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A Wedding Guide forWomen of Color

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From the Desk of the Founder

Ethiopian Wedding Traditions

Monthly Beauty Regimen for Brides

Wedding Planning Checklist

The Worest Wedding Advice

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What is Jumping the Broom?

It is an African American tradition relating to wedding ceremonies. Jumping the Broom signifies a remembrance of cultural heritage and the beginning of making a home together.

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A Wedding Guide forWomen of Color

Volume 2 Issue 2

the Broom My appreciation again to you, the readers of this magazine! What a dream you have made possible. All of us, the business owners inside this edition and past editions are so grateful for your support of this endeavor. Thanks for coming into our shops and calling us to ask questions, get a price quote, and most importantly - buy from us. We love our local brides and grooms!

Thanks to Will McLeod, my website and layout designer who has done a first-rate job with laying out the magazine! Exceptional ideas, great design!

Shout-out to Cheryl Deas, a talented local photographer for her inspiration as we worked at a wedding together! Cheryl’s posing techniques are incomparable and I am not only lucky to work with you, but I am blessed to call you friend!

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In each edition, we showcase wedding customs from across the world. This issue features an article on Ethiopian wedding customs. We were very pleased to learn that there were three female Ethiopian students at Benedict College in Columbia, South Carolina and they all agreed to model for this issue. These beautiful young women entered the A&B Photo Service studio on the Benedict College campus with slight trepidation and left laughing and hugging. They gave me a clearer understanding of their wedding customs than what I had learned online. It was a wonderful experience to meet them and photograph them. Bethel, Kemeriya and Feven - you are all intelligent women poised for greatness, and I wish you all the best in your future endeavors. I must give LOTS of love to my dear friend Schinita Goodwin, (who many know in the community as The African Queen). Schinita brought exquisite dresses, material, jewelry and make-up to dress the young ladies expertly for the shoot. I am indebted to you! You are the best!

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Ethiopian Wedding TraditionsDuring the photo session, our Ethiopian friends explained that there are two wedding ceremonies one with traditional attire for the couple and the other ceremony performed in a church with a white wedding dress for the bride and tuxedo for the groom as we would see here in the states.

In each edition of Jumping the Broom, we hope to expand your knowledge about wedding customs from various ethnic groups in the USA and in other countries.

Wedding ceremonies are practiced in different ways all over the world. The celebration and union of two people is a tradition-rich ceremony that usually involves family. There are many different kinds of traditions that are manifested in different ways by different cultures. The people of Ethiopia celebrate their unions in a manner that is rich in family and food, bringing two families together into a joined family.

Arranged Marriages

Marriages that are arranged are very accepted in Ethiopia as a normal wedding custom. In urban areas, this practice is becoming much less accepted. Proposals happen when the groom’s elders travel to the bride’s elders and request the woman’s hand in marriage for the man.

Rituals

Both parties’ elders decide where the ceremony will take place. Food is very important in Ethiopian wedding ceremonies, and both families are involved in preparing elaborate spreads of food, beer and wine. Meat dishes are especially popular. Ethiopian wedding foods are spicy and largely made up of meats and vegetables. Beef, chicken and lamb is eaten along with injera on special occasions. Traditionally, the beef was eaten raw, however modern Ethiopians prefer to have their meats cooked. Pork is not typically seen at an Ethiopian wedding.

The coffee ceremony is a traditional ritual performed at special occasions. Green coffee beans are roasted over a fire and then ground with a mortar and pestle. The powder is then placed in a black pot called a jebena, and water

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is added. After brewing, the coffee is served with kolo, or whole-grain barley. Tej, or honey wine, may also be served during a wedding. Tej is flavored with gesho plant leaves and twigs and poured from a tube-shaped flask.

Oromo Ceremonies

Oromo people make preparations for the wedding for a month before the occasion. On the couple’s wedding day, relatives and guests will assemble at the bride’s and groom’s houses. The groom dresses for the wedding and is blessed by his relatives. He then picks up the bride from her house. The bride and groom meet at the entrance of her house amongst beating drums.

Amhara Ceremonies

Amongst the Amhara people, the bride and groom’s families are responsible for arranging marriages. A civil ceremony solidifies the contract and a priest may or may not be present. An oral contract or “temporary marriage” is made before witnesses. The woman will be paid housekeeper’s wages during the marriage. While the wife is not eligible for inheritance, the couple’s children are. While divorce is allowed in Amhara marriages, it must be negotiated first.

Western Influence The Ethiopian Orthodox Church has a ritual that both parties must promise to never divorce. This practice has become more and more rare as western traditions have been introduced. In

urban areas, western wedding dresses and tuxedos are worn.

Family Unit

The nuclear unit in Ethiopia contains a lot of people. Usually, after the wedding, the couple moves in with family. The oldest male is the patriarch, and is seen as the head of the household. Not all men are equal, and the newly wed man is not the patriarch in most cases. Women are in charge of domestic duties and raising children.

The Dowry

The man’s family customarily presents the woman’s family with a dowry, which

can contain anything that is available to them including livestock, money or other valuable objects.

