DISCUSSION POINTS
The purpose of this workshop is to educate parents on understanding
adolescent transitions, developmental process and emotional issues that arise
on a day to day bases.
WHAT IS IT? Adolescence is defined as the period
between the normal onset of puberty and the beginning of adulthood.
Adolescence is a time when a person’s body, family, school, and the larger society demand change.
Adolescence is a period of transition between childhood and adulthood.
It is a period that varies from culture to culture, and is a time when individuals learn to be socially responsible for themselves and for their actions (Bancroft & Reinisch, undated).
WHAT HAPPENS? In American culture adolescence covers a
span of almost 10-years; from puberty to full biological maturation.
Within this time frame youth are affected by various developmental transformations including physical, emotional, and social changes.
With these changes come many responsibilities and privileges that are different from those of childhood or full adulthood, aspects that ultimately define the period of adolescence (Bancroft & Reinisch, undated).
WHY THE CHANGE? In this stage, people begin to think and
function like adults. Adolescents begin to leave concrete
thought and move on to thinking more abstractly.
Focus for adolescents turns to what is possible rather than what is real.
In this lifespan stage, people begin to form the ability to plan for the future.
WHY SO SOCIAL? During this stage, one is influenced by
peers and parental influence decreases. Adolescents begin to develop new
friendships and relationships. Adolescents seek sexual stimulation and
satisfaction from a member of the opposite sex.
WHY ARE THEY SO DIFFERENT? Adolescents are awkward in initiating
conversations with members of the opposite sex out of fear of how they look or fear they may say the wrong thing (Grover and Nangle 2003).
During this lifespan stage, one uses inductive reasoning to systemize ideas and construct theories about oneself.
Adolescents begin to establish own identity.
WHAT IS HAPPENING TO THEIR BODIES? Sexual maturation begins and continues
through adulthood. Physical development during adolescence is
faster than at any other time since infancy. Rapid gains in height and weight are made
during this stage. These rapid gains are attributed to increased muscle development in boys and increased body fat in girls.
The development of secondary sex characteristics begins as well as the growth of pubic hair.
MORE CHANGES The development of breasts in girls occurs as well
as the scrotal/testicular enlargement in boys. The appearance of regular nocturnal emissions is
seen in boys and the first menstrual period in girls is experienced.
Males’ voices begin to change and facial hair develops.
The growth of underarm hair is noticed in this stage.
Adolescents experience increased production of oil, and increased sweat as well as the beginning of acne.
Continued brain development is noted and adolescents require a greater amount of calories.
WHY ARE THEY REBELLING? This stage of development is right next
to the adult stage so it is the last step before being an adult.
This is a time for adolescents to decide about their future line of work.
Adolescents think about starting their own families in a few years.
One of the first things they must do is to start making their own decisions.
DEVELOPMENTAL ISSUES Today’s adolescents are faced with
issues such as dating, teen pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases, and alcohol and drug abuse.
Adolescents enter transitions with the goal of becoming independently functioning adults, as they strive to meet evolving personal and career related needs.
PLEASE ………….HELP ME Cutting has become a
well known topic of concern within the US School systems, as well as a growing concern for parents.
Adolescent teenagers may deliberately harm themselves for a variety of reasons.
Often we find the reason for self cutting is a direct means of coping with emotional distress.
CUTTING
THE CUTTING EDGE FACTS
90% of self-injury individuals begin harming themselves during their teen years or younger.
Cutting and other self-injury behavior crosses all cultures and socio-economic norms.
The number of cases related to teenage cutting is on the rise and without treatment many will continue the behavior well into their adult years.
Some studies indicate that cutting is learned from friends, peers or family members (such as older siblings).
Cutting has become the new anorexia among today’s teens especially in girls.
Most parents do not have a clue their teenage child is cutting.
Self-injury allows a person to cope with extreme emotional pain. It can allow a person to feel
something when they have deadened every ounce of their emotions.
In both situations, self-injury creates a change from an unbearable emotional state. Physical pain
becomes a coping mechanism, a way of gaining control, and a way to disassociate from an emotional pain that has no end, no relief.
WHAT IS SELF INJURY
TYPES OF SELF-INJURY Cutting-
The use of sharp object to cause skin wound.
Branding Burning self with hot object.
Skin Picking Tearing or picking at skin until
there’s a wound. Hair Pulling
Pulling hair from scalp. Hitting
Punching self to cause bruises.
Piercing Poking self with needles.
Chemical Burns Drinking or using chemicals to
burn self.
WHAT SELF-INJURY IS NOT
Self Injury is not a bad attempt to suicide
Self-Injury is not body art or body modification
SYMPTOMS
Why do they cut? Anger or stress relief Escaping a bad or
unwanted feeling Expression of
emotional pain Release of
emotional pain Rejection Desperation Emptiness Rage
Where do they cut?
Wrist Arms Legs Stomach Under arms Bikini lines (girls) Inside thigh
WHAT TO WATCH FOR Unexplained frequent injuries, particularly
cuts Blood on the insides of clothing or on bed
sheets Wearing long sleeved shirts or long pants
even in warm weather Low self esteem Difficulty functioning at home, school or
work Feelings of being overwhelmed
TREATMENT AND REFERRAL SOURCES
SAFE: Self Abuse Finally EndsA treatment program called SAFE (Self-Abuse Finally Ends) offers
information for parents, teens, teachers and social workers on its Web site, www.safe-alternatives.com
Stepfamily Life
Discovery Health
Teens Health www.teenhelp.com/teen-health/cutting
LOVE, LISTEN AND ……… Be there for your child. Show love. Provide support. Seek medical doctors Positive attention is a valuable part of
the healing process. Consider therapy.
HOW CAN I COMMUNICATE WITH MY ADOLESCENT? Listen. Create opportunities to talk. Talk over differences. Avoid over-reacting. Talk about things that are important to
your adolescent. Communicate with kindness and
respect.
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