Bridal Guide 2016 Hilton Head & Bluffton

BRIDAL GUIDEHILTON HEAD ISLAND, BLUFFTON & BEYOND

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From the impeccably designed paper details to the time-honored traditions mixed with

personal touches, exceptional flowers, delicious food, rockin’ music and, of course, the happy couple surrounded by family and friends, weddings are magical.

Hilton Head Island, Bluffton and the surrounding Lowcountry are spectacular places to marry, and thou-sands of weddings are held here each year. From small budgets to large, beach to

country club, traditional to modern, this area sees them all. And with the demand for weddings in our area, you can be sure that we have some of the finest wedding profession-als around. Consider them the best in class when it comes to paper, photography, planning, catering, cakes, flowers, rent-als, lighting and everything else you need to plan the per-fect day.

The 2016 Bridal Book is designed to be a resource guide and inspiration source for brides, grooms and their

families. We’ve touched upon the nitty-gritty details like how to get a marriage license, how to hire the professionals (and where to find them), how to manage a guest list, how to organize your ceremony, and even how to plan your budget. We covered fun stuff, too like choosing your flowers, your fashion and your food.

Romantics at heart, we hope that we’ve given you the inspiration and resources you need to plan your dream wedding here in our beautiful Lowcountry. BG

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6 | REAL WEDDING Deciding to marry love of her life here in the Lowcountry wasn’t a hard decision for one bride. Draw inspiration from her perfect day.

10 | WEDDING BUDGET 101 Whether you have $1,000 or $100,000 to spend, you can achieve the wedding you always wanted with a bit of careful planning.

14 | “SAYING I DO” The ceremony is perhaps the most important part of your wedding. Make sure it’s both memorable and official.

18 | FIND THE DRESS OF YOUR DREAMS Wedding gown shopping can be overwhelming. Know your body type and style preference before you begin the search.

22 | FLOWER POWER There are a million ways to have flowers at your wedding. Find tips to help you pick the best blossoms for your big day.

26 | EAT, DRINK AND BE MERRY Every wedding guest secretly hopes for amazing food. Planning a standout menu is easier than you think.

30 | MAKE A LIST, CHECK IT TWICE Who’s invited to the wedding? Who isn’t? Common-sense ways to get your guest list under control.

32 | LEAVE IT TO THE PROS Though plenty of people can pull off a wedding on their own, almost every wedding will go smoother with the help of at least a few professionals.

36 | MUST-DOS BEFORE THE I-DOS Planning a wedding isn't all pearls, peonies and parties. Prenup discussions and marriage license applications are every bit as essential as the fun details.

40 | THE SOCIAL NETWORKING BRIDE Create more excitement and buzz around your wedding with photos, videos and other digital tools.

44 | IT’S PARTY TIME! With all the fun that you will have planning your wedding, perhaps the part most enjoyed by brides and grooms is planning the reception.

52 | ESSENTIAL INFOPerfect first-dance songs, traditions, superstitions, toasts, a handy timeline and a complete directory of local businesses and professionals.

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All of these factors draw many highly talented wedding professionals to the area, but with so many fabulous

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Dean Rowland has been writing since he was a kid. He majored in journalism at Ohio University, vagabonded throughout Europe for a year after graduating early, and then moved on to his career at small and mid-sized newspapers before landing at one of the biggest newspapers in the country in Newark, New Jersey, as a writer and editor. Now he lives where he wants to live and still does what he wants to do — write.

Libby O’Regan is the founder of Social Media Marketing and Public Relations Bluffton-based firm, Libby O Marketing. Opened in 2012, Libby O Marketing’s client roster boasts top notch professionals in the bridal industry and local women’s retail businesses. O’Regan is also Vice President of Sales and Marketing for PSA Essentials where she is responsible for acquisition and maintenance of corporate retail accounts, as well as nationwide marketing and PR. She’s married to husband, Mike O’Regan, they have 2 kids, Molly (6) and Connor (3). For more, visit libbyomarketing.com and psaessentials.com

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photography of real local weddings. You’ll find comprehensive listings of local wedding vendors, as well as in-depth profiles that will help you decide which vendors will help you accomplish your vision for the per-fect wedding day.

For me, this is a great achievement. I’ve set many professional goals in my 21 years as publisher of Hilton Head Monthly magazine, and creat-ing the ultimate bridal guide has always been near the top of the list.

That’s why I’m very proud you now hold this inaugural issue in your hands. You are embarking on one of the most magical experiences in your life, and we’re thrilled to be right by your side throughout the planning process.

Whether you’re newly engaged, in the midst of your planning, or are eagerly awaiting your engagement, we’re thrilled you’ve turned to us for your inspiration. For the bride on-the-go, a mobile-friendly digital guide is available online at hilton-headbridalshow.com. BG

ABOUT THE COVERSpecial thanks to Scott Hopkins of Hopkins Studios for providing our cover image. It was taken at the wedding of Kelly Schuler and Daniel Hackman at Colleton River Plantation. The wedding planner was Beth Baldwin.

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She fell in love with Hilton Head Island in the summer of 2008 when she came to visit her then boyfriend, Mike. His pas-

sion, genuine interest and respect for the natural beauty of the area were evident – to the point of being conta-gious, says Jill.

“Whether we were riding bikes on the beach (which I personally love because you are not allowed to ride bikes on the beach in New Jersey where my family vacations!), gawking at the wild armadillos of Pickney Island, or shar-ing a cocktail at Coco’s on the Beach – we were always having fun. This

island has been our special place. We wanted all our friends and family to be submerged in the Lowcountry we love – surrounded by Spanish Moss and salty air. Experiencing that is what helps you understand who Mike and I are as a couple – warm, fun, relaxed and truly happy!”

Their wedding at Honey Horn Plantation in the Summer of 2015 was all of that – warm, fun, relaxed and truly happy. And there are an abun-dance of stunningly beautiful photos by Amy Arrington Photography to prove it! Not to mention a lifetime of memories for Jill and Mike.

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Deciding to get married to the love of her life here in the Lowcountry wasn’t a hard decision for Jill.

Their love story starts in 2008 with early memories in their relationship of know-ing the other was “the one” with simple things. Jill recounts how considerate Mike was with her schedule and his willingness to compromise on little things. Things that ultimately showed her what type of husband he would be and how their life would be together.

His proposal was unexpected – exactly how he wanted it to be. Mike was sure she’d pass her very important Oncology Certified Nursing exam and on the day of that exam, he was ready and waiting with flowers and a ring when she walked in the door. She thought he was congratulating her on passing her exam, but really he was down on one-knee proposing. Once she put it all together, there were tears, hugs and a celebratory bottle of wine. The two met family and friends at a local restaurant for a semi-planned engagement celebration.

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That was just the beginning of the celebrating their union. And what a celebration it was! Because there are no included rentals, food, or just about anything when you book the venue at Honey Horn (other than the majestic setting!), Jill and Mike’s team of wed-ding vendors was extremely important. Everything started from scratch – both a very thrilling and overwhelming experi-ence. One that couldn’t be done by any one person.

Spencer Special Events, led by owner, Amanda Spencer, was instrumental in the planning and design of the overall look and bringing that look to life. She collaborated with Dawn Kristy at A Floral Affair to ensure a rustic yet glam-ourous look. It was natural, inspired by Hilton Head’s inherent beauty but with pops of color. Fresh cut garden roses, poppies, ranunculus and greens were carried by Jill and her bridesmaids.

Low centerpieces placed in mason jars and small vases and on top of rustic wood slabs – all intermixed with with gold votive candles – really made the tables feel warm, rustic and upscale at the same time. The guests used gold flatwear – a touch that really lifted the feel of the event. Soft, flowing white linen draped the barn of Honey Horn and plush, comfy furniture and pillows were also brought in to create a virtual outdoor living room.

The guests dined on Southern favor-ites: homemade mac and cheese, shrimp and grits, pork tenderloin, corn muffins and yeast rolls. It was served buffet style in a casual setting that was inviting and warm. Guests were able to take home mini key lime and pecan pies, as well as local honey in jars tied with “thank you”. All the details were just the way the couple and their family wanted.

For the style and fashion of the wed-ding, Jill’s BoHo Chic style with an edge was reflected in her gown, her jewelry and what her bridesmaids wore. “The color palate choice for the girl’s dresses was definitely my earthy bohemian side coming through con-sidering the blush, taupe, and cham-pagne color choices. They honestly looked amazing together and with the green back drop of honey horn, the swooping Spanish moss, and the extremely beautiful wedding party we had, they were truly a breath taking group. I chose to have my sister Megan (matron of honor) and best friend El (maid of honor) stand out by having them wear patterned dresses… this was my edgy side! El’s feminine floralprint and my sisters sparkle were the perfect additions to set them apart as my nearest and dearest… without them I would have been lost!”

We noted that even some of the beautiful guests looked like they had coordinated! The southern flare that the groomsmen sported was no socks – all by Mike’s design. It’s not often that you can go sockless at a wedding – but the couple wanted the groomsmen to be super relaxed and comfy – it was something the groomsmen took full advantage of!


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As with any wedding, there are so many highs during the day that it’s always hard to pick one. Mike recounts their first dance as just one of many week long highlights.

“We picked the song 'True Believers' by Darius Rucker as our song. The song is very special to Jill and me as it came out during a difficult time for us and really spoke to us and our relationship. Despite having known this would be our song for a very long time we never practiced the dance once. So like most things we do, we weren’t really sure what we were doing, how we were going to do it or how it was going to turn out. But like always we were in it together, had smiles on our faces and had a blast just winging it. The dance went great and the song was perfect.”

For Jill, being with her friends and family and seeing such a beautiful vision come to life, there were so many highlights but one in particular that she will never forget. “My Uncle Dave stopped me dead in my tracks during the reception and said ‘Your Dad is a good man and he did an amazing job with you two.’ I don’t think I’ll ever forget that. It was sim-ple but striking and alarmingly true. It’s been a bumpy untraditional road for my dad but no matter what we always had each other, and we will always have an amazing family!"

For Mike, he couldn’t get over the amazing food and rockin’ music of The Voltage Brothers. “Most people were in food comas after eating so much delicious food but the Voltage Brothers blew the roof off of Honey

When the team at Hilton Head Monthly set off to find a real wedding – and only one real wedding -- to feature in our 2016 Bridal Resource Book, we encountered hundreds of dream-like, fairy tell weddings here in the Lowcountry. Was the choice on which wedding to feature hard? You bet it was! With the Lowcountry being such a popular destina-tion spot for weddings and with thousands of wed-dings occurring here each year, there were just so many beautiful options to choose from. Here are ten reasons we loved this wedding and thought this was THE ONE:

Horn and had everyone at the wed-ding dancing like crazy the entire night.” That sounds like one heck of a party!

