HERON OUR NEIGHBORHOOD NEWSLETTER POIPOINTS February … · findings in "The Longevity Project:...
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HERON POINTS OIPOINTS MONTHLY TOPIC This month’s article revisits the longevity study we discussed in earlier issues, but presents additional findings. Keys to long life? Not what you might expect Cheer up. Stop worrying. Don’t work so hard. Good advice for a long life? As it turns out, no. In a groundbreaking study of personality as a predictor of longevity, University of California, Riverside researchers found just the opposite. "It's surprising just how often common assumptions -- by both scientists and the media -- are wrong," said Howard S. Friedman, distinguished professor of psychology who led the 20-year study. Friedman and Leslie R. Martin , a 1996 UCR alumna (Ph.D.) and staff researchers, have published those findings in "The Longevity Project: Surprising Discoveries for Health and Long Life from the Landmark Eight-Decade Study" (Hudson Street Press, March 2011). Friedman and Martin examined, refined and supplemented data gathered by the late Stanford University psychologist Louis Terman and subsequent researchers on more than 1,500 bright children who were about 10 years old when they were first studied in 1921. "Probably our most amazing finding was that personality characteristics and social relations from childhood can predict one's risk of dying decades later," Friedman concluded. GREETINGS OUR NEIGHBORHOOD NEWSLETTER February 2015 Submit your articles, recipes, photos, etc. for next month’s newsletter to [email protected].
Transcript of HERON OUR NEIGHBORHOOD NEWSLETTER POIPOINTS February … · findings in "The Longevity Project:...
HERON POINTS POIPOINTS
MONTHLY TOPIC
This monthrsquos article revisits the longevity study we discussed in earlier issues but presents additional
findings
Keys to long life Not what you might expect
Cheer up Stop worrying Donrsquot work so hard Good advice for a long life As it turns out no In a
groundbreaking study of personality as a predictor of longevity University of California Riverside researchers found just the opposite
Its surprising just how often common assumptions -- by both scientists and the media -- are wrong said Howard S Friedman distinguished professor of psychology who led the 20-year study
Friedman and Leslie R Martin a 1996 UCR alumna (PhD) and staff researchers have published those findings in The Longevity Project Surprising Discoveries for Health and Long Life from the Landmark Eight-Decade Study (Hudson Street Press March 2011)
Friedman and Martin examined refined and supplemented data gathered by the late Stanford University psychologist Louis Terman and subsequent researchers on more than 1500 bright children who were about 10 years old when they were first studied in 1921 Probably our most amazing finding was that personality
characteristics and social relations from childhood can predict ones risk of dying decades later Friedman concluded
The Longevity Project as the study became known followed the children through their lives collecting information that included family histories and relationships teacher and parent
ratings of personality hobbies pet ownership job success education levels military service
GREETINGS
OUR NEIGHBORHOOD NEWSLETTER
February 2015
Submit your articles recipes
photos etc tor next monthrsquos
newsletter to
drtgs1951gmailcom
Submit your articles recipes
photos etc for next monthrsquos
newsletter to
drtgs1951gmailcom
The Longevity Project as the study became known followed the children through their lives collecting information that included family histories and relationships teacher and parent ratings of
personality hobbies pet ownership job success education levels military service and numerous other details
When we started we were frustrated with the state of research about individual differences stress
health and longevity Friedman recalled It was clear that some people were more prone to disease took longer to recover or died sooner while others of the same age were able to thrive All sorts of explanations were being proposed -- anxiety lack of exercise nerve-racking careers risk-taking lack
of religion unsociability disintegrating social groups pessimism poor access to medical care and Type A behavior patterns But none were well-studied over the long term That is none followed
people step-by-step throughout their lives
When Friedman and Martin began their research in 1991 they planned to spend six months examining predictors of health and longevity among the Terman participants
But the project continued over the next two decades -- funded in part by the National Institute on
Aging -- and the team eventually involved more than 100 graduate and undergraduate students who tracked down death certificates evaluated interviews and analyzed tens of thousands of pages of
information about the Terman participants through the years
We came to a new understanding about happiness and health said Martin now a psychology professor at La Sierra University in Riverside One of the findings that really astounds people
including us is that the Longevity Project participants who were the most cheerful and had the best sense of humor as kids lived shorter lives on average than those who were less cheerful and joking It was the most prudent and persistent individuals who stayed healthiest and lived the longest
Part of the explanation lies in health behaviors -- the cheerful happy-go-lucky kids tended to take more risks with their health across the years Friedman noted While an optimistic approach can be helpful in a crisis we found that as a general life-orientation too much of a sense that everything
will be just fine can be dangerous because it can lead one to be careless about things that are important to health and long life Prudence and persistence however led to a lot of important
benefits for many years It turns out that happiness is not a root cause of good health Instead happiness and health go together because they have common roots
Many of the UCR findings fly in the face of conventional wisdom For example
Marriage may be good for mens health but doesnt really matter for women Steadily
married men -- those who remained in long-term marriages -- were likely to live to age 70 and beyond fewer than one-third of divorced men were likely to live to 70 and men who never
married outlived those who remarried and significantly outlived those who divorced -- but they did not live as long as married men
Being divorced is much less harmful to womens health Women who divorced and did not
remarry lived nearly as long as those who were steadily married Dont work too hard dont stress doesnt work as advice for good health and long life
Terman subjects who were the most involved and committed to their jobs did the best Continually productive men and women lived much longer than their more laid-back
comrades Starting formal schooling too early -- being in first grade before age 6 -- is a risk factor for
earlier mortality Having sufficient playtime and being able to relate to classmates is very
important for children Playing with pets is not associated with longer life Pets may sometimes improve well-being
but they are not a substitute for friends Combat veterans are less likely to live long lives but surprisingly the psychological stress of war
itself is not necessarily a major health threat Rather it is a cascade of unhealthy patterns that
Playing with pets is not associated with longer life Pets may sometimes improve well-being but they are not a substitute for friends
Combat veterans are less likely to live long lives but surprisingly the psychological stress of war itself is not necessarily a major health threat Rather it is a cascade of unhealthy patterns that sometimes follows Those who find meaning in a traumatic
experience and are able to reestablish a sense of security about the world are usually the ones who return to a healthy pathway
People who feel loved and cared for report a better sense of well-being but it doesnt help them live longer The clearest health benefit of social relationships comes from being involved with and helping
others The groups you associate with often determine the type of person you become -- healthy or unhealthy
Its never too late to choose a healthier path Friedman and Martin said The first step is to throw away the lists and stop worrying about worrying
Some of the minutiae of what people think will help us lead long healthy lives such as worrying about the ratio of omega-6 to omega-3 fatty acids in the foods we eat actually are red herrings distracting us from the major pathways Friedman said When we recognize the long-term healthy and unhealthy patterns in
ourselves we can begin to maximize the healthy patterns
Thinking of making changes as taking steps is a great strategy Martin advised You cant change major things about yourself overnight But making small changes and repeating those steps can eventually create
that path to longer life
PICTURES OF THE MONTH
Ted Sommers being anointed the Celebrity Silhouettersquos Bocce Champion on our
WHATrsquoS THE POINTE
We introduce a new regular feature to our newsletter this month Reprsquos Corner will be a
column written by Dot Prescott updating us on neighborhood business
REPS CORNER ldquo The Neighborhood Representative Council the voice of the residents is always involved in issues and
programs designed to help residentsrdquo
On January 3rd we came together for our New year Brunch Potluck where we welcomed 7 new families to Herons Pointe We are growing quickly and at this time have a total of 37 rooftops In January I was able to
participate in three days of Neighborhood Representative training It was of great benefit to receive the instruction and to gain the experience of some elder NR mentors Sandy Botelho our Treasurer was able to join me on one of the training days and I appreciate her support I look forward to sharing the information
and training I gained to Herons Pointes benefit going forward
We have a new hard copy directory which was delivered on 130 I included a list of neighborhood Groups amp Gangs with contact info for each group (if available) Please if you feel drawn to lead a group for which
we are lacking please contact Julie Sommers and let her know We will have an informational meeting on Wednesday March 4 at 500 in the Lakehouse Ballroom Ross
