Various Tips - Reading Body Language
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Reading body language
Doesn't matter whether she is interested in you you'll ma!e her interested
e"entually anyway#$ %ut loo! &or these signs to show you whether you're
already ma!ing rogress#$ It's also &un to loo! &or these signs as a by(
stander either in e"eryday situations or &or e)amle in a bar ( when the guy
earnestly belie"es he is being sooo smooth but the woman he is tal!ing to
isn't dislaying any o& the signs resented below you *an't hel but ha"e a
*hu*!le about it#$
+er lis# %ig smiles with uer and lower teeth showing with a rela)ed &a*e,
%iting o& the lis or showing o& the tongue li*!ing her lis or tou*hing
o& her &ront teeth,
She wets her lis some women use only a single(li li*! wetting the
uer or lower li while others run the tongue around the entire li
area,
She uts her &ingernail between her teeth,
She rotrudes her lis and thrust her breasts &orward,
+er eyes# She ga-es in your eyes with dee interest and her uils are dilated,
She raises both eyebrows e)aggeratedly &or a *oule o& se*onds this
is o&ten *ombined with a smile and some eye *onta*t,
She win!s at you while tal!ing to you or win!s at you &rom a distan*e, .hile tal!ing to you she blin!s more than usual &luttering her
eyelashes,
/yebrows raised and then lowered then a smile indi*ates interest in
you,
+er hair# She ushes her &ingers through her hair, This *an be one hand
mo"ement or more o& a stro!ing motion,
She twirls her hair around her &ingers while she is loo!ing at you,
She is throwing her hair ba*! o&& her shoulders,
+er *lothing# I& she is wearing *lothes that show her niles underneath and you
noti*e they are getting er!y and ere*t,
The hem goes u to e)ose a little more leg,
She is &i)ing atting or smoothing her out&it to ma!e hersel& loo!
better,
.hile she is seated#
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She mo"es in time to the musi* with her eyes on you,
She starts sitting straight u and her mus*les aear to be &irm,
She is sitting with her legs oen,
She sits with her legs *rossed in a manner to re"eal her thigh,
+er legs are rubbing against ea*h other,
+er legs are rubbing against the leg o& the table,
+er *rossed leg is ointed towards you or i& that same leg is ro*!ing
ba*! and &orth towards you,
+er hands# She e)oses the alms o& her hand &a*ing you,
.hile tal!ing to you she rests an elbow in the alm o& one hand while
holding out her other hand alm u,
She rubs her wrists u and down,
She sits with one hand tou*hing one o& her breasts,
She rubs her *hin or tou*hes her *hee!, This indi*ates that she's
thin!ing about you and her relating in some way#$
She is &ondling !eys sliding hands u and down a glass laying with
toys or other things on the table,
She lays with her 0ewellery ese*ially with stro!ing and ulling
motions,
She tou*hes your arm shoulder thigh or hand while tal!ing to you 1in
*ase you already ha"en't started !inoyoursel& dumbass#$,
She is retending to loo! at her wat*h as you ass her,
+er "oi*e
She raises or lowers the "olume o& her "oi*e to mat*h yours, She seeds u or slows down her sea!ing to mat*h yours,
She laughs in unison with you,
In a *rowd she sea!s only to you and &o*uses all o& her undi"ided
attention on you,
2i*ellaneous# She mirrors your body language and body ositions,
+er s!in tone be*omes red while being around you,
She blows smo!e straight out &rom between her lis and toward you,
She leans o"er and sea!s into her &riend's ear 0ust li!e in 0unior high
s*hool, She is standing with her head *o*!ed slightly at an angle one &oot
behind the other his slightly thrust &orward,
At a arty ( e"ery on*e in a while she seems to aear out o& nowhere
in your "i*inity and i& you mo"e to another sot soon she aears out
o& nowhere again you *at*h her glan*ing in your general dire*tion
1a*tually glan*ing at 3OU dummy4#$ she bums into you5
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a**identally tou*hes you5 a**identally et*#$
.hen tal!ing to a girl these are some o& the more imortant signs towat*h &or#
6an you !ee *on"ersation going with her7
Does she rea*t well to !ino7
Does she tou*h you7
Does she laugh7
8ow I don't ha"e to e)lain what the answer 9yes9 to these :uestions
means do I#$
;rom 9Swee women o&& their &eet,,,9# 9All these signs usually tell you that
the girl is *ati"ated by your *harms, %ut be&ore you get there *han*es are
that her body language *hanges as the dis*ussion rogresses, 2a!e sure
that you wat*h her *losely and as soon as you get a sign that should be an
indi*ation that you are on the right tra*! !ee going in that dire*tion, I& the
oosite haens 0ust *hange the sub0e*t and see what haens,9
The really gorgeous and beauti&ul girls howe"er "ery seldom get around to
dislaying the signs o& interest des*ribed abo"e, They simly don't ha"e to
as they are used to getting some attention already long be&ore that, .ith
su*h girls you ha"e to be on a loo!out &or the initial and thus mu*h more
subtle signs o& interest, One e)amle o& this would be a gorgeous girl simly
loo!ing at your &a*e, Ob"iously eole tend to loo! at what or whom they
li!e to loo! at, %ut whereas an a"erage girl &irst 0ust loo!s at your &a*e and
then rogresses into the more o"ert signs o& interest des*ribed abo"e
loo!ing at your &a*e &rom time to time might be the only sign o& interest
you'll e"er get &rom the most beauti&ul o& girls,So i& you thin! you're not getting any signs o& interest &rom beauti&ul girls (
you are but you 0ust *an't see them well enough yet,
Don Steele# 9+ere are signs o& interest sent &rom a*ross the room, 2ost are
ali*able to both se)es, The se:uen*e o& the list aro)imates the
*ourtshi se:uen*e,
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Sidelong glan*e1s$
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Smiles
2at*hes your osture
/yes sar!le
radually oens osture
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In so*ial settings most o& us start
out in a *losed de&ensi"e osture
be*ause we're a bit arehensi"e, A
*losed osture &eels sa&e, .hen the
erson you are tal!ing with shi&ts to
a more oen osture it signi&ies trust
and *om&ort, That erson is literally
oening u to you and what you ha"e
to o&&er,
It ta!es *ourage to oen u to the
other erson, I& you go &irst she or
he will usually &ollow your mo"e &rom
*losed to slightly more oen, Oen u
in slow gradual shi&ts o& osture,
A "ariation o& mirroring is dis*ussed in the arti*les dealing with eli*iting
"alues and using tran*e(words ( that is "erbal mirroring, %ut a better(!nown
"ariation o& mirroring is hysi*al mirroring, A*tually you'"e most robably
been doing it all your li&e without !nowing it but on*e you !now how to
harness the ower o& mirroring *ons*iously ( its li!e young S!ywal!er
re*ogni-ing and harnessing the ower o& the ;or*e#$,
8oti*e how eole that seem to be engaged in an interesting *on"ersation (
they are e)*ited about what they themsel"es are saying they are about to
say and what the other is saying in other words they ha"e raort ( seem tota!e the same oses whether sitting or standing u, .hen sitting either
side by side or on oosites sides o& the table ( one leans &orward and then
the other leans &orward as well one leans ba*!ward and then the other leans
ba*!ward as well they *ross their hands in the same manner tilt their heads
similarly seem to be ha"ing similar side(a*ti"ities 1one laying with his
!ey*hain the other with her en$ et* et*, Are they dire*ting their a*tions
*ons*iously7 8o all their energies and *on*entration is on the dis*ussion
e"erything else haens sub*ons*iously, %ut a*tually they don't e"en ha"e
to be ha"ing a dis*ussion they may 0ust both be thin!ing their own
thoughts5 and still you *an see mirroring going on ( they ma!e the samemo"ements almost the same time without seemingly without ha"ing any
er*ei"able intera*tion with the other erson,
.hat is all this !nowledge good &or7 .ell mirroring *an be used as a tool &or
building raort, %eing similar or ha"ing someone similar in your "i*inity
*reates a &eeling o& ease *om&ort being understood rote*ted 1should there
aear a threat o& any sort there's two o& you now#$ et*, So you *an use the
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ower o& mirroring to *reate these &eelings in the one you are mirroring
she'll sub*ons*iously lin! all those &eelings to you 1a&ter all you are the one
mirroring her#$ and raort is going to de"elo between you without you
ha"ing li&ted a &inger 1unless she li&ted a &inger and you had to mirror her#$,
+ow whom and &rom where should I mirror7 .hom ( that's easy the girl you
want o& *ourse#$ +ow ( assuming the same osture doing the same
mo"ements with your hands in all rese*ts using your body in a similar
&ashion to hers, 2ore ase*ts o& mirroring are#
;ollowing ( doing the mo"ements a&ter she did them, 8ote that
although your mind s*reams 9This is stuid4 I'm going to get *aught4
She 2UST see me doing the same mo"ements4 This is ridi*ulous4?