And a party as any wedding might be, there will always be highs and lows, particularly during the plan-ning process. Though there can be so many stressful parts of planning a big wedding, hiring the right team is crucial, says Jill. There will be bumps in the road but ultimate-ly, her advice for couples getting married is to not lose sight of what the day is all about. Marrying the man you love!

With a dream-like Lowcountry setting, a dynamite team of ven-dors, and a love story built on simple joys and respect for eacho-ther – this wedding is full of what makes us love weddings in the Lowcountry. BG

1 The groom’s and groomsmen seriously stylish shoes.

2 The mason jars and vases wrapped in twine and burlap, the chalkboard menu, and other barn-rustic details were all done with a fresh and modern twist.

3 Gold utensils. Need we say more?

4 The to-die-for paper suite! Non-traditional and full of personality, the floral save the date, invitation with Hilton Head Island drawing was unique.

5 Family heirloom photos of loved ones that could not attend in frames and present for all to see.

6 Comfy couches and lounge chairs – com-plete with beautiful pillows to match the décor – under Spanish Moss draped Oak Trees. An outdoor living room was created!

7 Take home treat for guests such as mini pies and honey.

8 An exit for everyone to participate in! Showering the couple with eco-friendly confetti made for beautiful exit photos and a fun send off.

9 “Best Day Ever” Banner.

10 Truly iconic Southern setting – this wed-ding showed off the Lowcountry at its finest

VENDORSWedding planner: Spencer Special EventsPhotography: Amy ArringtonVideographer: Ryan LindsayReception Entertainment: The Voltage BrothersLighting: Hilton Head LightingRentals: RancoFlorist: A Floral AffairReception: Honey Horn



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101Marrying the love of your

life is a dream come true. But in all the fun of dreaming up the details

of your big day, it’s easy to get caught up in the fantasy — and it’s easy to forget all those magical little elements really add up. That’s why it’s important to be realistic about your budget.

What exactly does a wedding cost here in the Lowcountry? Here are some numbers that may bring you to reality.

The average cost of a wedding in Beaufort County is $28,280, with brides spending anywhere from $35,350 to $21,210 on receptions with 138 to 158 guests, according to the latest figures from The Wedding Report. The local average cost is a nudge above the national average of $26,444, although The Knot push-es the national figure to $31,213, based on nearly 16,000 surveys filled out by newlyweds in 2014.

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Despite the cost, the Lowcountry is a popular setting for weddings. Last year, 1,667 weddings were held in Beaufort County, putting it in the top 10 percent of the nearly 3,000 counties nationwide. And sure, some of those have been over the top, ranging from $200,000 to $500,000 and featuring lavish elements like pump-kin-shaped, horse-drawn carriages Cinderella would envy and Swarovski crys-tal-studded gowns. But with help from the area’s wedding professionals and a little careful plan-ning, you can have the wedding of your dreams, no matter your budget.

Here are a few tips that can help keep your spending down:

• Invite fewer guests.

• Provide a buffet, not a plated dinner.

• Hire a venue that offers chairs, flatware and table linens so you don’t have to rent them.

• Serve a menu heavy on vegetarian dishes.

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If you’ve got the room in your budget, consider these extra elements that will add to your big day — and, of course, to your bottom line:

• Extravagant lighting with dimmers and colors will create a graceful ambi-ance for your reception. Decorative hanging lamps or crystal chande-liers are show-worthy.

• Décor at the entryway to the reception can truly create a “wow” factor. Have your florist assem-ble a showpiece display at the escort card table, and make sure servers offer champagne or a special signature cocktail to guests as they enter.

• Install a photo booth so your guests can create keepsake pictures, which then can be displayed over the dance floor for everyone to see.

• Surprise your guests with short performances by a cellist, a jazz trio or belly dancers before the reception kicks into high gear. Something special and unexpected will be long remembered.

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• Liven up the party near its scheduled end by having a food truck roll onto the premise serv-ing tacos, pancakes and late-night munch-ies. And don’t forget the hot coffee bar with special liqueurs, syrups and toppings.

WIPING THE STARDUST AWAYWhat you want and what you can afford is a gap that needs to be bridged from the beginning. Along with your families, it’s important to talk hon-estly and openly about whether you can afford a special ceremony on the beach with an over-the-top reception at a luxurious hotel here on Hilton Head Island, and whether to invite an aunt you haven’t seen or talked to in 10 years. Weighing your priorities and possible tradeoffs from the beginning of the planning process will save you time, money and heartache as you prepare to walk down the aisle. BG

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Before you can walk down the aisle, you need to make sure you’ve filled out all the forms — dotting your “I”s and cross-

ing your “T”s. The ceremony isn’t just a beautiful moment between two people in love; it’s a binding moment in the eyes of both the local government and, depending on your personal preference, your house of worship, and there are sev-eral things you need to do before you say “I do.”

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OFFICIALLY SPEAKINGBefore your big day, you and your fiancé will need to apply in person for a marriage license. The main office of the Beaufort County Probate Court in Beaufort and the Hilton Head Island satellite office have differ-ent hours and appointment requirements, so make sure you check before you make the drive. There is a 24-hour waiting period after you submit your applica-tion before your license will be issued, so don’t wait until the last minute. For more on marriage license requirements in Beaufort County, go to http://bit.ly/1TVqcGE.

Of course, you’ll need more than a marriage license to make your union official. You’ll also need to make sure you have an officiant to perform the ceremony. Certain members of the clergy, chiefs or spiritual lead-ers of recognized Native American tribes, judges and notaries public are authorized to administer the oath and sign the marriage license; it’s up to you who you PH

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select. There is usually a fee for a registered officiant,but some clergy will perform the ceremony in return for a donation to the church. Expect to pay between $500 and $800.

So you’ve got your marriage license and your offic -ant and you’re finally ready to plan your ceremony. A traditional service starts with the procession down the aisle, followed by the officiant’s opening remarks and any readings, the exchange of vows and rings, the marriage pronouncement, the kiss and the recession-al. You can personalize your ceremony by selecting music and readings that have personal significance, or add elements like a sand-pouring ceremony to sym-bolize your new union. And of course, don’t be afraid to write your own vows.

PROMISES, PROMISESWe’re all familiar with the traditional vows — for bet-ter or for worse, in sickness and in health. Though the wording varies slightly from religion to religion, all include the same themes of love, bonding and faith to a higher being — though some couples today are eliminating the “honor” and “obey” wording. One way or another, however, traditional vows usually end with the officiant asking the couple if they will take each other as husband and wife, followed by a blessing of sorts.

A handful of nontraditional wedding vows have become standard choices for couples who opt not to embrace traditional or personal vows. Regardless of which nontraditional vow is chosen, they all touch on common themes such as constancy of love, celebra-tion of life, trust, sharing of dreams and pledging faithfulness.

Personal wedding vows are just that: personal. Your love is personal, the relationships you both have with your family and friends are personal, and the hopes and dreams you both share are personal. If you choose to write a personal vow, ask yourself what matters most to you both. Express it in words, but also think about what tone to use — funny, serious, both? And when in doubt, keep it short.

After you and your fiancé have exchanged your vows and presented each other with rings, you’re ready to head back up the aisle and hit the reception as a mar-ried couple. BG



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Wedding gown shopping can be overwhelming. Know your body type and style preference before you begin the search.

CHOOSING YOUR BRIDAL GOWN

On the day of your wedding, all eyes are on you. You’ll want to look and feel your best, which means fi nding the dress that fi ts both your style and

your personality. But how to fi nd “The Dress” out of the millions of beautiful wedding dresses out there?

Start by knowing you own personal style. If you are very fashion-forward in your daily attire, a high cou-ture gown could be perfect for you. But if you tend to prefer more conservative, classic styles, it’s a smart choice to go with a classic gown. On your wedding day, you want to be the best version of yourself, not someone else.

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With that in mind, flip through wedding magazines, scroll through Pinterest, and start visualizing your dream dress. This is one of the best parts of wedding planning, so dive in.

When you’ve got an idea of the styles you like, book an appointment at a bridal salon — and be sure to bring your mother, other relatives or close friends to give you a second opinion. Many bridal salons offer private consultations, complete with mimosas or champagne to make the process less stressful and exciting. Your consultant will take your measurements and pull sam-ples for you to try on. Even if you think you know what kind of dress you’re looking for, be open to a variety of dress styles. Dresses might look very different on than they do on the rack, and you might be surprised by the dress that you fall in love with.

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Your consultant might mention many types of styles; don’t be overwhelmed by the selection. Know your dresses:

• Ball gowns are perfect for the quintessential Cinderella moment.

• A-line dresses feature fitted bodices that flow from the waist into an “A” shape.

• Modified A-line dresses are slightly looser than A-line gowns, but still flow from the waist.

• Mermaid-style dresses were 2015’s most popular. They hug the upper and lower body and flair out at the calves.

• Trumpet dresses are similar to mermaid dresses, but less form-fitting. They accentuate the hips and waist.

• Sheath dresses are meant to flatter the bride’s body without being too form-fitting.

• Tea-length dresses fall to mid-calf; they’re popular with trendy brides or at more casual weddings.

• Mini dresses are usually reserved for the after-party because they’re so short and flirty; you’ll rarely see a bride sporting a mini dress at the altar.


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As you’re trying on dresses, have fun but be practical. You’ll want a dress that fits both your ceremony location and reception venue. A Cinderella ball gown with a long flowing train might be difficult on the beach. A tea-length silk number might be bet-ter suited. And of course, you’ll want to make sure your dress is comfort-able enough so you can dance the night away at your reception.

It’s best to start looking for your dress about six to eight months before your wedding day. Dresses are usually made to order, which takes three to four months. Once it arrives, you’ll need to schedule at least one or two fittings to ensure a perfect fit, which will also take sev-eral weeks. On the day before your wedding, you’ll want to make sure that your dress is steamed and free of wrinkles.

If you have selected a second look to wear late at night or for danc-ing at the reception, make sure it is delivered to your venue for an easy outfit change.

