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SHOFAR 1 SUMMER, 2015
Vol. XLII No. 11 THE NEWS OF DELAWARE’S JULY/AUGUST 2015 FIRST CONGREGATION
Shalom Chaverim:
Thank you folks for your attendance tonight, and your participation and presence during the past year . I/We need to thank all the
committee chairs; they have been running AKSE for the past year. You have heard them describe their many efforts -getting ready for
tonight and of course during the year; quite a bit of time is involved. And thanks to those that help keep the Shabbat and other worship
services going: Neil Lattin and Mel Zussman, our Gabbaiim, Scott Slomowitz, Howard Stromwasser, Mark Wagman, Joel Panitz, Mike
Leviton, Richard Plotzker and Lou Brown
Please be forewarned - This is not going to be a huzzah, applause filled, what a wonderful year it was type of speech. It is a
somber serious talk. In my remarks 12 months ago at this very podium, I was unfortunately accurate in forecasting my abilities and the
dynamics of the world around us. I said then what remains true today: “ I have no words of instant wisdom to solve our problems. I
have no magic wand to change the Jewish demographics of the DE/PA region, nor eliminate the problematic issue our Traditional
Orthodox approach to Jewish worship presents. I do not have a sugar daddy lined up to send us a six figure check, so finances will
remain an issue. Getting enough men for the daily minyan, no new ideas there, though things seem to be improving there. The Hebrew
school student count remains low. The constant question of how to get more folks to take advantage of what AKSE has to offer remains
incompletely answered.”
So it is incumbent on all of us to be ambassadors for AKSE—invite them to come with you to AKSE academy, Sisterhood dinners,
Men’s Club breakfasts, High Holiday worship and Men’s Choir —tell your Jewish friends about our wonderful Hebrew School, which
is outstanding but woefully short of students.
Let me say that you folks and the committee chairs are wonderful, but there are not enough of you. We have mostly the same
people doing the work, year after year. Individually you are all great, but there are not enough of you.
I want to thank out going Board members for their service and welcome the new board members. There is a feeling that the board
and AKSE leadership moves slowly or is not getting enough done. I would suggest some of the “too much talk, no action” issue is
because there is no obvious path forward, or what is obvious to some is less obvious to others. There are many ideas out there; come
and join the discussion. Members in good standing are invited to all board meetings, though voting is limited to board members only.
Finances are a problem and require mention and future action. Last week we had to borrow money from the bank to meet typical
June expenses. We will recover somewhat when next year dues money begins its July flow, but June of 2016? So financial issues (2016
and the next three/five years) will force the board and hence the congregation to consider some difficult issues this upcoming year—our
approach to clergy, Torah reading, property ownership, Hebrew School expense. Revenue depends a great deal on special events and
donations. Will AKSE be as successful going forward as it has been in the past?
One happy house keeping item of note: PRIED school plans on returning in the fall. They are paying rent for upstairs
classrooms. So you will notice cars in the parking lot, kids around during the week and a PRIED sign on the premises. So let’s
welcome and be solicitous of our returning friends. Also there is a June 25, 7 pm Women’s meeting to discuss ritual issues that I hope
women will attend.
So we have finished one year together with me as President, I have learned much but will continue to seek advice and counsel from
past presidents and others. Thank you for your patience and support. Also to repeat another part of last year’s remarks, this is a labor of
love for me, the community at AKSE is a source for me of strength (and faith, friendship, fun and learning). I hope it is now and will
continue to be a source of those things for you as well .
You are most welcome to speak to me, implore, beg and beseech me when you find me at services or events—call or email
([email protected]). I do not promise to agree, only to pay full attention.
Thank you for the opportunity to serve, I look forward to working together as we deal with the issues facing AKSE and enjoying as
well the successes and vibrant years ahead of us that we will share together.
Jonathan Jaffe
Presented at Congregational Meeting June 17, 2015
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ADAS KODESCH SHEL EMETH
4412 Washington Blvd. Wilmington, DE 19802-1226
Synagogue Office (302) 762-2705 E-mail to [email protected]
FAX (302) 762-3236
Delaware Community Hebrew School (302) 762-3618
AKSE Website www.akse.org
Steven Saks, Rabbi
Yehoshua Redfern, Cantor Gail Weinberg, Educational Director
OFFICERS Jonathan Jaffe, President
Max Rosenberg, Executive VP
Marty Zukoff, Acting VP Finance
Harriet Ainbinder VP Education
Vivian Goldberg VP Religious Affairs
Wendy Shlossman, VP Administration
Dan Berry, VP Facilities
Lena Elzufon & Dianne Seidel VP Membership
Mark Wagman, VP Community Affairs
Awaiting Volunteer VP Ways & Means
Jeff Seidel, Treasurer
Sharon Berry & Eleanor Weinglass Secretary
Dan Berry & Len Seltzer
Men’s Club Presidents
Sylvia Wagman
Sisterhood President
STAFF Sharon Marshall, Office Manager
Arlene Mac Laren, Office Assistant
Carol Burg, Bookkeeper
Cliff Packer,
Andrew Davis
Maintenance
The Shofar is published 11 months: September through July/August.