don't' listen to it &ight it it is the "oi*e o& the Dar! Side4#$ .hy7
%e*ause they 8/V/R 8OTI6/ it4 Instead they &eel more *om&ortable
and rela)ed in *onne*tion with you and e"entually 1that's why you
e"en bothered right7#$ ( more drawn to you,
Pa*ing ( doing the mo"ements the same time with her, 3es, Sounds
imossible7 .ell it isn't, +a"e you e"er noti*ed how you sometimes
haened to do the same things at e)a*tly the same time with another
erson7 2aybe yawn and then ha"e a laugh about it#$7 %e*ause you
thought it was a**idental7 .ell it wasn't you had rea*hed the se*ond
stage o& mirroring#$ 13awning is not a good e)amle though@ the last
thing you want is the girl yawning with you#$, %ut there's nothing
magi*al or suernatural about doing the mo"ements at the same time
be*ause essentially the se*ond hase is a stage o& transition between
the &irst and the third, In mirroring there's always a leader and a&ollower, So &ar she has been leading you 1be*ause you'"e been
&ollowing her$ but now you are *oming to the stage when 3OU will be
leading her4 And the ine"itable stage between &ollowing and leading is
a*ing ( you are doing mo"ements simultaneously,
leading ( i& you'"e done your mirroring right ha"e &ollowed and a*ed
then you are ready &or a re"elation, 3ou *an lead4 Try it, 6ough, She
*oughs, S*rat*h your elbow, .ell maybe she'll s*rat*h her shoulder
instead o& her elbow big deal#$ In addition to being a tool o& building
raort you *an lead her into doing some retty &un stu&&, Do a
mo"ement with your hands mimi*!ing the arting o& legs 1this shouldbe asso*iated with something you are tal!ing about i& it loo!s strange
she'll noti*e it and you don't want her *ons*ious attention on your
mo"ements !ee her mind busy with what you're tal!ing about$, .at*h
her legs art#$ +a"e &un#$
Another more ad"an*ed ase*t although *ontro"ersial as to the
e&&e*ti"eness o& it is mirroring her blin!ing her eyes and breathing, %eing
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able to mirror her breathing and blin!ing her eyes is suosed to *reate an
e"en deeer raort but &irst o& all ( trying to see when she breathes might
seem li!e you staring at her breasts 1and you would 8/V/R do that would
you7#$@ and se*ondly ( all the *on*entration re:uired to dete*t and mat*h
your breathing and blin!ing with hers will ta!e away mu*h(needed attention
&rom what she is saying how is she resonding to your atterns "alues !ino
et* so e"entually this *ould do more harm than good,
As to &rom where to mirror ( the most *ommon situation is when you're
tal!ing to her, %ut you *an also try mirroring &rom a distan*e say in a
*lassroom meeting night(*lub or *a&eteria 0ust ma!e sure she has a *han*e
to sub*ons*iously dete*t you mirroring her in other words she must be able
to see you 1so you *an &orget about mirroring her while wat*hing her ta!e a
shower through a ee(hole#$,
A te*hni:ue o& *reating instant raort by 9&a!ing9 body(language, Tom AS;#
9I 0ust &inished another boo! about body language and they mention se"eral
times that when someone is interested in a dis*ussion they tilt their head
slightly, I thought that now that I !new when someone was interested
maybe I *ould do the same to 9simulate9 my dee interest in what they say,
And,,, it wor!s4 .hen someone's li!e 9and you !now my dog 0ust got a new
*ollar and it &its wonde&ully with the li"ing room &urniture@ the shade o& green
is 0ust the same as the !id's bedroom *aret and that's great be*ause,,,9 (
usually you would be using a &ew words they said 1dog *ollar et*$ and using
the same ad0e*ti"es 1wonder&ul great et*$ and as! something ma!ing them
*ontinue, %ut when you tilt your head slightly and do the same thing it's
ob"ious the ima*t is mu*h stronger,92a)im 1htt#ma)immag,*om$#
BI lo"e it when a guy sort o& mirrors my hysi*al beha"ior li!e when ICm
sitting a*ross &rom him and I lean in to say something I li!e him to lean in, I&
ICm tal!ing really &ast and he *an !ee u with me it ma!es me &eel li!e
weCre in the same la*e, I& ICm being a little &reneti* and heCs slow and
rela)ed and laid(ba*! I &eel really &ar away,
6arlie EF Salt
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=inestheti*s 1a!a !ino$ ( ha"e !ino with your &emale&riendsa*:uaintan*es
Psy*hologi*al studies show that *asual tou*hing during a &riendly
*on"ersation *auses eole to remember the *on"ersation more &ondly a&ter
the &a*t,
The *ombination o& !inowith so*ial roo&is dynamite, Tou*h one girl and
the other girls seeing this thin! its normal or e"en 9good9 to be tou*hy(&eely
with you#$, 8ow you *an :uite naturally mo"e on to tou*hing those other
girls and so &orth#$,
AS;# 9It's :uite simle ( hug them tou*h their hand soradi*ally and in A
8O8 T+R/AT/8I8> .A3 that is not li!e the deserate er"ert we all are#$
So the idea is you hide *omletely the interest you might ha"e A8D at the
same time you a*t really tou*hyhuggish, The roblem is ( you ha"e to start
this early in the 9&riend9 relationshi it has to seem natural or otherwise
she'll wonder 9what the &u*! is he doing lately79#$ On*e you'"e de"eloed
that !ind o& &lirtatious &riendshi it's easy to sawn other su*h '&riendshis'
with other women# they will see you being *lose to another woman and I
thin! the !ey here is that it robably does not trigger as mu*h 0ealousy as it
ma!es them 1the 9new9 ones$ &eel *om&ortable (( they see another woman
being tou*hed by you in a non(threatening way and blam so*ial(roo& it
be*omes a 'roo&' to them that it's normal &or you to tou*h them in turn,,, 9
AS;# 9O! I use this all the time now, TOU6+ +/R444 It doesn't matter i& you
0ust met her, +old her hand rub her arm her elbow her ba*! her shouldersher hair her &a*e, TOU6+ +/R 4449
AS;#
G, PA3 ATT/8TIO8 TO +O. S+/ R/SPO8DS TO 3OU444
H, PA3 ATT/8TIO8 TO +O. S+/ R/SPO8DS TO 3OU444
E, One more time# PA3 ATT/8TIO8 TO +O. S+/ R/SPO8DS TO 3OU 444 I&
you do this you will be able to better gauge i& you ha"e the aroriate
raort to in"ite a !iss, I& her body seems to resond to the non(se)ual
tou*hing then get gradually more se)ual, ;or women some areas o& the body
outside o& the rimary erogenous -ones are intimate# Palms inside the
elbow ear lobes *hee!s the his were the waist meets the his betweenthe &ingers,,,,
,
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you'll get 9inno*ent9 yet leasurable !ino#$
=inoas soon as you meet a girl,2eeting someone &or the &irst time is ane)*ellent *han*e &or starting !ino( sha!ing hands when e)*hanging names
is a tradition o& many *ultures and *ultures, %ut ma!e sure you hold on to
her hand longer than e)e*ted long enough &or you to en0oy it and her to
noti*e i& not you en0oying it but at least you not letting go as :ui*!ly as
eole usually do,
.hen meeting girls you already !now sha!ing hands might seem strange
so gi"ing some sort o& a hug is the way to go, 3ou don't need to &all all o"er
her to gi"e her a hug 1whi*h deending on the situation might e"en ma!e
you loo! li!e a &ool or a er"ert or ma!e her embarrassed instead o& ha"ing
her en0oy it too#$ a hug *an also be utting your arm around her waist or
shoulders when standing to her le&t or right and ulling her *loser &or a
moment or ta!ing her hand &or a moment 1but not sha!ing it$ or her elbow
or arm et*, Daniel AS;# 9=I8Oon the armhand as soon as you say hi to
show her you are a se)ual being,9
Set the mood o& the date &rom the start,.hen going on a dateget(together establish the mood immediately, 3ou *an o& *ourse *hange the
mood &rom 9olite and *alm9 to 9warm and &riendly9 to 9aroused and sweaty9
during the *ourse o& the meeting but why go the hard way i& you *an 0um
right into 9warm and &riendly9 or beyond in the &irst la*e, It is best to ha"e
a*ting enthusiasti* uon meeting the girl to ha"e agreed uon re"iously
1most robably when you set u a meeting on the hone see Re&ining the
*losein 6losing &or more in&ormation$, %ut e"en without that you *an be all
smiles when you meet her gi"e her a big hug right away try to ta!e andhold her hand all the way to wheree"er it is that you'll be going and wat*h
her *hange &rom slightly ner"ous to hay smiling starry(eyed and glowing
all o"er#$ And remember ( enthusiasm is *ontageous#$
;oot(&lirting,3ou'"e all seen it done in the mo"ies#$ The &oot looses theshoe and the woman is stro!ing the man with her bare &oot or "i*e "ersa,
6orny you say#$7 A *li*he maybe#$7 Try it and then see what you thin!#$ am
AS;# 9Jin resonse to 9you *an't !inositting a*ross the table9K A*tually you
