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By Sarika Jain
Free ‘Are You
Ready For
True Love?’
Assessment
Easy-to-follow ideas that you can apply
today to start dating with greater
confidence & clarity.
Sarika has a peaceful power and a unique ability to listen, encourage and empower
that I haven’t come across frequently in this lifetime. Her talent for coaching and
teaching the healing power of love has inspired me and my relationships to be more
authentic, honest, kind and loving. Anne K, Entrepreneuress in New York City
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Sarika’s coaching was immensely valuable in all stages of the
dating process, from developing a positive mindset towards the
dating process, to being a sexy, fun date. Her approach was helpful in
keeping me out of bad dating habits, such as talking on the phone for too
long, or dressing unattractively. Having been through the ups and downs
herself of the entire spectrum of the dating process, she provides an
invaluable perspective. This, coupled with her empathy and strong
communication skills, make her a fantastic coach. I would recommend her
skills for anyone who is seriously looking for the right one! I am now in a
committed, stable relationship with an amazing man and couldn’t be
happier with my success.
Smita K., VP at Fortune 100 company in New York City
Sarika has an amazing ability to listen and comfort those around her by
sharing both her struggles and successes in a humble way. I whole-
heartedly recommend that people work with her.
That personal touch means she gives the love, care and open mind that I
think everyone needs to pursue and reach their life and love goals. Her
wisdom comes from continuous searching, self-reflection and personal
struggle.
It is amazing to see the supportive loving relationship she has fostered with
her equally amazing husband-to-be Krishan–having that kind of inspiring
example from someone as your coach/mentor is surely a divine gift.
Dr. Steven Chan
Professor of Marketing at a top Business School in New York City
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About the Author
Sarika Jain is an intuitive life coach and a
‘Personal Trainer for Love’. She works with
soul-centered women and men to attract true
love and lead more exciting, passionate and
fulfilled lives. She combines her wisdom and
experiences from top coaching programs, to
create the most effective and easiest programs
possible for her clients.
Sarika Jain honed her leadership coaching and
problem-solving skills by serving top class
organizations such as Bain & Co., The World
Bank, Yahoo! & Merrill Lynch for 10+
years. She now combines these skills with her
passions for thriving relationships and Eastern
spiritual traditions.
Over the last 4 years, Sarika has inspired and empowered hundreds of people through coaching, public speaking engagements, retreats and workshops. Through her practical, yet soulful approaches to dating and relationships, she has helped many of her clients manifest their dream relationships and find greater happiness, balance and vitality in their lives. Sarika was born in the US and moved to India when she was 11, where she was immersed in Indian philosophy and culture. She came back to the US when she was 18 to study engineering, and later on acquired an MBA from The Wharton School.
She thought she had it all... until 2012, when she experienced a devastating heartbreak with a broken engagement, in her early 30s. This led her to begin her own healing and transformation journey. Within 3 months, Sarika experienced inner peace and happiness, learned new paradigm-shifting relationship skills, and manifested her beloved husband, Krishan Patel, with
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whom she leads a playful, passionate and fulfilling life, in New York City. Aside from coaching, Sarika loves traveling, trying new dishes, joking around and Bollywood/Latin dancing.
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Introduction
Dear Goddess,
If you are reading this workbook, then I know in my heart that you are ready
to let go of the past, and attract true, everlasting love this year with a fresh
new start.
I am guessing that if you are reading this book, you may be feeling…
Exhausted from feeling unhappy, especially from past painful
relationships and sleepless nights of anxiety and stress
Anxious and frustrated about not knowing if you will EVER meet the
one – and if you will be able to find him in time to start a family (if having
children is in your wish list)
Tired of your self-doubt and low self-esteem, and disappointed with
your lack-lustre dating life
Confused about why you’re still single, and what you’re doing wrong;
and sick of relying on luck and traditional dating tactics
Three years ago, I was in your shoes.
Even though I had been successfully coaching women (and men) for years
on how to date, I had my own ups and downs in the dating world.
