Happiness Hack - This One Ritual Made Me Much Happier
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Socially disconnected people are less happy, their health declines
earlier in midlife, their brain functioning declines sooner, and
they live shorter lives than people who are not lonely.
- Robert Waldinger,Harvard Study of Adult Development
It’s not just the number of friends you have … it’s the
quality of your close relationships that matters.
- Robert Waldinger,Harvard Study of Adult Development
So what makes for a quality friendship?
easy to talk to
dependable
enjoyable
Diagram adapted from the work of William Rawlins.
FRIEND
But as we grow into adulthood, we go our separate ways, pursue careers and start lives miles apart from our best friends.
Once childrenenter the picture,
exhilarating nights on the
town become exhausted nights
on the couch.
We leave them for last, giving them whatever bits of time are left over after we’ve attended
to everything else.
Book the time
Reserve time on your calendar for the foreseeable future so there’s no scheduling headaches.
Go deep
Talking about a meaningful topicstrengthens your bonds.
Get past the shallow small talk - no weather, sports, or politics.
Don’t let kidsderail you
Children benefit from seeing you model a healthy adult friendship.
Your kids can listen or participate but don't let them interrupt.
Make time to invest in your most important relationships and get the psychological nourishment you need.
These slides are based on an essay by Nir Eyal.
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