SELECTING YOUR BRIDAL PARTY ATTIRE These days, just about anything goes when it comes to bridal party attire. A good rule of thumb is that the more formal the wed-ding, the longer the bridesmaids’ dresses should be, but gone are the days when the maids wore the exact same dress. Different necklines, lengths and silhouettes to fit each bridesmaids’ body and style are the norm. Some brides even choose to mix patterns and colors.

For the groomsmen, you can go with the traditional tuxedo or suit, or relax a little with dress pants, button-down shirt and a vest, but no suit jacket. To spice things up and add a little panache to the day, fun socks are becoming a big trend.

Whatever you and your bridal party wear, make sure it’s comfortable. No one looks good in clothes that don’t fit or are uncomfortable. Stay true to your fashion sense and be “the best version of you” on your big day. BG

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Go over-the-top with mounds of arrangements in opulent vases or go for an understated look with simple blooms in mason jars. Here are a few tips to help you pick the best blossoms for your big day.

20 A Cardinal Road, Hilton Head Island843.681.8700

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Dawn Kiritsy, AIFD, CFD has owned the A Floral Affair Design Studio since 1997 and in that time has helped hundreds of brides and thousands of customers by turning their visions into fl oral reality. But do you really want to hear us toot our own horn? Probably not. But how about reading some reviews from people who will toot it for us? You’ll still be getting a biased opinion, just not from us!

"Not only did A Floral Affair provide all the fl owers, but they provided two rustic bars that were to die for, string tea lights across the lawn, and gorgeous centerpieces. They paid attention to the smallest details. I could not be happier in choosing A Floral Affair, and would recommend them to any bride. Dawn initially sat me down for about an hour consultation of what I was envisioning. I knew the larger details I wanted and she helped me with the smaller ones that I did not even think about." — Kelsey

"I had an out of town wedding in Hilton Head, planned from NYC. When I had my consultation with Dawn about wedding fl owers, I had no idea where to start. After taking the time to have several phone conversations with me, Dawn fi gured out exactly what I wanted. We had a small wedding and I only wanted a bridal bouquet and mini bouquets for our moms and the groom's sister. The pricing was very fair and I LOVED my fl owers when they were delivered. They were perfect, Dawn incorporated every fl ower and color I wanted, and they smelled amazing and fresh. The only con is that they won't last forever!" — Tammy

A FLORAL AFFAIR


flowerpowerThere are a million ways to have � owers at your wedding.




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14 Vine Street, Hilton Head Island843.837.6655

GardeniasHHI.com

Gardenias Floral, a division of Circle of Life Interior Plants and Foliage Rentals since 1998, is the Low Country’s premier event fl oral company providing professionally designed fl ower arrangements, stylish decor and tropical foliage for special events such as destination weddings to corporate functions to charitable events with a personal touch.

Thinking outside of the vase keeps Gardenias fresh and innovative because every client has their own personal style and look. Besides the dress, fl owers and décor are one of the most important items in an event. Working hand in hand with the venue and event planner the client has chosen, Gardenias Floral will create that memorable lifetime experience from the start to fi nish.

“Gardenias did our wedding fl owers and some event décor and I was very pleased with the results. I was a bit nervous being from out of state and not seeing exactly how everything would look in advance, but everything came out better than I even expected. They were easy to work°with and were very creative without a lot of direction from us”


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SHOP IN SEASONThough it’s possible to get any fl ower at any time of year, your costs will skyrocket if you select fl owers that are not in season. Do your homework. Know what will be in bloom when you are getting married and go with those options for your centerpieces, boutonnieres, bouquets, petals for the fl ower girl and any altar decorations. On average, fl owers usually make up about 5 percent to 12 percent of a bride’s overall wedding budget.

Not sure what’s in bloom when? Here are a few examples for each season:

WINTER: Cedar, lemon leaf, succulents, garden roses, Lisianthus, burgundy orchids and tallow berries.

SPRING: Poppies, tulips, jasmine, delphinium, lilacs, sweet peas, peonies and ranunculus.

SUMMER: Freesia, dahlias, carnations, poppy pods, wax fl owers and hydrangeas.

FALL: Thistle, garden roses, winter eucalyptus, Nigella and brunia berry.

GET INSPIREDOne of the best places to fi nd fl ower ideas is Pinterest. Get inspired by beautiful bouquets, innovative ideas and pretty things. Blogs like Snippet and Ink, Style Me Pretty, Green Wedding Shoes and Brides often allow you to search by color scheme, season or favorite bloom. Look for ways to fl oral decorations from the ceremony, such as bouquets and altar arrangements, to decorate your recep-tion site to save a little money. The Internet is your fl ower inspiration destination.



GET HELPHire a local experienced professional to help keep you and your flowers in season and on budget. Rarely does a bride do all the flowers herself — almost all hire a florist to bring their floral visions to life.

When interviewing florists, ask to see a portfolio of work. Many professionals will keep a Flickr gallery or post their work on Instagram, making it easy for you to view a large variety of the centerpieces and bouquets they have assembled. You’re looking for a florist whose style fitsyour vision — as well as your budget. Make sure you ask about any deposits, fees and payment schedules before you sign a contract.

Selecting the flowers can be one of the most exciting parts of planning your wedding. It’s an opportunity to incorporate your theme, your season and your color scheme all in one place, and the flowers will be a highly visual and photographed portion of your wedding. Whatever your budget, feel confident that you can pull something beautiful off — greenery doesn’t cost as much as fresh-cut blooms but still adds a natural, elegant touch — and you’re sure to find a local professional who will be more than happy to make your dreams come true. BG PH

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Trust us. The one compo-nent you won’t want to skimp on at your wedding is the food. Aside from

the music (which often translated to “how the party was”) and how the bride looked, the food is one of the most talked about parts of a wed-ding. Ever been to a wedding with bad food? We have: rubbery chick-en and cold mashed potatoes. Don’t let that be the menu on your big day. Here are Hilton Head Monthly’s biggest tips to ensure guests leave satisfied and wowed — no matter your budget.

Cocktails and hors d’oeuvres: Choose crowd-pleasing favorites like baby lamb chops, tomatoes and mozzarella skewers, peanut satay chicken, crab cakes, oyster shooters or shrimp and grits in martini glass-es. And always make sure to offer at least one vegetarian option for your guests. If passed hors d’oeuvres are not within the budget, choose an antipasto platter or artful presenta-tion of cheeses and meats.

Every wedding guest secretly hopes for amazing food. Planning a standout menu is easier than you think.

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Dinner menu: Plated dinner menus are still popular, with many brides choos-ing to serve a three- or four-course meal. Local chefs and caterers generally source local foods and work within sea-son to bring fresh food to the table, so consider the time of year you are getting married when planning your menu. Consider fresh and innovative salads like watermelon and feta in the summer, and surf-and-turf combinations for the main course.

Food stations/buffet: Chef stations and buffets are back with a bang and are fancier than ever. Searing, sautéing and carving presented with nice surrounding items, vegetables, sauces and garnish components — sometimes in miniature form like tapas-style — are very popular. Try a sautéed foie gras station, presented with toasted fig brioche, caramelized onion jam, mari-nated frisse and black currant jus. Shellfish presenta-tions, with mounds of oysters, mid-Atlantic clams, Alaskan king crab, and split lobsters on the half shell are also popular.

Progressive dining: Why not serve your guests all night long? Instead of a cocktail hour followed by a multi-course dinner, set up stations that are open all night long and one big feast. Guests can graze on a variety of foods that can follow a variety of themes, or offer a little bit of everything. This dining option is becoming very popular with brides.

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The cake: Of course, the real star of the menu is the wedding cake. All kinds of designs are available, and regional bak-ers are experimenting with new techniques like handmade sugar fl owers. Natural fl ow-ers die quickly when not in water, so using handmade sugar fl owers are an edible and practical solution. A new wedding trend is to offer multiple cakes that all coordinate but look different. You also can have a separate groom’s cake that is a little more fun and refl ective of his interests, like golf or sports teams.

Sweets table: Many top-notch local venues will also create an incredible sweets display that goes beyond the traditional cake. Handmade macaroons, éclairs, puff pastries, cookies, milkshake shooters, donuts, cake pops, mini cupcakes, cronuts, and more innova-tive ideas are becoming more popular.

Late-night food for the after-party: The party doesn’t have to end as the reception wind down. End the evening with comfort food with a classy twist, like truffl e French fries, mini sandwiches, sliders, cheese-burgers and even hot dogs. These party foods will give your guests one fi nal snack after the last dance.

Work with your local professionals to fi nd the menu that’s right for you on your wedding day. BG

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GET A HANDLE ON YOUR

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One of the biggest decisions in plan-ning your wedding is the guest list.

The size of your wedding can affect so many other aspects of your big day. If you are planning a large wedding, you’ll need a venue that can accommo-date many people, while if you’re hosting a smaller gathering, you’ll want to find a more intimate space. Your guest list will also need to work with your budget — obviously, the more people you invite, the higher the cost.

So how to settle on a guest list that works with your budget and your friends list? To start, think big and write down the names of everyone you would like to attend. Suddenly facing a list as long as your arm? Time to start whittling.

THE PERFECT SPLITTraditionally, the couple gets to invite half of the total number of guests. The bride’s parents choose 25 percent, as does the groom’s. (Even if there are multiple sets of parents on one side of the family or the other, the split remains the same.) But the equation can get a little dicey if only one set of the parents is contributing financially or if the couple is footing the entire bill. If fairness is the final criterion, then the tra-ditional split as mentioned likely would prevail.

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are your budget and the venue size. Be conservative, because you can always add more invitations from your B-list after the initial round of RSVPs start rolling in.

Don’t feel obligated to invite every cousin, espe-cially if you’ve never even met some of them. And don’t feel obligated to invite each of your co-workers because, let’s face it, you might not even like some of them. And decide up front if you want to include children; for sure, kids under the age of 12 are fun at a family gather-ing, but maybe not at $80 a head at your reception.

And don’t forget that it’s your wedding. No bully-ing or pressure allowed by anyone.

BY INVITATION ONLYTypically, invitations are mailed six to eight weeks before to the wedding, or three months out if it’s a destination affair. Save-the-date cards should arrive six to eight months ahead of the wedding. The deadline for RSVPs should be two to three weeks prior to the wedding. If the deadline passes, it’s OK to follow up with those who haven’t responded to see if they’ll be attending.

Invitations should list each guest by name; never ref-erence “and guest” unless you’re fine with your friend or relative bringing the stranger of their choosing. If a guest is not married and is not in a serious rela-

tionship, it’s perfectly fineto invite just that person — don’t worry, Emily Post concurs.

