MAKE ANY MAN
YOURS FOR LIFE
Sneaky techniques that will force him to forget about
every other woman and stay loyal to YOU and ONLY you...
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Thisbookisaspecialfreereportby
AmyNorth,authorofthebest-sellingwomen’s
programcalledTheDevotionSystem.
www.DevotionSystem.com
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AboutTheAuthor
AmyNorthisaworld-renownedwomen’s
datingcoachwithnearlyadecadeof
experiencehelpingwomenbuildhappy,
lovingrelationshipswiththemanoftheir
dreams.
Sheisalsotheauthorofthe#1best-
sellingprogram“TheDevotionSystem,”
whichiswidelyregardedasthebestand
mostcomprehensiveguideforwomenfedupwithdatingandfrustratedbyan
endlesscycleofheartbreakafterheartbreak.
AmyNorth’sYouTubechannelboastsover60,000subscribersandmillionsofviews,
andherwebsitefeaturesafull-lengthfreevideopresentationsharinganumberof
sneakypsychologicaltacticstomakeamanfallinlovewithyou….andforgetabout
everyotherwomanonearth.
Click here to watch Amy’s free full-length “how-to” video »
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Whenyoumeet“TheOne,”you’llprobablybethehappiestyou’veever
felt...buttheideaoflosinghimtosomeoneelsemayalsobea
terrifyingthoughtforyou.
Thegoodnewsisthatthere’sawaytokeepyourmanhappily
monogamous.Bylearninghowto“cheat-proof”yourrelationship,you’ll
neverhavetoworryabouthimleavingyouorbeingunfaithful.
Tohelpyouunderstandwhatyoucandotokeephimloyal,I’vedivided
thisbookintofoursections.
● WhyDoMenCheat?
● WhatMakesALastingLove?
● SignsYourManIsCheating
● HowtoPreventCheatinginYourRelationship
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WhyDoMenCheat?
Cheatingandinfidelitycanhappeninanyrelationship—weakorstrong,
oldornew.Sometimesaffairsareforlove,andothertimes,it’sjustabout
thesex.
Whilethere’snosinglereasonforwhyamanmaychoosetobeunfaithful,
thereareahandfulofreasonsandexcusesthatariseagainandagain.
ToAvoidIntimacyThisreasoncanbeconfusing,especiallyifyourmanisalreadyinan
intimaterelationshipwithyou.However,psychiatristshavesaidthat
oftentimesmencheattoavoidrealintimacy.Inotherwords,theydoitto
avoidrelyingononeperson,which,intheireyes,meanstheycanavoid
gettinghurt.Ironic,right?
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ToHaveVarietyThiscanbeatoughtruthtoswallow,butsomemencheatjustbecause
theycravevariety.Sure,hemaylovethebonesofyou,butsinceyou’re
justonepersonitcanbetoughto
fulfillallofhisdesires,especially
ifthosedesiresaretobewitha
varietyofwomen.
ToGainPowerSomemencheatbecausethey
feelitempowersthemintheir
relationship;theyhavetheupper
handbybeingunfaithful,andthereforehavelesstolose.NowI’mnot
sayingthisisright,andasawomanthismayseemoutrageous,butstudies
haveshownthatthisishowsomeguysdefendtheiractions:Itmakes
themfeelmanly.
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ToFindIntimacyOntheotherendofthespectrum,somemensearchforintimacyoutside
oftheirrelationship.Sincecouplescandriftapartovertime,somemen
finditeasiertofulfiltheirsexualandintimacyneedsbyfindingthem
elsewhereratherthantalkingwiththeirpartneraboutthedeclineintheir
sharedintimacy.Thisisaprimeexampleofwhycommunicationisso
important!
ToSpiceThingsUp
Inthebeginningofarelationship,couplescan’tseemtogetenoughof
eachother.However,astimepasses,andpartnersbecomemore
comfortablewithoneanother,it’snotuncommonforsextogetless
exciting,too.Thisiswhysomemencheat:becausetheycravethat
newnessandexcitementagain,andsincetheycan’tgetitfromtheir
partner,theygolookingelsewhere.Thatsaid,therearewaystoprevent
thisfromhappeningandtokeepyourrelationshipfreshandexciting,
whichI’veexplainedinmoredepthinthefreevideoonmywebsite.
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ToPleaseOthersMenaren’talwaysasincontrolasyouthink.Acommonreasonwhymany
mencheatissimplybecausetheylackthewillpowertosayno.So,ifa
beautifulwomancomesontothem,they’reweak,andgoalongwithit.