Jonathan Jaffe, Shofar Editor E-mail to [email protected]
Shalom Chaverim,
The question below was recently posed to me. "The Reform siddur includes the words Mechayeh HaKol ('The One Who gives life to all'), but the Orthodox siddur states Mechayeh Meitim ('The One
Who resurrects the dead'). What is the reason for this difference?" The text of the Orthodox siddur contains the traditional liturgy, which represents the belief in not only the immortality of the soul but a physical resurrection of the dead as well. Resurrection of the
dead is mentioned by biblical prophets such as Isaiah, Ezekiel and Daniel, and the belief in it is the Rambam’s 13th Principle of Faith. It is important to note that, in the second blessing of the Amidah, we praise G-d not for resurrecting the dead but rather state “And you are
faithful to resurrect the dead. Blessed be you G-d who resurrects the dead.” We praise G-d by exclaiming that we have faith that he will resurrect the dead, because this is an act of might we are yet to witness G-d perform (outside of two incidents recorded in the Book of Kings).
The Orthodox siddur has maintained the reference to the resurrection of the dead because we believe it is one of the many things G-d can and will do. It is not an accident that G-d’s ability to resurrect is mentioned in the second blessing of the Amidah. In the first blessing Avot (Patriarchs), we
begin by establishing our relationship to G-d by invoking the relationship our ancestors had with G-d. After we establish our relationship with G-d, in the second paragraph Gavrut (Might) we praise G-d for the mighty acts we have seen him perform such as healing the sick and pronounce that we have faith
that he will keep his promise of resurrecting the dead. Though traditional Jewish thought believes in the resurrection of the dead, there is disagreement
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as to how the resurrection will occur and how it will play out due to the Bible’s lack of description.
According to the Nachmanides, after the righteous die their souls ascend to heaven. There they will
remain until the arrival of the messianic era. During the messianic era, there will be a Techiyat Hameitim (a physical resurrection of the dead), and the resurrected will
endlessly live in a utopian state. Nachmanides defines this as Olam Haba (the World to Come).
Like Nachmanides, Maimonides, too, believes that the righteous will
ascend to the heavens and be resurrected in the messianic era. But, unlike Nachmanides, Maimonides believes the resurrected will die again and return to heaven. The question is obvious, why would G-d resurrect the
righteous only to have them return to the heavens? According to Maimonides, the ultimate reward is for the soul to be freed from the mundane concerns of the physical world so it can bask in G-d's wisdom. To Maimonides, the soul
b a s k i n g i n G - d ' s w i s d o m constitutes Olam Haba.
(Continued from page 2) The mystics believe in Gilgul
HaNeshama (reincarnation). According to this school of thought, King Saul was reincarnated as Mordechi, and Agag, the king of the anti-Semitic Amalekites, was reincarnated as
Haman. Saul was commanded by G-d to execute Agag but failed to do so and therefore lost the kingship to David. But hundreds of years later in Persia, Mordechi’s refusal to bow down to Haman unleashed a chain of events
that ultimately led to the execution of Haman. Thus, the reincarnated Saul who was embodied by Mordechi finally fulfilled G-d’s command to kill Agag who was embodied by the anti-Semitic Persian Prime Minister, Haman.
In the end what is important is not what the resurrection of the dead will look like, but that it gives us the faith that even after our earthly life comes to an end our relationship with the Almighty continues. Kol Tuv, Rabbi Saks
Please remember AKSE in your will or estate plan.
If you have already provided for AKSE in your plan, please let us know so we can welcome you into our Legacy Society. Want to learn more? Please leave your name with the office at 302 762 2705 and a member of the Legacy Committee will contact you.
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MAZAL TOV AND THANK YOU
JOEL PANITZ
Minyanaires 70th reunion
was a huge success.
May 17, 2015
More than 90 past minyanaires came from
all over (California! was the furthest) to
celebrate and reconnect with their AKSE
minyanaire friends.
Joel conceived of, planned, organized and
was MC at a wonderful affair. He made it
happen.
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CAFÉ TAMAR
May 17, 2015
Photos provided by Ron Makar and
Roseanne Griff Cabelli
THANKS Café Tamar
Committee:
Harriet Ainbinder,
Faith and Lou Brown,
Ron Makar,
Karen Moss,
Sylvia and Mark Wagman
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AKSE COMMUNITY HEBREW SCHOOL CLASS MAY, 2015
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Snacking with friends
Visiting at Passover with the Gordons
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Shabbat shalom!
The speech I chose is “ I have completed the Jewish marathon.” 26 ‘Things I have learned in Hebrew School. I
don’t really have anything else to add to my intro—so let’s just get right into it!
1. I learned the Hebrew alphabet
2. After learning the alphabet…I learned to write in stick Hebrew
3. And next I learned to write in cursive Hebrew
4. And guess what’s next…. I also learned to count in Hebrew- echad, shteyim, shalosh, .. you get the
point…
5. I also learned all of the months in Hebrew
6. I learned prayers and songs… LOTS of prayers and songs…
7. I learned the meaning of the word MITZVAH.. performing a good deed. An example of this is when we
made several trips to the Kutz Home to sing songs, lead services, and share the holidays with the
residents there. This is the mitzvah we performed that stands out most to me.
8. I learned about the traditions surrounding all of the Jewish holidays. My favorite times at Hebrew school
would have to be Purim… celebrating at the Purim carnival was always fun!
9. I learned a lot about Jewish history. Listening to Mrs. Jaffe talk about the Holocaust is something that will
always stick with me.