My last heartbreak (when my ex-fiancé broke up with me), was the
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final straw for me to search even deeper on how to manifest true love - one
that was everlasting and authentic to me. I had to heal my own painful
relationship story, find peace & joy within, and learn new empowered dating
skills, to find everlasting love in the real world.
Within 3 months of devastating heartbreak, I met my now-husband. I
combined my ‘traditional’ dating experience, with energetic/emotional
healing and the Law of Attraction. My husband is the kindest, most open-
hearted soul I know. We share a deep spiritual connection, and are madly
in love & attracted to each other. And we are consciously learning new
relationship skills together. Every day, I thank my lucky stars to be with him.
I want the same for you.
So...
Are you ready to shake things up in your life - heal your old & tired
relationship story once and for all? Get over your heartache? Would you
like to attract True Love in 2015?
The key to succeeding in anything is:
a) Setting your intentions, and being clear about your vision
b) Making a strong, unbreakable commitment to reach your goals
(Telling the universe that you’re ready!)
c) Taking concrete action
This is true with all endeavors, including love, career, or personal and
spiritual growth.
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You deserve to be with a partner that you love; someone with whom you
feel a deep connection with, someone you love and admire – someone you
can share a life of passion & purpose!
In this workbook, my goal is that you adopt the right mindset, let go of
things that are holding you back, create a plan of action that gets you
inspired to date confidently. I know that you will also become a magnet for
quality, like-minded men. I will share principles with you that will get your
heart, mind, body and soul ready for everlasting love.
Please print out this workbook, especially as you go through the
exercises. Keep it with you at all times!
With Love,
Sarika Jain (Patel)
Sarika at a public speaking
event, where she shares how
she found ‘Happiness After
Heartbreak’
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The True Love Attraction System
Create Your Vision
Create Your Action Plan
Address Your Fears & Barriers
Upgrade Your Mindset & Develop
Beautiful Habits
Date with Confidence.
And... Attract 'The One'!!
Our Focus in this Workbook.
We will go through all the
boxes in a step-by-step
process to create your Action
Plan.
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Step 1: Create Your Vision & Feel Into Your WHY
It’s important to visualize what kind of partnership you want in your life.
What kind of relationship will get you pumped up, excited, happy? You can
use these in your manifestation prayers, which will help magnetize the right
kind of relationship to you. Allow yourself to feel into these emotions, when
doing your prayers. Feel that the right partnership is on its way!
Exercise: My Dream Relationship
What is the timeframe that you are thinking to meet 'the one'?
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What are the top three qualities that are important to you in your life
partner?
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Imagine your partner is in your life. What do you see getting even
better and juicier?
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Health (mental, physical, emotional, spiritual):
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Describe your dream partner. Who are they, and how would they
support you in your life and purpose? What activities would you do
together? How would you feel, having this person in your life?
Here are some examples…
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I wake up each morning next to someone who is happy and
excited to be with me, feeling like they’ve won the lottery and
they’re getting the ‘better part of the bargain’ (and I feel the same!)
My partner is someone who understands, accepts and loves me
for who I am, is my number one champion, and with whom I feel
safe and cherished
I feel happy & fulfilled each day, with a career and partnership
that’s passionate and purpose-filled
I feel like I’m inspired and growing spiritually & personally, fully
stepping into my full potential - and am 10x more supported in
sharing my passions with the world in a bold way
I glow with immense self-confidence, beauty and magnetism,
knowing that I’m attracting positive and life-serving relationships and
opportunities into my life
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My partner and I make spontaneous trips to romantic places like
Paris, and spend the day relaxing, wining & dining, chatting, people-
watching, laughing and discovering new things
My juicy life with my soulmate!
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Additional notes
Step 2: Identify Your Fears & Past Pain from Old Relationships
It’s important to address your hidden fears, and all the limiting belief
systems floating around in our minds and energy field. There are some that
you may be conscious of; and others you may need to explore more deeply
with a coach. I have noticed that as we start taking action for manifesting
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our ideal relationship, even more fears pop up, and they can sabotage a
potentially beautiful relationship.
Here is a starter kit to help you start identifying your fears and beliefs, early
on.
