! What a privilege it is to be a Mom and Grandmother—my grandsons call me Nana. There’s nothing better than getting love and great big hugs from those grandbabies!

Now that summer is almost here, I hope you’ve all have had the opportunity to be on the lake and enjoy that sunshine. Can you believe we’re almost halfway through the year already? So get out there and enjoy! Terry and I have been fishing lately; we haven’t caught a whole lot, but we sure enjoy trying. We were at Char-lie’s Fishermans Wharf on Saturday night, shag-ging on the deck with the Celebrations Band and Pam & Ken’s Karaoke. You should come out and join us sometime. We have lots of fun, eat seafood, and meet new friends.

I’d like to thank all of my Lake Murray Life customers for supporting our locally owned Lake magazine. Our remaining issues this year include July-August and September-October. We’re the only local magazine that’s direct-mailed to thousands of homes and businesses around the Lake, and we’d love to go to work for your business.

What’s happening on your side of the lake? I’d like to hear from you: call or email anytime, and don’t forget to visit our local advertisers.

Here’s one last reminder to tell your Mother or Grandmother how much you appreciate her; one day she may not be here to tell. Happy Mother’s Day to my Mother in Heaven—I love and miss you very much!

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FEATURES8 Marina Bay

12 On the Waterfront

14 Poker Runs: Smoke on the Water

18 Swim4Nathaniel

22 Who is our Neighbor?

DEPARTMENTS3 From the Editor

5 Events

7 Lake Murray Life Leaders Ed Fetner

24 Spice of Life Mother’s Day Brunch

Publisher & Editor-in-Chief Todd [email protected]

Editor/Account ExecutiveAnne Rabon [email protected]

Editorial ConsultantAllison Caldwell

Editorial Assistant Tiffanie Wise

Production ManagerCory Bowen

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Teresa [email protected]

Graphic DesignJane Carter

Contributing WritersAllison Caldwell, Kristen Carter, David Clark, Kevin Oliver, Jackie Perrone

Contributing PhotographersJackie Perrone

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EDITORfrom the

INSIDE the ISSUE


Thursday-Saturday, May 9-1126th Annual South Carolina Poultry FestivalDowntown Batesburg-LeesvilleSix stages of continuous entertainment, food vendors, kids’ carnival, parade, craft and commercial vendors, car show, 5K road race, cooking contest, beauty pageant, sports tournaments, fireworks and more—the Poultry Festival has it all! 5-10 p.m. Thurs-day, 5-11:30 p.m. Friday, and 9 a.m.-11:30 p.m. Saturday. SCPoultryFestival.com. Friday-Saturday, May 10-11Aiken Bluegrass FestivalWorld-class bluegrass comes to nearby Ai-ken with artists including Keller Williams, The Travelin’ McCourys, Larry Keel and Natural Bridge, Della Mae, The Hackensaw Boys, and Doug & the Henrys. Proceeds benefit Star Riding, offering therapeutic and

recreational equestrian programs for people with disabilities. AikenBluegrassFestival.org. Saturday, May 11Mamapalooza 2013Wingard’s Nursery & Garden Center, 8:30 a.m.Balloons, hot dogs by Chef Ronnie Long, roses for Mom, great gift ideas, and much more! Bring Mom and don’t miss this special day! WingardsNursery.com/Events. Saturday, May 18Lake Murray Pontoon Tour of Homes The Lake Murray Association’s Pontoon Tour of Homes is one of Spring’s highlights! Boats will launch at 9:00 a.m. and 1:30 p.m. from Lighthouse Marina in Chapin, and travel to the Irmo side of the lake. There are three beautiful lake homes on the Tour this year, and tickets make a great Mother’s Day gift! $30 per person for members. $35 non-members. Purchase advance tickets at

(803) 509-4368 or LakeMurrayAsso-ciation.com. Saturday, May 18A Pet Pawty FundraiserRed Bank Horse Arena,

1159 Nazareth RoadThis pet-friendly fundraising event

and pet food drive will benefit se-niors and their pets. Hosted by Lexington County Recreation

and Aging Commission. Register for a pet walk from 8:30-9 a.m.,

and enjoy pet contests, entertain-ment, kids’ activities, food vendors and more from 9 a.m. – 2 p.m. 356-5111.

