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Transformational Chairwork: Using The Four Dialogues in Addiction Treatment
Scott Kellogg, PhDNorthern Tide By Tim Wallace
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Four Orienting Principles
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Four Orienting Principles1. Multiplicity of self – it is clinically useful to
understand people as containing different parts, modes, voices, or selves.
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Four Orienting Principles1. Multiplicity of self – it is clinically useful to
understand people as containing different parts, modes, voices, or selves.
2. It is healing and transformative for people to give voice to these different parts.
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Four Orienting Principles1. Multiplicity of self – it is clinically useful to
understand people as containing different parts, modes, voices, or selves.
2. It is healing and transformative for people to give voice to these different parts.
3. It is also healing and transformative for people to enact or re-enact scenes from the past, the present, or the future
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Four Orienting Principles1. Multiplicity of self – it is clinically useful to
understand people as containing different parts, modes, voices, or selves.
2. It is healing and transformative for people to give voice to these different parts.
3. It is also healing and transformative for people to enact or re-enact scenes from the past, the present, or the future
4. The ultimate goal of Chairwork is the strengthening of the Ego, the Healthy Adult Mode, or the Inner Leader.
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History and Background
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Jacob Moreno, MD
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Created the Chairwork Technique8
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Frederick “Fritz” Perls, MD
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Taken by Stanislav Grof, MD, PhD
Developed Chairwork into a Psychotherapeutic Art Form
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Giving Voice
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Giving Voice
“I would like to invite you to move to this chair and I would like you to speak from your heart and speak
from your pain.”
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Giving Voice
n This approach might be considered when patients say such things as:n “There is a deep grief within me.”n “I am feeling very agitated right now.”
n Gestalt Awareness and Voice Dialogue
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Giving Voice: The Paradoxical Theory of Change
n Conceptualized by Arnold Beisser in 1970n “The way to change is to more deeply be
yourself.n Giving voice is the heart of the work; nothing
else is needed.” (Kellogg, 2014, p. 172)
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The Suffering Chair
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“At the heart of any therapeutic encounter there is always a story.”
Roberts & Holmes, 1999
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Telling the Story
“I sense that holding this secret inside for so long has been a terrible burden. If you’re willing, I’d like you
to move to this chair and tell me the story of what happened.”
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Telling the Story
n This approach might be considered when the patient says things like:n “There are stories within me that have never
been shared.”n “I told a few people about the accident when it
occurred, but I do not feel I ever really talked it through.”
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Internal Dialogues
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Internal Dialogues
“You seem to be of two minds about the project. I wonder if you would be willing to go to this chair and speak from the part that wants to go forward with it and then to this chair and speak from the part that
is having second thoughts.”
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Internal Dialogues
n This approach can be considered when patients say things like:n “I am of two minds about this situation.”n “I have a deep fear of elevators. I am afraid
that I will be trapped in one and die there. n “I have this voice in my head that keeps
telling me how bad I am.”
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Internal Dialogues
n The work with the Parts, Modes, or Selves will usually take one of three forms:n The Parts co-existn The Parts engage with each othern One Part witnesses the others
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Relationships And Encounters
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Relationships and Encounters
“I sense that you are still very stuck – even though the relationship ended two years ago. I would like to work with this, if I may. I’d like you to imagine her sitting in this chair and I would like you to talk to
her and tell her what you are feeling.”
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Relationships and Encounters
n This approach can be considered when patients say things like:n “I know that it has been three years, but I am
still grieving the death of my mother.”n “My father was very cruel to all of us when I
was growing up. I am still very angry about that.”
n “My sister is just impossible. I feel responsible for her but she is driving me crazy.”
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Expressing Emotions
Sorrow/Grief
Fear
Anger
Love
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Addiction: Motivation and Complexity
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Dancing of the Selves
By Brenda Clews
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Anthony Papa
“The Heart of Addictive Disorders is Suffering” – Edward J. Khantzian, MD
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(Ruth Fowler, The World Breaks Everyone,Writers on the Edge)
“Girl in pain drinks and takes something –anything – to stop the feeling.
Girl wakes up in more pain, is more angry. Girl does more to block it all out.”
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“After a lifetime of depression, and long bouts of self-medicating with alcohol, cocaine, and whatever else was available, heroin was a godsend.
In fact I can truly say that junk is one of the best things that’s ever happened to me.”
