Topics CoveredThe AttitudeBe thankful

Commit

The InformationPersonality Mashups

Love LanguagesFinancially MarriedIntimately Married

The SkillsSafe CommunicationListening for FeelingsLooking for Solutions

The CertificateCertificate of Completion of Premarital Education

5 years

They meet

Get married

???

Personality Differences

If you could change one thing about your partners personality, what

would it be?

Thankfulness

Vs.

Introverts vs. Extraverts

Three P’s for Introverts • Preface • Pause • Probe

Three P’s for Extraverts • Permission• Pause• Phone a Friend

Spencer

Thinker’s perception of themselves

Feeler’s perception of Thinkers

Feeler’s perception of themselves

Thinker’s perception of Feelers

Love Languages

How do you show your fiancé you love him/her?

Five Love Languages

• Affection• Acts of Service• Affirmation• Gifts• Quality Time

Finances

What store could you spend the most time in?

Sex

What is appropriate after sex behavior

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Ladies

• Desire

• Intimacy & Bonding

• Leadership

Gentlemen

• Mutual Enjoyment

• Intimacy & Bonding

• Initiation

Communication

I know my partner is mad when…

co-pilot pilotdecisions

Good communication makes you feel safe.

• I- Statements• Ask Questions• Paraphrase• Assume the BEST• Talk About Feelings

Conclusion

Questions?