Sunday, May 19Fairy Garden Tea PartyWingard’s Nursery & Garden Center, 2 p.m.Young girls will enjoy this event held in the Secluded Gardens, which adjoins Wingard’s. Come spend time with your daughter or granddaughter experiencing the delight of fairy gardens, led by our own Garden Fairy, Andrea Bickley. Refreshments, cake and fairy wings included, but space is limited. $20 per child. Register at WingardsNursery.com or call 359-9091.

Saturday, May 257th Annual Jailbreak 5K Run & WalkLexington County Sheriff’s Department, 521 Gibson RoadSign up for a morning of fun and competi-tion to support the Lexington County Sher-iff’s Foundation! Packet pick-up and late registration begin at 6:15 a.m.; 5K run/walk starts at 8 a.m. $25 pre-registration at Strict-lyRunning.com; $30 day of race. 785-8230.

Thursday, May 30 and Saturday, June 112th Annual Garden TourEnjoy a two-day escape in six lush, private gardens located in Lexington County (9 a.m. – 4 p.m. each day). Each garden exempli-fies southern gardening pride. Marvel at the handiwork of our homeowners and relax among the natural beauty of these select gar-dens. Hosted by Lexington County Master Gardener Volunteers. Proceeds benefit the Sam Cheatham Scholarship for Lexington County horticulture students. For tickets or more information, contact Patricia Dukes at 796-0884 or [email protected].

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Ed Fetner is a living testament to the value of self-study and improve-ment. “I never went to college; my family didn’t have the money,” says this Lake Murray icon. “I did programs of self-study, read my way into engineering and architecture and drafting, and found a way to do what I wanted to do.” And how! At age 91, he’s enjoying the views of the water at his Lake Murray home, and reflects on a varied career using his talents for construction and drawing.

Fetner was born in Columbia, and during his first year of life was stricken with polio—for which there was no prevention and very little treatment at the time. “My family encouraged me to do everything for my-self that I could,” he says. “I was able to manage with a limp and a cane. Since then, the post-polio syndrome has become well known, where the ailment returns after 40 or 50 years. It happened to me, and brought on more health problems which I still deal with.”

Doing for himself became a way of life for this motivated worker. Neigh-borhood baseball attracted him, and in those days without organized rules and government supervision, they just made up the rules as they went along. When Ed went to bat, if he made a hit (which was often!), a team-

mate who stood behind him took off and ran the bases for him. This may have been one of the earliest examples of the designated runner.

Young Ed was also attracted to aviation, and hung around Owens Field offering to help out—and soaking up the shop talk.

“Steve Weston lent me the money to buy the home study pro-gram for airplane mechanics,” he remembers. “I studied for five or six months, went to California for a three-month internship, and became a licensed Aviation Mechanic.” And so his career was up and running. He taught at the U.S. Army Air Corps Flight School in Orangeburg, and later at the Columbia Army Air Base. His

student pass-ratio was just about perfect: “I flunked only one student out of all the hundreds I taught.”

Fetner says aviation work shrank after WWII, so he read up, again, on construction and design and went to work for Wilbur Smith Associates and for the S.C. Highway Department. He got his Drafting credentials from the International Correspondence School, and became a specialist in maps.

Today, his name is known around the Midlands for his maps of Lake Murray and the surrounding area. Since fishermen and hunters were the ones most in need of them, Fetner named his self-drawn maps Fishunt Maps, and marketed them himself at local drug stores, hardware stores and marinas. The maps helped people find their way around the often-confus-ing area, but mostly Fetner wanted to steer them to good fishing spots.

“Like aviation, there’s no room for error on a map,” he says. His custom was to drive personally to every location he was mapping.