Try to pick an invitation style that matches the style of your wedding. If you’re having a casual ceremony on the beach in flip-flopsyou might not want to send formal, lacy invitations. And keep in mind that the more embellished and detailed the invitation, the pricier it will be. There are many options when it comes to invitations —floral, lacy, cus-tom designs, letterpress, foil-stamped, laser-cut, etc., and it’s easy to get over-whelmed. Just stay true to your own style and the style of your wedding.

Keep the content simple by noting the full names of the couple and the place and the time of the ceremony and reception. That’s all that’s really necessary, though some brides like to include information about nearby accommodations for out-of-town guests and directions from the cer-emony site to the reception venue if the two are held at separate locations.

Make sure you include a stamped envelope so your guests can return their RSVP cards. The return address should be secured on the back flap of the envelope, as well as on the RSVP envelope with postage inside.

Once you’ve got your invita-tions in the mail, the hard-est part is over. Now you can just sit back and wait to find out who will be joining you at your celebration. BG

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Luckily, the area is chalk full of top notch wed-ding industry professionals that are here to serve the booming destination wedding mar-ket! There are professionals for every budget, style and personality.

There are common-sense guidelines for hiring the best that your budget allows. Here’s a quick summary of what you should do to ensure your expectations are met from every professional you hire:

Never put down a deposit unless you have a fully detailed contract in hand that has been thoroughly reviewed with the vendor.

Distant your emotions and consider each of these ven-dor contracts as business deals.

Contact their personal references, be sure to ask if any of their clients were unhappy and why, and sit down with the pro personally. Ask them about their wedding ven-dor history and experience. Make sure you feel comfort-able with them. Also check the Better Business Bureau and local chamber of commerce about any complaints.

Book these professionals as early as you can. If they’re really skilled and accomplished, their calendar will be as full as yours.

Research, research, research. Friends, web sites, chat rooms. Enough said.

Here are some questions to ask (some are obvious and some aren’t!): What do they charge, what’s included in the fee, what’s the deposit, what’s the cancellation fee, additional fees, do they carry liability insurance, what will be their personal attire at the venue, have they worked your venue before? If they nudge at all and don’t answer or deflect your questions, move on.

After the contract is signed, communicate with them moving forward. It can be a quick phone call or email, and timely responses should be expected by both par-ties. Communication will prevent unexpected surprises.

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Though plenty of people can pull o� hosting a wedding on their own, especially with lots of DIY projects, almost every wedding will require hiring professionals.

THE BEATS GO ON – CHOOSING A BAND OR DJ? The first decision to make is which kind of music and vibe fits best with your personality, the size of your guest list and the venue, your budget and whether dancing is in the stars.

The options are endless: a harpist, pianist or string quartet for a small, intimate gathering; a live band that can inject energy on the dance floor; or a DJ whose flexibility as a performer can switch gears instantly. Or you can hire two different types of entertainment as the afternoon and early evening progress throughout the ceremony and reception.

Your search should begin at least six months before the wedding day. You’ll want to listen to audition tapes, check references, conduct interviews to discuss musical selections and their experience performing at wed-dings, discuss costs and performance logistics and details, review their song list that should show one or two hundred titles.

The average national cost for a four-member live band playing for four hours in 2015 is $3,357, according to weddingstats.com. Expect to pay $712 for a DJ and dou-ble that fee is he also serves as master of ceremonies.

FLOWER POWERBefore beginning your search for a florist, there a few questions you should ask yourself: How much do we want to spend, and what kinds of flowers and floraldesigns--think classic or modern, wild or romantic--do we like best?

Then realize that one flower and one floral design does not fit all needs. Here’s the checklist of decisions you and your florist will have to make for each application: bridal bouquet, bridesmaid bouquets, boutonnieres, corsages, centerpieces (large and small), ceremony arrangements, additional arrangements and cocktail arrangements.

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BRIDAL GUIDE | professionals

Kaufman Photography843.290.8883

KaufmanPhotography.com

For nearly twenty years Rob Kaufman has been crafting beautiful wedding day memories for Hilton Head brides.

"It's such a compliment to hear from a couple years after their wedding, telling me that I did such a wonderful job with their wedding photos that they now want me to photograph them with their children." says Rob.

Working with the latest in digital equipment and off camera lighting, Rob puts his talent and experience to work for a limited number of weddings each year.

"Having the latest, greatest 'toys' is always fun," Rob notes." But they are really just tools that help the creative process. What's most important is creating images that truly refl ect the personalities of the bride and groom — images they will enjoy for a lifetime."

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If you’re ready to begin contacting fl orists/fl oral design-ers, have your list of questions in hand: experience in their fi eld and at the venue, samples of their work, references, services available, setup and delivery, sit-down consulta-tions over each detail, and fees.

HAVING YOUR CAKE AND…One, two or three tiers? Fondant, buttercream or fruity fi ll-ing? Traditional chocolate with a sports team symbol for the groom’s cake? Which cake topper best represents who you are as a couple?

Choices and more choices. Expect to spend about $543 for the wedding cake, the national average, according to The Bridal Association of America. Most bakers and pastry chefs charge by the slice, based on your guest list, which can range from $1.50 to more than $10 per slice.

After you’ve done your homework, here’s a short list of questions to ask: When will the cake be baked? Who actu-ally bakes it? Extra charges like utensils? Do you deliver and display? How will the cake be displayed? How do you determine per-slice cost?

THE ROAD TO HAPPINESSPlanning on a silver Rolls, antique Bentley or the tradi-tional white-stretch limo to get you to the church on time? Or how about a horse-drawn carriage with Spanish moss and live oaks as your backdrop, or renting a boat to drop you off at the site nautical-style? Remember, on the island here, we have trolleys at your service, too.

In addition to the transport itself, keep in mind what kind of champagne you want on board, what musical playlists you want to hear and how you want your driver to dress. And don’t forget to shuttle the wedding party and invited guests if they’re staying at hotels on Hilton Head.

Most rental companies charge by the hour, typically $40-$75 per vehicle, with coach or shuttle buses for your guests from $700 to $1,200 per hour.

HIRING A WEDDING COORDINATOR“Hands downs the best money I’ve ever spent” recounts one bride of a local vendor. A wedding planner can be involved from the minute you are engaged, planning every step of the way – or they can be “day of” coordina-tors to ensure things run smoothly with your team of ven-dors on the big day. This will depend on your budget and level of comfort.



Full Service Planning | Day Of Coordination843.290.8727

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Planning a wedding in the Hilton Head Island area? Wedding planner Beth Baldwin shares the top 5 wedding day surprises the DIY bride might not be prepared for:

#5. Not accounting for check-in/check-out traffi c on a Saturday. Transportation logistics can pose a challenge for a wedding on a Saturday, especially during the summer months.

#4. Choosing vendors based on price. Just because a wedding vendor has the lowest price doesn’t make them the best option for you personally. Thoroughly vet each and every vendor to make sure they fi t your vision, style, and needs.

#3. Not having a rain backup plan. The Lowcountry is known for weather that can change pretty quickly. Always have a backup plan for your ceremony and/or reception set up.

#2. Wedding dress malfunction. This is the toughest one to manage! Our wedding day emergency kits are literally suitcase-sized so we can handle practically any kind of dress disaster.

#1. Not hiring a day-of coordinator, at least 30 days out.Without a day-of coordinator, you (or your mom) will spend all day setting everything up and stressing out, instead of experiencing the joy and celebration your wedding day should be!

Want more information? Call, text, or email Beth to fi nd out how she and her team can help you enjoy a stress-free wedding day!

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Make sure to ask: How much they charge for full service design and coordination, day of coordination, the wed-ding weekend. Ask if they take commissions on products they sell. Remember to ask when payments are due.

SPA, HAIR, & MAKE UP SERVICESWith so many hotels and resorts on Hilton Head and in Bluffton, there are no shortages of Spas, Makeup Artists and Hair Stylists armed and ready to make you picture perfect. Hire expert bridal makeup artists, especially ones that are well versed in makeup for the Lowcountry. You’ll need someone who understands the humidity and how to keep your face fresh and picture ready. (It is not as easy as a little foundation!)

Consider a hair and makeup trial. In many cases, this is included upon booking your day-of wedding services. Pull inspiration from your favorite wedding magazines and Pinterest- and bring your desired look to your consultant to try out.

CATERINGCatering is likely offered by your venue if you are getting married at a hotel or resort locally but what about if you are getting married in an untraditional setting in the Lowcountry? The Lowcountry is blessed with many skilled professional caterers, catering companies and chefs that are experienced in functions of hundreds in unique settings. See our resource guide for a complete list of trusted professionals.

LIGHTINGHere’s one element of a wedding that’s often neglected but is money well spent. If you spend hundreds on centerpiec-es but the room is not properly lit and no one can see, what is the point? Hiring lighting professionals can ensure you have pin spot lighting on key centerpieces. They can also set the mood for an amazing party. Consider these profes-sionals as part of any wedding design.

EVENT RENTALS Depending on where you are getting married or hosting your reception, you may have all the linens, tables and chairs that you need. Or the venue may have them but they aren’t quite up to your style. In this case, consider sourcing event rentals locally. These vendors are able to offer unique chairs (for 300 or more!), tents, gold fl atwear, dishes, cups, linens, chargers, furniture, pillows, vases, the list goes on… BG

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BEFORE THE I DO'Smust do's

You’ve met the love of your life and you’re ready to tie the knot. But how to propose, and what will you need to make it down the aisle? Here are a few tips to help you on the road to wedded bliss.

A DECENT PROPOSALThis act can be as simple and direct and traditional as the get-ting down on one knee in front of family and friends and pres-ent a ring. Or it can be as creatively imaginative and romantic as your thoughts allow.

The ring can be hidden in a coffee cup early in the morning — without the coffee, of course. You can arrange the proposal at a Savannah Gnats baseball game in the summer and have it flash on the scoreboard. You can go the beach with your sweetie in the late afternoon, build a sandcastle together and position the ring on the highest tower. You can sneak in early to your girlfriend’s classroom or office and write out the pro-posal on her desk or classroom blackboard.

And when it comes to the ring and the all-important four “C”s — clarity, cut, color and carats — the cut is the most important; it determines the shape and quality of the finished stone. It’s also not a bad idea to take your fiancée ring shopping before purchasing a sparkler, or ask her close friends or her mother about any jewelry preferences.