10. I learned about the places to go and visit in Israel. We’ve had many geography lessons about Israel. I
know that Israel is so small that it fits inside the state of NJ. That’s pretty small…
11. I learned how to make many delicious Jewish foods, like Hamentaschen and Challah.
12. I learned Jewish dances. That was always fun with our class!
13. I learned what it means to make your Bar or Bat Mitzvah … and now that I will be 12 in December ,
that’s right around the corner for me.
14. I learned about Jewish values.
15. I learned how to lead prayers during a service.
16. I learned how to carry the Torah and read from the Torah with a Yad.
17. I learned Israel’s National Anthem, Hatikvah.
18. I learned about the flag of Israel.
19.I learned about mezuzot, the Star of David, and other Jewish symbols.
20. I learned about tzedakah, the act of being righteous and giving to those less fortunate.
21. I learned what it means to keep kosher.
22. I learned all of the blessings before meals.
23. I learned how to observe Shabbat… singing Shalom Aleychem, blessing the children, thanking my Mom
and Dad, saying the Kiddush, washing our hands, blessing the bread …. And eating good food with my
family.
24. I learned my way around the synagogue.
25. I learned how to decorate a Sukkah.
26. Last but not least, I learned that I am proud to be Jewish.
And that completes my Jewish marathon! WHEW!
Jordan
AKSE HEBREW SCHOOL Graduation speeches, May 15, 2015
Please enjoy the students thoughts on the occasion of their graduation
(Editors note: The Hebrew school is a gem, would that more parents and students took advantage of it.)
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Shabbat Shalom
I have been at Adas Kodesch Hebrew School for 5 years. Through these years I
have learned the Hebrew alphabet and to read Hebrew prayers. I really enjoyed
how I got one on one with the teachers. I also liked how we played games. My
favorite game was basketball where we had to say or write something in He-
brew and if you got it right then you could shoot and get points. (I was always
the winner!)
I would like to thank Mrs. Weinberg and Mrs. Moss for dealing with me and
teaching me prayers for my upcoming bar mitzvah. I also love going to meet
with Rabbi Saks every Tuesday and talk to him about Jewish history and the
future of the Jews and Israel. Sometimes we went on walks or threw the foot-
ball around which was fun.
Ely
What Does Being Jewish Mean To Me?
Shabbat Shalom. For my speech, I will be talking about “what being Jewish means to me?”
Being Jewish means a lot to me. I love learning about Israel and the places in Israel, I love listening to stories
about what happened in Israel long ago. Being Jewish means traditions and holidays to me. It is really fun to
enjoy a Jewish holiday with your friends and family, eating all of the delicious foods there are to go along with
that holiday.
Being Jewish to me means spending Friday nights with my family on Shabbat. A tradition that my family and I
do every Friday night is we go around the Shabbat table one at a time, saying what our best and worst parts of the
day were. In my opinion, that is my favorite part of Shabbat, learning about how my family’s day was - besides
reading and listening to the prayers. I feel that I can learn a lot from paying attention to the prayers and what they
mean. Speaking of prayers, to me, being Jewish means reading prayers and singing songs.
I love lighting the menorah on Chanukah and getting gifts for 8 straight days. It makes me feel happy inside and
out. Also, thinking about the story of how there was enough oil to stay lit for 8 straight days makes me feel
curious about how that was possible. I guess we will never know. Overall, I feel that Chanukah makes me feel
excited and happy to be singing the songs and being with my family.
Some other things about Judaism that are special to me are:
Having a sukkah in the back yard
Listening to the Shofar being blown during Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur
Listening to the beautiful prayers of Yom Kippur
Seeing my dad and brother wear their kippot on Shabbat
Lighting Shabbat candles
Helping my mom cook for Shabbat
Singing Hatikva
Learning about the holocaust
Being unique among my friends
Visiting our Israeli family in Montreal
And most of all, I love learning more about all of these things at Hebrew school. And that is what being Jewish
means to me. Thank you! Devon
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Shabbat Shalom
I began my Hebrew studies here at Adas Kodesch, at the age of six. I have been playing the violin since I
was four. In the past few months, I have been reflecting on these two incredibly important components of my life,
Judaism and classical music, and how they have influenced me and helped me to become the person I am today.
When I contemplated these features of myself, I began to notice just how similar they really are.
For example, both can have intensely personal aspects, and can be performed alone or in a group. In
classical music, daily practice and performing as a soloist are highly rewarding examples of solitary activities. No
less rewarding is the experience of playing in a group, such as symphony orchestra or string quartet. In Judaism,
solitary activities can include reading of the Torah and Haftorah, as well as the performance of mitzvoth,
commandments, which can be performed on an individual basis. Examples of prayers carried out as a community
include the BIrkat Ha’Mazon, the full version of which I am now capable of reciting, thanks to my Adas Kodesch
education, the V’ahavta, the morning blessings, Lecha Dodi, Lechu Neranenah, Yigdal, and Adon Olam, all of
which comprise a mere segment of the vast repertoire which I was taught over my six years at Adas Kodesch
Hebrew school.
Both classical music and Judaism place emphasis on strict rules and structures, while at the same time
requiring personal interpretation. In classical music, our pieces must be played in the exact manner in which they
were written, as opposed to most other musical styles, such as jazz and fiddling, which place heavy emphasis on
improvisation. However, for one to be considered a good musician, he must be capable of exciting emotions
(Given that they are all within the structure of the piece) via the subtleties of his playing. This is achieved by
subtly interpreting the undefined aspects of a piece, such as color, timbre, timing, pauses, dynamics, and so on.