(I. Thaca, Harm Reduction Communication, 5)
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Horizontal and Vertical Interventions
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Interventions
n Horizontal Interventionsn Those focused on controlling and/or
discontinuing drug usen Vertical Interventions
n Those that are used to address and treat the underlying issues and co-occurring psychopathology
n Wurmser (1978)
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Self-Stimulation DomainDrug Use to Feel Alive,Experience Pleasure; Access Creative and
Spiritual Aspects of Self
Somatic Domain IDrug Use to Address
Brain Changes, Withdrawal Symptoms
and Mood Dysregulation
Self-Soothing DomainDrug Use to Treat Inner
Anguish, Pain, andPsychopathology
Social Identity DomainDrug Addiction Lifestyle;
Drug User Identity
Social Justice DomainSocial Oppression: Sexism,
Racism, Homophobia,Disenfranchisement; Poverty
Substance Use Domains
Somatic Domain IIDrug Use to Cope withMedical Illnesses and
Chronic Pain
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Motivations to Change
Family/Parental/Relational Threats
Job Loss/Economic Damage/
Prestige Threats
Existential/SpiritualConcerns and Desires Health Concerns
Legal Problems Role Strain
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Decisional Balance
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Decisional Balance
n Many patients are ambivalent about bringing their drug use to an end
n The underlying factors can be clarified through the use of a Decisional Balancen Assesses the many forces supporting the drug
usen And the forces favoring change and/or
recoveryn The heart of Addiction Psychotherapy
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Positives of Drug Use
Immediate physical pleasure (10)Escape/Feeling more “there”(10)Feels more emotion (10)Reduces social anxiety (6)Shuts out critic (7)People will know “real” self (7)
Positives of Change
Feel a greater sense self discipline (9)Would be more productive (10)Help him be more comfortable with self (8)Greater confidence (6)
Negatives of Drug Use
Feels guilty (7)Others are concerned (6)Not as productive (10)Feels like it a crutch (10)Feels bad (7)Health Problems (7)
Negatives of Change
Would not enjoy life as much (9)Would be ignoring a part of himself (10)Breaking up with something he loves – a hard breakup (9)
Decisional Balance
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Motivational Work
n The part that wants to use:n Feels more comfortable and aliven The Inner Critic is shut offn He is able to connect with other people more easily
n The part that wants to change/stop:n Embodies his ambitions
nHe has goals that he is not pursuingn Feels he is betraying himselfn Is concerned that he might be damaging himself
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Basic Motivational Dialogue
Desire toStop, Reduce, Or
Change The Pattern
Desire toContinue Using
Substances
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Strategic Guidelines
n In concert with the patient, n Seek out ways to meet the needs of the parts
that want to use substancesn Work to strengthen the parts that are oriented
toward change and recoveryn Do not argue with the parts that want to use
n Have the patient engage in the conflictn Desire Engages with Desire
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Internal Dialogues
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Relationship with Substances
Johanna Silverthorne© 2010
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“Alcohol had become too important. By the end it was the single most important relationship in my life.”
Caroline Knapp, Drinking: A Love Story
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Relationship with the Substance
n Drug use can be seen as a relationship with a substance (Denning, 2000)
n A dialogue can be organized between the patient and their substance
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Relationship with the Substance
n They can discuss their relationshipn How we metn How things developedn What we have been through
nThe good times and the badn Where we are now
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Cycle of Emotions
Sorrow/Grief
Fear
Anger
Love
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Relationship with the Substance
n The patient can be invited to move to the Drug Chair and speak from the perspective of the substance
n The therapist interviews the part:n How do you see the relationship?n How do you feel about [ ]?n Are you on their side?n Should they rely on you?
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Relationship with the Substance
n Patient returns to the Patient Chairn How do I want things to be in the future?n This can involve the creation of a new
relationshipn Or the patient can do the work of saying
goodbyen Separate dialogues may need to take place for each
substance
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Vector Dialogue
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Relational AmbivalenceRelational Complexity
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Vector Dialogue
n Appreciations and Resentments (Perls, 1969)n Relational Complexity – Splitting the Self
n Positive Feelings about the Substancen Negative Feelings about the Substance
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Vector Dialogue
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The Substance
Positive Feelings
Negative Feelings
Combines aspects of the previous two dialogue structures
Inner Leader/Healthy Adult Mode
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Relationships And Encounters
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Imagery Rescripting
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Behavioral Re-Play
n The Old Story/Slipn “I was tired. It had been a stressful day. I stopped at the
market and bought a pint of ice cream. I went home and ate the whole thing out of the container. I felt very guilty.”
n The New Storyn “I was tired. It had been a stressful day. I stopped at the
market and was going to buy a pint of ice cream. I looked at it and I remembered my decision. I bought a fruit salad and went home and ate that. I was proud of myself.”
