X3 family session 7
Transcript of X3 family session 7
X3 Rock Your Family
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X3 Rock Your FamilySession 7: Five Things Every Child Longs For
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Ten Commandments of Rock Your Family
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Ten Commandments of Rock Your Family• #1) “I am the parent and you are not”
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Ten Commandments of Rock Your Family• #1) “I am the parent and you are not”
• #2) Truth is caught more than taught
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Ten Commandments of Rock Your Family• #1) “I am the parent and you are not”
• #2) Truth is caught more than taught
• #3) Give the blessing
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Give The Blessing
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Give The Blessing• Gary Smalley, The Blessing
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Give The Blessing• Gary Smalley, The Blessing• Five Aspects of The Blessing
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Give The Blessing• Gary Smalley, The Blessing• Five Aspects of The Blessing1. Meaningful Touch
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Give The Blessing• Gary Smalley, The Blessing• Five Aspects of The Blessing1. Meaningful Touch2. Spoken Words
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Give The Blessing• Gary Smalley, The Blessing• Five Aspects of The Blessing1. Meaningful Touch2. Spoken Words3. Attaching High Value
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Give The Blessing• Gary Smalley, The Blessing• Five Aspects of The Blessing1. Meaningful Touch2. Spoken Words3. Attaching High Value4. Predicting A Special Future
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Give The Blessing• Gary Smalley, The Blessing• Five Aspects of The Blessing1. Meaningful Touch2. Spoken Words3. Attaching High Value4. Predicting A Special Future5. Commitment To A Special Future
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Meaningful Touch
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• Touching them
Meaningful Touch
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• Touching them
• Hugging them
Meaningful Touch
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• Touching them
• Hugging them
• Patting them
Meaningful Touch
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Meaningful Touch
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• Children long for meaningful touch
Meaningful Touch
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• Children long for meaningful touch
• Appropriate touch
Meaningful Touch
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• Children long for meaningful touch
• Appropriate touch
• Pure & innocent touch
Meaningful Touch
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• Children long for meaningful touch
• Appropriate touch
• Pure & innocent touch
• Do it even if you donʼt feel like it
Meaningful Touch
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Spoken Word
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Spoken Word
• Saying the words to your sons and daughters that they need to hear
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Spoken Word
• Saying the words to your sons and daughters that they need to hear
• “I love you”
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Spoken Word
• Saying the words to your sons and daughters that they need to hear
• “I love you”
• “I believe in you”
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Spoken Word
• Saying the words to your sons and daughters that they need to hear
• “I love you”
• “I believe in you”
• “Youʼve got what it takes”
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Spoken Word
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• “Youʼre the man”
Spoken Word
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• “Youʼre the man”
• “I cherish you”
Spoken Word
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• “Youʼre the man”
• “I cherish you”
• Spoken work is powerful
Spoken Word
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• “Youʼre the man”
• “I cherish you”
• Spoken work is powerful
• Not just convey what theyʼre good at but to convey how you feel about them
Spoken Word
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Attaching High Value
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• Valuing them for who they are and not what they do
Attaching High Value
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• Valuing them for who they are and not what they do
• Making sure they feel valued
Attaching High Value
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Predicting A Special Future
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• Looking at how theyʼre wired and predict how God might use them some day
Predicting A Special Future
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Commitment To ASpecial Future
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Commitment To ASpecial Future
• Help the special future become a reality
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Commitment To ASpecial Future
• Help the special future become a reality
• Commandment #3) Give the Blessing
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Homework
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Homework
• Write the names of your children
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Homework
• Write the names of your children• How are they wired?
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Homework
• Write the names of your children• How are they wired?• What words describe them?
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Homework
• Write the names of your children• How are they wired?• What words describe them? • How can you bless them?
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Homework
• Write the names of your children• How are they wired?• What words describe them? • How can you bless them? • What will their future look like?
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Homework
• Write the names of your children• How are they wired?• What words describe them? • How can you bless them? • What will their future look like?• Create a plan to help them
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