Glatzer the Chair of the SCHH Neighborhood Representatives Council will be our guest speaker and will provide an in-depth look at The Workings of Sun City Ross is in his 10th year leading the Nreps His
experience and insight is invaluable This is a PowerPoint presentation and there will be a question and answer session afterwards This will not be a potluck event Please plan to attend and learn something new
about SCHH
Thank you Dot dprescott54gmailcom
WHATrsquoS THE POINTE
Allan amp Sue Abolafia volunteering at the Mitsubishi Electric Golf Championship
Tom amp Marianne Lovelidge and
Howard amp Anne Redlus in Phillipsburg ST Maarten
WHATrsquoS THE POINTE
Recipe of the Month ndash Dot Prescott
NO-KNEAD ARTISAN BREAD===IN 5 MINUTES
14 tsp Instant Yeast 1 14 tsps salt 3 Cups All-purpose bread flour 1 12 Cups Room temperature water In a large bowl combine flour yeast and salt Add 1 12 cups water and stir until blended It will mix in less than a minute and then sit in a covered bowl undisturbed for 18 to 24 hours Dough is ready when surface is dotted with bubbles After about 24 hours lightly flour a work surface Place dough on it and sprinkle with a little more flour and fold it over on itself once or twice Cover loosely with wrap and let rest 30 minutes Flour hands and shape gently into ball Heat oven to 450degrees and place parchment paper in round casserole dish place dough in and bake covered for 30 minutes uncover and bake an additional 15 to 30 min until golden brown Cool on rack At this point you can fold in ANY additional ingredients you choose I have added cheese herbs pesto olives grilled onions etc DELICIOUS Makes about 2 cups
Spread hummus on whole-wheat pita bread or serve as a dip for vegetables 1 15-ounce can garbanzo beans drained liquid reserved 2 tablespoons tahini 14 cup lemon juice 3 green onions chopped 1 tablespoon chopped garlic 1 teaspoon ground cumin 12 teaspoon black pepper 12 cup roasted red peppers (optional)
Put beans tahini lemon juice green onions garlic cumin black pepper and roasted peppers if using in food processor and process until smooth Add reserved bean liquid for a smoother consistency Per 14 cup serving 88 calories 31 g fat 04 g saturated fat 313 calories from fat 0 mg cholesterol 41 g protein 122 g total carbohydrates 07 g sugar 29 g fiber 58 mg sodium 43 mg calcium 17 mg iron 38 mg vitamin C 43 mcg beta-carotene
How children perceive their Grandparents
SAVE THE DATE
The next Heronrsquos Heroesrsquo s breakfast is scheduled for 930 March 2 at Okatie clubhouse Contact Tom Lovelidge tomlovelidge2hargraycom
Menrsquos poker at the Lake House on Thursdays at 630 ndash 930 is scheduled periodically Anyone interested in
playing should contact Ted Sommers drtgs1951gmailcom
Quotes of the Month
(Editors Note Do you see a pattern in these next 2 quotes)
ldquoThe The difference between stupidity and genius is that genius has its limits Albert Einstein ndash
Two t Two things are infinite the universe and human stupidity and Im not sure about the universe
Albert Einstein
Retirement Joke of the Month
1 She was in the bathroom putting on her makeup under the watchful eyes of her young
granddaughter as shed done many times before After she applied her lipstick and started to leave the
little one said But Grandma you forgot to kiss the toilet paper good-bye I will probably never put
lipstick on again without thinking about kissing the toilet paper good-bye
2 My young grandson called the other day to wish me Happy Birthday He asked me how old I was
and I told him 80 My grandson was quiet for a moment and then he asked Did you start at 1
3 After putting her grandchildren to bed a grandmother changed into old slacks and a droopy blouse
and proceeded to wash her hair As she heard the children getting more and more rambunctious her
patience grew thin Finally she threw a towel around her head and stormed into their room putting
them back to bed with stern warnings As she left the room she heard the three-year-old say with a
trembling voice
Who was THAT
4 A grandmother was telling her little granddaughter what her own childhood was like We used to
skate outside on a pond I had a swing made from a tire it hung from a tree in our front yard We rode
our pony We picked wild raspberries in the woods
The little girl was wide-eyed taking this all in At last she said I sure wish Id gotten to know you
sooner
5 My grandson was visiting one day when he asked Grandma do you know how you and God are
alike I mentally polished my halo and I said No how are we alike Youre both old he replied
6 A little girl was diligently pounding away on her grandfathers word processor She told him she was
writing a story
Whats it about he asked
I dont know she replied I cant read
7 I didnt know if my granddaughter had learned her colors yet so I decided to test her I would point
out something and ask what color it was She would tell me and was always correct It was fun for me
so I continued At last she headed for the door saying Grandma I think you should try to figure out
some of these colors yourself
8 When my grandson Billy and I entered our vacation cabin we kept the lights off until we were inside
to keep from attracting pesky insects Still a few fireflies followed us in Noticing them before I did
Billy whispered Its no use Grandpa Now the mosquitoes are coming after us with flashlights
9 When my grandson asked me how old I was I teasingly replied Im not sure Look in your
underwear Grandpa he advised Mine says Im 4 to 6
10 A second grader came home from school and said to her grandmother Grandma guess what We
learned how to make babies today The grandmother more than a little surprised tried to keep her
cool Thats interesting she said How do you make babies
Its simple replied the girl You just change y to i and add es
HOW CHILDREN PERCEIVE THEIR GRANDPARENTShellip
11 Childrens Logic Give me a sentence about a public servant said a teacher The small boy
wrote The fireman came down the ladder pregnant The teacher took the lad aside to correct him
Dont you know what pregnant means she asked
Sure said the young boy confidently It means carrying a child
12 A grandfather was delivering his grandchildren to their home one day when a fire truck zoomed
past Sitting in the front seat of the fire truck was a Dalmatian dog The children started discussing the
dogs duties
They use him to keep crowds back said one child
No said another Hes just for good luck
A third child brought the argument to a close They use the dogs she said firmly to find the fire
hydrants
13 A 6-year-old was asked where his grandma lived Oh he said she lives at the airport and when
we want her we just go get her Then when were done having her visit we take her back to the
airport
14 Grandpa is the smartest man on earth He teaches me good things but I dont get to see him enough
to get as smart as him
15 My Grandparents are funny when they bend over you hear gas leaks and they blame their dog
WELCOME TO THE POINTE Jill and Bob Truitt
rsquoTwas a life of crime that led them to one another
Jill was a paralegal for 20 years for the county prosecutor
Bob was a practicing criminal defense attorney for even longer But they never met - until Jill opened a high end home furnishings consignment shop
Bob and his then wife visited the shop to look for bargains for their son and his new wife When Jill sold the store she really wanted to return to that life of crime she knew so well Bobrsquos office at the Federal Defenderrsquos had an opening Jill applied and was hired Her
second day there Bobrsquos wife passed away suddenly Thereafter Jill and Bobrsquos friendship grew (though she never even took him a casserole) They were married in 2005 Since then they have traveled extensively lived 6 months in DC have had some health issues and decided after last winter in Indiana to lsquoget out of Dodgersquo Dear friends had moved to
Sun City last June Bob and Jill came to help them get settled and fell in love with the people the lifestyle the weather the restaurants the beaches and a dozen other features of SC
living Two months ago they moved into their new home at 615 Freshwater Lane While they are still unpacking they look forward to amenities such as golf tennis maybe even that crazy game called
pickle ball as well as several of the ka-zillion clubs (computer photography stained glass etc) Living with them is Henry a 7 year old rescued black lab - sometimes known as lsquoMister Henryrsquo other
times lsquoPrince Henryrsquo and on occasion - very rare occasions - he might be even be referred to ldquoKing Henryrdquo Some of you may have met him on his nocturnal adventures the two times he has
escaped from the house Then he is known as Henry As a second marriage for both Bob and Jill have 5 children between them and 8 grand-kiddos ranging from 6 to 19 Two live in Bluffton having
moved here when Jill and Bob said they were going to and the other 6 are scheduled to visit at different times in the next several months - as are numerous of their Yankee friends So it must be true - that if you live in a destination location they will comersquo For that reason as well as for the many new friends
wersquove already made
The Longevity Project as the study became known followed the children through their lives collecting information that included family histories and relationships teacher and parent ratings of
personality hobbies pet ownership job success education levels military service and numerous other details
When we started we were frustrated with the state of research about individual differences stress
health and longevity Friedman recalled It was clear that some people were more prone to disease took longer to recover or died sooner while others of the same age were able to thrive All sorts of explanations were being proposed -- anxiety lack of exercise nerve-racking careers risk-taking lack
of religion unsociability disintegrating social groups pessimism poor access to medical care and Type A behavior patterns But none were well-studied over the long term That is none followed
people step-by-step throughout their lives
When Friedman and Martin began their research in 1991 they planned to spend six months examining predictors of health and longevity among the Terman participants
But the project continued over the next two decades -- funded in part by the National Institute on
Aging -- and the team eventually involved more than 100 graduate and undergraduate students who tracked down death certificates evaluated interviews and analyzed tens of thousands of pages of