The very talented South Carolina seamstress Schinita Goodwin, formerly known as ‘the African Queen’ so graciously wrapped our Ethiopian models. I met Schinita more than 20 years ago and although we don’t see each other often, it took one phone call and in 15 minutes

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Seeking that illustrious bridal glow? Of course you are. Few times in your life actually command all to rise from their seats to feast their eyes upon your beauty as you walk into view. For such an occasion, looking “good” just doesn’t cut it. You need to look once-in-a-lifetime fabulous. Feeling the pressure? Fortunately, the one thing you can control on your wedding day is your bridal look. For while that fabled glow won’t just miraculously arrive in time for the big day, careful planning and prep work can ensure your most radiant self walks down that aisle. To avoid last minute beauty blunders – here’s what you need to do now, and what can wait until your final hours of singlehood…

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1. Get Great Skin – Now’s the time to address any skin problems you’ve tolerated; rid your skin of acne, sun damage, scars or wrinkles. Book an appointment with your dermatologist and discuss treatment options, such as retinol creams, lasers, skin lighteners or chemical peels.

2. Get In Shape – If you haven’t already, start a fitness and nutrition routine that you can live with – and stick with until your wedding day (and beyond!). Need some motivation? Join the bridal boot camp craze. These fitness programs geared towards brides are popping up all over the country.

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Monthly Beauty Regimen for Brides

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3. Plan Your Look – As soon as you’ve found “the dress,” decide how you want to wear your hair and makeup for the big day . Start growing your hair if you think you’ll want it longer. Now’s the time to test new looks. If you’re contemplating a drastic cut or color change – do it now – and leave time to get used to your new do, or change it back.

3-6 Months Out1. Hire Your Pros – If you love your stylist and are getting married locally, make sure he or she is available on your date. Otherwise, start auditioning stylists for the big day. Many hair stylists also offer makeup services and are willing to travel, while others do not.

2. Get a Facial – To ensure positively glowing skin on your wedding day, start a regimen of monthly facials

1 Month Out1. Make those Whites Pearly – Schedule a teeth cleaning, and if necessary, consider whitening your teeth. Crest white strips are a painless, inexpensive way to whiter teeth. Or if your budget allows, have them professionally whitened.

2. Go for a Trial Run – Schedule your consultation with your hair stylist and makeup artist for about one month prior. You should have your veil and any hair pieces at this time.

3. Fake a Tan – Experiment with tanners, bronzers, lotions, tanning beds etc. Give yourself enough time to ensure the look is natural and to your liking.

4. Banish Cellulite – Be bikini-ready for your honeymoon. Prep your thighs and any problem areas with cellulite cream. One to try – Revlon Sublime Slim. Apply twice daily, and reduce the appearance of cellulite in four weeks.

1-2 Weeks Out1. Cut and Color – The best time to schedule your final cut and color is 1-2 weeks out – to ensure enough time to fix any last minute color mishaps. Avoid doing anything too drastic.

2. Shape your hair “down there” – Make an appointment to have your bikini line waxed (you don’t want to fumble with razors on your honeymoon), and have any other waxing done now (eyebrows, upper lip, legs). This will allow enough time for any redness to fade.

3. Get your last facial – Again, leave enough time for any acne/redness to fade.

The Day Before1. Put on the Polish – Get your final manicure and pedicure the day before so nails can thoroughly dry. Get a bottle of your polish from the manicurist for last minute touch-ups.

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■ Start Small. Often couples may feel the gap is too great between what they have to work with financially today versus what they would like to have in the future. But starting with small steps – such as getting educated about life insurance basics – can set the stage for follow-up steps later.

■ Consult An Expert. Bringing in a knowledgeable outside perspective can make the process of discussing life insurance easier and less stressful. These experts have experience guiding the conversation and answering questions. This can help avoid misunderstandings and unneeded stress.

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2. Go Light on Sodium and Curb the Alcohol – Have fun, but don’t go crazy at your rehearsal dinner. Too much salt and alcohol leads to eye puffiness.

3. Pack an Emergency Kit – Include tissues, nail file, breath mints, bobby pins and nail polish. Get pressed powder and lipstick from your makeup artist.

4. Get that Beauty Sleep – Avoid caffeine and exercise before attempting to go to bed. If you just can’t get enough shut-eye, freeze moistened green or white tea bags to put over your eyes the next day. The tannins will help reduce any puffiness.

Day Of Wedding1. Eat Breakfast – Avoid anything too fatty or salty. Instead eat fibrous carbs and lean protein for energy.