The Lake Murray Power Squadron and the Lake Murray Association have both honored Ed Fetner as Citizen of the Year. Since his wife Carolyn died five years ago, he has continued to live at his Lake Murray home—where he can check on the water, boats, sunrises, birds and squirrels. He bought the lot at the lake for $1,400 in 1965, and built his house in 1973 (yes, he’s a would-be architect also). “I couldn’t afford to buy there now,” he says. n

Ed Fetner

LEADERLake Murray

Eat, Boat, Live!Marina Bay is the brainchild of Ben Ar-

nold, president of the Arnold Companies and the developer responsible for Mid-lands-area landmarks such as The Vista Lofts, Renaissance Plaza, and The Palms on Main. Site partners at Marina Bay in-clude The Residence at Marina Bay, Liberty on the Lake, Lake Murray Marina, Lake Murray Boat Club, and Better Boat Rental. When asked about his latest project, Ar-nold says Marina Bay has exceeded his ex-pectations.

Lake Murray Life: What was your in-spiration for developing Marina Bay?

Ben Arnold: I wanted to spring some-thing truly exceptional to Columbia and Lake Murray. Twelve acres adjacent to a marina on beautiful Lake Murray was the perfect site. The plan was, and is, to

bring a lifestyle to Columbia that it does not already have. By this I mean luxury residences with a first class marina, ship/convenience store, boat rental, and a large reputable restaurant/bar on site. I strive to do projects that are unique and interesting as well as beneficial to the community.

LML: How closely does the final product match your original plans?

Arnold: The final project is exceeding my expectations. The vision was to bring resort-style living with fun tropical colors while blending in with the inherent beauty of Lake Murray. I like to say that Marina Bay is where Columbia and Miami come together to offer people an inland resort that you can live at without purchasing.

LML: When will the final phase of con-struction be complete?

Open for Business (and Pleasure)

The lakeside restaurant

is now serving.

Boat slips are

now available.

Brand new,

luxury-casual rental

apartments are

move-in ready.

Lake Murray’s stylish

new waterfront

lifestyle destination is

finally open for

business, and already

living up to its motto as

an ideal place to eat,

boat and live.

Marina Bay:

by Allison Caldwell | Photos by Anne McQuary



Eat, Boat, Live!


Arnold: As of this interview [April 2013], we have all but 24 units online as well as all of the amenities. The last build-ing will be completed [by the end of the month.] As a matter of fact, leasing has been really strong and we already have people living in all of the buildings except the last one.

LML: What else would you like to see de-velop on, in, or around Lake Murray?

Arnold: I believe Lake Murray could use a boutique hotel at a small marina with an onsite restaurant. Finding the right lo-cation with the appropriate zoning would be tough.

LML: What have you enjoyed most about this project so far?

Arnold: The opportunity to turn a run-down marina with mostly vacant water-

front land into a development like nothing else in the Southeast. Think about it: how many multi-family properties are on the water with these kinds of amenities and have meal service at the pool? No public marinas in Columbia have the ability for slip holders to have a pool membership.

What I enjoy most about putting this deal together is the range of people that I get to interact with. A developer interacts with property owners, tenants, govern-ment officials, bankers, lawyers, architects, engineers, contractors, sub-contractors, suppliers, property managers, leasing con-sultants, marketing firms and the media, to name a few.

LML: What were your greatest challenges? Arnold: Financing and constructing

this project while continuously operating

a marina. Getting through all of the gov-ernment approvals, permits and inspec-tions and delivering the project timely was a challenge as well. Marina Bay required the cooperation of federal, state, Richland County and City of Columbia submissions and approvals. Our society in general has government involvement in almost all as-pects of our lives these days.

LML: What might our readers be sur-prised to know about how things progressed in the development process?

Arnold: That while you make the best of plans, things can and do go wrong. We originally intended to have the restaurant open last April. For that, we apologize to our slip holders and are appreciative of their patience and understanding. We are confident it will be worth it in the end.

LML: What’s your next big project in the Lexington area?

