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HDI 2015 Conference and Expo
Mary L. CruseDirector of ITFirst American Title Insurance Co.
Coaching is
Agenda
• Definitions• Characteristics of a Great Coach• Critical Competencies• The “Feedback Loop”• When it’s not so smooth • Let’s practice• Tips for “the meeting”• Let’s practice one more time!
Coaching – defining terms
• Coaching– Observation– Building skills/behaviors through both positive and
corrective feedback– Creating a dialogue with the employee– Regular communication– Lots of listening!
Coaching – defining terms
• Counseling– Focus on corrective action for negative
performance– Used AFTER coaching has failed to give results– Thoroughly documented– Involves formal warnings or reprimands
Coaching – defining terms
• Mentoring– Based on relationships (formal or informal)– Used to promote career enhancement or long
term personal/professional development– Not necessarily related to coaching/counseling– Requires commitment from both parties
We’re going to focus on Coaching…..
Being a successful coach requires…
– Solid foundation of knowledge in their field– Ability to bring out the best in others– Positive attitude and ability to manage one’s
own emotions– Excellent listening skills– Excellent communication skills– Commitment to the team– Patience– Investment from the heart
Critical Competencies
1. No losers in the coaching game– Benefits to the staff– Benefits to the coaches– Benefits to the organization– Benefits to the customers
2. It’s a learning game– Who learns in this process?
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Critical Competencies
3. It’s a listening game– Pay attention to what you hear– Pay attention to what you DON’T hear
4. Commitment is essential– Have you given up on this person?– Half-hearted coach is more dangerous than no
coach at all
Critical Competencies
5. Focus on long-term development– Short term gains– Short term losses– Keep your “eyes on the prize” – the long term goal
6. Be uncompromising in commitment to quality– “Give in” for one person, and you lose credibility– Be inconsistent and the coaching is unclear– Consistency creates raving fans with customers and team
members alike.
Critical Competencies
7. Improvement is always possible- How do they take it to the next level?- Coaching makes it possible.- If you feel you have coached all you can, then is it
time to hand someone off to a more skilled coach?
Critical Competencies
8. Constant communication ensures consistent performance.– Make those meetings happen!– Keep listening & Keep talking– Regular interaction makes for consistent performance and
performance improvement!
9. Hold yourself responsible and accountable– Are you doing your best to reach, teach and learn?– Are you doing your personal best?– YOU set the example for those you coach
Critical Competencies
10. Be caringly candid– Be honest –and- be sensitive about your “player”– Build them up through coaching.– This will build your respectability and your credibility
11.Remember to include your whole team– Coaching is about EVERYONE – not just those who are
weaker players.– Regular coaching with all players is important.
Feedback Loop
Observe Behavior
Decide how to address the
behavior
Open the Communication
Address the Behavior together
Listen! Listen! Listen!
RestateGo Forward
Do it!
Pre-meeting
Meeting with the employee
Feedback Loop
Observe Behavior
Decide ho to address the
behavior
Address the behavior
Open the Communication
Listen! Listen! Listen!
RestateGo Forward
Do it!
• What are you observing? • Skill?• Characteristic?• Behavior?• Attitude?
• How would you describe it?• Good?• Bad?• Indifferent or just ineffective?
• What specific impact is it having?• Customer Service • Productivity• Team Work
Feedback Loop
Observe Behavior
Decide how to address the
behavior
Address the behavior
Open the Communication
Listen! Listen! Listen!
RestateGo Forward
Do it!• What is the feedback you’re giving?• Good behavior
• Acknowledged• Rewarded
• Bad behavior• What was wrong with it?• How to make it better?
• Indifferent/Ineffective• How much negative?• Is it worth bringing this up?
Feedback Loop
Observe Behavior
Decide how to address the
behavior
Open the Communication
Address the Behavior together
Listen! Listen! Listen!
RestateGo Forward
Do it!Let’s discuss the observed behavior
• Open the discussion in a safe place• Focus on the facts• They give feedback first
• Be curious and ask questions• Show empathy• Gather data• Be inquisitive
• Be understanding and relatable• What did they miss?• What did you miss?
• Bring it all together
Feedback Loop
Observe Behavior
Decide how to address the
behavior
Open the Communication
Address the Behavior together
Listen! Listen! Listen!
RestateGo Forward
Do it!
• Address the Behavior• Be specific• Identify the impact• Identify future expectations
• What’s the plan?• What are the steps?• Who is doing what?• By when?
Feedback Loop
Observe Behavior
Decide how to address the
behavior
Open the Communication
Address the Behavior together
Listen! Listen! Listen!
RestateGo Forward
Do it!
• Listening skills are CRITICAL for a GREAT COACH!• What was discussed?• What ideas did they share?• What did you learn? Be sure to acknowledge!• What WASN’T discussed?• What did YOU have to mention?
Feedback Loop
Observe Behavior
Decide how to address the
behavior
Open the Communication
Address the Behavior together
Listen! Listen! Listen!
RestateGo Forward
Do it!
Reach an agreed conclusion• Note what you agree on• Ask them to state it back• Document next steps
Sometimes it’s not smooth!
• “Whatever”– I’ll say “yes” just to get out of here!
• The Victim– I just can’t do that because…
• “You just don’t like me!”– You always pick on me. Everyone else does this and I’m
the only one who gets called on it!
• Defense mode– “You’re not the boss of me!” – “You do this too!”
Coaching – it’s a GOOD Thing!
• Role Play – you’ve been doing it all along!
• Focus on the behavior not the person
• Listen and respond with compassion and empathy
• Involve the customer – your team member!
Tips for the Meeting
• Be Prepared!• Eye Contact –How can we do this remotely?
• Show Genuine Interest• Avoid Distractions• Who’s doing most of the talking?
Tips for the Meeting
• Ideas or Words?• Interrupting?• Arguing vs. Discussing?• Take Notes• Sharing Notes
Remember to complete your conference survey form!
Everybody needs a little coaching!
Mary L. Cruse Director, IT Customer [email protected] 714-250-8198Mary (Curtin) CruseLinked In