information about the Terman participants through the years
We came to a new understanding about happiness and health said Martin now a psychology professor at La Sierra University in Riverside One of the findings that really astounds people
including us is that the Longevity Project participants who were the most cheerful and had the best sense of humor as kids lived shorter lives on average than those who were less cheerful and joking It was the most prudent and persistent individuals who stayed healthiest and lived the longest
Part of the explanation lies in health behaviors -- the cheerful happy-go-lucky kids tended to take more risks with their health across the years Friedman noted While an optimistic approach can be helpful in a crisis we found that as a general life-orientation too much of a sense that everything
will be just fine can be dangerous because it can lead one to be careless about things that are important to health and long life Prudence and persistence however led to a lot of important
benefits for many years It turns out that happiness is not a root cause of good health Instead happiness and health go together because they have common roots
Many of the UCR findings fly in the face of conventional wisdom For example
Marriage may be good for mens health but doesnt really matter for women Steadily
married men -- those who remained in long-term marriages -- were likely to live to age 70 and beyond fewer than one-third of divorced men were likely to live to 70 and men who never
married outlived those who remarried and significantly outlived those who divorced -- but they did not live as long as married men
Being divorced is much less harmful to womens health Women who divorced and did not
remarry lived nearly as long as those who were steadily married Dont work too hard dont stress doesnt work as advice for good health and long life
Terman subjects who were the most involved and committed to their jobs did the best Continually productive men and women lived much longer than their more laid-back
comrades Starting formal schooling too early -- being in first grade before age 6 -- is a risk factor for
earlier mortality Having sufficient playtime and being able to relate to classmates is very
important for children Playing with pets is not associated with longer life Pets may sometimes improve well-being
but they are not a substitute for friends Combat veterans are less likely to live long lives but surprisingly the psychological stress of war
itself is not necessarily a major health threat Rather it is a cascade of unhealthy patterns that
Playing with pets is not associated with longer life Pets may sometimes improve well-being but they are not a substitute for friends
Combat veterans are less likely to live long lives but surprisingly the psychological stress of war itself is not necessarily a major health threat Rather it is a cascade of unhealthy patterns that sometimes follows Those who find meaning in a traumatic
experience and are able to reestablish a sense of security about the world are usually the ones who return to a healthy pathway
People who feel loved and cared for report a better sense of well-being but it doesnt help them live longer The clearest health benefit of social relationships comes from being involved with and helping
others The groups you associate with often determine the type of person you become -- healthy or unhealthy
Its never too late to choose a healthier path Friedman and Martin said The first step is to throw away the lists and stop worrying about worrying
Some of the minutiae of what people think will help us lead long healthy lives such as worrying about the ratio of omega-6 to omega-3 fatty acids in the foods we eat actually are red herrings distracting us from the major pathways Friedman said When we recognize the long-term healthy and unhealthy patterns in
ourselves we can begin to maximize the healthy patterns
Thinking of making changes as taking steps is a great strategy Martin advised You cant change major things about yourself overnight But making small changes and repeating those steps can eventually create
that path to longer life
PICTURES OF THE MONTH
Ted Sommers being anointed the Celebrity Silhouettersquos Bocce Champion on our
WHATrsquoS THE POINTE
We introduce a new regular feature to our newsletter this month Reprsquos Corner will be a
column written by Dot Prescott updating us on neighborhood business
REPS CORNER ldquo The Neighborhood Representative Council the voice of the residents is always involved in issues and
programs designed to help residentsrdquo
On January 3rd we came together for our New year Brunch Potluck where we welcomed 7 new families to Herons Pointe We are growing quickly and at this time have a total of 37 rooftops In January I was able to
participate in three days of Neighborhood Representative training It was of great benefit to receive the instruction and to gain the experience of some elder NR mentors Sandy Botelho our Treasurer was able to join me on one of the training days and I appreciate her support I look forward to sharing the information
and training I gained to Herons Pointes benefit going forward
We have a new hard copy directory which was delivered on 130 I included a list of neighborhood Groups amp Gangs with contact info for each group (if available) Please if you feel drawn to lead a group for which
we are lacking please contact Julie Sommers and let her know We will have an informational meeting on Wednesday March 4 at 500 in the Lakehouse Ballroom Ross
Glatzer the Chair of the SCHH Neighborhood Representatives Council will be our guest speaker and will provide an in-depth look at The Workings of Sun City Ross is in his 10th year leading the Nreps His
experience and insight is invaluable This is a PowerPoint presentation and there will be a question and answer session afterwards This will not be a potluck event Please plan to attend and learn something new
about SCHH
Thank you Dot dprescott54gmailcom
WHATrsquoS THE POINTE
Allan amp Sue Abolafia volunteering at the Mitsubishi Electric Golf Championship
Tom amp Marianne Lovelidge and
Howard amp Anne Redlus in Phillipsburg ST Maarten
WHATrsquoS THE POINTE
Recipe of the Month ndash Dot Prescott
NO-KNEAD ARTISAN BREAD===IN 5 MINUTES
14 tsp Instant Yeast 1 14 tsps salt 3 Cups All-purpose bread flour 1 12 Cups Room temperature water In a large bowl combine flour yeast and salt Add 1 12 cups water and stir until blended It will mix in less than a minute and then sit in a covered bowl undisturbed for 18 to 24 hours Dough is ready when surface is dotted with bubbles After about 24 hours lightly flour a work surface Place dough on it and sprinkle with a little more flour and fold it over on itself once or twice Cover loosely with wrap and let rest 30 minutes Flour hands and shape gently into ball Heat oven to 450degrees and place parchment paper in round casserole dish place dough in and bake covered for 30 minutes uncover and bake an additional 15 to 30 min until golden brown Cool on rack At this point you can fold in ANY additional ingredients you choose I have added cheese herbs pesto olives grilled onions etc DELICIOUS Makes about 2 cups
Spread hummus on whole-wheat pita bread or serve as a dip for vegetables 1 15-ounce can garbanzo beans drained liquid reserved 2 tablespoons tahini 14 cup lemon juice 3 green onions chopped 1 tablespoon chopped garlic 1 teaspoon ground cumin 12 teaspoon black pepper 12 cup roasted red peppers (optional)
Put beans tahini lemon juice green onions garlic cumin black pepper and roasted peppers if using in food processor and process until smooth Add reserved bean liquid for a smoother consistency Per 14 cup serving 88 calories 31 g fat 04 g saturated fat 313 calories from fat 0 mg cholesterol 41 g protein 122 g total carbohydrates 07 g sugar 29 g fiber 58 mg sodium 43 mg calcium 17 mg iron 38 mg vitamin C 43 mcg beta-carotene
How children perceive their Grandparents
SAVE THE DATE
The next Heronrsquos Heroesrsquo s breakfast is scheduled for 930 March 2 at Okatie clubhouse Contact Tom Lovelidge tomlovelidge2hargraycom
Menrsquos poker at the Lake House on Thursdays at 630 ndash 930 is scheduled periodically Anyone interested in
playing should contact Ted Sommers drtgs1951gmailcom
Quotes of the Month
(Editors Note Do you see a pattern in these next 2 quotes)
ldquoThe The difference between stupidity and genius is that genius has its limits Albert Einstein ndash
Two t Two things are infinite the universe and human stupidity and Im not sure about the universe
Albert Einstein
Retirement Joke of the Month
1 She was in the bathroom putting on her makeup under the watchful eyes of her young
granddaughter as shed done many times before After she applied her lipstick and started to leave the
little one said But Grandma you forgot to kiss the toilet paper good-bye I will probably never put
lipstick on again without thinking about kissing the toilet paper good-bye
2 My young grandson called the other day to wish me Happy Birthday He asked me how old I was
and I told him 80 My grandson was quiet for a moment and then he asked Did you start at 1
3 After putting her grandchildren to bed a grandmother changed into old slacks and a droopy blouse
and proceeded to wash her hair As she heard the children getting more and more rambunctious her
patience grew thin Finally she threw a towel around her head and stormed into their room putting
them back to bed with stern warnings As she left the room she heard the three-year-old say with a
trembling voice
Who was THAT
4 A grandmother was telling her little granddaughter what her own childhood was like We used to
skate outside on a pond I had a swing made from a tire it hung from a tree in our front yard We rode
our pony We picked wild raspberries in the woods
The little girl was wide-eyed taking this all in At last she said I sure wish Id gotten to know you
sooner
5 My grandson was visiting one day when he asked Grandma do you know how you and God are
alike I mentally polished my halo and I said No how are we alike Youre both old he replied
6 A little girl was diligently pounding away on her grandfathers word processor She told him she was
writing a story
Whats it about he asked
I dont know she replied I cant read
7 I didnt know if my granddaughter had learned her colors yet so I decided to test her I would point
