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April 2018 Number 436
THE FOOLISHNESS OF GOD
“We have seen the Lord!” As Christ’s disciples heard
those words on that Easter Sunday morning some two-
thousand years ago, it must have seemed like a really
bad April Fools’ Joke. (Okay, I know that they didn’t
observe April Fools’ Day in first-century Palestine, but
just go with me.) Or, perhaps, using modern lingo, at
hearing the proclamation that Jesus was alive, they
might have tweeted out: “Fake News!” (Sorry, couldn’t
resist.) How could anyone have possibly believed the
report from Mary Magdalene and the other women that
they had seen Jesus? Hadn’t the whole of Jerusalem
witnessed his death just a few days earlier? Hadn’t they
seen with their own eyes as his dead body was laid in
Joseph of Arimathea’s tomb? It’s no wonder that Luke
24:11 reports that “these words seemed to [the
disciples] an idle tale, and they did not believe them.”
April Fools’ indeed.
Of course, we know that it was certainly not a joke.
Jesus really was raised from the dead. While many have
tried to explain away the veracity of the resurrection,
their theories fail to convince–Jesus really died (he
didn’t swoon) and no one of his motley band of
followers was either brave or clever enough to fight off
a guard of Roman soldiers to steal the body. Nor were
the women hallucinating at what they witnessed. No,
Jesus was alive! He was not there; for he had risen, just
as he said. The stone was rolled away and the tomb was
empty. No joke.
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MEET BRYAN COOPER
As of March 1, 2018, Bryan Cooper heads PVN as
Executive Director. The Village Bugle welcomes him,
and appreciates his interest in the Bugle, both past and
current issues.
Bryan brings a wealth of experience and skill to the
table. He is a graduate of Brigham Young University in
Business Management, with an emphasis on Finance.
His career includes experience with Bank of America in
Arizona and Wells Fargo in Illinois. A career change to
Healthcare Administration came next. He and his family
moved to Abilene, Texas, and from there to Dallas,
where he became head of his company’s largest
acquisition, Golden Acres. He then was CEO at the
Forum at Park Lane for four years before being
recruited by Presbyterian Communities and Services to
head up PVN.
Bryan also shared who he is by giving us a sketch of
his background, a semi-rural upbringing and a close
family. He was born in Idaho Falls, Idaho, the first in a
family of four children. He says he had two childhoods,
one in town and one on his grandparents’ farm. The two
lessons he learned from this dual childhood were One,
how to work and Two, the importance of a college
education. He spent lots of time outdoors, worked to
help raise wheat, barley, and alfalfa and to care for the
animals, especially the horses.
Continued on p. 3
Front to back: Landon, Bryan & Natalie, Garet,
Kalayna and Lydia Cooper
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THE VILLAGE BUGLE Presbyterian Village North
8600 Skyline Drive, Dallas, Texas 75243
Bryan Cooper, Executive Director
Mary Ann Hyde, Village Council President
THE VILLAGE BUGLE STAFF
Editor: Gary Carson
Editorial Board: Joyce Forney, Frank LaCava, Noel Pittman, Bill
Schilling, Mark Schweinfurth, Jim & Sally Wiley
Copy Editor: Sally Wiley
Assistant Copy Editor: Jim Wiley
Photography Editor: Joe Brockette
Reporters & Contributors: Pam Altizer , Barbara Baker,
Mary Jo Bourque, Jean Cheney, Loretta Dunbar, Joyce
Forney, Frank LaCava, Mary Langford, Nancy Miller, Craig
Millis, Judy Morris, Noel Pittman, Ken Rogers, Kathy Rotto,
Mark Schweinfurth, Jim Spell, Tom Standlee, Tom
Wilbanks, Jim Wiley
Photographers: Barbara Baker , Joe Brockette, Lar ry
Miller, Joy Upton
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Proofreaders: Ruth Maier , Nancy Miller , Dolores Rogers,
Bill Schilling, Shirley Scott
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Droke
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named Hoblitzelle House in honor of the generous
contributions made by that foundation. Hoblitzelle
also had a great interest in the preservation of
Texas history.
In 1889 Anthony Garland Adair was born in
Queen City, Texas. He graduated from the U. of
Texas in 1914, edited several Texas newspapers,
and served in the military in World War I. He and
his wife had a son and two daughters. A. Garland
Adair had a great interest in Texas history and a
passion for assuring that young people had
opportunity to learn about leaders and heroes of the
past. It was this shared passion that forged a strong
friendship between Hoblitzelle and Adair.
Together they founded the non-profit Texas
Heritage Foundation, for the promotion of Texas
culture; Adair became Executive Director. He was
instrumental in building the Texas Memorial
Museum in Austin, where he was curator for many
years. He had many other titles, one of which was
Life Member of the Sons of the Republic.
Somehow, the Daughters of the Republic came
into possession of a brick that was part of the outer
wall of the Alamo. That group thought it only
fitting that such a relic should be given to one who
would recognize its value. And so it came about,
with Karl Hoblitzelle’s encouragement, that the
brick was presented to his friend A. Garland Adair.
Before his death, Adair had several small pieces
cut from the larger stone and mounted on small
plaques, some of which were signed by
Hoblitzelle. One stone piece he gave to his
daughter Marie, now Mrs. Mat Mathieu. When the
Mathieus moved into the Villas last year, they
donated the stone to PVN to be placed in
Hoblitzelle House. Part of the presentation
message on one of the plaques reads, “We present
to you the Crown Jewel of Texas, a fragment of a
stone from the Alamo, ‘Cradle of Texas Liberty.’”
