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We are what we repeatedly do,Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.Aristotle
1The 7 HabitsBe ProactiveBegin With The End In MindPut First Things FirstThink Win-WinSeek First To UnderstandThen to be understoodSynergize Sharpen the SawThe 7 Habits can help youGet control of your lifeImprove your relationships with your friendsMake smarter decisionsGet along with your parentsOvercome addictionDefine your values and what matters most to youGet more done in less timeIncrease your self-confidenceBe happyFind balance between school, work, friends, and everything elseThe Private Victory Habit 1 Be Proactive Take Responsibility For Your LifeHabit 2 Begin with the End in Mind Define Your Goals In Life And Control Your Own Destiny or Someone Else WillHabit 3- Put First Things First Do the Most Important Things First
The Public VictoryHabit 4 Think Win Win Have An Everyone-can-win AttitudeHabit 5 Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood Listen To People SincerelyHabit 6- Synergize Work Together To Achieve MoreHabit 7- Sharpen the Saw Renew Yourself Regularly
HABIT 1
BE PROACTIVEReactive People
Are easily offendedBlame othersGet angry and say things they later regretWhine and complainWait for things to happen to themChange only when they have toProactive People
Are not easily offendedTake responsibility for their choicesThink before they actBounce back when something bad happensAlways find a way to make it happenFocus on things they can do something about, and dont worry about things they cantBEING PRO ACTIVE INVOLVES HAVING SELF-AWARENESS: I can stand apart from myself and observe my thoughts and actionsCONSCIENCE: I can listen to my inner voice to know right from wrong.IMAGINATION: I can envision new possibilitiesWILLPOWER: I have the power to choose10CIRCLE OF CONCERNCIRCLE OF INFLUENCE1011CIRCLE OF CONCERNCIRCLE OF INFLUENCEPROACTIVE FOCUSCIRCLE OF CONCERNCIRCLE OF INFLUENCEREACTIVE FOCUS
HABIT 2
BEGIN WITH THE END IN MIND13
Where am I going? Belief in Luck
Lack of Ambition
Lack of Knowledge
Why people dont set Goals ? ProcrastinationWELL DESIGNED GOALSILL DESIGNED, CONFLICTING GOALS16
Things which matter the mostmust never be at the mercy of things that matter the leastGoethe
HABIT 3PUT FIRST THINGS FIRST17Things which matter the mostMust never be at the mercy of things that matter the leastGoethe
URGENTNOT URGENTQUADRANT IACTIVITIES:CRISESPRESSING PROBLEMSDEADLINE DRIVEN PROJECTSQUADRANT IIACTIVITIES:PREVENTIONRELATIONSHIP BUILDINGRECOGNIZING NEW OPPORTUNITIESPLANNING, RECREATIONQUADRANT IIIACTIVITIES:INTERRUPTIONSSOME CALLS, SOME MAILSSOME REPORTS, SOME MEETINGSPRESSING MATTERSPOPULAR ACTIVITIES
QUADRANT IVACTIVITIES:TRIVIA, BUSY WORKSOME MAILSOME PHONE CALLSTIME WASTERSPLEASANT ACTIVITIESNOT IMPORTANT IMPORTANT URGENTNOT URGENTQUADRANT I
PROCRASTINATOR QUADRANT II
PRIORITIZER
QUADRANT III
YES-MAN
QUADRANT IV
TIME-WASTERNOT IMPORTANT IMPORTANT I RESULTS
STRESSBURNOUTCRISES MANAGEMENTALWAYS PUTTING OUT FIRES
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IVIIIIII RESULTS
SHORT-TERM FOCUSCRISIS MANAGEMENTREPUTATION-CHAMELEON CHARACTERSEE GOALS AND PLANS AS WORTHLESSFEEL VICITMISED, OUT OF CONTROLSHALLOW & BROKEN RELATIONSHIPSIVIIIIII IV
RESULTS
TOTAL IRRESPONSIBILITY FIRED FROM JOBS DEPENDENT ON OTHERS
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VISION, PERSPECTIVE BALANCE DISCIPLINE CONTROL FEW CRISES IHABIT 4 THINK WIN-WINWin/Lose- AuthoritarianLose/Win- No demands, no expectations, no vision.Lose/Lose- Vindictive, revengeWin/Win- Mutually beneficial
Paradigms of Human InteractionWin/Win
Win/Win seeks mutual benefits in all human interactions.Win/Win means that agreements or solutions are mutually beneficial. Win/Win is the belief that its not your way or my way; its a better way, a higher way.
HABIT 5SEEK FIRST TO UNDERSTAND THEN TO BE UNDERSTOODConversation between reluctant child and mother26FAULTY PERCEPTIONSThere is no reason for any individual to have a computer in their homeKENNETH OLSEN, PRESIDENT & FOUNDER OF DIGITAL EQUIPMENT CORPORATIONMan will never reach the moon regardless of all future scientific advancesDr.LEE DE FOREST, INVENTOR OF AUDION TUDE AND FATHER OF RADIO IN 1967Can You Trust Your Perceptions?Could you be on slippery slope of faulty perceptions?Faulty perceptions can affect the way you think, feel & act
What then do you need to do to be successful in problem solving, decision making, & conflict Resolution?Use all your sensesBe open, look at both sides of issuesBe analytical, identify & question assumptions & stereotypesBrainstorm, think out the box!Be organized in your approach in dealing with the issuesBE OPEN TO REALITY THE WAY IT IS RATHER THAN HOW YOU PERCEIVE IT TO BEHABIT 6SYNERGIZE
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VISION, PERSPECTIVE BALANCE DISCIPLINE CONTROL FEW CRISES I
SHARPEN THE SAWIT IS PRESERVING & ENHANCING THE GREATEST ASSET YOU HAVE YOURSELF
DIMENSIONS SHARPENING THE SAW IS RENEWING THE 4 DIMENSIONS OF YOUR NATURE 38PHYSICALExercise, Nutrition,Stress ManagementFOUR DIMENSIONS OF RENEWALMENTALReading, Visualizing,Planning, WritingSOCIAL/EMOTIONALService, Empathy,Synergy, Intrinsic SecuritySPIRITUALValue Clarification& Commitment, Study& Meditation
PHYSICAL RENEWALEXERCISENUTRITIONSTRESS MANAGEMENT
SPIRITUAL RENEWALVALUE CLARIFICATION AND COMMITMENTSTUDY AND MEDITATION
MENTAL RENEWALREADINGVISUALIZINGPLANNINGWRITING
SOCIAL / EMOTIONAL RENEWALSERVICEEMPATHYSYNERGYINTRINSIC SECURITY43DuplicityUnkindnessViolatedexpectationsOutside stressand pressuresTime wastersInterruptionsPressingproblemsCrisesPERSONAL IMMUNE SYSTEM
Live the Seven HabitsSpend timein productive activitiesFollow correctprinciplesControl own lifeMaintain highEmotional BankAccount with selfand othersMaintain reservecapacityBe resilientEmpower andserve othersCommunicateEmpathicallySynergize withothers using awin-win approach43
Many receive adviceOnly the wise profit from it