Insteadofstayingfaithfultotheirpartner,theygiveintoasexualaffair
simplybecausetheopportunityaroseandtheyweren’tstrongenoughto
turnherdown.
ToRelivetheRushNoteverycheaterisarepeatoffender,butchancesareifyourmanhas
cheated—andgotawaywithit—thenhe’lllikelythinkhecandoitagain.
Inordertobreakthishabit,it’scrucialthathefiguresoutwhatdrovehim
tocheatinthefirstplace.Whoknows,hecouldbecheatingbecausehe
onlycaresabouthimself,orbecauseyourrelationshiplackssomething
importanttohim.
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WhatMakesaLastingLove?Whenitcomestoahealthy,lovingrelationship,therearecertainmental
andphysicalcomponentsthatneedtobeinplaceforittogothedistance.
Tohelpcheat-proofyourrelationship,makesurethatthesecomponents
areaneverydaypartofyourlivestogether.It’swhenthesekeyelements
starttodissipatethattroublearises.
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KissEveryDayAsCharlesDickensoncesaid,“Nevercloseyourlipstothosewhomyou
havealreadyopenedyourheart.”Inotherwords,keepkissingtheman
youlove.
Tokeepyourmanfaithful,it’simportantthatyoukeepthesparkalive
betweenyou.Sooftencouplesmakeitpastthehoneymoonstageand
slowlystopkissingeachother.Tokeeptherelationshipfresh,makea
pointtokissyourpartnerdaily.
CreateaLovingMindsetIt’sbeenproventhatwhenyouseeyourpartnerasthehandsomest,
smartestorfunniestpersonintheroom,yourrelationshipwilllastlonger,
andbemoreemotionallysatisfying.Todothis,makeapointtoremind
yourselfhowwonderfulyourmanis,andlethimknowhowyoufeelabout
him.Whenyoudoit’llworkwondersoncheat-proofingyourrelationship.
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GrowTogetherThisoneisabigone.Whenrelationshipsgetstagnantit’scommonfor
couplestobreakup,cheat,oratleastconsiderthepossibilityofanother
partner.
Tokeepyourrelationshipontrackit’simportantthatyouandyourman
arealwaysgrowingtogether.Pickingupnewinterests,exploringnew
places,andtryingnewthingstogetherwillhelpyougrowbothas
individualsandasacouple.
BePositiveSomanypeopleletthelittleannoyancesinlifebringthemdown,and
withoutrealizingitthatnegativeenergycreepsintotheirlovelife.Tokeep
yourrelationshipontherighttrack,focusonthepositivesandtofinda
waytofallinlovewithyourlifeeveryday.Byfindingyourpassionsand
practicingthemoften,they’llnotonlyreflectpositivelyinyour
relationship,butthey’llalsomakeitstronger.
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KeepYourIndependenceEarlyinarelationshipitcanbeeasytogetsweptupinwantingtospend
allyourtimewithyourman.However,astemptingasitmaybeto
monopolizeoneanother’stime,it’simportantthatyougiveeachother
spaceandkeepyourpersonalinterestsandhobbiesalive.Spendingevery
wakingmomenttogethermaysoundnice,butovertimeitwillresultin
someonegettingbored.What’sworseisthatwhenboredombreeds,
troublearises.Toavoidthisfromhappeningencourageyourmantotake
onhisownpersonalpursuits.
BeRomanticKeepingthesparkalivebetweenyouandyourmaniscrucialforcheat-
proofingyourrelationship.Sinceromanceandintimacyaretwoofthe
mostimportantcomponentsofalovingrelationship,youshouldalways
belookingtofornewwaystokeepyourflameburning.Itcanbetough
andrequiresanopenmind,butit’stotallyworthit.
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Ifyounoticethesignsofarelationshipthat’sstartingtobecomestale,
TAKEACTION!Startbyvisitingmywebsiteandwatchingthefreevideo
thatI’vepostedonthehomepage.
CreateSharedInterestsSincecouplesthatbuildahistorytogetherhavesomethingtolose,it
makescheatinglesslikelytohappenintheirrelationship.Thisiswhy
creatingsharedexperiencesandinterestscanhelpcheat-proofyour
relationship.
Togetstarted,pickanactivityanddoittogether.Whetherit’sacooking
classorco-edFrisbeeleague,tryingnewthingswithyourmanisoneof
thebestwaystokeepyourrelationshipexcitingandfulloflove.