Anyone who has listened to a classical piece being played by two different musicians will understand the world of
difference caused by toggling these apparently minor, but truly crucial aspects to create their own rendition.
In Judaism, we are given numerous instructions, such as the 613 commandments and kosher laws. We
also chant the same prayers and read the same Torah that we have chanted and read for thousands of years.
Despite, or, as I prefer to think of it, because of these codes around which we are to live our lives, an enormous
amount of interpretation is necessary to lend personal meaning to the words which can easily become only a rote
form we follow out of habit.
Both Judaism and classical music have a history of following traditions. The classical music tradition has
been kept alive through musical forms, such as sonatas, concertos, symphonies, rhapsodies, symphonic poems,
romances, ballets, operas and many more, written by composers who lived hundreds of years ago, or perhaps
people who live on the opposite side of the planet.
The Jewish traditions are passed down through many venues including: Torah, Talmud, Midrash,
Ketuvim, folktales, and stories of prophets, as well as tales of Jewish heroes old and new, from my namesake,
Judith, the Macabees, and King David to modern Jewish figures such as Hanna Senesch, Anne Frank, Naftali
Herz Imber, Theodore Herzl, David Ben-Gurion, and Benjamin Netanyahu. Our heritage is also passed down
through Jewish holidays, which we studied thoroughly from Sukkot to Shavuot. We studied how Pesach received
its name, why you don’t blow the shofar on Shabbat, which holiday we ar supposed to eat a fish’s head on, why
we knock on the table when we say “al shulchan zeh” in the Birkat Hamazon, how to conjugate verbs and nouns
in all tenses, the kosher laws for meat, what kind of ink a scribe uses to write the Torah, and even how to bargain
in Jerusalem’s Shuk! We were also taught about how our heritage connects us to Israel, from taking a “virtual
tour” of Jerusalem and doing a research project on a tribe to watching videos of the siren sounding in Tel Aviv on
Yom Ha’Zikaron and lighting a Yartzeit candle for Yom Ha’Shoah.
Another shared aspect of both Judaism and classical music is their lengthy learning period, as well as the
imperative to pass on our traditions to the next generation. Classical music takes an enormous amount of practice
and dedication to be learned, with a myriad of skills to be acquired. Also, all musicians are expected to teach, no
matter how advanced they have become, compelling us to pass on our knowledge, not only showcase it. Classical
music is a voyage toward perfection; even the most adept virtuosos consistently strive to improve. With this in
mind, classical music is a lifelong journey, in which we always do our utmost to become better musicians, often
become better people in the process.
In Judaism studies of Hebrew, Torah, Talmud, and Midrash are begun early in childhood, to continue on
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AKSE SPEECH: JEWISH EDUCATION MARATHON
Shabbat Shalom everyone. Adas Kodesch is a very special place to me, as it always will be. It is where I became
a Bat Mitzvah, where I learned many new songs and prayers, and made great friends. Because the number 18 rep-
resents life in Judaism, I would like to list 18 things that I learned while I was a student at AKSE.
1.Through my grammar studies, I learned how to conjugate future and past tense verbs in Hebrew.
2.Through our songs, I learned to sing Lu Yihi, or Let it Be
3.Through last year’s graduation service preparation, I learned to read the second half of the Shema fluently
4.With a fun guest, I learned to make Rosh Deshets, a common tradition in Israel done around Tu Bishvat
5.Through my Bat Mitzvah, I learned to read the Torah
6.Also through my Bat Mitzvah, I learned how to chant Torah trope.
7.Through my Judaism studies, I learned the different birds and meats that are kosher.
8.Through Judaism and the Torah, I learned that when you are given an opportunity, act upon it as soon as
you can
9.Throughout Jewish history studies, I learned many stories of victims of the Holocaust
10.When we had a fun guest come in, I learned how to play a popular game played in Israel called Esrim
v’echad
11.Through this graduation service, I learned to read the Prayer for the Government
12.Through our writing activities, I learned to write Hebrew words using script.
13.Through our songs, I learned to sing Mi Ohevet Hashabat
14.Through our grammar lessons, I learned that butterfly in Hebrew is Par-Par
15.Through our vocabulary work, I learned that bird in Hebrew is Tzipur
16.Through my bat mitzvah, I learned how to properly hold the Torah
17.Through my bat mitzvah, I learned to lead a service on my own
18.Through my years at AKSE, I learned to be a great student, friend and mentor in class
This is my list of 18 things I learned while being a student at AKSE. Before I end my speech, I would like to say
a special thank you. Thank you Mrs Moss for taking me on a wonderful journey to becoming a Jewish adult.
Thank you Mrs. Weinberg for helping me learn so much new Hebrew grammar. Thank you all my Hebrew
School classmates for making Hebrew school be such a fun filled experience. Thank you to AKSE for getting
me to point of graduation. Thank you to all, AKSE will be in my heart forever.
Shabbat Shalom Ariel
through a lifetime of learning. Also, in Judaism, we are commanded to do tikkun olam, repairing the world, in
which we attempt to improve the world and ourselves. We are also commanded several times, most prominently
in the V’Ahavta, to pass on our traditions to our children, making our task much harder; after all, we cannot be
satisfied only with becoming good people who make positive changes to the world around them, but we must
inspire and teach another generation of people to do the same.
