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    Uncover Yourself.. the Secret to your Breakthrough!

    Introduction

    Hi Friend, have you been seeking answers for your success, happiness &

    breakthrough? If yes, I may have something very useful for you. If you have

    been reading lots of books, or attending many seminars, and yet found no real

    answers for yourself, dont give up! Give this free report a shot, see for

    yourself if you can benefit from it.

    I had written this report as a free gift for you to help you come out of your

    automatic unconscious limiting behavior & into the life you truly deserve.. tolive your Best life! I hope & pray that you'll benefit from it greatly.

    What I'm doing now is actually a culmination of my life's work, for countless

    years.. of reading at least 500 books from the self-improvement arena,

    experimenting, learning, observing, reflecting, thinking, journaling, seeking

    mentoring, observing the self, people, life & the world, including 10 over years

    of successful mentoring & coaching of individuals to their next level.

    Many had not only found their next level, but also rise to the top of

    their companies!

    I am now doing what I love most; creating, writing, speaking, mentoring and

    developing people who desire to reach their potential.

    For this report, I had attempted to make it as simple to understand as possible,on a complex subject.

    But of course, how simple can a complex subject really be:)

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    As you probably know, some of us have been searching for answers to our life

    our entire life, and still not found anything. Can the books and seminars out

    there help?

    Maybe.. But for many, the answers still elude them.

    It sure helps if this report over the next few days is read

    with an open mind, and honest learning attitude..

    I would also recommend that it be read with understanding.. slowly if

    necessary. If it's easier to read on paper, I suggest you print it out. And

    marking out important pointers with a pen or pencil can really be helpful!

    I would like to dedicate this writing to all who are considering mentoring &

    coaching to bring themselves to their next level.

    I salute you for your effort to taking the journey less travelled. You see, not

    many are taking this journey. Too many had either not considered it at all, or

    too beaten to dare to take it.

    A number of quotes are included here for us to learn from the gurus who came

    before us.

    Together, we can overcome and achieve! To live our Best Life

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    "Wherever the mind goes, everything else follows."

    Terry Orlicks

    Performance Coach to Olympic Champions

    "Thoughts are things."

    Napoleon Hill

    "Your mind is your greatest asset, but also your greatest enemy."Anoynomous

    To begin, it's important to realise that you are the way you are because of your

    thoughts / thinking. And how you are thinking is a function of the state of your

    innerman. Your deepest values & beliefs which comes from your character &

    personality together with all your lifes learning are determining how you see

    everything!

    It is a complex subject to discuss how you end up with the thinking that's

    running your life, because it begins probably before even you were born into

    the world.

    But whatever thinking you have right now; good or bad, it is your responsibility

    and my responsibility to change our thoughts so that we can change our lives!

    But How?

    The simple answer is to unlearn and to relearn.

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    To remove and replace..

    The greatest liability we all carry with us can really be what we now know;

    whats really within us, controlling our lives! The greatest gift we can give

    ourselves is our ability to learn new things, as such to be able to unlearn &

    then relearn, to remove whats not helping us, and to replace it with good and

    great stuffs which will truly serve us.

    There are many areas of understanding that are needed to help us become

    better. The 'width of our understanding' is what determines our effectiveness

    in many areas of our lives.

    To add to that, the 'depth of our insights' is complimentary to our

    understanding.

    So really how deep is your understanding? How well do you really understand

    whats happening to yourself, where you are right now, where you really want

    to go, whats hindering you, what should really be done in order to get where

    you want to go, how does the destination look like, etc.

    Every area that affects us needed to be understood! Without that, well be

    limited, and thus the blindspots cause us to be ineffective, ever seeking but not

    getting answers.

    Indeed we can have different levels of insights to what's really important. In

    this writing, I will attempt to discuss 3 areas of understanding affecting your

    breakthrough here.

    3 Important Understandings for your Breakthrough:

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    1st Understanding

    YOU MUST FIRST REALLY WANT A DIFFERENT OUTCOME / RESULT

    "Why do most people struggle in direction?

    The answer: Lack of a defined dream."

    Richard Flint

    "If you have enough reasons, you can do anything."

    Jim Rohn

    Mentor to Anthony Robbins

    I would like to write this in the form of questions here for you to think about.