5 Myths That Are Hurting Your Chance for Love
Here are just a few things that may cause fear and anxiety in finding ‘the
one’, so it’s important to address them first.
1. Your biological clock is ticking, so hurry up! This is a major cause
for anxiety for so many women, and sends desperation vibes to men.
I remember counting backwards from the time I thought would be
wise to have kids. This would put so much pressure on me to perform
my magic and stronghold a man into my life. Stop, breathe, and
laugh! First, ask yourself – do you really need kids to be happy? You
can be happy, right now, exactly as you are. Taking the pressure off
yourself allows you to become more Goddess-minded – open,
expansive, free-spirited – and when the timing’s right, you WILL meet
the right guy, and having kids (even if adopted) will always be an
option.
2. All the good ones are taken or aren’t interested. Living in New
York City, I remember feeling like all the men were either players, or
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Peter Pans, or gay. I went on hundreds of dates with seemingly
decent straight men, and fretted. Why wasn’t I attracted to these
blokes? Where are the smart Renaissance men, the ones who travel,
are spiritual and have many interests outside of work? The one who
will adore me, and keep a relationship as their number one priority?
The truth is - the right man will appear, out of synchronicity. Maybe
through online dating, your work, community service, or your friends.
Trust me – he will appear, when you’re truly ready, and working
towards your vision!
3. Dating and relationship skills come naturally. This is perhaps the
most dangerous misperception. Only in recent years, have we started
using our own networks, abilities to meet and attract the right mates.
Our parents didn’t have to go through the troubles we did for ‘meeting
someone’. Also, have you noticed that most relationships are
dysfunctional?
Dating and relationships are learned skills – how do we communicate
our feelings, how to make requests, how to hold space for another
person, how to listen deeply – how to make another person feel safe,
loved and have a sense of belonging. How do we suffer in a way that
we don’t destroy a relationship?
The beauty about being single is that you can learn and practice new
skills, so that when Mr. Right comes along, you are ready!
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4. It’s all about ‘meeting the one’ – and nothing else. Dating other men is a waste of time. Dating is part of your life journey, and it can be joyful! Think of as
having a tasting menu or buffet. Imagine all the flavors that you
naturally enjoy or are drawn to; or some allergies you may have.
When you enjoy the dating processs, you can meet new people, learn
more about yourself and you get the opportunity to learn relationship
skills. Develop more intuition and trust! A way of trying new activities,
restaurants - having fun & learning to play with life again. No one is
wasting their time by hanging out with others. As you keep growing,
you will meet better men over time – ones who meet the belief
systems that you hold for yourself. When you have a joyful attitude
towards your own life – people will find you attractive and want to
spend time with you. And the beauty is - you don’t have to date
anyone you don’t want to, or feel in your gut that it’s not right.
5. There must be something wrong with me, which is why I’m
single. You are perfect just the way you are. We all have life lessons
to learn, which is why we’re still alive. And relationships are the best
way to learn about yourself, to grow and evolve. To heal, in many
ways. There may be numerous reasons why you’re single – but I
would say – that’s a great place to be! A place to become harmonious
and whole from within, so that when you do start a family with a man,
you will have built a strong foundation for the two of you.
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Close Your Ex Files
One of the things that we don’t do so
well in our society is how to properly
get over a past relationship or another
painful event from our life. There’s a
whole grieving, forgiveness and
wisdom process that we forgo. What
were we supposed to learn? Why did
it happen in the first place? What
should our relationship be with those
who have hurt us? How do we create
new, healthy relationships?
Did you know that we carry these memories in our cells and energetic
footprint? And that it shapes our belief systems, of what makes for a good
relationship? We are sending signals to the universe that we’re still healing,
and need to learn from our past. Till then, we will keep attracting people
who are also in the same stage of healing, in their own way. There is
nothing wrong with this! But you will see patterns in your relationships,
which will be undeniable – and painful, I’m sure!
We also hold energetic cords with past relationships, or people we still think
about. Learn to cut & let go of those cords and baggage.