After contemplating these shared attributes, I began to realize just how similar my two passions really
are, and how they can be viewed as only different manifestation of a single, profound truth about what it means
to be human.
I will conclude by acknowledging all the wonderful assistance I have received here at Adas Kodesch
Hebrew School. I would like to thank all our wonderful aides, most notably Dr. Ainbinder and Mrs. Hazen, for
sacrificing their time and effort to help out at the school. MRs Weinberg, our enthusiastic principal, arranged
innumerable opportunities to connect with the Jewish community, including singing Hanukkah songs at the Kutz
home, doing a short seder at the home of a former principal of Adas Kodesch Hebrew school, and performing a
Purim spiel for the Jewish community at Maris Grove. For all of these, and much more, I am profoundly grateful.
A big thank-you to the teacher of my first three years of Hebrew school, Mrs. Moss. She inspired me to love
learning Hebrew, planting the roots of what I know will be a lifelong journey.
Thank you Juliana
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JEWISH COMMUNITY SOFTBALL: Bring a glove, water, and sunscreen and the fun will follow! All games are at the Siegel JCC softball field. Warm up 10:00 a.m. to 10:30 a.m. Games are 10:30 a.m. to approx. 12 p.m. Open to the entire community at no charge - men, women and teens. Dates - July 12th, 19th, August 2nd, 9th, 16th, 23rd and 30th Questions - contact Rabbi Saks at (302) 762-2705 or [email protected].
Sylvia Wagman & Cathy Vinograd
present President Jonathan Jaffe with
a check for $8000 from Sisterhood to
AKSE at the annual meeting. This
contribution was made possible by all
the hard work of Sisterhood members
throughout the past year, especially
Sharon Berry who spearheaded our
very successful Purim fundraisers...
the sale of hamantashen and
mishloach manot. Thank you all for
your support!!
Photo by Max Rosenberg
Josh Saks, Brad Glazier and Jonathan Jaffe came to play Sunday Softball at JCC June 21 but the field was too
wet. Players and the scouts from Phillies organization were disappointed there was no action. See you in July!
16 SHOFAR SUMMER 2015
NIGHT TO HONOR ISRAEL: Georgetown DE. May 19, 2015
L to R: Eleanor Weinglass, Sharon Berry, Sylvia and Mark Wagman,
Rabbi Steven Saks, Ron Makar, Dianne Seidel, Betsy Earle, Jeff Seidel
Front row: Lior Ron, Jonathan Jaffe, Elise Freedman
Photo provided by David Warner, Olive Tree Ministries
SHOFAR 17 SUMMER, 2015
Last summer a small Farmers Market opened in the town of Bellefonte, on Brandywine Blvd. My husband stopped by to purchase produce. He came home with some beautiful portabella mushrooms. "The Mushroom Lady" at the Farmers Market was handing out recipe cards with the purchase of the portabellas. I usually marinate them in BBQ sauce or Italian dressing and we grill them. They are great on a roll with all the fixings you would put on a burger. If you add cheese it is a meatless cheeseburger! Kosher as a cheese burger can get!. We tried the recipe that evening. When we grilled them we enjoyed the new flavor. Try them this summer and let me know what you think! Grilled Tangy Tomato Ports 1 Portabella Per Person 1/2 Tsp. dried oregano (we are not oregano lovers, so I only used 1/2 Tsp, recipe called for 1 Tsp.) *** 2 Tsp shallots finely chopped 3 Tsp. Red wine vinegar 1/2 Tsp Brown Sugar 1/3 cup tomato juice 2/3 cup EVOO 1/2 tsp. black pepper 1/2 tap salt Remove stems from mushrooms and clean, place them in a gallon size zip lock bag. Mix all ingredients, for marinade and whisk well. Pour marinade into bag over mushrooms, let marinade 3-4 hours. Grill each side of portabellas 3-4 minutes. *** Personally, I would eliminate the oregano! Sprinkle with your favorite cheese or melt cheese on the grilled portabella if you are having a dairy BBQ. Eating them plain (without cheese) on a fresh crusty roll adds to your favorite BBQ dinner with some wonderful potato salad or pasta salad, vegetarian baked beans, salad platter and maybe some fruit kabobs etc. and invite your favorite friends for dinner on the 4th of July! Enjoy your summer, be safe and we will chat again in September... until next time
Meryl
WHAT'S COOKING IN YOUR KITCHEN?
18 SHOFAR SUMMER 2015
We Invite You to Sponsor a Shabbat Kiddush
Dear Fellow AKSE Congregants: The members of the Kiddush Fund Committee invite every family to sponsor at least one regular Shabbat Kiddush every year for $36. Your name will be posted in the Shabbat newsletter as the sponsor of the Kiddush that morning. Please think of a Simcha that is coming up that you would like to share with your congregational family such as a birthday, anniversary, retirement or any other happy occasion. Our goal is for each family to annually show support for the Kiddush fund which enables us to come together to celebrate and share happy occasions on Shabbat. Please contact the office at 302-762-2705 to find out if your desired Shabbat date is available for sponsorship. Please contact Judy Berlin at 302-762-3649 to discuss your special requests. Additional items like a special cake or kugels can be included for an additional charge. Thank you in advance,
The Kiddush Fund Committee
Sayings of the phathers:
If I do not sponsor a Kiddush, who will?
If others sponsor a Kiddush and I do not, what am I?
If not now, when?