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SignsYourManIsCheatingWhenyoususpectthatyourmanmaybecheatingonyou,it’snot
uncommontofeelcrushinglydevastated.Asyouscrambletomakesense
ofyouremotionsandtheories,youmayevenconsidersharingyour
concernswithhim.Ifyoudogothisrouteandhebrushesoffyour
worries,itmaybehardtobelievehim.Intheseinstancesit’simportant
thatyoutrustyourgut,andkeepaneyeoutforthesesigns.
He’sMoodyIfyourmanischeatingonyou,thenhemaybefeelingguiltyorashamed
ofhisactions.Ifthisisthecase,thenhe’llprobablylookforsomewhereto
unloadthosefeelings.Sothen,ifyounoticethatyourmanhasbeen
moodyorispickingfightswithyou,thenitcouldbehiswaytodestress.
Insteadofridingouthisemotions,gettotherootoftheproblemby
askingwhyhe’sbeingsoargumentative.
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Alsotakenoteifcommunicationbetweenthetwoofyoustartstofade.If
yourmanisthekindofpersonwhoalwayshassomethingtosayandyet
he’sbecomequietordistant,thenitmaybebecausehe’sscaredof
slippingup.Thishappensoftenwhensomeonehashadanaffairorhas
madeashamefulmistake.
He’sDistant,PanickedorDistraughtHandlinganaffairisabalancingact,whichmeansthatifyourmanis
cheating,he’sgoingtohavetobeextracarefulwhenitcomestokeeping
hisstoriesstraight.So,ifyounoticethathisscheduleischanging,orhe
scramblesforwordsanytimeyouaskhimaquestion,thenalarmbells
shouldberinging.Thatsaid,sometimeschangeisinevitable,sodon’t
jumptoassumptionstooquickly.
Alsonotehisbodylanguage.Ifyourmanisworriedaboutyoufindingout
whathe’sbeenupto,thenyoumaycatchhimlookingdistantorfearful.
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HeSmellsDifferentThisonesoundscliché,but
clichésexistforareason.Ifyour
partneriscominghomesmelling
likeaperfumeorlotionyou
don'twear,thenhe’sprobably
beenclosewithsomeonewhois
wearingit.
You’veDiscoveredEvidenceIfyou’venoticedrandomhairs,lipsticksmudges,orotherunknown
belongingskickingaroundhishouse,carorofficethenyoushouldbe
askingquestions.Thatsaid,it’simportantnottogetwrappedupin
playingdetective;ifyou’remistakenthenstartingsomethingoutof
nothingcanbedestructivetoyourrelationship.
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HeAdoptsNewLingoHaveyouevernoticedthatwhenyouspendenoughtimearound
someoneyoustarttospeaklikethem,orpickuptheirinterests?Well,it’s
true!
Ifyounoticethatyourmanhasbecomeinterestedinthingshehatedor
ignoredbefore,orstartsusingnewwordsorphrases,itcouldbebecause
heisabsorbingsomeoneelse’sinterests.Whilethisdoesn’tprovethat
he’shavinganaffair,itisanimportantsigntowatchoutfor.
HeWantstoFlySoloIfyouandyourmanusedtoenjoyrunningerrandstogetherorattended
eventssidebyside,andnow,hewantstodo“hisownthing,”thenit
couldbebecausehe’suptonogood.
Ifitfeelslikeyourmanisworriedaboutbeingseenwithyouthenitcould
bebecausehe’safraidofwhoelsemaysee.Nowthissoundsridiculous,
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afterall,you’rehiswoman!...Butthenagain,ifhe’scheatingonyouthen
whoknowswhathe’stoldwhoeverelseisinvolved.
HisSexDriveIncreasesWhenitcomestocommittedrelationships,it’snormalforacouples’sex
lifetohaveitsshareofhighsandlows.However,ifyourpartner
simmereddowninthebedroomthensuddenlyhasaninsanesexdrive,
it’spossiblethathislibidohasbeenreawakenedbysomeoneelse.Keep
aneyeoutforanynewsexmovesordirtytalkthathemayhavepicked
up.
HisFinancesAreUnexplainable
Thoughitmaynotbeyourplacetocommentonhoworwherehespends
hismoney,payattentiontoanysuspiciousorunexplainedpapertrailshe
leavesbehind.Forexample,ifyoufindreceiptstonicerestaurantsor
hotelbillslayingaround,thenyoumaywanttoaskhimaboutwherehe’s
beenspendinghismoney.Ifhebrushesoffyourquestionsorbecomes
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defensive,thenyouknowsomethingisup.
HisFriendsAreonEdgeIfyouwereclosewithhisfriends,butlatelythey’vebeenactingnervous
oruncomfortablearoundyou,thenitcouldbebecausetheyknow
somethingyoudon’t.Howyourman’sfriendstreatyouspeaksvolumes.If
they’veflippedfromhottocoldonyou,thendon’ttakethissignlightly.