    If you could reflect on your answers to these questions, you will benefit

    greatly.

    y Are you in your comfort zone?y What are your fears, worries & anxieties about going another level?y Should they keep you there?

    y Do you have a goal that's different from your usual norm right now?y If you've achieved another level, what's the new vision you have?y Do you have clarity in these areas?

    y Why go your next level?y Why go for your potential?y What gives you pleasure in your achievement?

    y If you stay where you are for another year, is it alright with you? What ifyou stay the same another 3 years, 10 years? What would you have

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    lost? In view of your life plans, goals and dreams, is it still alright you

    leave it as it is?

    y Can you or should you do something about it?y Is it ok to lose these precious years, and to look back in possible regret?y Do you realise that regrets weigh tons?

    y Do you have anything to prove?y Do you need help in defining your dream?y Have you ever considered your Possibilities?y What is your true Potential?y Do you want to unlock your Innate Potential?y Why?

    "Man's main task in life is to give birth to himself, to become what

    he potentially is."

    Erich Fromm

    Psychologist

    Let's look at the

    2nd Understanding

    A DIFFERENT OUTCOME REQUIRES A DIFFERENT YOU

    "We are Human Beings.. not Human Doing."Wynn Dyer

    "First the Inner, then the Outer."

    Leonard Lau

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    I've sometimes asked in my seminars and mentoring sessions, "Is the person

    first a superachiever before they do superproduction, or do they do

    superproduction, then they become a superachiever?"

    I would like to suggest the former. I like to recommend that we recognise that

    being is the key.

    The inner, which is our innerman, must be fine tune to the right 'frequency'

    before we 'attract' the things we want.

    By so doing, how we 'see', what we think, how we feel; our perspectives, will

    determine our actions, choices, and decisions.

    And that is what's needed to go for our goals and dreams, without wasting

    time and resources, but right on target, to achieve what we set out to do.

    Some thoughts for you:

    y You must decide to change & breakfreey You must uncover your innermany You must realise that you are currently in a certain mode of thinking

    y You must know there's power in your thinking, whether positive ornegative

    y Your thinking is the reason for your current resulty You must recognise you have a need for a different thinking, to get new

    & different results

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    y You must be aware of the 'blue' cycle vs the 'red' cycle, including theneutral 'black'

    o The 'blue' indicates your current pattern of thinking, giving rise toa certain cycle of behavior

    o The 'red' indicates the preferred, new and necessary way ofthinking you needed to change your results

    o These are 2 very different patternso The 'black' is the neutral positiono Most people do not even know that they are in a certain pattern

    of thinking, just like we don't think about our breathing

    o And they don't know about the necessity nor see the need for the'red'

    o You can't see the 'red' when you're in the 'blue'o You can only see the 'red' when you consciously come out of the

    'blue' into the 'black'o The difference is awareness

    y Know that all your actions, decisions & choices are determined by your'blue' cycle currently

    o Fears, Worry, Anxiety, etco Lack Trust, Lack Faith, Lack Beliefo Comfort zone, convenience

    y To make positive new decisions in your favor, you must at least get tothe 'black' neutral position

    "The greatest insanity is to do the same things over and over again,

    and somehow or other expect different results."

    Albert Einstein

    "The thinking that brought me here has created some problem..

    that this thinking can't solve"

    Albert Einstein

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    "Develop your Innerman.. for Peak Performance.."

    Leonard Lau

    If you've been following the discussion till now, you should probably know by

    now that we are really engaging our 'thinking' capability, in order to uncover

    the answers we are looking for.

    I would not apologise for this 'hard work' as it is the only way to

    the path we are seeking. There's no other way that I know of..

    Let's continue our discovery..

    3rd Understanding (Part 1)

    IDENTIFY & RECTIFY YOUR BLINDSPOTS

    - SEE YOUR TRUE SITUATION / RECEIVE AN EMPOWERING PERSPECTIVE

    "It isn't that they can't see the solution. It is that they can't see the

    problem."

    G K Chesterton

    This is the most important part of the 3 understandings. Reason being withoutthis particular understanding, you may or will have problem getting to the first

    2.

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    And if you don't get to the first 2, you will basically stay the same, doing the

    same thing over and over again, and still getting the same results; no

    breakthrough!

    If you've been wanting to improve your results, outcome, or life, and you're

    still struggling with it till now, I like to present you this thought; you've yet to

    'see' your true situation, your real problem.

    You think it's a certain issue, but I like to suggest that it is not that issue. To

    put it another way.. it is not what you think.

    So as long as you are trapped with a certain problem, you are actually not

    seeing the issue clear enough to know truly what's the root issue that you need

    to deal with.

