Experiences from a mentee/mentor

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Experiences from a Mentee/Mentor Jen McGinn, Principal User Researcher, Oracle The views expressed in this presentation are my own and do not necessarily reflect the views of Oracle

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This is an IGNITE talk I gave at UPA 2012 (aka UxPA 2012). In it I discuss the mentoring contract, what has worked well, and what hasn't. If you download the presentation, you can see the speaker notes, which tell you what I said while the slides were displaying.

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Experiences from a Mentee/MentorJen McGinn, Principal User Researcher, Oracle

The views expressed in

this presentation are my own and do not necessarily reflect the views of Oracle

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The SEED program

“SEED (Sun Engineering Enrichment and Development) is a prestigious engineering leadership grooming program of which mentoring is the major component.”http://dl.acm.org/citation.cfm?id=1698217

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SEED application materials๏ Resume

๏ Manager’s recommendation

๏ Application form- Prior 3 years performance ratings- Why you want a mentor and goals

are for the 6-month mentoring term- Agreement that you will drive the

relationship

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SEED mentor selection๏ Mentee chooses 5 potential mentors, and

writes a paragraph on why they would be a good match

๏ SEED program staff contact the first person on the list, read the paragraph to them, and ask if they want to be matched

๏ If the mentor accepts, great! If not, move down the list

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Results

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My turn to be the mentor

Me

Me

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My turn to be the mentor

Me

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Boston

Boston Prague

India

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Recommended reading๏ Career warfare (D'Alessandro)

๏ Unlocking the clubhouse (Margolis & Fisher)

๏ The unwritten laws of engineering (Skakoon)

๏ 27 powers of persuasion (Hilaire & Padwa)

https://blogs.oracle.com/jen/entry/things_i_tell_my_mentees

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Getting promoted๏ Ask your manager for the promotion

๏ Come up with a game plan together

๏ Deliver on your goals

๏ Voila!

https://blogs.oracle.com/jen/entry/things_i_tell_my_mentees1

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Getting a new job/career

๏ Read about the new kind of work

๏ Take a class (or two or ten) in that new field

๏ Start doing that kind of work in your current role

https://blogs.oracle.com/jen/entry/things_i_tell_my_mentees2

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Working with humans๏ Effective communication

https://blogs.oracle.com/jen/entry/things_i_tell_my_mentees3

๏ Dealing with difficult people https://blogs.oracle.com/jen/entry/things_i_tell_my_mentees4

๏ Communicating your value https://blogs.oracle.com/jen/entry/things_i_tell_my_mentees5

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Successes๏ Promotions

๏ Friendships

๏ Ongoing connections via LinkedIn

But not every experiment is a success …

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Failures

You may not feel comfortable taking the same path as another person

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Failures

Unclear goalsNo regular meetings No deadlines for

commitments

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Mentoring is like work๏ Plan it

๏ Talk about it

๏ Reschedule when necessary

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What I’m not as a mentor๏ Hiring manager

๏ Personal trainer

๏ Marriage counselor

๏ Life coach

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What I can do as a mentor๏ Help you get that promotion

๏ Set goals and achieve them

๏ Introduce you to other people who can help

๏ Recommend books and classes

๏ Give you my best advice

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Not all mentoring is formal๏ Former professors

๏ Friends

๏ Colleagues

๏ The person on your left

๏ The person on your right

๏ The person sitting behind you

๏ Who else?

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Thank you!jen dot mcginn at oracle dot com

The views expressed in

this presentation are my own and do not necessarily reflect the views of Oracle

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