Address Your Fears Around Dating & Relationships
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I remember that one of my biggest fears after my last devastating break-up,
was, "Can I trust again?" I noticed that my heart was closing up, and I felt
tired and exhausted with life. I began to wear big sun-glasses, donning the
'jaded' look. Even though I thought I was ready to start dating, deep down, I
had a fear of being hurt again. If the pain wasn't bad enough the first time
round, it would be worse in the next one, right? These would send signals
to the universe that I was not ready to be with Mr. Right.
You must acknowledge and address these fears early on.
Exercise: Bursting Through My Fears, Old Stories & Limiting
Beliefs
Have you gotten closure from past relationships? Which ones may
still need healing from? What have you learned from these
relationships?
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What worries or fears keep you up at night (in relationships, or in
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What other fears, negative thought patterns, myths or belief systems
do you have about finding ‘the one’, that could be holding you back?
e.g.
- I’m scared of getting hurt again
- I’m not worthy of a healthy & everlasting relationship
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Allow yourself to fully feel all the emotions and fears, accept them, and let
them go. Find the tools you need to overcome them.
I would recommend working with a coach to go into these more fully,
especially as they pop up during the dating & relationship process, and
have a way of sabotaging a potentially beautiful relationship!
Additional notes
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Step 3: Create a Goddess Mindset & Lifestyle
Love Yourself. Let Go of Self-Judgment & Your Inner Critic
Become your own beloved, and treat yourself with love, acceptance and
appreciation for who you really are.
Sure we all make mistakes (even
grave ones) – but we’re human! And
being imperfect is perfect (the
Japanese have perfected this, through
the art of Wabi Sabi).
When you’re in the space of self-love and acceptance, you will develop the
skills to offer it to others. People will emerge that will feel comfortable with
you and would want to share their stories with you, because you won’t
judge them. And you will treat them with kindness, generosity and
compassion – of course, without losing yourself in their story, because of
your self-compassion.
More than likely, your life partner would have gone through difficult times in
his/her life, and would want a partnership that would be of joy, healing and
acceptance.
When you’re ready to offer that to yourself, and others, you will start
attracting greater possibilities in your life.
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Exercise: Letting Go of Self-Judgment
In terms of negative thought, see what arises for you when you answer
these questions:
- I am so…
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- I can’t…
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Develop a Balanced Life & Date Yourself
Many of us, especially if we’re ambitious, have a tough time with creating
balance between self, family, community and work. So much to do, and so
little time!
The secret is to start setting
aside time and space for
things that are fulfilling for
you, and for your well-being.
For instance, the ½ hour that
you used to stare at your
computer during lunch – go
outside, do a little walking
meditation, breathe the fresh air, and observe the magic of flowers. Also,
offer yourself the luxury of sleeping, or spend a day doing nothing – maybe
even going for a hike. Who knows whom you will meet!
People are attracted to those who take care of themselves.
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When you start creating space in your life for YOU time, being happy, and
doing things you’re passionate about, new (romantic!) possibilities are
allowed to flow in the cracks of time that you’ve created.
Exercise: Infusing My Life with Happiness
This exercise is a simple one, as shared above by the Dalai Lama on how
to lead a happier life. Feel free to keep filling it out whenever you feel like it.
Things that make me unhappy - I
want to do less… (e.g. Speak
without thinking, spend time with
negative people)
Things that make me happy - I want
to do more… (e.g. travel the world,
spend time in authentic
relationships, read inspiring
books, working out)
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Make Space for True Love: Feng Shui Principles
As you’re starting to date again, take a look at your life, your home. Do you
have space for another person, or are you always tied up? A friend told me
a story. As he coached a friend, who had a car parked in front of the main
gate of a 2-car garage, so that no one else could park. He asked her to
park in one spot, so the other was free... to make room in the apartment for
another person’s items… to make time in her schedule to allow a person
in.... to balance her life in a way that allowed her to live the lifestyle she
would want to have in her dream relationship.
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Words and pictures have vibrations (as do your thoughts). Is there clutter in
your house – old books that don’t resonate with you, old gifts or love letters
from your exes – anything else that brings back sad memories? As you’re
exploring new dimensions of yourself – try to get rid of all items in your
home that you won’t use in the next 6 months.