L*anL !inowhen you are sitting a*ross &rom the target, Must use your &eet4
O& *ourse this re:uires a small table but this also hels to set u an
intimate atmoshere 1remember *andles et*,$, Tou*h her &eet 9o**asionally9with your own under the table say something li!e 9tee hee you are &oot(
&lirtin' with me79 in a 0o!ing way,
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96an't hear you#$9,aeden AS;# 9Try this# I& she says something lean&orward as i& you aren't hearing her "ery well and tou*h her 1arm or ba*!$,
Then lean ba*! again and answer, Are there any easy *lues as to when is
the right time to go !ino7 The *lue is when it's ossible 1ie she's within in
range$9,
=inois the di&&eren*e between getting and not getting the girl,It is thesa"ing gra*e o& e"en the otherwise doomed 9ni*e guy9 aroa*h, And in
some instan*es being the 9ni*e guy9 together with using !ino*an e"en be
:uite e&&e*ti"e, +ere's why# the su**ess o& !inodeends on whether the girl
er*ei"es you and your tou*h as a threat to her or not, 3ou *an be a rough
and tough guy 1I try to a"oid the word 90er!9 as it is not really :uite
rersesentati"e o& what the oosite o& 9ni*e guy9 a*tually is$ and still ha"e
the girl &eel you are not a threat to her se&i*i*ally thus initiating !inowill
be easy, A ni*e guy usually 0ust has an easier time ha"ing girls &eel he is not
a threat to them, Usually though that is also his undoing as he is
*onse:uently er*ei"ed as wea! neutral and non(se)ual all o& whi*h are
ma0or turn(o&&s &or girls, %ut here is where the sa"ing gra*e o& !inostes in,
3ou are sa&e so tou*hing and hugging with you is,,, well also sa&e,
+owe"er be&ore she !nows it ( tou*hing and hugging with you mo"es &rom
&eeling retty good to :uite e)*iting to really ele*tri&ying until all that good
sa&e and &riendly hysi*al *onta*t with you is going to ma!e her wonder# 9I&
it &eels so good 0ust to tou*h with him why on earth not do more7 I wonder
what that would be li!e79, .hi*h is not to say that being the 9ni*e guy9 is
the way to go, This was simly meant to illustrate the strength o&
!inestheti*s ( it e"en wor!s &or the 9ni*e guy9#$ So remember ( !inoreally isthe di&&eren*e between getting and not getting the girl,
The rote*ti"e gesture, 2a)im 1htt#ma)immag,*om$# BIn a *rowded bari& eole are wal!ing by and ushing you thereCs a way a guy *an ut his
arm around younot a*tually tou*hing you but behind your ba*! so heCs
sort o& !eeing you &rom getting sho"ed, A man doesnCt need to i*! a &ight
with some guy who a**identally stes on my toes but itCs ni*e i& heCs
rote*ti"e, =ris HN
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.here to meet girls
1Ta!en &rom 9Swee women o&& their &eet,,,9#$
Shoing 2alls,Try to remember the last time you went to a mall, 6an youossibly loo! in a dire*tion and not sot a beauti&ul girl that you would li!e
to sedu*e7 I'd "enture a guess and say no,
The malls are always &ull o& girls, >irls who wor! at "arious stores and
shos within the mall but also a lot o& girls who go shoing or 0ust hang
out, >irls lo"e shoing, Though it is harder to sedu*e a girl i& she is
surrounded by her &riends it is not always the *ase,
.al! u and down the halls and loo! inside stores &or beauti&ul *ler!s or
shoers, I& it is a women's *lothing store or something &eminine e"en
better, 3ou *an easily wal! u to a girl 1*ler! or shoer$ and as! her#
9/)*use me, .ould you be so !ind to hold this u in &ront o& you &or a
moment7 It's my sister's birthday ne)t wee! and you are about the same
si-e as her and &rom what I *an tell you ha"e the same e)*ellent &ashion
sense,9
%etter yet a&ter the initial aroa*h you *an e"en as! her i& she sees
anything else that she really li!es in the store that your sister might li!e too
be*ause o& the similar tastes in &ashion, Probe &or !eywords why she li!es
*ertain things o"er the others et*,
On*e you ha"e su&&i*ient in&ormation o& not only what she li!es but also why
she li!es it you *an start your *harm, /)and the *on"ersation to li!es and
disli!es in other areas o& her li&e to get her "iew on things and so on, I& she'sa shoer you might want to a*t "ery :ui*!ly to &inding ways &or you to
*ontinue your *on"ersation somewhere else but i& she wor!s there she
won't mind sending the time with you ese*ially i& it's not "ery busy,
ibraries,I& there is one la*e that girls almost always outnumber guys ithas to be the library, .hether it's a ubli* library or a *ollegeuni"ersity
library you will always &ind young girls trying to do resear*h &or a ro0e*t or
homewor!,
These girls are usually "ery intelligent and dedi*ated to their wor! but the
lain truth is the &a*t that e"erybody *an use a brea! on*e in a while, I& you
ro"ide a bit o& a leasant distra*tion they'll be more than hay to tal! toyou, 3ou *ould be as!ing them &or some hel to lo*ate a se*i&i* se*tion or
se*ialty boo!, /"en i& they *an't hel you out they will at least ha"e to tell
you that they don't !now where you *an &ind your boo!, %ut guess what7
That is a *on"ersation ta!ing la*e right there, As! them about their own
wor! interests et*, Show interest and let them tal! about it &or a while,
These girls li!e to show o&& their !nowledge so they'll tell you more than you
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need to !now about the sub0e*t, %ut i& you de"elo good raort at this
stage you *an easily *ontinue this &as*inating *on"ersation elsewhere, >et
my dri&t7 3ou *an start as!ing why they're interested in this arti*ular
sub0e*t what's the most &as*inating thing about it what are the *hallenges
and so on, On*e you mo"e to answering this tye o& :uestions then you will
be able to get an insight as to what tye o& girl she is what she holds dear
and so on,
ourmet 6o&&ee Shos,%e&ore wor! at lun*h and a&ter wor! these la*esare a*!ed with girls, Sometimes the more a*!ed the la*e the better
be*ause you may ha"e to share a table with 9someone9, I& it's not "ery busy
you *an still as! to sit ne)t to a beauti&ul girl, Must tell her that you don't
li!e to sit alone and i& she'd mind you sitting with her till you're done with
your drin!,
I& you're sitting together might as well tal! about something, And remember
this is a gourmet *o&&ee sho, These girls don't *ome here &or the *o&&ee
they *ome here &or the se*ialty *o&&ee and they *ome &or the &rills and
sometimes e"en the restige asso*iated with a arti*ular se*ialty *o&&ee
sho,
So what do you tal! about7
+er &a"orite drin! and why she li!es it o"er regular *o&&ee how does it ma!e
her &eel and so on, Try and tal! in detail about the di&&erent sensations and
aromas, .omen lo"e des*riti"e tal! in detail ese*ially i& it in"ol"es
something that *an e"en be *omared to a se)ual sensation,
The whied *ream the *herry on to how the blend o& the *o&&ee with the
di&&erent li:ueurs reminds you o& a hot and steamy
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initially ultimately you will ne"er learn the s!ills that really ma!e the
di&&eren*eK
Is this too low &or you7 Is it beneath you7 +ell no, .hether it's newsaer
ersonals telehone ersonals "ideo ersonals or Internet ersonals and
*hat rooms they o&&er you e)*ellent oortunities to meet a lot o& women to
ra*ti*e your s!ills,
.ith the e)*etion o& "ideo ersonals the drawba*! is the &a*t that you
don't really !now what the erson loo!s li!e, %ut that's not a roblem, It
shouldn't be your goal to meet someone to sedu*e right away, This is
nothing but an a"enue &or you to get ra*ti*e and e)erien*e tal!ing to
women, %ut i& things *li*! &or you why not go &or it anyway7 I& she turns out
to be butt ugly 0ust tell her that as shallow as this seems without the
hysi*al attra*tion things aren't going to go anywhere between you two and
mo"e on,
8ow when la*ing these ersonals you *an attra*t a whole lot o& women
with some *at*hy headline and be bothered with a lot o& relies that get you
nowhere wasting your time, Or you *an be "ery se*i&i* and dis*riminating
about who you are what you loo! li!e and what you're loo!ing &or, ;eel &ree
to in*lude any *hara*teristi*s they may &ind unaealing, This will eliminate
a lot o& women who might otherwise rely but the ones who do rely are
more li!ely to end u somewhere be*ause they already !now what to
e)e*t &rom you and are willing to a**et it,
%etter yet read a lot o& the women's ersonals and try to model yours a&ter
them,
As an added dirty tri*! you *an la*e a ersonal as a woman see!ing a manto get a lot o& good ideas &rom other men who rely to it, 2ost o& them will
