Toledo Area Parent August 2015

FREEAugust 2015

p 28

Putting a Lens on VaccinesA local father does his own research

p 32

The Advocate MomKate Fineske puts pride in Mom-mentum

p10

Kids & Cell phonesDealing with the dilemma

Back toSchoolGuide p12

Survival tips to getyou back in style!

2 • August 2015 • www.toledoparent.com

3www.toledoparent.com • August 2015 •

Love ’n LearnEducationalChild Care

4440 Secor Rd, Toledo, OH 43623 | (419) 474-4440 | lnlchild.com


[special features]Back toSchoolGuide

It’s that time of year again! August means most families are getting back to a routine. See these tips on how to get back to school schedules!

Getting Back into the Swing of ThingsMeagan Ruffing uses her own experiences for her top ten tips on getting the whole family ready for school.

Roundup of Local Facebook Parent GroupsCheck out our list of local Facebook groups dedicated to parenting, which remind you that you’re not alone when it comes to parenting woes.

diary of a dadA Family Quilt of

Core MemoriesA father finds an

unexpected piece of fabricby Matthew Reger

upside down momWe Are in This Together Moms

The hardest job in the worldby Kerri Rochelle

mom senseThe Advocate MomKate Fineske puts pride

in Mom-mentumby Nadine Hariri

food fightFat-N-Happy At Grumpy’s

Despite the name, you’ll be happy you came

by Karen L. Zickesrecycle this paper

for our children's future ...

community snapshots 6

what’s briefly happening 7

new kids on the block 8

exceptional families 9

tweens 10

healthy kids 11

likewise 34

calendar 36 compiled by Marisa Rubin & Chloe Rothschild

marketplace 39

[departments]

[commentary]

Toledo’s Award-Winning Parent Newspaper

30

31

32

33

August

12

28

Online

Volume 24 • Issue 8 August 2015

toledoparent.comJoin us and our 3,500+ followers for laughs,

updates & parenting discussions.“Like” us on facebook.com/toledoareaparent

Blogs by local moms, for local moms, are at your fingertips. Relatable and

hilarious reads online at

Our July Family Favorites Issue covers all the local favorites from school to doctors, bakeries and play places. Whether you’re new to the com-munity or a veteran, you’ll love seeing and visiting these places!

Kathryn (top) 6, Abegail (bottom), 4, ToledoOn the coverThe Deal on Vaccines

by Matt Reger

FamilyFavorites2014

[Always online]

Correction:Our apologies to Children’s Discovery Center, who we did not list as the correct winner of Best Day Care in our July 2015 Family Favorites issue.

Seven locations serve their clients 419-255-4890www.childrensdiscoverycenters.com

FREE BONUS EDIT!RESERVE SPaCE By

aUGUST 15.

Parents know that education doesn’t have to stop when the final

school bell rings. Dance classes, karate, and more are a great

way for kids to have fun and continue

learning. Fill up your classes by listing your

program in our comprehensive

September after School Guide.


Publisher/Editor in ChiefCollette Jacobs ([email protected]) to the Beach

Co-publisher/Chief Financial OfficerMark I. Jacobs ([email protected]) Southern utah

EditorialAssignment Editor:Nadine Hariri ([email protected])the eaSt coaSt

Calendar Editor:Marisa Rubin ([email protected])new York

Social Media Specialist:Saul Jacobs ([email protected])new York

Contributing Writers:Christine Holliday, Laura Blair, Matt Reger, Kerrie McLoughlin, Emily Remaklus, Karen L. Zickes, Sue Lovett, Kerri Rochelle

Art/ProductionProduction Manager:Brittney Koehl ([email protected])Mackinac iSland

Senior Designer:Leah Foley ([email protected])new York

Graphic Design:Imani Lateef ([email protected])BoSton

Contributing Designers: Stephanie Austin ([email protected]) a croSS countrY trip hitting all the national parkS

AdvertisingSales CoordinatorCassi Hadadd ([email protected])the grand canYon

Sales support:Catherine Bohr ([email protected])a croSS countrY trip hitting all the national parkS

Sales Sharon Kornowa ([email protected]) i’d go to a caBin on lake Michigan for aBout 5 YearSSam Rotroff ([email protected])petoSkeY Mi for SoMe whitewater kaYaking

Matt Zook ([email protected] peninSula, QueBec

AdministrationAccounting: Robin Armstrong ([email protected])grand canYon national park

Adams Street Publishing Co.

advertising/general info For advertising and general information, call 419/244-9859 or fax 419/244-9871. E-mail ads to [email protected]. Deadline for advertising copy 2 p.m. Friday before publication. Toledo Area Parent subscriptions are available by mail for $30 per year at Adams Street Publishing, 1120 Adams St., Toledo, Ohio 43604. One copy free per person per week; extra copies $1 each. Persons taking copies for any reason other than personal use are subject to prosecution.

Letters to the editor must be limited to 300 words, are subject to edit-ing, and should include the writer’s full name and phone number. Any letter submitted to the editor or publisher may be printed at the pub-lisher’s discretion in issues subsequent to its receipt. Entire contents © 2015 by Adams Street Publishing Co. All rights reserved. Reproduction in any form is prohibited without written permission of the publisher.

Also publishers of:

Audited by

If you could take a road trip anywhere this summer,

where would it be?

Mature

FINDLIKE ANDFOLLOWUS

August 23- September 22

By Sue LovettHopefully both parents en-

joy being busy because they will need a lot of energy to keep up with the Virgo children. At a very early age the Virgo child is fussy and particular about his clothing and surroundings. Even in the crib they want the sheets wrinkle-free and pajamas clean and com-fortable.

When they begin to walk around you should be sure to keep a pathway open for them. They love to clean things and can be occupied for hours with a squirt bottle of water and roll of paper towels. They enjoy being with other children of all ages and helping anyone younger than themselves.

They are born caretakers, should have their own pet (if possible) and be a part of shop-ping, preparing meals, setting the table, and after dinner cleanup. They are happiest when included in all family activities. Not a lazy bone in the little Virgo body!

/toledoareaparent

/toledoparent

KIDS HOROSCOPE

14 Years Old

Makayla is often found with a book in her hand as she enjoys a reading a good novel. She also enjoys journaling and going on walks. Makayla loves attending church, and celebrating American and Christian holiday festivities. She also likes to play soccer and she’s a good athlete! She would love a forever family that is willing to participate in the celebrations she loves so much and to attend her sporting events.

419.726.5100 1.800.246.1731The Wendy’s names, design and logo are registered trademarksof Oldmark, LLC and licensed to Wendy’s International, Inc.

Take a look at the available children on our Web site.www.adoptamericanetwork.org

13 Years Old

Joseph is a typical teen who likes social media, texting etc. He likes to participate in organized sports, like little league football, and most recently, track. Joseph is currently participating in therapies that have help him to cover come the past chaos in his early life. He is a strong capable young man who will benefit from a stable family who will support all of Joseph’s current and future needs.


Apollo, 11 months, andGianna LoFiego, 2, Sylvania

Amanda, 7, Ayva Smith, 4, and Payton

Cowell, 15 months, Rossford

We love to see what our community is up to. Send us your favorite photos, include names, ages and hometowns

of each person pictured. Send to:

[email protected]

SNAP IT.SEND IT.

Ryan Stirn, 18 months, Metamora

Isabella, 20 months, and Sophia Burns, 4, Toledo

Gabrielle Ruiz, 4, Sylvania

Cassidy, 6, and

Bryce Thompson, 5, Toledo

FAIR

Saturday, August 1510am -5pm

Franklin Park MallcAll ToDAy!

419.244.9859FoR MoRE INFoRMATIoN

Sponsored by:


what’sbriefly by Chistine Holliday

happening...

Row, Row, Row your Boat!The Black Swamp Rowing Club, new in the area since the spring of 2015, is

looking for rowers in grades 8-12 from any school district in northwest Ohio who want to row competitively and be eligible for college scholarships. (Two of the club’s recently graduated seniors earned scholarships!) Practices are held at the Toledo Sailing Club at Walbridge Park, and rowers can take advantage of winter condition-ing at the Essence Mind Body Studio in Perrysburg. Coaches Trevor Jones and his wife Kelly, with 11 years of coaching experience, direct the athletes to develop skills and improve cardiovascular strength and endurance. Trainers at the studio work with rowers through yoga, Pilates and specific alignment exercises to keep rowers’ bodies balanced in the sitting position required by the sport. Rowers are reminded that “school comes first and grades are most important,” and coaches teach sports-manship, respect, and integrity. Rowers typically row as novices their first year, then become varsity rowers. The Club currently has a roster of 13 rowers—Varsity Girls, Varsity Boys, and Novice rowers—and the teams compete in the fall and spring with some summer regattas.

Follow the team on Twitter @blackswamprowin, on Facebook, or at blackswamprowing.com.

Unmarried Dads Get Help from New Group

Social worker Beth Incorvaia worries about unmarried fathers having difficulty visiting their children. “These men are so frustrated. They aren’t familiar with the system and learn quickly that the State of Ohio doesn’t give them many rights.” That’s the reason she started the Fathers Rights Organization (FRO), a non-profit group with the mission of empowering and encouraging local men trying to keep close to their kids. She explains, “These men want to see their children, but don’t know how to get the process started. They think they need an attorney, which they often cannot afford. And, frankly, the court system isn’t user friendly. The dads spend a lot of money and time with no success and often give up.”

She continues, “I know the research shows that children who grow up without dads have lots of problems—higher suicide rates and more anger is-sues, to name a few. We want to help these dads main-tain relationships with their kids without all the problems.”

FRO is building relationships with lo-cal attorneys and social services agen-cies, and Incorvaia believes the com-munity will offer help when the need is discussed openly.

She invites dads to check the Facebook page (Fathers Rights Organization FRO),

fathersrightsorganization.com or contact her at 419 214-2465 and/or [email protected].

Tax-deductible donations to help can be made at any Huntington Bank branch.


Ceramics Shop Owner Shares Joy of Creating

Sandy Kasten opened her ce-ramics store ,Simply Stated and Painted, on Glanzman Road just before Christmas 2014. She had planned to run the business with her daugh-ter Dayna, but Dayna died just eight days after the store opened. Sandy was deter-mined to share the excitement she and her daughter had experienced doing clay and glass projects and she is hop-ing to introduce others to the joy of creating works of art.

“Dayna and I both worried that schools aren’t offering art classes like they used to,” explains Kasten. “We wanted to get kids off the couch, have them turn off the video games, and get them doing art, so they could see how much fun and rewarding creating can be.”