    Why? You can't see! You're blind to the real problem..

    Indeed it can be very challenging, for how on earth can one then overcome

    their problems and challenges?

    I occasionally do an activity to help participants in my talks understand the

    situation they're in.

    I'll ask for a volunteer and after making space in the room, blind fold him in the

    center of the room. After a few rounds of turning, and the person left in themiddle, I give him / her instructions to head straight to the door and get out of

    the room (The door signifies the goal that they wanted to reach).

    As you can imagine, the poor fella would stand there and ask, "How?" "Any

    instructions?" "Are you helping me?"

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    Initially I would not help him, except to tell him 'just try'. He would start

    moving about, with some in the audience making some noises or laughter.

    Then he would be still again.

    I then asked the audience "How many steps had he taken?" Every movement

    is counted, however small. Normally he would have taken around 10 small

    movements already.

    I will give some instructions by telling him to focus, maybe to work harder, tohave a goal, set a plan, be committed, try harder still..

    Maybe even make more calls, see more people:)

    I'll ask the people what they think about the number of steps he needed to

    finally reach the door, if he ever reach it?

    Obviously it's many.

    Chances are also high that he'll never reach, since he can't see the way.

    When the point is made, I'll ask him to remove the blindfold.

    Then I'll ask him if he can see the door, which he say yes.

    And I will give the instruction to walk straight to the door, and open it.

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    As he walk, I'll count the steps.

    In about 10 steps, he reach the door.

    Point made.. If every 3 steps is 1 year of your life, how many years do you

    need before you reach your goal?

    In our mentoring program, we've had people who came to us in the 3rd year oftheir endeavor, and some in their 20th year!

    It is so true, that when we are 'blinded' in some ways, we can't see our way

    clearly, and so we walk around in circles, only to be frustrated, disappointed,

    and for some disillusioned, even angry about their failure to achieve the

    success they wanted.

    When we have blindspots in our lives, and we couldn't see the issues correctly,

    we are just like the blind folded man walking around in circles.

    Does it make sense to first remove the blind?

    I think so.. How? By uncovering our blindspots!

    Let's consider these:

    y Life is complex and probably a mystery

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    y You need the big pictureo Have you tried fixing a Jigsaw puzzle? What about doing it

    without the big picture? I'm sure you'll understand the

    difference:)

    y So what's a blindspot & what does it do to me?o Someone in our program ever mention that there are blindspots

    when she's driving, and it's so dangerous. Well, I share that the

    blindspots in our lives that block the achievement of our goals &

    effective living may not be so dangerous as to take a life, but it

    does affect your own life! And it can be the difference between a

    well-lived life, successful life versus a unsatisfying, mediocre &

    unfulfilled life. Is that a big deal? I think so..

    o Uncovering a blindspot means gaining a new insight. Seeingthings in a certain way that you've never seen before. Feeling in a

    certain way you've never felt before. The situation around you

    remains, but the meaning has changed. How you see is totally

    different now. You are now empowered! From this point

    forward, you will be doing things that count, in the right direction,

    no more going around in circles.

    o We normally end up dealing with the wrong issues when we are'blinded'. Can it solve our problem? Never! It surely can make

    the problem bigger, from my experience. It is so important to

    know that only by taking care of the right & root issues can we

    really solve it. There's no other way!

    y So many self-developmental books & resourceso There are plentiful of books and resources out there. You know it

    because when you visit the bookstore, there are always the new

    and latest books. You must have read some of them. But do you

    really get your answers? Or does it make it more confusing? I

    recommend that our blindspots be uncovered and removed first,

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    before we read any more of the books out there, whether new or

    old.

    y Does the Law ofAttraction really work?o The law of attraction had certainly be a phenomenum in the past

    few years, and probably had cooled down a bit lately. During

    those few hot years, many discussions had sprung up around it.

    There were also many contrarian views on this piece of fine

    teaching. Amongst the many reviews out there, there certainly

    was a sector which question if the law truly works. Obviously the

    people discussing and questioning this belong to those who had

    not experience it's benefits. So why doesn't it work for some

    people, or many people? Again, I recommend that we uncover

    some blindspots here.

    y Many dimensions of life & work is acting upon youo There are many arenas of life acting upon us at any time, all

    exacting some requirements on us to fulfill before we could

    produce the desired results we want. These forces and

    requirements could come from any of the areas listed below, for

    instance. There could also be other areas involved obviously. But

    your understanding of the various areas would determine if you

    would be able to reach the performance standard you wanted.