out something and ask what color it was She would tell me and was always correct It was fun for me
so I continued At last she headed for the door saying Grandma I think you should try to figure out
some of these colors yourself
8 When my grandson Billy and I entered our vacation cabin we kept the lights off until we were inside
to keep from attracting pesky insects Still a few fireflies followed us in Noticing them before I did
Billy whispered Its no use Grandpa Now the mosquitoes are coming after us with flashlights
9 When my grandson asked me how old I was I teasingly replied Im not sure Look in your
underwear Grandpa he advised Mine says Im 4 to 6
10 A second grader came home from school and said to her grandmother Grandma guess what We
learned how to make babies today The grandmother more than a little surprised tried to keep her
cool Thats interesting she said How do you make babies
Its simple replied the girl You just change y to i and add es
HOW CHILDREN PERCEIVE THEIR GRANDPARENTShellip
11 Childrens Logic Give me a sentence about a public servant said a teacher The small boy
wrote The fireman came down the ladder pregnant The teacher took the lad aside to correct him
Dont you know what pregnant means she asked
Sure said the young boy confidently It means carrying a child
12 A grandfather was delivering his grandchildren to their home one day when a fire truck zoomed
past Sitting in the front seat of the fire truck was a Dalmatian dog The children started discussing the
dogs duties
They use him to keep crowds back said one child
No said another Hes just for good luck
A third child brought the argument to a close They use the dogs she said firmly to find the fire
hydrants
13 A 6-year-old was asked where his grandma lived Oh he said she lives at the airport and when
we want her we just go get her Then when were done having her visit we take her back to the
airport
14 Grandpa is the smartest man on earth He teaches me good things but I dont get to see him enough
to get as smart as him
15 My Grandparents are funny when they bend over you hear gas leaks and they blame their dog
WELCOME TO THE POINTE Jill and Bob Truitt
rsquoTwas a life of crime that led them to one another
Jill was a paralegal for 20 years for the county prosecutor
Bob was a practicing criminal defense attorney for even longer But they never met - until Jill opened a high end home furnishings consignment shop
Bob and his then wife visited the shop to look for bargains for their son and his new wife When Jill sold the store she really wanted to return to that life of crime she knew so well Bobrsquos office at the Federal Defenderrsquos had an opening Jill applied and was hired Her
second day there Bobrsquos wife passed away suddenly Thereafter Jill and Bobrsquos friendship grew (though she never even took him a casserole) They were married in 2005 Since then they have traveled extensively lived 6 months in DC have had some health issues and decided after last winter in Indiana to lsquoget out of Dodgersquo Dear friends had moved to
Sun City last June Bob and Jill came to help them get settled and fell in love with the people the lifestyle the weather the restaurants the beaches and a dozen other features of SC
living Two months ago they moved into their new home at 615 Freshwater Lane While they are still unpacking they look forward to amenities such as golf tennis maybe even that crazy game called
pickle ball as well as several of the ka-zillion clubs (computer photography stained glass etc) Living with them is Henry a 7 year old rescued black lab - sometimes known as lsquoMister Henryrsquo other
times lsquoPrince Henryrsquo and on occasion - very rare occasions - he might be even be referred to ldquoKing Henryrdquo Some of you may have met him on his nocturnal adventures the two times he has
escaped from the house Then he is known as Henry As a second marriage for both Bob and Jill have 5 children between them and 8 grand-kiddos ranging from 6 to 19 Two live in Bluffton having
moved here when Jill and Bob said they were going to and the other 6 are scheduled to visit at different times in the next several months - as are numerous of their Yankee friends So it must be true - that if you live in a destination location they will comersquo For that reason as well as for the many new friends
wersquove already made
Playing with pets is not associated with longer life Pets may sometimes improve well-being but they are not a substitute for friends
Combat veterans are less likely to live long lives but surprisingly the psychological stress of war itself is not necessarily a major health threat Rather it is a cascade of unhealthy patterns that sometimes follows Those who find meaning in a traumatic
experience and are able to reestablish a sense of security about the world are usually the ones who return to a healthy pathway
People who feel loved and cared for report a better sense of well-being but it doesnt help them live longer The clearest health benefit of social relationships comes from being involved with and helping
others The groups you associate with often determine the type of person you become -- healthy or unhealthy
Its never too late to choose a healthier path Friedman and Martin said The first step is to throw away the lists and stop worrying about worrying
Some of the minutiae of what people think will help us lead long healthy lives such as worrying about the ratio of omega-6 to omega-3 fatty acids in the foods we eat actually are red herrings distracting us from the major pathways Friedman said When we recognize the long-term healthy and unhealthy patterns in
ourselves we can begin to maximize the healthy patterns
Thinking of making changes as taking steps is a great strategy Martin advised You cant change major things about yourself overnight But making small changes and repeating those steps can eventually create
that path to longer life
PICTURES OF THE MONTH
Ted Sommers being anointed the Celebrity Silhouettersquos Bocce Champion on our
WHATrsquoS THE POINTE
We introduce a new regular feature to our newsletter this month Reprsquos Corner will be a
column written by Dot Prescott updating us on neighborhood business
REPS CORNER ldquo The Neighborhood Representative Council the voice of the residents is always involved in issues and
programs designed to help residentsrdquo
On January 3rd we came together for our New year Brunch Potluck where we welcomed 7 new families to Herons Pointe We are growing quickly and at this time have a total of 37 rooftops In January I was able to
participate in three days of Neighborhood Representative training It was of great benefit to receive the instruction and to gain the experience of some elder NR mentors Sandy Botelho our Treasurer was able to join me on one of the training days and I appreciate her support I look forward to sharing the information
and training I gained to Herons Pointes benefit going forward
We have a new hard copy directory which was delivered on 130 I included a list of neighborhood Groups amp Gangs with contact info for each group (if available) Please if you feel drawn to lead a group for which
we are lacking please contact Julie Sommers and let her know We will have an informational meeting on Wednesday March 4 at 500 in the Lakehouse Ballroom Ross
Glatzer the Chair of the SCHH Neighborhood Representatives Council will be our guest speaker and will provide an in-depth look at The Workings of Sun City Ross is in his 10th year leading the Nreps His
experience and insight is invaluable This is a PowerPoint presentation and there will be a question and answer session afterwards This will not be a potluck event Please plan to attend and learn something new
about SCHH
Thank you Dot dprescott54gmailcom
WHATrsquoS THE POINTE
Allan amp Sue Abolafia volunteering at the Mitsubishi Electric Golf Championship
Tom amp Marianne Lovelidge and
Howard amp Anne Redlus in Phillipsburg ST Maarten
WHATrsquoS THE POINTE
Recipe of the Month ndash Dot Prescott
NO-KNEAD ARTISAN BREAD===IN 5 MINUTES
14 tsp Instant Yeast 1 14 tsps salt 3 Cups All-purpose bread flour 1 12 Cups Room temperature water In a large bowl combine flour yeast and salt Add 1 12 cups water and stir until blended It will mix in less than a minute and then sit in a covered bowl undisturbed for 18 to 24 hours Dough is ready when surface is dotted with bubbles After about 24 hours lightly flour a work surface Place dough on it and sprinkle with a little more flour and fold it over on itself once or twice Cover loosely with wrap and let rest 30 minutes Flour hands and shape gently into ball Heat oven to 450degrees and place parchment paper in round casserole dish place dough in and bake covered for 30 minutes uncover and bake an additional 15 to 30 min until golden brown Cool on rack At this point you can fold in ANY additional ingredients you choose I have added cheese herbs pesto olives grilled onions etc DELICIOUS Makes about 2 cups
Spread hummus on whole-wheat pita bread or serve as a dip for vegetables 1 15-ounce can garbanzo beans drained liquid reserved 2 tablespoons tahini 14 cup lemon juice 3 green onions chopped 1 tablespoon chopped garlic 1 teaspoon ground cumin 12 teaspoon black pepper 12 cup roasted red peppers (optional)
Put beans tahini lemon juice green onions garlic cumin black pepper and roasted peppers if using in food processor and process until smooth Add reserved bean liquid for a smoother consistency Per 14 cup serving 88 calories 31 g fat 04 g saturated fat 313 calories from fat 0 mg cholesterol 41 g protein 122 g total carbohydrates 07 g sugar 29 g fiber 58 mg sodium 43 mg calcium 17 mg iron 38 mg vitamin C 43 mcg beta-carotene
How children perceive their Grandparents
SAVE THE DATE
The next Heronrsquos Heroesrsquo s breakfast is scheduled for 930 March 2 at Okatie clubhouse Contact Tom Lovelidge tomlovelidge2hargraycom
Menrsquos poker at the Lake House on Thursdays at 630 ndash 930 is scheduled periodically Anyone interested in
playing should contact Ted Sommers drtgs1951gmailcom
Quotes of the Month
(Editors Note Do you see a pattern in these next 2 quotes)
ldquoThe The difference between stupidity and genius is that genius has its limits Albert Einstein ndash
Two t Two things are infinite the universe and human stupidity and Im not sure about the universe
Albert Einstein
Retirement Joke of the Month
1 She was in the bathroom putting on her makeup under the watchful eyes of her young