Mary Langford
ALAMO STONE
Sitting in a dark safe somewhere on the PVN
campus is a small, square stone described as the
“Texas Crown Jewel.” What is its story and how
did it come to be at PVN? The answers to these
questions reside in a review of a very important
event in Texas history, PVN’s own history, and in
the lives of two PVN residents.
All Texans know that on March 6, 1836, in the
war for Texas independence from Mexico, 182
brave men died defending the Alamo. Established
by Franciscan Fathers in 1718 as the first Spanish
mission in San Antonio, the Alamo fell under the
onslaught of Santa Ana’s Mexican army on that
infamous day in early spring.
Forty-three years later, in 1879, Karl
Hoblitzelle was born in St. Louis, Missouri, one of
thirteen children. There was no money for college,
so Karl worked at various jobs until 1904, when he
and a brother bought several vaudeville theaters.
These theaters would later become the chain of
Interstate Movie Theaters. Karl Hoblitzelle went
on to become a real-estate investor and a well-
known philanthropist in Dallas. The Hoblitzelle
Foundation, which he founded in 1942, has aided
in the establishment of many Dallas institutions,
including the U. of Texas Southwest Medical
Center. Probably not known to many PVN
residents, one of our rehabilitation facilities is
Marie Mathieu
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I will grant you, however, that the message
was (and still is, by the way) utter foolishness, at
least according to the wisdom of the world. Paul
says as much himself in the opening chapter of 1
Corinthians. It does seem foolish that an all-
powerful, sovereign God would allow himself to
become a man and experience death, especially
death on a cross. And it seems even more foolish
to then say that this God-man was subsequently
resurrected after being dead for three days, just as
he predicted in the first place. One would have to
be foolish to believe such things, and Paul says we
are. But, in Christ, “the foolishness of God is wiser
than men” and “for the message of the cross is
foolishness to those who are perishing, but to us
who are being saved it is the power of God.” If this
is foolishness, then it is the good kind; the kind of
foolish we should want to be (much different from
what we’ve been discussing in our Ecclesiastes
Bible Study here at PVN!). To believe in the
message of the cross and to follow Jesus with our
lives may mean that we are to be counted as
foolish by those who do not know God. But, do
not be ashamed, for many called Jesus a fool also.
Christian musical artist Michael Card wrote a
song entitled “God’s Own Fool” for his 1985
album Scandalon. On this Easter Sunday, as it falls
on April Fools’ Day, may the chorus of that song
serve as an appropriate reminder of what we
celebrate as Christians:
So we follow God’s own fool
For only the foolish can tell
Believe the unbelievable,
And come be a fool as well.
Happy Easter to all fools young and old. May God
bless you and your families.
Rev. Brent Ashby
THE FOOLISHNESS OF GOD continued
He describes himself as “an avid soccer player
in high school.” He then served in a two-year
church mission to Argentina where he learned to
speak Castellano, which is a form of Spanish.
Shortly after returning home and starting college,
he met his wife, Natalie, during his Freshman year.
They married and began their family, with the
oldest two children Lydia, now sixteen, and Garet,
now fifteen, whom they reared while still
undergraduates. Two more children: Kalayna, now
twelve, and Landon, now ten, followed. Lydia, a
junior in high school, teaches piano and dances.
Garet is a freshman and plays tennis and soccer
and is active in Boy Scouting.
The family enjoys time outdoors hiking and
boating, as well as family time playing board
games or watching movies. All enjoy playing
sports. The two oldest children accompanied their
parents on a trip to help victims of Hurricane
Harvey in Beaumont. Bryan has served in youth
leadership for the 12- and 13-year-old boys in their
church.
When asked what he brings to PVN, Bryan
doesn’t hesitate to answer “a culture of kindness,
charity, and love.” He says that the way service is
delivered at PVN “really sets us apart.” His stated
goal is “to improve the process to make living here
a little more efficient, effective, and full of life”.
We welcome Bryan Cooper as a new but
continuing link in the PVN tradition and culture.
Judy Morris
MEET BRYAN COOPER continued
PICTURE FROM THE PAST
Age 15,
Sophomore in
high school in
Salt Lake City
DALLAS SYMPHONY CONCERTS
Arrangements for the Dallas Symphony package
have been finalized and interest is very high.
Residents who have not already signed up or those
who would like to learn about the concerts
selected and some interesting facts that may
enhance your enjoyment of the package are invited
to a brief address by Frank LaCava in the Corrigan
Auditorium on April 5, at 2:30 pm. Jena Tunnell
from the Group Sales Department of the DSO will
be present to inform residents about how they may
purchase tickets for concerts not in the package.
Details about billing and transportation will be
discussed and residents will have the opportunity
to ask questions.
Frank LaCava
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The Board of Trustees is composed of nine voting
members, eight of whom are PVN residents, and is
supported by seven Ex-Officio members. This
talented group manages the Foundation’s
investments of approximately forty million dollars,
which have come from generous donors and
prudent investments. Voting members serve for
three years, with the possibility of reelection to a
second three-year term. Each year the Nominating
Committee makes recommendations for the
election of new members. An individual elected to
the Board as a Trustee for two consecutive three-
year terms is ineligible for reelection for one year
before qualifying for reelection.