    And there are many blindspots possible in the respective areas in

    the lives of individual people.

    o Your understanding of the under-mentioned areas of life woulddetermine your effectiveness in achieving the results you want.

    But there are just too many 'noises' in the world that distract usfrom seeing accurately. As long as you don't 'see' correctly, you

    will continue to be frustrated with not achieving what you want.

    Personal People Selling Peak Performance

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    Life Physical Teamwork Vocational, Role, Game.. etc

    3rd Understanding (Part2)

    IDENTIFY & RECTIFY YOUR BLINDSPOTS

    - SEE YOUR TRUE SITUATION / RECEIVE AN EMPOWERING PERSPECTIVE

    There is this story about a man who lost his key and was on his hands and

    knees at the corridor where there is light, frantically searching for the lost

    keys.

    He was searching for quite a while, and his neighbour happen to pass by. His

    neighbour asked him, "What are you doing?"

    When he told him that he had lost his keys and was searching for it, the kindneighbour said, "Let me help you."

    They continued searching for what must have been 15 mins when the

    frustrated neighbour finally asked, "But where did you lose it?"

    The man paused for a while, look up to the neighbour, and said, "I lost it in the

    house."

    In surprise and a little impatience, he then retorted, "Then what are we doing

    here, at the corridor?"

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    The man answered, "It's brighter here.."

    We laugh at this story, but many of us are actually looking for our lost key

    outside of our 'house'.

    Isn't it true that whenever we encounter some problem, and seeking the

    answer, we will always be looking for them outside of ourselves.

    We are actually saying that the key is to be found outside of ourselves.

    For example, when the Sales Adviser do not perform at the level he wants, he

    would probably look at things like new products, maybe saying that the old

    products are not good enough?

    Or maybe he could be always be looking for the perfect presentation idea that

    could help him?

    He might aim to complete his degree, or get some more qualifications so as to

    put the titles beside his name so as to do well.

    But does it really help him?

    The infamous Bob Procter of "You were born Rich" and "The Secret" shared

    that he work with many big companies before, and one of the questions these

    companies have is always wondering how their achievers actually do so well,

    and the rest are not. They never get to the real answers..

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    It is a mystery literally! Many do not know. In fact, living with blindspots can

    be said to be part & parcel of the human experience, contributing to endless

    problems; small & big!

    They just know that the same people are the ones who's performing.

    So in the lack of insight, what most companies would do is probably invite

    these big achievers to share how they succeed.

    Or they would invite the popular trainers to speak to their people.

    And the training they arrranged for is obviously the standard training agenda

    and practices recognised in the industry.

    But do these really help the people? The answers have to be from the people

    themselves.

    I have spoken to some high achievers and not all actually know why their

    counterparts are not really performing, except to recognise the common

    reasons everyone label on them; not committed, not focus, not serious, etc.

    One high achiever I know who understand actually told me about a popular

    trainer commonly engaged as a speaker, "I believe he knows that after his talk,

    nothing much will change still."

    Matter of fact, those of us in the training circle always talk about the need to

    entertain the people, for unless we can be popular in this regard, we might not

    be invited back to speak!

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    Obviously we need to talk sense too. But why is all the training given not able

    to truly help the people?

    What's the missing piece?

    This is what I meant when I say that life is complex, and probably a mystery.

    Of course we are discussing performance here. Life is definitely even bigger

    than just performance alone. So it's definitely much much more complex.

    What I want to suggest here is that the ability to uncovering blindspots of the

    people would help us in these complexities.

    That when we do uncover the right blindspots, and finally SEE correctly, with

    the right perspectives, we become empowered, we get our answers!

    Isn't that wonderful? Isn't that what we ought to do? Isn't that what you

    want? For sure, I want it.

    Why would I not want it? Why would I want to go round in circles, and not

    solving my real problems, and keep missing the answers I'm looking for?

    Why waste time and effort? Why keep missing my goals? Why live miserably?

    If there's a better way, I want it! Do you?

    "There are reasons why people perform. There are also reasons why people

    don't."

    Leonard Lau

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    3rd Understanding (Part3)

    IDENTIFY & RECTIFY YOUR BLINDSPOTS

    - SEE YOUR TRUE SITUATION / RECEIVE AN EMPOWERING PERSPECTIVE

    "Life is formed from the inside out. What I am inside determines the issues in

    the battle of life."

