X3 Pure Couples Chapter 7
Transcript of X3 Pure Couples Chapter 7
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Chapter 7: X3Pure Couples Series
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Dealing with Anger
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• Four styles of conflict.
Dealing with Anger
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• Four styles of conflict.
Dealing with Anger
- Win- Yield
- Withdraw
- Resolve
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• Four styles of conflict.
Dealing with Anger
- Win- Yield
- Withdraw
- Resolve
• Conflict can be good if it’s resolved.
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• Four styles of conflict.
Dealing with Anger
- Win- Yield
- Withdraw
- Resolve
• Conflict can be good if it’s resolved.
• Confronting in love.
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Anger
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Anger
• 3 Types of Anger
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Anger
• 3 Types of Anger- Situation specific
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Anger
• 3 Types of Anger- Situation specific
- Displaced anger
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Anger
• 3 Types of Anger- Situation specific
- Displaced anger
- Chronic anger
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Chronic Anger
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Chronic Anger
• Chronic anger is situation-specific but displaced from another situation.
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Chronic Anger
• Chronic anger is situation-specific but displaced from another situation.
• Similar to displaced anger but chronic anger is connected to your past, a wound, or abuse. Chronic anger is usually the result of unresolved issues.
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Chronic Anger
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Chronic Anger
• To deal with chronic anger you must forgive.
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Chronic Anger
• To deal with chronic anger you must forgive.
• Chronic anger is usually tied to a person or a past event.
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Chronic Anger
• To deal with chronic anger you must forgive.
• Chronic anger is usually tied to a person or a past event.
• Until you are able to forgive you will never break free from chronic anger.
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Forgiveness
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Forgiveness
• Ephesians 4.32 “Be kind and compassionate toward one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you.”
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Forgiveness
• Ephesians 4.32 “Be kind and compassionate toward one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you.”
• It is a command
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Forgiveness
• Ephesians 4.32 “Be kind and compassionate toward one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you.”
• It is a commandBe kind
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Forgiveness
• Ephesians 4.32 “Be kind and compassionate toward one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you.”
• It is a commandBe kind
Be compassionate
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Forgiveness
• Ephesians 4.32 “Be kind and compassionate toward one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you.”
• It is a commandBe kind
Be compassionate
Forgive
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Forgiveness
• Ephesians 4.32 “Be kind and compassionate toward one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you.”
• It is a commandBe kind
Be compassionate
Forgive
• In Christ
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Forgiveness
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Forgiveness
• “When you forgive someone you set a prisoner free only to discover that you were the prisoner.”
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Forgiveness
• “When you forgive someone you set a prisoner free only to discover that you were the prisoner.”
• Forgiveness is not about the other person, it’s about me.
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Homework Assignment
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Homework Assignment
• Begin the process of forgiveness today