Billye Miars – Chair of the Board, and the
Executive Committee
The longest serving Chairman, Billye is finishing
the last year of her third term. In 2009, at the
urging of Don Leonard, she became the first
woman Chair in the Foundation’s history. In
addition to a career in banking, Billye and her
husband operated Miars Car Care Center for
thirty-five years. A resident of PVN since 2003,
Billye has served on numerous committees, in
addition to serving as Village Council President.
She confers with PVNF staff on the day-to-day
operations of the Foundation, and oversees Board
committee meetings.
Frank LaCava – Board Vice Chair
New to the PVNF Board in 2018, Frank is a
graduate of the Eastman School of Music and
served as principal trumpet and soloist for the Air
Force Band during the Korean War. He completed
his Master’s in Music Education at Florida State,
then taught as a school band director in Texas
City. He pursued a Doctorate in Educational
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Psychology at the U. of Houston and later received
his counseling certification, screening and testing
students for admission to Special Education. He
took a three-year detour working for a regional
brokerage firm in San Antonio as a technical
analyst in the research department. Frank returned
to education, working as Director of Guidance and
Counselling for Alamo Heights School District.
Now, fully engaged and invested in our
community, Frank serves on the Editorial Board of
The Village Bugle, on the Chautauqua Committee,
and manages the DSO symphony program for
residents. He also serves on the Investment and
Nominating Committees.
Dolores Rogers -- Board Treasurer and Chair
of the Audit Committee
New to the PVNF Board in 2018, Dolores is a
graduate of The U. of Texas at Austin with a BA
and MA in Mathematics. After teaching
mathematics, primarily at Hockaday and Greenhill,
she became a CPA and joined Republic National
Bank in the Energy Division as a lending officer.
As Senior Vice President she managed Republic’s
agent role in the largest litigation and bankruptcy
cases at that time. Following a successful
settlement, Dolores became a consultant to
attorneys, providing expert-witness testimony. She
formed her own firm, The Rogers Alliance, which
later merged with PricewaterhouseCoopers. Prior
to her election as a Trustee, Dolores served as a
consultant to the PVNF ad hoc Committee on asset
reporting. Dolores serves on the Investment,
Planning and Budget, Audit, and Nominating
Committees.
Jim Wiley – Board Secretary, and Chair of the
Planning and Budget Committee serving in his
Back: Joe Roach, Jim Wiley, Brent Ashby, Don Powers, Bob Maier
Middle: Karen Gooding, Bob Symon, Frank LaCava, Margaret Ann Thetford, Cynthia Floyd, Margaret Zagurski
Front: Pat Mills, Dolores Rogers, Billye Miars, Kathy Smith, Bill Austin
Not Pictured: Bryan Cooper, Kyle Hobin, Erik Vohtz
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second term as Secretary, Jim holds a Fellowship
in the American Institute of Architects and a
Bachelor of Architecture from Texas Tech U. He
was the Principal-in-Charge for the Oglesby Group,
architects for the master plan and the first buildings
at PVN. Jim’s experience in design and
construction is invaluable to the Foundation,
especially when evaluating the funding of grants,
particularly those involving construction. Jim also
serves as the Assistant Copy Editor of The Bugle.
Cynthia Floyd – Investment Committee Chair
New to the PVNF Board in 2018, Cynthia is the one
nonresident voting Trustee. She is Manager,
Employee Benefit Fund Investments for Texas
Instruments, overseeing a portfolio of more than $5
billion. A second-generation TI employee, she has
worked there 30 years, including assignments in
Malaysia and India. Cynthia received her
bachelor’s degree at The U. of Texas at Austin and
her Master’s degree from The U. of Texas at Dallas.
She is a licensed CPA.
Pat Mills – Nominating Committee Chair
Serving in her second term, Pat, PVN’s Librarian,
managed some of Dallas’ most prestigious
bookstores for more than 30 years. Pat’s
background fit perfectly with PVN’s need for
improved cataloging procedures. With a friend, Pat
published a Mystery newspaper, Mostly Murder,
that was distributed worldwide. Pat holds a BA
degree from SMU.
Dr. Joe Roach is serving in his four th term
on the Board, having held positions as Vice
Chairman and Treasurer in past years. Joe evaluates
grant requests for the Planning and Budget
Committee. A pediatrician in private practice in
Dallas for fifty years, Joe holds a BA in Chemistry
and Math from Baylor U. and MD from
Southwestern Medical School, Class of 1945. Dr.
Roach is a founding member of Preston Hollow
Presbyterian Church.
Margaret Ann Thetford is serving in her
second term. Margaret Ann is a published author,
columnist, and experienced public speaker who
wrote for the Dallas Morning News for more than a
decade. She writes for The Bugle, and has served
as assistant editor. A sixth-generation Texan,
Margaret Ann is a founding member of Trinity
Episcopal Church and holds a BA from The U. of
Texas at Austin.
Erik Vohtz is serving in his third term. Erik’s
past positions include Board Chairman and
Secretary. Born in Copenhagen, Denmark, Erik was
CEO of Haldor Topsoe Inc. for 35 years. He
CELEBRATE ARBOR DAY
Trees are almost a part of the PVN signature. For
many of us, the trees and walkways were part of
the attraction to move here. And trees don’t come
cheap. The estimated replacement value of our
trees hovers around $2,500,000. Maintenance runs
a tall tab, too; when one thinks of the watering,
fertilizing, and leaf-raking costs, one can see that a
high-rise facility without acres of green around it
would be much less costly to operate.