    Dr. William Hornaday

    Let's continue to look at a few more pointers to further understand the real

    issues at work.

    y Blindspots are everywhereo As we've discussed before, uncovering blindspots requires that

    you gain insights & inspiration of different areas & aspects (of life,

    work, performance or game) acting on you, depending on what

    you are embarking on eg. financial planning, sales, golf

    competition, parenting effectiveness, etc

    y New understanding will lead to new perspectives, new life, new results

    y The need to unlearn & relearn, to remove & replaceo Because of our old conditioning, we literally are running on auto-

    pilot in our 'blue' cycle of thought and behaviorpatterns. As discuss before, this is definitely not good in terms of

    achieving our new results. We have to really unlearn many wrong,

    ineffective, or limiting information that has found it's way within

    us, and to relearn new information that will help us in our new

    beliefs, leading to new actions, new results. We literally have to

    remove these undesirable beliefs that's limiting us, and causing us

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    misery, and replace them with empowering ones that will lead us

    to victory.

    y Leveraging on a coach / mentor / consultanto Why does Tiger Woods need a coach? Roger Federer? And all the

    sports great.. It's quite obvious actually. They each want to be

    their best, in order to win! So the question you have to answer is,

    "Do I want to win?" To win in your sport, your vocation, your life.

    Only 1 life, 1 chance, I recommend that we each go for it. Why

    not?

    o We know what happen to Tiger Woods in the last few years, andthe personal & professional problems hes suffering from. During

    his best days, someone once commented on Tiger, "The only

    person who cannot see Tiger Woods play live is Tiger Woods!" For

    sure, that's one good reason why he needed someone else to tell

    him accurately what they are seeing about him! That alone is a

    great reason why we each need someone else to help us be our

    very best.

    o Professionals have coaches because they are playing at thehighest level. They have coaches because they are professionals!

    Are you a professional? Do you deserve your best performance?

    o Do you have a coach so as to allow you to play at a higher level?Are you worth it to be invested in, to bring out the gold within

    you?

    o Everyone needs 2 areas of coaching in their lives; personal &professional. Many do not have this understanding. Most invest

    only in their work, or get trained in their vocational areas only.

    They fail to understand that the one whos hindering them is likely

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    the personal dimension of their lives, even as the professional in

    them needed to be trained & coached.

    "Don't work on your job, if you WORK ON YOURSELF, you can make afortune."

    Earl Shoaff, Mentor to the infamous Jim Rohn

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    3rd Understanding (Part 4)

    IDENTIFY & RECTIFY YOUR BLINDSPOTS

    - SEE YOUR TRUE SITUATION / RECEIVE AN EMPOWERING PERSPECTIVE

    y The power of the invisible and intangibleo The real power is the power within, which is intangible and can't

    be seen. Compared to all other factors outside, which is tangible

    like products, technical knowledge, tools, systems, I would first

    choose the inner qualities, the invisibles which always must be

    called upon, in order to produce the results we are looking for.

    The externals, and tangible are required too, but there's a priority

    here.

    y The challenge.. inner vs outero We live very much in an 'external' world, where the 'first

    impression' is very important. We are visual beings, and so we see

    whatever is in front of us. We also see and understand based on

    what is visible to our eyes. In this arise the problems of us looking

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    to answers to our life outside of our being, instead of within. But

    if you understand what I am trying to say here, you would know

    that this is futile.

    o You see, if you've not uncovered yourself accurately andpowerfully, and moving around with an 'underperforming' being,

    all your other efforts is pretty much of a 'waste. What do I mean?

    You can take another degree, attend another course, read some

    more books, try harder.. and still wonder what's missing! You can

    always be trying & stopping, not really understanding why, or

    know how to cope with it, living with frustration and even

    disappointment in your life. What can be done then? You should

    first uncover your blindspots.

    y The story of explaining a car problem to a person who don't understandcar mechanics

    o It can be challenging to talk to people who don't understand whatyou're trying to say. Have you got such an experience? Imagine

    you are a proficient car mechanic and you try to explain to your

    customer who kept asking you why she couldn't start her car last

    night. She was very frustrated about it, insisting that you do a

    major overall checkup on the car because she doesn't want the

    same experience again. She was stranded in a quiet and lonely

    area when her car broke down.

    You know that she had a situation of a overfilled

    carburetter. In fact, there was no need for her to call the towing

    service to bring the car into the workshop. By stepping on the

    pedal fully, and igniting the engine, you got the car started right

    away.

