Reclaim your life in just 21 days

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65% of people divorced for a 3rdor 4th time said that they wishedthey had handled their divorces ina more ethical and graceful way,taking a more active role in their

healing.They also said that they wished

they had gotten to the rootcause of the break-up so that

they didn’t ruin their nextrelationship.

How have you dealt with loss in the past?

Time does not heal wounds

Taking time to heal can lead to a false sense of • False healing can lead to illness

• False Healing can lead to premature ageing

• False Healing can lead to destructive behaviour post-divorce

• False Healing can have a severe impact on those closest to you

• False Healing can lead to relationship baggage

Feeling

The Journey out of feeling resigned...

Idealistic

Frustrated

Defiant

Selling out

Momentum

Decisiveness

Concentration

AwarenessResignation

The Journey out of feeling resigned...STEP 1: Confront that you may be holding onto your suffering in some way.STEP 2: Become aware of the real impact of not healing from your divorce.STEP 3: Educate yourself on the Healing Formula and what it takes to heal.STEP 4: Take focused action and concentrate on healing.STEP 5: Take decisions on a daily basis to heal until you reach a momentum which leads to breakthroughs in your healing.

What has been your true agenda?

What is your true agenda?

COST

TRUE AGENDA

Instructions1 Take a moment to study these three cards.

2 Pick the card that feels the most like the space you are in now.

3 Circle the angel life-attributes which you feel have been sacrificed. The circled items are a representation of the negative impact that not healing from your divorce has had on your life.

4 Spend some time pondering what your true agenda has been in not healing from your divorce. In this process you might notice things about yourself that you haven’t seen before. Use the true agenda on the card to prompt your own thinking. You might not like what you see. But I can assure you that facing up to these negative points could precipitate a significant turning point in your healing.

COST

TRUE AGENDA

Instructions5 If you’re struggling to find the true agenda, it’s okay. This exercise can be confronting as most of the true agendas are wedged deep within our blind spot.

6 Think of twenty points for each of these instances:• What are you holding onto being right about?• Why are you so angry?• What are the reasons or justifications you are clinging to?• What attention are you getting by holding onto this issue?• Who are you dominating by holding onto this issue?• Why are you refusing to let go?

7 Think of the negative impact this issue is having on your life. How much longer are you willing to sacrifice your life to hold onto your true agenda?

Without processing your emotions, you

will get stuck...

Emotions

Time

Emotional journey

Divorce shock moment

Anger

Anger

Anger

Anger

Loneliness

Happy

Acceptance

Numb

Numb

Shock

Denial

Denial

Grief & LossGrief & Loss

Humiliation & Despair

Panic & negotiation

Panic & negotiation

Feels like acceptance, but more accurately

resignation

Active

Passive

Time

Emotional response

Anger

Denial Space

Acceptance responsibility forgiveness gratitude

Shock

Divorceevent

Loss & grief

Panic and negotiation humiliation

Naked Divorce

Trying to change on your own doesn’t

always work

Family aren’t always the best

Your bestie is also not the best support...

Watch out...

•They may say weird or inappropriate things

•They change the subject

• Some want to revel in the drama

•They don’t want to talk about it

•They don’t want to catch your disease

Watch out for leaning on your

What you really need is an...

There are 3 stages to the Naked Divorce

Cocoon - ensuring you are stable and secure before commencing any

transformational work

Metamorphosis - completing your relationship for good

Release - redefining your relationship with your future and

with yourself

Book a Clarity Session1 Uncover the inhibitors which are keeping you stuck and keeping you

from getting over your divorce

2 Discover the 5 key frameworks that will help you identify, organise and plan your healing journey

3 Address any concerns or challenges you may need to overcome to your healing

4 Explore the naked divorce as a possible vehicle to help you move on

5 If interested explore the enrolment criteria and payment options and see if this programme will work for you

6 If not interested, you still get a very valuable session which can help you plan your next steps!

Book a Clarity Session

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