n The goal is to create and internalize a new narrative
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Drug Use and Meaning
n Drug use is meaningful (Tatarsky)n Bring up an image or memory of the craving or
the usen Experience the momentn Ask them to let that image go while holding
onto the feelingsn Let a memory from an earlier time come
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Imagery Rescripting
n Patient goes into the imagery/memoryn The memory is reworked
n Often with the Adult Self and the Therapist
n Create a situation in which the patient experiences safety and power
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Imagery Rescripting
n Nick craves alcohol when he feels responsible for others
n Imagery work with the feelings brings up a memory of being a six-year-old boy feeling overwhelmed with responsibility at his father’s deathbed
n The rescripting involves bringing his aunt and uncle who tell him that he is not responsible
n They take care of the dying father and comfort young Nick
n (Arntz & Jacob, 2013, p. 171)
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Inner Critic
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Fear and Hatred
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Voice Dialogue/Critic Interview
n Interview the Criticn Understand its origin and purposen Identify the Core Value (Greenberg)n Work to tap into the underlying fears and
anxieties that are driving itn Affirm its usefulness and good intentions
nClarify where it has missed the mark and is causing problems
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HealthyAdultMode
Healthy Adult Mode andInner Critic Encounter
Inner Critic
“This is my life; it is not yours.”
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Inner Complexity
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Complexity-of-Self Dialogue
n Co-create an affirming voice that identifies the good parts of the personn Self-as-Bad Self-Statement/Chairn Self-as-Good Self-Statement/Chair n (Chadwick, 2003)
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Giving Voice
Internal Dialogues
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Interpersonal Mistreatment
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Telling the Story
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Trauma-Centered Storytelling:The Power of Repetition
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Voice Intensity Narrative Chairs
First Person
Higher Intensity
Lower Intensity
“I was in a car accident. These are some of the things that happened to me.”
One Chair
Second Person
“John, you were in a car accident. I understand that these are some of the things that happened to you.”
Two Chairs
Third Person
“John was in a car accident. These are some of the things that happened to him.”
One Chair
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Catharsis
“…Every True Second Time Is A Liberation From The First”
- Dr. Jacob Moreno
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Relationships And Encounters
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Chairwork Approach
n Chairwork can be used to:n Speak with and nurture the abused childn Confront the abusern Confront those who knew and did not protect
the childn Both the patient and the therapist can speak to the
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Emotional Abuse
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Emotional Abuse
n They can n Fight backn Repudiate the toxic messages that were given
to them n Affirm themselves and validate the needs they
had as children
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Emotional Abuse
n Patient puts her Grandmother in the chair:n “You are so mean, I hate you. I do love you, but
I hate you. ….n I hate being here with you. n You constantly talk about dying and death,
death, that’s it, every day, every day.”
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Emotional Abuse
n “I resent the times you called me a tramp. …I was never a tramp!
n You always said, “You’ll become pregnant.” n I never did things like that. But you always said I was
no good, a slut…..n I resent you for not trusting me, for not letting me be
a young person.n I resent you for dragging me to cemeteries to see
dead graves…. I resent that… (Engle, Beutler, & Dalup, 1991, pp. 180-182)
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Internal Dialogues
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Cognitive Restructuring/CPT
n “I used to be this lively, happy girl, ready to take on the world. I was so excited about starting college…. I knew good things were ahead of me.
n But now… I’m a scared, lonely, and ugly girl inside and out. …. I have no ambition…..
n All I care about is being left alone so I can be safe.”
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Cognitive Restructuring/Cognitive Processing Therapy
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Trauma-based Schema and Healthy/Adaptive Schema(Patricia Resick)
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Giving Voice
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Redecision Therapy
n The Gouldings emphasize the importance of the patient making a decision to change:n I will no longer live this wayn I will heal from the damagen I am now choosing a new, healthier, and more
self-affirming way to liven A way of Claiming Power and Personal Authorityn This is especially effective in a group setting
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Examples of Redecisions
n “From now on, I am going to find trustworthy people, and I will trust them. Everyone is not like you.”
n “I enjoy sex today in spite of what you did to me. You are no longer in my bed.”
n “I can laugh and jump and dance without guilt, because my fun didn’t cause you to rape me! It was your perversity!” (Goulding & Goulding, 1997, p. 248)
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Deepening Techniques
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Dialog
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A Central Goal is for the Patient to Be Able to Express each Voice as
Distinctly, Forcefully, and Simply as Possible!
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Can I Use Chairwork With “This Kind Of Patient”?
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Chairwork can be used with any patient who has a problem that is suitable for a Chairwork dialogue!
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Jacob Moreno, MD Frederick “Fritz” Perls, MD
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Diana Calvario
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Resources
n Transformational Chairwork: http://transformationalchairwork.com/
n Gradualism and Addiction Treatment: http://gradualismandaddiction.org/
n Scott Kellogg, PhD: [email protected]
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