Just remember, wherever and however you choose to pro-pose, it will take on a life of its own afterward.

Planning a wedding isn't all pearls, peonies and parties. Prenup discussions and marriage license applications are every bit as essential as the fun details.

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A LICENSE TO…(MAKE IT REAL)Here’s what you’ll need to apply for a marriage license in South Carolina.

You and your fiancé will need to apply in person at the office of the county probate judge.

The application will ask for your full name, Social Security number, age and place of residence. Because this is a sworn statement, it must be signed by both of you and notarized in the office

You will need to show a government-issued photo ID, like your driver’s license.

The license costs between $50 and $95 in Beaufort County if you both are residents, payable in cash. It costs $75 if you live in South Carolina but aren’t a resi-dent here.

There is a 24-hour waiting period after the application is filed before you can pick it up. If you’re getting mar-ried over the weekend, make sure you apply for the earlier in the week.

If you are 18 or older, you do not need parental con-sent, but you will have to show identification. If you are younger than 18, boys have to be at least 16 and girls 14. All minors must file an original birth certificate or certified copy, and the parent or legal guardian must be present at the same time as the minor to present identi-fication and sign a consenting form to the marriage.

If you want to change your last name, you can use an online marriage name change kit.

Both parties must be present in a proxy marriage.

A marriage to a first cousin is allowed.

There is no expiration date to a marriage license, but it can only be used in South Carolina.

In South Carolina, proof of a divorce is not required if married previously (unless you legally changed your last name back to your maiden name). Common-law marriages are not allowed, and no blood tests or phys-ical exams are required.

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Pyramids on Hilton Head Island

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Pyramids has the perfect gifts for all the parties — engagement, shower, wedding, and even the bridal party. There's fabulous dinnerware and serve ware from Vietri , Arte Italica , Calaisio, Good Earth Pottery and Terrafi rma Ceramics; monogrammed glassware from Southern Jubliee; and personalized Vermont maple cutting boards.

Or choose from our exquisite linens or unique decor items. Jewelry by Mariana, Elizabetta Ricciardi, Sarah Cavender and Canoe or Lady Primrose Bath & Body luxuries make wonderful bridesmaids gifts.

For groomsmen, there are Brackish bow ties, Taki watches, Jack Black grooming products, and a choice selection of wallets and belts from their favorite college. And your out-of-town guests will love gift baskets fi lled with locally made specialties.

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SHOWER OF DELIGHTA bridal shower is usually held four to six weeks prior to the wedding, and is hosted by one or more of the bridesmaids. Invitations these days can be informal to the guests invited. Those who are invited also are invited to attend the wedding.

CO-STARRING ROLESEveryone in the wedding party has certain duties to fulfi ll. Here’s a summary:

Bride’s parents. Historically, they footed the bill for most of the wedding expenses and hosted the fi rst engagement party. These days, expenses are being shared by many. The mom will help with the guest list and choose her attire. The dad gets fi tted for formal-wear, escorts his daughter to the ceremony site and walks her down the aisle. After the reception, he tradi-tionally paid any outstanding bills.

Groom’s parents. They may host their own engage-ment party and provide a guest list to the couple. They also usually host the rehearsal dinner and may contrib-ute to some of the wedding expenses.

Maid of honor. She’s the bride’s go-to person. She will coordinate all bridesmaids’ activities, help dress the bride, arrange her veil and train during the procession-al and recessional, and make sure pictures are taken after the ceremony.

Bridesmaids. They assist the maid of honor and help out in any way before the ceremony. They pay for their own attire and personal expenses, and walk in the processional and recessional.

Best man. He assists the groom however needed before, during and after the ceremony. He also usually organizes the bachelor party, coordinates the wedding toasts, confi rms honeymoon reservations, and makes sure the groom gets to the ceremony on time. He will hold the bride’s ring and organize the groomsmen for formal pictures. BG

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BRIDAL GUIDE | social media

HERE COMES THE

Create more excitement and buzz around your wedding with photos, videos and other digital tools.

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The band or DJ will stop play-ing, the cake and food will be eaten, the fl ow-

ers will sadly die. How will you make your memories of this day last? Turn to your photos and videos. This area is home to many fan-tastic photographers to fi t any budget — from students to celebrity photographers who have retired to the Lowcountry.

But it’s not just still photos you’ll want to consider. In today’s social media world, you’ll want to think about how you’ll deal with the instant sharing of photos and videos snapped by your friends and family.

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READY, AIM, SHOOT!Although there will be no shortage of wedding photos to sort through online and on your smart-phone once you can relax, you’re hiring professionals because you want profes-sional images. Keep in mind that you likely will spend 10 percent to 15 percent of your total wed-ding budget on photogra-phy/videography.

Be sure to check personal references for your profes-sionals and arrange a sit-down interview to go over any images or angles you know you want the pho-tographer to capture.

SOCIAL STANDARDSSocial media is perfect for milestones like your wedding day. But before you announce your engagement by chang-ing your relationship status on Facebook or Instagramming the perfect shot of your ring, make sure you let your closest friends and family in on your big news. And then be ready to watch your social media channels light up with “likes.”

For your big day, think about creating a person-alized hashtag for your guests to use to tag their photos. If you don’t want pictures of your dress to get out immediately after the ceremony, ask guests not to post photos or

restrict friends from pub-licly tagging you in photos by changing your privacy settings to “private.” This way, you can view all pho-tos you’re tagged in and select the ones you want to share.

You can also set up a Facebook page dedicated to your wedding or an album just for your wed-ding photos. Just be sure not to overwhelm your friends with posts about the stress of wedding planning or other bridal-related complaints.

Some couples are encour-aging their guests to unplug for a tech-free wedding. This helps ensure all attention is on you and your celebration, not your guests’ electronic devices. If it’s important to you that your day is smart-phone-free, consider post-ing signs asking guests put away their phones.



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Digital tools and applications can help keep you orga-nized and on track — and maybe reduce some stress. They’re called “smartphones” for a reason. Here are fi ve apps that can lend you a hand:

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• Evernote. This app allows you to share all your notes and images with others and keep everyone in the loop with updates — includ-ing your soon-to-be spouse. It also can help reduce paper clutter while keeping you orga-nized with to-do notes.

• Cozi. This shared calendar app with alert options keeps everyone informed about the myriad appointments for fi ttings, hair appointments, etc.

• Appy Couple. This app, which has a one-time fee, consolidates everything into one tidy package, making it easy to create a customized wedding app site, establish time-lines, set up gift registries and sort through images.

• Zola Registry. This digital-friendly device can scan barcodes on gifts and help organize your registry.

• Mint. Most everyone needs a budget advis-er, and this app fi lls the need. It alerts you when you’re close to your budgeted recep-tion costs and lets you know with one swipe about everything else in your budget. BG


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W ith all the fun that you will have planning your wedding, perhaps the part most enjoyed by brides and grooms is plan-ning the reception. Who doesn’t love a

party? Especially one where they’ll eat, drink, dance and be merry with their family and friends, celebrating their marriage.

It can be daunting, but knowing your wedding style, the size of your guest list and the mood you want to create for your guests will help ensure you end up with the cel-ebration of your dreams.

Here in the Lowcountry, you can throw an epic reception at one of the many four-star hotels, event halls, country clubs, plantation clubs, restaurants, or local venues like Honey Horn.

The following are a few tips on planning the perfect reception party.

Complete your perfect daywith a memorable reception.

Ashleigh Whitmore | [email protected]

www.berkeleyhallclub.com/weddings.php

From the moment you enter our gates and look upon the refl ection pond and English gardens, to designing every unique detail with your carefully chosen vendors, to planning your picture-perfect grand farewell on a live Instagram feed, our couples have an entire team of professionals by their side to guide and support them. With over fi fty years combined service in the event management team alone, we take great pride in watching every bride and groom overwhelmed with joy as they watch their dream wedding day unfold.

Admittedly we’re perfectionists and cover every detail, both expected and unexpected, so you and your guests can relax and relish in each minute. And we freely confess to shedding a happy tear at every exchange of “I do”’s (still!).

A picturesque Lowcountry setting framed by impressive colonial architecture and beautifully manicured gardens, hosted by a team steeped in Southern hospitality... We will bring you the legendary Berkeley Hall Experience: the experience and memories of a lifetime.

Contact us today for a virtual tour or personalvisit and consultation.

Visit us on Pinterest and Facebook.

Ask us about our Berkeley Bride Pinterest pages.

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A GRAND RECEPTIONChoosing the reception site is one of the biggest steps in wedding planning, and the research should begin shortly after the engagement. Step one of many is deter-mining the guest list, even if it’s just an estimate. This will allow you to target venues based on facility size. Here are a few other things to keep in mind:

• Make sure the venue is roomy enough for the all essentials — tables, chairs, stage, bar, etc. — while still providing plenty of elbow room for your guests.

• Try to visit the venue at the same time of day you’ve scheduled your reception and in the same month or season in order to get a first-hand natural experience.

• Determine what kind of setting you want — something outdoors, something by the water, something urban or a rustic locale.

• Check out everything at the venue: the hall itself, rest-rooms, dressing rooms, the foyer, acoustics, indoor and outdoor lighting, and parking.

• Be sure to also check the linens, tables and other items that might come with the rental to ensure that you are pleased with the offerings. In many cases, you may want to rent different chargers, plates, chairs, flatwareor even furniture.

Not all reception facilities are equal. Is the venue full-service? Is it handicap-accessible, does it have any restric-tions on music or liquor service, and does it offer security service, coat check, staff on site, and liability insurance? Are there overtime fees? Are there local ordinances on noise and event ending times? The staff at most Lowcountry venues will be able to guide you through this process. Be sure to ask questions and take notes.

When it comes to rental contract, be sure everything is in writing, from the time of the deposit and the payment of the final bill to the cancellation policy, details of all services performed, taxes and service charges. Also docu-ment all your conversations with the professionals you hire. Make a folder with your email correspondence and save everything.


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• Coastal chic décor featuring natural materials and soothing color pallets

• All-new adjacent rest rooms and bride ready room

The all-new Oceanfront Pavilion at The Westin is the perfect complement to our Oceanfront Deck ceremony venue for your memorable Island Wedding with Southern Charm.

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HOTEL ROOM SERVICESome hotels offer discounted room rates when a certain number of rooms are reserved and filled by your party, while others charge regular room rates for guests but provide the bride and broom’s suite free. Either way, blocking rooms ensures that your guests have suitable accommodations.