2. Drink plenty of Water – Try to drink at least 32 oz in the eight hours leading up to the ceremony.

3. Give Yourself Time – Bride’s typically begin their hair about three hours in advance, followed by makeup.

4. Relax and Smile – You know you look fabulous!

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2 Weeks to 1 Month Before____ Create a seating chart for the reception and make table numbers and place cards (or have your calligrapher work on these, if you have hired one). ____ Contact your caterer with a final guest count. ____ Print out a timeline of events for your wedding party and vendors - include contact information and cell phone numbers. ____ Meet with your photographer to finalize your wedding photo list of any must-have photos. ____ Contact your florist to confirm your final flower order (bouquets, boutonnieres, centerpieces, etc.) and go over any decor details or venue logistics for the big day. ____ Finalize your ceremony and reception music and song lists for your wedding band or DJ. ____ Confirm lodging reservations for out-of-town guests. ____ Place a wedding announcement in your local newspaper ____ Plan a bridal luncheon or dinner with your bridesmaids. ____ Pick up wedding bands and make sure the fit is good. ____ Schedule a final wedding dress fitting. ____ Write rehearsal dinner toasts

1 Week Before____ Write out final checks to your wedding vendors (each organized in an envelope) and let your wedding

coordinator or one of your attendants to distribute at the wedding. ____ Pick up your wedding gown. ____ Confirm limo or other transportation reservations. ____ Pack for your honeymoon and confirm travel arrangements. ____ Have your post office hold your mail, if necessary, while you are on your honeymoon. ____ Treat yourself to a spa day -- you deserve it!

The Day Before____ Welcome out-of-town guests as they arrive. ____ Take a yoga class or go for a walk during the day. ____ Schedule a hair appointment for prior to the rehearsal dinner. ____ Attend the rehearsal and enjoy the rehearsal dinner!

The Wedding Day____ Wake up early and do some easy exercise, or just go for a peaceful walk outdoors and try to soak up the beauty of the day ;) ____ Set aside some time before the festivities to share gifts with your bridesmaids or close family members. ____ Eat a healthy breakfast - you’ll need your energy for the big day ahead! ____ Enjoy it; it’s finally here and everything will be wonderful... Congratulations!!


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When you are engaged, people are eager to give you advice! It seems like everyone you see, from your mother to your friends to your hairdresser to random strangers thinks that a bride-to-be needs their two cents on weddings. Some of the advice will be good, some will be useless, and some wedding advice is downright awful. This is some of the worst wedding advice that brides receive.

It’s “Your” Day Frankly, the last thing that most brides need is someone encouraging them to adopt a “me-first” attitude. Yet far too many a well-meaning mother or friend has been heard to say, “You should do whatever you like, because it’s your special day”. In reality, a wedding is about the bride, the groom, their families, and all of their other invited guests. If it were only a day for the bride, then there would be no reason to bother with doing thoughtful things for others like getting wedding favors and bridesmaid gifts. The most gracious brides put the comfort of others first, and show their appreciation, whether it is with thoughtful bridesmaid gifts, kind thank you notes, or another little kindness.

You Should Take Out A Loan To Pay

For The WeddingWow, is this bad advice! The only sane way to pay for a wedding is with the cash that you have. This means avoiding risky financing options like putting the wedding expenses on a credit card, taking out a home equity loan, or cashing in your retirement fund. If your family wants to chip in to help pay for your dream wedding, that is fantastic, but beyond that, be careful to plan the wedding that you can actually afford. It’s better to have a small wedding than a big debt.

Buy Your Gown A Size Small As Motivation

This advice is likely to cause nothing but stress and potential heartbreak down the road. Unfortunately, there are still mothers out there who think that it is a good idea for the bride to buy a wedding gown that is a size too small as motivation to lose weight for her wedding. Never, ever do this! Purchase a wedding gown that fits you and makes you feel beautiful exactly the way you look now. If you lose weight, great, but if not, you will not have to deal with the disaster of a too-small bridal gown on your wedding day. And remember that your fiancé loves you enough to marry you just the way you are, so don’t be too hard on yourself.

Have A Dollar Dance To Raise Money For The

HoneymoonWhile the dollar dance may be a longstanding custom in cultures, most people just find it tacky. It wasn’t enough that they paid for plane tickets and a hotel room to attend your wedding, bought you an expensive wedding gift from the bridal registry, and maybe a bridal shower gift too? Now they have deal with a shake-down at the reception to help finance your honeymoon? You might not see a dollar dance in quite that light, but most of your guests will. This is one piece of wedding advice that should be immediately discarded.

The Worst WeddingAdvice


Jumping the Broom AnnouncementShaquantia Monique Harrison and Walter Jackson McDaniels, II were married Friday, April 15, 2011 at Long Creek Church of Christ in Columbia, South Carolina. The 5:30 PM ceremony was performed by Minister Ambres Bracey, III. A reception followed at the Ten Eleven Galleria in Camden, South Carolina. The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Curtis Waters and Mr. and Mrs. Derrick Praileau all of Winnsboro, South Carolina. She is employed by Richland County Government as a Neighborhood Planner in the Neighborhood Improvement Program.

The groom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. James Montgomery of Greeleyville, South Carolina and the late Walter McDaniels, Sr. of Newark, New Jersey. He is employed by the Richland County Sheriff’s Department as a Sergeant in the Major Crimes Unit of the Criminal Investigation Division. He is as well an Adjunct Professor at Springfield College in Charleston, South Carolina.

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While there is lots of bad wedding advice in the world, there is also plenty of great advice. Perhaps the two most important things that a bride-to-be can hear are “A wedding is for a day, a marriage is for a lifetime” and “Remember to relax and enjoy every moment of your wedding, because the day passes so quickly”. Those are gems that any bride and groom will find invaluable when planning their wedding.

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