granddaughter as shed done many times before After she applied her lipstick and started to leave the
little one said But Grandma you forgot to kiss the toilet paper good-bye I will probably never put
lipstick on again without thinking about kissing the toilet paper good-bye
2 My young grandson called the other day to wish me Happy Birthday He asked me how old I was
and I told him 80 My grandson was quiet for a moment and then he asked Did you start at 1
3 After putting her grandchildren to bed a grandmother changed into old slacks and a droopy blouse
and proceeded to wash her hair As she heard the children getting more and more rambunctious her
patience grew thin Finally she threw a towel around her head and stormed into their room putting
them back to bed with stern warnings As she left the room she heard the three-year-old say with a
trembling voice
Who was THAT
4 A grandmother was telling her little granddaughter what her own childhood was like We used to
skate outside on a pond I had a swing made from a tire it hung from a tree in our front yard We rode
our pony We picked wild raspberries in the woods
The little girl was wide-eyed taking this all in At last she said I sure wish Id gotten to know you
sooner
5 My grandson was visiting one day when he asked Grandma do you know how you and God are
alike I mentally polished my halo and I said No how are we alike Youre both old he replied
6 A little girl was diligently pounding away on her grandfathers word processor She told him she was
writing a story
Whats it about he asked
I dont know she replied I cant read
7 I didnt know if my granddaughter had learned her colors yet so I decided to test her I would point
out something and ask what color it was She would tell me and was always correct It was fun for me
so I continued At last she headed for the door saying Grandma I think you should try to figure out
some of these colors yourself
8 When my grandson Billy and I entered our vacation cabin we kept the lights off until we were inside
to keep from attracting pesky insects Still a few fireflies followed us in Noticing them before I did
Billy whispered Its no use Grandpa Now the mosquitoes are coming after us with flashlights
9 When my grandson asked me how old I was I teasingly replied Im not sure Look in your
underwear Grandpa he advised Mine says Im 4 to 6
10 A second grader came home from school and said to her grandmother Grandma guess what We
learned how to make babies today The grandmother more than a little surprised tried to keep her
cool Thats interesting she said How do you make babies
Its simple replied the girl You just change y to i and add es
HOW CHILDREN PERCEIVE THEIR GRANDPARENTShellip
11 Childrens Logic Give me a sentence about a public servant said a teacher The small boy
wrote The fireman came down the ladder pregnant The teacher took the lad aside to correct him
Dont you know what pregnant means she asked
Sure said the young boy confidently It means carrying a child
12 A grandfather was delivering his grandchildren to their home one day when a fire truck zoomed
past Sitting in the front seat of the fire truck was a Dalmatian dog The children started discussing the
dogs duties
They use him to keep crowds back said one child
No said another Hes just for good luck
A third child brought the argument to a close They use the dogs she said firmly to find the fire
hydrants
13 A 6-year-old was asked where his grandma lived Oh he said she lives at the airport and when
we want her we just go get her Then when were done having her visit we take her back to the
airport
14 Grandpa is the smartest man on earth He teaches me good things but I dont get to see him enough
to get as smart as him
15 My Grandparents are funny when they bend over you hear gas leaks and they blame their dog
WELCOME TO THE POINTE Jill and Bob Truitt
rsquoTwas a life of crime that led them to one another
Jill was a paralegal for 20 years for the county prosecutor
Bob was a practicing criminal defense attorney for even longer But they never met - until Jill opened a high end home furnishings consignment shop
Bob and his then wife visited the shop to look for bargains for their son and his new wife When Jill sold the store she really wanted to return to that life of crime she knew so well Bobrsquos office at the Federal Defenderrsquos had an opening Jill applied and was hired Her
second day there Bobrsquos wife passed away suddenly Thereafter Jill and Bobrsquos friendship grew (though she never even took him a casserole) They were married in 2005 Since then they have traveled extensively lived 6 months in DC have had some health issues and decided after last winter in Indiana to lsquoget out of Dodgersquo Dear friends had moved to
Sun City last June Bob and Jill came to help them get settled and fell in love with the people the lifestyle the weather the restaurants the beaches and a dozen other features of SC
living Two months ago they moved into their new home at 615 Freshwater Lane While they are still unpacking they look forward to amenities such as golf tennis maybe even that crazy game called
pickle ball as well as several of the ka-zillion clubs (computer photography stained glass etc) Living with them is Henry a 7 year old rescued black lab - sometimes known as lsquoMister Henryrsquo other
times lsquoPrince Henryrsquo and on occasion - very rare occasions - he might be even be referred to ldquoKing Henryrdquo Some of you may have met him on his nocturnal adventures the two times he has
escaped from the house Then he is known as Henry As a second marriage for both Bob and Jill have 5 children between them and 8 grand-kiddos ranging from 6 to 19 Two live in Bluffton having
moved here when Jill and Bob said they were going to and the other 6 are scheduled to visit at different times in the next several months - as are numerous of their Yankee friends So it must be true - that if you live in a destination location they will comersquo For that reason as well as for the many new friends
wersquove already made
WHATrsquoS THE POINTE
Allan amp Sue Abolafia volunteering at the Mitsubishi Electric Golf Championship
Tom amp Marianne Lovelidge and
Howard amp Anne Redlus in Phillipsburg ST Maarten
WHATrsquoS THE POINTE
Recipe of the Month ndash Dot Prescott
NO-KNEAD ARTISAN BREAD===IN 5 MINUTES
14 tsp Instant Yeast 1 14 tsps salt 3 Cups All-purpose bread flour 1 12 Cups Room temperature water In a large bowl combine flour yeast and salt Add 1 12 cups water and stir until blended It will mix in less than a minute and then sit in a covered bowl undisturbed for 18 to 24 hours Dough is ready when surface is dotted with bubbles After about 24 hours lightly flour a work surface Place dough on it and sprinkle with a little more flour and fold it over on itself once or twice Cover loosely with wrap and let rest 30 minutes Flour hands and shape gently into ball Heat oven to 450degrees and place parchment paper in round casserole dish place dough in and bake covered for 30 minutes uncover and bake an additional 15 to 30 min until golden brown Cool on rack At this point you can fold in ANY additional ingredients you choose I have added cheese herbs pesto olives grilled onions etc DELICIOUS Makes about 2 cups
Spread hummus on whole-wheat pita bread or serve as a dip for vegetables 1 15-ounce can garbanzo beans drained liquid reserved 2 tablespoons tahini 14 cup lemon juice 3 green onions chopped 1 tablespoon chopped garlic 1 teaspoon ground cumin 12 teaspoon black pepper 12 cup roasted red peppers (optional)
Put beans tahini lemon juice green onions garlic cumin black pepper and roasted peppers if using in food processor and process until smooth Add reserved bean liquid for a smoother consistency Per 14 cup serving 88 calories 31 g fat 04 g saturated fat 313 calories from fat 0 mg cholesterol 41 g protein 122 g total carbohydrates 07 g sugar 29 g fiber 58 mg sodium 43 mg calcium 17 mg iron 38 mg vitamin C 43 mcg beta-carotene
How children perceive their Grandparents
SAVE THE DATE
The next Heronrsquos Heroesrsquo s breakfast is scheduled for 930 March 2 at Okatie clubhouse Contact Tom Lovelidge tomlovelidge2hargraycom
Menrsquos poker at the Lake House on Thursdays at 630 ndash 930 is scheduled periodically Anyone interested in
playing should contact Ted Sommers drtgs1951gmailcom
Quotes of the Month
(Editors Note Do you see a pattern in these next 2 quotes)
ldquoThe The difference between stupidity and genius is that genius has its limits Albert Einstein ndash
Two t Two things are infinite the universe and human stupidity and Im not sure about the universe
Albert Einstein
Retirement Joke of the Month
1 She was in the bathroom putting on her makeup under the watchful eyes of her young
granddaughter as shed done many times before After she applied her lipstick and started to leave the
little one said But Grandma you forgot to kiss the toilet paper good-bye I will probably never put
lipstick on again without thinking about kissing the toilet paper good-bye
2 My young grandson called the other day to wish me Happy Birthday He asked me how old I was
and I told him 80 My grandson was quiet for a moment and then he asked Did you start at 1
3 After putting her grandchildren to bed a grandmother changed into old slacks and a droopy blouse
and proceeded to wash her hair As she heard the children getting more and more rambunctious her
patience grew thin Finally she threw a towel around her head and stormed into their room putting
them back to bed with stern warnings As she left the room she heard the three-year-old say with a
trembling voice
Who was THAT
4 A grandmother was telling her little granddaughter what her own childhood was like We used to
skate outside on a pond I had a swing made from a tire it hung from a tree in our front yard We rode
our pony We picked wild raspberries in the woods
The little girl was wide-eyed taking this all in At last she said I sure wish Id gotten to know you
sooner
5 My grandson was visiting one day when he asked Grandma do you know how you and God are
alike I mentally polished my halo and I said No how are we alike Youre both old he replied
6 A little girl was diligently pounding away on her grandfathers word processor She told him she was
writing a story
Whats it about he asked
I dont know she replied I cant read
7 I didnt know if my granddaughter had learned her colors yet so I decided to test her I would point