To that end, Kasten offers classes and party opportunities. Guests pick their project piece from her collection of mugs, plates, bowls, decorative pieces, then choose colors to make their piece unique. There is no time limit on how long it takes to finish a piece, and the cost, including the paint, the firing, and the professional advice Kasten can offer, is included in the price of the piece, which is based on its size ($14.95/small to $59.95/jumbo).

Kasten has a party room for up to 12 adults (wedding shower or ladies’ night out) and there is also space for children’s parties (think birthdays or Scout troops). -CH

The shop is located at 3322 Glanzman Road, 419 214-0224.

UT’s On-Campus Child Care Center

ClosesThe University of Toledo’s La Petite

Academy child care facility closed June 30, due to decreasing enrollment. The main campus center had served UT employees and students, but fewer students meant high-er subsidizing costs for the university, which officials described as “unsustainable.”

Jovita Thomas-Williams, vice president and chief human resources officer, is en-

couraging parents of La Petite Academy children to consider the Uni-versity’s Early Learning Center at 1932 Birchwood, near the Health Science campus. That center, which provides care for children from 18 months to kinder-garten age in a quiet residential neighborhood, is accredited by the National Academy of Early Childhood Programs (NAEYC), and is one of only 26 centers in Ohio to have a 5-star rating. Its programs take advantage of large classrooms, a full-size gymnasium and large fenced-in playgrounds for outdoor play. A field-trip based program for children aged 5-10 years is offered during the summer. The Center serves the children of students, faculty, and staff of the University, as well as members of the community. -CH

More information about the ELC is available at 419 530-6710.

MORE

Glendale Flowers has moved to a new location at Mayberry Square. Keeping its cool Glendale atmosphere, it is the only flower shop in the plaza.

Sandy and her granddaughter, Emma, love to work on projects together


When Loud Noises and Bright Lights Hurt

Sensory learning program helps make sense of the senses

by Laura Blair Most children have a sensory issue or two, such as hating loud fireworks or feel-

ing clothing tags rubbing, that are simple annoyances. But for children with sensory processing disorder, these issues prevent them from functioning in everyday life, to the point of feeling anxiety and depression. The Sensory Learning Program offered by Dr. Jeffrey G. Schmakel, O.D. at Toledo Eye Care, can provide relief from these symptoms.

Sensory processing disorder, a condition where the brain has problems interpret-ing information gathered by the senses, can affect one or several senses, and people can be over or under-responsive to these senses. It can be present with a diagnosis of Autism, Asperger’s and ADD/ADHD, but it can also happen as a result of a stroke or traumatic brain injury. Dr. Schmakel’s program is open to everyone regardless of label or diagnosis.

The Sensory Learning Program was founded by Mary Bolles, and Dr. Schmakel brought it to Toledo in 2008. Since then, 350 participants from age 18 months to 76 years have gone through this 30-day, drug-free, non-cognitive therapy program.

The program uses light, sound and motion simultaneously to stimulate the brain to create new neural connections to help process sensory information. As a result of the program, participants have improved attention and concentration skills and more general awareness of the world around them. They can then begin other cognitive therapies that require patient participation to be effective.

Margie Hunter B.S. Ed., program administrator, said “It’s not an end or solution, it’s just a piece to work with other therapies.”

Toledo Eye Care is located at 3454 Oak Alley Ct., Suite 202. For details about sensory integration therapy and general optometry services,

please call 419-578-0057 or find them on Facebook at www.facebook.com/sensorylearningtoledo.

Dr. Jeffrey G. Schmakel, O.D.


advice for parents with children 10-16

3205 Glendale Ave. Toledo, OH 43614

(across from the medical college entrance)

For more information: www.uutoledo.org or call (419) 381-6999 Weekdays, 9AM-2PM

Bring the whole family!Faith through Knowledge, Reason,

and Compassion

Welcoming All Children (infants - high school)

We offer Montessori-style Sunday programming for preschool and early elementary school children

First Unitarian Church of Toledo

As parents, we want to keep our chil-dren safe, and cell phones seem to promise to do just that. But at what age does a child become responsible enough to be able to handle all that might go along with a cell phone, like texting, the Internet, minutes and charges, manners and more? And what guidelines do you need to have in place before handing over that phone?

Some parents are dead set on their pre-teen not having a cell phone. Jennifer McClure, mom of three, makes the point, “Until they or their classmates are old enough to drive, they shouldn’t be strand-ed anywhere, because some adult should be with them. So why would they need a cell phone?” It would seem that few elementary age children are responsible enough to be able to handle a cell phone. To combat some of the bigger problems, you can get a phone without Internet ac-cess or texting services, and it can also have set minutes and a tracking device.

All families are different, though, and face different circumstances. Suzanne Andrews, mom of four, says, “I think kids ‘need’ cell phones either when they start driving or if their family situation is such that they or their parents are difficult to reach.” Divorced, single or working par-ents, for instance, like to make sure their child has a way to reach them at all times, no matter how young the child.

Shelley Ryan, mom of two teens, says, “All depends on the kid and what they do. Both of my kids have had jobs/volunteer gigs long before they could drive (and before they were teens), and both had phones so they could call when they were ready to be picked up or had a change of plans. I also like them to have

a phone if they go somewhere on foot or on a bike without a parent. It gives them a little more freedom to go out into the world on their own.” It also gives them a sense of independence and they don’t have to seek out an adult and ask to use their phone.

But parents, beware! Chris Oliver, mom of one and middle school coun-selor, says, “Take it from a woman who spends every working day with 800 adolescents, you need to monitor your child’s texts. And regarding the camera attached to that phone: nothing good is going to come of that!”

Here are some rules and issues you could discuss with your child to ease her into a cell phone instead of turning it im-mediately into a huge responsibility and potential problem:

Responsibility — A cell phone comes with a lot of baggage! It needs to be charged, kept out of reach of younger children … not be lost. There’s also the factor of younger kids possibly not be-ing able to use good judgment or under-standing with things like inappropriate texts/use of the camera, the financials of a cell phone, Internet service, etc.

Cost — Make sure your child un-derstands the financial picture involved with a cell phone. If they have a prepaid phone, they can see how many minutes they have left and need to understand how much those minutes cost. If you get a set number of minutes to include tex-ting for your child, check your account online weekly to make sure your child isn’t going over minutes and costing you hundreds of extra dollars. Make sure

The Kids and Cell Phones Dilemma

The fine line between use and abuse by Kerrie McLoughlin

your child knows that things like games, ring tones, sending pictures and Internet time can cost extra and have them pay you back for overages.

safety — Be sure to find out and talk about the law in your state concern-ing texting or talking on the phone while driving and some of the consequences that have happened to other kids be-cause of doing so.

Model being pRepaRed — Al-ways have backup phone numbers in case your child loses his cell phone, it dies, or your child does not answer (or if your child is grounded from his phone). Make sure you have numbers for coach-es, schools, friends, the parents of your child’s friends, etc.

ManneRs — Kids should know ba-sic telephone manners no matter where

they are. Kids sitting in the same room text each other. Keeping them from other activities and from spending time with family members. And no phones at the dinner table, whether it be at home or a restaurant.

ConsequenCes — Be prepared to take the phone away if your child misuses the privilege of having the cell phone. Examples would include texting inappropriate pictures of themselves or others to friends or classmates, using the phone as a way to cheat on tests at school, making prank phone calls, bully-ing or visiting inappropriate web sites. Kerrie McLoughlin’s five kids range in age from 4-13 and so far none of them has a cell phone.

Check ’em out at TheKerrieShow.com.


healthy kids

1601 W. Sylvania (Located off Sylvania between Jackman & Lewis)419-470-0700 + Fax 419-470-0702

Hours: M-F 9:30-7:00, Sat. 10:00-3:00, Closed Sunday

FREE MEDICATIONS REVIEW!This helpful FREE review will:✚ Explain why these medications have been prescribed✚ Possible side effects and interactions✚ Ensures correct dosages and timing✚ And receive a FREE bottle of asprin!CALL US WE WILL TRANSFER YOUR PRESCRIPTIONS TODAY!

OUR SERVICES INCLUDE:✚ FREE specialized blister packaging for your prescriptions.✚ FREE local prescription delivery!✚ Guaranteed lowest cash prices including $4 & $10 Generic prescriptions!✚ Medical supplies and home medical equipment✚ We accept all insurance plans!

Your medications come organized by date and time, securely sealed in individual easy-open packages. So when it’s time to take your next dose you just tear the package off the pack and your pills are there. That’s all there is to it: no boxes, no bottles, no bother.

SIMPLIFYYOURMEDICATIONREGIMEN

WANTS TO HELP YOU...

FREEDELIVERY

Medi-Pals is a local medication dispenser company that makes giving medication to babies and children much easier. Medi-Pals patented split-tip design fans medicine out to the sides of the mouth, as opposed to, squirting it down the throat like a traditional medicine dispenser. Founder, Todd Strayer, believes this design is safer and easier because the child controls the flow of the medicine and the recommended dose is received. The gag reflex is not activated since it flows to the side, and it helps babies get used to the texture and taste of medicine.

The idea for Medi-Pals came about out of frustration after a doctor’s ap-pointment for Grace, Strayer’s daughter. As the nurse administered an oral dose of the Roto-Virus vaccine, baby Grace thrust a good amount out of her mouth. The Strayers were worried about the effectiveness of the medication since their baby girl did not receive the intended dosage. They began thinking of ways to combat the problem.

After a couple of years of building and testing prototypes on their daugh-ter and friends’ children, they finally settled on a design and launched Medi-Pals in February 2015.

The colorful Medi-Pals faceplates can be found in three designs: a ladybug, crab, and frog and are less intimidating than a typical medicine dispenser. Most babies want to put everything in their mouth, so it’s a natural response when they see Medi-Pals.

There also is a simple disposable dispenser for use in hospitals and doc-tors' offices. All of the pieces are manufactured locally by DRS Industries and Basilius Inc. Strayer is always looking for ways to make the current dispenser better and to expand his product offerings.

Right now you can find Medi-Pals at www.medi-pals.com and also online at Amazon. They will soon be in Lullaby Lane and select pharmacies.

Local Company Solves a Parenting Problem

Medi-Pals makes oral medication manageable by TiAnna Anderson


by Emily Remaklus

Parents are cheering and the kids are groaning...

it’s time for school once again! It’s a new year full of

successes and challenges, making friends, fun activities,

and the dreaded homework. So how can you ensure

you’re ready for this school year? Our guide, filled with

advice from experts, is here to help!