    Trying your best to explain the 'miraculous' situation, you

    tell her about the pedal effect, the fuel, the carburetter, the ideal

    condition for the engine to get started, the problem of the

    overflow carburetter when she kept 'pumping' the pedal, etc.

    You even go to the extent to attempt to help her

    understand what makes the engine starts; air fuel ratio, sparks,

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    cranking, starter, battery, inlet valve, outlet valve, cylinder, piston,

    piston rings, combustion chamber, and so on. If you could go that

    far, it will be amazing. Most likely, you would have stopped half

    way through, because the look in her eyes will tell you that she is

    already 'lost'.

    o Indeed it is very difficult to explain something to people who don'tunderstand. And they don't understand because the reference of

    knowledge can't be found within them!

    o Very often, in helping people to understand the power of theinvisible and intangible, and the inner vs the outer, I find myself insimilar situation. Half way through the explanation, you know you

    have lost them. But despite this challenge, we must continue, if

    we are to uncover the blindspots that eluded us so far, and kept

    us struggling till now!

    y Mentoring & coaching not for everyoneo This is so because not everyone is open to learning more. As such,

    they are already closed to all learning, whatever reasons thereare.

    o Some of us are very afraid of confronting ourselves. This lack ofability to be honest with yourself will also hinder your efforts to

    improve.

    o Those who lack the will to crystallise what they really want, or totake actions to make their plans come true will also not benefit

    from mentoring efforts. We must understand that at the end of

    the day, the responsibility to live well lies in our own hands.

    Nobody can do it for us, absolutely no one.

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    "Success is something you attract by the person you BECOME."

    Earl Shoaff, Mentor to the infamous Jim Rohn

    Decide to take it Higher!

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    3rd Understanding (Part 5)

    IDENTIFY & RECTIFY YOUR BLINDSPOTS

    - SEE YOUR TRUE SITUATION / RECEIVE AN EMPOWERING PERSPECTIVE

    y Why mentoring & coaching for you?o There is so much within us that we do not even consider.. It is said

    that most of us go to our graves with the music still playing.

    Would it be better to use ourselves all up, to live fully, to givefully, to stretch ourselves to our highest possibilities? To reach

    our full potential? But How? Let's breakfree!

    o Coaching & Mentoring help you see what you can't see foryourself (Uncover your blindspots), and guide you to your

    personal excellence & high achievement in double quick time.

    That's how our members double their productivity & profits &

    more, with lesser effort, and find fulfillment in their work, leadingthem to do even more!

    o Through leveraging on mentoring, coaching, training & ourresearch, you are empowered to reach your fullest Personal

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    Potential, reaching your Peak Performance early, with white-heat

    Inspiration! DECIDE TO BE THE BEST YOU! Transform your

    Thinking & Change your Results.. Being Successful, Confident,

    Happy, a Performer, Achiever, Peaceful, Fulfilled; a Balance High

    Achiever!

    y Why partner Leonard / Legacy?o Legacy's mission is "To Inspire Excellence in the Human Potential

    for Individuals, Teams and Organisations thru Uncovering

    Blindspots & Supercharging Performance."

    We work with SALES ADVISERS, SELF-EMPLOYEDS,

    ENTREPRENEURS, LEADERS, PARENTS, EDUCATORS, ATHLETES,

    STUDENTS, & ANYONE who desires to outperform themselves -

    Helping you in your performance, self-motivation, purpose, fulfillment,

    inspiration, mentoring, leadership, personal development & peak

    performance; helping you achieve your Best Performance, to be your Best

    Self..

    How? By uncovering blindspots thru gaining Insights into yourself, your role,

    vocation, people, work, life & performance.. and other areas affecting you.

    We help you integrate your Vocation / Role with areas affecting yourperformance & life. Be it PERSONAL MASTERY, PEOPLE MASTERY, SELLING

    MASTERY , PEAK PERFORMANCE MASTERY, LIFE MASTERY, etc, to help you

    understand the big picture affecting you, your performance and your

    fulfillment, and support you to think, feel and act right, to accomplish your

    vision and goals, to live your best life!

    Without seeing & resolving these blindspots in our work and lives, there is NO

    WAY we can rectify our situation in our attempt to overcome frustrations,

    disappointments, mediocrity.. or to bring ourselves to our next level at work or

    in life.

    We have a track record especially with Sales Advisers, partnering them to

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    achieve their quantum leap. I look forward to help you do the same. Only you

    can make the choice to change the quality of your life! Do it.. why not?