out something and ask what color it was She would tell me and was always correct It was fun for me
so I continued At last she headed for the door saying Grandma I think you should try to figure out
some of these colors yourself
8 When my grandson Billy and I entered our vacation cabin we kept the lights off until we were inside
to keep from attracting pesky insects Still a few fireflies followed us in Noticing them before I did
Billy whispered Its no use Grandpa Now the mosquitoes are coming after us with flashlights
9 When my grandson asked me how old I was I teasingly replied Im not sure Look in your
underwear Grandpa he advised Mine says Im 4 to 6
10 A second grader came home from school and said to her grandmother Grandma guess what We
learned how to make babies today The grandmother more than a little surprised tried to keep her
cool Thats interesting she said How do you make babies
Its simple replied the girl You just change y to i and add es
HOW CHILDREN PERCEIVE THEIR GRANDPARENTShellip
11 Childrens Logic Give me a sentence about a public servant said a teacher The small boy
wrote The fireman came down the ladder pregnant The teacher took the lad aside to correct him
Dont you know what pregnant means she asked
Sure said the young boy confidently It means carrying a child
12 A grandfather was delivering his grandchildren to their home one day when a fire truck zoomed
past Sitting in the front seat of the fire truck was a Dalmatian dog The children started discussing the
dogs duties
They use him to keep crowds back said one child
No said another Hes just for good luck
A third child brought the argument to a close They use the dogs she said firmly to find the fire
hydrants
13 A 6-year-old was asked where his grandma lived Oh he said she lives at the airport and when
we want her we just go get her Then when were done having her visit we take her back to the
airport
14 Grandpa is the smartest man on earth He teaches me good things but I dont get to see him enough
to get as smart as him
15 My Grandparents are funny when they bend over you hear gas leaks and they blame their dog
WELCOME TO THE POINTE Jill and Bob Truitt
rsquoTwas a life of crime that led them to one another
Jill was a paralegal for 20 years for the county prosecutor
Bob was a practicing criminal defense attorney for even longer But they never met - until Jill opened a high end home furnishings consignment shop
Bob and his then wife visited the shop to look for bargains for their son and his new wife When Jill sold the store she really wanted to return to that life of crime she knew so well Bobrsquos office at the Federal Defenderrsquos had an opening Jill applied and was hired Her
second day there Bobrsquos wife passed away suddenly Thereafter Jill and Bobrsquos friendship grew (though she never even took him a casserole) They were married in 2005 Since then they have traveled extensively lived 6 months in DC have had some health issues and decided after last winter in Indiana to lsquoget out of Dodgersquo Dear friends had moved to
Sun City last June Bob and Jill came to help them get settled and fell in love with the people the lifestyle the weather the restaurants the beaches and a dozen other features of SC
living Two months ago they moved into their new home at 615 Freshwater Lane While they are still unpacking they look forward to amenities such as golf tennis maybe even that crazy game called
pickle ball as well as several of the ka-zillion clubs (computer photography stained glass etc) Living with them is Henry a 7 year old rescued black lab - sometimes known as lsquoMister Henryrsquo other
times lsquoPrince Henryrsquo and on occasion - very rare occasions - he might be even be referred to ldquoKing Henryrdquo Some of you may have met him on his nocturnal adventures the two times he has
escaped from the house Then he is known as Henry As a second marriage for both Bob and Jill have 5 children between them and 8 grand-kiddos ranging from 6 to 19 Two live in Bluffton having
moved here when Jill and Bob said they were going to and the other 6 are scheduled to visit at different times in the next several months - as are numerous of their Yankee friends So it must be true - that if you live in a destination location they will comersquo For that reason as well as for the many new friends
wersquove already made
WHATrsquoS THE POINTE
Recipe of the Month ndash Dot Prescott
NO-KNEAD ARTISAN BREAD===IN 5 MINUTES
14 tsp Instant Yeast 1 14 tsps salt 3 Cups All-purpose bread flour 1 12 Cups Room temperature water In a large bowl combine flour yeast and salt Add 1 12 cups water and stir until blended It will mix in less than a minute and then sit in a covered bowl undisturbed for 18 to 24 hours Dough is ready when surface is dotted with bubbles After about 24 hours lightly flour a work surface Place dough on it and sprinkle with a little more flour and fold it over on itself once or twice Cover loosely with wrap and let rest 30 minutes Flour hands and shape gently into ball Heat oven to 450degrees and place parchment paper in round casserole dish place dough in and bake covered for 30 minutes uncover and bake an additional 15 to 30 min until golden brown Cool on rack At this point you can fold in ANY additional ingredients you choose I have added cheese herbs pesto olives grilled onions etc DELICIOUS Makes about 2 cups
Spread hummus on whole-wheat pita bread or serve as a dip for vegetables 1 15-ounce can garbanzo beans drained liquid reserved 2 tablespoons tahini 14 cup lemon juice 3 green onions chopped 1 tablespoon chopped garlic 1 teaspoon ground cumin 12 teaspoon black pepper 12 cup roasted red peppers (optional)
Put beans tahini lemon juice green onions garlic cumin black pepper and roasted peppers if using in food processor and process until smooth Add reserved bean liquid for a smoother consistency Per 14 cup serving 88 calories 31 g fat 04 g saturated fat 313 calories from fat 0 mg cholesterol 41 g protein 122 g total carbohydrates 07 g sugar 29 g fiber 58 mg sodium 43 mg calcium 17 mg iron 38 mg vitamin C 43 mcg beta-carotene
How children perceive their Grandparents
SAVE THE DATE
The next Heronrsquos Heroesrsquo s breakfast is scheduled for 930 March 2 at Okatie clubhouse Contact Tom Lovelidge tomlovelidge2hargraycom
Menrsquos poker at the Lake House on Thursdays at 630 ndash 930 is scheduled periodically Anyone interested in
playing should contact Ted Sommers drtgs1951gmailcom
Quotes of the Month
(Editors Note Do you see a pattern in these next 2 quotes)
ldquoThe The difference between stupidity and genius is that genius has its limits Albert Einstein ndash
Two t Two things are infinite the universe and human stupidity and Im not sure about the universe
Albert Einstein
Retirement Joke of the Month
1 She was in the bathroom putting on her makeup under the watchful eyes of her young
granddaughter as shed done many times before After she applied her lipstick and started to leave the
little one said But Grandma you forgot to kiss the toilet paper good-bye I will probably never put
lipstick on again without thinking about kissing the toilet paper good-bye
2 My young grandson called the other day to wish me Happy Birthday He asked me how old I was
and I told him 80 My grandson was quiet for a moment and then he asked Did you start at 1
3 After putting her grandchildren to bed a grandmother changed into old slacks and a droopy blouse
and proceeded to wash her hair As she heard the children getting more and more rambunctious her
patience grew thin Finally she threw a towel around her head and stormed into their room putting
them back to bed with stern warnings As she left the room she heard the three-year-old say with a
trembling voice
Who was THAT
4 A grandmother was telling her little granddaughter what her own childhood was like We used to
skate outside on a pond I had a swing made from a tire it hung from a tree in our front yard We rode
our pony We picked wild raspberries in the woods
The little girl was wide-eyed taking this all in At last she said I sure wish Id gotten to know you
sooner
5 My grandson was visiting one day when he asked Grandma do you know how you and God are
alike I mentally polished my halo and I said No how are we alike Youre both old he replied
6 A little girl was diligently pounding away on her grandfathers word processor She told him she was
writing a story
Whats it about he asked
I dont know she replied I cant read
7 I didnt know if my granddaughter had learned her colors yet so I decided to test her I would point
out something and ask what color it was She would tell me and was always correct It was fun for me
so I continued At last she headed for the door saying Grandma I think you should try to figure out
some of these colors yourself
8 When my grandson Billy and I entered our vacation cabin we kept the lights off until we were inside
to keep from attracting pesky insects Still a few fireflies followed us in Noticing them before I did
Billy whispered Its no use Grandpa Now the mosquitoes are coming after us with flashlights
9 When my grandson asked me how old I was I teasingly replied Im not sure Look in your
underwear Grandpa he advised Mine says Im 4 to 6
10 A second grader came home from school and said to her grandmother Grandma guess what We
learned how to make babies today The grandmother more than a little surprised tried to keep her
cool Thats interesting she said How do you make babies
Its simple replied the girl You just change y to i and add es
HOW CHILDREN PERCEIVE THEIR GRANDPARENTShellip
11 Childrens Logic Give me a sentence about a public servant said a teacher The small boy
wrote The fireman came down the ladder pregnant The teacher took the lad aside to correct him
Dont you know what pregnant means she asked
Sure said the young boy confidently It means carrying a child
12 A grandfather was delivering his grandchildren to their home one day when a fire truck zoomed
past Sitting in the front seat of the fire truck was a Dalmatian dog The children started discussing the
dogs duties
They use him to keep crowds back said one child
No said another Hes just for good luck
A third child brought the argument to a close They use the dogs she said firmly to find the fire
hydrants
13 A 6-year-old was asked where his grandma lived Oh he said she lives at the airport and when
we want her we just go get her Then when were done having her visit we take her back to the
airport