Arnold: At present I do not have one. I will say that we just signed two large ten-ants at South Lake Center on Highway 6, which brings us to 100 percent leased! n

I like to say that Marina Bay is where

Columbia and Miami come together to

offer people an inland resort that you can

live at without purchasing.


(Still) Open for Business

Lake Murray Marina at Marina Bay

Boaters on Lake Murray can now enjoy dockside access to the new Liberty on the Lake restaurant (a sister location to Liberty Taproom in The Vista), a new, expanded con-venience store and renovated fuel dock at Lake Murray Marina. Although memberships are available, access is open to the public—and always has been, according to General Manager Tammy Wright.

“There seems to have been a misconcep-tion that Lake Murray Marina was private, or even closing because of the construction at Marina Bay,” says Wright. “The truth is, we’re open to everyone on the lake and still maintain lease slips for boats from 16 to 100 feet long, with completely separate public and member docks. There are certainly ben-efits to membership, of course.”

Those benefits include power, water, cable TV, a free SeaTow package, attentive dock service, member parties and special events—including a private grand opening party later this month. In all, Wright says 205 slips are available with plenty of parking.

“We’re excited about all of the changes here. This is something Lake Murray has needed for a long time,” says Wright. “We encourage folks to come us by boat instead of car, and discover why we’re known as the friendliest marina on the lake. You’re not just a slip number here—you’re like family.”


Whether it’s the wind in your hair, the whine of a reel or the thrill of watersports,

every summer the water invites us to jump in and have some fun. Many might be surprised to learn that boat-ing is an accessible and active hobby close to home. Public access to Lake

Murray and Columbia’s three riv-ers makes it even easier.

More than 60 percent of Americans say outdoor recreation such as boating is important for their overall wellbeing, ac-

cording to Discover Boating. In fact, more than 83 million Americans go boating each year.

“Summer is the best time to turn off those smartphones and turn up the qual-ity time spent with loved ones, and there’s no better place to bond than on a boat,” says Carl Blackwell, president of Discover Boating. “Boating offers something for ev-eryone—from fishing and wakeboarding to cruising and more. Today’s boats are more versatile than ever, making boating more fun and accessible for every interest, lifestyle and budget.”

Whether planning an on-the-water getaway, looking to rent, or considering ownership, getting on a boat has never been more fun or easier to do. No matter which body of water you choose, Discov-erBoating.com offers four simple ways to disconnect from land and get your feet wet this season:

On-water thrills. For action-packed ex-citement, try waterskiing, wakeboarding or tubing. Watersports are fun for the whole family and a great workout, plus they’re an easy way to get the kids to turn off the videogames and play outside. A little on-line research makes it easy to find on-water rentals, lessons and demonstrations near you, plus there’s also watersports clubs and organizations around the U.S. offering af-fordable programs for all skill levels.

Gone fishin’. There’s more to love about fishing than just the catching: en-joying nature, spending time with family and friends, and exploring the outdoors.

Water(front)On the

Ways to spend more time on the water this

summer

“Summer is the best time to turn off those

smartphones and turn up the quality time

spent with loved ones, and there’s no better place

to bond than on a boat,”

by Kristen Carter


A favorite hobby for many, fishing offers a lot of fun for little cost. Consider renting a fishing boat, booking a guided fishing tour on Lake Murray, or setting up a deep sea fishing charter at the coast. Cast a line and test the waters.

Cruise control. If relaxing and social-izing rank at the top of your list for sum-mer fun, the cruising lifestyle may be the perfect fit. Rentals are typically available for daily, hourly or weekend charters. Be your own captain or hire one to show you the ropes. Book a leisurely dinner cruise on one of Lake Murray’s own tour boats. Fractional ownership is also an emerg-ing trend nationwide: similar to a lodging timeshare, but for boats, this offers a way to access new boats and share costs among friends or other boaters.

