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Facilitated by: Donovan J. Traverse, M.S., C.S.T. Division Chair/Dean Health and Wellness Delta College Univeristy Center , Michigan djtraver@delta edu

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True colors

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Facilitated by:Donovan J. Traverse, M.S., C.S.T.

Division Chair/Dean Health and WellnessDelta College

Univeristy Center , Michigandjtraver@delta edu

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ObjectivesObjectives• After completing this exercise, you will be

able to:– Understand differences in self and others– Recognize unique skills and values in self and

others– Understand how to communicate with others– Recognize the importance of having

differences within an organization

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Describe Yourself

CompetitiveImpetuousImpactful

CuriousConceptualKnowledgeable

RealisticOpen-MindedAdventuresome

TheoreticalSeekingIngenious

DaringImpulsiveFun

DeterminedComplexComposed

ExcitingCourageousSkillful

PhilosophicalPrincipledRational

Total Score ___ Total Score ___

For each horizontal row, identify which set of 3 words describes you best. Place a “4” in that box; place a “3” in the box by the words that next describe you; a “2” in the next; and a “1” in the

box by the words that least describe you. Total your score for each column at the bottom.

UniqueEmpatheticCommunicative

DevotedWarmPoetic

TenderInspirationalDramatic

VivaciousAffectionateSympathetic

Total Score ___

2

1

1

2

3

1

4

1 4

2

3

2

10 1211

ActiveOpportunisticSpontaneous

VersatileInventiveCompetent

AuthenticHarmoniousCompassionate

4 2 1

PracticalSensibleDependable

LoyalConservativeOrganized

ConcernedProceduralCooperative

OrderlyConventionalCaring

Total Score ___

4

4

3

3

17

ParentalTraditionalResponsible

3

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If Column 3 Highest #You’re Blue

If Column 2 Highest #You’re Gold

If Column 1 Highest #You’re Orange

If Column 4 Highest #You’re Green

What’s Your COLOR?What’s Your COLOR?

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The Search to Explain…The Search to Explain…Theorist Approx

DateCategories of Human Personality

Group Names

Hippocrates 460 BC Phlegmatic Choleric Melancholic Sanguine

Carl Jung 1920 Feeling Thinking Sensation Intuition

Myers/Briggs 1950s

ENFJINFJ

ENFPINFP

ENTJINTJENTPINTP

ESTJINTJESFJISFJ

ESFPISFPESTPISTP

Keirsey 1967 Apollonian (NF)

Promethean (NT)

Epimethean (SJ)

Dionysian (SP)

Lowry 1978 Blue Green Gold Orange

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Why Use Colors?Why Use Colors?

• Color is a component of our learning process

• Certain colors influence our lives and guide us in varied directions

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True Colors PhilosophyTrue Colors Philosophy• Self-discovery and positive

self-esteem

• We are driven by our human differences

• Expressing our true nature helps build self-esteem

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Group ActivityGroup Activity• Directions:

– Get together withothers of the same color.

– Identify at least 5 of your strengths and 5 of your stressors (things that the other colors do that causes your personality (color) stress).

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Oranges’ Core ValueOranges’ Core Value

• Freedom

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Oranges CharacteristicsOranges Characteristics• Energetic• Desires change• Playful• Master negotiator• Natural entertainer• Pushes boundaries• Accepts challenges• Self-confident

• Impulsive and spontaneous

• Just do it• Appreciates

immediate feedback

• Most productive in non-structured environments

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Oranges’ StrengthsOranges’ Strengths• Able to take charge• Negotiating• Independence• Trouble-shooter• Direct• Generous• Carefree

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• Boredom• Being on time• Lack of humor• Slow people• Lack of money• Car problems• Predictability• Unnecessary routine• Sameness

Oranges’ StressorsOranges’ Stressors

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• Paperwork• Bureaucracy• Criticism• Negativity• Nagging• Inflexibility• Unbending• Waiting• Traffic

Oranges’ StressorsOranges’ Stressors

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Golds’ Core ValueGolds’ Core Value

• Responsibility

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Golds’ CharacteristicsGolds’ Characteristics• Prepared• Detailed oriented• Punctual• Strong sense of duty• Conservative and

stable• Values family

traditions

• Conscientious• Belief in policies• Well organized• Strong “shoulds”

and “should nots”• Comfortable in

structured environments

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Golds’ StrengthsGolds’ Strengths• Responsible• Practical• Belonging• Loyal• Concrete• Dependable• Organized• Caring• Punctual

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Golds’ StressorsGolds’ Stressors• People who are always late

• Flaky people• Slobs

• Lack of order• Inefficiency

• Lack of leadership• Non-cooperation

• Unreliable people• Not knowing what is expected

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Golds’ StressorsGolds’ Stressors• Being told what to do by others• Procrastinators• Waiting• Loud people• Disorganized people• Change• Inconsistency• Not belonging• Lack of control

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Blues’ Core ValuesBlues’ Core Values

• Relationships • Self-expression

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Blues’ CharacteristicsBlues’ Characteristics• Caretakers• Optimistic• Passionate• Enthusiastic• Imaginative• Cause oriented• True romantics

• Cooperative rather than competitive

• Strong sense of spirituality

• People oriented• Needs to be

unique• Peacemaker

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Blues’ StrengthsBlues’ Strengths• Communicating• Imagining• Mentoring• Tolerance• Creativity• Listening• Speaking• Supportiveness

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Blues’ StressorsBlues’ Stressors• No hugs

• Judgmental people• Lack of communication

• Disharmony • Injustice• Isolation

• Narrow-mindedness• Paperwork and too many details

• Overly aggressive people

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Blues’ StressorsBlues’ Stressors• Cruelty to children and animals• Being lied to• Conflict• Tunnel vision• Procedures/red tape• Politics• Bossy, negative people• Arrogance• Lack of support & integrity