Typically, rooms should be reserved for about 50 percent of the total number of out-of-town guests you invited. So for example, if there are 150 people on your guest list and 60 are out-of-towners, you should book 30 rooms. Most of these guests will spend two nights at the destination, and they’ll probably hope the hotel will offer an early check-in, be close to the reception site, have free Wi-Fi and serve a free breakfast. Post all the relevant information about the hotel on your wedding website.

When you call hotels for room rates, discounts, special requests and policies, expect to sign a contract to confirmreservations. This should be finalized about a month prior to the ceremony.

RECIPES FOR SUCCESSThis exercise should be mouth-wateringly fun. Who doesn’t love planning a sit-down dinner with appetizer and entrée selections? Or maybe you’re going with a buffet, a handful of meal stations for custom-sliced prime rib and Italian antipastas, or a family-style meal with bowls and platters set on the table.

Having trouble deciding on the menu? Think about what you like to eat, as well as the favorite foods of your fam-ily and friends. Take advantage of local delicacies, like seafood fresh from Lowcountry waters and home-grown produce. Also think about the flow of the evening; you don’t want your main course to be ruined if the cocktail hour runs a half-hour later than planned because of photographs or a delayed start to the ceremony.

As social maven Martha Stewart says, the standard of today’s wedding menu is not yesterday’s of filet of beef with twice-baked potatoes. Now, anything goes, with selections coming from all over the globe — think Spanish tapas, Chinese dumplings and Italian-grilled panini for the cocktail hour. At dinner, try a small plate of artfully arranged salads or garlicky prawns for the appe-tizer, followed by the main course of filet mignon or poached salmon with a starch and veggies and a lemon tart for dessert.

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PROFESSIONAL PLANNERSThe professional wedding planner can do as much or as little as you want her to do, given your budget and com-fort zone. Wedding planners can take care of every detail from start to fi nish for a hefty fee, or they can hands off until the big day, when they can coordinate every step of the celebration. Ask plenty of questions as you discuss with them how much help you think you’ll need and what, exactly, you’d like them to do.

At the initial consultation, discuss your needs and wants, and ask about their expertise and experience. A full-ser-vice planner will manage your budget, vendor negotia-tions, venue details and wedding day logistics. A day-of coordinator will execute and manage all of the plans you’ve made, fi nalize details with all of the vendors you have chosen, work with the venue personnel, oversee setup of the ceremony and reception sites, make sure everyone in the wedding party is escorted in on time, and serve as the liaison between you and the rest of the world on your big day.

EXCUSE ME, IS THIS SEAT TAKEN?Unless you’re hosting a buffet, you’ll probably want to establish a seating chart. The focal point of the room is the bridal table, where the groom sits to the bride’s right next to the maid of honor and the best man sits to bride’s left. Other wedding party attendees also are seated at the bridal table, if room allows.

Seat both sets of parents near the bridal table, along with grandparents, siblings not in the party, the offi ciant and other close friends. The rest of the seating is the wild card; it makes sense to seat people next to those they know. Just be sure you don’t leave one person out of the mix, and don’t separate singles and couples. BG

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COMPLETE BRIDAL PARTY SERVICESAT THE HEAVENLY SPA BY WESTIN

From your bridesmaid champagne mani/pedi party, to your custom hair & makeup service on the big day, trust The Heavenly Spa by Westin to complete your wedding fantasies!

As the largest full-service salon & spa on Hilton Head Island, The Heavenly Spa by Westin does it all for you and your bridal party.

• Treat your friends and family to a private off-hours mani/pedi party

• Relax with all-natural spa services at your private beachfront cabana or in the soothing ambience of the spa treatment rooms

• Trust our professional stylists for custom hair and make-up services – including complete trial runs to ensure you are delighted with your wedding day look

Bridal party packages are available to delight your friends and family and indulge your wedding dreams. Call The Heavenly Spa at 843.681.1019 to speak with a bridal expert or visit hiltonheadspa.com to schedule your bridal service today!

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• Mixing it up at the cocktail table like a premier mixologist would, down to the shape of the ice.

• Pairing the dessert sweets with cof-fee and espresso bars with a dash of Kahlúa, Tia Maria or Irish Mist.

• Handing out a handful of selfie sticks complete with cameras. Collect the cameras at the end of the night for a candid look at the festivities.

• Trying new flowers like sweet peas and garden roses in the bouquet.

• Giving your bridesmaids a little glitz and sparkly with glittery dresses, shoes or headpieces.

• Partying hard with cocktail parties that allow guest to mingle, big time.



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It’s your first dance as husband and wife, and you probably have considered dozens of songs to capture that special moment in center stage at the reception. Here are 15 popular songs for the first dance:

“Thinking Out Loud” — Ed Sheeran

“At Last” — Etta James (Or go for a modern spin with Beyoncé’s cover)

“Can’t Help Falling in Love” — Elvis Presley (You might be more familiar with UB 40’s version)

“Marry Me” — Train

“All of Me” — John Legend

“Lay Me Down” — Sam Smith

“The Way You Look Tonight” — Fred Astaire or Harry Connick Jr.

“Endless Love” — Diana Ross and Lionel Richie

“Make You Feel My Love” — Bob Dylan (Adele also covers this song in typical tearjerker fashion)

“Your Song” — Elton John

“The Best Is Yet To Come” — Tony Bennett or Frank Sinatra

“You’re the First, the Last, My Everything” — Barry White

“Up Where We Belong” — Joe Cocker and Jennifer Warnes

“Just Breathe” — Pearl Jam

“I Won’t Give Up” — Jason Mraz

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While most toasts are for the bride and groom, may also be celebrated.

The newlyweds may toast their bridesmaids and groomsmen, as well as their families, friends and guests.

Make a toast sweet and short, try to include something personal, and consider throwing in a famous quote that will make those in attendance smile and or laugh. Here are seven classic quotes perfect for wedding toasts:

“My heart is ever at your service.” — William Shakespeare

“Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures

through every circumstance.” — 1 Corinthians 13:7

“By all means, marry; if you get a good wife, you’ll be happy. If you

get a bad one, you’ll become a philosopher.”

— Socrates

“Love is all you need.” — The Beatles

“Never go to bed angry, always stay up and argue. Always remember

these three little words: ‘You’re right, dear.’”

— anonymous

“This is supposed to be exciting. It’s your wedding — you only get

a few of these!” — from the movie “The Five-Year

Engagement”

“Here’s to my bride; she knows everything about me, yet loves

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Wedding traditions are as old or new as the couple wants them to be. Here are seven common examples of bridal traditions:

• Exchanging vows. This centuries-old tradition avows his and her commitment to each other. The ring exchange can be personally written by the couple, or borrowed in full or in part from the famil-iar vows first written by the Anglican church in the 1500s: “I take thee to be my lawfully wedded…”

• The bouquet. Originally considered a symbol of happiness, bridal wreaths, garlands and bouquets were made of herbs to thwart evil spirits. Over time, herbs were replaced by flowers. Today, the single woman who catches the tossed bouquet at the reception is said to be the next to be married.

• Something blue. The old saying “something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue, and a silver sixpence in her shoe” dates back to Victorian times in England. The saying symbol-izes purity, fidelity and love, and the silver coin in the shoe is a good-luck token to bring the couple wealth.

• The rings. The engagement and wedding rings are worn on the fourth finger of the left hand because ancient Romans believed that a vein con-nected that finger directly to the heart. A sapphire in the wedding ring means marital happiness.

• Breaking of the glass. The highlight of a Jewish wedding is to shout “Mazel Tof” as the bride and groom step on the glass together to signify the fragility of human relationships and to act as a poignant reminder that marriage changes the lives of the couple forever.

• The threshold. According to ancient tradition, the groom would pick up and carry his bride into the bedroom to protect her from evil spirits. In the old days, the bride would often resist and not give in to her new husband’s intentions.

• The bachelor party. In fifth-century Greece, the feast and toast among military comrades took place on the eve of the male friend’s wedding. Today, anything goes shortly before the wedding. But guaranteed, it will be a night to remember (if possible), whether it’s loud and loose or risqué in its entertainment.

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ONE YEAR OR MORE Announce your engagement.

Meet with both families to discuss budget, style, priorities and dates.

Start looking at the ceremony and reception sites.

Start looking at wedding gowns.

Start interviewing florists, caterers, entertainers and photographers/videographers.

Select and invite attendants.

Select your ceremony officiant

Create a new email address just for wedding correspondence.

Attend a bridal show.

Set up your gift registry.

6-9 MONTHS Reserve your reception site.

Reserve your caterers.

Finalize your guest list.

Decide on the invitations.

Decide on your entertainment.

Plan your engagement party.

Start thinking about your honeymoon.

Start planning your menu.

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THREE MONTHS Order the invitations.

Shop for the bridal party dresses.

Shop for the rings.

Book your honeymoon and make passport arrange-ments, if necessary.

Order the wedding cake.

Shop for bridal party gifts.

Reserve formalwear for the groomsmen.

Confirm orders with the florist, entertainers and reception site.

Set up the bridal gift registry.

Make any special arrangements for the wedding party, like spa treatments or hair and makeup appointments.

Reserve blocks of hotel rooms for out-of-town guests.

Plan all parties, showers and luncheons.

TWO MONTHS Address and send invitations.

Book transportation.

Choose all music for the ceremony and reception.

Determine ceremony protocol.

Confirm ceremony details with participants.

Purchase bridal party gifts.

Finalize rehearsal dinner plans and reception menu.

Design and print wedding programs.

Arrange fittings for the bridal party.

ONE MONTH Submit wedding announcement to local media.

Choose all accessories.

Sit for bridal portrait.

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Apply for your marriage license.

Send rehearsal dinner invitations.

Draft a seating chart, if necessary, for the reception.

Finalize details with all hired professionals.

Finalize jewelry.

TWO WEEKS Complete floor and seating plans for the reception.

Wrap gifts for everyone involved.

Start working on speeches and toasts.

Finalize the receiving line.

ONE WEEK Pick up formalwear and ensure it fits appropriately.

Make sure passports and marriage license are in hand.

Pack for the honeymoon.

Pamper yourself with a massage, manicure and pedicure.

DAY BEFORE Put rings and license in a safe place.

Attend rehearsal and rehearsal dinner.

Pack wedding-day items.

Pay the vendors.

Give gifts to attendants.

WEDDING DAY Deliver bridal clothing and honeymoon clothing

to the reception venue or staging area.

Have hair styled and makeup applied.