be really bad but on*e in a while there will be one that will *at*h your eye
and *uriosity, .hen you rely to a woman's ersonal ad try out these other
ideas to see i& they wor!, I& they wor! you learned something new, I& they
don't wor! mo"e on,
An e)amleo& a ersonals ad, AS;#9Isn't attra*tion in*redible7 Imagine rela)ing into strong arms holding you
&eeling sa&e and are*iated and intimate !nowing you're e)a*tly where
you belong,,, I'm edu*ated su**ess&ul emotionally mature and I !now what
I want, 2y wor! !ees me busy but I ma!e time &or tra"el dining out musi*1"ery di"erse tastes$ and anything new and interesting, I'm tall in great
shae with green eyes and dar! wa"y hair 1i*ture a"ailable$,
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Restaurants with atta*hed bars#These la*es are o&ten great Tuesday toThursday nights around ( #EF P2, /se*ially us*ale la*es they *ater
to a ro&essional *rowd, Some V/R3 ni*e loo!ing women loo!ing to unwind
a&ter wor!, Also o&ten these la*es ser"e as a meeting ground &or women
ha"ing ba*heleorette arties,
6o&&ee houses#li!e Starbu*!s 6o&&ee %ean Tea reat &rom (GF#EF A2 e"ery day o& the wee!, A&ter Q A2 you are more li!ely to get
women who wor! in retail outside sales li!e harma*euti*al res sel&(
emloyed students et*,
Suermar!ets#2 ( ; noon to around G#EF P2 as women on their lun*h hourso into buy things, 2onday to Thursday ( #EF P2 Saturdays GF A2 to
noon same &or Sundays,
Shoing malls#This is a no brainer, I& they ha"e a good &ood *ourt and arenear o&&i*es then noon til G#EF P2 2 ( ;, +it the &ood *ourts and &orget most
o& the rest o& the stores, Other good times# Tues ( Thurs #EF ( P2 and Sat
a&ternoons,
Sel&(imro"ement seminars#Su*h seminars are >/STI%
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See also#
8ight(*lubs "s other la*es to meet girls
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Demonstrate "alue and ersonality
3ou ha"e nothing absolutely nothing to e)e*t &rom a girl to whom you do
not demonstrate "alue and ersonality, %e it being 2r Smoothor ma!ing her
horny with >2or leading her imagination with atterning or simly being
you in a great mood *on&ident and witty whi*h she &inds attra*ti"e ( you
ha"e to demonstrate her something about you that she dis*o"ers to be o&
"alue &or her, And she will dis*o"er it being o& "alue &or her &or the simle
reason o& li!ing the way that "alue ma!es her &eel,
So many guys thin! that their mere resen*e and *omany is o& some
se*i&i* "alue to the girl ( well it is not, I& you sort a great &a*e andor big
mus*les then your resen*e *an sometimes be a turn(on &or a girl ( she
li!es the way the ro)imity o& your &a*e and mus*les ma!e her &eel and thus
your resen*e *an be o& searate "alue &or her, %ut e"en the &ew times that
haens it will wear o&& &ast i& it turns out that that is all you ha"e to o&&er,
Any time the girl is bored disinterested turns you down wal!s away
re0e*ts you or ignores you ( you ha"e simly not demonstrated enough "alue
to her, Demonstrating the right !ind o& "alue and ersonality the !ind that
she is ese*ially loo!ing &or in a artner is not an issue at this oint you'll
get to that when /li*iting "alues, Right now you simly need to get her
attention by ta!ing an edu*ated guess at what she might be interested in (
see >ood traits to ha"e and de"elo, Demonstrating any !ind o& "alue and
ersonality &rom that list o& traits will do er&e*tly &ine &or starters and is
in&initely better than the 9+ere I am this is the way I loo! 1and I'm sorry I'mnot better(loo!ing$ now lease li!e me9 attitude used by most guys 1who
are also 9trying9 to be &unny and *on&ident et* but e"entually their A;6'ness
will ine"itably shine through#$, .hi*h will lea"e them s*rat*hing their heads
while the girl wal!s away and thin!ing 9oh better lu*! ne)t time I'm sure
someone somewhere will li!e me,,, I hoe9,
In &a*t you are li!e a tra"elling salesman gi"ing girls only a &oretaste o& the
goods and o&&ering them an oortunity to get the real stu&&,,, 9i& they
beha"e well enough9#$ See the di&&eren*e with A;6thin!ing7 .hi*h seems
to *onsider that the girls are the 9goods9 whi*h you might e"entually get i&
you date ay &or dinnersmo"ies and ta!e their disrese*t long enough7 8o3OU are the goods but you're not selling to e"eryone ( you o&&er only to a
sele*t grou o& otential *ustomers, %ut you don't need to ush it the stu&&
is &or real and you !now it and i& one *ustomer doesn't want it its her loss
another one will grab you gladly#$
Must don't &orget ( nobody will want your goods i& they don't e"en !now
anything about it, So samle it ( by demonstrating "alue and ersonality,
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Tal!ing to her e*hoing her
>irls want to be understood, In order &or her to &eel understood you need to
listen to what she says rehrase it and &eed it ba*! to her 1it hels i& you
agree with whate"er statement she made#$,
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Demonstrate "alue and ersonality
3ou ha"e nothing absolutely nothing to e)e*t &rom a girl to whom you do
not demonstrate "alue and ersonality, %e it being 2r Smoothor ma!ing her
horny with >2or leading her imagination with atterning or simly being
you in a great mood *on&ident and witty whi*h she &inds attra*ti"e ( you
ha"e to demonstrate her something about you that she dis*o"ers to be o&
"alue &or her, And she will dis*o"er it being o& "alue &or her &or the simle
reason o& li!ing the way that "alue ma!es her &eel,
So many guys thin! that their mere resen*e and *omany is o& some
se*i&i* "alue to the girl ( well it is not, I& you sort a great &a*e andor big
mus*les then your resen*e *an sometimes be a turn(on &or a girl ( she
li!es the way the ro)imity o& your &a*e and mus*les ma!e her &eel and thus
your resen*e *an be o& searate "alue &or her, %ut e"en the &ew times that
haens it will wear o&& &ast i& it turns out that that is all you ha"e to o&&er,
Any time the girl is bored disinterested turns you down wal!s away
re0e*ts you or ignores you ( you ha"e simly not demonstrated enough "alue
to her, Demonstrating the right !ind o& "alue and ersonality the !ind that
she is ese*ially loo!ing &or in a artner is not an issue at this oint you'll
get to that when /li*iting "alues, Right now you simly need to get her
attention by ta!ing an edu*ated guess at what she might be interested in (
see >ood traits to ha"e and de"elo, Demonstrating any !ind o& "alue and
ersonality &rom that list o& traits will do er&e*tly &ine &or starters and is
in&initely better than the 9+ere I am this is the way I loo! 1and I'm sorry I'mnot better(loo!ing$ now lease li!e me9 attitude used by most guys 1who
are also 9trying9 to be &unny and *on&ident et* but e"entually their A;6'ness
will ine"itably shine through#$, .hi*h will lea"e them s*rat*hing their heads
while the girl wal!s away and thin!ing 9oh better lu*! ne)t time I'm sure
someone somewhere will li!e me,,, I hoe9,
In &a*t you are li!e a tra"elling salesman gi"ing girls only a &oretaste o& the
goods and o&&ering them an oortunity to get the real stu&&,,, 9i& they
beha"e well enough9#$ See the di&&eren*e with A;6thin!ing7 .hi*h seems
to *onsider that the girls are the 9goods9 whi*h you might e"entually get i&
you date ay &or dinnersmo"ies and ta!e their disrese*t long enough7 8o3OU are the goods but you're not selling to e"eryone ( you o&&er only to a
sele*t grou o& otential *ustomers, %ut you don't need to ush it the stu&&
is &or real and you !now it and i& one *ustomer doesn't want it its her loss
another one will grab you gladly#$
Must don't &orget ( nobody will want your goods i& they don't e"en !now
anything about it, So samle it ( by demonstrating "alue and ersonality,
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Pa*e and lead
An e)amle o& "erbal a*ing and demonstrating understanding to in*rease
raort 1see 92irroring9 &or an e)lanation and e)amles o& hysi*al
a*ing$, Seed Sedu*tion newsletter Ross Me&&ries#
9V/R%A SITUATIO8 ( I *annot emhasi-e enough
the ower o& this V/R3 imortant rule, %asi*ally what it means is to
"erbally des*ribe and there&ore A6=8O./ the situation and reality
that she &inds hersel& in with you,
An e)amle#
to sto you we'd ne"er get a *han*e to tal! 1also *omletely
true,,, a truism with whi*h she *annot argue$ and maybe see how mu*h ./
6OU
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;rom here what I will do is say 9
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%uying her a drin!