14 Grandpa is the smartest man on earth He teaches me good things but I dont get to see him enough
to get as smart as him
15 My Grandparents are funny when they bend over you hear gas leaks and they blame their dog
WELCOME TO THE POINTE Jill and Bob Truitt
rsquoTwas a life of crime that led them to one another
Jill was a paralegal for 20 years for the county prosecutor
Bob was a practicing criminal defense attorney for even longer But they never met - until Jill opened a high end home furnishings consignment shop
Bob and his then wife visited the shop to look for bargains for their son and his new wife When Jill sold the store she really wanted to return to that life of crime she knew so well Bobrsquos office at the Federal Defenderrsquos had an opening Jill applied and was hired Her
second day there Bobrsquos wife passed away suddenly Thereafter Jill and Bobrsquos friendship grew (though she never even took him a casserole) They were married in 2005 Since then they have traveled extensively lived 6 months in DC have had some health issues and decided after last winter in Indiana to lsquoget out of Dodgersquo Dear friends had moved to
Sun City last June Bob and Jill came to help them get settled and fell in love with the people the lifestyle the weather the restaurants the beaches and a dozen other features of SC
living Two months ago they moved into their new home at 615 Freshwater Lane While they are still unpacking they look forward to amenities such as golf tennis maybe even that crazy game called
pickle ball as well as several of the ka-zillion clubs (computer photography stained glass etc) Living with them is Henry a 7 year old rescued black lab - sometimes known as lsquoMister Henryrsquo other
times lsquoPrince Henryrsquo and on occasion - very rare occasions - he might be even be referred to ldquoKing Henryrdquo Some of you may have met him on his nocturnal adventures the two times he has
escaped from the house Then he is known as Henry As a second marriage for both Bob and Jill have 5 children between them and 8 grand-kiddos ranging from 6 to 19 Two live in Bluffton having
moved here when Jill and Bob said they were going to and the other 6 are scheduled to visit at different times in the next several months - as are numerous of their Yankee friends So it must be true - that if you live in a destination location they will comersquo For that reason as well as for the many new friends
wersquove already made
How children perceive their Grandparents
SAVE THE DATE
The next Heronrsquos Heroesrsquo s breakfast is scheduled for 930 March 2 at Okatie clubhouse Contact Tom Lovelidge tomlovelidge2hargraycom
Menrsquos poker at the Lake House on Thursdays at 630 ndash 930 is scheduled periodically Anyone interested in
playing should contact Ted Sommers drtgs1951gmailcom
Quotes of the Month
(Editors Note Do you see a pattern in these next 2 quotes)
ldquoThe The difference between stupidity and genius is that genius has its limits Albert Einstein ndash
Two t Two things are infinite the universe and human stupidity and Im not sure about the universe
Albert Einstein
Retirement Joke of the Month
1 She was in the bathroom putting on her makeup under the watchful eyes of her young
granddaughter as shed done many times before After she applied her lipstick and started to leave the
little one said But Grandma you forgot to kiss the toilet paper good-bye I will probably never put
lipstick on again without thinking about kissing the toilet paper good-bye
2 My young grandson called the other day to wish me Happy Birthday He asked me how old I was
and I told him 80 My grandson was quiet for a moment and then he asked Did you start at 1
3 After putting her grandchildren to bed a grandmother changed into old slacks and a droopy blouse
and proceeded to wash her hair As she heard the children getting more and more rambunctious her
patience grew thin Finally she threw a towel around her head and stormed into their room putting
them back to bed with stern warnings As she left the room she heard the three-year-old say with a
trembling voice
Who was THAT
4 A grandmother was telling her little granddaughter what her own childhood was like We used to
skate outside on a pond I had a swing made from a tire it hung from a tree in our front yard We rode
our pony We picked wild raspberries in the woods
The little girl was wide-eyed taking this all in At last she said I sure wish Id gotten to know you
sooner
5 My grandson was visiting one day when he asked Grandma do you know how you and God are
alike I mentally polished my halo and I said No how are we alike Youre both old he replied
6 A little girl was diligently pounding away on her grandfathers word processor She told him she was
writing a story
Whats it about he asked
I dont know she replied I cant read
7 I didnt know if my granddaughter had learned her colors yet so I decided to test her I would point
out something and ask what color it was She would tell me and was always correct It was fun for me
so I continued At last she headed for the door saying Grandma I think you should try to figure out
some of these colors yourself
8 When my grandson Billy and I entered our vacation cabin we kept the lights off until we were inside
to keep from attracting pesky insects Still a few fireflies followed us in Noticing them before I did
Billy whispered Its no use Grandpa Now the mosquitoes are coming after us with flashlights
9 When my grandson asked me how old I was I teasingly replied Im not sure Look in your
underwear Grandpa he advised Mine says Im 4 to 6
10 A second grader came home from school and said to her grandmother Grandma guess what We
learned how to make babies today The grandmother more than a little surprised tried to keep her
cool Thats interesting she said How do you make babies
Its simple replied the girl You just change y to i and add es
HOW CHILDREN PERCEIVE THEIR GRANDPARENTShellip
11 Childrens Logic Give me a sentence about a public servant said a teacher The small boy
wrote The fireman came down the ladder pregnant The teacher took the lad aside to correct him
Dont you know what pregnant means she asked
Sure said the young boy confidently It means carrying a child
12 A grandfather was delivering his grandchildren to their home one day when a fire truck zoomed
past Sitting in the front seat of the fire truck was a Dalmatian dog The children started discussing the
dogs duties
They use him to keep crowds back said one child
No said another Hes just for good luck
A third child brought the argument to a close They use the dogs she said firmly to find the fire
hydrants
13 A 6-year-old was asked where his grandma lived Oh he said she lives at the airport and when
we want her we just go get her Then when were done having her visit we take her back to the
airport
14 Grandpa is the smartest man on earth He teaches me good things but I dont get to see him enough
to get as smart as him
15 My Grandparents are funny when they bend over you hear gas leaks and they blame their dog
WELCOME TO THE POINTE Jill and Bob Truitt
rsquoTwas a life of crime that led them to one another
Jill was a paralegal for 20 years for the county prosecutor
Bob was a practicing criminal defense attorney for even longer But they never met - until Jill opened a high end home furnishings consignment shop
Bob and his then wife visited the shop to look for bargains for their son and his new wife When Jill sold the store she really wanted to return to that life of crime she knew so well Bobrsquos office at the Federal Defenderrsquos had an opening Jill applied and was hired Her
second day there Bobrsquos wife passed away suddenly Thereafter Jill and Bobrsquos friendship grew (though she never even took him a casserole) They were married in 2005 Since then they have traveled extensively lived 6 months in DC have had some health issues and decided after last winter in Indiana to lsquoget out of Dodgersquo Dear friends had moved to
Sun City last June Bob and Jill came to help them get settled and fell in love with the people the lifestyle the weather the restaurants the beaches and a dozen other features of SC
living Two months ago they moved into their new home at 615 Freshwater Lane While they are still unpacking they look forward to amenities such as golf tennis maybe even that crazy game called
pickle ball as well as several of the ka-zillion clubs (computer photography stained glass etc) Living with them is Henry a 7 year old rescued black lab - sometimes known as lsquoMister Henryrsquo other
times lsquoPrince Henryrsquo and on occasion - very rare occasions - he might be even be referred to ldquoKing Henryrdquo Some of you may have met him on his nocturnal adventures the two times he has
escaped from the house Then he is known as Henry As a second marriage for both Bob and Jill have 5 children between them and 8 grand-kiddos ranging from 6 to 19 Two live in Bluffton having
moved here when Jill and Bob said they were going to and the other 6 are scheduled to visit at different times in the next several months - as are numerous of their Yankee friends So it must be true - that if you live in a destination location they will comersquo For that reason as well as for the many new friends
wersquove already made
1 She was in the bathroom putting on her makeup under the watchful eyes of her young
granddaughter as shed done many times before After she applied her lipstick and started to leave the
little one said But Grandma you forgot to kiss the toilet paper good-bye I will probably never put
lipstick on again without thinking about kissing the toilet paper good-bye
2 My young grandson called the other day to wish me Happy Birthday He asked me how old I was
and I told him 80 My grandson was quiet for a moment and then he asked Did you start at 1
3 After putting her grandchildren to bed a grandmother changed into old slacks and a droopy blouse
and proceeded to wash her hair As she heard the children getting more and more rambunctious her
patience grew thin Finally she threw a towel around her head and stormed into their room putting
them back to bed with stern warnings As she left the room she heard the three-year-old say with a
trembling voice
Who was THAT
4 A grandmother was telling her little granddaughter what her own childhood was like We used to
skate outside on a pond I had a swing made from a tire it hung from a tree in our front yard We rode
our pony We picked wild raspberries in the woods