Review your checklist.

Have candid pre-wedding pictures taken.

Get dressed.

Enjoy your special day. BG



ALTERATIONS Chicas Bridal & Boutique1 Sherington Drive, Suite J, Bluffton843-837-2002chicasofhiltonhead.com

Island SoireeThe Village at Wexford, C7, Hilton Head Island843-338-0307islandsoiree.com Kim Custom Tailors500 Plantation Club VI #500, Hilton Head Island843-842-9492

Lowcountry Bride & Gown59B Sheridan Park Circle, Bluffton843-338-0206lowcountrybrideandgown.com Luciana37 New Orleans Road, Suite C, Hilton Head Island843-686-5620lucianafashion.com

BAKERIES & CONFECTIONERIES

Brown Sugar Custom CakesBeaufort843-441-3975brownsugarcustomcakes.com

Hilton Head Cookie Co.498 Browns Cove Road, Ridgeland843-808-8755hiltonheadcookies.com

Island Fudge ShoppeColigny Plaza, Hilton Head843-842-4280islandfudge.com

Lowcountry Flour Girls108 Buckwalter Parkway, Bluffton843-837-2253lowcountryflourgirls.co

Pino Gelato1000 William Hilton Parkway, G1, Hilton Head843-842-2822pinogelato.com

Ronnie’s Bakery & Cakes by Lou1308 Fording Island Road, Suite C, Bluffton843-836-2253ronniesbakeryandcakesbylou.com

Signe’s Heaven Bound Bakery & Cafe93 Arrow Road, Hilton Head866-807-4463signesbakery.com

Sweet Carolina Cupcakes1 North Forest Beach Drive, Hilton Head843-342-2611sweetcarolinacupcakes.com

The French Bakery28 Shelter Cove Lane, #120, Hilton Head843-342-5420frenchbakeryhiltonhead.com

The Sugaree142D Burnt Church Road, Bluffton843-290-8585

CALLIGRAPHY & REGISTRY

J Banks Design Group35 N Main Street, Hilton Head843-681-5122jbanksdesign.com

Le Cookery of Hilton Head1000 William Hilton Parkway843-785-7171lecookeryusa.com

Lowcountry Paper Co.P.O. Box 10776, Savannah912-675-1234lowcountrypaperco.com

Pretty Papers & Gifts1000 William Hilton Parkway, Suite E, Hilton Head843-341-5116prettypapershhi.com

Pyramids316C, The Shops at Sea Pines Center, Hilton Head843-363-20401600 Main Street, Hilton Head843-689-6367pyramidshiltonhead.com

CATERERS

A Catered Affair 40 Folly Field Road, Hilton Head843-842-0029

Bess’ Delicatessen & Catering Specialists55 New Orleans Road, Hilton Head843-785-2377bessdeli.com

Celebrations Catering & Events12 Capital Drive, Hilton Head843-689-7526wecelebrateyou.com

Downtown Catering Co.107 Mellichamp Drive, Bluffton843-815-5335downtowncateringcompany.com

Dunes Catering & EventsHilton Head843-686-9142palmettodunes.com

Kitty’s Touch of EleganceBeaufort843-379-7120kittystouchofelegance.com

Lori Craven Catering, Inc.7 Deerfield Court, Hilton Head843-689-9499loricravencatering.com

Roy’s Place Cafe & Catering33 Office Park Road, Hilton Head843-785-4646roysplacehhi.com

Two Tomatoes Catering237 Whooping Crane Way, Hilton Head843-422-2666twotomatoescatering.com

NOTE: Most of the 250 res-taurants in the Lowcountry also provide catering. Find a complete list of restaurants at hiltonheadmonthly.com

CLOTHING

BleuBelle Bridal5500 Abercorn Street, #42, Savannah, 912-355-2502shopbleubelle.com

Chicas Bridal & Boutique1 Sherington Drive, Suite J, Bluffton843-837-2002chicasofhiltonhead.com

Island Child1000 William Hilton Parkway, Suite G-4, Hilton Head843-686-5437islandchild.com

Lowcountry Bride & Gown59B Sheridan Park Circle, Bluffton843-338-0206lowcountrybrideandgown.com

The Porcupine1000 William Hilton Parkway, E4, Hilton Head843-785-2779porcupinestyle.com

DANCE

Fred Astaire Dance Studio1300 Fording Island Road, Bluffton843-837-6161fredastairehiltonhead.com

Seaquins Ballroom1300 Fording Island Road, Bluffton843-227-5929seaquinsballroom.com

EQUIPMENT RENTALS

Affairs to Remember154 Beach City Road, Hilton Head843-342-9338affairstorememberhhi.com

Coastal Event Rentals3 Blue Jay Way, Hilton Head843-342-9338coastaleventrentals.com

Savannah Special Events by Ranco117 West Side Blvd., Pooler 912-944-6200rancotents.com

The Tent Factory305F Lowcountry Drive, Ridgeland843-645-4410


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EVENT PLANNERS

Beth Baldwin Weddings843-290-8727, [email protected]

Concierge & Co.33 Office Way, #A-301, Hilton Head843-842-7688conciergeandco.com

Embellished EventsP.O. Box 827, Bluffton843-757-7762embellishedweddings.com

Eventscapes [email protected]

Patti Shea Signature Wedding & Event DesignHilton Head843-681-9164pattisheaeventdesign.com

Southern WeddingsP.O. Box 23644, Hilton Head843-757-8400southernweddings.com

Sparks & Hearts, LLCHilton Head, Bluffton888-456-5555sparksandhearts.com

Spencer Special Eventsspencerspecialevents.com843-589-9099

Weddings with LeahHilton Head843-263-7001weddingswithleah.com

FLORISTS

A Floral Affair20 Cardinal Road, Hilton Head800-898-0289afloralaffair.co

August Floral and Event DesignSavannah404-536-3056augusteventdesign.com

Berkeley Flowers & Gifts, Inc.108 Buckwalter Parkway, Bluffton843-706-9747blufftonflower.co

Branches1000 William Hilton Parkway, Suite E6, Hilton Head843-785-2535branchesdesign.com

CCF Designs1253-A May river Road, Bluffton843-816-6165ccfdesigns.com

Coastal Custom Floral1253 A May River Road, Bluffton843-816-6165hiltonheadweddingflowers.co

Flowers by Sue72 Arrow Road, Hilton Head843-842-8778flowersbysue.co

Gardenia’s14 VIne Street, Hilton Head843-837-6655gardeniashhi.com

Island Flowers117 William Hilton Parkway, Hilton Head843-681-4145hiltonheadislandscflorist.co

Johnson Florist287 Wild Horse Road, Hilton Head843-681-5107hiltonheadflorists.ne

Make It Pretty59 Sheridan Park Circle, Suite B, Bluffton843-247-3411

Mum’s The Word Florist and Gift Gallery 1000 William Hilton Parkway, Suite J7B, Hilton Head843-785-7899mumsthewordflowers.co

Old Bluffton Flowers and Gifts142 Burnt Church Road, Bluffton843-757-2742oldblufftonflowers.co

Rose’s Flower Shop328 Buck Island Road, Bluffton843-757-6527

FORMAL WEAR

A Floral Affair20 Cardinal Road, Hilton Head800-898-0289afloralaffair.co

BleuBelle Bridal5500 Abercorn Street, #42, Savannah912-355-2502shopbleubelle.com

CCF Designs1253-A May river Road, Bluffton843-816-6165ccfdesigns.com

Chicas Bridal & Boutique1 Sherington Drive, Suite J, Bluffton843-837-2002chicasofhiltonhead.com

Island Child1000 William Hilton Parkway, Suite G-4, Hilton Head843-686-5437islandchild.com

Jos A Bank36 Shelter Cove Lane, #171, Hilton Head843-842-5200josabank.com

Lowcountry Bride & Gown59B Sheridan Park Circle, Bluffton843-338-0206lowcountrybrideandgown.com

The Porcupine1000 William Hilton Parkway, E4, Hilton Head843-785-2779porcupinestyle.com

FURNITURE/KITCHENWARE

Bleu Co.807 William Hilton Parkway843-341-2538bleucompanies.com

Bed Bath & Beyond1460 Fording Island Road, Bluffton843-836-2855bedbathandbeyond.com

J Banks Design Group35 N Main Street, Hilton Head843-681-5122jbanksdesign.com

Le Cookery of Hilton Head1000 William Hilton Parkway843-785-7171lecookeryusa.com

JEWELRY

Andrews Jewelers32 Office Park Road, #118, Hilton Head843-785-7661

The Bluffton Jewel Box1226 May River Road, Bluffton843-757-3722

Designs by Cleo843-342-7001

Forsythe Jewelers71 Lighthouse Road, #311, Hilton Head843-671-7070forsythejewelers.biz

The Goldsmith Shop 3 Lagoon Road, Hilton Head843-785-2538thegoldsmithshop.com

Golis Family Jewelers1008 Fording Island Road, #D, Bluffton843-815-4367golisjewlers.com

Heritage Fine Jewelry28 Shelter Cove Lane, Suite 114, Hilton Head843-689-2900heritagejewelershhi.com

Island Gold Works32 Palmetto Bay Road, Suite A-11, Hilton Head843-686-6001islandgoldworks.com

Ligato Fine Jewelry80 Baylor Drive, #106, Bluffton843-757-8865ligatosfinejewelry.co

Robert’s Village Jewelers1201 Main Street, Hilton Head843-681-5822

MUSIC & LIGHTING

A Sound Celebration114 Weston Court, Bluffton843-368-4140asoundcelebration.net

All About You Entertainment404 E Oglethorpe Ave, Savannah912-897-0518allaboutyoudjs.com

Deas-GuyzHilton Head843-246-2555deas-guyz.com

EastCoast Entertainment1039 Anna Knapp Blvd, Mt. Pleasant800-521-2007eastcoastentertainment.com

Crush EntertainmentHilton Head414-617-8916crushisland.com

Hilton Head EntertainmentP.O. Box 23554, Hilton Head843-689-3445hiltonheadentertainment.com

JLK Events484 Browns Cove Rd., Bluffton843-384-4748jlkevents.com

Moon River Productions317 Mill Pond Road, Bluffton877-238-0855moonriverproductions.com

Paramount Dance and Entertainment18 Oak Marsh Drive, Hilton Head843-683-2561



Ross Brown Productions301 Central Ave, Suite 226, Hilton Head843-342-5228rossbrownentertainment.com