I'll ma!e it short# don't buy her a drin!, Don't o&&er to buy her a drin! neither
agree to her demands 19I'm thirsty,,9 9.ill you buy me a drin!79 et*$, +ere's
why ( i& you do you suli*ate, And women ha"e nothing but s*orn and
disrese*t &or suli*ating men,
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e)amle#
+er#9.ill you buy me drin!793ou#98o, %ut you *an buy me a drin!#$9+er 1thin!ing 9Argh5 >mh5 +e didn't suli*ate4 6ould this be5 a realman47 .hat's this I'm getting wet479$# 9Am5 um5 3es49
I& howe"er she seems to be *ruising &ishing &or drin!s and doesn't seem to
*are the least bit about you telling her 98o9 would mean she'd 0ust mo"e on
without listening to you any &urther and getting her drin! &rom some *hum
e"entually anyway, So you need to sto her *old in her tra*!s#$ +ere's an
e)amle &rom AS;#
+er#9.ill you buy me a drin!793ou#9>i"e me a ;ren*h !iss,98OT/ that the tongue lay must be an e)li*it art o& the bargain u &ront,
8one o& this e*! on the lis %Uo
>2and 2r, Smoothon her right away4
93ou aren't utight are you7 Don't you go out to ha"e &un7 .e're ha"ing
&un4#$9
93ou li!e *ool guys don't you7 #$9
9It's not hot se) or anything,,,0ust a little !iss4#$9
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Pa*ing the ongoing reality
A good tool to use &or instant raort ese*ially when aroa*hing 1as you
need to o"er*ome her ossible *autiousness about you and do it &ast$ is
a*ing the ongoing reality, .hat this means is des*ribing both the "ery
re*ent 1&or e)amle her ha"ing been idle and you ha"ing aroa*hed her$
ongoing 1you tal!ing to her and her being leasantly surrised$ and near
&uture e"ents 1her &eeling good about getting to !now a handsome stranger
li!e you$ in a leasant humorous and belie"eable manner, +ere's a modi&ied
e)amle originated by 6li&&ord in 6li&&ord's Sedu*tin newsletter, It starts out
with some basi* aroa*hing elements 1ardoning *omlimenting her
o&&ering your name$ whi*h are sometimes &rowned uon by more
e)erien*ed PUA(s 1see 96omlimenting her9 98eghits9 and 9Should I o&&er
my name79 &or more in&ormation on why$ but the ensuing a*ing o& ongoing
reality *reates an o"erall leasant atmoshere o& honesty simli*ity and
sin*erity whi*h is o&ten almost imossible to resist#$ The modi&ied e)amle
a*ing by 6li&&ord 6li&&ord's Sedu*tion newsletter#
9/)*use me I don't mean to interrut you Jdrin!ing *o&&ee reading the
newsaer waiting &or the *ommuter your train o& thoughtK but I 0ust
wanted to tell you that I &ind you "ery attra*ti"e and wanted to meet you, 2y
name is Ri*! what's yours79 J+ere *omes the a*ingK 93ou !now you ne"er
!now when something wonder&ul is about to haen li!e you *ould &ind
yoursel& Jin the *a&e in the waiting(hall sitting on the ben*h wheree"erK
0ust thin!ing about Jeating another donut what time the *ommuter arri"es whate"er she's doing or e)e*ting to haenK and the ne)t thing you !now
an attra*ti"e stranger is tal!ing to you and as you listen to him you may
noti*e that e"en though Jyou'"e ne"er seen him be&ore you'"e seen him
be&ore at this bus(sto you'"e met him be&ore here in this libraryK somehow
today be*ause he is tal!ing to you you may see him in a new and di&&erent
way, 6an you imagine that79
8ow what you did here is you told her something that she in"ariably had to
agree with ( yes she was where you said she was doing what you told her
she was doing thin!ing in the lines o& what you hinted she was yes yes
and yes, And all o& these things were :uite simle &or you to say ( all you hadto do was to des*ribe the s*enery#$ %ut in her mind it doesn't matter ( she
&inds hersel& agreeing to what you're saying o"er and o"er again, And its not
some unimortant who(*ares and so(what stu&& li!e 9the sun is shining,,, and
the buildings are tall,,, and eole are wal!ing by9 either its a*tually
something :uite imortant as it is about what LsheL was doing and what
LsheL was thin!ing about, So while she is listening to you and she &inds
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hersel& agreeing with you on some &airly imortant matters the agreean*e
she has in her mind *reates a &eeling o& enthusiasm and being *lose to you
and in e&&e*t ( instant raort,
+a"ing had to agree with so many things the &ew things that she robably
wouldn't agree with on their own seem also mu*h more a**etable as a
*onse:uen*e, So maybe she wasn't leasantly surrised when you
aroa*hed her or maybe she wouldn't des*ribe you as arti*ularly
handsome ( but now that you'"e showered her with so many truisms to begin
with the ones that wouldn't ring so true by themsel"es seem mu*h more
true amongst all the other truisms, Thus &or e)amle you telling her she was
leasantly surrised when she thought she wasn't will ha"e her re(e"aluate
the nature o& her surrise as a *onse:uen*e o& all the other truisms that
surround it, Don't o"erload her mind with things that she robably wouldn't
agree with though ( !ee a &ine balan*e ush things in your a*ing 0ust a bit
abo"e the a*tual and towards the more ositi"e &or i& you go o"erboard she
will sto agreeing with you,,, and bye(bye instant raort,
6li&&ord *ontinues# 98ow listen &or her resonse ( one thing that may haen
here and whi*h has haened to me many times is that she may be one o&
those women who starts tal!ing a lot and you won't be able to get mu*h o&
what you are thin!ing o& saying out, This is a great sign, Usually I 0ust smile
!nowingly and let them tal! their little hearts out, As soon as the toi* o&
se) *omes u you !now you'"e got her, Must lay ba*! be &riendly don't say
too mu*h and she will tal! hersel& right into your bed, 3ou may need to
in"ite her &or a *o&&ee or a drin! at the right time 1I ha"e &ound a lot o& the
tal!ers will e)tend an in"itation to you themsel"es and you 0ust ha"e towat*h &or it$,9
/"en during the remote ossibility that she doesn't dislay immediate
interest you still ha"e lenty o& otions to e"o!e it ( eli*iting "alues
*on"ersing on general atterning themes or e"en outright atterning
dislaying the general attra*ti"e traits o& humour and *on&iden*e lus
anything you *ame to !now she wants in a man "ia eli*iting "alues et* et*,
+owe"er e"en i& you need a &ollow(u te*hni:ue to *ontinue with than!s to
your initial a*ing o& the ongoing reality you're well on your way to getting
her to li!e you, And &rom there on to,,, well whate"er your
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Should I as! &or her name7
;orget it, It might seem li!e an inno*ent and easy way o& 9getting to !now
ea*h other9 ( 92y name's 5 what's yours79, %ut as e"eryone and their mom
is doing that it is 0ust lain lame, I& she's not interested in you she'll &orget
your name in an instant, And i& she is belie"e me she's gonna as! &or it#$
And this way it e"en be*omes a little test o& 9am(I(getting(anywhere(with(
this(girl79#$ I& during the *on"ersation she suddenly dis*o"ers to her
ama-ement that 9goosh I don't e"en !now this guy's name749 and as!s &or
it5 you're well on your way#$
As!ing &or her name is roagated by some on the reten*e that this way
you'll get to be 9&ormally introdu*ed9, And what is that suosed to mean7
8ow that she !nows your name she'll be burning hot &or you7 +ardly,
Rather you get to be &ormally *ategorised as a *hum or maybe a 9&riend9 i&
you're lu*!y 1belie"e me you're not i& that is what haens#$
One more argument against as!ing &or names ( you as! &or her name and
then oh goosh you &orget it4 She e)e*ts you to !now it but you don't, And
9.hat's you're name again79 is not e"en a neg( where's the *omliment in
that7 3ou *ould o& *ourse go 9.ell I !now you had a "ery beauti&ul name5
but what was it e)a*tly79 ( use this one to negher i& you as!ed &or her name
and &orgot it, %ut better 0ust &orget trying to 0uggle with names and let her
as! yours &irst, And see i& she remembers#$
In *on*lusion ( names are &ine as long as she initiates the e)*hange, Until
then ( remain a man o& mystery#$
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The :uestions game
I bet you always ha"e a lot o& 9interesting9 :uestions you'd li!e to as! a lady
when you &irst meet her,
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/li*iting "alues ( the :uestions
+ere's a samle list o& :uestions to use to eli*it her "alues and tran*e
words, 836 AS;#
.hat she wants7
.hat she li!es7
.hat she thin!s she needs7
.hat she thin!s she deser"es7
.hat she had in the ast that she wants to reeat7
.hat she had in the ast that she wants to a"oid7
.hat s*ares her7
.hat ma!es her hay7
.hat ma!es her &eel se)y7
As! the right :uestions don't try to ush her towards some se*i&i* state
1li!e e)*itement &or e)amle$ it might mean nothing to her, AS;# 9Realise
that 9do you "alue e)*itement in your li&e79 is a useless :uestion *omared
to 9what do you "alue79
+ere are some additional :uestions you *an as! that might be a little less
"alue(eli*iting oriented but hel&ul ne"ertheless, They'll hel you to get to
!now to her and should also ut her in an altered state by ma!ing her dig u
answers &or these &rom dee within her *ons*iousness and sub*ons*ious,
9.hat are the *hallenges in her line o& wor! what are the easy arts
what she li!es what she doesn't li!e about her 0ob79
9.hat is the most unusual thing you'"e done when laying 9truth ordare979 +oe&ully she *omes u with some se)ual stu&$
9+ow do your &riends des*ribe you79 Use this both &or "alue(eli*iting
and as re in&o &or alm(reading a&ter whi*h you *an say 9
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a"oid any ossible romanti* memories#$
9In what eriod o& your li&e where you most oular79 +a"e her
remember the 9good times9#$
9Do you remember the &irst time you &ell seriously *omletely and
hellessly in lo"e#$ +ow did it haen79
9The haiest moment o& your li&e79
9.hat role would you li!e to lay in some mo"ie79
9A*hie"ing what goals in your li&e ha"e brought you the most 0oy79
9+ow well do you !now yoursel&79
I& the answer to some :uestion is not to your li!ing 19what s*ares you79
9mi*e9$ elaborate on what you meant with your :uestions, And i& there's
anything you don't understand in her answer *omletely se*i&y and as!