He’sTalkingAboutBreakingUpIfyourmanstartsaskingquestionslike,"Whatwouldyoudoifwebroke
up?"ormakesstatementslike“You’dbefinewithoutme,”thenhemay
behintingthatheisconsideringendingthingsbetweenyou.Don’tlet
theseslightremarksgounnoticed.Instead,keeptrackeachtimehe
makesacommentlikethisandseeifapatternemerges.Withtheright
puzzlepieces,youmaybeabletocatchyourpartnerredhanded.
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He’sSecretiveDoeshehidehisphonefromyou,deletemessages,ortuckitquicklyout
ofsightthemomentyouentertheroom?Ifso,thenyourcheating-radar
shouldbegoingoff!
Payattentiontothecallshetakesbehindcloseddoorsandwhohesays
hascalledortexted.Hisbodylanguageanddefensivetonewilltellyouif
somethingisgoingon.
HeJustifiesAffairsYourbestfriend'sboyfriendischeatingandyousharethenewswithyour
man.Toyoursurprise,hebecomesdefensiveandsaysthingslike“Wellhe
wasn’thappyanyways,”or“Peoplehaveaffairsallthetime.”Takeheed,
thiscouldbeawarningsignofwhat’sgoingonbehindyourback,too.
Afterall,condemningothersforcheatingwouldmeancondemning
himselfaswell!
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Ifyourmanbrushesoffthesubjectofcheatinglikeit’snobigdealorgets
awkwardanytimethetopiccomesup,thenyoumayhavetheanswers
you’relookingfor.
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StoppingHimFromCheatingAsmentionedearlier,there’snoonesinglereasonwhypeoplecheat.The
goodnewsthough,isthatthereareahandfulofprovenwaystoprevent
itfromhappeningtoyou.
Beforereadingahead,keepinmindthatthebestself-defenseagainst
cheatingisagreatrelationship.Inotherwords,ifyouwanttocheat-proof
yourrelationshipthenyouneedtodothework.
AgreeOnWhatConstitutesas“Cheating”Topreventcheatinginyourrelationshipit’scrucialthatyouandyourman
areonthesamepagewhenitcomestowhatqualifiesascheating.To
ensurethis,talkaboutyourbeliefsandcomeaclearagreementonwhat
isandisn’tacceptableinyourrelationship.
Initiallypartnersmaynothavethesamefeelingsandopinionsonthe
subject,whichiswhyit’ssocrucialtocometoanagreementtogether.
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It’salsoimportanttodiscussandagreeonhowyouwilleachhandle
advancesfromothers,andhowquicklyyouwilltelloneanotherabout
romanticorflirtyexperiences.Doingsocanhelppreventemotional
affairs,andwillkeeppartnersfeelingopenwithoneanother.
OpenlyCommunicateTopreventcheatinginyourrelationship,youandyourmanmusttalkto
oneanother.Havingopenandhonestconversationsabouthowyou’re
feeling,whatyouexpectfromoneanother,andwhatisandisn’tworking
betweenyouwillkeepyoufeelingcloseandconnected.
Tohaveeffectiveconversationswithyourpartnerit’simportanttolethim
knowthathecansharehisfeelings,thoughtsanddesireswithyou,freeof
judgement.Whenyoudoso,you’llbegivinghimsomethinghedoesn’t
havewithjustanyone:asafeoutlet.Beingthepersonhecanranttoand
explorehisdreamswithmakesyouavaluablepartofhislifeandthatisa
greatdefenseagainstcheating.Tokeepyourloveburning,keepthe
communicationlinesclearandopen.
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AppreciateYourPartnerTakethetimetoappreciateyourmaneveryday,evenforthelittlethings.
Infact,it’susuallythoselittlethingsthatmeanthemost,whichiswhy
appreciationgoessuchalongwaywhenitcomestocommitment.
Sincenoonewantstobewithsomeonewhomakesthemfeelpoorlyona
regularbasis,expressingappreciationtoyourmanisaneffectivewayto
preventcheating.Ashumans,wewanttofeellovedandvalued—
especiallybythosewe’vechosentoshareourlifewith.Makesureyoutell
yourguyhowmuchhemeanstoyou,evenwhenyou’renotinthemost
romanticofmoods.
KeeptheSparkAliveThekeytoprotectinganyromanticrelationshipiskeepingyourspark
alive.Thismeansbeingintimate,havingsexregularly,kissingoften,
touchingasmuchaspossible,andtalkingcomfortablyaboutsex.