Target, the BandHilton Head843-816-1090targetbandhh.com

Westwind Entertainment 83 Victory Square Drive, Hilton Head843-816-1090westwindentertainment.com

OFFICIANTS

Amenities Southern Style2300 Wilson Drive, Beaufort843-379-6099

Barefoot WeddingsHilton Head843-2470693barefootweddingshhi.com

Blaine Waller45 Queens Folly Road, Hilton Head843-686-3940

Creative Wedding Ceremonies60 Club Course Drive, Hilton Head717-873-4861creativeweddingsonhhi.com

Ilene Shiansky16 Pine Forest Drive, Bluffton843-384-1221123notary.com

Rev. Dr. David E. Leininger4 Indigo Lane, Hilton Head843-363-6161leinigers.com/weddings

Southern Weddings with StyleP.O. Box 23644, Hilton Head843-757-8400southernweddings.com

A Wedding by the Sea13 Fairway Drive, Bluffton843-342-3981

PHOTOGRAPHERS & VIDEOGRAPHERS

33 Park Photography843 William Hilton Parkway, Hilton Head843-682-2212

The 2654 Project94 Bridge Street, Bluffton 561-373-0809the2654project.com

Brackett Photography843 William Hilton Parkway, Hilton Head843-298-7427brackettphotography.com

Caroline HiltyHilton Head614-408-8062carolinehilty.com

Coastal Wedding Films17 Sherington Drive, Hilton Head843-298-7335coastalweddingfilms.co

Evangelista A-Z CreativeHilton Head843-304-3356cathyevangelista.net

Flory Photography98 Jib Sail Court, Hilton Head843-384-3322floryphotography.co

Hilton Head Island Photography17 Executive Park Road, Suite 4, Hilton Head843-683-6883hiltonheadislandphotography.com

Hilton Head Video, Mike RitterbeckHilton Head843-338-1935hitonheadvideo.com

Island Photography by Susan McCann54 Crosswinds Drive, Hilton Head843-342-2296mccannphotography.com

Island Photo Place30 Matthews Drive, #115, Hilton Head843-290-5766islandphotoplace.com

IWL110 Arrow Road, Hilton Head843-785-6565iwlphoto.com

J&J Silver Photography and Video Productions37 Trotting Hill Lane, Bluffton 843-271-2754

Jackson Productions (video)24 Old S Court, #D, Bluffton843-757-7083

Kaufman Photography 33 Office Park Road, #A-252, Hilton Head843-837-9993kaufmanphotography.com

Kellie McCann181 Bluffton Road, Ste F 103, Bluffton843-338-0843kelliemccann.com

Kreative Productions119 Rachelle Court, Brunswick843-290-5920kreativedigitalproductions.com

Main Event Video Productions1 Baldwin Lane. Hilton Head843-363-5575maineventvideo.com

Mark Staff Photography61 Widewater Road, Hilton Head843-689-5270markstaffphotography.com

Memory Lane Portraits71 Lighthouse Road, Hilton Head843-363-6600memorylaneportraits.com

Michael Stothard Photography21 Barnacle Road, Hilton Head404-202-0963michaelstothard.com

Hopkins Studios912-308-7057hopkinsstudios.com

Photography by Anne, Inc.photographybyanne.com

Photography by Michele27 Hobonny PI, Hilton Head843-247-0361photographybymichelem.com

Photos by Ruthe5 Bear Island Road, Hilton Head843-338-4007photosbyruthe.com

Picture this Photography78D Arrow Road, Hilton Head843-842-5299picturethishiltonhead.com

RIM Photography631-8 Promenade Place, Columbia803-622-4054rimphotography.com

Ross Brown Productions301 Central Ave, Suite 226, Hilton Head843-342-5228rossbrownentertainment.com

Shot by Roxy Photography1006 Highway 80, Tybee Island912-786-7747roxifystudio.com

Snemoo ProductionsHilton Head843-301-7714snemoo.com

Vitor Lindo Photo & VideoSavannahvitorlindoweddings.com310-913-7054

W Photography23 Squiresgate Road, Hilton Head843-304-3885wphotographyhiltonhead.com

RECEPTION & CEREMONY SITES

Advanced Sail/Pau Hana & Flying Circus Catamaran86 Helmsman Way, Hilton Head843-686-2582hiltonheadsailing.com

The Beach House Holiday Inn Oceanfront1 South Forest Beach Drive, Hilton Head843-548-4995beachhousehhi.com

Belfair Country Club200 Belfair Oaks Blvd, Bluffton843-757-0701belfair1811.com

Berkeley Hall366 Good Hope Road, Bluffton843-815-8494berkeleyhallclub.com

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Callawassie Island Club176 Callawassie Island Drive, Callawassie Island843-987-2125callawassieisland.com

Colleton River Plantation Club60 Colleton River Drive, Bluffton843-836-4400colletonriverclub.com

Country Club of Hilton Head70 Skull Creek Drive, Hilton Head843-681-2582clubcorp.com

Dolphin Head Golf Club56 High Bluff Road, Hilton Head843-681-5550dolphinheadgc.com

Dunes House14 Dunes House Lane, Hilton Head843-686-9646palmettodunes.com

The Golf Club at Indigo Run101 Berwick Drive, Hilton Head843-689-3500clubcorp.com

Haig Point ClubDaufuskie Island, SC843-341-8199haigpoint.com

Hampton Hall Club170 Hampton Hall Blvd, Bluffton843-815-8730hamptonhallclubsc.com

Hampton Lake20 Hampton Lake Drive, Bluffton843-836-5253hamptonlake.com

Harbour Town Yacht Club149 Lighthouse Road, Hilton Head843-671-1400htyc.com

The Heritage Collection10 Clubhouse Drive, Hilton Head843-689-4653hiltonheadgolf.net

Hilton Head Beach & Tennis40 Folly Field Road, Hilton Head800-475-2631hhibeachandtennis.com

Hilton Head Marriott Resort and Spa 1 Hotel Circle, Hilton Head843-686-8400marriott.com

Honey Horn Plantation843-689-6767coastaldiscovery.org

Holiday Inn Express Bluffton35 Bluffton Road, Bluffton843-757-2002

Kitty’s Touch of EleganceBeaufort843-379-7120kittystouchofelegance.com

Long Cove Club399 Long Cove Drive, Hilton Head843-686-1070longcoveclub.org

Moss Creek Clubhouse1523 Fording Island Road, Hilton Head843-785-6182mosscreek-hiltonhead.com

Oldfield River ClubOldfield Way, Okatie843-645-4600oldfield1732.co

Oldfield Country Club10 Oldfield Way, Okatie843-645-4622oldfield1732.co

Omni Oceanfront Resort & XO Lounge23 Ocean Lane, Hilton Head843-341-8080omnihotels.com

Palmetto Dunes4 Queens Folly Road, Hilton Head888-322-9126palmettodunes.com

Sea Pines Country Club30 Governors Road, Hilton Head843-671-2345seapinescountryclub.com

Sea Pines Resort32 Greenwood Drive, Hilton Head843-785-3333seapines.com

Seaquins Ballroom1300 Fording Island Road, Bluffton

843-837-6161seaquinsballroom.com

September Oaks Vineyards893 Grays Highway, Ridgeland843-726-9463septemberoaks.com

Shore House23 Ocean Lane, Hilton Head843-842-8000omnihotels.com

Sonesta Resort Hilton Head130 Shipyard Drive, Hilton Head843-842-2400sonesta.com

Spanish Wells Club1 Brams Point Road, Hilton Head843-681-2819spanishwellsclub.com

South Carolina Yacht Club10 Yacht Club Drive, Hilton Head843-681-4844scyachtclub.com

Vagabond Cruise149 Lighthouse Road, Hilton Head843-363-9026vagabondcruise.com

The Wedding Place19 Professional Village Circle, Beaufort843-322-0044theweddingplace.com

The Westin Hilton Head Island Resort & Spa2 Grasslawn Avenue, Hilton Head843-681-4000westinhhi.com

Wexford Plantation 111 Wexford Club Drive, Hilton Head843-686-8810wexfordplantation.com

Windows on the Waterway12 Capital Drive, Hilton Head843-689-7526wecelebrateyou.com

RENTALS

Affairs to Remember154 Beach City Road, Hilton Head843-342-9338affairstorememberhhi.com

Amazing Event Rentals352 Argent Blvd, Bluffton843-837-5090amazingeventrentals.com

Classic Party Rentals2 Coastal Drive, Bluffton 843-837-5090classicpartyrentals.com

Savannah Special Events by Ranco1200 West Bay Street, Savannah912-944-2297rancotents.com

SALONS, SPAS & BEAUTY

All About Me32 Palmetto Bay Road, A13, Hilton Head843-785-2558allaboutmehhi.com

Bride's Side Beauty843-368-2660bridessidebeauty.com

Diva Styles4 Matthews Court, Hilton Head843-681-3482

FACES DaySpaThe Village at Wexford D1, Hilton Head843-785-3075facesdayspa.com

FACES Lash StudioThe Village at Wexford B1, Hilton Head843-785-LASHfaceslashstudio.com

Fringe Hilton Head38 New Orleans Road, Hilton Head843-785-7400fingehiltonhead.co

The Hair DesignersThe Village at Wexford F1, Hilton Head843-686-4247thehairdesigners.net

Heavenly Spa by Westin2 Grasslawn Ave, Hilton Head843-681-1019westinhiltonheadspa.com

Le Spa of Hilton Head71 Lighthouse Road #613, Hilton Head843-363-6000lespahiltonhead.com

Maui Whitening Salon37 New Orleans Rd, Suite BHilton Head, Orleans Plaza843-715-3038

Salon Karma12 State of Mind, #100, Bluffton843-757-5762salonkarmasc.com

The Sanctuary Euro Spa32 Palmetto Bay Road, Hilton Head843-842-5999sanctuaryeurospa.com

The Sonesta- Arum Spa130 Shipyard Drive, Hilton Head843-341-2786sonesta.com/hiltonheadisland

Terra’s Style Studio2 Marshland Road, Hilton Head843-682-4247

TRANSPORTATION

Diamond Transportation18 Hunter Road, Suite #3, Hilton Head843-247-2156hiltonheadrides.com

K Shuttle2788 US-80, Savannah877-243-2050kshuttle.com

Meeting Dynamics, Inc5 Enterprise Lane, Hilton Head843-681-6950meetingdynamics.com

Palmetto Transportation843-683-4279palmettotransportation.com

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