additional :uestions, Don't T+I8= you understand be SUR/ you understand
be*ause that is the only way o
G$ ma!ing her &eel *omletely understood by you
H$ and *omletely understanding her ( whi*h is what you need in order to
!now how to ma!e her &eel the way she wants to &eel with that se*ial man
o& hers#$
Don't &orget though that you ha"e to be able to introdu*e these :uestions
as a natural *omonent and *ontinuation o& your *on"ersation with the girl,
Simly as!ing them out o& the blue will ma!e it sound li!e you're
interrogating her or that you'"e reared and rehearsed them be&orehand
1insin*erity4$ and on*e that haens you're through,
836 AS;# 93ou *an tell when a *hi*! is a&&e*ted by !inoOR tal!ingthin!ing
about something, The sub0e*ts that she doesn't rea*t to and the !inothatshe doesn't rea*t to,,, don't bother with them, .hen you lat*h onto
something that really hases her in the dire*tion you want her to go ta!e
her deeer into it by as!ing her more intri*ate :uestions about it that she
+AS TO meta(state into the situation to a**ess, She will ha"e to
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+er# 8o not really,,, I'm !ind o& i*!y,
2e# Really7 I mean I don't mean to sound strange or anything,,, but what
:ualities do you loo! &or in a guy7
This is where you shut u and listen
See also#
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+ow to ha"e her lea"e the grou%y 8ightShadow, 2indlist#
9I see a hottie tal!ing to all o& her &riends and I want to meet her,
JThe &ollowing des*ri'tion is useless in this *onte)t but it was Uso mu*h
&unU I 0ust had to Ulea"e it inU@$K,
She is wearing a beauti&ul !nee high s!irtdress her lis are e"er so *aringly
outlined with 0ust the right amount o& li sti*! to a**entuate her slightly
outy lis, An angels &a*e with a bed de"ils grin, 8i*e round &irm breast
tight and shaely ass legs that s*ream to be sread li!e butter with your
hot !ni&e o& leasure,
8ow I bet hal& the guys on the list are going 9.+AT .OU
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Patterning e)lained
Dis*laimer# Part o& the *ontentsideas aearing in this se*tion o& the Player
>uide ha"e been re&eren*ed or artially reurosed &rom Ross Me&&ries'Seed Sedu*tionV .eb Site1&ree newsletters$ *ourseware rodu*tsor seminar re*ordings, I& you &ind the materials in this se*tion use&ul youmay want to *onsider loo!ing into Ross' rodu*ts a"ailable &or ur*hase
&rom the O&&i*ial Seed Sedu*tionV .eb Site ,Patterns &orm the *ore o& Ross Me&&ries' Seed Sedu*tion te*hni:ue,
Patterns are s*rits o& des*ribing "arious wonder&ul states o& mind and
&eelings to a girl seemingly ha"ing nothing to do with you and her 1&or
e)amle by des*ribing the wonder&ul &eelings and states that musi*
dan*ing eating strawberries and *ho*olate et* *an *reate$ but
sub*ons*iously getting her aroused5 by what you're saying and in e&&e*t by
you#$ 3ou *an either lin! all those wonder&ul &eelings you ma!e her &eel by
what you're saying by sel&(ointing at aroriate times 1whi*h is what Ross
Me&&ries re*ommends$ but the simle &a*t that you're there while she gets
all those &eelings and that you are the originator o& them should do the 0ob
as well#$,
2a!ing her &eel all those wonder&ul states not only means des*ribing them
to her it also means gi"ing her *ommands embedded in what you're saying
to e)erien*e those states, Des*ritions by themsel"es might not always
wor! she might not be aying too mu*h attention and wander o&& in herthoughts but on*e you'"e gi"en her *ommands ( 9;eel it building,,, &o*us in
on those &eelings,,, surrender *omletely,,,9 ( she might &irst e"en be
aroused by su*h *ommands by themsel"es but she will de&inetly be mu*h
more attenti"e towards the des*ritions you are about to o&&er,
Patterns also *ontain sub*ons*ious messages !nown as binder *ommands,
;or e)amle an e)*ert &rom a attern# 95 that's the way to do it, 8ow
with me its di&&erent be*ause59 in*ororates a binder *ommand o& 9DO IT4
8O.4 .IT+ 2/49 whi*h will bind all &eelings and desires her arousal has
*reated to 3OU,
On*e you ha"e her attention one o& the most ower&ul methods o& ma!ingher 9&eel9 is using se)ual metahors, They sound inno*ent in the *onte)t o&
what you're saying but she is bound to i*! u on them and on*e you ha"e
her imagining all those hrases out o& *onte)t5 don't be surrised i& she
says has to go to the bathroom &or a moment and you noti*e her seat is all
wet#$ A &ew e)amles o& su*h hrases are# 96reate an oening &or it,,, &eel
that thought enetrate you,,,, you *ome o"er and o"er again to the same
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*on*lusion,,,9, 8ow that you !now what to loo! &or you'll &ind more hrases
in the e)amle atterns resented in this guide,
One rather dubious ase*t o& atterns is the so(*alled weasel hrases, ;or
e)amle the hrases 95these "alues are below me9 ronoun*ed 9%U3 IS SO %/AUTI;U
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Deli"ering atterns ( general rules
Dis*laimer# Part o& the *ontentsideas aearing in this se*tion o& the Player
>uide ha"e been re&eren*ed or artially reurosed &rom Ross Me&&ries'Seed Sedu*tionV .eb Site1&ree newsletters$ *ourseware rodu*tsor seminar re*ordings, I& you &ind the materials in this se*tion use&ul youmay want to *onsider loo!ing into Ross' rodu*ts a"ailable &or ur*hase
&rom the O&&i*ial Seed Sedu*tionV .eb Site ,%eing "ague,It is imortant to be as "ague as ossible in your atterns, ;orone thing "agueness &or a woman doesn't sound in*oherent or obs*ure li!e
it does to the rational and matter(o&(&a*t mind o& a man, ;or a girl "ague
e:uals romanti* thrilling mysterious and intriguing, ;or another thing
being "ague in your atterns lets her more easily lin! the &eelings you
des*ribe with her own e)erien*es or dreams, The more "ague the better4
Doesn't atterning sound unnatural71Ross Me&&ries#$ 9.hen you learn howto do Seed Sedu*tion a**ording to that it *eases to be about mind(&u*!ing
and ramming memorised atterns into a 1hoe&ully#$ *o(oerati"e sub0e*t
and be*omes a mutual e)loration o& how you thin! and how she thin!s
about *ertain toi*s that naturally would lend themsel"es to attern tye
tal! e"en i& you didn't !now a thing about Seed Sedu*tion4 Using the
attern language there&ore in this *onte)t is utterly natural in*redibly
ower&ul and allows you to a*tually learn something about the woman on a
"ery dee le"el while you are *reating in*redible *onne*tions se)ual
&eelings et*, et*,9On*e more the atterns here are only e)amles,Ross Me&&ries# 9Theatterns are e)amles 8OT rules, 2any students thin! that unless they
resent the atterns to women word &or word that they won't wor! or get
results, T+IS IS MUST GFFW ;A
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*lasses o& women who resond to atterns@ those who want to be
o"erwhelmed and those who want it to be their own e)erien*e, The
women in the &irst *ategory will 0ust sit and let you run atterns without
interruting@ the se*ond *ategory will interrut by tal!ing, That's o!,,,let
them tal!,,, be*ause they will gi"e you their ersonal tran*e words whi*h
you use ba*! with them when you *ontinue with the atterns4 >irls in the
se*ond *ategory are a*tually more entertaining and &un49
The time delay,Ross Me&&ries# 9Some women &or whate"er reason ha"e a9time delay9 e&&e*t@ the atterns might not aear to wor! but an hour or E
days or e"en E months later out o& the blue they want to bang you, This
9time delay9 *an be an )(&a*tor that *an ma!e resonses seem a bit more
unredi*table,9
1Ta!en &rom 9Swee women o&& their &eet,,,9#$ 9I& she's still not resonsi"e
maybe she's ne"er e)erien*ed su*h &eelings in the ast and is ha"ing a
hard time !eeing u, Slow down and tal! as though you are trying to
understand as well &rom the e)erien*e o& your &riend, It will be easier &or
her to imagine all the &eelings you are des*ribing i& there is no ressure &or
her to readily understand them, >i"e her the time she needs to absorb
e"erything, And sometimes it ta!es a while be&ore she'll absorb e"erything,
%elie"e me that does haen,
;or e)amle there was this girl I thought was unresonsi"e yet a &ew days
a&ter we had a dee *on"ersation about lo"e and &eelings she *ame u to
me and a*ted as though she was truly in lo"e i*!ing u that same
*on"ersation a&ter I almost &orgot what we were tal!ing about in the &irst
la*e,96ombine &eelings with body sensations,Ross Me&&ries# 9As &ar asossible layer in body sensations along with your *onne*tion atterns4
.hen you *ombine body sensations along with emotional *onne*tions
either at the same time or raidly in se:uen*e the e&&e*t is ra*ti*ally
irresistible and the ower isn't additi"e,,,it's e)onential49
;ear77 8o, ;U844Ross Me&&ries# 9I& you want to be hilariously su**ess&ulwith Seed Sedu*tion then you must realise that the atterns aren't about
begging, They aren't e"en really about tri*!ing or misleading, 8o sir the
atterns are about being able to *reate su*h in*redible states o& leasure
and &un and highs &or her that no one else *an su*h that she really .A8TSto gi"e you her se)ual goodies, They're about *reating states &or her that no
one else *an, Viewed li!e this that in*redible babe you want to bang isn't
someone you need to &ear, She's someone who's about to re*ei"e an
in*redible gi&t &rom you a gi&t she might *ontinue to re*ei"e I; she's smart
enough and hot enough and se)y enough to gi"e you what it ta!es to !ee
3OU *oming ba*! &or more, 3ou see it sure ma!es a damn big di&&eren*e