For photos of this campus in its infancy, stop
by the Administrator’s office and look at the
photos on the wall; early pictures show saplings
on my street and only an occasional mature tree
elsewhere. And what do we get in return for our
work and treasure? A habitat for creatures and
birds; better air to breathe as they absorb carbon
dioxide and put back oxygen, not to mention their
cooling effect in summertime; and the beauty of
the endless varieties of shapes, forms, and
textures.
Small wonder that Arbor Day has been
celebrated since 1872 when the state of Nebraska,
where trees provided vital windbreaks, declared
Arbor Day to be April 10. Many other countries
observe the holiday in the spring because that’s
the best time for planting trees.
So enjoy the shade and the relatively dust-free
air and the chirping of our feathered friends as you
walk the paths at PVN. And celebrate Arbor Day,
which in 2018 will be on April 27.
Joyce Forney
holds an MS degree in Mechanical Engineering
from Denmark’s Technical U. and completed
studies in Nuclear Engineering at Rensselaer
Polytechnic. Erik has experience in design,
construction engineering, and finance. He was
heavily involved in building his church in
Houston.
Ex Officio Board Members are PVN Executive
Director, Bryan Cooper; PVN Village Council
Treasurer, Don Powers; Assistant Director of
Spiritual Life, Brent Ashby; Joyce Hall Resident
Council President, Kathy Smith; Resident
Representative for Health Care Unit, Bill Austin;
PVNF Executive Director, Margaret Zagurski; and
PVNF Executive Director-Resident Relations,
Karen Gooding. Also serving the Board are
Honorary Trustee, Kyle Hobin, and Advisors, Bob
Maier and Bob Symon.
Contributed by Karen Gooding
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SPOTLIGHT ON PAT PITTMAN
“Good things come in small
packages,” is a saying we
have all heard, and Pat
Pittman is truly one of
them. She weighed just two
pounds at birth! She said she
fit in a shoe box, and a
dresser drawer was her first
bed. She was born in Fort Worth, the oldest of four
children, but grew up in Hurst.
Pat’s life has had many twists and turns, but
with her wonderful smile, her lovely singing voice,
and her sewing ability, along with the three bones
every woman needs to make it through life: a
backbone, a wishbone, and a funny bone, she
arrived at PVN when she married Noel on July 18,
2009, and has never looked back.
Pat is the mother of three children; Noel has
three children, and together they share twelve
grandchildren and thirteen great grandchildren. In
their living room is a very special watercolor
painting of Pat’s five granddaughters in white
smocked nightgowns, handmade by Pat, (painted
by PVN’s Charles Ferguson) that caught my eye.
It led me to ask what sewing project she is most
proud of. She said it had to be the black tailored
jacket, blouse, and both long and short skirts she
pored over years ago and still wears. Presently, she
enjoys making children’s costumes and showed
me the Jesus Robe she had just finished. She also
enjoys beading, but said with a smile, “the Sew &
Sews’ bears now take up most of my time.”
Pat shares her beautiful voice by singing in
their Highlands Christian Church and our PVN
choirs. She said she used to walk and sing for an
hour every morning to strengthen her voice. Pat is
the Chairwoman of her church’s Board, and also is
on the Board of the White Rock Center of Hope on
Garland Rd. This center has a resale shop and a
clothes closet for the community, and offers
emergency financial assistance. Bill Cox is one of
their volunteers from PVN.
I began with a saying and I want to end with
one that I feel applies to Pat Pittman: “Don‘t spend
your time, invest it.” Pat certainly does invest her
time where it benefits many people within and
outside our community. Mother Teresa said: “Not
all of us can do great things. But we can do small
things with great love.”
Kathy Rotto
BUILD IT AND THEY WILL COME
We took down all the old metal houses for the
martins because they were too close to trees,
broken, bent, and dangerous. We put up four
beautiful three-inch-square aluminum poles around
our lake. Each pole has twelve Purple Martin
plastic gourds. Each gourd has fourteen inches of
nest space inside.
We have been waiting and praying that our
martins would return from Brazil and nest in their
new housing. Well, we built it, and they came, and
they continue coming. On February 27, 2018, we
saw several martins. Many more have arrived and
have been choosing the perfect gourd for their
mate.
Please take a walk around the west side of the
lake and enjoy our feathered friends. If you'd like
to drive, you can park in the area where Bugle
Drive and Brush Arbor meet and watch the birds
from there. The bus goes by there and I'm sure
Aubrey or John would stop so you can watch the
action.
It's very common for the martins to be here
early in the morning and late in the afternoon.
They eat insects, and are superb fliers. Martins can
easily spend four to five hours a day on the wing
in search of insects or just plain enjoying the
thermals. Once fed, they will return to the site, sit,
and preen themselves.
Your Purple Martin caregivers are very
thankful to the PVN Foundation for their generous
gift of new equipment for our birds. Everyone
please enjoy the martins now. They leave around
the end of August.
Sue Standlee
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TEN SIMPLE STEPS TO A HEALTHIER YOU
1. Jump start your metabolism—eat breakfast.
Include lean protein, whole grains, fruit (better
choice than juice) and some low-fat dairy. A
healthy breakfast should start your day.
2. Keep a bottle of water handy. Sometimes thirst
is mistaken for hunger. Make sure hunger is
hunger and not thirst. Also, dehydration lowers
your metabolism.
3. For lunch, add fresh fruits and veggies to add
crunch and fiber. This will provide vitamins,
fiber, texture, color, and lower-calorie options.