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Greens’ Core ValueGreens’ Core Value

• Competency

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Greens’ CharacteristicsGreens’ Characteristics• Complexity• Standard-setter• Cool, calm,

collected• Intellectual• Analytical • Work is play and

play is work

• Need to have independence & private time

• Driven by competence

• Perfectionist• Problem solving• Cumbersome in

social situations

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Greens’ StrengthsGreens’ Strengths• New ideas• New technology• Analytical• Diagnosing• Calm• Abstract• Investigative• Logical• Confidence

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Greens’ StressorsGreens’ Stressors• Too many rules

• People who get in the way of executing strategy

• Incompetence in self or others• Control

• Disorganization of system• Rigidity

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Greens’ StressorsGreens’ Stressors• People who don’t value

knowledge and learning• Lack of freedom• Not knowing• Off-task distraction• Unfairness• Committee meetings that

have no point

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Greens’ StressorsGreens’ Stressors• Unreasonable emotional outbursts• Schedules that make no sense• Welfare mindset• No new horizons• Policies and procedures• Labels• Stupid people

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Colors and Communication Styles

Colors and Communication Styles

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How Oranges CommunicateHow Oranges Communicate• Confident• Loud• Friendly (jargon)• Quick to speak,

esp. their opinion• Interrupts others• Switches subjects• Straight to the

point

• Blunt• Fidgety• Changes mind• Switches gears• Uses large motions

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Communicating W/OrangesCommunicating W/Oranges• Be prepared to

listen for straight content

• Give them an audience

• Recognize/rewardtheir contributions

• Match their speaking speed

• Make it a challenge • Be direct• Lighten up• Offer options• Move

with them• Appreciate

their flair

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If You Are OrangeIf You Are Orange• Be aware of how you are coming across

• Remember, a pause does not equal a“YES”

• Identify others requirements

• Notice when you are exaggerating

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If You Are OrangeIf You Are Orange• When listening to others,

keep your mind focused• Pause before making a

commitment• Praise others, too• Use please & thank you

when making requests or giving directions

• Find other oranges

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How Golds CommunicateHow Golds Communicate• In writing• To the point• On topic• Follow chain of

command• Loyal• Predictable• Chronological• Detail oriented

• Status quo• Judgments• No interruptions • Accountable

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Communicating W/GoldsCommunicating W/Golds• Give details• Outline priorities• Plan ahead• Don’t jump topics• Save surprises and

novelty• Treat everyone fairly• Recognize their

contributions

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Communicating W/GoldsCommunicating W/Golds• Don’t interrupt!• Take responsibility for

your actions• Ensure plans support the

policies and procedures• Acknowledge their hard

work• Avoid being loud & using

exaggerated gestures

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If You Are GoldIf You Are Gold• Be aware of how hard you are driving

yourself and others • Have patience• Investigate various

choices• Practice empathic

listening• Accept others

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How Blues CommunicateHow Blues Communicate• Friendly

• Helpful

• With feelings

• Optimistic

• Fosters harmony

• Empathetic

• Takes the time to relate to others

• Creative• Indirect• Reads between the

lines• Personal

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Communicating W/BluesCommunicating W/Blues• Acknowledge them• Let them know you care• Recognize their

contributions• Include them• Have patience• Make sure your body

language matches the discussion

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Communicating W/BluesCommunicating W/Blues• Listen for feelings• Let them share what

they know• Hear them out• Use gestures of

friendship• Be tactful when

offering feedback

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If You Are BlueIf You Are Blue• Recognize when you are

reading too much into situations

• Speak up• Recognize the difference

between politeness and interest

• Seek out others like you• Add “No” to your vocabulary

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How Greens CommunicateHow Greens Communicate• Purposeful• Private• No emotions• Irritated by “stupid

questions”• Dislikes

redundancy• Seeks novelty

• Likes the big picture• Establishes

credibility before investing time

• Seeks info & facts• Uses big words• Ponders before

answering

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Communicating W/GreensCommunicating W/Greens• Give them time to think• Notice their humor• Give the big picture• Stick to logic• Debate with them for fun• Watch your vocabulary• Don’t misinterpret their need for

information as anything else

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Communicating W/GreensCommunicating W/Greens

• Avoid small talk

• Understand & heed

• Recognize their contributions

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If You Are GreenIf You Are Green• Pay attention to

other people’s needs

• Notice others’ requirements

• Allow emotions• Learn to listen

without fixing• Save debate

• Notice when questions are misperceived

• Inform of your understanding

• Make time for your relationships

• Inform others when you need to process

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Question…Question…• What would your team look like without

the:

– Oranges?

– Blues?

– Greens?

– Golds?

• What would your team look like without the:

– Oranges?

– Blues?

– Greens?

– Golds?

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• All personalities (colors) are important for the success of an organization!

Departmental SuccessDepartmental Success

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The Greatest BenefitThe Greatest Benefit• One of the greatest benefits of knowing

True Colors is the validation you get for your own style

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UnderstandingUnderstanding• True Colors is not

an excuse for bad behavior

• Recognize what you can gain by brightening your other colors

• Just a little insight can help you understand the actions of others

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Respect-Not ManipulationRespect-Not Manipulation

• Pay attention to the needs of others, through the eyes of others, not only your own needs

• Respect vs. manipulation

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Questions and AnswersQuestions and Answers

• What questions may I answer for you?

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ReferencesReferences• Showing Our True Colors

Mary Miscisin – ISBN 1-893320-23-5Offset Solutions

• Following Your True Colors To The Work You LoveCarolyn Kalil – ISBN 1-885221-94-0Book Partners, Inc.