The idea of kids going back to school with the possibility of not knowing anyone in their class can be a scary thought for children and parents alike. However, one easy way to help a child make friends is by getting them involved in extracurricu-lar activities. Marissa Rex, an elementary school counselor for Washington Local Schools, offers the advice to “look for free or less costly events in your neighborhood, attend after-school functions, see what clubs or activities your child’s school already has in place. This will help your child branch out, get more confidence, and find other children with similar inter-ests.” Finding shared interests can be the best way to start up conversations with someone new.

For children that are typically shy, it can be especially difficult to make new friends. Rex often explains to kids that the other child they are trying to meet may also feel nervous. “Go ahead and make the first move and be okay with the word ‘no’. It stings, but you never know until you try.”

For parents, it is important to remember that childhood friend-ships typically do not last forever. Children change throughout the years, and their friendship groups naturally alter.

“No one can force us to be their friend and we should never try to do the same. Friendship is something that should be positive and rewarding for both individuals.”

CONTINUED ON P. 14

Back toSchool

GuideMAKING A Smooth

Transition Back

MakingFriends


One of the great joys of summertime is the opportunity to stay up late, sleep in, and lose that strict schedule often put on kids during the school year. But now that summer is ending, it is important to get kids back to a regular routine. According to Dr. Kimberly Hunter, assistant professor of psychiatry at UT and a clinical psychologist, “It is highly recommended that children have set bed and wake times.” Without a set routine or enough sleep, kids can develop problems such as “increased fatigue, irritability, difficulty concentrating at school, hyperactive and impulsive behaviors and reduced academic performance.”

For a school aged child, 10 to 11 hours of sleep at night is needed. To ensure they can fall asleep easily, it is recommended that electronics be turned off an hour before bedtime. Instead of watching TV or playing video games, encourage your child to read a book or listen to music before falling asleep.

Dr. Hunter suggested that a good way to get a child back on a scheduled bedtime and wake up time is for “parents to start fading their children’s bedtimes backward 5-10 minutes every few nights to help them reach the desired bedtime and amount of sleep that their child’s age requires.”

RoutineImportance

CONTINUED ON P. 16

CONTINUED FROM P. 12


Enrollment always open!

Great new curriculum for infant, toddler and preschool children

No contracts required!You choose how you pay...full time,

part time or hourly.

Most flexible Child Care in Town!

Favorites

Enroll For Fall Programs Now!

The start of a new school year is a chance to start fresh. Yet when starting fresh means having to buy new school supplies and clothes, then the start of the school year can have parents in fear. Fortunately, there are many stores that offer great bargains for back to school shopping. Stores like Target and Office Max will offer really low prices on most school supplies if you shop at the right time.

Lisa, a mother of three, has had years of experience with back to school shopping and advises, “when buying supplies, buy extras to store at home for halfway through the year. In January, if you need school supplies, they will be much more expensive than at the begin-ning of the school year.”

Another piece of advice she shared was to know what supplies you can save on and which ones you should splurge with. “Don’t go cheap on pencils, because cheap pencils don’t usually sharpen right and have erasers that break right off”.

Another local mother, Katrina Kuhn, shared information on the Ohio Sales Tax Holiday. This holiday is a three day event in Ohio from August 7-9 that will exempt taxes on school supplies, instructional materials, and clothing.

More information on this special tax exemption weekend can be found at tax.ohio.gov.

Schools have recently started focusing more on serving healthy

Waysto Save

Kids are always taught to share, but when it comes to germs, kids can share too well. Back to school of-ten means preparing for all sorts of possible illnesses that can spread through a school like a wildfire. Ac-cording to Dr. Karolyi, a pediatrician at Perrysburg Pediatrics, some of the most common illnesses that occur at the beginning of the school year are the common cold, strep throat, pink eye, and gastroin-testinal illnesses.

Dr. Karolyi stated that if the child has a fever over 100 degrees, or has any vomiting or diarrhea, then they should be kept home. “Strep or pink eye require at least 24 hours of antibiotic treatment before the child should return to school and the child should be fever free for 24 hours before returning.”

Though germs are inevitable, there are some easy prevention methods that can help keep your child healthy. First of all, frequent hand washing is a must, especially before lunch and after recess. Another simple tip is to sneeze or cough into the elbow rather than into the hands. This keeps the germs from spreading onto everything the child touches. Also plenty of rest, exercise, and a healthy diet are essential for staying well.

When to Stay Home

CONTINUED ON P. 18



RoutineImportance


WWW.MINIMOTIONSDANCE.COM

419.473.0999 | 2249 TREMAINSVILLE RD.

August 16th Open House 2 – 5Classes Start September 8th

Ages 2 & Up

Girls Just Wanna Have FunAugust 22nd 1 – 4 pm

Register By August 7th $40

Come Dressed to Impress

Dancing, Nail Painting,Hair & Make Up

Runway Modeling

Ages 3 & Up

lunches, but if you have a picky eater or want to save some money, packing a lunch might be the best option. However, it is important to remember that a child needs a lunch that will not only energize them, but will also fill them up for the rest of the day.

Some great ways to ensure your child will eat their lunch is by involv-ing them in the lunch making process. If a child has helped prepare the food they will be more willing to eat it. This also goes for the lunchbox itself. If you allow your child to pick out a lunchbox they like, they will be more excited for lunchtime.

When it comes to picking out a lunchbox, look for the lunch coolers. These will keep lunch foods that need to be refrigerated cool dur-ing the day, and allow for more lunch options.

A healthy lunch should be made up of one-third starchy foods like breads and pasta, a

dairy product, protein, fruits and veg-gies, and a healthy beverage such as milk or water. For lunchtime recipes, many parents recommend Pinterest,

a site free to use that allows you to view other parent’s healthy

lunch ideas and share your own ideas.

Packed Lunch Ideas

CONTINUED ON P. 21



NEW to VOLLEYBALL or SEASONED VETERAN?

toledovolleyballclub.com 2901 Key St. Maumee OH 419.794.4656

VISIT US ONLINE AND CALL US TODAY!

Private and Group Lessons

Strength/Conditioning & Jump Training through EAO Sports

Open Gyms

Conveniently at the Lucas County Rec Center

Summer Camps

Skills & Drills: Youth and Jr. High

VolleyTots (Ages 3-8)

Position Specific Clinics

Gateway SchoolNationally Accredited Preschool& Kindergarten since 1940

Early childhood should be a time of fun, warmth, security, exploration, and discovery.

419.536.65034650 W Bancroft St.Toledo, OH 43615Between Talmadge & Reynolds

www.gatewayprek.com

419.536.65034650 W Bancroft St.Toledo, OH 43615Between Talmadge & Reynolds

www.gatewayprek.com

OPENHOUSE

SEPT 24th5pm-6pm


GetMoving

When kids go from running and playing all day to sitting at a desk for seven hours, it can be a difficult transition.

Teachers can help kids stay active by incorporating activities in their lesson plans. Tessa Allard, co-director of YMCA Child Care at Whitmer/Wash-ington Local Program Center, explains, “One very effective and easy way to get kids active is having teachers plan five minute ‘energy boosters’ to get kids out of their seats.” This can simply be five minute stretching breaks. Other options include having class outside, taking the students for a walk, or setting up learning centers in the room where students can actively move from center to center throughout the classroom.

Everyday activities are also a great way to keep kids active. Allard states, “Everyday tasks such as walking the dog or raking the leaves are great ways to keep children active!”After school programs are another option. According to Kacy Myers, as-

sociate executive director of West Toledo’s YMCA, organizations like the YMCA and JCC offer

a variety of youth sports programs, dance classes, and swimming lessons.

Keeping kids active, especially when they go back to school, is extremely important. Myers explains, “Regular physical activity improves strength and endurance, helps build healthy bones and muscles, helps control weight, reduces

anxiety and stress, and increase self-esteem.”

Have other ideas on how to keep kids active throughout the school year? Share them with us on Facebook!

A quaint farm close to home

Fun & Unique Party PackagesGroup Tours Hayrides Facepainting

SPACE STILL AVAILABLE FOR OUR SUMMER CAMP AUGUST 3-7

BIRTHDAY PARTIES AVAILABLE

We now have babychicks & goats!

Now enrolling Pre-K to

8th Grade2255 Central Grove, Toledo, Ohio 43614

419-382-5696

CONTINUED ON P. 22


Family owned......Since 1974

5307 Monroe St.419-841-8550vanoptical.com


Technology: It can be a blessing or a curse

For schools, technology has become a vital part of student’s day. It was not too long ago when computers weren’t even a possibility for schools because they were so new and expensive. Now computers are old news and pretty much mandatory for success.

Recently tablets and smartphones are playing larger roles in education. These devices are small enough to transport from class to class, and with textbooks being omitted in some schools, the replacement is digital text-books. The option to carry all textbooks on a small device definitely can be beneficial.

Along with these devices come apps which can be very educational for students. However, according to a recent article published by CBSNews, it is very important to find out which apps are actually educational and which ones are just distractions from learning. The article suggested look-ing for apps that connect what the child already knows to new information and apps that encourage conversation with other children or adults. One app that was highlighted was Alien Assignment which has the child fixing a crashed spaceship by going on a scavenger hunt around their house and taking pictures of the objects that could be used.

If planning on using apps for learning at home, be sure to research the app to make sure it will actually be of educational benefit. Also it is impor-tant to remember that apps can be in addition to working at home with an adult, but should not be a substitution.

Digital Direction



Host an ExchangeStudent Today!

(for 3, 5 or 10 months)

Make a lifelongfriend from abroad.

Victoria from Australia, 17 yrs.Enjoys spending time with her family and younger siblings.Victoria plays volleyball and is excited to learn new sports while in America.

Giorgio from Italy, 16 yrs.Loves to play baseball and spend time with his dogs. Giorgio also plays the guitar, and his dream is to join a drama club at his American high school.

Amy at 1-800-736-1760 (Toll Free)host.asse.com or email [email protected]

Founded in 1976

ASSE International Student Exchange Program is a Public Benefit, Non-Profit Organization.

For privacy reasons, photos above are not photos of actual students

Enrich your family with another culture. Now you

can host a high school exchange student (girl or

boy) from France, Germany, Scandinavia, Spain,

Australia, Japan, Brazil, Italy or other countries. Single parents, as well as couples with or without children,

may host. Contact us ASAP for more information or to

select your student.

Call Teresa Arnold 734-854-1848 or

Rise of social media boosting

the risks of cyberbullying

Last April, Anthony Wayne High School student Kayla

Meeker, 16, took her own life after alleged being subjected to

cyberbullying. Shortly after this tragedy, it came to light that

another Anthony Wayne student, Kaylee Halko, had experi-

enced cyberbullying when a student from a nearby elemen-

tary school created an Instagram page mocking her progeria,

a genetic disorder.