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Bybeingopentonewideasandexperimentation,notonlywillitkeep
yoursexlifefreshandexciting,butyourmanwillappreciateyour
willingnesstotrynewthings,andinturn,belesslikelytocheat.While
you’reatit,askhimabouthisfantasiesandfindoutwhatgetshimgoing.
Sure,thesethingsmaynotsoundlikeyourcupoftea,butgivethema
shot,andwhoknows,youjustmightlikethem,too.Knowingwhathe
likeswillgiveyoualegupwhenitcomestokeepinghimfeelingfulfilled.
GrowTogetherSincechangeisaconstant,it’simportanttorollwithwhatcomesyour
way,takeonnewchallenges,andtrynewthingstogether.Keepingyour
relationshipfeelingfreshandaliveisapowerfulwaytopreventcheating.
Ifyouignoretheinevitabletolloftimeandexpectwhatworkedinthe
firstmonthofyourrelationshiptostillworkyearslater,yourrelationship
couldverywellbedoomed.
Abigpartofgrowingwithyourpartnerisfindingnewthingstodo
together.Beapartofthethingsyourmanenjoysdoinginhisfreetime,
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bondoverandcreatesharedinterests,andspendqualitytimetogether.
Keepingthingsinterestingwilllessenhislikelinesstocheat.
AvoidJealousy
Inmostrelationships,therewillcomeatimewhenyouquestionyour
man’sfeelingsorbehaviortowardssomeoneelse.Astoughasitmaybe,
it’simportantnottobecomeangryorcriticaltowardshimortheperson
hegivesattentionto.
Sinceactingjealoustowardssomeoneyourmanshowsinterestinwon’t
winbackhisattention—instead,you’lllookimmatureandfoolish—it’s
importanttoshifthisattentionbacktoyoubywooinghimwithyour
talentsandcapabilities.
Givehimareasontoloveandvalueyoubysteppingupyourgamerather
thanthreateningtoleaveorbecomingcritical.
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EmphasizeCommitmentAlthoughyouandyourpartnerarealreadyinacommittedrelationship,
it’sstillimportanttoremindeachotherofthebenefitsofbeingacouple.
Youbothhavesomeonewhoknowsyoubetterthananyoneelse;
someoneyouhaveasharedhistoryandlifememorieswith;someoneyou
canrelyon;someonetogrowoldwith.
Remindingyourmanofthemanyreasonsyoubothdecidedtocommitto
oneanothercanrevivenostalgicfeelingsandhappymemories.Many
times,simplyrecognizinghowluckyyouaretohavesuchalovingpartner
isenoughtopreventinfidelitylongbeforeitbecomesanissue.
BeRomanticItonlytakesasmallgesturetoberomanticandshowyourmanhowmuch
youcareabouthim,butthesesmallgesturesgofarwhenitcomesto
keepinghimcommitted.Fromsurprisedinnerstopassionatebackrubs,
lovingactionswillshowhimhowmuchyouappreciatehim,whichinturn
canhelptocheat-proofyourrelationship.
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Complimentinghislooks,praisinghissuccesses,andrecognizinghis
potentialwillalsodowondersforhisconfidenceandhappiness.Theseare
importantbecausewhenamanfeelsgoodabouthimselfandhis
relationship,thelikelihoodofhimlookingforromanceelsewhereisslim
tonone.
BeaGoodGirlfriend!Asyouprobablyknow,whenyourman’sneedsarephysicallyand
emotionallymet,hewon’tbeasinterestedinlookingelsewhere.To
ensurethatheissatisfiedinyourrelationship,takealookathowwellyou
aremeetinghiswantsandneeds,andstepupintheareasthatare
lacking.Sinceit’shumannaturetopursueone’sneeds,ifyou’renotgiving
himwhatheneedsthenhemaygolookingelsewhere.
Tobeagoodpartnerandsuccessfullycheat-proofyourrelationship,think
ofyourrole(ashiswoman)asajobthatyouareapplyingforeveryday.
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Askyourselfwhyyourmanshouldkeepyouaroundandnotfireyou,and
ifthere’sanythingyoushouldbedoingthatyou’renot.
Notmanywomenrealizeit,butbeingyourman’sdreamwomanisWAY
easierthanyoumightthink…ifyouknowafewsneakytechniquesto
makesureheseesyouas“TheOne”.ClickheretoviewavideoI’ve
madetoexplainsomeofthesecoverttactics…watchitASAP,sothatyou
canbeginusingmytechniquesTODAYtomakesurehestaysintoyou(and
loyaltoyou).
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