Is your birthday in July? How about August ?
Come and join us at our monthly birthday celebrations
on July 11 or August 8
and enjoy our delicious birthday cake.
Donations appreciated.
The Rabbi’s popular PIZZA
AND PARSHA classes will
not resume until Wednesday
October 14.
See you then!!
&
SHOFAR 19 SUMMER, 2015
Speedy Recovery Refuah Shlaimah. Good wishes and
prayers for a complete
recovery to:
Anna Hirshout
Rhonda and Jim Lehr
Steve Willis
May the Lord our G-d send a perfect
healing from heaven to all his sick
children. Amen.
July Anniversaries
4
6
17
24
Ed & Ann Jaffe
Dan & Sharon Berry
James & Sharon Marshall
Fred & Shoshana Bereskin
Mark & Sylvia Wagman
Special Anniversaries 3 Joel & Ruthann Teder
20 Paul & Rita Gottesman
July Birthdays 3
4
5
6
8
9
12
17
19
25
26
Amy Leviton
Marlene Greenberg
Rita Silberman
Edward I Engel
Lenore Tocker
Lisa Elliott
Cyril Milunsky
Shoshana Bereskin
Selma Barshay
Nan R Pezzner
Meryl Pottock
Neal Cohn
Eugene I Tolpin
Melvyn A. Woloshin
Mitzi C Echt
Special Birthdays Anne Saks 17
EMPLOYMENT OPPORTUNITY Wanted: Youth Program Director, part-time
Dynamic, intelligent, creative individual will have responsibilities for planning, scheduling, and
supervising activities for elementary age children and their families. Ability to relate to, and experience with, children is necessary. Please e-mail resume to Gail Weinberg, Educational Director, at Cong. Adas Kodesch Shel Emeth. ([email protected])
Mazal Tov
● Barbara H Schoenberg who was
awarded the Steven J. Rothschild
Volunteer of the Year Award by the
Jewish Federation of Delaware at the
annual meeting on June 11, 2015.
20 SHOFAR SUMMER 2015
Mazal Tov
● to Jeremy Fogelman, grandson
of Faith and Lou Brown , who
received his Master's Degree in
Systems Engineering from Johns
Hopkins University in Md. and to his
parents, Dr. Charles and Marla
Fogelman of Silver Spring, Md.
● Mazel tov to Tess Brown who
graduated from Albert Einstein
Academy on June 9. Tess is the
daughter of Riva and David Brown and
the granddaughter of Faith and Lou
Brown and Eadie and Norman Finkel
of Philadelphia, Pa.
● Neil Lattin and Rhonda Shulman
announce the engagement of their
daughter Beth Lattin to Dr. Benjamin
Goldstein son of Dr. Alben Goldstein
and Ann Goldstein of Potomac
Maryland
● Neil Lattin and Rhonda Shulman
announce that their son Robert
has been appointed Assistant
Communications Director
for AIPAC in Washington, DC
August Anniversaries
13
14
18
26
27
Lloyd & Andrea Tinianow
Richard & Irene Plotzker
Martin and Ella Zukoff
Barry and Carol Brown
Marlene & Cyril Milunsky
Special Anniversaries 5 David and Riva Brown
17 Mel and Debbie Zussman
31 Robert & Shannon
Burdeshaw
August Birthdays 3
4
6
7
8
11
12
13
15
16
19
20
24
25
29
Jay Miller
Sally Levine
Melvin Zussman
James Marshall
Kevin Gross
Jerome Heisler
Sandy Rosen
Gladys S Gewirtz
Paul Gottesman
Debra F Shattuck
Annette Baruch
Harold Pezzner
Michael Cabelli
Melvin Levy
Barbara Balick
Rebecca Jaffe
Irving Chernekoff
Mitchell Greenberg
Nancy Sandell
Veronica Weintraub
Charlotte Levin
Rachael Freschman
Jackie Berger
Special Birthdays
Phyllis Feibus
Wendy Shlossman
Linda J Sereduke
15
25
29
CONDOLENCES TO -
Judy Berlin & Peter Kopolovic
upon the passing of sister-in-law,
Kathy Kopolovic.
Florence Goldstein upon the
passing of her sister, Marian
Newstadt Rosenblatt.
Iris Vinokur upon the passing of her
aunt, Marian Newstadt Rosenblatt.
Cheryl Kamm upon the passing of
her father, Irwin Pearl (100 years
old).
May the Lord comfort the families
among the mourners of Zion and
Jerusalem and may they know of
sorrow no more
IN MEMORIAM
With deep regret we record the
passing of
Shirley Bragar
Mother of Eleanor Weinglass
Michael McNamara
Brother of Shay Rosen
May the Lord comfort the families
among the mourners of Zion and Jeru-
salem and may they know of
sorrow no more.
Match the photo with
the correct caption!