4. Exercise revs up your metabolism, so start with
morning exercise to get your metabolism going
and exercise throughout the day to keep it
going.
5. Choose healthy fats. Avocado, olive oil, and
nuts have heart-healthy fats. Remember your
total fat intake is important. Keep it low.
6. Eat more complex carbohydrates. Make at least
half your grains high-fiber ones. Cut back on
the simple carbohydrates like sugar and sweets,
which are empty calories with little or no
nutrient value. Simple carbohydrates are
metabolized quickly and you will soon be
hungry again. Fill your plate with fruits,
vegetables, and whole grains.
7. Eat more fish. Foods high in Omega 3 fatty
acids can lower your cholesterol and help
prevent heart disease and some cancers.
Salmon, other fish, nuts and healthy oils such
as olive oil and canola oil are good sources of
Omega 3 fatty acids. Have fish at least twice a
week.
8. Get enough sleep. The hormone leptin is
produced in your fat cells and signals when you
are full. The hormone ghrelin is produced in
your gastrointestinal tract and stimulates your
appetite. When you don’t get enough sleep,
leptin decreases and ghrelin increases. Eating
doesn’t satisfy, and your appetite increases,
which leads to weight gain.
9. Sit up straight. Good posture allows your food
to settle and helps you feel full faster.
10. Balance your diet with fruits, vegetables, whole
grains, and lean proteins, as well as low-fat
dairy and healthy fats. Limit the high-calorie
low-nutrient foods such as desserts and sugary
beverages.
Jean C Cheney, MS, RD, LD
Concluding segment of Loretta Dunbar’s work in the
1960’s as personal secretary to Mr. Stanley Marcus.
Mr. Marcus once said, "If I had it to do over
again, I would be an archaeologist." There must be
thousands of shoppers worldwide who are happy he
gave up that notion.
Although he didn't have a hand in the actual
digging, he did manage to acquire an enviable
number of Pre-Columbian terracotta pieces, which
he displayed in a designated area of the master
library. Across from the terracotta collection stood a
selection of carved wooden artifacts from Africa,
and masks from around the world hung in an
adjacent room. While he was conjuring up fashions
for the future, he was also collecting relics of the
past.
It took me several weeks to grasp the enormous
number of collections that surrounded me. The first
time I went to a powder room, I found laminated to
the walls and ceiling a collection of twenty color
lithographs by Henri Matisse, Jr.. I discovered a
selection of Picasso ceramic plates in a toilet on the
ground level, and an original Dali hung in a third
powder room. Nevertheless, there was a feeling of
warmth about the house―not the sort of sterile,
hushed feeling you get in a formal art gallery. I
discovered important art in the most remote nooks
and crannies. His collections were so tastefully
selected and displayed that I felt each piece was just
where it belonged. A short time into my assignment,
I was able to detect any rearrangement of hanging
art―or shifting of sculptures―almost upon entering
a room.
During that first summer, each day revealed new
hidden treasures. One day, while cleaning out a
desk drawer, I discovered correspondence files
filled with friendly notes from United States
Presidents, European Princesses, stage and screen
stars, literary friends, and living contemporary
artists. I suddenly found myself glad that I did not
know of all these things at the time of my job
interview. My awe and esteem for Mr. Marcus grew
daily; he had a remarkable knack for making one
feel relaxed when in his presence.
So, what do you give the man who has
everything? For Christmas 1966, I gave him a
limited-edition miniature etching entitled "Bearded
Man."
Stanley Marcus―Merchant Prince―died on
January 22, 2002, at the age of 96.
Loretta Dunbar
REMEMBERING MR. STANLEY continued
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Presbyterian Village North has the welcome mat
out for a new staff member, Marvin Fisher. Marvin
is the new PVN Human Resource Manager.
Human Resource Manager, as defined by the
Oxford Dictionary, is "a person responsible for the
department or organization that deals with the
hiring, administration, and training of staff.” A job
that calls for many hats, and Marvin will wear
every one of them very well.
Human resources is a perfect career for
Marvin. He grew up in Chicago, the youngest of
eleven children. At an early age he learned about
problems and solutions from his mother. His
mother was not going to allow the same mistakes
happen to him as happened to his siblings. If a
brother got lost during a circus trip, Marvin was
not allowed to go on circus trips. If his sister
twisted her ankle on a campout, Marvin was not
allowed to go on a campout.
Marvin attended Northern Illinois U. and
earned a degree in Broadcasting. But this career
choice soon took another road when he was hired
for a job in management. His enthusiasm for this
field is evident, as he discusses his work history.
Through the years, he has worked for some of the
largest retail companies in the country, including
Toys R Us and Steak ‘n Shake. In these and other
companies he honed the skills of a Human
Resource Manager. He loved the challenge of
identifying problems and working with employers
and management to solve them. Sometimes it was
a rule that had to be changed or an employee who
needed to be reassigned. With Marvin as the
manager, both parties came out of a disagreement
feeling that they had been heard and their needs
were satisfied.
Marvin was with Steak ‘n Shake in Dallas
when they wanted him to move to a management
position in a different city. Marvin decided he
couldn't move his wife, Della, and daughter
Shaneice again, especially since his daughter was
seeking her own career as a hair designer, and in
the process of opening her own business. It seemed
that the right decision was to seek a position here
in the DFW area.