Emotionally, where do you spend your energy? Do you have the capacity
to hold someone else’s joys and suffering? Take time to offload your
emotional and energetic baggage with a therapist, coach or healer. Spend
less time with people who are “energy vampires” – who drain you of your
energy. And if you have started clearing your mind, you will have fewer
emotional ups and downs as well.
Exercise: Making Room For Love
Make a list of ways you can clear space, and invite True Love into your life,
physically, mentally, emotionally & spiritually.
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Exercise: Developing Your Goddess Mindset
Do you feel like you are at your mental/emotional best to start the
'seriously looking' dating process? Why/why not?
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What are some skills/areas that I need to work on (including
relationship skills)?
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What habits and surroundings/environment do I need to stay
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Step 4: Identify Different Ways to Meet Fabulous Men
We will explore how to date in a drama-free way – one that’s nurturing,
authentic, and intuitive. One in which you will transform and grow – and
meet even better men than you thought possible!
Explore the different ways that you and your friends or family have met
men in the past:
- Online
- Singles events
- Work, networking
- Fun activities like tennis
The list is endless. Now the question is, what activities gets you pumped
up? Have you found your passion, and do you spend time doing it?
Hobbies, passions and activities that I love to do:
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Here are some other ideas for where to meet great men:
1. Lend a hand, doin’ what you love. Get involved in an organization or
community servicewhere you’re rockin’ your gifts (maybe even discovering
new ones), opening hearts and making people smile. When we’re living our
soul’s blue-print, and we’re also connecting to the web-of-life through
service, wonders can happen! Somehow, we are magnetic to the
community, we are ‘flowing’, and we’re connected on a gut-level, which
sends positive, radiant vibrations to our soulmate. There’s nothing sexier
than living your most generous, courageous and loving self, flowing with
your ‘groupies’.
2. A soiree in your friend’s apartment. This may seem like the most
obvious one, and you must be wondering why I’ve put this here. But hear
me out.
The key here is to already be starting to live life in alignment with your
higher purpose and unapologetic self - in a way in which you are flowing
with abundance and living your unique soul qualities.
Spirit works through many ways – but mostly through people – and when
you’re ready, your friend may get a ‘spark’ of inspiration to ‘introduce’ you
to someone who shares your dreams and vision.
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3. On the cushion: A great place to meet like-
minded, authentic people (and potentially your
soulmate), is a meditation group or
conscious community meet-up. I’m not just
saying this because that’s how I met my
partner :)! The kind of openness, vulnerability
and a commitment to one’s inner journey is
palpable and shared – and it’s fun! Remember, we are the sum average of
the 5 people we spend most time with.
Now, if there isn’t a meditation group in your area - be ballsy and start your
own!
Online Dating
If you’re opposed to online dating, then I
will tell you that you are shutting yourself
off from a whole world of kind, caring
men. Ask yourself – what do you fear
about online dating? I know it seems
unnatural – after all, most romance
novels don’t include online dating!
In the coming age, I believe that most people will meet their dream partners
online – after all, what greater medium for synchronicity!
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The idea is to enjoy the journey of dating, and getting to know yourself –
and online gives you the ability to meet men of every type!
Principles for Online Dating:
1. Create a beautiful, appealing profile. Add pictures that show your
goddess self. If you have a great profile, great guys will write to you
eventually – guaranteed!
2. Be kind, funny and authentic online – almost like you would be meeting
in a social gathering
3. Talk to the person on the phone, before meeting them
4. Go on a couple of dates with a person – and give people a chance! They
may not be husband material, but so what?
5. Be careful. It’s important not to share your energy field with just about
anyone – you know what I mean?
6. Develop habits. Spend half an hour each evening responding to people
online. Schedule time in your calendar if you have to! The key is to open
yourself up to possibilities
7. Remove all artificial criteria about what you are seeking (over 6 feet,
never been married, Ivy League-educated, sporty).
If you need help with online dating, I have a proven system that works - and
can help.
Other dating tips:
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Spend time with other single people, who are serious about finding a
partner. Go out with them!