Won the lottery
Purchased AKSE
gift card
SHOFAR 21 SUMMER, 2015
Received during the month of May, 2015
IN MEMORY OF Helen Winslow: Anna Burns
David Freschman, son of Ray & Morris
Freschman: The Zussman Family; The Engel
Family; The Cabelli Family
Batia Vinograd, Mother of Moshe Vinograd: Sylvia & Mark Wagman
Niece of Jim & Sharon Marshall: Arlene &
Carol; Shirley Fisch; Wendy & Phil Shlossman
Bret Silverman, son of Dr. & Mrs. Richard Silberman: Joy & Lenny Davis
Mother & Grandmother, Miriam Leiblein: Sandy Goldworm & Leiblein Family; Stephen
Leiblein & Family;
Miriam Leiblein: Sandy Goldworm; Diana & Bob Gelman
Lester Jacobs, husband of Judy Jacobs:
Roberta & Mel Woloshin; Rhonda & Jim Lehr; Roberta & Morton Brown; Marty & Estelle
Glick: Harriett & Eddie Engel; Anne & Fred
Miller; Charlie & Barbara Keil; Ray & Morris
Freschman; Michael & Jan Weiss
MAZEL TOV Mark Wagman, in honor of your birthday:
The Zussman Family
Linda & Noah Schreiber, on the birth of a
granddaughter, Lillian Rose:
The Zussman Family; Sylvia and Mark Wagman;
Wendy & Phil Shlossman; Rhonda & Neil Lattin
Annette Chason, on the birth of a great-grandson, Phillip Short: The Cabelli Family
Rhonda & Jim Lehr on your 35th Wedding
Anniversary: Gloria Brown
Judy & Howard Berlin, on your special anniversary: Gloria Brown & Family
YAHRZEIT Frieda Grossman: Sandra Korr Barsha Ruth Plafker, Sister-in-Law: Libby Plafker
Samuel "Sonny" Barshay: Selma Barshay
Ethel Weiss, Mother: Jean Schendowich
Irving Echt: Elliott Echt
Joseph S. Tannen, Father & Grandfather:
Judi & Max Rosenberg & family
Joseph S. Tannen, Father: Beth Arager
Rose Westerman, Mother: Ella & Martin Zukoff
Bertram E. Jacobs: Susan & John Cicala
Lee Cohen, Son & Brother: Bunny Cohen & Arthur
Morris Weintraub, Father: Ruth Ann Jarin
Ruth Plafker: Nathan Plafker
Jack Plafker, Husband: Libby Plafker William Weiner: Norman Weiner
Jay Silberman, Husband: Rita Silberman
Honey Chernekoff, Wife: Irv Chernekoff
OTHER CONTRIBUTIONS Library Fund: Samuel J. Kursh
In Appreciation of Judy Berlin & Kiddush
Team: Jonathan Jaffe
Howard & Deborah Stromwasser, thanking
you for your kind visits and beautiful
flowers: Jean Hirshout
Ankie Vega, thanking you for your help: Lena & John Elzufon
For Mark's Special
"Bar Mitzvah" Celebration
with special thanks to
Judy Berlin and helpers
for the wonderful Kiddush
Luncheon
Sylvia & Mark Wagman
Yahrzeit of
Mendel Gordon
Husband and Father
Helen, Paula, Zelda and Estera
Gordon
Beloved Husband
Albert M. Jacobs
And Son,
Jack S. Jacobs, M.D.
Freda Jacobs
Yahrzeit of
Shirley Levy
And
Isadore Levy
Melvin & Marsha Levy
Yahrzeit of
Lillian Turnauer
Gerald Turnauer
22 SHOFAR SUMMER 2015
JULY YAHRZEITS
23
Helen Concors
Selma Harriet Epstein
Anita Elliot
Simon Newman
Estella Seltzer
24
Annie Schoenberg
25
Gussie Berman
S Samuel Herman Bronfin
Abraham H. Citron
Hyman Polsky
Albert Rubenstein
Nathan Sklut
Morris Tomases
26
Jessie Goldlust
Evelyn Ritter
Irving Zetlin
27
Irving Davis
Marlene Ritter
Bertram Samuels
Mollye H. Sklut
28
Dorothy Berkowitz
Fannie Goodman
29
Frima Cohen
Erich S. Heimann
30
Norman Brager
Dorothy Laskin
31
Leon Jacobs
Ruth E Silverman
Louis Weiss
Ruth E. Silverman
SCHOENBERG MEMORIAL CHAPEL In the hallowed tradition of our faith . . .
a dignified setting with reverence for customs
and observances in strict accord
with family wishes.
519 Philadelphia Pike
762-0334
AKSE Daily Service Times:
Sunday 8:00 a.m.
Monday,Tuesday,Thursday 7:00 a.m. & 5:30 p.m. Wednesday 5:30 p.m.
Friday Evening
6:30 p.m.
Community Minyan Wednesdays
7:30 a.m. at Beth Shalom Fridays
7:30 a.m. at AKSE Excluding Rosh Chodesh and
other special days.
Shabbat Services at 9:00 a.m.
SEE CALENDAR for Mincha Ma’ariv times.
HOLIDAY TIMES MAY DIFFER.
1
Rose Arsht
Pauline B Salus
2
Ernst Dannemann
Helene Hanau
Jacob Granite
Henrietta Sirkin Lipsen
3
Samuel Zagha
5
Harry Cutler
Jacob Grossman
Gerald Jarin
Reuben Jacobs
Jack Wagman
6
Harold Holob
Jennie Simon
7
Abraham A Golden
Rae Holzman
8
S David Ran
Max Seltzer
10
Pauline Kaye
Irwin L. Septimus
Louis Weiner
11
Alan Axler
Lottie Drucker
Isodore Frankfurt
Annette Jacobs
Ida Sund
12
Daniel M. Haber
13
Joachim Kallir
Nathan Porter
14
Sandra Jacobs
Bonkoski
Celia Erdman
Eve F. Mohl
Harry Meizell
Lena F. Samonisky
15
Israel Plafker
Mildred Lattin-Yura
16
Jacob Abrams
Sadie Gordon
Philip Simon
Murray Solomon
17
Pauline Greenstein
Isadore Kreshtool
18
Sylvia Katzman
19
Samuel David
Jean S Drowos
20
Zarah Ainbinder
21
Barbara Goldstein
22
Florence Goodman
Leonard Pevar
Mervin Stein
PLEASE NOTE:Yahrzeit dates
listed represent the English dates
which correspond to the Hebrew
dates of death.