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when you *an loo! at a honey(ie and honestly thin! to yoursel& 9+ow good
*an this woman stand to &eel7
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else, Does this ma!e sense7 I !now sto a minute *lose your eyes,
/"eryone has some when I say *lose your eyes I want the lids down,
Anyone who's lids do not *lose will &ind their se)ual &uture shrin!ing away
raidly raidly, Some o& us don't ha"e long to wait, I want you to thin! o&
some situation where you ha"e alot o& &le)ibility where something gets
thrown in your ath you shi&t around and you !ee going, I don't *are what
*onte)t it is, And as you thin! o& that thing I want you to raise your hand in
the air raise your hand in the air do it and ma!e a &ist raise your arm all
the way u in the air ma!e a &ist and as you bring that hand down I want
you to in*rease that &eeling o& utter &le)ibility and &ero*iousness that you go
&or what you want and !ee going, And do it again, Thin! o& that thing again
raise your hand in the air and as you do that thin! to yoursel& yes don't say
it but thin! to yoursel&, And remember that &eeling o& being &le)ible and you
go to the ne)t thing, O! one more time, And this time in your mind's eye I
want you to see some woman that you would really li!e to sedu*e and see
her not resonding the way you'd li!e to, As you ut your hand down noti*e
how you *an in*rease that &eeling hey I'm going to try something else and
!ee going, 8othing is going to sto me, Do you get that7 Alright, Oen your
eyes and loo! at me,9
%e atient and learn &rom trial and error,Ross Me&&ries# 9Ability 8o E isthe ability to be atient and learn &rom trial and error, I !now you all admire
me and you're not worthy and all that other shit but guess what, I ma!e
mista!es with this, %ut I don't want to thin! o& ma!ing mista!es I am
learning, I o**asionally do things guess what they don't wor! the way I'"e
lanned, >uess what7 I get e)*ited, =ent and 2ar! here had lun*h with meand the &irst thing I as!ed them was what ha"e you done that doesn't wor!7
Tell me about what you'"e done where it didn't wor!, Did I not say that7
%e*ause that's where I get e)*ited, That tells me I'm about to ste into a
new le"el o& ower, I& something isn't wor!ing *ongratulate yoursel&
be*ause you're about to &ind out what does wor!, 3ou're about to learn
something new, .ithout that mind set you will be at best medio*re with
this material, .ith this mind set no matter what blo*!s you may start out
with you will lea"e them behind :ui*!ly and go where"er you want to with
the material, %ut i& nothing else i& all you do is really begin to li"e the
attitude that there are no &ailures there's only learnings you will be aheadQQW o& the eole in so*iety,9
%e able to mo"e &rom one attern to the ne)t, Ross Me&&ries# 9Ability 8o,, Ability to mo"e &rom one attern to the ne)t, I will go o"er some
transitional hrases that will allow you to mo"e &rom any attern to any
other attern, /"en i& it ma!es it logi*ally seem it's nothing more &un to me
than ma!ing it seem li!e my ideas are logi*ally *onne*ted when there's no
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logi*al *onne*tion at all, I'm 0ust *onne*ting them so I *an ram atterns in,
O!, And there's *ertain hrases 9now here's another thing9, Or 9here's
something else that is interesting9, It doesn't ha"e to be any logi*al
*onne*tion to be any ideas at all,9
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Deli"ering atterns ( tonality
Dis*laimer# Part o& the *ontentsideas aearing in this se*tion o& the Player
>uide ha"e been re&eren*ed or artially reurosed &rom Ross Me&&ries'Seed Sedu*tionV .eb Site1&ree newsletters$ *ourseware rodu*tsor seminar re*ordings, I& you &ind the materials in this se*tion use&ul youmay want to *onsider loo!ing into Ross' rodu*ts a"ailable &or ur*hase
&rom the O&&i*ial Seed Sedu*tionV .eb Site ,The way you deli"er the atterns determines the di&&eren*e between ma!ing
her &eel wonder&ul dee inside or you sounding li!e a honey or a atheti*
*lown re*iting some weird(sounding monologue or s*rit,
Presenting her with the te)t a**omlishes you nothing the words itsel& will
not ma!e her &eel anything, 3ou ha"e to be the te)t you deli"er you ha"e to
&eel it with her be with her e"ery ste o& the way5 until the &inal erution#$
13es women ha"e been reorted to ha"e orgasms simly by listening to
atterns being deli"ered the right way#$, So memorising the atterns
resented in this guide does nothing &or you unless you really li"e out and
not simly re*ite e"ery word to her,
The atterns that you *an &ind on www,sedu*tion,*omor in this guide are
mere e)amles o& what attern(tal! is li!e they are not sells that ma!e
magi* things haen 0ust be*ause they are mumbled out loud, 3ou *an
*ertainly start by memorising some atterns but you will start ha"ing real
su**ess only when you'll be able to ma!e u a attern on the &ly about
anything that is e)*iting and *lose to heart &or that one se*i&i* girl you aretal!ing to, It hels i& you ha"e a so&t low mesmerising and a slightly
hynoti* "oi*e and i& you don't5 try to modulate your "oi*e to be*ome as
su*h while deli"ering your atterns#$
1AS;#$ 9Using a low sedu*ti"e "oi*e may seem unnatural at &irst but you
must ra*ti*e, Try tae re*ording your own "oi*e so you get an idea o& how
you sound in general, Then tae yoursel& re*iting a s*rited attern, 3ou'll
hear how stilted and unnatural it sounds, 8ow tae yoursel& while
imro"ising that same attern but this time wor! on ma!ing how you say
the words sound soothing and well sedu*ti"e, Don't worry about s*rewing
u the word order 0ust *on*entrate on +O. 3OU SA3 IT, Also ( ause mid(senten*e to *reate a sense o& anti*iation and mystery,9
Adated &rom Ross Me&&ries' ubli* seminar tans*rit no G#
Ross#Some o& you your tonality u until tonight su*!ed, It 0ust su*!s, 3ouneed to ra*ti*e, 3ou'"e got to ma!e a *ommitment to ra*ti*e these s!ills,
+ow many eole here wal!7 +ow many eole here tal!7 +ow many eole
here *an stand u7 +ow many eole here are toilet trained7 =ee your
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hand down %ru*e, Must teasing o!, Do you thin! those are all things that
you a*:uired immediately7 Did you o out o& the womb being able to do it7
3ou had to ra*ti*e, 3ou must ra*ti*e these s!ills on a *onsistent basis, I
don't !now why I ha"e to *ontinue to hammer on this oint be&ore you get it
and in*ororate it, So let's wor! on *ontrolling tonality let's ut your notes
down, I dont want to see anyone writing or holding notes anyone with a en
in their hand will &ind their gentile is shrin!ing, And some o& you ha"e no
time to waste, +ow many o& you !now what the "owels are7 .hat are the
"owels7
Audien*e#A/IOURoss#.rong here are the "owels, AAAA //// IIII OOOO UUUU, Thoseare the "owels, So we're going to do an e)er*ise, Put one hand on your
*hest so you *an &eel the residen*e o& your "oi*e ta!e a dee breath ut
your head ba*! and say with me, AAAA //// IIII OOOO UUUU, .el*ome
to the &i"e hour orgasm, O!, .hen you sea! to a woman you should be
sea!ing su*h that your "oi*e resinates, .hen you ra*ti*e these atterns
out loud and you must ra*ti*e e"ery attern OUT
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only ut your head ba*! ta!e a dee breath and go sedu*e me ma!e it
resinate, Say it out loud,
Audien*e#Sedu*e meRoss#%etter a little louder, This is not obser"ant, Do it, Sedu*e me bettero! now do watermelon,
Audien*e#.atermelonRoss#Su*! it in li!e this and go watermelon,Audien*e#.atermelonRoss#+e's got it, 8i*!y *ome on in and ha"e a seat, O! do you guys wantto try it7
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6ommon signs o& interest
6ommon signs o& interest &rom the girl ali*able mostly in bar(room and
*lub situations, Stehanie Ale)ander 2a)im 1htt#ma)immag,*om$#
She *omliments you on "irtually anything, .omen are used to
re*ei"ing *omliments not gi"ing them, So i& she oints out a ositi"e
*hara*teristi* youC"e imressed her,
SheCs disagreeing but laughing, ;lirtatious sar*asm as in B3eah right
li!e I belie"e that4? means sheCs into you, I& she werenCt sheCd simly
BUh(huh? you into obli"ion,
She !ees as!ing you to reeat yoursel&, SheCs not allowing the
blasting musi* to *ome between the two o& you, A suggestion o& a
:uieter *orner to tal! in will be well re*ei"ed,
She laughs at your lame 0unior high s*hoolXle"el 0o!es, SheCs ob"iously
lust drun!, Or maybe 0ust drun!,
She tou*hes you anywhere, Tou*h her ba*! in the e:ui"alent la*e
and let her u the ante 0ust in *ase her tou*h was an a**idental sli
o& the hand,
She stays ut, I& you run to drain the monster and sheCs still where you
le&t her when you return youCre doing something right, uys do
this all the time, +a"e you e"er wal!ed into a bar and then made ra*ti*ally
a bee line &or the hottest *hi*! i& only to be near her and *he*! her outmore7 And maybe you 9*hanged your mind9 and instead o& aroa*hing her
you ordered a drin! at the bar right ne)t to her7 I'"e been in stores shoing
where it seemed that a woman I had seen ut hersel& near me se"eral times
o"er the *ourse o& GF(HF minutes, 6oin*iden*e7 2aybe but I don't really
belie"e that and it's &ar more use&ul &or me to belie"e that a woman &inds
me interesting or attra*ti"e and is utting hersel& near me on urose
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hoing that I may start something,9