Anthony Wayne is not alone in experiencing cyberbully-

ing. According to NoBullying.com, cyberbullying is on the

rise and is most prevalent at middle schools.

“The truth of the matter is it doesn’t really get us anywhere

if we deny how significant this issue is,” said Dr. Lisa Pes-

cara-Kovach, associate professor of educational psychology

at the University of Toledo as well as a campus prevention

and protection trainer with the U.S. Department of Justice.

“We really need to teach the difference between normal con-

flict and bullying.”

Working tirelessly with many Toledo area schools and fam-

ilies, Dr. Pescara-Kovach helps to create bullying-free learn-

ing environments. She counsels children in hospitals and as

outpatients if they suffer from depression, suicidal thoughts

and/or anxiety.

Defining Cyberbullying

Cyberbullying is bullying that takes place through social

media sites, such as Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and even

Vine. Bullies utilize these platforms by uploading photos

which are intended to be embarrassing, tweeting insults or

posting malicious comments.

Cyberbullying can be problematic because anyone can post

and multiple people can chime in, sometimes anonymously.

This differs from traditional bullying, which is the repetitive

and constant verbal harassment or physical violence from

one person or a group of individuals.

Parents may be tempted to ban their child from social me-

dia sites altogether, but Dr. Pescara-Kovach does not recom-

mend this action. “It’s such a part of their world,” she said.

Because cyberbullying often occurs infrequently and with-

out any pattern, identifying and disciplining the bully/bul-

lies can be a challenge. In addition, school officials struggle

to update bullying policies alongside the ever-changing tech-

nology and its byproduct of cyberbullying. In Halko’s case,

because the creation of the page constituted only one inci-

dent, it was deemed not an act of bullying.

State laws aimed specifically at cyberbullying do exist,

however. Ohio’s Jessica Logan Act focuses on creating safe-

guards for students, including requiring schools to have

anonymous report forms accessible. Sometimes the responsi-

bility for implementing this law and others lies with schools

having the resources to counteract the growing problem.

Also, cyberbullying can happen after school hours and out-

side the school premises, which could make disciplining bul-

lies a legal challenge.

Spotting the SignsThough there are many factors intertwined with this prob-

lem, parents and guardians must first and foremost assess

the situation and address their child’s vulnerability. They

should be aware of the warning signs that their child may be

experiencing cyberbullying.

According to Pescara-Kovach, if your child seems hesitant

or obsessed with logging onto social media websites, this

warrants some concern. Both extremes could indicate that

your child faces cyberbullying on the other side of the screen.

Also, if your child becomes aggressive, withdrawn and/or

their grades drop, this is worrisome. Really, any change of

behavior should serve as a warning sign that cyberbullying

may be affecting your child.

As for preventing your child from partaking in cyberbully-

ing, Dr. Pescara-Kovach recommends talking with your child

and simply being there for them. “Kid’s don’t want to be bul-

lies. Something’s going on in that kid’s life too that we want

to help with.”

Apps such as SocialProtection.com are now available for

parents and guardians to monitor Facebook content on the

child’s account and alert parents/guardians when question-

able or dangerous content is posted.

“The minute they have social networking sites, the minute

they get on for interacting with other people, parents should

be aware,” said Dr. Pescara-Kovach.

For information on cyberbullying and resources, check out

stopcyberbullying.org and www.stopbullying.gov/cyberbullying/.

by Laura Kretz

Cell phones are the most common cyberbullying technology

KEEP HOME COMPUTERS IN

A SHARED SPACE

FORBID Teens from sending

mean messages (even if someone else did it FIRST)

Wait until High School to allow

teens to have private phones

and email

Encourage teens to take anoccasional break from technology

Sound advice to parents

stopcyberbullying.org

GIRLS are more likely to be victims of cyberbullying

than boys.Girls are also just as likely to become

cyberbullies

1 in 5 cyberbully victims

contemplate suicide

www.toledoparent.com • August 2015 • 25



Sponsored by the Sisters of Notre Dame

Since 1972

Call to schedule a visit!

5700 Davis Road, Whitehouse, OH 419-877-5167www.LialSchool.org

Continuous Progress * Pre-K through Middle School* Multi-Age Classrooms Integrated Classroom Technology*Spanish and Fine Arts for all students

Project-based Learning * Exceptional Learning EnvironmentBus Transportation Available

See Why Lial is Catholic Education that Makes a Difference!

SYLVANIA RECREATION

7060 Sylvania Ave., Sylvania, OH 43560PLAYSYLVANIA.COM

419.882.1500M-F, 8:30-5PM

SU

MM

ER

PR

OG

RA

MS!

VIS

IT P

LA

YSY

LV

AN

IA.C

OM

FO

R D

ET

AIL

S

PREKINDERGARTENDate: Week of September

7 — October 18Grade: Pre-K

(must be entering Kindergarten in Fall 2016)

Location: Pacesetter ParkGames Begin: September

13 (6 games)Fee: $40 (Resident) / $50

(Non-Resident)Deadline: August 21

KINDERGARTEN THRU 3RD GRADE

SOCCER ACADEMYDate: Week of September

7 – October 12Grade: Kindergarten –

3rd GradeLocation: Pacesetter Park

Games Begins: September 12 (6 games)

Fee: $55 (Resident) / $65 (Non-Resident)Deadline: August 21

4TH THRU 8TH GRADEDate: Week of September

7 – October 18Grade: 4th – 8th Grade

Boys & GirlsLocation: Sylvania

Pacesetter ParkGames Begin: September

12 (6 games)Fee: $40 (Resident) / $50

(Non-Resident)Deadline: August 21

Sylvania Recreation Soccer Programs!Our program is open to Sylvania Recreation District residents as well as non-resi-

dents and is intended for children of all ability levels. The philosophy of our soccer programs is to promote a fun learning experience in an organized environment.

$10 additional after deadline

FREE BONUS EDIT!RESERvE SpacE By

aUgUST 15.

parents know that education doesn’t have to stop when the final school bell rings. Dance classes, karate, and more are a great way for kids to have fun and continue learning. Fill up your classes by listing your program in our comprehensive September after School guide.

call TODay! 419.244.9859


Toledo Area Parent is proud to present the 20th annual Back to School Fair. Reach thousands of preschool, elementary and high school student’s parents as they prepare to go back to school.

Recruit potential students in person!Rerserve your booth today for our

annaul Back to School Fair

call today! 419.244.9859

oR clIcK FoR MoRE INFo

FAIR

SPONSORED BY:

Franklin Park MallSaturday, august 15

10am-5pm

• Free Admission• Great Information• Enter to win Raffles• Hands-On Activities

Meet representatives from area schools and organizations, ready

to answer your questions.

2015


A favorite story told by my 92 year-old grandmother is the day that electric-ity was turned on at her parent’s home. She was eight years old at the time and every neighbor of their farm had come out with a bucket in hand to see the house burn down. Everyone was convinced that when the electricity was turned on the house would ignite. It didn’t and soon everyone’s home was electrified.

Although the fear of electricity has faded, there is another fear of that time that has not. Unlike buckets of water to put out a fire, my great-grandparents and their contemporaries could only fear polio. Vaccines available in the 1920’s and 1930’s were limited to smallpox. Although studies were under way for the development of diphtheria, tetanus, pertussis, and polio vaccines, the actual shots were still years away. Influenza, an epidemic just four years before my grandmother’s birth, would have a vac-cine in the early 1940’s. Diphtheria, teta-nus, and pertussis would have regular vaccinations by the late 1940’s.

My grandmother sees the vaccine debate through the eyes of a child who grew up in the 1920’s and 1930’s. She knew the effects of whooping cough, children and adults with polio, others who died of influenza and her own expe-rience with measles and mumps. When she was a mother and sent my mom to school in 1951 she made sure the avail-able and necessary vaccines were ob-tained. When a polio vaccine was made available just a few years later she was

Putting a Lens on VaccinationsA father looks into one of the most controversial topics of our decade

by Matt Reger in line and made sure her two daughters were vaccinated.

In 1972, when I started kindergarten, my mother did exactly what the doctor instructed on vaccinations. By then the list of vaccines had grown to ten shots and seven different diseases had vac-cinations to prevent them. This list had actually shrunk the year before I was vaccinated with the elimination of the smallpox vaccine because the disease had been eradicated.

A generation of difference Fast-forward to the vaccinations of

my own children and the world seems to have changed dramatically. My daugh-ter began school in the fall of 2011 and when we submitted her vaccination re-cord, she had received approximately 28 different shots for 10 different diseases, more than double what I had received in 1972. Although we had adopted an alter-nate schedule, spacing out the shots with fewer shots at a time and even sought out a doctor who separated the MMR vaccination, we still had hit most of the vaccines except Hepatitis B.

When I spoke to my mother about our vaccination process she wondered why we would even question the doc-tor and the CDC schedule. Although she was shocked to learn about the number of shots administered at one time, she still questioned our stance. My grand-mother was less diplomatic. She thought it was downright stupid not to get a vac-cine for a disease that could be avoided.

My story is similar to a small but growing number of families in the Unit-ed States. To my grandmother they were miracles. To my mother they were re-quired. To me they were questioned.

There is more material than any one person could ever adequately review about the safety and benefits of vac-cines. The CDC website (www.cdc.gov) is filled with facts, figures and scientific support for the safety of vaccines. Scien-tific journals and research have revealed no link between vaccines and Autism or other neurological disorders. In spite of these assurances there are minimal risks as with any procedure. The scien-tific community and CDC acknowledge these risks.

Taking a shot at the riskMost people in the United States do

vaccinate. CDC information indicates that the vaccination rate in the United States in general is 95%, mostly because every state requires vaccination to enter public schools. The CDC reported in its 2012–2013 report on Vaccination Cover-age Among Children in Kindergarten that of 49 states (Wyoming provided no information) and the District of Colum-bia, there was a median vaccination cov-erage of 94.7% for two doses of measles, mumps and rubella vaccine (MMR) and 95% for varying local requirements for diphtheria, tetanus, and pertussis (DTaP).

In spite of the national statistic show-ing high rates of vaccination, there are variations in that information based

on the type of vaccination and location surveyed. The more serious the disease (i.e. polio) the higher the vaccination rate and the lower the perceived danger, the lower the vaccination rate (i.e. chicken-pox). There are also locations through-out the United States where pockets of low vaccination rates occur. For example the PBS news program Frontline recently featured Ashland, Oregon, the commu-nity with the lowest rate of vaccinations in the United States. All of these varia-tions add texture to the landscape of vac-cinations. To go into all them would be more than could be covered in this arti-cle. But a visit to the CDC website would reveal those vast differences and explain how statistics in this area can rarely be generalized.