    "Your will to win is not nearly as important as your will to prepare to win!"

    Lou Houtz

    Champion Coach

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    Now that we've uncover the 3 understandings, what's next?

    Well, I recommend this..

    Beware..

    y Beware of the person who's holding you back.. Youve heard it before,the rich gets richer, the poor gets poorer.. It can be sad but its true.

    Life is about our patterns. Patterns of success, or failure, or mediocrity,

    or just surviving, etc. This existing pattern thats who you are right now

    is the very enemy of your best life. It will not make it easy for you to

    decide or choose correctly & powerfully for yourself. Watch out!

    "You are the real obstacle in your path to a fulfilling life."

    Les Brown

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    "Your mind is your greatest asset, but also your greatest enemy."

    Anoynomous

    y Know that you need to invest time, effort & money to make your changehappen. Beware this blindspot that can also hold you back..

    o If you are not even willing to spend time & effort on what youwant, then there's no chance at all. It's pretty straight forward

    isn't it?

    o Money allows you to LEVERAGE thru shortening your learningcurve, paying others to do 'non-critical' work that must be done,

    buying systems, other people's time, knowledge, ideas, even

    strategies. Not to invest means you must spend all the time

    searching for all these that will work for you, which will take a

    long long time, before you get it all on your own. You may even

    not get the answers you wanted to, for specialise knowledge is

    required in different areas of endeavors.

    "Time is a great teacher. Unfortunately it kills

    all it's students."

    Anoynomous

    "I will study and I will prepare, and someday my chance will come."

    Abraham Lincoln

    y Get your Coach, choose to be the Professional.. you are worth ito I strongly recommend that you find yourself a coach / mentor

    whether paid or not, if getting to your next level is what you truly

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    want. And why not? We've already gone at length to get out of

    our 'blue' cycle, to be aware of our behavior and the

    consequences. Only by uncovering the blindspots hindering us

    will we have a chance to breakfree finally!

    y Don't look for 100% certainty before you acto The very nature of success & achievement requires trust, faith &

    belief. There will never be a guarantee in tomorrow. To look for

    exact certainty before you act means you will continue in your

    'blue' cycle to feel safe, comfortable, secure, and that means not

    changing, and never reaching your best life possible for you.

    Encouragement & Affirmation for you:

    o Desire to reach highero Believe you can live bettero Reach for your dreamo Fulfill your destinyo At least, achieve what you desire at your next level..o Don't ever live a life of regret..o Only 1 life.

    "Our greatest glory is not in never failing, but in rising up everytime we fail."

    Ralph Waldo Emerson

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    Well, we're coming to the end of the Special Report. Here's some parting

    words..

    "And now here is my secret, a very simple secret.

    It is only with the HEART that one can see rightly;

    what is essential is INVISIBLE to the eye."

    Antoine de Saint - Exupery

    I've spoken and seen quite a number of people who seeks help with coaching

    and mentoring, but for some reason chose to hold back from such

    a program. Most state money as the issue, others other commitments in their

    lives at that time. Whatever the reasons given, they always say they want to

    do it after taking care of their financial situations or other priorities first. You

    would have guessed it, they seldom come back in my 10 over years of coaching

    work.

    Whenever I call or get in touch with them, they are mostly onto other

    'opportunities', have other priorities like for instance, a new baby, a new job,

    etc. We can say that they have no choice but to quit from the work they've

    chosen for many years simply because they are not able to produce desirable

    results for themselves. I deemed this as allowing the 'blue' cycle of thinking

    and living to trap us in it's cycle.

    Breaking free may be truly challenging, but it's really necessary. Especially for

    those who have considered the possibility of living a better life, or their best

    life, we each must resist the inclination to be 'trapped', and truly make the

    decision to breakfree. Why? That the change and results we look for can be a

    possibility!

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    And you know what? Those who failed to address their issues will bring their

    problems everywhere they go; be it a new job, a new business, a new

    challenge, or simply their various life transitions. Unfortunately, they never

    realize that..

    The first step to change is honesty with ourselves. Be clearly and brutally

    honest with yourself.. for it's worth it! Have courage, face whatever that's in

    front, and surely the fears and challenges have to give way to you and allow

    you to embrace the answer you are looking for. Know that only good things

    can come out of a courageous life.

    I've been as honest, direct and open as I can be. All for only 1 purpose, that

    you choose to live your best life. I sincerely hope to have you join our

    community of highest living!

