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Shabbos Candle Lighting 5:11PM Mincha/Kabbalas Shabbos 5:15PM Daf Yomi 8:00AM Early Minyan Talmud Sotah 8:00AM 8:15AM Shacharis 9:00AM Shiur 4:10PM Mincha 4:55PM Havdalah 6:14PM Weekday Shacharis Sunday 8:00AM Mon-Fri 7:00AM Mincha Sun-Thur 5:15PM The weekly Shmooze News is dedicated by: Jack and Susan Gluck in memory of Milton & Edith Gluck z"l and Nicholas Brecher z”l; Stuart Harris in honor of Penny Harris; and Aaron and Susan Weinberg in memory of Jack & Helen Weinberg z"l and Morris & Nellie Fischer z"l. Young Israel Congregation 9580 Abbott Avenue, Surfside, FL 33154 www.yicbh.org - [email protected] SHMOOZE NEWS Parshas Vayetze, November 25, 2017 Rabbi Moshe Gruenstein [email protected] President Menno Ratzker ותהר ותלד בן ותאמר אסף אלוקים את חרפתיShe [Rachel] conceived and bore a son, and said “G-d has taken away my disgrace.Bereishis 30:23 What kind of disgrace is Rachel referring to? Rashi, the great biblical commentator, gives two interpretations. The first explanation of the “disgrace” Rachel is talking about is the fact that if she remained childless, she would eventually wind up as the wife of Esav. Then Rashi adds another interpretation based on a midrash which is hard to understand. The disgrace she will be saved from is that now that she has a child, she could blame the mishaps in the home on her son. Really! The great matriarch Rachel is overjoyed that she finally is blessed with a child so she can have someone to blame!? This seems preposterous but therein lies a fundamental principal of life which is that deep down the propensity to blame others and not take personal responsibility is a very powerful force in the human being. Of course, Rachel’s greatness is beyond our comprehension, but the Torah’s way is to magnify what might be a subconscious thought of Rachel, to teach us how much a part of the human dynamic it is to blame others for our own mistakes and how hard and difficult it is to own up to our shortcomings and say the buck stops with me. For in the end, the only way to better

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Shabbos

Candle Lighting 5:11PM

Mincha/Kabbalas

Shabbos 5:15PM

Daf Yomi 8:00AM

Early Minyan

Talmud Sotah

8:00AM

8:15AM

Shacharis 9:00AM

Shiur 4:10PM

Mincha 4:55PM

Havdalah 6:14PM

Weekday

Shacharis

Sunday 8:00AM

Mon-Fri 7:00AM

Mincha

Sun-Thur 5:15PM

The weekly Shmooze News is dedicated by:

Jack and Susan Gluck in memory of Milton & Edith Gluck z"l and Nicholas Brecher z”l;

Stuart Harris in honor of Penny Harris; and

Aaron and Susan Weinberg in memory of Jack & Helen Weinberg z"l and

Morris & Nellie Fischer z"l.

Young Israel Congregation 9580 Abbott Avenue, Surfside, FL 33154

www.yicbh.org - [email protected]

SHMOOZE NEWS

Parshas Vayetze, November 25, 2017 Rabbi Moshe Gruenstein – [email protected]

President Menno Ratzker

ותהר ותלד בן ותאמר אסף אלוקים את חרפתי

She [Rachel] conceived and bore a son, and said

“G-d has taken away my disgrace.” Bereishis 30:23

What kind of disgrace is Rachel referring to? Rashi, the

great biblical commentator, gives two interpretations.

The first explanation of the “disgrace” Rachel is talking about is

the fact that if she remained childless, she would eventually wind

up as the wife of Esav. Then Rashi adds another interpretation

based on a midrash which is hard to understand. The disgrace she

will be saved from is that now that she has a child, she could

blame the mishaps in the home on her son. Really! The great

matriarch Rachel is overjoyed that she finally is blessed with a

child so she can have someone to blame!? This seems

preposterous but therein lies a fundamental principal of life which

is that deep down the propensity to blame others and not take

personal responsibility is a very powerful force in the human

being. Of course, Rachel’s greatness is beyond our

comprehension, but the Torah’s way is to magnify what might be

a subconscious thought of Rachel, to teach us how much a part of

the human dynamic it is to blame others for our own mistakes and

how hard and difficult it is to own up to our shortcomings and say

the buck stops with me. For in the end, the only way to better

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Parshas Vayetze, November 25, 2017

oneself and start a process of self-transformation is to realize that we alone are the masters of our

own destiny and blaming our problems on others is not only an exercise in futility, but it is

counterproductive to any type of personal growth.

Wishing you an inspiring Shabbos!

Rabbi Moshe Gruenstein

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SAVE THE DATES

December 17 at 4pm: Festive Chanukah party for ONE and ALL – children, parents

and grandparents. Great food, music and entertainment by a world class hypnotist.

January 12-13: Our first community wide Shabbaton with dinner Friday night.

Scholar in Residence Mr. Richard Joel, President of Yeshiva University 2003-2017

and former President and International Director of the Hillel Foundation.