Sail away. Sailboats harness the breeze to power the boat across the water. Sail-ing lessons, charters and clubs are offered around the country for sailors of all (or no) skill levels. Looking to learn? Weave a charter, rental or sailing clinic into your summer vacation; it’s a fun way to get started and spend time with family and

friends while picking up new skills.A little research can go a long way for

on-water options this summer. Start with DiscoverBoating.com, a beginner’s guide to all things boating, from a handy boat selector and cost comparison tool to a

step-by-step guide. Of course, don’t forget to peruse local resources as well like area chambers, associations and visitor’s cen-ters—in person or online. There’s some-thing for everyone looking to take the first step from the dock to the boat deck. n


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W ith warmer weather on the lake comes prime boating season, and one of the biggest boating events on Lake Murray the past few years has been the Ducks

Unlimited Poker Run. This year’s event takes place June 7-9 in conjunction with the Outlaw boat races, making it a full weekend of fun and fundraising.

Similar in concept to the many motorcycle poker runs around the area, boaters will travel the lake and stop at various places to pick a playing card; best hand at the end of the event is the winner. One wrinkle is that at the final stop, entrants can purchase two addi-tional cards if they need to improve their hand.

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The Ducks Unlimited Lake Murray Poker Run

by Kevin OliverPhotos courtesy of Jacob Carter


Stops this year include a floating stop at Adams Lakeside Camping, SouthShore Marina, Holland’s Marina, Big Man’s Marina, and the new Liberty’s on the Lake restaurant at Marina Bay. The complete course takes participants all the way around the lake over the course of the weekend. There are also just-for-fun stops along the way explains Ja-cob Carter, one of the run’s organizers.

“On Friday we’ll have a raft-up at Sandy Beach, and registration at the new Marina Bay with a live band. Both of those stops give people a chance to get together and have some fun,” Carter says. “On Saturday the stops open at 10 a.m., and everyone is due back at Liberty’s by 5:30 p.m.” Also on Saturday, there’s a catered lunch scheduled at Spinners, and then entrants are encouraged to attend the Outlaw Boat Races where they can raft up and be spectators, or go from boat to boat seeing their friends on the water.

“When we first started four years ago, our dates just happened to coincide with the

drag boat races,” Carter says. “Our partici-pants enjoyed watching them so much that we now plan it to happen that way. They like having a crowd there, and our guys like to hang out and watch.”

The run attracts quite a crowd, too, with boats coming from as far away as Maryland, Texas, and Missouri to participate. This means economic impact for the lake region as well, with house and room rentals, gaso-line purchases, meals in local restaurants, and more. For the marinas, their poker run numbers are bigger than July 4th weekend.

“We have guys who’ve been coming since we started the run who are talking about buying houses here on the lake, they enjoy being here so much,” Carter says. Proceeds from the run benefit the Lexington chap-ter of Ducks Unlimited, and one of Carter’s goals this year is to have more local entries.

“We have a lot of out-of-state people, but of course we want locals to enter as well. This is a family oriented event, and every-

one is welcome,” he says. “There’s been a bit of a misconception that it’s only for power-boats, but no matter what kind of boat you have we want you to come out and enjoy the weekend. Lake Murray is such a great natural resource, and we just want people to enjoy it.” n

n Swimming, racing, diving and more with members of the USC Swim Team!

n Live DJ, silent auction, games for the kids, and plenty of food!

n Follow Nathaniel’s progress at Caring-Bridge.org/visit/NathanielFournel

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saturday, may 18Country Club of Lexington

11 a.m. - 4 p.m.

Bring the whole family for a full day of fun to support the Fournel family and 13-year-old Nathaniel,

who was diagnosed with a cancerous brain tumor on November 29, 2012. He’s been undergoing chemotherapy

since December, and has volunteered to participate in a cancer study to improve treatment for other children in the future. Nathaniel is an eighth grader at Pleasant Hill Middle

School, an avid swimmer and member of Palmetto aquatics, big brother to Braden, and a member of

First Baptist of Lexington. Whether you jump in the pool or not, come Swim4Nathaniel on May 18!