SHOFAR 23 SUMMER, 2015
ATTENTION
CONGREGANTS
If you move, change your phone number,
(home & work), or
change your email
address, (home & work), please notify
the AKSE office either
by phone at (302) 762
-2705 or by e mail
Things run smoother
for all of us when files are Updated and
current. Thank you,
AUGUST YAHRZEITS
22
Max Engel
Leah Linett
Anna Miller
23
Laura Myers
Edith Winston
26
Justin Creed
Victoria Freedman
Sarah Menkes Kauffman
27
Ida Bestock Kamm
Harold Gunn
Lena Hayman
Laura Leibowitz
28
Harry Ainbinder
Ann Griff
Sara Tziral Melamed
Ruth Rosenberg
29
Zipporah Heimann
30
Ethel Levine
David Smith
31
Milton H Haber
SCHOENBERG MEMORIAL CHAPEL In the hallowed tradition of
our faith . . .
a dignified setting with reverence for customs
and observances in strict accord
with family wishes.
519 Philadelphia Pike
762-0334
1
Samuel Closic
Alice Feldman
Louis Golden
Miriam Kursh
Alfred K. Schweizer
Zelma Weinberg
2
Bert Hirsch
George Paris
3
Israel Brown
5
Sol Lehr
6
Isadore Drowos
Ruth Holob
Harry Skolnick
8
Gershon Katzman
Caceil Laskin
9
Shirley Klein
10
Lillian Jean Stein Davis
Anna Liebowitz Harwick
Judith Schwarcz
Steve Turnauer
11
Alex Vitriol
Anna Vinokur
12
Tillie Sayer
13
Nathan Dresin
Louis Leon Raskow
Louis Turnauer
14
Alexander Drucker
15
Maurice Goodman
Eliahu Augenbraun
Esther Augenbraun
Hyman Vittes
16
Joseph Augenbraun
Solomon Levine
Jennie Aronoff
17
Luisa Cohen
Fannie Goldstein
Alexander Lessner
Morris Salinsky
18
Lillian Kemper
Helen Finerosky Haber
19
Shimon Augenbraun
Maurice Klein
Sylvia Raskow
Mary Sandrowitz
20
Daniel Adler
Nathan Balick
21 Mollie Feldman
Harvey Brown
PLEASE NOTE:Yahrzeit dates
listed represent the English dates
which correspond to the Hebrew
dates of death.
AKSE Daily Service Times:
Sunday 8:00 a.m.
Monday,Tuesday,Thursday 7:00 a.m. & 5:30 p.m. Wednesday 5:30 p.m.
Friday Evening
6:30 p.m.
Community Minyan Wednesdays
7:30 a.m. at Beth Shalom Fridays
7:30 a.m. at AKSE Excluding Rosh Chodesh and
other special days.
Shabbat Services at 9:00 a.m.
SEE CALENDAR for Mincha Ma’ariv times.
HOLIDAY TIMES MAY DIFFER.
24 SHOFAR SUMMER 2015
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SHOFAR 25 SUMMER, 2015
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WILMINGTON, DELAWARE 19802-1226
Bayshore Ford 25
Harriet Jacobs Realtor 24
Boscov’s Catering Service 24
Schoenberg Memorial Chapel 22,23
ShopRite 24
AKSE FAMILY NEWS 19,20
CALENDARS AND SCHEDULES
AKSE Calendar JULY, AUGUST 13,14
Daily Service Times 24
EVENTS, ANNOUNCEMENTS, ETC.
BIRTHDAY KIDDUSH SUMMER INFO 18
CAFÉ TAMAR PHOTOS 6
CUFI NIGHT TO HONOR ISRAEL PHOTO 16
DONATIONS 21
HEBREW SCHOOL GRADUATION SPEECHES 9-12
HEBREW SCHOOL PHOTOS 7,8
ISRAEL TRIP INFORMATION 16
JEWISH LEGACY REQUEST 3
JCC SOFTBALL PHOTO AND REMINDER 15
KIDDUSH SPONSORSHIP INFORMATION
19
MINYANAIRES 70TH REUNION PHOTOS 4,5
PRESIDENT’S LETTER 1
PIZZA AND PARSHA SCHEDULE UPDATE 17
RABBI’S LETTER 2,3
RABBI SAKS: PIZZA/PARSHA CLASS INFO 19
SISTERHOOD DONATION INFO AND PHOTO 15
WHAT’S COOKING IN YOUR KITCHEN 17
YAHRZEITS JULY YAHRZEITS AUGUST
22 23
DEADLINE FOR SEPTEMBER SHOFAR
IS AUGUST 15, 2015
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Shofar in a timely fashion. Only items submitted on time can be
guaranteed inclusion in the Shofar (subject to editorial discretion).
Submissions MUST be in WRITING! Email to [email protected] or mail,
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