    Many of our members come to us only after 2, 5, 8, 10, 12, even 20 years of

    trying on their own. Of course, this need not be. We know we each don't have

    many 10 years to try.

    Be reminded of the key message in this special report; to uncover your

    blindspots. Reflect on them.. then decide what's best for yourself.

    Help yourself, don't hurt yourself.. with self-awareness.

    "Before everything else, getting ready

    is the secret of success."

    Henry Ford

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    Master the secret key to uncovering yourself.. Uncover your blindspots, gain

    new understanding, see with new perspectives, gain absolute clarity which will

    give you your greatest power. Work towards an empowering Mindset, a great

    Attitude, and masterful Skills. Change your life forever!

    You are a unique human being. Know that your issues are unique to you.

    Begin from the inner, then to the outer.

    You can be your very best!

    There's power in the made-up mind. Do it!

    I wish you the very best in your life.

    Theres power in the made-up mind..

    Decide to take it Higher!

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    Achieve your Important Goals.. THIS YEAR! You don't have to wait another

    year!

    Sincere Regards,

    Leonard Lau

    Trusted Adviser, Thought Leader, Motivator, Mentor

    Introducing a New Way of Thinking to You..

    Achieving your Passion, Purpose & Peak Performance thru Powerful

    Perspectives!

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    "There's a way to do it better. Find it."

    Thomas Edison

    Should you belong to those who don't feel stuck at all, could you be in your

    comfort zone? Would you stretch to go your next level? Only human beings

    can do that:) Never forget what happen to the frogs.. They were cooked alive..

    slowly, while put under a small fire..

    If you are READY..

    I invite you to qualify here.. Email [email protected] with your

    intention to breakfree & achieve. We will be in touch with you once we get

    your email.

    "Education is the highest leverage."

    Robert Kiyosaki

    Do you deserve SUPPORT in achieving your GOALS & DREAMS?

    We have the Insights & Inspiration..

    to help you uncover your blindspots, so as to reach your next level!

    Having helped many members over the last 10 over years, we seek to continue

    our efforts to make the difference. We are planning our next stage of

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    development which is to bring Legacy's services worldwide. By then, the focus

    will change more to conducting webinars and coaching over the phone and the

    internet.

    Due to the many exciting plans lined up and planned for, those who prefer face

    to face sessions are highly encouraged to take advantage of this year to make

    it happen. Of course, you may also use the new coaching services once we're

    totally settled on the web.

    Leonard offers group coaching & one-on-one for clients who want to go their

    next level and transform their lives. If you are ready, please read on.. You got

    to be very serious about changing your life.

    Each month we work with a maximum of 10 new clients to help them uncover

    their blindspots & learn how to change their results. Space is limited and we

    like you to email [email protected] with your intention to breakfree &

    achieve early. We want to make sure that we work with the right people who

    are truly serious.

    Leonard is a Breakthrough Expert whose insights & inspiration havetransformed many lives. Most of his clients are Self-Employeds, Sales Advisers

    & Entrepreneurs. We also work with Students, Parents, Educators, Corporate

    executives & leaders, and any individual desiring their highest growth & best

    life.

    Anyone desiring to improve their performance & outcome for their roles, work

    & life can benefit greatly from Leonard's ability to uncover blindspots blocking

    their achievement & best life.

    Uncover yourself.. Choose to turn your inner key ON today!

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    "What you get is not nearly as important as who you BECOME.."

    Zig Ziglar

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    Remember, your greatest liabilities are what you now know & practice, which

    leads to your current outcomes. If youre seriously not happy with it, make a

    change. Be open to unlearning & then relearning. When the software within

    you is uninstalled and a new program reinstalled, you have no choice but to

    think, feel, and act differently. When that happens, be prepared to finally

    achieve the goals & dreams youve been thinking of for the longest time!Congratulations! Welcome to join all whove come before you. Its your time

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    If you now hear yourself justifying why youre not ready, or why it cant

    happen for yourself, unlike others, know that it is Blame & Shame talking to us!

    Shut it up before it does its harm. Get rid of it before it get rid of success & joy

    in your life. Choose to love yourself and give yourself the very best gift of

    peace, life, & victory! You deserve it!

    Qualify today! Email [email protected] to contact Leonard.

    Rewire yourself for your greatest success! Reset your Mindset & Change the

    wisdom by which you live! Take your journey of excellence!