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OLA Superconference January, 2006

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Communication for Success: The Art of Stakeholder Seduction

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What is Persuasion?

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The art of persuasion is the art of finding the best available means of moving a specific audience in a specific situation to a specific decision

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Presentation metaphysics

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Why are we here?

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The Persuasion Triangle

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Subject (Logos)

Presenter (Ethos)

Audience (Pathos)

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Persuasion in the Real World

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Presenter

Subject

Audience

Your Needs & Interests

Their Needs & Interests

Your Program’s Needs & Accomplishments

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Melting Resistance

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�  To Raise Resistance: �  Be insincere �  Shout “You’re wrong!” � Use weak humor � Guilt trip them � Use improbable threats �  Lecture them

�  To Melt Resistance �  Be honest �  Find common ground � Use humor carefully � Appreciate what they are

already doing � Give realistic pros and cons � Ask them to make your

case

Try to melt resistance before meetings

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Molding Opinion: Know what moves your Audience

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�  What do they all commonly want? � They want happy & healthy constituents � They want the respect of others � They want to be responsible leaders � They want a successful community � They want to hear success stories � They want to avoid pain and failure

�  Show your programs meets their needs

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Molding Opinion: Present Professionally

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�  To trust you, your audience must believe you are a competent person, a professional

�  Present information accurately

� The data � The names � The spelling & grammar

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Molding Opinion: Present Personally

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�  Never talk down to or over the heads of your audience

�  Tell your story simply � Use short simple sentences � Show rather than tell � Illustrate with short stories of success

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Molding Opinion: Make your argument clear

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�  Answer basic questions (5W’s & H) �  Show the real, positive results achieved by your program to

meet real needs �  Show what your program has done �  Show what your program will do �  Show what your program cannot do if not funded and what the

cost will be to the community

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In Closing, IGNITE!

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� People may feel for you and agree with you, but if they do not act on your behalf, your presentation fails its purpose

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Connecting with an Audience

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�  Make frequent eye contact �  Use people’s names and refer to their accomplishments �  Provide sufficient background and context �  Use appropriate vocabulary and examples �  Express appreciation

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Harden & Ignite!: Believe in your cause

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�  To ignite others to support your cause, first YOU should be on fire

�  Why should others care if you do not?

�  You show your convictions by your �  Passionate presentation � Confident presentation �  Positive presentation

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Harden & Ignite!: Summarize & Seek a Decision

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� Summarize what you already agree on � Smile � Assume the best

� Make a specific request � Be thorough but . . . � Be brief

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Principles for Powerful Persuasion

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Melt Resistance Mold Opinions

•  Know your audience well •  Make your argument clear •  Present personally & professionally

Harden & Ignite! •  Believe in your cause •  Summarize & make a specific request

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The tyranny of expectations

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Does it always work?

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�  Of course not! �  Some people come equipped with closed minds (They’ve

already decided) �  Some people come with busy minds (They aren’t really

listening to you) �  Some people will not agree with you (so if you can’t

convince them, at least help them be sorry they can’t agree with you)

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Remember….

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� The people expect us to be

accountable – to show the positive results of our programs �  So inform the people about the difference you are making in

people’s lives �  Show the people that your services are vital to growing

communities � Ask the people for active financial support without apology