The little girl was wide-eyed taking this all in At last she said I sure wish Id gotten to know you
sooner
5 My grandson was visiting one day when he asked Grandma do you know how you and God are
alike I mentally polished my halo and I said No how are we alike Youre both old he replied
6 A little girl was diligently pounding away on her grandfathers word processor She told him she was
writing a story
Whats it about he asked
I dont know she replied I cant read
7 I didnt know if my granddaughter had learned her colors yet so I decided to test her I would point
out something and ask what color it was She would tell me and was always correct It was fun for me
so I continued At last she headed for the door saying Grandma I think you should try to figure out
some of these colors yourself
8 When my grandson Billy and I entered our vacation cabin we kept the lights off until we were inside
to keep from attracting pesky insects Still a few fireflies followed us in Noticing them before I did
Billy whispered Its no use Grandpa Now the mosquitoes are coming after us with flashlights
9 When my grandson asked me how old I was I teasingly replied Im not sure Look in your
underwear Grandpa he advised Mine says Im 4 to 6
10 A second grader came home from school and said to her grandmother Grandma guess what We
learned how to make babies today The grandmother more than a little surprised tried to keep her
cool Thats interesting she said How do you make babies
Its simple replied the girl You just change y to i and add es
HOW CHILDREN PERCEIVE THEIR GRANDPARENTShellip
11 Childrens Logic Give me a sentence about a public servant said a teacher The small boy
wrote The fireman came down the ladder pregnant The teacher took the lad aside to correct him
Dont you know what pregnant means she asked
Sure said the young boy confidently It means carrying a child
12 A grandfather was delivering his grandchildren to their home one day when a fire truck zoomed
past Sitting in the front seat of the fire truck was a Dalmatian dog The children started discussing the
dogs duties
They use him to keep crowds back said one child
No said another Hes just for good luck
A third child brought the argument to a close They use the dogs she said firmly to find the fire
hydrants
13 A 6-year-old was asked where his grandma lived Oh he said she lives at the airport and when
we want her we just go get her Then when were done having her visit we take her back to the
airport
14 Grandpa is the smartest man on earth He teaches me good things but I dont get to see him enough
to get as smart as him
15 My Grandparents are funny when they bend over you hear gas leaks and they blame their dog
WELCOME TO THE POINTE Jill and Bob Truitt
rsquoTwas a life of crime that led them to one another
Jill was a paralegal for 20 years for the county prosecutor
Bob was a practicing criminal defense attorney for even longer But they never met - until Jill opened a high end home furnishings consignment shop
Bob and his then wife visited the shop to look for bargains for their son and his new wife When Jill sold the store she really wanted to return to that life of crime she knew so well Bobrsquos office at the Federal Defenderrsquos had an opening Jill applied and was hired Her
second day there Bobrsquos wife passed away suddenly Thereafter Jill and Bobrsquos friendship grew (though she never even took him a casserole) They were married in 2005 Since then they have traveled extensively lived 6 months in DC have had some health issues and decided after last winter in Indiana to lsquoget out of Dodgersquo Dear friends had moved to
Sun City last June Bob and Jill came to help them get settled and fell in love with the people the lifestyle the weather the restaurants the beaches and a dozen other features of SC
living Two months ago they moved into their new home at 615 Freshwater Lane While they are still unpacking they look forward to amenities such as golf tennis maybe even that crazy game called
pickle ball as well as several of the ka-zillion clubs (computer photography stained glass etc) Living with them is Henry a 7 year old rescued black lab - sometimes known as lsquoMister Henryrsquo other
times lsquoPrince Henryrsquo and on occasion - very rare occasions - he might be even be referred to ldquoKing Henryrdquo Some of you may have met him on his nocturnal adventures the two times he has
escaped from the house Then he is known as Henry As a second marriage for both Bob and Jill have 5 children between them and 8 grand-kiddos ranging from 6 to 19 Two live in Bluffton having
moved here when Jill and Bob said they were going to and the other 6 are scheduled to visit at different times in the next several months - as are numerous of their Yankee friends So it must be true - that if you live in a destination location they will comersquo For that reason as well as for the many new friends
wersquove already made
11 Childrens Logic Give me a sentence about a public servant said a teacher The small boy
wrote The fireman came down the ladder pregnant The teacher took the lad aside to correct him
Dont you know what pregnant means she asked
Sure said the young boy confidently It means carrying a child
12 A grandfather was delivering his grandchildren to their home one day when a fire truck zoomed
past Sitting in the front seat of the fire truck was a Dalmatian dog The children started discussing the
dogs duties
They use him to keep crowds back said one child
No said another Hes just for good luck
A third child brought the argument to a close They use the dogs she said firmly to find the fire
hydrants
13 A 6-year-old was asked where his grandma lived Oh he said she lives at the airport and when
we want her we just go get her Then when were done having her visit we take her back to the
airport
14 Grandpa is the smartest man on earth He teaches me good things but I dont get to see him enough
to get as smart as him
15 My Grandparents are funny when they bend over you hear gas leaks and they blame their dog
WELCOME TO THE POINTE Jill and Bob Truitt
rsquoTwas a life of crime that led them to one another
Jill was a paralegal for 20 years for the county prosecutor
Bob was a practicing criminal defense attorney for even longer But they never met - until Jill opened a high end home furnishings consignment shop
Bob and his then wife visited the shop to look for bargains for their son and his new wife When Jill sold the store she really wanted to return to that life of crime she knew so well Bobrsquos office at the Federal Defenderrsquos had an opening Jill applied and was hired Her
second day there Bobrsquos wife passed away suddenly Thereafter Jill and Bobrsquos friendship grew (though she never even took him a casserole) They were married in 2005 Since then they have traveled extensively lived 6 months in DC have had some health issues and decided after last winter in Indiana to lsquoget out of Dodgersquo Dear friends had moved to
Sun City last June Bob and Jill came to help them get settled and fell in love with the people the lifestyle the weather the restaurants the beaches and a dozen other features of SC
living Two months ago they moved into their new home at 615 Freshwater Lane While they are still unpacking they look forward to amenities such as golf tennis maybe even that crazy game called
pickle ball as well as several of the ka-zillion clubs (computer photography stained glass etc) Living with them is Henry a 7 year old rescued black lab - sometimes known as lsquoMister Henryrsquo other
times lsquoPrince Henryrsquo and on occasion - very rare occasions - he might be even be referred to ldquoKing Henryrdquo Some of you may have met him on his nocturnal adventures the two times he has
escaped from the house Then he is known as Henry As a second marriage for both Bob and Jill have 5 children between them and 8 grand-kiddos ranging from 6 to 19 Two live in Bluffton having
moved here when Jill and Bob said they were going to and the other 6 are scheduled to visit at different times in the next several months - as are numerous of their Yankee friends So it must be true - that if you live in a destination location they will comersquo For that reason as well as for the many new friends
wersquove already made
WELCOME TO THE POINTE Jill and Bob Truitt
rsquoTwas a life of crime that led them to one another
Jill was a paralegal for 20 years for the county prosecutor
Bob was a practicing criminal defense attorney for even longer But they never met - until Jill opened a high end home furnishings consignment shop
Bob and his then wife visited the shop to look for bargains for their son and his new wife When Jill sold the store she really wanted to return to that life of crime she knew so well Bobrsquos office at the Federal Defenderrsquos had an opening Jill applied and was hired Her
second day there Bobrsquos wife passed away suddenly Thereafter Jill and Bobrsquos friendship grew (though she never even took him a casserole) They were married in 2005 Since then they have traveled extensively lived 6 months in DC have had some health issues and decided after last winter in Indiana to lsquoget out of Dodgersquo Dear friends had moved to
Sun City last June Bob and Jill came to help them get settled and fell in love with the people the lifestyle the weather the restaurants the beaches and a dozen other features of SC
living Two months ago they moved into their new home at 615 Freshwater Lane While they are still unpacking they look forward to amenities such as golf tennis maybe even that crazy game called
pickle ball as well as several of the ka-zillion clubs (computer photography stained glass etc) Living with them is Henry a 7 year old rescued black lab - sometimes known as lsquoMister Henryrsquo other
times lsquoPrince Henryrsquo and on occasion - very rare occasions - he might be even be referred to ldquoKing Henryrdquo Some of you may have met him on his nocturnal adventures the two times he has
escaped from the house Then he is known as Henry As a second marriage for both Bob and Jill have 5 children between them and 8 grand-kiddos ranging from 6 to 19 Two live in Bluffton having
moved here when Jill and Bob said they were going to and the other 6 are scheduled to visit at different times in the next several months - as are numerous of their Yankee friends So it must be true - that if you live in a destination location they will comersquo For that reason as well as for the many new friends
wersquove already made