NEW HR MANAGER MARVIN FISHER
APRIL CHAUTAUQUA
Most of us recall with great fondness the popular
entertainers Edgar Bergen and his alter egos
Charlie McCarthy and Mortimer Snerd. For the
period of twenty years from 1936-1956, they
regaled us with their unique brand of humor on
radio, television, and in movies. I remember
thinking of Charlie McCarthy almost as if he were
a real person with his own unique personality.
On April 17, the PVN Foundation is
sponsoring a program of a different genre sure to
bring back our memories of this outstanding
practitioner of the art of ventriloquism. Mark
Rubben will appear in our auditorium with his own
colorful cast of characters: a Jamaican Rasta-mon,
a fortune telling Swami, a longhaired Hippy, a
tattoo-clad Redneck, and two masks that transform
audience members into unforgettably hilarious
characters.
Marc appeared on the television show,
Accidentally Famous, which was filmed before a
live audience at the HBO/Aspen Comedy Festival.
He has also appeared on Comedy Central and
Showtime. He has headlined some of the top clubs
in Las Vegas and many prestigious Comedy Clubs
such as the Catch A Rising Star and The Improv as
well as at casinos and resorts all over the world.
Who among us doesn’t enjoy an evening of
laughter? This show is certain to delight. Be sure
to pick up your tickets at the Receptionist’s desk as
a full auditorium is expected.
Frank LaCava
When he learned that PVN was looking for a
Human Resource Manager, he knew he had found
the career change that was a fit for him. Moving
his focus to a retirement community was an easy
and exciting choice. His mother had moved to a
retirement community where she is very happy. He
saw how well the staff of PVN treated the
residents; he knew that this was exactly the type of
place where he wanted to be. Now he could offer
his new employer and employees all the skills he
had acquired through the years. If a change was
needed, he would work with both parties to come
to a solution where they would both know they
were being heard and the solution would be for the
good of both parties and the whole community.
Welcome Marvin Fisher to Presbyterian
Village North.
Mary Jo Bourque
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Can you remember a “Top Ten Song” from your
birth year? Mine is “Without A Song.” That’s
from a time when bread was just nine cents a loaf
and the Dow was at 240 points. It was in June,
four months before the “CRASH”. Whatever else
can I remember from 1929? Not much!
“Without a song the day would never end,
without a song the road would never bend,
When things go wrong a man ain’t got a
friend, without a song. I only know there
ain’t no love at all, Without a song.”
Those 1929 lyrics by Billy Rose and E. Elisen,
and music by Vincent Youmans, still enthrall and
satisfy me and instill a feeling of continuity and
joy enough to inspire me to sing along. That is
exactly what the music therapist achieves with the
“magic” of music. For even the most demented
and “alone” of patients will respond with joy and
inspiration to songs from their youth.
Dr. Oliver Sacks wrote Musicophilia, Tales of
Music and the Brain and in it he tells story after
story of treating people with profound dementias
from Parkinson’s and Alzheimer’s, to brain
traumas of all kinds with MUSIC. Music of all
kinds with rhythm are particularly effective in
treating Alzheimer’s dementias of loneliness and
rigidity by re-establishing “self” by recreating a
framework of place in time when the who, where,
when and what can be restored as one listens to
the remembered music from a long-forgotten place
in his or her brain. That place is still not exactly
known, but music and rhythm are retained long
after other times and events are lost. Music is
apparently stored early and has more permanence
than other thoughts. It is hard-wired by necessity
in our survival package. Every culture ever studied
has been found to make music and among the
oldest artistic objects are slender flutes, carved
from mammoth bone, some 50,000 years ago,
24,000 years before the cave paintings of Lascaux.
Sacks reports that: “Friedrich Nietzsche continued
MUSIC AND IDENTITY
to improvise at the piano long after he had been
rendered mute, demented, and partially paralyzed
by neurosyphilitis”. Or, as with Woody Geist,
“almost every memory was gone except for music,
which he can sing with gusto. He sang Somewhere
Over the Rainbow, but afterward did not remem-
ber he had sung it.”
To begin music therapy, all that is necessary
are an MP3 player and headphones and the record-
ed music from the patient’s youth. And it can give
a severely demented, even comatose, person new
energy. Music therapy is no luxury; in many cases
it’s an essential treatment by providing attention to
lonely patients with group drum-rhythm, group
singing, and an accompanist and even dancing to
help restore their feeling of identity and self-worth.
Such things can be provided at least for a time, and
they can be repeated again and again.
PVN’s Memory Care Unit at the new Terrace
facility provides a trained Memory Care Specialist
in Lillian Adrian, who manages the activities pro-
gram for a new forty-four-bed dementia care unit.
Our own Council President Mary Ann Hyde has
been instrumental in arranging for SMU Division
of Music Therapy students from the Meadows
School of the Arts to further their education this
year by holding twice-weekly therapy sessions for
PVN’s Arbor Place and Hillcrest House residents.
They will be supervised and will receive graded
credits toward their degrees. So I visited with Lesa
Smith, the Life Enrichment Manager, during a
scheduled one-hour student-teacher therapy ses-
sion, with eight Arbor Place residents and staff.
We all participated in singing and drumming while
our junior university student sang, strummed her
guitar, and played the piano. The object is to
transport the patient to a place of contentment and
joy. Our student sang liltingly!
PVN also retains Dr. Diana Kerwin, an Alzhei-
mer’s dementia-care specialist, who will be speak-
ing on May 17 at a luncheon in the Fun and Games
Room. Her subject will be titled, “The Latest Re-
search on the Cure.” (Reservations are required.)