Adding to concerns about immu-nizations rates are recent outbreaks of Measles in California’s Disneyland and Ohio’s Amish community, which bring light to the difference between personal immunity and herd immunity revealing that the vaccination question is not mere-ly one of personal choice but of responsi-bility to the community. Herd immunity protects those who are too young to be vaccinated for a particular disease and those with compromised immune sys-tems who cannot be immunized because of the danger. But herd immunity only works when immunization rates exceed 90%. Some communities in American have much lower rates than that, Toledo included.


Making the personal political

Opposition to immunizations is nothing new. The first mandatory vacci-nation law was passed in Massachusetts in 1855. In response to this law and oth-ers like it in other states the Anti-Vacci-nation Society of America was founded in 1879. This organization was formed with the belief that it “is undignified” to mandate vaccines and that the “efficacy of vaccinations as a disease preventative is a matter of individual opinion.”

Arguments against vaccinations haven’t changed since the nineteenth century in many ways, but who makes those arguments has evolved. Although opposition revolves around faith matters in certain religions, the safety of vaccines, and the need for herd immunization, the ultimate decisions about vaccines seem to be more related to the generational scenario I presented above than any single oppositional argument. In a study by the Pew Research Center it was found that 41% of adults between 18 and 29 be-lieve parents should make the decisions about vaccinations. Compare that figure with 20% of adults 65 and older and it is obvious that generation is the determin-ing factor.

Why age is such a determining fac-tor seems to be simultaneously obvious and complex. It is obvious that parents in my generation – who have rarely, if ever, seen those with Whooping Cough, Measles, Mumps, and Polio – would not

find them the threat my grandmother did. But more complex is the fact that my generation and those younger than me have access to more information than previous generations and we have been asked to have our children immunized against more and more diseases with an increasing numbers of shots. Because we have no memory of terrible diseases, we only see the risks of immunization and not the benefits as clearly.

Doctor’s orders Doctors have responded to this ques-

tioning generation in a manner also nev-er experienced by my parents or grand-parents. Doctors in some cases have abandoned patients who are unvaccinat-ed. Currently more than 25% of doctors’ offices in the United States will refuse treatment to patients who do not follow the recommended CDC schedule of vac-cinations. This approach by doctors and the practice of some parents to not allow non-vaccinated children to play with their vaccinated children could have the effect of ostracizing the anti-vaccination group and harden their resolve against vaccines. The Frontline documentary demonstrated how this had happened in Ashland, Oregon.

I talked to friends from all over the United States. I received responses from those in Ohio, New Hampshire, Con-necticut, Minnesota, and Colorado.

What I found was that most of our friends do vaccinate but have thought

seriously about the issue and researched it in a way that neither my grandmother nor my mother would have thought nec-essary. A friend from Minnesota, who has thoroughly researched vaccinations, said that her family does vaccinate be-cause they “feel strongly that everyone should be vaccinated.”

I did find that although most friends did vaccinate for the standard diseases required for school, they did not vacci-nate for perceived less serious diseases as chickenpox and the flu. One person told me that she did not get flu shots “mostly because I grew up without them and year after year, our family doesn’t get sick.”

Weighing the options, for our community

Over time people have trusted elec-tricity in their homes, businesses and public places. People no longer stand around fearing a fire. Those in older homes may take precautions to improve their wiring but in general very few peo-ple are going without electricity because of fear of fire. That’s because the benefits far outweigh any relative danger.

I’ve found that the same is true of vaccinations. To my knowledge and in spite of the existing dangers, vaccines are safe and provide a protection against diseases we never want to know and, hopefully, will never know to the extent my grandmother did.

Obviously questions will continue to be asked by generations weighing the

relative danger to benefit for their chil-dren. Each year that a disease is absent means that the perceived danger is re-duced. That may mean that doctors have to be more patient with newer genera-tions who are more concerned with the safety of the vaccine as opposed to the danger of the disease. They may have to engage in a colloquy that ends with more than “because I said so”, but actu-ally answers questions related to timing and number of shots at one time.

I understand the need for vaccina-tions, the benefits of herd immunity and the safety of such medical miracles. At the same time I am sympathetic to my generation’s need to question a doctor and make certain that parents make the important decisions in their child’s life in an informed and thoughtful manner. That will be the tender line everyone will have to walk as we move into future generations where the cure is more com-mon than the disease.

Matthew Reger is a local father and attorney. He contributes to Toledo Area Parent monthly with

his Diary of a Dad column.


A Family Quilt of Core Memories

A father finds an unexpected piece of fabricby Matthew Reger

I sometimes see our family as a quilt and each memorable experience a piece of fabric sewn together as our collec-tive memory. This summer we added a unique piece of fabric.

In June we traveled to New York City to visit my wife’s twin sister’s family and see their new daughter. It was a nice visit with equal amounts of family and sight-seeing. But also planned into the vaca-tion was a side trip to Great Barrington, Massachusetts, to visit a woman who had been a friend to my wife’s mother.

Special Delivery The back-story on this visit goes to

1973. As a girl she had been told about a woman, Val, who helped her mother when she gave birth. At the time my mother-in-law was a single, pregnant woman working as a private duty nurse. She was caring for Val’s husband as he died of cancer. He passed away in the summer and my mother-in-law made his eternal exit comfortable. In return, Val was with my mother-in-law in the fall when she gave birth, giving comfort to a mother all alone.

My mother-in-law knew this woman for a short period of time – Val left the city shortly after the girls’ birth - but the memory of her kindness was passed to my wife and endured. When Val re-con-nected with my mother-in-law recently my wife was encouraged to go visit.

My wife contacted her and found an amazing connection. Like my wife, Val is an architect. She had taught at Columbia and Yale and lived in Paris working with her husband who had also worked with a world famous architect. The excitement and anticipation for this visit only grew at this point.

We planned to have dinner and spend the night with Val and maybe have a few stories in between. We hoped the kids would be okay in the home and not get overly bored and we hoped that whatever conversation there was about a connection over 40 years ago would sustain the evening. We got more than we planned.

We pulled into the gravel driveway next to Val’s pink clapboard home. We all approached the screen door and knocked. We had no idea what she looked like but when she appeared she seemed to fit our expectations. She was plump but not fat with short grey hair and a “kindly face” filled with the lines of life. She had an accent of a person who has a great com-mand of English – each word is carefully enunciated - but definitely spoke other languages. She graciously welcomed us in to a dinner already warm and ready.

When we entered the kids found a home filled with – of all things – chil-dren’s books and toys. Val has grand-children near our children’s age and has spent a life involved with the Waldorf school movement.

Sharing LifeAs we sat and ate a new world

opened to us. Val told us how her par-ents – from Holland and Germany – met in New York City in 1928. How their common interest was a shared experi-ence in Brazil. She told us of gaining a Fulbright scholarship in the 1950’s and living in Germany studying architecture. The streets of Paris came alive as she told us of how she met her husband; they formed an architecture office together; worked on a project in Morocco and ulti-mately moved to New York.

She also told us of the pain of the loss of her husband and the great joy of help-ing a woman bring two new lives into the world.

The next morning we left feeling as though we had experienced a great adventure and gained a new and won-derful friend. We said our goodbyes and headed out.

About an hour later my wife turned to me and said: “We didn’t get a picture.”

“Well, it looks like we have to come back,” I told her.

I look forward to returning for that picture and we appreciate the new piece of fabric she has given us.


MOMThe

UPSIDE DOWN

As I sat down to write my col-umn this month, I struggled. Not because I have nothing to say, but because I have a one-track mind right now about a problem we are dealing with involving one of my daughters. I have a lot to say about what has been going on this week, however I like my columns to be fun and light-hearted and share a touch-ing message about how great it is to be a mom.. but you know what? Sometimes, it’s just really, really hard to be a mom. Sometimes it’s hard to find anything light-hearted in what you are dealing with.

This week has been one of those times. As we all know there are so many outside factors that are work-ing against us as mothers, but the absolute hardest part of this week for me has been the realization that one of our biggest obstacles as moms is other moms. Moms who have chosen different methods and dif-ferent values to use in raising their families. I am not saying they have chosen the wrong methods and val-ues, but different. I respect that not everyone will make the same choices that I have made for my family. And that is good, actually. I mean how boring would the world be if we all

raised our kids the same way, right? As mothers we should acknowledge that everyone has their reasons for their ways and respect them.

We are not the judge and jury of each other. A mother has to answer to no one when she makes a decision to protect her child from a situa-tion. Nor should any mother have to answer to anyone as to why she is alright with her child being in that situation. We should be supportive of each other and try to understand others’ views and actions even when we disagree.

And, my goodness, moms, we should keep it off of social media if we don’t agree! Let us practice what we preach about cyberbullying.

Just be nice to each other. We are all doing the best we can. It is a hard job and there is no one perfect way to do it. We all have different views, opinions and approaches, but no matter how we go about it there is one common practice among us all; we do what we think is best for our kids. Sometimes we make mistakes and sometimes we surprise even ourselves at how good we really are, but, I promise, each one of us does what we think is best at the time. We are in this together moms.

We Are in This Together MomsThe hardest job in the world

by Kerri Rochelle

At Dr. Bunkers’ office we believe a positive self image makes a difference in a teenager’s life. With a beautiful smile you can have the confidence to achieve your dreams.

"Dr Bunkers did a wonderful job on my braces 20 years ago. My daughter Rachel got her braces off in June. Two generations of confidence and a great smiles!" - Tricia P.

So whatever the story may be...

There’s a storybehind every smile...

BracesbyDrBunkers.com

Perrysburg419-874-1719

880 Commerce DrivePerrysburg, OH 43551

Oregon419-693-4466

3448 Navarre Ave, Suite 200Oregon, OH 43616

Bowling Green419-353-3885

1221 Ridgewood DriveBowling Green, OH 43402

Tricia and Rachel P.Patient of Dr. Je�ery Bunkers


What quality do you most admire in others? Kindness. As I raise my own three children that’s what I want most for them. It’s a skill and character-istic that takes a lot of patience, love and self confi-dence to build, yet has the biggest ability to positively impact others in our community and across the globe.