;or more signs o& interest see#
Reading body(language
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Reading the signs o& a 9*ommitted9 woman
;or starters ( a story whi*h at &irst glan*e only seems to illustrate the
mista!e o& 0udging a girl by her words and not her a*tions, %ut a&ter a more
*are&ul inse*tion e"en those seemingly 9re0e*ting9 words o& her are
a*tually a *omlementary sign to her a*tions 1the sign being ( 9I want
you49#$,
2r +ay AS;#
9O! boys and girls learn &rom 2r, +ay's mista!e so that you don't &all &or
it yoursel&,
I met this *hi*! online and got her to agree to meet me to lay some ool,
She was really hot, I also did a really good 0ob o& *on"eying ersonality,,, I
got in some good negs some humor some teasing it was "ery lay&ul and
also some light !ino, 1I !now I did this right be*ause she still messages me
et* so maybe I'll get a *han*e to *orre*t the ;U6= UP that I made,,,read
on,$
See the whole time she is tal!ing about how she is a 6hristian and she
wor!s &or 6amus 2inistries and she has a ;IA86/ and how they're not
0ust DATI8> but they are 6OURTI8> and how se*ial it is blah blah, She
also says how busy she is be*ause o& s*hool and that i& I'm going to see
her it'll be on her terms 1ha4$ so at that oint I thought s*rew this I ha"e
better things to do with my time, She in"ited me to a me*hani*al engineer
1her ma0or$ arty that &riday and I turned her down,
She messages me a &ew days later and tal!s about how she got drun! andstoned at the arty and how she went home with some other student and
got her brains &u*!ed out, She hoes she isn't regnant she doesn't intend
to tell her &ian*e et* blah,
That *ould ha"e been me in there4 I will ne"er sare a *hi*! again#$9
%ased on the story abo"e here are *ommentaries by Odious on what
wereare the signs o& a married or bore&riended iow 9*ommitted9 woman
being interested in you, Odious AS;#
9O= ha"ing been with married women be&ore there are E !ey signs that
she's hot to trot and ready to ste out,
G, She will 9oen u to you9 and tell you what IS 8OT haening with herman,
This goes &or married women women with boy&riends,,, all o& them, She will
tell you &lat out what it is she is missing and what she wants, .hen she
starts telling you how he's not *utting it she's letting you !now that door is
oen, 8ow this woman did this but it sounds li!e she was being subtle
about it, She said they were *ourting not dating,,, what the hell is that7 I
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thin! that meant 9we ha"e a *ommitment but he's not &u*!ing me,9
H, I& she's interested she'll *reate oortunities &or the two o& you to be
alone together,
I had a woman who I didn't e"en reali-e was interested in me *ome o"er to
my house to study and wor! on a aer,,, be*ause her *omuter was on the
&rit-, The thought that she was hot &or me did not e"en *ross my mind until
she started as!ing me my oinions on the meaning and "alue o& marriage
iow 9what would you thin! o& a woman who *heated on her husband,,, with
you,,, right now49
E, She !nows when he'll be around or not so she'll want to *all the shots as
to when you see ea*h other,
She ob"iously did that one, +owe"er don't *ount yoursel& out 0ust yet
be*ause she is still gi"ing you a subset o& the &irst sign 1whi*h was ( telling
you what is LnotL haening with her man$, She may tell you about other
se)ual e)loits ( i& she *heated on him be&ore or i& she *heated on an old
boy&riend et*, So this woman is hitting all the signs, She's oened u to you
she's ma!ing time she wants to *all the shots as to when you get together
and now she's telling you she *heated, The ne)t time you see her or tal! to
her ( a*t li!e you thin! her *heating is no big deal that you rese*t it when
women *an go &or what they want, I ha"e also &ound an atta*! on the se)ist
nature o& the whole idea o& monogamy to be "ery e&&e*ti"e#
9The whole idea o& monogamy dates ba*! to a time when women were
treated as roerty, 2en ran the world and made all the rules, So men *ould
ha"e mistresses and *on*ubines but i& a woman *heated she was stoned to
death, It is *omletely se)ist and hyo*riti*al, I thin! you should listen toyour heart and your desires and see where that leads you, To me that is
the only way to go, ;ul&ill your desires and see! leasure, .ith me that's
what's imortant, Pleasure is a gi&t indulge it and you be*ome a more
&ul&illed and *omlete erson,9 et*,9
836 e)lains why 9*ommitted9 women are a*tually :uite easy both to
aroa*h and e"en get 9"ery &riendly9 with#$ 836 AS;#
9.omen that are 9ta!en9 are di&&erent &rom women that are single in that
they are either
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RO2A8TI6 !ind o& intera*tion that she doesn't get &rom her 9boy&riend9
*oming home turning on the TV wat*hing sorts &eeling her u &or a
se*ond 1la*! o& &orelay is a 2AMOR turno&&$ and &u*!ing her until +/ *ums
and &alling aslee, As long as she &eels li!e she *an get away with it and
still ha"e her hum(drum relationshi inta*t she will &u*! you, 3ou would be
surrised how many women are 9ta!en9 but nowhere near SATIS;I/D4 ,,,
+%sare 8/V/R without a man, They !ee the one they ha"e until they hoo!
u something new, Then they s!i o&& so i& you are waiting &or an +%to
be*ome SI8>
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6aitalise
To *aitalise when doing a i*!(u would be to and Y*lose with a girl, To
*aitalise with a girl that you'"e already Y or *losed would be to do a
&ollow(u o& *alling her and then either by atterning or using any other
sedu*tion te*hni:ue heling her to realise what you both ha"e really wanted
all along#$ And then doing it o& *ourse#$
Aart &rom your usual i*!(us though you might ha"e gotten a girl
interested in you in the midst o& your e"eryday *hores ( maybe a *o(wor!er
a neighbour a &ellow student a girl at the *ashier, To *aitalise would
mean 8OT TO
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Put a ri*e on yoursel&
Ross Me&&ries# 9And one o& the most true and ower&ul realities o& human
nature is# I; SO2/T+I8> 6O2/S AT V/R3 /R44 >uys who
ne"er get mad who ne"er show that they will stand u &or themsel"es
and ma!e a woman &eel a bit o& unleasantness are in e&&e*t gi"ing
themsel"es away &or &ree44 OI8> TO PA3 A PRI6/4
H, %e willing to withdraw your time and attention and be una"ailable4
There are a*tually two rules wor!ing here# one is that eole "alue
more what they ha"e to wor! &or but also the rule is# i& it's rare or
be*oming 2OR/ s*ar*e it's "iewed as being more "aluable,
.ell in any *ase as I'"e said it's a reality so use it in the &ollowing ways#
A, A, 8ow and again *an*el dates,%, %, Don't always return her hone *alls romtly
6, 6, On o**asion and ese*ially in the beginning >/T O;; T+/ P+O8/
;IRST44 Don't ha"e unlimited time or willingness to tal!44
That should get her "iewing you as s*ar*e and there&ore a lot more "aluable
and there&ore something,,, She's .illing To Pay A +ell O& A et44
8ow the &inal and erhas the most imortant rule I *an gi"e you is#
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you don't eliminate those who won't ay the ri*e then you will be
under*utting your *on&iden*e when you want to mo"e towards what you
want be*ause your beha"iour is not GFFW *ongruent with your belie& that
you are a erson o& "alue who is deser"ing o& the best,9
6raig 6li&&ord's Sedu*tion newsletter# 92a!e her ut some wor! into
hanging out with you in order &or her to "alue you, 2a!e her *ome and i*!
you u ma!e her send some money on you ma!e her *all and do you
&a"ors et*, .hen she does things &or you it will 0usti&y her own &eelings &or
you and allow them to grow,9
See also#
Attra*t girls by being busy
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Attra*t girls by being busy
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a small ie*e o& hoe in her mind that she *ould be*ome YG,9
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Show a willingness to wal! away
Ross Me&&ries# 93ou see a&ter years o& e)erien*e and study I'"e *ome to
the *on*lusion that a woman *an only e)erien*e real assion &or i& on
some le"el she belie"es she *ould do something to lose you4 Understand
that when you show this willingness to wal! away in any area o& your li&e it
*on"eys the message that you are the ri-e to be ursued that you are the
erson o& "alue and they had better ta!e ad"antage o& the oortunity, This
is an attitude that will mo"e you &orward in any area that's *hallenging you,
%y way o& *ontrast i& you show a non(sto &ore"er and e"er de"otion to her
and ut u with her *ra and ambi"alen*e then where is that tension o&
!nowing she *ould lose you7 Answer# nowhere4 And that's why you get
nowhere when you ut u with this !ind o& stu&&4 I& you'"e seen an initially
hot relationshi grow i*e(*old this is one big reason4449
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Use her &riends
Ross Me&&ries# 9;lowers wor! wonders on young *hi*!s ese*ially i& you
gi"e them to her in &ront o& her &riends, Always let her &riends !now 1by
being not saying$ you are a great guy, 8e"er e"er underestimate a girl's
desire to ma!e her &riends 0ealous o& her man, In addition to that always let
her thin! her &riends want you, 9Per*ei"ed "alue9 is why only some baseball
*ards are worth more that the store you bought them in when they are all
rinted on worthless *ardboard, And i& you want to ut a *herry on to,,, you
*an ma!e slight *omments that ma!e her thin! that 0u