Also, the Dallas Symphony Association, for
the 2018 Soluna Festival, will host a “music and
the brain” seminar with the U. of Texas South-
western Medical School on May 12 at 1:00 P.M. in
SMU’s Moody Performance Hall. Tickets are
available at “mydso.com/SOLUNA.”
Mark F. Schweinfurth Mark Rubben-April Chautauqua performer
10 Bugle April 2018
Some friends were discussing the musical, The
Music Man, and its imaginary location, River City.
Meredith Willson’s inspiration for that show came
from his hometown, Mason City, Iowa. But there
were lots of Iowa towns that might have been
River City. The Des Moines River flows through
my Iowa River City hometown, Ottumwa. The
idyllic days of my childhood there were a
generation or so later than the time of The Music
Man, but Ottumwa of the 1930s and 40s was alive
with the culture of Meredith Willson’s River City.
Sure enough, Ottumwa had a pool hall. One. It was
a place teen-age boys were mostly forbidden to
enter. Oh, there was worry in the public square
when the high school son of a local pastor was
seen entering the pool hall! Oh, my! Can you
imagine! Oh, we’ve got trouble, right here in River
City. “Trouble with a capital T and that rhymes
with P and that stands for pool!”
Each Thursday night in the summertime, there
was a band concert in Central Park. People in cars
parked around the bandstand and honked their
horns when they approved of a song. The featured
singer was a soprano, Ethel Johnson; but perhaps
the star of each Thursday evening was the local
magazine/cigar shop owner and whistler, Will
Lowery. His whistled tunes really got the horns to
honking.
My River City had a Memorial Park, where
there were picnics, ice-cream socials, softball
games, and church potlucks. I don’t recall a
“footbridge,” but odds are there may have been an
occasional starry night rendezvous there, anyway.
There was a local hamburger/soda shop, Ruth
Tasty’s. If you remember the hamburger/soda shop
in Happy Days, you’ll get the picture of Ruth
Tasty’s. It was the meeting place for lunch or for
after-school ice cream for the high school kids. A
few Ottumwa friends who sometimes visited Ruth
Tasty’s included Frog, Toad, Mouse, Ducky. And
Squeaky, Stinky, and Peachie. And the ever-
popular F-Man (Fat Man), F-Boy (Fat Boy), and
Tank. Bo, Gabby, Squib, and Hoot. And Cissna,
Willie, and Fern. Down the street, Gus
Sotoropolus had a shoeshine shop and Fang
Farrington sold newspapers on the corner.
There was a library at a prominent spot at the
edge of downtown, just across from Central Park.
Perhaps there was not a librarian named Marian
there, but the rest of it, other than the dancing, was
RIVER CITY
pretty much the same as The Music Man’s library.
In the days before Google, high schoolers
crowded the library to do their research for school
papers. And to maintain silence between laughs.
Ottumwa was an interconnected community
where a child’s indiscretion was known to his
mother before he got home; where passersby
greeted a favored physician with, “Hi, Doc;”
where parents went to youth dances to “spectate”,
and where the phones were busy the next morning
discussing who was dancing with whom.
Oh, there were patriotic parades, fireworks on
the Fourth of July, and speeches by the mayors.
Maybe there were about seventy-two fewer
trombones than seventy-six, but my River City
high school marching band could still light it up!
Here’s hoping “they’re marching still right
today!”
David Lodwick
THE BIRD THAT FLEW INTO THE WINDOW
We heard a thud on our picture window when a
small Mountain Chickadee flew into it. I went
outside, picked him up, straightened out his wings
and set him upright. He blinked, slowly closed his
eyes and toppled over. Afraid that he wouldn’t
make it through the night on our deck, I placed
him in a small open box.
Early the next morning he was alert but
making no attempt to fly. I turned the box on its
side and he flew to the deck railing. He remained
there for about thirty minutes as if looking for
someone, or perhaps he didn’t know what to do.
Suddenly he flew to the nearest pine tree and I
rushed out to see that he had found his mother
who was looking for him. He flapped his wings
and his mother spiraled the branches in the most
enthusiastic and joyful greeting I have ever seen.
As I watched the excitement of the reunion of
these two birds, I could not help thinking of the
shepherd when he found the lost sheep, or of the
father when the prodigal son returned home. I had
just witnessed God’s love first hand.
Craig Millis
Go to the ant, O sluggard:
consider her ways, and be wise.
Without having any chief,
officer, or ruler,
she prepares her bread in summer
and gathers her food in harvest.
Proverbs 6:6-7
11 Bugle April 2018
PVN residents and teammates can rest easy
knowing that security officers and resident
committee members work as a team dedicated to
everyone’s safety and security on this campus.
Safety and Security Committee chairman Howard
Wahl presented a detailed repor t r egarding the
committee’s work at the March Village Council
meeting. He introduced and thanked 2018
committee members representing all areas of
Independent Living: Joan McClure (Area 1000),
Dee Forrest and Mike Sherman (Area 1100),
Steve Penrose (Area 1200 with Howard Wahl),
Ellen Shambaugh (Building 2), Jerry
McSpadden (Building 4), Paul Wilson (Mar tins
Landing), and Sammie Wester (The Villas).
Village Council Bylaws state “The Safety and
Security Committee is responsible for reviewing
existing safety and security practices and
procedures, including transportation, and
recommending changes and improvements to the
Director of Facilities Services. The Committee
shall consult with concerned residents about safety
and security issues and participate with the
Director of Facility Services in developing
solutions.”