What's your favorite childhood memory? Family vacations. Our vacations were magical memo-ries which I feel privileged to have experienced and hope to re-create in my own family. Every year my father would pack up our conversion van with enough shoes, clothes and accessories to outfit a small village, that’s what you get when you have three daughters and a wife with a fashion fetish, in search of a fun and affordable family vacation destination as a small break from the reality of the everyday grind.

What's your favorite food? Lasagna. Hands down.

Where is the best local place to take your kids?

There are SO many! The Toledo Zoo, no wait… the library, especially the Main Library in downtown Toledo! We love to bike ride and explore all the differ-ent parks in the area too!

What's your super power? Understanding. I love the saying, “Be kind… everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about.” I ALWAYS refer back to this quote when someone does something that makes me sad, disappointed or frustrated. Remembering this helps me to get through the more difficult moments in life with unheard of “superhero strength.”

What is your favorite movie? The most recent movie I’ve enjoyed, would be Maleficent. We tend to watch a lot of 80s movies on Netflix at home too— my all time favorite 80s movie is Goonies!

Kate FineskeResides in Sylvania with her husband Adam Fineske and their 3 Children: Elizabeth, age 12, An-drew, age 8, and Nicholas, age 5Employed as the Assistant Executive Director of Mom-mentum, a na-tional non-profit organization striv-ing to engage mothers personally, enrich mothers professionally and empower mothers through public policy. www.mom-mentum.org

The Advocate MomKate Fineske

By Nadine Hariri

When you were younger, what did you want to be? I had a friend growing up that wanted to be the presi-dent of the United States and I was bound and deter-mined to be her fashion designer. That lasted through Kindergarten. I no longer find fashion that intriguing, but love creativity.

What are your hobbies? Bike riding, traveling, and snuggling up with a good book.

What is the most important lesson in life you've learned so far? Never say never— ever. Motherhood has taught me that lesson over and over and over again!

What is your favorite family ritual? Getting up early. I typically get up around 5am, even when on vacation, and love the quietness of the morning.

What always makes you laugh? My children.

What do most people not know about you? I love music and had a college concentration, just short of a minor, in music performance. I’ve played the piano all my life and in college focused on the upright string bass with the University of Toledo’s Orchestra and Jazz Band.

What has surprised you the most about being a parent? Without a doubt, that there isn’t one correct answer to any parenting question and what works for one parent doesn’t always work for another. The pediatrician will tell you something different than the OBGYN, who will tell you something different than your friend, who is raising a plethora of amazing children, who will tell you something different from your mother, the lactation consultant and that amazing “solve-all-your-parenting-problems” book that everyone raves about. There is never ONE answer, just the solution that works best for you.

What is your favorite indulgence? Traveling.

Who do you admire most? My youngest who just turned 5. He has the freshest and most innocent outlook on everything… some-thing that somehow gets lost and harder to maintain as youth disappears.

Early bird or night owl? Early bird.

If you could have dinner with anyone, who would it be? Oprah Winfrey. She intrigues me, and I would love to have a genuine conversation without cameras around.

What book would you recommend to other moms? Maxed Out: American Moms on the Brink. The book is by Katrina Alcorn, a happily married, mother of three with a thriving career, who shares a personal story of her own struggles to have both a career and a family while weaving in surprising research about the dysfunction between the careers and home lives of working mothers. The book made me cry, but also made me feel not so alone in my personal struggles to be a good mother while reaching for my own personal and professional goals.

What's your signature meal to make? I’m not much of a cook. In fact, my first response was that my signature meal was dinner at the Sundown Cantina, a nearby neighborhood restaurant favorite. After a little more thought, I realized that I make a pretty mean “Tossed Lasagna.” An easy rigatoni, meat and cheese casserole that (miraculously!) the whole family likes.

What is the best gift moms can give their children? Confidence. I’ve noticed when my children gain confi-dence, it is easier for them to be kind when others are not. It’s easier for them to make good choices because often the best choice is not the easiest choice. And over-all, it’s easier for them to step outside of their comfort zone. The best things in life always come when one can step outside their own comfort zone. The best way I’ve found to instill confidence in my children is to try with all my might to model it myself.


Kid-friendly: YesTo avoid wait: Lunch time is hit or miss but wait time is relatively shortNoise level: ModerateBathroom amenities: Changing stationHigh chairs? YesGot milk? YesKids’ menu:Yes, plus a home-made cookie with every mealFood allergy concerns: Gluten free items available. No peanut oil is used. Alert server of allergies at time of ordering.

THE SHORT COURSE

As I mentioned in my previous col-umn, I’m making more of an effort to patronize the great places that down-town has to offer; and not just when I’m catching a game or a special event. New restaurants and nightspots contin-ue popping up, but there are also many places that have called downtown home for a long time. Grumpy’s is one of those longtime residents.

Keeping it in the familyGrumpy’s has been on the scene for

over 30 years; with its humble beginning in the back of the family hardware store. “They started with a deli counter in the hardware store”, said Sara Bauman, one of the owner’s daughters. Bauman and her sister Jennifer Shemak stepped up to keep the business running after their mother, Connie Horn, passed away a few years ago. Shemak had already been in the business many years, and her sis-ter relocated back to Toledo to help keep the family tradition going.

Grumpy’s is on its fourth location and has called the quaint Huron Street store-front home for the past 13 years. The family business has continued to grow so much they now have a food truck that is out and about at special events and various locations on a regular basis. The website lists its regular locations for the

Fat-N-Happy At Grumpy’s

Despite the name, you’ll be happy you came

by Karen L. Zickes

week. The kids and I even recently spot-ted the truck at the Crosby Festival of the Arts.

Rustic and quaint atmosphere

Grumpy’s is located on a tree lined portion of Huron Street with old brick buildings bursting with character. You can’t help but chuckle that the lit “OPEN” sign has a frown in the “O”. But upon walking in, you only hear the low rumble of people enjoying themselves, talking and laughing. They were far from “grumpy.”

We loved the inside as well with the open ceiling, brick walls, twinkling white lights above, and a rustic wood floor below. It was standing room only at lunchtime, but our group of eight didn’t have to wait long for a table. My complaint about waiting for the table? I had to stand next to the case that held the homemade pies and desserts and I think I gained five pounds just drooling over them. Maybe that is why they say “Eat here & diet home?” The apple pie alone was easily 5 inches high in the center. Sh-emak makes some incredible pies of all kinds and also makes a chocolate chip cheesecake that is gluten free for those with allergies.

Many trips needed to try it all

Unfortunately for many, Grumpy’s is only open Monday through Friday until 2pm. That is part of the reason it took us so long to make it down there. We need to do it during a school vacation, or it can’t happen with all of us going as a family. Shhhh…don’t tell my kids, but now that I got a taste of Grumpy’s, I may need to go back without them while they’re slav-ing away in school.

Only one of the kids in our group opted for the kids’ menu. It includes hot dogs and chips, PB&J, and grilled cheese. Drinks are extra, but I was told by Bau-man that they get a free homemade cookie when they leave. That didn’t hap-pen to be the case for us, but we’ll know to ask next time.

Yes, all that I had heard about the end-less selection of fabulous sandwiches and remarkable salads was true. They are known for the Garbage Salad with the poppy seed salad dressing, Shemak developed, that is now bottled and sold in some local stores. However, my friend and I shared the turkey Rueben and San-dy’s shroom sandwich. Others at the table enjoyed the cheeseburger pizza, an angus burger, and a veggie burger. Delicious.

Though we had a nice dining experi-ence, we did have to chuckle that as we were still there at closing time and just ordering our cookies for dessert, it did appear our server seemed slightly an-noyed. We had to laugh and said “May-be THIS is why it’s called Grumpy’s!”

Bottom Line: Despite the name, Grumpy’s is more than happy to accom-modate children for a meal. They offer a reasonably priced kids’ menu and it’s hard to beat the delicious homemade cookie that are included for dessert. The menu is almost overwhelming but you can’t go wrong with whatever you choose. Be sure to note their days and hours of operation.

Karen Zickes is a mom of three active children and freelance writer who resides

in Holland, OH. She can be reached in c/o [email protected].

Grumpy’s34 S. Huron, Toledo419-241-6728Mon-Fri: 8a.m.-2p.m.www.Grumpys.net

FREE BONUS EDIT!

Reserve space by August 15.

Parents know that education doesn’t have to stop when the final school bell rings. Dance classes, karate, and more are a great way for kids to have fun and continue learning. Fill up your classes by listing your

program in our comprehensive September After School Guide.

SCAFTER

SCHOOLGUIDE

AFTERSCHOOLGUIDE


When I haul my kids to the local pool this summer, I’ll be sporting a new swim-suit. With sturdy straps and sensible seat coverage, it doesn’t resemble anything you’d see on a runway. No whimsical flight of poolside fancy, this baby is built to withstand ultra-chlorinated kiddie pools and over-zealous laundering. Jelly fingerprints and sippy cup mishaps are no match for the industrial-strength fabric.

It’s a mommy suit, and I’ll wear it with pride. When I slip on this wonder of engineering, I’ll join legions of other moms slapping on sunscreen and prof-fering towels in suits built for endurance, not style.

Changing Needs I’ve been a bit reluctant in donning

this mommy suit of armor (or is that Ly-cra?). I grew up lakeside, my shoulder etched with permanent tan lines from my swimsuit du jour. Most involved ruffles or sequins, preferably both. As a teen, I shed girlish tank suits and became a de-voted fan of the two-piece. Bikinis suited my pear shape and showcased my still-flat midsection—one of my better fea-tures, in those days.

Sadly, I’ve learned that the pretty swimsuits of my youth aren’t built to withstand the pace of mom life. Like many of motherhood’s lessons, this one dawned slowly. My first inklings came after I spent several seaside afternoons sprinting after my toddler in a woefully unsupportive top. Need I say more? Soon after, I realized that my fashionable swimsuits were quite a bit of work. I was constantly adjusting my top and feeling up my own rear end for tactile evidence that my bottoms were still covering my bottom. Not pretty.

I knew change was in the air. That knowledge, however, was insufficient. It took a starring role in a peep show at tod-dler swim class to drive the point home.

One Saturday morning, I made the mistake of wearing a bandeau-style bikini to parent-child swim at the YMCA. Sport-ing a stretched-out old top in a pool full of wiggly kids sounds like a recipe for disas-ter, and it was: I inadvertently flashed the entire pool full of kids and their stunned parents when my top slipped down dur-ing the “jumping fish” song.