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Strawberry Bruschetta1 cup strawberries, hulled and diced1 Tbsp. sugar1 French baguette, sliced on a slant4 oz. goat cheese1 Tbsp. olive oil2 tsp. balsamic vinegar¼ cup minced basil leavesFreshly ground black pepper

Combine the strawberries and sugar in a small bowl and toss gently to mix. Let the berries macerate for about 30 minutes so that

they begin to release their juices. Spread a thin layer of goat cheese on top of each baguette slice. Top each slice with spoonfuls of the strawberry mixture. Drizzle lightly with olive oil and balsamic vinegar. Top each slice with the basil leaves and cracked pepper, to taste.

Bacon, Egg & Toast Cups3 Tbsp. unsalted butter, melted8 slices white or wheat sandwich bread6 slices bacon6 large eggsCoarse salt and ground pepper

Preheat oven to 375. Lightly butter six standard muffin cups. With a rolling pin, flatten bread slices slightly and, with a 4-1/4-inch cookie cutter, cut into 8 rounds. Cut each round in half, then press two halves into each muffin cup, overlapping slightly and making sure bread comes up to edge of cup. Use extra bread to patch any gaps. Brush bread with re-maining butter.

In a large skillet, cook bacon over medium, until almost crisp, about 4 minutes, flipping once (it will continue to cook in the oven). Lay one bacon slice in each bread cup and crack an egg over each. Season with salt and pepper. Bake until egg whites are just set, 20-25 min-

utes. Run a small knife around cups to loosen toasts. Serve immediately.

Pineapple Rosemary Water 4 sprigs fresh rosemary2 cups fresh pineapple chunksSparkling waterIce cubes

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A wiseacre asked the teacher: “How can I live forever?”The teacher knew the wiseacre was a lawyer who believed the law contained all the answers. The teacher said: “What does the law say?”

The wiseacre answered: “I need to love God with all my heart, mind, and strength. And I need to love my neighbor as myself.”

The teacher said: “You got it, friend.” But the wiseacre lawyer said: “Yeah, but who’s my neighbor?”

The teacher answered with a story: A traveling man was robbed, beaten, and left for dead. The first two people passing the traveler were preachers who didn’t have time to help— they were late for church.

Finally, a stranger stopped to help the beaten man. But there’s a twist: the beaten

man would have normally viewed the help-ful stranger with scorn. The teacher asked the lawyer: “Who was the neighbor?”

The Good Samaritan was one of my favor-ite stories when I was a kid. Daddy stopped to help someone on the road. I asked: “Who was that?” Daddy didn’t know them. “Then why did you stop to help them?”

Dad answered: “Don’t forget the story of the Good Samaritan, son.” I wondered who had already passed them by.

Original roots of the word neighbor talk about time and distance and people living close by. Neighbor’s Latin roots describe a starting point, purpose, and an end goal. People started communities to share re-sources and protection. Strangers have prob-ably always been suspect. The nightly news

offers plenty of reasons for suspicion. But nowadays the strangers live next door.

Old folks always mention sharing food with strangers during The Depression. I can’t remember ever hearing about a family turn-ing away a stranger back then. Hunger made everyone realize they were in the same boat. Daddy said: “Always help others, son. You’ll need help yourself one day.”

In this country’s early days, neighbors carving life out of the wilderness were the basis of the government. It’s still that way in rural areas. Out in my neck of the woods, we appreciate the county scraping the roads and cutting the grass on the highway. But when something needs to be worked out, we talk it out over the hood of a pickup truck. This sometimes makes for a tense moment or two, but our talking together creates some-thing that cannot be legislated into being or taken away. And with all due respect to our elected officials, I’d rather trust any one of my neighbors than I would a whole train-load of politicians.

Modern society says we should love our-selves first. The old teacher said it differently: if we want to love ourselves, we must also love our neighbor. Who is our neighbor?

Our neighbors are the strangers here among us. We should keep an eye peeled as we go about our business. Someone always needs a neighbor. We are all strangers from time to time.

Daddy said: “Don’t forget the stranger, son. Sometimes a stranger is an angel.”

David Clark is a nationally known writer, musician, car-penter and organic vegetable farmer in Cochran, GA. For permission to reuse, please contact the author at [email protected].

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