One concern brought to the committee’s
attention was confusion in telling 911 where the
caller lives. “911 does not care about our
apartment number or mailbox,” Howard said.
“Neither does the taxi driver or pizza delivery
driver.” They need the physical location address.
Ellen suggested providing small printed labels
with each building’s address to assist residents
calling 911. A subcommittee led by Ellen, with
Jerry, Leo Lee (former committee member), and
Sammie worked with Security Manager Dallas
Astler, Lisa Englander, and Heather Ashby to
get this done. Another committee project involves
having Dallas speak to each area to address
residents’ questions, concerns, and suggestions.
“Increased communication between residents
and security helps us reach our goal,” said Dallas.
“Questions get back to me through the committee,
then the committee talks to their area
representatives. Our primary goal is safety and
security. We want everyone, campus-wide, to be
as happy as possible.” Everyone includes 470
teammates and more than six hundred long-term
residents and short-term rehabilitation patients.
TEAMWORK ON SAFETY AND SECURITY
There are ten security teammates, including
Dallas. They are Lead Security Officer Mike
Bowen, Secur ity Officers Henry McClendon,
Roy Jordan, Angelo Lewis, Curtis Moore,
Akinkunmi Coker, Shaqualeya Hawthorne,
Josiah Cline, and Charles Foote. They cover the
campus 24/7. Two officers during each shift drive
either a security vehicle or golf cart, or patrol on
foot.
During 2017 the PVN Foundation approved a
grant for an additional outside-perimeter camera
system that would ensure that the entire PVN
community fence line could be monitored at night
for security breaches. The Foundation also
provided flashlight/nightlights to residents. The
newly updated Residents Information Guide
explaining what to do in emergencies was
distributed recently.
Howard said priorities for 2018 include
improving campus signage and 911 street address
recognition, interfacing with the Dallas Police,
continued smoke-detector inspection, smart tags
for gate access, and basement-garage emergency
telephones for Martins Landing.
Residents, be watchful. If you see something,
say something, and call PVN Security 214-355-
9111.
Nancy Miller
Henry McClendon Mike Bowen
Bradford Pear Blooms at PVN
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ANSWER TO PICTURE
FROM THE PAST
NEW TEAM TO FORM
At PVN, residents sometimes see an unmet need
and respond to it spontaneously. That was the case
in 2012 when a handful of residents realized that
many of their friends had never completed the
paperwork needed to express their wishes for care
near the end of life. There are six documents that
need to be in the hands of family and physician so
that, if a bad accident or a stroke or heart attack
robs you of the ability to think or speak, others
will be able to follow your wishes. We call them
our “End of Life Documents.”
Dr. Bill Brown, Pat Pittman, and Joyce
Forney had each exper ienced the care of a
spouse at the end of that person’s life. When
David Kerr and his wife moved into PVN, the
timing was ideal. David was willing to join the
team and he brought with him more than forty
years of experience as an estate planner. The
committee designed an invitation to residents to
attend a meeting on “End of Life Documents”, and
about fifty people showed up. Each was given
copies of the six documents, and their importance
was explained. Then they were invited to set up a
half-hour appointment with David and bring back
the documents all filled out. Those were the basis
for fresh documents that could be witnessed and/or
notarized as needed. When participants left the
private consultation, they took with them
documents ready to be copied and distributed to
family members and doctors.
Since 2012, this program has been delivered
five times and, thanks to the PVN Foundation and
the PVN Executive Director, the notaries on their
staffs were made available without charge. David
Kerr’s services were also free, which meant an
estimated 180 residents went home very happy.
Others on the team were witnesses: Pat Pittman,
Joyce Forney, Bill Brown, and (recently) Billie
Robinson and Ann Cottingham; notar ies
Connie Scott, Mary Fields, and Karen
Gooding; and document copies and PowerPoint
presentation by Bill Brown.
We now need to form a new team. You can
make a lasting gift to neighbors at PVN by
volunteering to serve on this team. If you’re
interested, call Joyce Forney or Pat Pittman.
Joyce Forney
AN ORDINARY DAY It was just an ordinary day, not unlike many days
here at PVN. I had wandered into the dining room
with Pam Davidson for the evening meal and
chanced to sit at a table with Susan and Corbet Bry-
ant. We were having a lively conversation about
horse racing, among other things. I had been wait-
ing for the completion of two dental implants and
likely became careless in thoroughly chewing some
beef brisket. All at once a bite of food started down
and suddenly stopped. I could not swallow, could
not breathe, and could not utter a sound. I quickly
grabbed Susan’s arm, and she immediately saw my
distress. Corbet recognized this just about simulta-
neously. He rushed around behind me, and being a
stout fellow, he lifted me out of my chair while
grabbing me around the middle. With clasped
hands he exerted upward pressure just beneath my
rib cage. This effort caused the piece of food to be
expelled from my throat, and once again I was able
to breathe. This quick action not only restored
breathing, but likely saved my life. When my voice
returned, I was able to speak only a quiet “thank
you” to Corbet. What more could be said or done
after such an experience? There are no adequate
words.
This story is related here as a cautionary tale.
Be careful eating, and be aware of others when din-
ing with them. Let’s also remember the lessons
about the Heimlich Maneuver; it can be, and was, a
lifesaver.
Jim Spell
Betty
Rogers
Jim Spell and Corbet Bryant