By the time I felt the breeze tickling my upper torso, it was too late to hide the damage from the extremely embar-rassed dad standing five feet in front of me. Carefully avoiding all eye contact, I scraped together a few shreds of dignity, hoisted my top back to its rightful place, and swore to get a new suit, one better matched to my new station in life.Function over fashion

These days, I’m approaching the world of swimwear with a new perspec-tive. In the weary trenches of early par-enthood, function trumps fashion. Any bikini matching the description itsy-bitsy or teeny-weenie doesn’t stand a chance in the chaotic world of the toddler pool. Suits designed to look good in a lounge chair require constant monitoring and re-positioning, and moms can’t be bothered. We’re too busy monitoring and reposi-tioning our kids.

Judging from the countless moms I’ve seen in near-identical suits, I know I’m not alone in my appreciation for sen-sible swimwear. Swimming with kids is no day at the beach; it’s grueling, hot, exhausting work. A mom at the pool is a mom in motion, and her swimsuit needs to stay in place even when she’s too busy to pay attention. That’s always.

Malia Jacobson is an award-winning parenting journalist and mom of three.

Her latest book is Sleep Tight, Every Night: Helping Toddlers and Preschoolers Sleep Well

Without Tears, Tricks, or Tirades.

Mommy Has a Brand-New SuitOne Mom Embraces Sensibly Chic Swimwear

by Malia Jacobson

A full-service staffing firm locally owned and operated since 1970.

Certi�ed Women’s Business Enterprise

Apply online at: www.renhillgroup.com

Or call 419-254-2800 for more information

We are looking to employ Substitute Teachers and

Educational Aides for districts throughout Northwest Ohio.

Flexible scheduleGive back to the communityPositively impact the lives

of our youthNo formal experience required;

just need a passion

28315 Kensington Lane, Perrysburg, OH 43551


Prepare yourself for the inFESTation

Saturday, 8.15 / Secor Metropark

Bug spray, citronella candles, and fly swatters are rampant during the summer, but maybe it’s time to learn about our crawly companions. Toledo Metropark’s BugFest is the spot to get your family its insect fix. Dr. Insecta will swat away your insect fears as entomology magic unfolds right before your eyes. Toledo Zoo, Black Swamp Bird Observatory, ISU Extension, Wild Ones, and Monarch Watch will

continue to educate and entertain guests about mighty mites. Explore buggy sculptures from local artists

and UT students. To top it off, insect exhibits from the National Center for Nature Photography will be on display. You might have to throw out your

fly swatter and bug spray after this event. 10am-2pm Saturday, August 15. Secor Metropark, 10001 W. Central Ave., Berkey. metroparkstoledo.com Free —JS

1 SATURDAY

Doll and Teddy Bear Show and Sale - Relive childhood as you enjoy browsing antique dolls, original dolls, teddy bears, and modern collectibles as well as accessories, supplies, artist repro-ductions, clothing, doll furniture, books and patterns. Through July 2. 10am-5pm Saturday, 11am-4pm Sunday. Sauder Village, 22611 OH-2, Archbold. 419-446-2541. saudervillage.org Free Celebrate Freedom - Escape to the era of the Underground Railroad. Learn how abolitionists and slaves risked their lives for freedom from Lathrop House tours and 5th United States Colored Troop Co. reenactors. Refreshments will be served. 1-3pm. Harroun Community Park, 5500 Main St., Sylvania. metroparkstoledo.com Free Homesteading Summer Kitchen Cooking - The Johlin Black Swamp Cabin is open for pioneers of all ages. Test your open-fire cooking skills, lend a hand with mending, model pioneer cloth-ing or just explore. 11am-3pm. Pearson Metropark, 4600 Starr Ave., Oregon. 419-407-9700. metroparkstoledo.com Free

2 SUNDAY

View It! - Explore the stereoscopes of the 1800s, old school slide shows, and other different ways of viewing images and create a work of art. For children 10 and under with an adult. Noon-5pm. Toledo Museum of Art Family Center, 24445 Monroe St. 419-255-8000. tole-domuseum.org Free Summer Picnic - Celebrate summer before long days and sunshine dip behind us. All ages are welcome for an indoor picnic. Advance registration is required for groups of 6 or more. Call the library to register. 2:30-3:30pm. Langrange Branch Library, 3422 Lagrange St. 419-259-5280. toledolibrary.org Free

3 MONDAY

Catch a Villain - There is a villain hiding in the library. Help the library by becoming a superhero and catching the villain before it is too late. Your efforts will

August 2015

be rewarded. For school-age children. Through August 8. Point Place Branch Library, 2727 117th St. 419-259-5390. toledolibrary.org Free

Comic Book Tournament Challenge - Fill out the library playoff bracket and show the library who you think would win in a Comic Book Battle Royal. Earn a prize just for filling out a bracket. One lucky entry will be drawn for the grand prize. Through August 8. Reynolds Corners Library, 4833 Dorr St. 419-259-5320. toledolibrary.org Free Nature’s Nursery - Learn how to rehabilitate and care for injured, ailing, and orphaned wildlife. You will even get to meet new animal friends. Will they have fur, feathers or scales? Registration required. 6:30-7:30pm. Sylvania Branch Library, 6749 Monroe St., Sylvania. 419-882-2089. toledolibrary.org Free

4 TUESDAY

Science Story Time: Little Mouse - Don’t miss our weekly activity in the Little KIDSPACE Science Studio. A trained team member will read What’s that Noise, Little Mouse?, and then children can make an instrument to take home and display proudly. Through August 9. 11am-1pm. Imagination Station, 1 Discovery Way. 419-244-2674. imaginationstationtoledo.com Free

5 WEDNESDAY

Old-Fashioned Ice Cream Social Create your own sundae and take part in the library’s surprise activities. Say hello to your friends and neighbors and good-bye to summer! For families. Registration begins 7/20. Register online. 6:30-7:30pm. Waterville Branch, 800 Michigan Ave., Waterville. 419-878-3055. toledolibrary.org Free

Registration Fair - Register your child for great programs like Lucas County Head Start, WSOS, TPS Preschool, or Title 1 Preschool. Need birth certificate, 3 proofs of residence, photo ID, household family income verification, and medical insurance card to register. 9am-5pm. Summit Plaza, 1500 N. Superior. 419-671-9100.


6 THURSDAY

Puppets From the Basket - Jack and the Sky Place will perform a fun puppet show with puppeteer Joyce Davis. Her delightful and funny characters from the original show based on Jack and the Beanstalk will bring lots of laughs for the family. Registration required. Maumee Branch Library, 501 River Rd., Maumee. 419-259-5360. toledolibrary.org Free

7 FRIDAY

Family Movie Night - Enjoy a fam-ily movie night outdoors to watch Home. Concessions will be for sale. May be held inside depending on weather. 9:30pm. Calvary Church, 1360 Conant St., Maumee. toledocalvary.org Free

Kelly Miller Circus - Fun for kids of all ages at the Kelly Miller Circus, the annual fundraiser for the Sylvania Lions Club. 4:30pm and 7:30pm. Advance tickets:$12/adults, $6/12 and under; day of: $16/adults, $8/12 and under. Available The Andersons Market in Sylvania, Andersons on Monroe Street, and Sautter’s Market. Circus at Centennial & Brint, Sylvania. Maumee Summer Fair - Have fun at the Maumee Summer Fair! Fun for the whole family. There will be a kids zone with a bouncy house, face painting, pony rides and more. Kickoff the fair with a parade at 10 am on Saturday, August 8. Through August 8. Uptown Maumee. maumeesummerfair.com Free

8 SATURDAY

Family Pottery - Adult and child work together to create a hand built pottery piece. Work with pinch, slab or extruder techniques, decorate with colored slips. For preschool and kindergarten aged children with an adult. Registration required. $25 for adult and child.11am-1pm. Sunshine Studios, 305 Conant St., Maumee. 419-891-8877.

11 TUESDAY

Park It - A family fun night in the park to celebrate Bug Week in the Toledo Metroparks. Live music, giveaways and kids activities featuring a movie under the stars. Maybe Bug’s Life? 6-11pm. Sidecut Metropark, 1025 W. River Rd., Maumee. 419-407-9700. metroparkstoledo.com Free

12 WEDNESDAY

Star Struck - Enjoy the breathtaking view of the wide open night sky. The eve-ning of the Perseid Meteor Shower will feature interesting constellations, a thin crescent moon, and one of the best mete-or shows of the year. Bring a blanket and bug spray. Register online. $3. 10:30pm-11:30pm. Farnsworth Metropark, 8505 S. River Rd., Waterville. 419-407-9701. metroparkstoledo.com

13 THURSDAY

Northwest Ohio Rib Off - The air will be filled with the tempting aroma of award-winning BBQ from Toledo and across the nation. Competitions include Best Local and Best National BBQ, people’s choice awards, and Best Overall, selected by celebrity judges on Sunday at 2pm. Through August 16. Lucas Country Fairgrounds, 1406 Key St., Maumee. nworiboff.com Free Wreck it Ralph - The Sylvania Chamber of Commerce will be hosting another summer outdoor movie. Enjoy a fun-filled evening at one of our favorite spots in Sylvania! Family event. 7pm, movie begins after dusk. Olander Park, 6930 W. Sylvania Ave., Sylvania. 419-882-8313. olanderpark.com Free

15 SATURDAY

Birmingham Ethnic Festival - A celebration of the community’s ethnic heri-tage. This family event features Hungarian and ethnic foods, arts and crafts exhibits, cultural displays, and a wide varity of music, dance and continuous entertain-ment. Saturday, noon-10pm and Sunday, CONTINUED ON P. 38

(419) [email protected]

Sandpiper

Call, Email orCheck us on the Webfor available tours

Featuring:

S p o n s o r e d b y :

noon-9pm. Consaul St., Birmingham Neighborhood. birminghamethnicfestival.wordpress.com Red Haven Peach Weekend - Pick the famous Red Haven peaches and take home homemade peach cobblers and pies. There will also be a garage (barn) sale on Saturday and Sunday. As always, don’t miss out on donuts and fritters. Through August 16. Erie Orchards, 1235 E. Erie Rd., Erie. 734-848-4518. erieorchards.com Geocache Bug Hunt - Big kids of all ages can enjoy this bug-themed geocach-ing autumn adventure. Head out on a GPS scavenger hunt to locate good bug habitats and search for evidence of bug activity. Registration required. Noon-2pm. Secor Metropark, 10001 W. Central Ave., Holland. 419-277-6276. metroparkstoledo.com Free

IDance Under the Stars - iDance’s inclusive student body will perform a variety of high energy and fun dance and musical numbers. Proceeds benefit iDance APAC. 2pm. $5/advance, $7/at the door. Bowsher High School Theatre, 419-460-5282. brownpapertickets.com

16 SUNDAY

Family Gallery Day - The National Center for Nature Photography is hosting a day of scavenger hunts, photography tips, games and crafts. Start in the gallery spac-es to look at the Maumee River Watershed and then follow the fun to the Window on Wildlife and onto the park trails. Noon-4pm. Secor Metropark, 10001 W. Central Ave., Holland. 419-407-9700. metroparks-toledo.com Free

Knock knock. Who’s there?