SPONSORS WELCOME FOR BOTH EVENTS.

PROGRAM & RESERVATION INFORMATION TO FOLLOW

Please join us for a Siyum commemorating the Shloshim for

Ethelyn Lieblicha’h

A woman who connected to everyone,

inspired all, lived life with simcha.

Siyum Thursday, December 7, 7:30pm

Young Israel of Bal Harbour

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Congregational Family and Shul News

Kiddush is co-sponsored by Mark Lewison & Sarah Cook in honor of Olivia’s Bat Mitzvah.

Mazel tov to Olivia and to the entire family!

Kiddush is co-sponsored by Shelly Rindner in honor of her son Alexander’s aufruf and

upcoming marriage to Rachel Sussman. Mazel tov to Alexander and Rachel and to parents Shelly

Rindner and Marsha & Ira Sussman and to the entire extended family!

8 AM Minyan Kiddush is sponsored by Helen and Menno Ratzker in honor of Kyle Ratzker‘s

forthcoming Bar Mitzvah.

This week’s Seuda Shlishit is sponsored by Shelley Rindner in honor of Alexander’s aufruf and

upcoming marriage to Rachel Sussman.

Refuah Sheleimah

We wish refuah sheleimah to: Allen Packer, Alexander ben Esther Raizel; Rabbi Simeon Schreiber,

Shimon ben Blima; Minnie Schraga.

Youth Program

On November 26th from 1:30pm until 3:30pm there will be a unique Medical Clowning training

for all youth. Please contact Rabbi Fried for more details about this fascinating, fun and important

event that will help train you for the beautiful Mitzvah of cheering up those who are sick or have

special needs.

High School teens are invited to Learning and Frozen Yogurt every Wednesday night. Please

check for weekly timing and location details.

Any teen that would like to get more involved with advocating for Israel by being a part of a

weekly Israel Advocacy meeting on Mondays or attend via Skype please email

[email protected]

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Parshas Vayetze, November 25, 2017

Shabbos Chol Hamoed Succos, October 7, 2017

Classes and Upcoming Events

Mondays at 10:30AM – Ladies Tehillim Group in the Beis Midrash.

Father & Child learning on Motzei Shabbos starting at 7:00PM with Pizza and special Prizes!

Mondays 8:00-9:00PM – Beis midrash learning with Yeshivah Toras Chaim. 30 young Talmudic

scholars will be available to learn with anyone in our community.

Shabbos December 8-9 – Young Couples Shabbaton. Guest lecturer Rabbi Jonathan Rietti. Please

make your reservations for the Shabbat dinner ASAP.

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If you are interested in sponsoring Kiddush or Seudah Shlishis,

please contact Stuart Harris or Yakira at (305) 866-0203.

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ATTENTION ALL MEN!

Please do not walk behind the 2 ladies’ sections during services.

Please use side doors to enter and exit Sanctuary after 10:00 AM.

Thank you for your cooperation.

E-mail communication When you e-mail the office please make sure your e-mail is to [email protected] NOT yibh.org

The e-mail for Florence, our receptionist/secretary, is [email protected]

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Yahrzeits Nov. 25-Dec. 1, 2017

8 KISLEV Reine Fiss for her relative, Steven Adelman, on Sunday, Nov. 26

8 KISLEV Eleazer Hirmes for his father, Rabbi Abraham P. Hirmes, on Sunday, Nov. 26

8 KISLEV Harvey Wolinetz for his father, Leonard Wolinetz, on Sunday, Nov. 26

9 KISLEV Greta Hirmes for her sister, Meris Rindner, on Monday, Nov. 27

9 KISLEV Lazer & Ziporah Milstein for their son, Betzalel Binyamin Milstein, on Monday, Nov. 27

9 KISLEV Charlotte Roth for her mother, Doris Amster, on Monday, Nov. 27

10 KISLEV Charlotte Roth for her father, Arthur Amster, on Tuesday, Nov. 28

10 KISLEV Gerald Wolf for his father, Samuel Wolf, on Tuesday, Nov. 28

11 KISLEV Sam Eltes for his son, Moshe Nissan Eltes, on Wednesday, Nov. 29

11 KISLEV Vivian Naimer for her son, Moshe Nissan Eltes, on Wednesday, Nov. 29

12 KISLEV David Herman for his father, Chaim Henoch Herman, on Thursday, Nov. 30

13 KISLEV Leon Brum for his mother, Elka Brum, on Friday, Dec. 1

13 KISLEV Stanley Reiter for his brother, Nathaniel Reiter, on Friday, Dec. 1

13 KISLEV Stanley Reiter for his mother, Katherine Reiter, on Friday, Dec. 1 Please report any errors or omissions to the Young Israel office or email [email protected]

Community notice Motion activated lights were installed in the pedestrian crosswalk at Collins Avenue and 99th Street. Use of this

crosswalk should be avoided on Shabbos and Yom Tov as the lights are motion activated and are turned on as

pedestrians cross Collins Avenue.

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