April 12-How To Renegotiate Work So You Can Get a Life

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Get a Life! How to Renegotiate Your Work, So You Can Have a Life Rebecca Ryan 1 Tuesday, April 12, 2011

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Thanks to The Network for hosting me today. Here are slides from my breakout, “How to renegotiate work so you can get a life.”Enjoy!Rebecca RyanTwitter: ngcrebeccaEmail: [email protected]

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Get a Life! How to Renegotiate Your Work, So You Can Have a Life Rebecca Ryan

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Things You’ll Need To Max This ‘Cast

Your mobile phone (for texting to polls)

A clear head, or ability to focus

A dose of honesty with yourself

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Reflection: Why are you here?

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You deserve a big life and a great career

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But your boss doesn’t owe it to you.

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Who’s your boss?

Gordon Gekko Michael Scott Herb Kelleher

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Even the most accommodating bosses believe that work-life balance is your problem to solve. In fact, most know that there are really just a handful of effective strategies to do that, and they wish you would use them.

Jack Welch

God to CEO’s

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How can you renegotiate work around your priorities?

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4 Steps

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Step 1: “Know Thyself”

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Unless one knows how to lead one's self, it would be presumptuous for anyone to be able to lead others effectively.

Jagdish ParikhHarvard Business School

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What are you really trying to achieve, that requires renegotiation?

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Poll: What’s your top priority (be honest...)

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New family situation

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New realization about your career

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New hobby

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Are you the kind of employee who deserves renegotiation?

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Molly got a special deal at workCuz she works darn hardAnd makes NGC look great.

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How can I develop into “that kind” of person?

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Focus on outcomes.

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No one gets promoted for checking email.

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Guard your time.

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4 Steps to Renegotiate Your Work

Know thyself

Get your “home team” on board

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“Honey, I’m thinking of running for President...”

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4 Steps to Renegotiate Your Work

Know thyself

Get your “home team” on board

Design your plan

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Your plan should include

What your boss can expect from you

What you’d like from your boss

A longer-term look...

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4 Steps to Renegotiate Your Work

Know thyself

Get your “home team” on board

Design your plan

Pitch your boss

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Key phrases to use with your boss

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I’ve been thinking a lot about my future with this organization, and I have a proposal I’d like you to consider...

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I don’t expect a ‘Yes’ or ‘No’ today. All I ask is for your consideration. I realize we may be several conversations away from an agreement.

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Here’s what you can expect from me in terms of deliverables...

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Here’s how this arrangement might be different, and how I think we can address those things...

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Here’s what I’d ask from you, in consideration of the commitments I’m making...

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If this seems acceptable, we could do it on a trial basis for 30/60/90 days, and then review how well it’s working for you, and for me.

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Quick Review

1. Know thyself

2. Get your “home team” on board

3. Design your plan

4. Pitch your boss

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Q & A

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ResourcesThird Path Institute, ThirdPath.org

Our blog, text “ngcrebecca” to 50500

LifeMeetsWork.com

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