Attend at least 2 singles or networking events each month. Find out
where eligible singles go, grab a girlfriend, and go with an open mind of
meeting interesting people and having fun!
Schedule time to go on at least 1 or 2 dates per week
Develop mindful and stress-reduction habits (such as meditation,
yoga, emotional and energy clearing) to help ground you, let go of
anxiety – and generally stay positive throughout the dating process
Additional notes
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Step 5: Create Your Action Plan to Start Dating With Confidence
Congratulations!
We have gone through the heavy lifting to discover your vision, hidden
barriers, and how to go about dating!
Now, we’ll gather all this information, and create your Action Plan.
Exercise: My Action Plan for Manifesting My Soulmate in
2015
Action Next Steps
Creating my vision for my dream partnership (p.s. don’t forget to hang this up in your room!!)
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Addressing my fears & limiting belief systems
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Healing past pain from old relationships
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Developing a positive, healthy mindset
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Developing a positive, healthy lifestyle
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Learning positive & conscious relationship and dating skills
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Creating a list of activities and hobbies that I am passionate about
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Creating a list of places to meet men
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Creating my weekly, monthly and yearly event roster
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Creating my online dating profile and gameplan
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Finding an accountability partner to help me through all of this
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Recommended Resources:
Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life (Marshall Rosenberg)
The Miracle of Mindfulness (Thich Nhat Hanh)
Taming the Tiger Within: Meditations on Transforming Difficult
Emotions (Thich Nhat Hanh)
True Love: A Practice for Awakening the Heart (Thich Nhat Hanh)
Life Without Limits: Inspiration for a Ridiculously Good Life (Nick
Vujicic)
Reconciliation: Healing the Inner Child (Thich Nhat Hanh)
Power of Now (Eckhart Tolle)
The Prophet (Khalil Gibran)
Thought Power (Shri Swami Shivananda)
A Return to Love: Reflections on the Principles of A Course in
Miracles (Marianne Williamson)
The Mastery of Love: A Practical Guide to the Art of Relationship
(Don Miguel Ruiz)
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FREE ASSESSMENT: How Ready Are You For True Love?
See what signals you’re sending to ‘The One’.
Take this quiz to find out. Check the boxes for all that apply.
I feel happy, healthy, content, and have peace-of-mind. I feel a
sense of love and appreciation for myself.
I have closed my ‘Ex Files’ and my heart is ready for a new
relationship!
I have learned what I needed to from past relationships, so I
don’t repeat mistakes
I have created space in my life for a partnership
I have surrounded myself with positive friends, mentors, family,
and community
I have created beautiful and nurturing relationship habits
I am not afraid of getting hurt, and have addressed my fears
around relationships
I have a deep love & trust for men
I am COMMITTED to attracting true love, no matter how high the
stakes are!
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Set up a FREE consultation with Sarika to assess your results and
create Your 2015 Roadmap.
E-mail [email protected] or call (646) 780-9618 to set up your
appointment today.
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With love,
Sarika Jain
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It is because of Sarika’s dedication and ability to foster a space of love that I was able to experience the growth and expansion as I have experienced over the last year. I am forever grateful to her for her service.
Sarika is a shining light am I am grateful to be in her orbit. Because of her commitment to inner
growth and healing, she has been a beautiful and reliable host of the meditation gatherings that
have been nothing but nourishing, uplifting, and perspective-shifting.
It is because of Sarika’s dedication and ability to foster a space of love and community that I
was able to experience the growth and expansion as I have experienced over the last year. I am
forever grateful to her for her service.
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know her.
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as if you are the only thing on her mind and are her number one priority. These quality are
essential to being a good coach, mentor, and teacher. Sarika has also made courageous
decisions to follow her authentic calling in her own personal life journey and has encountered
crushing but heart-opening challenges as well. This makes her able to support others in
making dreams a reality as she draws on her wisdom through her experiences.
Sarika makes an excellent life coach, teacher, and mentor. I have faith that people who are
looking to make positive life changes, face challenges, or heal from past pain can greatly benefit
from her loving presence, attention, and wisdom. I have already recommended that people work
with Sarika!
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