Toledo Area Parent’s Halloween Guide, your best resource for sweets, treats,

and what’s happening locally.

CAll TODAy! 419.244.9859



ThursdaysMothers’ Center of Greater Toledo Park Playdates, Meet other moms and let the kids enjoy some time at the park. 10-11:30am. Locations vary, visit website. mother-scenter.net/summer.html Free

SaturdaysStorytime, An inclusive storytime with books, rhymes and music. 9:30-10:30am. Black Kite Coffee, 2499 Collingwood Blvd. 419-720-5820. facebook.com/blackkitecoffee

SundaysFamily Time Tour, Come to the Toledo Art Museum for a family time tour. 3pm. Toledo Museum of Art, 2445 Monroe St. 419-255-8000. toledomuseum.org Free

toledoparent.com

Searchable listings updated daily

Wild Nights - A fun evening visit at the Zoo featuring your favorite animals and a free concert! The zoo is closed until 2PM on the days of wild nights. Also August 23. 2pm-9pm. Discounted zoo admission. Toledo Zoo, 2 Hippo Way. 419-385-4040. toledozoo.org

Summer Fun Festival - Carnival games, petting zoo, face painting, and ice cream are just a few of the fun activities at this festival. Takes place in the grassy area between the Temple and JCC. Walk ins welcome. Donations to Jewish Federation of Greater Toledo appreciated. 2-4pm. Federation Campus, 6465 Sylvania Ave. RSVP at 419-724-0386. Free

22 SATURDAY

Life in Early Ohio - Blacksmithing, coopering, and tinsmithing are just a few historic skills that are considered lost arts today. In 1813 they were common skills learned by tradesmen. See historic trades and skills and learn about a different side of life in early Ohio. Through Sunday, August 23. 9:30am-5pm. Fort Meigs, 29100 W. River Rd., Perrysburg. 419-874-4121. fortmeigs.org

28 FRIDAY

Wild Fridays: Autumn Adventure: Katydids Singing - Register for one or all programs in this new series for adults and families with school-aged children. This night hike will feature the strange and beautiful songs of these and other night signing insects. Registration required. 8-9:30pm. $3. Wildwood Preserve Metropark, 5100 W. Central Ave. 419-407-9700. metroparkstoledo.com

29 SATURDAY

BugFest - Visit Nature’s Neighborhood from for a day of fun, all dedicated to the little creatures that creep and crawl and float and flutter! At 3pm you’ll see a live spider feeding, and throughout the day you’ll find crafts and activities inspired by our buggy buddies. 10am-4pm. Zoo admission. Toledo Zoo, 2 Hippo Way. 419-385-4040. toledozoo.org

Stephanie L. Speck, M.Ed., LPCC-SClinical Manager of

Youth Community Based ServicesExcitement, worry, and relief are only some

feelings we experience when “Back to School” time comes around. Planning for supplies, clothes, and transportation are automatically a focus to get your child back in the routine for school. But did you ever think planning for feelings or behavior as another step a parent and child could take to ensure school success?

Research has found that students with high academic skills, positive peer relationships, and engaged parents have higher success with life long functioning as an adult. These important issues contribute to a successful school year and ultimately your child becoming a successful adult.

When thinking about these emotions and behaviors a counselor/therapist can help with both! Harbor has Office and Community Based Counseling services. We work to help kids with emotions and behaviors related to self and others succeed at home, at school, and in the community. The counselors also have abilities to work with students who have peer related

issues and/or family problems. We can link each student with other services and family resources that can help lead to a successful school year…and future.

Our Community Based Therapists (CBT) have worked closely with schools to provide “hands on” emotional and behavior manage-ment skills right at school. The CBT can go directly to the school, talk with the family and student about needs and ways to help (a.k.a Diagnostic Assessment), and continue services with the student right at school!

Students and families that have participated in these services (i.e. counseling), practiced and applied the learned skills and have improved in all areas at home, at school, and in the community.

Therefore, if you are ready to partner with a Harbor counselor give us a call! We can help in your planning for a successful school year. 419.475.4449

Going “Back to School” with Positive Emotions and

Behaviors = SUCCESS!

419-475-4449 | www.harbor.org


ADVERTISING IN MARKETPLACEFREE CLASSIFIEDS: Individuals may receive one free 20-word ad per month (products offered in ads must sell for under $100). Each additional word 40 cents, payment must accompany ad. Free ads run 1 month and are reserved for private-parties use, noncommercial concerns and free services.LINE CLASSIFIEDS: Only $20 per month for 20 words or less. Each additional word is 40 cents each and any artwork will be $5 extra.DISPLAy CLASSIFIEDS: Display classifieds with a box may be purchased for $25 per column inch. Photos are accepted with ads for an additional $5 per photo.

DEADLINES: Ad copy must be received by the 15th of the month prior to publication.PAyMENT: Payment must be received before an ad can be placed. We accept checks, cash, money orders and credit cards (Visa/Mastercard).PhoNE: 419-244-9859 E-MAIL: [email protected]: Sorry, NO REFUNDS given.MISPRINTS: Credit toward future ads.

marketplace ENTERTAINMENT

YOUR AD COULD BE HERE! CALL CAthERINE At 419.244.9859

CARS wANTEDCASH FOR CARS: Cars/trucks Wanted! Running or Not! We Come to You! Any

Make/Model. Instant Offer - Call: 1-800-569-0003

wANTED To BUyCASH FOR SEALED, unexpired DIABEtIC tESt StRIPS/StOP SMOKING PRODUCtS! Free Shipping, 24hr Payments! Call 1-877-588-8500, Espanol Available www.testStripSearch.com.

LESSoNS

FoR SALEDining tABLE AnD Six CHAiRS $450 (paid $1400) 419-475-2365

HAmmER SLAmmER gUitAR, will trade for computer tower, Dell or another. 419-699-3398

14K mEDiUm SizED LADiES Ring FOR SALE. Made in 1940’s. Center white diamond plus 12 diamonds. Call 419-699-3398

SAFE StEp WALK-in tUB ALERt FOR SEniORS. Bathroom falls can be fatal. Approved by Arthritis Foundation. therapeutic Jets. Less than 4 Inch Step-In. Wide Door. Anti-Slip Floors. American Made. Installation Included. Call 1-800-906-3115 for $750 Off

mEtAL ROOFing - REAL ROOF FOR YOUR hOUSE, GARAGE, BARN; ROOF, CEILING, SIDING. tOP QUALItY/CLOSEOUt. LOW PRICES, FASt DELIVERY, FREE Literature, www.abmartin.net 1-800-373-3703 A.B. Martin Roofing Supply

ACORn StAiRLiFtS. the AFFORDABLE solution to your stairs! **Limited time $250 Off Your Stairlift Purchase!** Buy Direct & SAVE. Please call 1-800-410-7127 for FREE DVD and brochure.

All Star Music Center(Formerly Peeler Music)

MUSIC LESSONSPiano • Vocal • Guitar • Drums

Violin • Winds • All Levels, 8 & upYOUTH PIANO LESSONS

Available age 5 & upQualified Teachers • Friendly,Clean and Safe Environment

WE SELL, BUY, REPAIR AND RENT ALL INSTRUMENTS

419•593•00142025 S. Byrne at Heatherdownswww.AllStarMusicStore.com

EVENTS JOin mOm’S mEEt! A community of moms sharing thoughts on raising healthy families and living green. Sample organic products.

pOLE BARnS gARAgE KitS AnD pOLE BARnS, we manufacture, we ship direct, you save. www.apmbuildings.com 888-261-2488

CROCHEt pUppY pADS AnD KittY CARpEtS $5 Book Worms 50cents 419-698-8522

hELP wANTED

FREELAnCE WRitERS nEEDED. Send resume to [email protected]

tHE pAtH tO YOUR DREAm JOB begins with a college degree. Education Quarters offers a free college matching service. CALL 1-800-375-6219

ANNoUNCEMENTS giVE BLOOD - SAVE LiVES! #ChooseYourDay to donate blood. Call 1-800-448-2543 or go to RedCrossBlood.org. Appointments preferred. Walk-ins welcome.

SOCiAL SECURitY DiSABiLitY BEnEFitS. Unable to work? Denied benefits? We Can help! WIN or Pay Nothing! Contact Bill Gordon & Associates at 1-800-208-6915 to start your applica-tion today!

mOmS! ARE YOU LOOKing FOR An EnCOURAging AtmOSpHERE to meet other women and gain practical insights on strengthening your family? Join us at mom2mom, a mom’s group for women with children of all ages. We meet the first Wednesdays of each month from 9:15-11:15 AM at Christ the Word Church, 3100 Murd Rd, Sylvania. Check us out at www.facebook.com/mom2momtoledo

SELL YOUR StRUCtURED SEttLEmEnt or annuity payments for CASh NOW. You don’t have to wait for your future pay-ments any longer! Call 1-800-391-0460

TOLEDO’S NEWEST FEMALE DJ!

For birthday parties (for adults and/or children), family reunions, dinners, showers, back to school parties, etc.

Call me at (419) 367-7507 www.DJMissT.weebly.com

SERVICESDiSH tV Starting at $19.99/month (for 12 mos.) SAVE! Regular Price $32.99 Ask About FREE SAME DAY Installation! CALL Now! 877-451-6721

hEALTh & wELLNESS

SAFE, EASY WEigHt LOSS! Phentrazine 37.5, a once daily appetite suppressant, boosts energy and burns fat. 60 day supply - only $59.95! to order, call 800-681-2178

Now hIRINGFREE tO tRAVEL? hiring 18+ for travel Sale Jobs. No Experience necessary. Commission Weekly. Daily Cash Bonuses! Call today! Mr. Jennings, 1-877-797-9819

FREE BoNUS EDIT!

Reserve space by August 15.

Parents know that education doesn’t have to stop when the final school bell rings. Dance

classes, karate, and more are a great way for kids to have fun and continue learning. Fill up

your classes by listing your program in our comprehensive September After School Guide.

SCAFTER

SCHOOLGUIDE

AFTERSCHOOLGUIDE

Toledo Area Parent August 2015

Documents

Transcript of Toledo Area Parent August 2015